His Tests | Grown-Boy University | Tony Gaskins

hey hey tony guys here popping in now i'm still taking you through grown boy university and on the last video i talked about when you meet a man a grown boy is representative well sometimes that representative it works and you fall for it and so after you fall for that and let's say you go into a relationship the next thing you have to start getting ready for are the tests and these tests they're going to be coming and they're going to come in all different ways and the reason why let me help you understand this now a reason why the reason why grown boys test women is because they love shortcuts grown boys love shortcuts so if the work can be easier that's what a grown boy is going to do and that's what you got to realize see a lot of times women believe that a man you know and a real man is not gonna test is not gonna play games see a man doesn't even and when i say man i'm still talking about grown boys doesn't even see it as playing games they see it as a rite of passage for the woman to get into his life they see it as this is normal this is standard and a real real real man will be very very very mature to not test a woman at all but that man really that'll be waiting like waiting on snow in satan house you know you're gonna get tested across the board what you call a real man what you call a real man because see woman really don't really meet real men you a man becomes a real man after he's with you so he a decent man he a okay man and that's good enough for you and then years into the relationship if he's still growing with the lord he becomes a real man so understand that right there what what you want to hope to believe of a real man if you waiting to meet him you'll be dead first so listen to me on average first you're going to meet the grown boy and that's gonna come with the representative you're gonna fall for that because you know everything and cause you like the argument you like the arg like to come on him and argue with me get mad with me so you know everything so you're going to fall for the representative then you find the meat what you think is the real man and he finna start testing you and let me tell you now these tests they're going to start small they'll start small and the test may be like he says hey um i'm gonna call you back because i got to go i'm gonna call you back and then he don't call you back that day that's that's a little test just like that test might be hey i'm gonna call you at nine nine o'clock nine p.m you know after the game over or after i get home from work he don't call you that night see he testing you to see if he can give you his word and then not keep his word and see what your response gonna be so when he called you the next day he said i'm gonna call you at nine you ain't get no call at nine so you sitting there with the phone this thing ain't working let me call my mama hello mom can you hear me okay uh do me a favor i'm gonna hang up from you and then call my phone real quick okay hello okay okay that's all right i i didn't need anything i just want no phone working okay all right love you all right no ain't wait no nobody to call me i'm just i want to chat with you to just make sure my phone cause emergencies happen you slip and fall down themselves and emergency happened that's all i wanted all right love you bye i can't believe this man ain't calling me it is 907 he said nine o'clock so now you still sitting there 9 15 9 30 9 10 o'clock this 10 o'clock 10 30 you know this way you're supposed to be taking your melatonin so you went from two melatonin gummies to one now you're gonna take one because i don't want to get too tired because something might happen he might be in a wreck you don't even really barely know the man but y'all might be six months in he might be three months in but now you finna stay up and lose good sleep because he didn't call you so now you up 11 11 30 is way past your bedtime all right let me get on youtube and just listen tonight what and argue with him in the comments and so now the next day he called you and see this other test man so see tess lead the test so one test okay boom you didn't you didn't get a call from him let me tell you a couple ways you failed that test one way you fail that test is by texting him 904 uh hey is everything okay 10 o'clock hey still haven't worked haven't heard from you i'm getting kind of worried 11 o'clock hey i really hope you accidentally fell asleep you know just i just care about people i care about so much please forgive me so now you turn his text message into your diary and you making like it's because you care no you just desperate you desperate and you let your desperation and your insecurity speak for you so now because you texting him all right listen if something happened to him you'll get a call you'll get a call you gotta text him if something happened to him you will get the call so just sit still and if you don't get the call that mean you not nowhere on the list that means his mom ain't thinking to call you that mean don't nobody know you so then you will read about it on facebook or you will read about it in the newspaper but you can't because the reason why i say this is 9.99999 out of 10 ain't nothing happened to them this is part of the test now see here go to the next test you work a job you're not supposed to be on your phone once you get to work so what he gonna do you start working at nine he gonna call you 908. he's gonna call you 908 and yeah you at the desk at the cubicle you got the queue you ain't at your home office because you need to entrepreneurship with purpose course so you didn't not at your home office you at your job when you go to tonygassonacademy.com take the entrepreneurship with purpose course he could call you at home you can just pick up your phone but you had jaw and he called you oh lord you trying to turn the sound down so the boss don't see it hello cello i can barely hear you because i ain't got my bluetooth today why you calling me last night you are a fake typer why are you calling them on laptop well that's wrong what you did you should have called me well i'm gonna take so well what i was trying to tell you is i just wanted to talk to you i miss you everything about you you see what i'm saying so now you at the job and he he interrupted you at the job and turned my laptop off yes i'm real long now he interrupted you at your job so now now you're gonna fail test number two because now he didn't saw i can give her my word not keep my word then i can call her at work and disturb her in when she's not supposed to be disturbed let me tell you how people do i tell people listen i don't text after 7 p.m monday through thursday they'll text me at 7 08 hey i was just thinking i just told you on tests after 7 pm but they want to see if you really committed to your self-care you really committed to your word that you have that you gave they want to see if you commit it so now he know you're not supposed to be on the phone because that radiation that 5g in your office they don't want that in there because where you work at so he called you you answer that phone you trying to talk to him you you trying to hear his voice from the phone without turning on speakerphone but you got the phone down here in your lap and you talking to him we're sprint and you want your voice to carry through the phone so now he know wow she will go to a far extent to hear from me to talk to me she will break rules for me you see what he looked as teach and lots of you don't even realize that this what you teaching him so now he know that when it's time to do the sba loan scam he know you will fill out that application on that site to get him that fake llc to get him that scam return up it's like i'm stepping on some toes what's some of y'all at least do something good with the money you invested in no course but you over there helping your boyfriend scam you seen the nfl player yesterday this fool in the nfl and scammed on the sba loan tried to get 24 million from the sba disaster alone i say because he from the hood and the mayor to the nfl see all the people in the hood getting the scams on the government so he won't jump in on it see that's what the man testing you for he testing you just to see what he can get away with so one test lead to the next now the next test that's gonna come is the cancellation hey yeah i was thinking maybe we could go out on friday night you know what what you like to do um well you know i'm pretty open just like i'm i'm not picky actually you will picky but you faking like you not picky cause you want your husband i'm not picky and so i mean it's whatever and he was like well you know you want to go bro bold turkey legs because they got this thing where you could bowl turkey legs oh i've never heard of that so what do you do well you bowl the turkey legs and then after you bowl the turkey legs you could pick them up and they let you wipe them off and stuff and you could eat them that's interesting did they do that i'll show you you know don't worry about it do you want to do that yeah i guess i'm down for a good time so now see he testing you to see now realistically in today it might be do you want to go to magic city i think that's the place the name of y'all script club to get them chicken wing that the nba player lou william went to get when he left the bubble supposed to be quarantined he left and go to the script club he going to get his chicken wings that's named after him so the man might hit you with that right there knowing you serve the lord knowing you post to serve the lord knowing that you say you sir the lord uh yeah you know everybody just go there to get the wings you know it ain't about the women well well i have not been in one of those since i was like 21 but are the wings that good what they have thighs and buns well yeah you know it just wanes well i guess i'll go so now you getting tested on top of test what he's showing you is let me see what you willing to do let me see how far you willing let me see if you gonna compromise your morals and your values it's a lot of women today who claim they do not like women but they go into the script club with a man that is a setup that's a test when a man asks you do you want to go to script club that is a test and it's a test to see if you're going to be okay with him cheating on you emotional cheating first then physical cheating because when he in that script club that is emotional cheating then he gonna connect with one of them it happened to uh rumor has it that's what happened to um the one singer who was dating the nba player they was going to script club together he ended up dating one of the scripts leaving one of the scribbles and then boom well it's like ma'am what did you expect what did you expect you can't take no lion to the gazelle market and expect him to just sit there and just lick his lips and never want to take him a bite out of crime no you take a lion to the gazelle market heath in the pounce on something and see this is what y'all women doing you think that by you taking a man to the script club you helping curve his desire to cheat no you intensifying it see you can't feed lust when you feed lust it's going to devour with lust you got the star of lust you hear me you got the star of lust and so that's how he gonna test you he want to see what you're going to do but now the cancellation gonna come y'all are playing the date friday night 7 p.m he supposed to pick you up he one or two ways now it depends on how much of a savage here how much of a grown boy he is now if he a beta grown boy he gonna call you about six and you you and uh you getting everything ready you just bought that you just ready you patting off that little oil after you don't put your foundation and your mascara on and you ready you getting ready you got the little clumps that do like this to your eyelashes you the loss of last so now you got to get back in the thing and glue you one back on there so you just you ready you looking good you got your light on you see the light on me you got your light on you're in front of your little vanity you didn't got that you have room for in your house but you can find your little corner you got your little vanity and then you get a call hello so you're not gonna be able to make it at all well well what about nine o'clock um 10 o'clock at my house you can't even do that what about 10 o'clock at my house or 10 o'clock at your house now you know when you start to get stressed those tracks start to itch because that that tension running through your body so i okay all right i i understand i understand stuff happens life happens it just it would have been nice to know earlier before i started getting ready because i've been getting ready for the last two hours all right all right bye oh oh my goodness that go to test so what he didn't did you've been getting ready for two hours you've been getting ready for two hours and now you've got to peel off that new lash and i'm gonna tell y'all what y'all need to do go to the last lady who got five stars okay google eyelash extension find a place that got five stars it's gonna cost you two to three hundred dollars okay go in there tell her you want classic volume you want one to one okay you want one eyelash to one i like you don't want triple volume you don't want triple triple length okay you want cuz this is how y'all walk around hey how you doing hey how you go to the lady and get the real thing you going where to stop going to cvs stop going to altar start going to claire's and getting one in the thing and sitting at how putting them on yourself i'm telling look like you got four lashes just stand up hey how you doing yeah good to see you go to the lady let it do your eyelashes and so now he didn't test you again this see what your temperament is like this is going to show him if he could play games with you this is going to show him if he could drag you out if he could dog you out and now i'ma be honest with you i was a grown boy i've never canceled a date i ain't never canceled no date so they let me know i wasn't that bad i wasn't the worst because i read so many messages and so many emails from women saying we had a date on friday night and he canceled i'm like wow so this is a new one for me not but hey that's a test because when somebody counsel they can't get your time they should not be able to get your time for the next four weeks for the next four weeks ain't i'm not available for a date because i don't have the time or you going out with no makeup sweatpants and a bun because you ain't you're not putting in no time well if we going somewhere because last time you canceled so i feel like the best we gonna be able to do is to the lake we can walk to the lake walk around the lake because i cannot afford to be putting on all eight lashes putting on a face full of makeup this foundation is not cheap i was on this man youtube tony guys he told me to go get giorgio armani luminous silk foundation it cost 80 and so i got all his foundation on and then you call and talk about you can't go so i'm just going bare face this time all right i got you here what do you call boshia td he'll call boxing this ain't i ain't paid for this hawaii about me when i'm shooting i got the boscia um black charcoal blotting linens get this oil out my face just come on just let me know when you five minutes away and i'm coming out of sweatpants bun and no makeup so see that's the kind of date he gonna have to get after he stood you up now listen now if the man work in the er he a surgeon in the er and that people go off it's like okay well listen well you have to pick me up on the way to the er i sit in the lobby because i love a working man i sit in the lobby i eat the hospital cafeteria food because i'm a need to see that that's actually what's going on here because my time is too precious to be wasted so you're gonna have to put your foot down and let this man know this you're gonna have to stop playing with me like this now for man council on you two times the relationship over if he counts on youtube time and it's not life or death it's not end of the world i mean it's not something that's so serious the relationship is over you have to go on about your business now see that this what's gonna happen these are the little tests these the low this the antecedent behavior before the big test just the little stuff now when y'all get together when y'all get together now he gonna test you in other ways he gonna test you physically so he might lean in for a kiss listen uh that man can have a 19 so for one i'll play but i'm gonna need you to have your mask on because i don't know where all you have been i don't know who you work with i know you come to pick me up we're on the same call but we're gonna have to ride with mask on okay i normally have lines on my makeup but my life mattered to me i got underlying health issues especially if you asthmatic he need to have a mask on ain't no kissing through the mask uh so it wasn't kissing through the phone ain't no kissing through the mask you keep that mask on and then when y'all getting it's time to eat y'all got enough distance and you eating you got to eat bite now because you need to make sure you got six feet when y'all take that man you need to eat uh and then he what's gonna happen is he gonna try to lean in for a kiss now listen this need to be all the way your man this can't be because nah some of the questions i get it's a man countless women to ask me can um can i kiss a man on the first date you ain't never heard of mono the kissing disease this man could have herpes left one on his mouth america had a 19. this man can have anything on his mouth you got to get to know this man first so you just have all kind of concoctions on your mouth so absolutely not you can't kiss on the first date you really don't need to kiss man in the first month you need to go on 10 real dates i'm not talking about 10 phone calls you need to go on 10 real dates that should take up to 10 weeks because the other test now is men trying to take up your time wrong boy taking up your time calling you on your job want you to come out the house every night you ain't got time for that you got time for that you you got um some on tv you got your children thinking you at the house and you the snuck eye and your children home by yourself cause you are sniffing it man booty no you this man you got one night a week that's when the nanny gonna be there if you got kids you got kids in this still one night a week friday night or saturday night sunday night off limits because monday got to be the word friday night or saturday night or we could do saturday in the daytime you got a day date but one time a week so on 10 dates it'll take you 10 weeks don't give a man three dates in a week you're giving too much time that is a test that shows desperation that's what y'all get into y'all what y'all call love bombing that's what that's how they love obama coming he he coming and dating you three times a week one time a week play boy so now over 10 weeks now you get to see his mouth you can see how he used his mouth you get to see what he like to eat on what do you like to drink on you get to see any cycles that's going through he going through a little cycle all right he didn't got that a breather he didn't got that down so now if you know he got you know cold sores in his system 85 percent of humans do ain't nothing wrong is normal 85 percent of humans get cold sore but all right you might get to see that little cycle so you know okay all right all right i know when to kiss him when when that abbreviated kicked in and got that out of the way all right i know when to kiss him because men got mustache so it could be rad it could be wrapped up you and the next thing you know you go home kiss your baby on on cheat when you let the nana go all right i'm gonna see you later you go in that kiss baby nah this man mouth now that your baby cheating now your baby wake up was something on her face and you like what is this oh my god he must got bit by a cockroach no that was you kissing on her after you kissed that man who had an object on his mouth but you were being fast so he gonna try you fishing look uh i don't know i don't kiss i i don't i don't kiss this song it's too early so you got to practice that in the mirror get in the mirror practice that know what you're going to say i tried to keep leaning kiss my wife on the cheek when she was my girlfriend it was too soon she did like this i tried to kiss on the lip she did like this i caught cheap i respected that i was hugging her i tried to slide that hand down try to slide that hand down and i got my wire watch on the day it it used to be mine and huh and i tried to slide the hand down grabbing some cheat she grabbed the hand right here pulled it right back up to a bite to the smaller her bite i said okay all right okay okay they want to respect her body all right that's what that taught me they want to respect her body they want this ain't she no exhibit in the museum that i just could rub and feel on and ain't no touch me uh look like the play toys on the aisle they got the hole in the plastic say touch me and you get to stick that thing in there and hit the button but here it make the noise no see now i don't know by the shelf to be getting touched on you got to own you got to own up to being a man and loving her you got to be hers to get you a squeeze nah that's my wife i get my squeeze anywhere grocery store i just a little johnny back there seeing a handful of cheap i'll be oh excuse excuse me i'm ain't mean let johnny see that my sons be a handful of cheap but i had to earn that right now she don't say nothing in flint i had to earn that but at first try to test now here come the physical test that's the kiss that's the touch some me and nasty not a man who want to do you like this he nasty you got a relationship over you got to go cause i'm tell you it's the difference between a man who want to grab a little bit of booty and a man who want to do you like this if a man tried to do you like it that by the nephew he um what what that movie silence of the lamb that's his nephew you got to go he do you like this for him it's time to go if he not your man this ain't your all the way locked in boyfriend now understand this the next test fitting to come when he got you somewhere that he could put you on your bike now listen to me jezebel spirit if you got that jezebel spirit i'm calling that jezebel spirit up out of you i rebuke that jezebel spirit in the name of jesus all right if you know you got you a jezebel spirit okay if you know you got you another loose booty 901 spirit they kindred okay you got to address that spirit in you you got to do the work you might need counseling therapy life coaching because sometimes you didn't got exposed to that feeling too young and now you crave and desire that feeling because you experienced it too young and it did something to your body to your brain that you may it make you want it all the time so you have to address that you gotta get that in check because the way he gonna test you when he gets you somewhere this could be in the back seat other kind of all right back seat of the cadillac have you right back down and the way he might test you now all right if he try to go in for the peach cobbler do not feel like oh i'm a queen oh man he must really like me oh whoo he won't eat peach cobbler if he tried to go in for the peach cobbler y'all know what i'm talking about all right talking like a good top string no do not let it happen because that's a setup because he know if he gets you right down if he gets you right there he know you're going to feel guilty and you're gonna feel like you owe him something and then nine you sang it on the microphone he get them a little piece called you singing on a microphone that's the absolute worst thing you could do cause let me tell you singing on that microphone is worse than you getting on your bike for the for the normal it is more degrading for you to have a man microphone in your mouth that's more degrading because that's what men do with prostitute with escorts with the two dollar woman on the corner that's what they let them women do sang on the microphone will not put them women on their bike because that's more intimate to the to the man that's more it's more close proximity but to the lowest of the low women that a man views as the lowest of the low women what he let her do is sang on the microphone so for y'all women that's patting yourself on the back cause you singing on the microphone hate to break it to you that's worse that is worse okay way worse way worse you weigh that's way lower you'd have been better off on your bike give me listen i know you think it's different the other way new uh-uh that's more degrading that's more degrading because it's it's certain women that is so conservative so classy they don't even sing with no microphone for their husband and or it take years into the marriage before they get on the husband microphone because that is it's more degrading until unless you married to this man and y'all that's what y'all doing and your spirit ain't convicted under the covenant you hear what i'm telling you but when you're not married and you all lie here on your back mouth wide open like you buy no hoagie oh yeah nasty and so that's how you gonna try you see a nasty man he gonna try to service you get your latoon up that i don't need no tuna no i'm running good cat purring good cat purring just what it need to be perm see we can't talk like this in the church you're not gonna have they're not gonna preach this on sunday so that's why i have to be here for you because this real life and this real damage being done i hear soul ties being formed soul ties that's ruining your life and running your life in the ground and breaking down your culture breaking down your society breaking down your family so listen to me this right here impurity you got to address this you got to be ready for it do not let him service you do not service him and listen he gonna try you like this and you are being judged for this this the thing that women don't like to hear y'all do not like to hear that when you get on your bike inside of two weeks on the first night a lot of women think it's all right to go on the first night lord what i'm gonna do if you on your bike inside the first six months you put into a box he he don't even respect you as a full whole wife he's gonna try you he gonna try you more he gonna try to disrespect you he gonna try to get over on you if you on your bike in the first six months now i know you should wait until marriage you know you should wait until marriage but see a man don't judge it like that a man a grown boy he judging you based on how long you make him wait in comparison to how long other women have made him wait so if every woman he's dealt with or 90 of the women he's dealt with have allowed him to put them on their back within 30 days and that was pretty much my situation and and a large percent of it was on the first night that we was in a position in a place that something like that could happen but if 90 percent have allowed him in there in some kind of way on the peach cobbler surfboard whatever you want to call it watermelon lemonade inside of 30 days if you make him wait 60 days you automatically become wife material because he comparing you to all other women he then dealt with even though that 60 days is less than that six months he compared he don't have a timeline there's no guidebook on this so he comparing you so if lou booted 901 who was living with her mama and getting food stamps and did not have no job because she was lazy or she had a little job but she wouldn't let him pay her more because she didn't want to affect her government benefits if lose 4901 and snuck him in her mama wonder and let him put her on her back on the first night in the first week in the first 30 days and then here you come who you don't call yourself loose booty 901 but you got a good pan jaw you making x amount of dollars you could pay all your bills you dress classy you look class keep your hair done your nails done you taking care of your skin you take care you know my lashes do my brows everything but you get on your bike inside of the first 30 days like lose booty 901 did guess what y'all in the same class y'all in the same class in that man mine you on the same bus in the same row in the same class that that class you sit in all day he put you in that same class he's not looking at you and saying oh she's a classy woman she's a good catch just cause how you dressing the job you work if you get on your back the same time she got on her bike y'all the same in his mind so you gotta stop patting yourself on the back calling yourself grown when you actually out here loose and manish and fresh getting on your bike talking about oh a woman got knees too high man could i want to sleep with somebody on a third night and i can't want to sleep with nobody on third night that's not no man that's a grown boy so when you want the same thing a grown boy won't that mean you're a grown girl that mean if you know better than him if he can't control himself and you can't control yourself so what you happy about about that for don't pan yourself on the back because you on your bike and didn't want to get up and pat yourself on the bike because you doing the same thing grown boys do that's not uh that's not an award that ain't nothing to be proud of that you doing the same thing grown boys do i hear contracting diseases and spreading them around come on now you got to you got to want more for yourself than that now because stuff could have already not happened to you so if you already went through some stuff contracting you some stuff you know to experience some stuff take a lesson from that and say okay i'm not doing that again until i'm married because i've not already seen what happened you shouldn't mean how many men you know slept with before marriage and how many of the old men that you slept with turned into a fateful husband so you got to do the math look at the data look at this her daughter and when you look at it down you say okay i don't slept with 12 men and zero of them came turning to a fateful husband all right it's time for me to do something different you see i'm saying so when this man go to try you you got to shut it down you got to shut it down in any kind of way no matter what your body feeling you got to say your prayer you got to pull out your little bottle of all the oil get you looked out get you looked out lord whatever you got to do turn down that piece cobbler dessert turn down that microphone karaoke turn down that only all right some assault turn that down turn everything down nope sorry unfortunately i can't do it so now the next thing gonna happen here come the guilt trip now it's gonna be you know i just i don't even understand like like every time i'm trying i'm trying to get close to you and like it's certain things that i can show you that i can express to you [Music] when we go all the way when we do that that i can't express with words and that's what you don't understand like what i want to do to your body i want to do it all i want every part of you every crevice and that's what i'm trying to show you and you won't let me do that and that right there is blocking me from being with you and that's what's making me feel like cheating but see i'm a good man so i ain't cheated yet but and i don't mean to say yet but what i'm saying is is what do you expect a man to do when he trying to love you and he want to love you in every way but you trying to be all religious when the pastor up there cheating on his own wife and then here i am trying to be a good man and i'm just trying to show you how i feel here go to guilt trip and it's like this it's like when they say blue balls that is real like because i'm with you and you want me to spend time with you i'm trying to spend quality time with you but it's like when i'm spending quite a time with you my body because i love you my body reacting and so what's happening is this thing right here is like the armor hammer box down here and it's like this and then pulsating and it pulsating and it's just going it goes going and it just start to feel like nails and needles and it's like then you wonder why i snap on you and while i'm going off but it's because i got nails and needles poking me and prodding me and then i can't sleep and then it's like you so religious and then you'll be watching the relationship culture online tony smashing and ain't mean calling tony smashing but that's probably what he's doing he probably cheated on his wife cause i'm gonna tell you what i went to school with his ex and she said that he beat on her and he cheated on and that's what you listen to and then that's costing me that's causing me and that's causing you and you know what that's what i'm telling you that's what i'm gonna tell you only like to get mad like that because you know what i'm coming you know what i come from you know i was in them streets and you know i was in the street and i was making people pay and i'm trying to be a better man you want to tell you that's what i'm telling you point blank period it's just like this straight up then what i'm telling you it's me or it's tony gaskin if you want to talk again then go be his second wife if you want to listen all his video every day and every time i walk in here you got a video playing it's me or it's tony and i'm gonna tell you what he don't want to he only want to he white light skin he colorist cause you was brown skin he you listen to him he only like you he like only like skinny one i don't care if his ass with dark skin he left him for a reason that's why he left her so you see i'm saying all of this right here he take me through all that and i see i'm walking through the whole scenario i'm walking through the whole scenario so you could get this in your spirit cause you're gonna see this now some of y'all haven't seen that you heard that some of y'all dated somebody who then gave you an ultimatum between him and the pat your pastor him and your favorite author him and who you listen to on youtube some of y'all got that ultimatum now this man into my wife complexion and use that against me you that cuz cuz you my color so now he telling you i hate myself and i hate you why you listening to me all right so now what's gonna start happening this will start to happen you know the covenant you got with god you know what you told god that you're gonna wait that you're gonna save yourself because you're gonna made all the mistakes and you're gonna save yourself and now you start to you know what you call your friend girl you know he i'm gonna tell you what girl he wrote me a new one oh girl you was right you told me that the man is not out here trying to wait girl he told me tony gaskin racist against me and lying to me on youtube up for one then girl did he say it feel like nails you ever heard that from a man said it feel like nails down there because he hit my presence i ain't gonna tell you i am not gonna lie to you girl i had to fail myself because i started to feel real hot i was like whoa i'm that sensitive oh that sexy it feel like nail hey well come put that nail in me oh now that was the devil talking to him right there when i was like hey come on that's how you feeling whoo girl about to get me a you hear me but i just said no no no no the lord said no i had the angel on the other shoulder so but now that i think about it it's like it's like as i really start to think about this thing it's like the bible say every man falls short of the glory of god and it's like this is a good man and if he gonna fall short it's like i kind of want i would rather him fall short inside of me to fall short in one of these other loose women because they're gonna put out for him and then i'm gonna be left without a good man and it's like yes he's not perfect but no man is perfect so it's like that's just where i'm at with it right now girl what you got to say um i i just knew you'd understand best friend girl that's why i love you i know you all understand so i'm gonna tell you like right here next time i'm not gonna i'm not gonna show up with no trench coat like they do on the movie with nothing up under there but the next time he come and he asked me for this girl he can get it i'm gonna tell you now all right girl all right i'm disappointed in disappointed in but that's what you're going through that's what you're going through so that's what that's how you gonna test you he gonna test you down now see when you fail if you fail all these tests if you fail to i'ma call you don't call you i'ma steal your time i'm gonna call you when you when i know you can't talk to see if you're gonna answer you're gonna lost a family member a distant cousin you at the frontal show respect he called in your phone here you will in the church to take the phone call hello yes i'm done my i told you about my third cousin yes we lost her i'm here yeah i'm gonna call you back you see what i'm saying he gonna steal your time he gonna interrupt your tire you're gonna call you when you know you ain't supposed to be talking and you if you fail that test didn't finish on the physical test you failed a kiss okay you kiss him too soon now you're grabbing on squeezing all kind of squeezing ain't gonna go from that squeeze it's gonna go something inappropriate all right gonna whip the hand around to the front okay go to working in the movie theater under the table at the food and now y'all in red lobster and little johnny at the table he's mom is that what lobster smells like no it's you and your nasty man he don't whip around and he going to work he going to try you physically any way he could try you you fail that test nah it's going to go to the ultimatum now you finna get the ultimatum you gotta stop reading these relationship books you gotta stop watching these relationship videos after he try you down now it's gonna be an argument when y'all get art if you fail that test it's gonna be an argument when y'all get an argument he gonna get mad you know what i'm tired of this he finna throw some and break it you fail that test meaning you stay you listen you keep arguing the next time he grabbing you you fail that test you don't call them police you don't leave immediately and not come by or not you fail that test you come back next time all right after that next time all right after that next time all right after that next time flick feeding now everything you hit me and you strong you tough so you don't feel like mma it feel like wwe the wrestling where they kind of coming down and you can see them coming down but you know they ain't putting all their weight and that's how you doing you he putting all blood on there because he don't want to leave too many marks because he know you got to go to work but that's how he trying and that right there when you get all the way see i see how i walk you through these your chest when you get all the way down there to that last 10 and i skipped some tests now i skipped some tests now before i go to all this it's going to be breaking you down you ought to be glad i'm even with you because men don't even like you today yo look yo look ain't even in right now but me i'm a man of substance because you said it yourself all these men twos and light skinning white women and then now look what you is okay i chose you with your dark skin i don't like dark skinned easel but i told you so now the lies that you'd have been fed by the media that that the world had made you to believe that you unattracted that you that your color your height your weight only light women with that much weight on them and you heavier than me and i'm with you how many men do you see with a woman that got your shame shake he gonna break you down when the lord said you beautiful when you know that you beautiful when you know ain't nothing wrong with you and that the man that's for you is for you he gonna strip you down and make you feel on a tractor you could be you could be uh light-skinned what other what what people saying getting all the praise and he'll attack you that way your mulatto yo oreo cookie oh how brief anyway but me i'm the only one chose a hair breathe every other man that left you cause you were my law and then i'm with you oh light bright that's what they call y'all in school see i'm not even calling you a light bright i'm saying that's what they call y'all in school light bright and then i told you see it's other men out here they don't even want light bright they want dark skinned women because it is black lives matter but i told you and so now you like you know what he's right you know black lives do matter and black is beautiful and i wish i was darker and so these men are looking at me like i'm less than and he chose me same thing for the white women going through the same things he gonna break you down verbally okay attacking you good bad and ugly whatever you think is good bad and ugly he can attack it and it could be good and he gonna make it bad it could be pretty he gonna make it ugly you mean it could be amazing he gonna make it mediocre whatever and whatever insecurities you got you insecure about your light skin about your white skin about your pale skin about your dark skin whatever insecurity you got he finna attack it you too tall you too short you too skinny you too thick you two this you too that whatever insecurity you got he can attack it he's gonna make you feel like he the only man in the world that wants you and guess what if you fail that test you believe you gonna believe it believe in that is fail in that test and when you fail that test after that verbal and all that breaking you down he'll like he isolating you from your resources people like myself who aren't here giving you the truth he gonna isolate you from us he gonna isolate you from your best friend he gonna isolate you from your mama he gonna isolate you from your daddy and your sister and all of this and then he gonna break you down he gonna he gonna be using you using your body flipping your tossing if you're saving yourself that's gonna he gonna use you saving yourself as an excuse for him to watch nasty movies see you somewhat you save me or something you know and that's what and but yet at the same time you say you don't want no man that watch perm but ain't got no choice but a white perm because you saving yourself so i got to watch this hill and then i got to be looking at bumblebee triple x and only like her like that all she got better than you is her booty and her thighs and her breasts and her eyes and the way she do her hair and her skin color that's all she got that's better than you but only like i like that i like you but i got to watch her because you saving yourself so he gonna take you through that and tell you that this is the reason why he got to talk to his ex-girlfriend this is the reason why he cheated on you with his ex or with his baby mama because he already know her and he won't cheat on some cheat on you with somebody new because he could have contracted something but she know she ain't got nothing because they son not blind because if she had something they saw would have come out blind so he knows she ain't got nothing so he gonna sleep with her because he already know her and that's familiar and that you ought to be happy that he went to somebody that's familiar instead of somebody that's new you see what i'm saying all of this here everything i'm saying has happened everything i'm saying has happened somebody now see one person made it maybe didn't experience all blood but everybody experienced at least one thing some kind of test and that's what grown boy specializing he specializes in tests you hit me this man wrote albert einstein test e equal mc square he know v equal m c squared he know your equation he know how to figure you out he know the formula to figure you out and he gonna test you test you test you and here's how you pass these tests you've got to have morals standards and values you have to have a belief system that you believe in and that you stand on you have to have accountability partners you have to have resources that you go to like this here video you got to know what you know and don't let nobody talk you out of what you know you gotta know who you are you gotta know what you stand for if the lord didn't told you to save yourself until marriage there's no if answer but it if the lord told you say yo vajay say yo bite side say your mouth say your forehead say your ear your eye cause say you're unarmed cause if you don't wanna let him put it down he might say well let's let me stick it right here if lord and told you to say your cleavage he might well let me just put it right here and then here you will okay just put it right did you have to do all of that oh my god i try to help you out and then you just do that i did not want all of that you're gonna give me a breakout hey there ain't no breakout girl they say stuff got protein in it that might be good for your faith listen if you've been told to save all of the funny business save all of that until marriage and that's what the lord put on your heart save it save it until marriage if you've been told in your spirit and you know when you were sober minded that if a man ever lay hands on you to leave if a man never verbally the lead if a man that would emotionally abuse the lead if you knowing your heart and your spirit that that's what you're supposed to do it don't matter how tall and handsome he is tall dark hair is a muscular tattoo swaggy all of that gotta go know what you know believe what you believe know who you are know what you deserve have moral standards and values that you could stand on and when you got that that's how you pass the test did man cancel a date on you and he got a hospital note he ain't got a police report all right i'm going no long great to know you got to go you see what i'm saying i don't know how you spell got to go but you need to get your t-shirts they got to go got it get your t-shirt i ain't making it but this what you got to understand and this how you gonna pass the test and this how this man gonna know that you not to be played with because when he tried he gonna try you very small something that's not an offense worth leaving him for good over and if you feel that then it gonna keep going up but if you catch that first thing you check him say listen my time is not to be wasted if you say you're gonna do something do it and if you're not gonna be a man of your word then you could leave right now because i don't give three strikes all right it's not baseball this my life you check them on that oh whoa all right this is serious yeah i mean hey this tony guys i hate to be so real which on this his stuff and be so you know graphic and and just you know real with you but somebody got to do it and the pastors really can't really go all the way there so that what the lord called me to be here to be that realness that you need to understand all the caveats and nuances of what you're dealing with in this dating field hey god bless you we'll talk soon

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 59min 57sec (3597 seconds)

Published: Tue Sep 15 2020