A man and his mind tricks!

hey hey tony gaskins here popping in real quick don't have much time today i plan to go live later tonight though um i got a question just really it was talking about the mind tricks that men play and i want to express this because it really breaks down relationships and it hinders us from our greatness in a relationship and almost every man does it for a period of time in his grown boy stage and so it's kind of playing off of the video i did talking about you know why men like to control and you have to really think about this and you gotta understand this because what a man will do is he will make you feel crazy he will make you feel insecure he will ask you open-ended questions he'll corner you and have you apologizing for something he did wrong he'll flip the script on you and have you crying when he hurt you and had but have you crying out of remorse and apologizing to him for having feelings for having an intuition for knowing what you know and not being crazy he'll have you apologizing to him and so you got to be mindful of this now and you got to pay attention to this because this right here it'll catch you off guard and it really plays into a woman's desperation because typically desperate women fall for the mind tricks that men play and so a man can you you can see a message pop up on a man phone and it's a woman name and you can ask him hey what's going on now i saw the mess pop-up and i never look at the phone but it's a lady name over there and the next thing you know he will have you feeling crazy because he oh wow wow so you looking at my phone and you like well the phone sitting right here between us like right here beside it popped up it lit up on the screen i just was looking over there like wow you have daddy issues oh my goodness that nevermind i forgot to that one in the home that's right so okay did you ever think that that could be my cousin i have female cousins and then you you like well it says hey boo oh my goodness halloween coming up are you that insecure that's just how my cousin and i talk it's like what's up and the reason why she did it is because she know women like you insecure and now look here she told me to watch out for y'all and it hit now you questioning me so the next thing you know you kind of like you know that big swallow where you could see oh you only got an apple you see that right there in your neck esophagus and you start to feel stupid like man you know what man that is not attractive i i am insecure and now you starting to think about your ex and what he did to you and how he got you insecure when you literally just watched another woman text yo quote-unquote man text your single boyfriend hey boo and now you blaming yourself next thing you said no that now you on my mentor.life i heard tony actually told me that my mentor dot light let me book a session cause i'm i'm just losing i am too insecure now you all on my mentor.life booking a session because you caught your boyfriend your single boyfriend getting a text from another woman and he flipped it on you just like that and made you feel crazy now you feeling crazy now you feeling insecure now you feeling weak now you blaming your daddy with him he blaming you now you believe you blaming your daddy you said what i mean so you have to think about this and the reason why a man does this and when i say a man i'm talking about a grown boy the reason why he does this is because it creates more insecurity and with this insecurity what happens is it makes you indebted to him it makes you start to seek his approval you know just like a little puppy you start to seek his approval oh okay okay it's hey is this confident enough all right okay i see you looking at another woman okay i'm just gonna look over here like i don't see it you breaking your neck go go gather nick trying not to catch him looking at that other woman booty you twitching because he didn't broke you down and got you feeling so insecure so lost so weak so desperate because he took your intuition which was spot on and made you feel crazy you watch him lock eyes with that woman and undress her with his eyes and then you allow him to convince you that you insecure what look do you see the nike sign right there that's what i was looking at the nike stove you know i love george and that's why we at the outlet i'm looking at the knife though trying to see if there's a line in there i ain't even recognize that woman you talking about so now the woman she didn't pass by now he didn't got an eye full you saw it tap nobody and now he made you feel crazy got you thinking he looking past her into the tinted glass of the store to check on the see if it's a line and y'all 500 yards from the store but that one was right there between y'all in the store with all white on white jeans on white low-cut cleavage hanging out shirt on so you know what he was looking at but now he got you feeling again insecure woman with daddy wounds daddy issues need some help he was looking through her never even seen her and you crazy now see the reason why grown boys do this is because it makes you he gets you in a place where you eating out his hand [Music] you seeking his approval oh am i confident enough for you or am i forgiving enough oh am i understanding enough am i ladylike am i good enough for you am i on your level so now he got you working to get on his level when he ain't nowhere near your level that's what a grown boy do see grown men uh grown man ain't gonna do this all right now grown man still might slip up and see that woman but you tell oh my bad act lord forgive me lord a grown man he gone oh i'm sorry you know what i'm never going to do that so now what a wrong man going he see how he see it right now all right he recognized but now he looking the other way now he let me see what's on i got an alert on my phone from espn he walking he about to hit the pole walking because he doing everything he can not to get him a double tape or that woman in them tight white pants and so that's what a grown man gonna do grown boy he gonna get on my iphone you hear me a i-4 he looking at her and the woman feel bad she feels so bad she turned her head because she don't want to look at you because because she even felt her clothes just melt off she felt her clothes that melt off and and she caught a glimpse of you and saw how crazy you were looking because you looking like who shot johnny forgot to kill him she looking at you like oh my goodness poor woman this man just took off all my clothes and she walking around with her and she finna go buy him a pair of nikes after this man just took off all my clothes with his eyeballs and you finna go and you going to buy him some nikes so yeah he looked at the nike stove after he got done looking at her and nothing to take you in the nike stove but got you feeling so stupid and so insecure knifing to get two pass shoes at you and i ain't gonna get two pound shoes aren't you because now he didn't call the out see they all and that's what i'll be telling you it's like it's only a handful of us good men out here one two three four five me john chris larry and bo that's it it's five good dudes i know and there's women like you running us off here i am looking in the stove trying to see if there's a line in there cause i ain't want you to have to wait in that long line for the new release and then you kill me looking at that woman i ain't never seen that woman in my life so now he'll hear you i'm sorry dang i'm sorry [Music] i ain't mean to i told you i went through a lot and now so now you see he got you now he see that you believe it oh he finna pile it on nine he finna pile it on he finna keep on going keep on going he trying to get the shooting power number three he trying to get three pounds at you nine he finna pile it on see that's what a grown boy do and that's why you got to recognize it see you have to know when you're not going crazy you know you ain't going crazy you know you saw what you saw you know you know what you know so you can't let somebody talk you out at some of no insecurity okay all right insecure okay yeah still let me hold that phone thank you okay insecure all right i'm finished you absolutely around insecure oh oh so this how you feel that's what y'all be talking about okay okay all right you got your little phone all right get my purse okay all right [Music] all right well sir um well you need to call huff cuz i'm gonna tell you what you ain't got to worry about calling me and get his purse on you ain't got to worry about calling me i'm gonna tell you what because the day the last day the last day you try to play me like a fool get his purse on and i'm gonna tell you what after touching your little nasty phone ain't no telling what you be doing hands are looking you wash my hand lord look over here i'm trying to get y'all listen up and got hand sanitizer my eye now see this right here y'all cause let me tell you this purell okay this pure rail this ain't tots hand sanitizer this ain't on the list this pure rail they've been around 100 years this ain't toxic hands on time i'll put my hand sanitizer on and y'all all in the comment oh tony be careful with that hand signs i do not put hands sometimes on putting oh okay video toss it if it talks that means gonna kill that 19. all right what round we around here fighting y'all worrying about enhancing tyler ain't got no open cuts on my hand all i have sometimes i can get all right and i'm still i'm living i'm doing just fine feeling good so ain't no wrong with purell i'll tell you that i don't know what kind of hands y'all use anyway back to my store i got him sometimes in my eyes uh so now and we'll see when you catch them that's how you got to be all right i'm out of here see you later gotta go gotta go ain't gonna be to stick around yeah i'm telling you because what y'all do y'all let them grown boy talk you out your sense like what i'm telling you the other day handsome all on my shirt y'all forgiven that handsome son skirted a little too hard and he didn't talk you out your sense so now when you know that you know what you seen you don't caught what you didn't call you got to believe it you got to pay attention to it and you cannot let a man do a mind trick on you because a man will have you apologizing to him about something he did because he don't like the way you check him because he don't like the way you caught him he mad you caught him red-handed he mad you caught him red-handed he wanted you to catch him blue-handed so now you come oh my goodness i cannot believe you caught me in them see that's what you get for looking that's what you get for looking that is insecurity and that's exactly what you get see i wasn't even doing nothing i knew you was gonna look that's why i faked the whole thing that way i set that up ain't no real account i was dming that is a fake account but i knew you were gonna look and that's why i set you up now now now i'm gonna tell you what i'm gonna tell you what i it's five good men out here me chris jack and bo and i'm gonna tell you what i'm finally if you don't apologize cuz i'm fed up with this i and see the first date we had i told you that that's why i left my ex because she was insecure because she accusing me of cheating on her and she ain't do not she caught me three times and then gonna get mad by catching me three times i'm like what magic johnson got caught 86 times and you mad with me over three times you see what will and jade are doing and i told you about that and so now he didn't normalize his crazy he didn't normalize his inadequacy he didn't normalize his grown boy behavior and so you sitting there and with the mind trick you sitting there and you like [Music] he got a point because i know myself at least 14 times she even told me they didn't broke up and okay so keisha and jamal 14 times all right uh-huh tasha and damian is like they might be 25 times they broke up so what what me and him at one two three four times yeah i mean like they said you ain't been through now i mean look what keisha k or gucci went through look what beyonce had to deal with it she she worked hundreds of millions of dollars so you sit there and you start the the mind trick working on you the mind trick working on you talk yourself right out of your comments saying you not now you all the way the mind trick done so now you so now you willingly and then you start going to your friends giving bad advice because of what you're dealing with i cannot count how many times a woman came to me and told me what her friend told her and i just i just dropped the phone i just that's how i be i could drop the phone when i hear some of the advice that y'all friends be giving y'all girl ain't no man gonna wait six months i know i know at least 10 people right now slept with a man on the first night and they married so girl i'm gonna tell you like right here girl you better put the city girls album on and bless it wide open because the man today is not waiting you want a man all right you want to keep driving that elantra you looking at me in the mercedes-benz why you think i'm in the benz girl cause i ain't scared that pete talk spanish english french jamaican patois and so now she didn't gave you this bad advice you believe so now you start to believe what your friends and told you so now you giving your friend bad advice because the man associated the help mind trick you so now you talking to your little sister your little niece your little cousin well i'll just be honest with you and in 2020 slash 2021 it's a new day it's a new day because what what they telling you online like i understand there's people out there like tony gaskins who try to give you this all fairy tale story of like don't sleep with a man and like well man do this you got lee and you gotta go he always gotta go but listen i'm in a relationship a successful relationship and i got to tell you like you just have to put up with some stuff it's like okay she want to text her man call her and curse her out so now you giving your friends and family members bad advice because the man that completely stole your whole mind he took your whole righteous mind you see what i'm saying this real stuff right here you just been through it you might have been through it and if you've been through it you know a woman had been through it lost a whole mind the man just took the whole mind and got her believing that what she doing is okay that what he doing is okay it's it's literally across the board verbal of you emotional of you and it's women that believe it's a part of a relationship and it's okay that man get mad and i want oh my goodness and then she telling her friend girl that's just what you have to go through it's just love in the new millennia it just look do you mean millennium what's up girl you know what i'm talking about the millennial millennium same thing 2k y2k that's just love today you've seen what such went through what says went through what sussex went through why do you think uh tina turner music was so great that if people don't uh this ain't politically correct and i'm go i might sound crazy but i'm a risk sounding crazy right now ike was the reason tina was great if i can't backhand her you think she would have hit them notes like that absolutely not you got to check yourself you got to check yourself you got to talk to yourself you got to talk to yourself what are you doing who who who told you how you got tricked into believing that a relationship ain't real until you settle for him cheating that a relationship ain't real until he put hands on you that a relationship ain't real until you catch him in the dm and that when you catch you got to keep on catching them keep on catching them and that you got to tough it out and you got to stay there and you got to be there because that's love and that's your relationship and if you give up on that then you giving up on everything and that you will never have a relationship if you give up on a man after three mistakes after catching him cheating with three different women if you give up you'll never have your testimony that god test you so that you can have a testimony god allowed him to cheat so that you can give him praise on high so that you can help the church stay married they need to hear that you was cheated on and beat it on y'all said beat it on and that you weathered the storm and that you climbed up the rough side of the mountain like the song say and that you've been wading in the water you said i mean you didn't hurt you heard somebody give a testimony like that in church and everybody looking alike take the mic on take the microwave take the microphone then pounce the sleep widow take the microphone we got to get it together we got to get it together and a man asked me a man asked me yesterday uh dude like for one bruh where don't come from we don't call each other dude we bruh all right someone do why do you so come down so hard on the men like women are perfect everybody know women ain't perfect women or women ain't perfect but from my vantage point doing this every single day women ain't perfect but the man is trying to be the head the man called himself the head of the household so if you want to be the head of the household you got to be the leader you got to lead with the change you got to be the change as the man that's why i'm hard on them and that and they ain't talking to no man i'm just exposing the game so that a grown boy can't play the game ain't talk to the man so when the man hear the message like okay like oj say if it don't fit you must acquit if it don't fit you must have quit so listen if it don't fit you play why shut up get out the way this ain't for you just for the grown boys get out the way hush blocking the work of the lord this work of the lord we're trying to get relationship healthy so get out the way and be quiet go on a channel that's giving men praise they don't deserve i'm a man i'm seeing what y'all doing i'm not impressed when i'm impressed with the behavior of me and hot men treating women oh i'm gonna be the first one to tell you you know what i'm be taking credit i'm like lord my word i'm paid off lord i thank you but everybody getting married they faithful the gossip laws don't went out of business they ain't got them to lie by these men so faithful ain't catching nobody cheating the gossip blog had to change not a gossip blog reporting on squirrels talking about oh yes another squirrel had a baby today in national park because they ain't got nothing to talk about you see what i'm saying so i'm gonna be the first one to take when i'm impressed with behavior men but when i look at the state of the world right now well look here y'all gonna be glad on curse on curse but when i look at the state of the world right now and man ain't doing nothing impressive man ain't no not special as the head of the household at the lead now when we start leaving when we start loving one woman and being faithful to that woman stop trying to manipulate that one stop trying to deceive that woman start trying to get over on that woman you got that phone at work subscribe to your only fans account and you got to hook up to your single homeboy bank account and you giving him the money every month and you're going to work on your lunch break on your only fans account watching these women on old and fine doing whatever they do on there you know what i ain't even know typed in the domain i know what it is i don't heard that because i see it on social media ain't under no rock ain't enough titan domain you know what i want to pop them up on my screen i don't want no ads when i'm online i don't know ads popping up on my screen how my wife thinks or something but see that y'all that's kind of games y'all boys playing got your little side phone you're doing all your little cheating why yet work got that woman overseas that you met on on the dating site where you got somebody else picture up there and you talk to the woman for what just to get new picture just get new pictures you getting the whole kick out of getting new pictures at the job because your job boring because you ain't walking in your purpose because you want to go get certified change your life you see what i'm saying so understand this right here this right here my videos is not man bashing it's game exposing i ain't never bashed a man because if you a man my videos ain't even addressing you but if you're a grown boy you hit me a video a video doing like this to your toes your toe like this you you you older screaming holland you mean if you're a grown boy but if you a man you heard a video of mine that's for you because i ain't here the the clap you up for doing what you supposed to do that ain't my job that's not my calling to be on here hey fellas hey good job hey you took your woman out on the date friday congrats hey what up what hey know what you gotta do what take your woman out on friday night that's not uh yo hey you took trash out hey yeah come on man what y'all what you want to cut [Music] well let me hey well let me let you stay with me you come watch me for seven days and see how i treat my wife but you want somebody to clap it off for you you want to cook it but you'll be making a monument on me if you see how i treat my white y'all boys y'all boy want a cookie for taking a woman on a date y'all boy want a cookie for not angela for not touching yourself for seven days y'all boy want a cookie y'all boy want a certificate like for doing what you're supposed to do so understand right here i don't know what man bastion is what i do know is exposing the lames so are you elaine playing game all right i'm on your neck i'm on your neck absolutely that's what i'm called for that what i'm called to that what i'm here to do expose the devil because you devilish and you ain't living right you're lying you're cheating you're deceiving you're manipulating that's the devil's work why because it's breaking down the family it breaking down the household you can't build nothing and then you want to haul about black lives matter black wives matter yeah your black li if black lives matter treat your woman right treat your woman right cause if you treat your woman right then y'all gonna be able to treat your kids right so now your life is a representation of black lives matter but you want to dog your woman out then go in the street holler black light no they don't no they don't cut you dogging your woman not so hot so how they matter you see what i'm saying that what y'all boy be confusing me but you got me bent got me messed up got me messed up think i'm gonna be out here condoning the tomfoolery i think i'm gonna be online clapping it up clapping it up for you stroking your ego cause cause cause you didn't been fake for six months cause because you didn't took your one round on a date four weeks in a row [Music] you know he got a cookie all right this deal hickory cookie this is what you want this did this what you want come on now y'all got to get better y'all got to do better nobody need to praise you man somebody praise you i'm here to expose the devil so if you ain't doing right i'm on your head you hear me if you're doing right all you're going to be able to say hey what he ain't lying but hey he saw it now let me send this to my sister let me send it to my mama let me send my auntie let me send this my cousin but hey he ain't told now i'm like that what a real man gonna say about my video wrong boy why i see you a mile away in the comments what hush block get out the way you hearing the lord work you sacrilegious block get out the way gotta go hey it's tony guys i'm gonna tell you like it right here this is the only place in the world you ask anybody who know me i'm a whole nother person on the video than who i am in the real real everyday life you know why because it's the lord's work so lord give me the energy that i need to do these videos to convey a message because you sitting looking at a computer screen you're not with me in person so lord give me the wisdom the knowledge the understanding the energy i need to deliver this message because his message is to set the captors free you are in bondage to a slave relationship to a broken relationship so now you are rendered ineffective in the world so now you can't push the story forward you can't move the story forward now you are rendered ineffective in the world so now your life becomes meaningless when you are in a toxic broken relationship because you cannot contribute so now you just social security number you're not leaving a legacy because you're in this broken sorry relationship that's hindering you when you could be building business you could be creating you could be touching live you could be mentoring you could be coaching you could be speaking you could be writing books you could be serving at the soup kitchen you could be starting company out the company foundation out the foundation helping other people start there you could be doing so much but you so drained you so empty you so perplexed you so confused you so broken you so caught up in bondage in that toxic relationship and and guess what the lord sent me to do break them break them shackles hey we got what yup don't care what you hollering about hey the truth gonna hurt before it helped why cause it's gonna tap dance on that toe yeah be before it help but after guess what truth only step on your toes when you walking out of line so you got to get the message now forgive me for going on a whole nother thing i had to touch on that all these videos just a flow i don't have no script like a lot of youtubers i don't have no script on here all right i just gotta flow from the heart for me to be on here and do this i gotta do it the way i do it hey god bless you if you get to watch this before the live tonight god bless you hopefully i can get do a live tonight i i've posted that i will so i'm just charge up my phone so let me charge up my phone and get going god bless you we'll talk soon

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 34min 53sec (2093 seconds)

Published: Mon Jul 27 2020