Women: The Truth You Don’t Want To Hear (Bonus Video)

I want to talk to you about this and help you understand about men and men changing and it's not that complex but a lot of people just don't seem to get it and you have to realize that's what you gotta realize is that love is a moral Act what I mean by that it takes discipline and it takes morals to truly love in its full capacity so for a man to be 100% faithful to a woman he has to have discipline and he has to have morals now what I'm about to say no sound stupid to you it's not gonna make a lot of sense to you but I need you to understand this if you meet a man who he has no discipline meaning he's addicted to a drug even if it's marijuana the drug has been approved in different states and different places around the world if he has an addiction to anything that's not going to be a faithful man he is very capable of cheating and nine out of ten times he will cheat on you if you got a man who is still rebelling against wisdom against common sense meaning he's just in denial he's rebelling he this man is over the age of 25 and he's still getting tattoos and he's you know smoking and he's getting drunk and he's going to the club and he's or the strip club but he's or he's into pornography and all of these things that are a deviation from stability and he is still trying to express himself he's still hurting from his pain and instead of healing his pain addressing his pain he's trying to put band-aids over it he's still trying to play a role and to look apart today we got guys going through you know a lot of jewelry a lot of piercing a lot of tattoos everything is an expression and you got to understand now if this person is an artist meaning and when I say artists I mean like true sense of the word you know like a Chris Brown when you are artists on that level you know humans can't really speak to that level of artistry when you that gifted you're gonna go through a level of spiritual warfare that other people won't understand because of the love that you operating at and creating at from your from your spirit from your heart now that type of person but even we've seen in his life the struggles that he's had publicly and that speaks to that now you go to any other type of man and you see a man is still warring in his spirit and he's not winning the war because he does not have the tools he does not have the weapons to win the war he's fighting a spiritual battle in the flesh meaning he's trying to win it by how much alcohol he can drink how much percocet he can take how much pain he can endure under the needle getting another tattoo how much weed he can smoke he's trying to rid himself of his pain and his demons and his insecurities and his fear through man-made remedies he's losing the battle if this man does not know the higher power and he does not have spiritual web to fight spiritual battles then you as a woman are entering a losing battle and you're going into a situation where unless you truly have those spiritual weapons and that you were called and it has been told to you that you are to be a catalyst in his life and that you will be graced and you will be given the strength and the wisdom and the clarity to speak life into this man's life and that's your voice and your influence will become a anchor in his life and he will be able to grow with you to learn from you to be inspired by you then you own your own and you will lose that battle if you have not been instructed by God to go into the trenches and to be that woman and most women are not given that call because most women are given to the lust of the world seeking approval seeking to be affirmed through likes through the size of your butt and your breasts and how you look how sexy you can look to a man and most woman's heart is not in the right place so you cannot help that man you cannot save that man you cannot change that man because hands need to be laid on you in prayer in anointing and so you have to understand that this type of man is not going to change through just human influence through physical things through how good you are in the bedroom how much you cook how much you clean that's going to just stroke his ego that's going to reinforce his grown boy behavior and that's going to enable him disable him [ __ ] him and I want you to understand that so when you see these men you have to pray for the man and you got to love them and care from for him from a distance meaning that you can hug someone with nine inch blade sticking out of them superglue it on their clothes you got a pray form you can love them but you got to keep your distance because that's something that they have to go through and your presence sanction is the environment so what happened it is a lot of times women going in the trenches with the wrong motives you're really going in there because you want financial security you're really going in there because you want some clout you're really going in there because your body clock is ticking and you tired of being talked about you tired of being the barren woman you tired of being a single woman with no husband and no children from marriage you may have children outside of marriage or from a past marriage but you trying to be something and you want to award you want a cookie for having you a man but you don't have a man you got a grown boy and then when the grown boy shows you that he's a grown boy and that he's unwilling to change for you because you were not called and authorized to be in his life to begin with that you did not hear the instruction that was given to you that will say hey stay clear and Lee him so that I can reach him because you gonna block the pathway to hell because you're gonna be licking his wounds you're gonna be reinforcing his toxic and growing boy behavior and as long as you dare to catch him then he can't hit rock bottom because success is how high he bounces after he hits rock bottom so I need you to stay out the way and just stay in prayer I didn't call you to go in the trench because when you do that you're gonna be damaged and that's what a lot of women don't understand is you gotta let these boys become me on they own and you got to stay out the way you can't be laid up in fornication or going into marriage and going into a covenant that has not been authorized ordained you set yourself up for failure and then when he shows you who he really is not you looking crazy now you want to look up and say oh what happened wasn't worth going on I didn't expect this what's going on he showed you who he was he showed you what he was into he showed you that he was living in rebellion prodigal son that he was unwilling to change and unwilling to grow he showed you that he showed you he didn't want better he showed you that he perpetrating from flexing flossing faking he showed you that he sought he soft hearted that he heard it he's insecure he's lost he's confused he showed you that but he showed you that he's in a season that he don't want any help he took on somebody to reinforce his behavior he want somebody to tell him that it's okay they keep doing what you doing they keep going down that lost path and listen until y'all understand that you gon struggle you gon struggle and so all all the prayer don't matter if you're not gonna have sacrifice and if you're not gonna be obedient all that don't matter you talking to yourself if you ain't going you can't just talk to God you got to listen to God and and what God is telling you is I can tell you to go in that situation in the first place you did that for your own insecurity you did that on your own motives well God gonna tell you is you got to get out of the way before you become a casualty of his spiritual warfare because it's bigger than you he's not wrestling with flesh and blood you ain't authorised you ain't ordained you ain't anointed you ain't appointed for that mission that's not your mission so why are you in sub mission when you out a mission when you're not in place you're not aligned for your blessing cuz see your husband was over there your husband was the man who you said it was two inches too short that was your husband you want this man for other reasons your husband was a guy who was making thirty five thousand a year but he was on his way and he had the character and he's gonna get the three hundred and fifty thousand then he gonna get the 3.5 million then he gonna get the thirty-five million but you didn't respect character you just was looking for currency so you got the man with money but the man with money has poor character and it does not matter how much money you have if you don't have character because money cannot buy character but if a man has character eventually he's gonna make any amount of money he wants to make and that's what's happening today so so y'all gotta stop looking up y'all women gotta stop looking up and stop looking crane and stop how could he do this to me he was doing that when you met him how could he do this he showed he was gonna do that then who you marry never you decided to get engaged to never you decided to date he would lost as an upside down GPS when you first sat down with him you didn't see any real growth you didn't see him reading his Bible you didn't see him consecrate in his body his mind you didn't see him changing his habits changing his lifestyle you didn't see him do any of that so what made you think you was going to get a real man but see you got to look within you and you got to understand that all the power lies with you because he has to get on one knee and say will you marry me and before he said that he has to say will you be my girlfriend so you got the power when he wants to lie down with you he has to say can we go there can we go all the way you have the right to say no you're not ready work on yourself it is Tony gasps y'all want to hear no true

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 14min 42sec (882 seconds)

Published: Wed Dec 18 2019