I Dated A FAT GUY!!! "But you're fit..GROSS" 😨😷

the story you've been waiting for it's really just time to tell my subscribers a story that will have you on the edge of your seat they have to know the story that's been promised for over a year now I dated a fat guy and I thought it was fine good morning everyone and welcome back to the channel if you are new here welcome my name is Michele McDaniel I am a personal trainer a proud mother of a pug and past theatre kid turned grown-up cosplayer on this channel we were jeffree star Shane Dawson's pilots we were the clean Blair White third we were the queen of kitchen floor breakdowns Trisha Paytas and now I cosplayed on Instagram as the king of sword mines with cute little cartoon characters that he drew himself a donde better known as creepy on YouTube I wanted to have the cosplay on on camera but I was filming in the towel kept squishing my face under it looks very uncomfortable with a big towel on my head despite how much I serves that look in the picture it would suck to be like that for an hour while I try to tell this story and a very expressive manner so sorry about that but it's obviously smoothy's fault so you should go tell Susie to get some more distinct outfits so that I can cosplay him on camera but no I really hope you see this video or at least sees my picture on Instagram because I really look up to him because his 60 years are a hell of a lot better than mine but I wanted to speak to smoothies themed and do a storytime with pictures drawn by these hands so I've got my coffee is not sopping I'm very sensitive it's just hot tea and I've got my protein donut all ready to tell you guys the story so sit back relax if you ordered protein donuts grab one get some wine a protein shake make it vegan we have a mixed group of people on this channel as it should be different people different beliefs different diets smell that it's diversity and I love it you see the unfitted leader up in my car like giddy ideal secure the bag I get the bar get up okay so this story goes way back not that far back Brewed how old do you think I am I mean it is kind of far back there anyway it goes back to my senior year in the class that I hated the most my arch-nemesis chemistry I was the new girl a lot and switched to so many schools I never got around to taking chemistry and at most of my school's chemistry wasn't mandatory and lucky for me and how my life usually works out at my law school where I was going to graduate it was mandatory so I and two other seniors was in a class that was usually taken by freshmen and sophomores the other senior was my friend we will call her D today who else loved the proud family on this channel how could you do this to me start a rumor like that I didn't start it I just reported it and the other senior we will call him let's think of something else that will bring the Soulja Francis fun along so Francis was a football player and a linebacker so he was pretty big definitely not all muscle and he wasn't morbidly obese but he was a big boy definitely overly and had a lot of food issues I could tell back then that he was overweight I wasn't educated and fitness and whatnot but me looking back now that I am a personal trainer I can tell you a lot of food issues the full players would roast each other and when it came to his time to get the good ole roast it was always about his weight his teeth and his always dirty never changed ripped up shoes but something bugs the crap out of me when it came to Francis and it wasn't his looks there wasn't his teeth it wasn't his dirty shoes it wasn't anything like that every day he would be late to chemistry class every day and not only was he late but he would come exactly two minutes late every single day and we would hear the door open and he would come walking in slowly shoes dragging sloppy clothes looking like he'd just woke up with this awkward smile on his face and during the whole class you would just be like this for sleeping [Music] and you're probably saying okay well so it has nothing to do with you let me tell you why I was just kind of frustrated it bugged me because I was one of those kids doing the most when the class that I struggle with i no matter what I did your girl sucks at chemistry stuff so bad that I was in that class before school started I was in that class during my lunch and then I would even go back to that damn class after school and my butt was still struggling just as much as Francis the guy that puts absolutely no effort in this class so my a 17 year old but didn't like him for the pure fact that his work ethic sucks so one day DNA has seated at his table so in this class there are four big you know tables that that's kind of separated the whole class and DNA is seated here and he's seated on this side so one day we have to pick partners and of course I'm going to work with my girl Diaz and a two black girls two in chemistry and by that I mean these are NATO in the chemistry and me sit in there like [Music] so I were going to share over to where Dijonnaise sitting and I end up sitting right in between her and Francis but i snooched my chair and turn it a little bit away from Francis because I'm not catching his lack of work ethic and just to make this clear this wasn't because of his body size and because I'm sure someone's going to say something he didn't smell bad at all he smelled great he just rubbed me the wrong way and I didn't want to say anywhere near him you know teenagers they're freaking weird that was no exception I just didn't want to be his friend I didn't want to be around people that had no work I think that could rub off on me I'm trying to graduate I hate high school don't mean her talking and she's trying to explain the work to me and whatnot and then all of a sudden I feel something get flung at the back of my head and then whatever it is gets stuck in my hair because my natural hair is very thick and curly so I've reached to the back of my head and I pull out a pencil and then I hear can I have Mike it's so bad so I turn around and guess who it was Francis looking dazed confused and tired all at one time so I look at him and say they do not remember that matters that your mom probably taught you and he just goes uh what um you threw a pencil at me you should first say sorry and second if you want someone to hand something to you you say please Neanderthal and it's in that last part but I wanted to so he just stares at me and I stare back at him and he stares back at me and I stare back at him and then his face just starts to freak out he starts blinking ferociously think h3h3 but intensified by about a billion so I'm just looking at him like and at that age I've never seen anything like that I've never experienced that so I full-on and flat out say what's wrong with your face what's wrong with your face and you guys he says I'm sorry I have I have Tourette's and after he said that it fell out the whole room went silent it didn't but in my head it felt like it was silent I was just staring at him he was staring at me while he went through all of his tweaks and I handed him the pencil and slowly turned my body back to be janae so I pretend to understand what she was talking about with the project but the whole time that she was explaining all of these chemistry scientific things to me the only thing I could think about was holy he is fine I don't know what it was or what was going on through my 17 year old brain I was completely and utterly attracted but something happened in my brain and I just started noticing everything you about Francis first of all I have forever and always will have a thing for long hair he was Hawaiian I love that culture I love how thick Hawaiians are I love their thick Hawaiian calves I don't know if that's offensive but being in the bodybuilding industry in the fitness industry I've noticed that a lot of Islanders have very nice genetics when it comes to cab pudgie good that I knew who was very sensitive about because after I started to watch him a very creepily I noticed that he would do this thing with this sure like I know when I had a bigger stomach and it would spill over like my pants when I would sit down I would make sure my shirt wasn't loose so it didn't go in between the creases and I saw that he did that so I fell a little bit of a connection because I did that when I was bigger even his dirty shoes and everybody would make fun of thought it was attractive his hands even his hands he had big burly hairy knuckles like man hands you know those weird fantasies that Tina has southern kingdom Belcher appeared in the doorway she knew what she had to do she grabbed Jimmy juniors plane I was basically Tina all obsessed was not even the word to explain how I felt at 17 so very quickly through the semester everybody kind of quickly and knew like oh these are the people that are really good at the class these are the people that get by and these are the people that absolutely freaking suck butt cheeks and those sue people were me and Frances we were both idiots when it came to chemistry so when it was time to pick partner then people found out you know who sucks who was good who was like the smart elite of the class nobody wanted to be with us so we eventually me and him he came partners and there was magic the whole period we laughed we got absolutely nothing done I mean we both suck so we just cracked jokes and talks the whole time our papers were blank and that's how I knew there was something there and this went on for the rest of the year and just to be clear I did into passing the class we I would fool around like during class and everything but after school I would have to go back like I normally would anyway and get help from the teacher I'm not too sure how I passed that class because I feel like I didn't learn anything I think he just felt so bad for me that he was like I literally can't teach this chick she's unteachable she is a certified idiot when it comes to chemistry let me just pass her so she can go away and on the last day I actually got a yearbook which I usually never do because I hate school and I was always new and it feels like the there was no purpose for me to get a yearbook when I didn't really know anyone I feel like it connected with a lot of people but at this school it was my last year of high school I didn't make a few friends that I really really loved I did a lot more activities than I usually would do so I felt a lot more connected with the school rather than like my other schools where I would just go to school hate everything and then go home and cry so I got a yearbook in on the last day of class he was like me let me write in your yearbook by silly and my book over was like okay so I waited until I got home to read it and he didn't write one sentence he didn't write two but he wrote a whole like paragraph thing in my yearbook pretty much saying how I was funny I was really happy that I was in the class because it made it way more entertaining and then at the end he said I love you was just did everything to my heart and then you draw a very misshapen heart and left his number so I was super excited a couple of my friends were over at my house that day and I was like look look look you know I really like him and he loves his number what should I do and my friend literally says you Frances he's fat he's ugly his teeth are jacked up he does about weird thing with his face it's weird Michelle you got your body right sinn fein that's batkid with Tourette's tragic this is why I couldn't tell my friends at the time anything because just judgmental doctor they said that I knew what I had to do text my man and we always immediately started hanging out and it was great we had like really really good like deep talks talking about about how he's like very insecure about his outer appearance by those tweaks and his weight he was always like the thicker kid out of all of his friends I would get a lot of comments from people saying that's the guy you're talking to but you're fit but I thought he was fine I was like bring all those tweaks on that thick Hawaiian booty over here so the small amount of people that I did tell about three people had a lot to say and they were not the biggest fan of his so I could only imagine what his friends were saying behind the scenes to him about me and my body because at that time I did lose quite a bit of weight I got a lot tighter I got a lot leaner and I got hit on quite a bit at the gym but everything was going great he was constantly texting me a blah blah blah that cute little teenager stuff going on and then suddenly there was like a wall and you started pulling back like hard and at the time I couldn't understand it and I could be completely just wrong now but now that I'm a more experienced and it went on morning feeds and this happens you know quite a bit right after I've to talk about this but whatever I'm gonna talk about like my goals but exactly I was doing especially that I was like very young I started a business at that age ever I would talk about that a few days after whoever I was talking to you would start pulling back so I can't say like what exactly was going on through their head if they were intimidated or what well maybe it's just because you're ugly happen because if someone told me what kind of goals they have in their amazing gold it doesn't make me you want to pull back but for some reason it happened about four other times before other different guys whenever he talks about this these goals like what I wanted it was business and one night that I have my own business already it was like a like night and day just pull back I don't want anything to do with you like you would think that I was selling something illegal and I'm not I'm selling donuts but for some reason my gold and like business talking but not like turn is a huge turnoff to some of the guys that have dated in my life I think me being fit and then not really being into like working out or lifting have another like just like on Oh is she attractive or not when it comes to me and he was going through a lot of personal things and like mental issues at that time so I kind of gave him the benefit of Athene's out when I was younger like oh he's going through something I'm white he's being kind of weird and standoffish so like I said we did this on-and-off thing for three years he went off to college before he left I asked the iconic question as what the hell are we and we agreed that we are a Fame whatever that means to 19 and 20 year old in my head that meant okay you are the only person I'm going to be with to him it meant other things so he came back for a bit then we ended up getting together and we were driving and he says just out of the blue and he had a pregnancy scare with a girl in college what yeah with my girlfriend stay white now you're not saying things right I'm not yeah I'm not able to hear correctly something's going on with my hearing because I'm sure you didn't say what I think you just said well she's not my girlfriend anymore what Katie times so so confused because while I was here twiddling my thumbs being boiled and thinking that we are insane because you said that we were you know all those promises you made you have a girlfriend or you had a girlfriend baby you so how I don't know I'm not too sure what's going on but you had a girlfriend I am just very confused cuz I don't know if I should pop off or give you a nice swift good old volleyballs in the head [Music] there was some kind of miscommunication going on when we were talking okay I was shook because I just wasted three years being loyal to a guy who was buff in his around in college and I know I was shook because I couldn't say anything and when Michelle can't say anything someone who loves confrontation and loves to talk if I can't get the words out that means I am just pissed so I get the moment that was the last time that I ever saw him so probably a year later maybe even longer I get a random message from Francis on a Facebook and it is this long thing basically saying how sorry he was for leading me on and that he didn't really mean to hurt me and he just didn't know how to tell me that he wanted to break it off because I'm such a nice person and he didn't want to hurt my feeling I'm a grown woman obviously not grown enough to dish a guy like that but we all learn just try and tell me you didn't do something stupid when you were younger you know something stupid like trying to see the best in people you guys it took everything in me I wanted so badly to write back and just make him feel like complete Yoshi poo I wanted to make fun of everything his looks his teeth his dirty shoes his hairy knuckles his laughs everything his hair but I didn't because I know my butt would be lying because I was completely attracted to him I was still attracted to him when I was pretty well over him so I pretty much wrote back saying thanks for telling me that's pretty much all I wanted to know have a good time in college [ __ ] I didn't say that last part but I wanted to and that was the last time I ever spoke to him it's very very odd though because I was in such a different mental state back then but as you grow up you start to just let things go and now that I am older it's been like so like 10 years or so maybe even longer since this has happened because I never thought that I could just let it go I always just wanted I always just said if I ever see him I'm going to run him over now honestly Michael I'm gonna probably just give him a hug I feel like he is in a hole but I also feel like he's going through a lot of water that I personally don't have to deal with I'm very thankful because it did teach me quite a bit I learned that with my lifestyle I probably can't date someone that is obese and I'm after him I did date like two other bigger guys and it just never works because being healthy and working out is such a priority in my life and eventually it always became some kind of like they would resent me because I would say things like oh I have to go to the gym in the morning okay I'll meet you out you know this restaurant but I'm gonna bring my own food because I don't always like to eat out I have a very sensitive stomach so I'm just very cautious of what I e and me being cautious probably just kind of did something to them as and they feel bad for what they're eating when in reality you can eat whatever you want I've said before like in my competition videos if my friends are competing and they can't eat ice cream that's just fine I'm still gonna eat my ice cream so I don't think anyone should feel unsecured with the way that I eat if you are insecure about what I'm eating then you probably have a lot of issues that you need to work through but back then I always said I don't care if my boyfriend goes to the gym he doesn't need to have a six-pack he doesn't need to do all these things but at the same time I understand now that with my lifestyle it just causes friction when I'm with somebody and that doesn't make fitness and a health and making sure to be healthy and active a priority in their life but start back then because I also had a thing for skater guys when I was younger they always are insecure to you especially if they wanted to come to the gym with me and I'm over there in the corner like their dislike huh so that's what she does in the gym the briquette made itself just motivated me to do so much I was motivated to quit fitness I was motivated to start my own personal training business to create a better income for myself I'm motivated to now date different types of guys that treated me way better and in that I found my boyfriend or we were both very motivated to have her own business and that's how we came about with the proto the protein donut he seems to love me more and more every day he literally cannot take his hands off me Gary please get off me Francis definitely showed me how I don't want to be treated and Garrett has showed me how I should be treated so thank you to everyone who listened to the time that I dated a fat guy I definitely wish him the best I hope everyone knows that just because you go through like a weird little breakup when you're younger it gets so much better the people probably change people are young they do dumb things and hopefully they are not the same person but I can't say that I have absolutely never strung anybody along if I don't like you I will tell you I hope you guys enjoy this extremely a long story time I know I've been promising for over a year so I wanted to make sure that just make it long talk to you guys for a while and I hope you guys enjoyed that and if you do make sure to hit the subscribe button hit the thumbs up button if you guys get this video to a thousand thumbs up then we can do another story time if you would like to I would very much appreciate it if you guys followed me on Instagram and baby got Susie to look at that cosplay picture that would be up anything I would fangirl hard that's what she said anyway thank you guys so much for watching I'll see you guys next video you see the jumpy unfitted up in my carnage kitty do you secure the bag you see the drippy I'm finished up in my karma kitty yeah he's secured the Mikey I get the bus [Music]

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Published: Wed Nov 27 2019