His representative | Grown-Boy University | Tony Gaskins

hey hey tony guys here hey now i see after this weekend seeing what happened to the young lady who you know life was taken by her husband or estranged husband estranged husband i see i gotta i really gotta take y'all through grown boy university and i'm making this up as i go i'll be doing one video at a time and i'll just kind of piggyback off the video before that and just walk you through the process and it's free of charge this on youtube don't mention nothing about the ads that youtube put on there i don't want to hear about it uh because you ain't paying nothing for this here course that i'm giving to you free that somebody probably gonna steal and put into a course on their website and be charging two hundred dollars for it so you when you see that just let me know i sent them a cease and desist with a lawyer or something but on this first part i want to talk to you about the representative and when you meet a grown boy what you're gonna notice is he's going to be exceptional in something in one way or the other because see what grown boys do when i was a grown boy we play roles so in this role this with this woman she might see the dynamic poet this woman she may see the spiritual advisor this woman she may see the thug this woman she may see the studious college student this woman may see the superstar athlete getting ready to go to the lead become a pro or already a pro but she don't know what level of pro he is and he on his way out but he pretending he on his way up this woman she may see the preacher this woman she may see the virgin this woman she may see the abstinent man see what grown boys do is just play different roles and introduce the representative and in this day and age it's getting worse than it ever was before because there's so much technology so there's so many stories that men see that grown boys see there's so much advancements in the world that a grown boy can use and a grown boy has access to the same lessons that you have access to so whereas in the old days if a woman was helped the game it was because of her father or her brother but the grown boy did not know what she was being told so he could be playing a role and she could be reading right through him and he doesn't know it see today the grown boys watch these videos when you see the video and you see uh 15 dislikes it lets you know that it's just a section of haters that just and and some of them is women now some of them women who have been blocked because i'm blocked several women as well as several men and so they just come from the other page and they just hit dislike that's how you see a dislike on there before the video even been up two seconds and that's what they'll come to do but they listening they still listening so the grown boys know what you looking for he know what you trying to watch and that's why it's being extended because see i was saying listen you gotta watch this man for the first three months he heard that so now he's extending his representative for six months i said you gotta watch him for the first six months now he extends his representative for nine months for 12 months so that's why as a woman you gotta move slower you gotta move slower now i see so many women meet a man swear that he is amazing and don't even know him inside of 12 months you don't know a human being you have not began to know a human being me and my wife going on 14 years and we still learning each other she still don't fully know me i still don't fully know her going on 14 years of marriage that is the complexity of a human so with this representative you cannot get you know scooped up and be swooning over a certain attribute his intellect his articulation his chivalry his ambition his religiosity you cannot take anything he shows you to the head and allow it to lull you to sleep and that's what happened with so many women they will say well he's so good with my children what is he supposed to be y'all just met six months ago like is he you really expect him to come in within six months be bumping look johnny crawford slapping little johnny up hey you know your little daughter little salad you really expect him to come and just hey look sally come here girl hey turn do a little turn father [Music] you think he gonna do that within the first six months no he's gonna be giving gives he finna be amazing with them see when a man introduced you to his representative he's not arguing with you he's not going to argue with you he's not been a debate with you you can just have smooth selling conversation you finna thank you the smartest woman on the planet the way he listened to you you finna think you just got it all figured out because he don't debate with nothing he don't argue with nothing you think you think you princess queen of felia you see you just thinking you just snow white on the other side of her glory because he's not arguing with you he no contention no contesting he just whatever you say go oh that's what you want oh that's what i want to eat too man i love that place he allergic to it he ended up eating the water you know i just forgot i was on a uh i'm on the daniel fass i'm like damn oh no no we'll have to leave one of the league because that's what i like to do like i like to see you know people like you not i ain't gonna say all women i like to see a woman like you enjoy herself because i haven't been with a woman who ain't nothing like you you amazing i like to see a woman like you enjoy herself so go ahead eat them crap know what i'm saying crowley's and hey and and actually this right here order whatever you want get get two pounds crowd there you can eat one pound get two pounds of crowd leg i don't care about them say your light i don't care about no extra weight like and i'm paying for this this on me he is allergic to seafood but he playing that role and he can't afford to pay for his seafood and your seafood so that's another reason he ain't eating it because he at least got garlic bread but no he's gonna sit over that that's his representative he opening doors he pulling out the chair he pulled out the booth y'all sitting in the booth he didn't slid the booth back excuse me man can you stand up real quick i need to push this booth back a little so she got a little bit more room you know between the booth and the table thank you excuse me excuse me brother hey what this this i'm glad there's more men like me out here hey you know hey give him a fist bump hey keep keeping mask on like give me a fist bump so now he didn't pull the bullfight for you you know how to boof it'll move like when you're going out beast how the whole move you sit down with a little too much force and your boo back and so he didn't pull the booth back this is representative you got to pay attention so what happened is women y'all be so ready for love that you take this to the head so it's just like you ever see somebody play a video game if you know playing a video game watch somebody play one little video game where you running where they running and jumping over stuff mario whatever and you know how every little thing they do just adding up points you jump up you hit the little things every little time you hit something you just jumping up points that's what that's what the man doing he playing a video game with you he pull out that chair he puts a chat he offered to pay for the meal tell the other man hey i'm glad there's more men like me you see what i'm saying he just racking up points get home hey um who you gotta know nanny from what care.com let me go in there let me go in there just make sure cause he i got this gift of where i could tell if a person had done something because of my past and what i used to be but the garden redeemed me i could tell if this person stole something from me just by looking at her and shaking her shaking her hand so you let him go in the house hey little johnny he in the bed already i'm gonna tell you what i'm gonna go ahead now and what i like to do is i like to just lay my hand on his head while he's asleep and just say a prayer so you just right he just racking up point you giving him points because you so ready for love you so ready to be rescued you so ready for you a man to come in your life cause you have been through you haven't been cheated on you'd have been beat on you'd have been dogged out you didn't been taken advantage of the last man stole your 401k the last man did insurance fraud on your car the last man put him on you the last man took all your savings for a fake business that he wasn't even creating see so not this man he like a breath of fresh air you don't even know how to hey so what you get ready to do month in a month then you don't know just salivating you down there just aquafina you don't know just getting ready you all on the phone you can call the first lady got the fur lady feeling like she is saying cause you just on the phone the first lady passed uh i just whoo i know i love the lord i love the lord but when i tell you and i hope i can speak freely with you first lady whoa when i tell you he can get it oh forgive me forgive me forgive me but oh just what i'm feeling i'm just so ready i need me some i want me whoa the first lady she opened up you got her saying she think about the deacon touching on her cuz the husband dealing with ed the pastor dealing with ed so she thinking about the deacon she pitching deacon john just stay strong just stay strong sister cause god got you so now you dragging other women in sin you got them ready to get on their bike because you so ready to flip on your back you so ready to flip on your back because all this man been doing he's just running up points just faking you out cause you're giving him credit see when a man come in your life it take time to determine if he's a grown boy or if he's a grown man it takes time so you cannot be giving him credit for what he doing when he just met you what else he's supposed to do now if a man come in the first month he cussing you out the first month he already showing some signs now you know he shout out he all the way crazy now you know you will be a barbecue when i say a barbecue i'm talking about you will literally be a barbecue human homeboys will have pieces of you on the grill if a man show you who he really is in the first month in the first 90 days he is crazy for real the first sign you see a man cuts at you in the wrong way in the first night go gotta go a man get physical in the front gotta go and call the police from where you at call the police from where you at get the way you got to go where he don't know where you at and call the police down give me like if a man show you he crazy in the first night he already controlled he already domineering he already overly opinionated he already telling you where you can and can't go he already got you on facetime spinning around so he could scan the whole room in the first 90 days you got to go you got to go listen to me he shout out he all the way he might be crazy he might be you hear me he gone and it might not be draw it might just be he crazy because of what he'd been through listen what i'm telling you now listen to what i'm telling you don't take this for no gain this is very serious if he show you he crazy first night a day you got to go now see every man got a little bit of crazy in him but it's little measures okay it's little measures if a man if a man's crazy is him telling you how he feels and how he feels may hurt your feelings but he's not trying to put you down or to break you down he's just expressing the way he feels that's that might be his bit of crazy if he intentionally trying to break you down trying to hurt you trying to make you feel less than okay that's a little bit more crazy if he doing that with some cussing and some yelling that's a little bit more crazy if he doing that with some cussing and some yelling and with some you can't go here you can't go there you can't talk this person you can't talk that's a little more crazy if he doing all of that and with a little bit that's a that's all the way crazy that's all the way crazy you mean so see it's different levels to it and you got to pay attention you got to pay attention you got to be aware and what you cannot do is you cannot give this man more credit than he deserves you can't do that don't give the man more credit than he deserves so listen he doing what he's supposed to do let that be that you don't owe him to get on your back because he good with your children because he's chivalrous because he don't art you don't owe him anything he doing what he's supposed to do all you owe him is a thank you he pull your child thank you he paid for the meal thank you so much for that he opened your door thank you he nice to your children thank you for one at that the for one he shouldn't even be dealing with your he shouldn't even know your children he shouldn't even be around your chair in the first 12 months but see a lot of women don't have any sense about men and it's because if you did not have a father that was going to be real with you then you don't know that you're saying well oh no he need to meet my children because if he gonna be around who say he's gonna be around did you just met this man you already gave him a lifetime pass some of he gonna be around he might not be around if you're doing what you're supposed to do if you pay attention to the signs he should not be around he ought to be out the door he ought to be through it three months six months ain't no telling he gonna be around so don't introduce him to your children because he ain't gonna do nothing but show your representative or he or if he all the way crazy he might say or do something that you and your kids regret for life oh yeah regret for life he all the way crazy and so nine yo yo daughter scarred could he man pinch the booty just met him oh look at you little bubble butt you're the lawsuit what are you now you slapping him in the chat oh now he see red so what are you doing say that it's just like my daughter that's what i do to my daughter i'm treat yours just like it's mine treat your children like one if her biological father did that would you be offended no you wouldn't be offended that's what he's saying to you that's what he's saying to you absolutely offended biological father did that yeah he don't need to be doing that either that's a little girl but so now it's me and did that in the top one women out they common sense listen to me listen to me all right you so ready to argue in the comments you read be done spraying your thumb listen listen to me stop letting grown boys talk you at your common sense stop letting the man talk you out your common sense the grown man talk throughout your common sense oh yeah oh you know what oh okay i get what you're saying i get what you're saying you saying that you want to come in and treat them just like a biological father because you don't want them to get caught up in a step daddy their step daddy that okay yeah that makes sense that makes sense i i understand cause like if that was her biological father he pinched her booty like i know he ain't trying to do nothing with her because that's his biological that's her biological father so i wouldn't take offense to that you not her biological father so that's why i caught me off guard but i realized what i what i made up what i messed up on is you're a good man you actually a better man than her biological father so you pinching her booty is actually more innocent than her biological father doing it is what i was trying to say and so yeah okay all right yeah okay that make perfect sense now all right [Applause] that man to talk you at your rabbit mind he didn't talk about your common sense so he's sitting over there like now now you get it now you get it he tapping on your forehead there you go young jedi now you get it young jedi hey i'm gonna show you something he's gonna slap you in the nipple i'ma show you something now hey see see what you have to understand about me and like me that's what he telling you is i i operate up here see i know you used to operate with me and down here but i operate up here so what the growing we're trying to do he trying to woo you with his perceived intellect and maturity i met my grown boy i mean my grown boy hadn't wrapped up the mind or this woman and the woman had two daughters one of the daughters was 11 or 12. the grown boy at the beach with the woman daughter in her the doll in her two-piece and got the daughter on his neck on his neck yeah hello a little part right there on the back of his neck and he ain't no ken to the young lady then the grown boy had the young lady 11 years old sitting in his lap call herself teaching her how to drive and the mama that's a good man he is a good man he is so good with my hair he is so good right here that is a good man but what the grown boy was doing he was tr he was making he was deceiving the mother and deceiving the daughter now see the older daughter she pee she pete gang she knew he was full of it but that that the younger daughter she wanted a father so bad she wanted a father so bad that she just thought this was fatherly love so when the grown boy started [Music] her mama she didn't know about it and when the mama kicked them out he called that daughter that he had deceived that he had trapped the mind of and had her let him in the house without her mama's permission see that's what a grown boy will do so while you introducing this growing boy to your chair and tell my oh i don't want to wait a year that's too long that's not even realistic so i'm supposed to date a man a whole year he met my kid yes this 20 20 20 21 okay these boys playing games on a whole new level all right you need to listen to what i'm trying to tell you this ain't this ain't 1950 no more okay these boys tech savvy they seem too much this rap music is terrible what do you know rap music in 1950 so these boys is terrible today you hear me the grown boys is out here to play all kind of games and there is men with fantasies and fetishes to have you on your bike and your daughter on her bike regardless of her age and it's men who have done it it's men who doing it every day but you got your all around this man and don't even know this man you know he known this man 12 months you barely hit six months and all around your children come on now come on you got to be smarter than that you cannot don't get caught up with that baby boy syndrome you remember the movie when baby boy mama and she talking about mama got hell love too now see that's totally different for her because her butt groaned in musty so yeah you do need to have you some love your son grown but a lot of women saying the same thing and children under 18. no you don't need no love you need no love until you know that this person is real don't be worried about your love don't be worried about no love life you should have thought about that when you got on your bike to have them children now it is about them children it's about them they come first their safety come first and that's one thing with parents is we selfish we self see right now i'm see right now i'm in a position right now to where if i want to up and go to the rich carlton for three nights on the weekend i could do that but i got i got two son so what i have to every weekend got to remind myself this ain't about me because i chose to lay down and to bring children to conceive children with my wife so not it's about them so friday is crossfit and homework friday homework and saturday is soccer baseball and crossfit sunday is soccer and crossfit so where can i go on the weekend to them games to the game um i'll be stressed out from y'all in the comment section it be so many little demons look devils in my comments in my inbox in my email in my customer service that the devil be the sent to try to get under my skin i'd be needing to just go and sit on me somebody beach and just listen to the lord ocean waves but i got to go to my son's game because it ain't about me i don't have them it's about them stop worrying about your love stop worrying about your business stop worrying about you traveling the world stop worrying about your relationship and if you got children it need to be bought down it needs to be about them he could get in what he fit in oh that's not fair to say it's easy for you so you got a wife so your kid go to bed you can go in the room and do what you wanna do well listen to each their own everybody got their own plight in life and you know what i'm doing in my bedroom we might be in a snoring count sheet and they ain't got nothing last night i had me a little planned thought i looked oh my wife was asleep so what i had to do take me a couple of melatonin gummies chewing me some melatonin gum y'all know what melatonin is all right look at melatonin it's not melanin it's melatonin all right the body already got it took me a cup of melatonin gummy in about 30 minutes and melatonin go to releasing in their body i wasn't feeling good okay went on to sleep that's what you need to be doing go to sleep put your little toy down put your little toy down because that's what got you ready now is the little toy put the toy down say you're a pro take your melatonin if you need to if you got over at the brain take your little melatonin and going to sleep now here go one of y'all then google uh article about melatonin oh tony i just want to say i know the video everything was good but just on the part about the melatonin the melatonin is not good for you because of this and this right here is this right here huh we ain't talking about that they ain't what the video about we ain't talking about that we're not asking for your health conspiracy that you found on google listen here the military help me i will i go to bed good i wake up good all right it's working so listen to me go to bed go to bed and stop learning about this man and see if this what this the mistake that women make is you dealing with this man and when he's not calling you when he's not around you you still you still running up the points for him in your head because you thinking about what he did at dinner that you gave him points for but now you replant it through your mind because you replanted through your mind you still giving him points you doubling and tripling points that he ain't even earn you doubling tripling points and he ain't even earn your credit card get you one month out the year to give you triple points give you one day out of the month to get you triple point you giving this man triple points every single day every single day he ain't spent enough cash on you or with you and he can cash back he can cash back rewards because of all of the points you've given him in your mind for stuff he he pulled out one chill but you just played it over your head 10 times so now he didn't put out 10 chairs now he didn't put out 10 check 11 tails 9 and he even got points for all 11 chill pull outs and it only happened one time in reality but you keep playing it through your head and you think this is a dream come true you you come true you think there's god answering your prayers the devil heard you too the devil heard you too see before god sent destiny the devil don't send distraction you might be with distraction but it takes time it takes discernment and discernment takes time discernment and wisdom knowledge and understanding that means you take your time you stay off your back you can't you can't take this man and introduce him to your lifestyle introduce him to your whole life and you don't even know him he didn't met your children he didn't met your best friend he didn't met uh he didn't he don't got included [Music] on dinners on retreats on outings that your company doing that your business done a lot of you and they give you a plus one you didn't include him in your life people inviting you to stuff you inviting him he your plus you don't even know him he he shouldn't get no benefits no privileges inside of 12 months nothing it's just you and the lord analyzing this man because what happened you brought him in your circle now he didn't met people shut they hadn't got their phone number he didn't seduce them so now when you pete gang he became best friends with your friends so not your friends thank you crazy you just hurt this is what your friends telling you you know you just hurt you just hurt from your last relationship this is a good man you finally have a good man and you're running him off because you're still hurting from what john did to you and then you like maybe you're right i'm just put some ice on this i mean it kind of was an accident he just kind of caught him with his elbow like conor mcgregor did and just was kind of an accident so i'm just put some ice on it yeah as i do this it really don't even hurt no more i really the pain is kind of subsiding yeah you're right you know it's just life it's relationships you know what you're going through go through this is nowhere near worse is john girl you know that's why i love you he didn't seduce your friend your friend might want her a little piece on him so she wants you to keep him around so she can stab me and i can hop on that pole herself she might want a little piece of he doesn't seduce her listen to it man i did that before this isn't what i'm telling you i was this man i was this grown boy i'm here to tell you that's how i know him that's how i know him because i was him i know the games he gonna play so i'm trying to tell you listen to what i'm telling you see you arguing in your mind because see when you meet what you think you've been waiting on when a man represent what you feel you've been praying for you've been waiting on you thank this god blessing you [Music] but you be in the script club but you'll be cussing like a sailor but you'll be playing with your latoya at night god ain't nowhere near you god ain't nobody near sending no blessings god ain't saying no blessing everything god looking at you waiting on you to come on closer to the cross he there for you but god said listen i'm not blessing that i'm not blessing you in your scriptural activities i'm not blessing you and your all that potty mouth that you got that i'm not blessing that because you're not going to be a mockery to my name you know what the lord telling you lost i love you i'm waiting on you when you want to do right there go strength i don't put strength right beside you you got to pick it up put the battery in your back strength right there for you so you thinking this god blessing you but you know you ain't been living right you know god ain't got that kind of blessing for you when you ain't when you know you ain't been doing right willfully that you've been willfully sinning oh god in my heart yeah you know your heart he know you're playing games he know you trying to he know you trying him like a baser he know that you think he a man that you could fool him yo god know your heart you 100 right he know that you've been playing game and your blessings on hold see what you getting is universal law you work you eat you work hard you eat better that's what you getting that man blessing see blessings don't feel like work see blessings don't feel like stress you say i'm saying see blessing you could be at your house you to travel the country you bet your house like i'm at my house right now and be blessed that's what blessings feel like my wife said to me the other day she said hi in the world think about what was gonna happen she said look at all the entrepreneurs they got all these staff and they still couldn't even come in because of this situation they had to shut down an officer and you're working from your home office and look at what god doing in your life see that's what blessing feel like see you gotta stop calling everything a blessing something is just your hard work some things is of your hand when god do it when god do it ain't gonna be no if answer buts about it when god do it it's gonna floor you when god do it you're gonna be silent when see i can't even tell you what god doing in my life that's how blessing is you can't even speak it to everybody see i got to tell one person at a time who god sent to me in a coaching session or mentorship one-on-one i got to tell one person at a time because when i'm speaking to the public it's i'm speaking also it's devils in the midst who want to sow discord so they'll get in the comments to sow discord and it'll be somebody who's hanging in the balance who will see that and they'll be left confused so everything ain't for everybody can't shout everything with everybody all the time and when when god blessing you that's how big the blessing is it got to be shared sparingly it ain't for everybody ears it's for certain people who hanging in the balance who god sent to you directly one-on-one to get that blessing so see you got to stop calling everything a blessing because see when god send you a blessing of a man you ain't you gonna have a wisdom and discretion not to give everything right away not to show everything right away not to introduce this man to all your friends and family your god gonna give you the wisdom if this is a blessing then hold them off for a little bit hold them off for a little bit so that you really know that it's me don't let him go here or go there with you that your life then gave you access to don't introduce him to that because now if he's not a blessing if he is a decoy he gonna be even better decoy because he see what you got he was just getting ready to show his fangs he was guest just getting ready to show his true colors but now that you didn't let him go on your boss yacht now your boss let you go out on the boat with him not you to let him get on the yacht with you now he them fans done he drew them fame right back up [Music] oh yeah so yeah how are you my name is john and oh yeah great to meet you he don't even talk like that now he got a british accent why because he didn't met your ball cause you got favor you taking him to sit down and eat with your pasta so now he realized up all right we're just getting ready to put in that chokehold and get some screening but not a met pass i got to wait a whole awful month got a whole off a month and then in this month what i'm gonna do i'm finding some gossip about pastor online if i can't find him online i'm gonna make me some up my pastor i'm gonna show it to her let her know oh you know what i do i tell her my old classmate told me that she's sleeping with pastor and i'm gonna tell her that make her cut her past off so we'll never go out to eat again with a pasta cause i'm gonna tell her i know how to read men and because i'm all the way in because i gotta now on a bike she gonna listen to him about that passing mm-hmm get passed out away all right yeah that's what i do so now he got a plan why cause you gonna set him down without it too early this this ought to be between you and god lord reveal to me if this man is worthy of meeting my friends my family my coworkers my pastor reveal to me lord you ought to be in consecration and supplication unto the lord praying for wisdom and discretion lord reveal to me ought to be your daily prayer and you ain't introducing him to your circle because it don't matter what nobody else think of him it matter what you think of him because you the one got to live with them so your radar could say your radar could say gaydar but somebody else might not see that your radar could say but somebody else radar might not see that so you lean in more to the understanding of other humans instead of to the understanding and wisdom knowledge and discretion that god has granted you and this how he beat you because he understand that if he could seduce the people you introduce him to [Music] then he got you because he know they got your ear so he just got to seduce them but see he don't have to live with them he's not around them for hours at a time like he is you so it's easy to seduce them he can seduce them because he's not around them that much you know the men the men that have been dogs to the women in my life my family members i either never met her or i was around less than an hour so they didn't have to really prove themselves to that woman and because that woman spent so much time with them the woman not gonna listen to me he got her ill he got a ill and see the thing about women the thing about women now women do this more than men women do this more than men men will listen more to family members when family members trying to warn them can men be looking for an excuse to cut you off women be looking for a reason to keep you and so a woman would give her mama but would give her mama her butt to kiss will give her daddy who raised her clothe her fed her sacrifice for her a woman would give her daddy her butt to kiss about a grown boy a grown boy will separate a woman from her loving father from her loving mother from her loving brother from her loving sister from her loving best friend because this woman is so desperate for love so desperate for the image of having a man wanna have a a vacation photo shoot so bad will disregard the warnings of everybody who loves her just so she could be in cabo in jamaica in puerto rico with this man taking pictures on the beach just so she could post it so that everybody who bullet her laughed at her in high school who don't got a man could be jealous and this is a grown boy this is a man who kind of steal kill and destroy just like the devil because that's who he working for and that's who he sent by but because she is not praying for wisdom and discretion and isolating this man see you need to be isolating this man first not bringing him all in your circle because guess what you bring him all in your circle not now you confusing everybody everybody like because nobody believe you that you acting it don't believe that it's 20 20 20 21. i don't want to believe that so every man you introduced to the people you introduced him to oh you on your bike you on your bike so now your friends and family start to lose respect for you cause they're like she just sleep with so many men how many men would have met this year and you sitting over the afternoon you literally could be able to ask somebody ain't nobody believe that oh well i don't care what people think yeah perception matters perception matters what people think males why are you here watch me video cause of what you think of me so if i ain't care about what you think then you wouldn't be here but you heal because i care about what you think so yeah perception matters now a person perception could be off and once you realize that then you know what to do with their perception but some people's perception gonna be accurate and you know what to do with that so what people think matter so that's why that's why some people they say oh well i've been with this man and for a year two years i still ain't met his family he don't see you on that level he don't see you on that level you're not worth the meeting his family see men do it men will do it and see now the man who introduced people to his family right away his family just know that he is is loose his family know that he he's searching that he just desperate for love he a hopeless romantic or he just a dog his family already know his mo and a man you know he don't really care as much about them knowing the real him but what a man will do different than a woman is if a man mama tell him that woman ain't for you and she got a legitimate argument as to why then and his mama got a little bit of sense you're gonna get cut off you're gonna get cut off eventually it might not be right away he might use you for everything he wants he want to flip you and toss you he had you this way he has it that way he had in this place he had in that place he gonna get all that good right there at you don't get all of that out you you finna be jumping giant you finna be here you you hit me everything he gonna get all of that out you when he get all of that action now he's gonna listen to mama but a woman mom you just do not understand you just do i understand please do not bring your problems on to me i am happy this is a great amazing man i have known him for 31 days 6 hours 12 minutes and 49 seconds and you cannot steal that from me and i just listened to a guy named tony guys and he did a video on toxic family and you need to listen to it because you are toxic you know what i am gone now you can draw up me into it now you misusing my name fighting for the throne boy that you've known for 32 days six hours and 49 minutes and 12 seconds then cut your mama without cussing don't hung up on your mama accusing her when she just see clearly she trying to tell you this is a grown boy i listen tony gaskins too cause you told me about him already i already know who he is and i heard what he said about grown boys and this man fit the bill and so you know what daughter all right you can get mad with me i'm staying on your case cause i brought you in this world i'm staying on your case because i ain't gonna let him take you out uh cuz i brought you in and said that what your mama trying to get you to understand listen to her it's a grown boy not it not to be honest with you your mama could be a addict she could be a an intuition still strong you could meet a woman that is addicted to some strong and she still reads you head to toe one of the strongest forces in the world is a woman's intuition and your intuition is strong but you fighting against your own intuition to appease your desperation because you're so desperate for love you tired of seeing other people with love that you don't want to be patient you're not supposed to be on your bike you do you claim you love the lord but you on your bike you claim you christian you know your pastor you talk to your pastor you claim you got mentors but you got mentors to play a role your mentors is pawns on your chessboard your mentors are just placeholders cause you on your back you ain't listen to god you listen no mentor you're on your bike you sucking and ducking sucking and ducking shucking and jiving well y'all y'all thought off in the curse i don't curse you don't know that by now so but this is what you are here doing [Music] god like wow okay all righty let's get on over here to this system here bless her she just was praying to me do you [Music] did you got you trying god don't try god like that don't try god like that come on man don't play with the lord don't play with the lord you down there slobbing on the naw singing on the microphone and then be spitting in there praying before you go to bed the lord like oh hold on hold on don't don't let the world come out that same mouth are you talking to me get your life together calling on me after you just got done doing all of that come on the man just had you looking like you on a see-saw and then you calling me it's tell my lord forgive him for my sins bless my sleep wake me up in the morning [Music] come on man listen to me stop being desperate for love take your time be patient the stakes are higher today the stakes higher today the men ain't playing fair today today it ain't just about playing you to get this hill between your leg somebody grown boy playing for keeps somebody grown boy taking lives some of these grown boys ruining lives putting a recompense in your body that is incurable you hear me somebody grown boy is handing out incurable diseases some of the diseases can kill you someone you could live with [Music] with some abbrevia or whatever it is but some of them killing you taking your life and they doing it without remorse and you know why it's because they can't see god because they can't heal god because they ain't gay god no chance they don't have a fear and reverence and respect for the lord so that's why you got to have the fear and reverence and respect for yourself because see these grown boys have been turned over to a reprobate mind so that's why i don't waste my time talking to them i don't waste my time talking to no grown boy because he grown and he has made a choice but see you i'm talking to you because you still got time to choose you still got time to use your righteous mind you still could do what's right you still know what's right from wrong but you get caught up cause you so desperate for love and see is women so desperate to have a man that they go to praising a man go to praising a boyfriend go to sean the boyfriend off you should never post a picture of a man inside of 12 months you shouldn't even mention you got a boyfriend inside of 12 months publicly you got to stop letting me in take you off the market take you off the market publicly so nobody can shoot they shot at you but he ain't off the market publicly and and see the market for you different than the market for him because he men not crazy men ain't crazy and see women it's a lot of women that's ruthless it's a lot of women that's heartless it's a lot of women that's all out savages see one thing about men is men no men that's why i try to tell y'all a lady a lady coming in comments yesterday tomorrow you know she a combat veteran i said man you not a man you not a man what you had to go to war to do a man do that in the streets in the civilian streets what you had to go to war to do you not a man that's a dick just cause you not like that as a woman we ain't told my two i'm talking about men see these men different these men differ and see and these women different too in the sense of some of the women's savagery see a man can your man compose you inside of 12 months and still have jump offs coming out to him in the dm still how jump i was coming after him in the deal and and some women and it's me and too some people just shout out if people that write me on email and dm and say hear my number give me a call i need some advice do i look like that's how i could be reached i know i'm humble i i know i'm humble i know i come on but do i really look like you just could dm me send me your number and i'ma call you no i'm a profession now i'm a professional now you got to go to mymentor.life and you got the book of session and you got to wait until that session or you could pay for a vip session but i ain't calling nobody on demand but my wife and my children you said i'm saying but some people just they mind just think they can have whatever they want and and and so it's your man could be posting you and it's still women who think they can have whatever they want but see with men we don't unless the man is shout out but with me if a man see a woman post a man he not the man not going to shoot his shot unless he thank your man soft unless he think your man saw fool gazing might like men you know whatever unless he feel like that about your man he's not i'm gonna come in your dms he's gonna come here dm but see with my wife i don't i don't been in her dms before now she not know she gonna be showing booty and bending all over and all of that so you know it a man got to have some kind of substance to be attracted to a woman with substance you know these grown boys they like to see booty cheeks online my wife's not showing booty cheeks online never had i never will that's her choice praise god i chose her but it ain't no men in my white dm ain't no man because when you see a man giving the game away that i give and that's one thing i know about men who giving away the game i know that they gotta look crazy in them because to break the man law you got to have some you got to have you some kahunas you got to have your set of cahoons to break the man cold because you know that you willing to die about that that you're willing to die by that message that garden told you to give so even though guys that's faking i still got a iota of respect for him because he put his life on the line by giving away the game because it could be a crazy boyfriend or a crazy husband that come for his head because his message made that woman lead that man and that man could come for his head so it's risk involved so when a man that's why men don't try me publicly or directly i've never had a man try me publicly or directly because he know for me to be doing what i'm doing that i got to be a hinge from crazy that i got to be and it ain't really crazy but he know i got to be bald ball to the wall bowl he know that he know that he will get laid down he know that because he say ain't no way in the world a man gonna break the man law break the man cole unless he willing to go all the way so it ain't men and my wife dm and if they would i pro i wouldn't even do nothing to him anyway because i know who i married and i knew he'll be doing it just because i said this here and he'll be a laughingstock but you see what i'm saying it's gonna be tess when you post that man you taking yourself off the market so men know not to shoot they shot at you but if he posts you it still could be women coming to him and he could be posing you just to make his ex-girlfriend mad using you as a pawn to make his ex-girlfriend mad to see if she gonna start to like him and she gonna come back and then he's gonna drop you like a bad habit that why you should not post a man inside of 12 months because at 12 months is when you can say this is real before 12 months with a man it ain't real that's play play let's play play that's puppy love it's a facade that's a mirage it's not real on day 366 that's when you can say okay we might have some here and that don't mean go post no whole collage no 30-day tribute to the man because you don't wait at 12 months no you keep your business to yourself and you let the man praise you you let the man promote you you let the man put you on a pedestal because that's what he's supposed to do my wife don't go on my wife don't praise me i be seeing i be seeing women praise their boyfriend retweeting their little boyfriend whatever he got going on showing off their little boyfriend you go to my white page it's not a a tony gaskin promotion page she posting about what she want to post by because the queen ain't got to be praising and promoting no man because that's what the man supposed to be doing for her these people look up to my wife and respect my wife because of what i say about her the bible say let no man bear witness of himself so i'm gonna do a course for for wives to me teaching it based on what i learned from watching my wife she ain't gonna teach it because she's not gonna bear witness for herself i got to bear witness over and i'm gonna tell you what a queen looked like what a wife looked like because i'm married but she ain't gonna do a court talking about herself you see what i'm saying so you gotta understand that it's the man place to be praising and promoting you and then let him do that long enough the way you know it's real and so you stop buying into this representative and you know what's real hey this tone of gas i got to go on coming up on an hour so now this will look course i'm gonna be shooting videos as i think about it on step by step somebody gonna overlap but it always will be one sentence in there that could set you free hey god bless you for the aspiring life coaches make sure you click the link in the description go ahead and get your certification and join us on mymentor.life i'll talk to you soon

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 59min 58sec (3598 seconds)

Published: Mon Sep 14 2020