r/AmITheA**hole I Revealed My Sister's a Prost***** to My Family!

welcome to our /m hide the butthole where Opie kicks her boyfriend's entitled parents out of their apartment am i the butthole for telling our family that my sister is a prostitute after she insulted my wife's disability so my wife is a paraplegic she was when I first met her it's from an accident a long time ago but she's adapted well to it I love her and she's just as useful as someone who can walk my sister for some reason has never liked my wife she's always had some problem with her whether she claims it's attitude or something else I talked to my wife about it and she doesn't know why and I've talked to my sister about it and she's never given me a straight answer on why she doesn't like her I just accepted it not everybody likes everyone else and until now my sister hadn't said anything rude about it now my sister was a prostitute in college and she claims she's just camming now she doesn't have a job she just does that she told me because I found out accidentally once she made me hide it from her family and claim she has a job at a company near us I was talking to my sister on the phone last week because she wanted me to fix her sink or at least look at it because her landlord wasn't doing anything about it I told her I didn't know when I could because I've been remodeling one of our bathrooms which has turned into a larger project than I really bargained for my sister then for no reason made a comment about my wife she said why don't you just have your wife make yourself useful in hell oh wait she can't because of her disability I had the phone on speakerphone and my wife heard she was pretty hurt by it and I was beyond pissed off I yelled at her and hung up after consoling my wife a little bit I decided to call our parents and tell them what my sister actually does for a job they thanked me for telling them and that was that then my sister called me again and yelled at me seeing our whole family is calling her telling her to stop and staging an intervention for her I told her she should have thought about that before being a jerk to my wife and hung up it's been a few days and now I'm thinking I want a little nuclear honor at the time I felt like yelling at her wasn't enough but now I think maybe yelling would have been enough am I the butthole down in the comments I have to put grudgingly agree with throw away for now twenty everyone sucks here but honestly I would have done the same and accepted my butthole arre I wish I was a better person but I guess I'm not yeah I have to agree with that when someone insults your spouse oh that's when the gloves come off am I the butthole for telling my wife it's not cute for her to encourage our teenage daughter to expect her boyfriend to pay for everything in their relationship my wife and I have been married for 18 years we have a 16 year old daughter who's been dating a slightly shy and awkward young man for about three to four months now he seems very nervous around my daughter and has admitted in a passing comments here and there to my wife and I that he can't believe she agreed to date him and he thinks she's way out of his League he seems very respectful just shy my wife is usually an independent awesome woman and her ideals align closely with mine particularly in terms of feminism and equality we both striven to raise our daughter to be as independent and capable as possible since my daughter's been dating this kid my wife has changed considerably and has given our daughter advice it has left me with raised brows more than once some of the advice I've heard my wife give is oh it's cute for boys to pay for everything especially in your first relationship or oh honey don't worry about that he can pay for you if he really liked you he would and similar I've tried to balance this out by telling my daughter straight away that two people in a partnership should be contributing equally and my personal favorite if someone asks if they can take you out to dinner it's reasonable to expect them to pay but if someone asks you to grab dinner with them it's reasonable to split the payment I figured that would be an easy way for a young person to understand the difference however I've noticed my daughter becoming more and more entitled with her boyfriends money they haven't been anywhere obviously since we're home but the way she talks about him oh I'll just ask him to pay for this etc leaves a bad taste in my mouth she's also flippantly bride didn't mention that she gets him to buy gift cards for her etc and mentioning her mother's advice if you really liked me you pay for this I spoke to my wife privately and told her my concerns she insists it's a rite of passage for girls and it's cute that she should feel a guy is completely spoiling her I told her that it's not cute for her to be thinking it's acceptable to view relationships as personal ATMs and my wife became very angry with me and is now calling me a butthole with a lot of hostility so down in the comments the posts are absolutely brimming with Opie is not the butthole and the wife is the butthole but down in the comments see learning sums it up quite well not the butthole ask your wife how she would feel if the boyfriends dad told his son if she really liked you then she'd you get the idea am I the butthole for telling my parents that they allowed my sister getting pregnant to ruin my life my sister is 23 and I am an 18 year old girl my grandma died eight years ago and she left more than enough money to pay for all of her grand kids college education with a few stipulations don't get arrested do drugs be a drunk get pregnant or get someone else pregnant the money was put into accounts in the parents name since we were all kids then in sophomore year my sister got pregnant my sister started panicking about college the baby daddy left and she hasn't tried to find him or get child support and the stress from that caused a hard complicated pregnancy both are okay mom and dad still let her go to college as long as she didn't have another baby and maintained a 3.5 GPA what she did she graduated less December with about two thousand dollars in debt I figured her money must have been used to help raise her kid and pay for her pregnancy the past two and a half years so she had to get a bit of a loan which seemed understandable boy was I wrong I got accepted to my dream College on the other side of the state but mom kept trying to get me to go to a cheaper one near home so I don't need a dorm and it would be a cheaper school I asked her why she was so insistent grandma left plenty of money I thought turns out they flushed all the money that was supposed to go to me down the toilet to take care of my sis sir and her kid and her expensive pregnancy which turns out was a lot worse than I was led to believe I broke down and just lost it crying harder than I ever have shouting how they screwed me over and ruined my life for my sister who screwed up now I'll have at least $70,000 of dead if I go to school I guess this upset my sister and she asked in a very upset tone if I'd rather her be out on the streets destitute and unable to care for her kid who she reminded me was a living being because she didn't have an education or support system just so I could go on to college and have a good life I said yes that it's not fair that she got to screw up get drunk and sleep with so many guys that she doesn't know who the baby daddy is something she told me but apparently not mom or dad she kept breaking rule after rule while I haven't even passionately hugged my boyfriend and now I'm the one that has to be punished for it everything just keeps devolve into more yelling and fighting until I left I've been staying with my boyfriend for the past few days I know what the coronavirus I shouldn't go anywhere but I just wanted to be with the one person I feel like actually cares about me my mom's been texting and calling trying to get me to come home saying if I can just be reasonable and not vilify my sister we can probably work something out I told her unless she has the money grandma left from me don't talk to me until I have my college loans paid off in 50 years did I go too far a lot of it was driven by emotion but I really feel screwed over here and like I'm being punished despite being the one that followed the rules all right so let's clarify something clearly Opie isn't the butthole here but actually I don't really feel like this sister is the butthole here either I mean obviously she made some dumb mistakes when she was younger but she wasn't the one who was screwing over Opie the real butt holes here are Opie's parents I absolutely cannot believe that they squandered Opie's inheritance on the other sister if the parents think it's so important that the older sister should get to go to college then they should have taken out a loan not taking Opie's inheritance and given it to the older sister in my book that's literally theft and depending on where Opie is and what the laws are on inheritance it might legally be theft as well Opie what your parents did was absolutely disgusting your sister made a mistake and does she have to pay for it no dude they have to pay for it no according to them you're the one who has to pay for it Opie your parents are five out of five buttholes who disrespected you and your dead grandma I recommend making a post on our slash legal advice and maybe also getting a lawyer am I the butthole for kicking my sister's kids out of my house I'm 35 in child-free my sister is 33 and a mother of three kids between six and ten years of age two boys and a girl I've always had a strained relationship with my sister and usually avoid being around her kids as I don't really like kids in general yesterday my sister came over unannounced with her kids she told me her brother-in-law had met with an accident and she and her hubby needed to go see him in the hospital she said she needed me to watch her kids for the evening as her parents are out of town I told her to get a sitter but she said she couldn't get one on such short notice I refused again telling her I had never babysat before and was looking forward to a quiet evening first she told me she was just leaving them there I told her I would call a Child Welfare Committee and would report her for abandonment if she pulled something like that she begged and pleaded and actually began to fake cry since I didn't want to provide my neighbors with entertainment I reluctantly agreed at first things were fine the kids were a bit rambunctious but still somewhat tolerable they ate their dinner without starting a food fight and then I left him in the living room to watch a movie I was in the study getting some work done I brought my cat and dog in there with me as I wanted to keep him safe from the kids suddenly I heard a loud crash I rushed the living room and found my precious antique clock that I kept on the mantelpiece on the ground in pieces it was worth well over a thousand dollars I was furious of course and asked how the hell this happens the eldest kid incoherently explained that they had taken it down to look at it and then the younger two were fighting over it and dropped it cue ear-shattering wailing from the to blaming one another for the demise of my prized possession I'd had enough I called my brother-in-law and told him to come over immediately and get his spawn out of my home he asked what was wrong and I told him what they'd done he had the gall to tell me I was overreacting one of the kids I think the youngest had started bawling now I told my brother and all to come at once to get his kids he said he was on his way he came to get his kids but didn't leave before lecturing me on the importance of family I told them to get lost this morning I received angry texts and phone calls from my parents and several relatives asking how I could be so heartless and how I could value a clock more than my niece and nephews I told them I don't care what they think because the way I see it I was completely within my rights and kicking them out they should just be grateful that I've decided not to make my sister and brother-in-law pay for it judging from the fact that they have three kids they probably can't afford it I want to know what reddit thinks am I the butthole or are they and then in an update Opie says and after much consideration I've decided to sue that clock was rare and expensive good luck Opie you agreed to watch them so if you just put them in a room and then don't supervise them and they break something then that's your fault it's not the kids fault because of their kids and it's not the parents fault either so yeah good luck in court there's no way a judge is gonna rule in your favor and outside of that Opie yeah you're definitely the butthole you can't put your own sister in front of yourself for one single night when she's having a family emergency no wonder your relationship is strained with your sister you sound like a grade-a douchebag I'm giving you four out of five buttholes am i the butthole for telling my girlfriend to not dye her hair and getting angry when she did yeah I know the title sounds bad I'm a 25 year old male and my 24 year old girlfriend sarah has always had these random style changes I guess like one day she'd wear skirts or a simple dress shirt and next she's wearing shorts and crop tops halter tops tank tops etc so her style changes a lot it bothered me since she's very attractive and whenever we go out she'd get stares and has even gotten hit on because they think she's single so she wanted to get highlights and her sister had this store-bought highlight thingy and before the pandemic she borrowed it to do it and I managed to convince her not to do it so she forgot about it and now she remembered and wanted to get dark purple highlights I rather prefer girls with undyed hair it's just a preference so I told her that I'd rather she not do it since it wouldn't really look good on her and she'd ruin her hair she told me that she thinks it'll look good on her and plus she'll be able to just highlight them Brown or a fully dye her hair back to brown if she doesn't like it I told her that I wouldn't like it since it ruined her hair I didn't mean to come off as controlling she just shrugged and went to sleep after that and I thought that was the end of it then the next day I woke up to her making breakfast with purple highlighted hair I asked her why she did that since I told her it wouldn't look good I still didn't like it she said she had a change of heart and then it shouldn't matter what she looks like because personality matters then I said to her she should have told me if she was going to do it and she asked why and I told her I'd rather know if my girlfriend was going to damage her hair I should have chosen my words better because she got all defensive and told me that I shouldn't have a say in what she does with her hair and how I manipulated her last time so amidst the whole fight the breakfast got burned and we were too busy arguing so it was too late to save the food and we had to throw the food away I was tired so I said out of anger that this wouldn't have happened if you would just listen to me and stop being a child Sara then started yelling at me again saying I should cook for myself and that she shouldn't have to be my maid I told her that she does these things by herself I can cook and clean but she does that so I see no reason to dismantle the system and she likes cooking then when I thought the fight was over and that she would make breakfast while I clean the bedroom she made breakfast for herself and told me she's leaving and she's done with me and now she's at her friend's house this happened a few days ago but I feel like she overreacted so am I the butthole Redditt yeah Opie you're very transparently the butthole here you had this like really condescending and derisive way of talking about your girlfriend's normally on our /mi the butthole you can kind of expect people to kind of dress up the post and make themselves look a little bit better so I don't know if you did that in this post because it's very clear that you don't respect your girlfriend's if you did dress up your posts then the reality is far worse than you're making it out to be I'll give you one butthole for being controlling one butthole for being sexist and one butthole for being entitled that was our /mi the butthole and if you like this video then hit that subscribe button because I put out new reddit videos every single day

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Length: 15min 58sec (958 seconds)

Published: Wed Jun 17 2020