Never take him back if...

hey Tony guys in here popping in you know what talk to you about some data you know came across my desk yesterday or the day before and it really comes down to when a woman should take a man back now I'll be honest with you what I see mostly typically when I deal with men in one-on-one sessions and I could think of right now I have one male client who went to my mentor dot life to book a session with me and he's talking about branding he's talking about branding building his business he's in a relationship it's healthy he's treating his girlfriend right and so he's talking about branding all my other male clients are talking about getting their woman back and or trying to be better you know do right for their woman because she's on the verge of leaving and so typically men when it comes to relationships men focus on the pound of cure instead of the ounce of prevention and guys come to me with these impossible situations a lot of times sometimes it's not impossible well a lot of times it's not impossible because women take men back very often so a guy typically has like a 90% chance to get a woman back and whatever that means to a woman watching this let it mean what it means but a godly has a 90% chance to get his wonder back that's how often women take me and back and put up with so much stuff so whenever a guy comes to me for coaching I'm always like if you really trying to change if you're really trying to grow trust and believe she probably ain't going nowhere you know but make sure you actually trying to grow and I asked him those tough questions like are you going to get this woman back just a user again just to cheat on her again just to dog around again because if you're gonna do that you're going in the 80 mm with a hot look hut in the corner or Satan house if that's what you coming to me for to pretend like you trying to do better just so you can get her back and then doggone all over again like it's gonna be some stuff coming to you for doing that to that woman and I give them the tough questions we had those tough conversations and I really asked a man you know and I'll take him through and I asked him I said you know are you sure there's not someone else out there for you are you sure that you are meant for her are you sure she is the one because if you did all of this that you did to her she may not be the one for you sounds like you don't really love her sounds like you think you love her sounds like you wanna a little partner but this is not your wife based on what I'm hearing and so I take him through that really and you know 10% of the time a guy say you know what you're right you're right she's not the one the other 90% of the time men will be like no no I really love her I really love her I want to be with her and then for me it's a moment where I get to put the mirror in my face and just look and say like man why are we so stubborn and stupid stubborn and stupid as men know the words that come to mind stubborn and stupid I'm like why do we do this do we do the stuff we do and then talk about we love her and we want her back and that's why I did a video on the human teddy bear in his life that child lured a teddy bear but really take that teddy bear through the ringer but if that terrible get lost bee boohoo crying be crying the eyes on you take the teddy bear you do some today teddy bear they lose it so it's like how do you love this teddy bear were you dragging it through the dirt you yank it off the arm you keep plucking off the eye you want it up against the wall when you get mad how do you love this teddy bear and that's really what men do men have used women as a human teddy bear and and then when the woman wakes up in toy store when she wake up and she start the thing she's like what in the world am i doing let me get up out of him and she ready escape the toy store okay and then the man losing his mind oh my god hold it he trying to he trying to set up meeting with Louis Farrakhan on TV J he trying to go on the radio he trying to put billboards up he want to fly a plane across the sky to say will you marry me it's like all of a sudden now the man want to do everything under the Sun to get you on me back and I'm sitting there like wow I really used to be out there I will see me I was a little different I was just like I'm gonna do what I do and if for one one lead she could lead I ain't chasing you so I was I was a reverse of a doll and I knew that what I was doing meant that I didn't love this woman now I'm being on this side of it I just I don't be understanding like I really be lost I be needing to watch somebody video I'm like coach me since I'm coaching everybody who's gonna coach me on this cuz I'm confused does a lot of times I'm just like how you take a woman through all of that and didn't talk about you lover and I'm talking about you know it'd be a lot of stuff I ain't talking about he slipped up and was emotionally cheating one time I'm not talking about that I'm talking about evening be taking women through the ringer you mean do all kind of stuff Wow but listen to me let me tell you this if you're a woman watching this now you're gonna do what you want to do now one thing you got to realize is I in every video I can't address every caveat and nuance okay so you're gonna have to watch all the videos and you can't judge my videos by a title because I talk about a whole lot more than what the title suggests and sometimes I got a title at random because I don't want to get flagged by YouTube's getting you know cuz a title can't have certain words in it on my channel so understand that so you may have to sit and watch 15 minutes just to see where this thing going and it might be your answer but a lot of y'all coming thinking that I'm genie in the box you know jackin the-box a genie in the bottle and all you video requests and already got videos on that but you ain't took the time to sit down and go click on the titles and listen to the videos okay so understand that there's some hidden messages in so many videos that gotta titled it that you keep skipping over thinking that ain't for you alright understand that now let me tell you this right here never ever take a man back if he put hands on you okay then when I say put hands on you alright I'm talking about with intent to do that okay if you put hands on you never take a man back after that okay you he did anything like that never take a man back after that like you if you won't take a man back after he cheated if he cheated one time okay if he cheated two times I've still seen people work through that not go to three four five times you wasting your time but again all this is a personal choice but one thing I'm telling you is if a man put hands on you never take a man back because listen although yes you know y'all want to argue the mute point of although yes you can die from emotional yes and y'all got on them when I'm skating over some of these words cuz how many words you know it's not on here okay supposed to be on here so yes you can you know meet the Lord go meet the Lord offer emotional yes you could go meet the Lord off of mental off of verbal but that's a that's that's not that's a long slow you you actually have to be mentally ill so if you have to have something going on in you but if somebody calling you out your name talking to you talking down to you talking you like trash but that did literally kill you for you for you to want to do something to yourself then that is something mentally that's going on there that has not been addressed so it's the situation to where a lot of times you're like somebody may do something to themselves in the name of what somebody else done to them but then you'll see several other people the whole world has happened to them and they don't do anything to themselves like everything has happened to them I coached a woman one time or not coach why I wrote a book with a woman one time who was taken advantage of by one one man told him I'm on that man mama didn't believe it mama went and told the man about it you know what she was saying and how she lying the man like oh wow mama don't believe it stepdaddy heard about it because mama didn't believe it so then stepped de stepdaddy's stepped in started taking advantage and the only way that this time was 8 and 9 told mama mama didn't believe that step daddy was taking advantage then another man heard about it in the community he started taking advantage but now it came out because now the only had turned 10 and that man got her pregnant so she turned up pregnant at 10 and then mama went back to the first man that she was talking to about it cuz he hold a position important position and that man told her mama to make the daughter get married so now the daughter got married at 11 years old to a grown man so 9 I have seen several instances where the whole world have been thrown at a person and that lady that I'm telling you about became a millionaire three times over start multiple businesses businesses and different industries never went past ninth grade but became a millionaire so I said it to say when I say you know verbal and emotional ain't gonna kill you what I mean by that is it doesn't have the power it's not physically taking you out you have to take yourself out that's that's on the mental side of things but when it comes to visit physical you ever seen the movie on he got game with the NBA player Ray Allen in and Denzel Washington playing the daddy and he gets into it with his wife and he push her and she fall and she hit she hit the temple on the stove hit a temple on the stove lose her life you see what I mean it was a push it wasn't no knock down drag guy it was a push and that happens and so that's why I say and that's what you have to understand so a man when a man cheats on you when a man yells at you curses at you call you out your name he can tell himself he can be telling himself that he loves you most men who cheat on a woman claim to love the woman that they're cheating on most men claim to love the woman now I know it doesn't make much sense you like you love me if you cheat on me how did you love somebody and cheat on them most women who cheat on a man claim to love the man so cheating is something that people claim to be able to do while loving the person that they Chino now the reason why that is so is because there is different levels to love love is not one-size-fits-all you know if you read Corinthians 13 and you believe that that is the definition of romantic love then that would cover forgiving cheating and forgiving beating and everything in Corinthians 13 if you believe that's the definition of romantic love I don't believe that's the definition of romantic love I see that as God's love us loving another person like a stranger or enemy or the way God loves us I don't see that as talking about relationships and Corinthians 13 a lot of people do but when you think about this thing love in the man-made definition that's not inspired by God the dictionary says love one definition of love is a strong liking you know a strong affection so to be sexually attracted like all of those things are definitions of love so when we using man-made definitions of love then technically a person can love you and cheat on you because that's what they're telling themselves now there is also a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone you see what I mean I love my laptop okay I love my laptop am I in love with my laptop no I'm looking to replace it now I'm looking to buy me a new one now get right on rid of it that's the dirt between love and in love see when you in love with somebody you don't want to bring them any stress in your worry any harm you you want to cherish them you don't want to do anything to hurt them and so I think about it all the time I'm like because I'm dealing in love and relationships but I'm like you know I could easily easily cheap easily T because this [ __ ] planing women who don't have a clue who I am and I could say my name's John Henry and oh you named after the great John Henry the guy in the book the fiction yeah yeah I'm actually John Henry the third and you know depending on her race or her age she may not have a clue who I am online and so I could easily cheat you know because and there are other reason why I'm not easily cheap is because the state of women today the state of women today women getting into bed men in point five seconds so I literally could go to the grocery store meter one talk to her text her right after we lead a grocery store be at her apartment a house two hours later having her cooking dinner and then fornicating that is the state of desperation that so many women in today that's why I talk the way I talk and do what I do and and so many women will do that and think that they are empowered think that they are feminists think that they empower thing to dance controller day life and will pat themselves on the back time i man do it man do it I can do it too so it's like okay so men going to catching diseases me and building soul ties and you want to copy that you want to do that like that's what you pride yourself on the ability to be dumb like a man Wow congratulations that here is a cookie 500 Alex it's like come on but that's what's going on today so you know what easily cheap but I have no desire to cheat and I would never cheat on my wife from the moment I fell in love because now listen it also take people time to fall in love me and and women so before I fell in love oh I'll open to it oh I was I was wondering but when I fell in love with her because because I loved her before I was in love but when I fell in love with her I'm lying now I consider her pain and guess what I got two songs I'm in love with my songs I don't just love my sons I'm in love with my sons so you literally you literally will lose your life by my songs and if I gotta watch snap for a year to learn how to get get you up out of here what I it being tres that's what I do but you literally will lose your life by my sons by my wife and I don't play no games that's why if somebody says anything by my wife one lady I felt bad on the video I deal with my wife and we was on live and one lady was in karma shoe like she need to be quiet something let him let him have some shine blah blah then I saw another comment for her praising me saying oh I love these videos this is so amazing too late too late you're already blocked you already blocked for speaking ill on the Queen no if the Queen want to talk let the Queen talk okay she got to let me shine nothing okay block sorry can't take it back you block so I'll play by those that I'm in love with you what I'm telling you so that's what you got to understand about the dirt between love and in love and that's why some people say oh I know I cheated but I love her oh I know I cheated but I love him yes I love him but I cheated and so you could be sitting there like I don't make no sense but if you've been the person to do it then you understand what did people trying to say now I've never said I've never cheated on somebody that I say I love I for me when I was to cheat it way everyone loving at that time it was me being selfish but some people say that but let me help you understand about this other type so when somebody cheats on you that may be emotional of you okay psychological of you okay now when a man put hands now we talk in physical so now this right here there can be no love in that there is no love in it there's no love there's no in love when a man put him he hate you that is hate that's he and the reason why is hate is because he hates his life the only time when a man will do that to a woman okay what I'm talking about but what I'm talking about is when he hates his life and when I say he hates his life I mean he's either very unhappy with the way his life is gone what he's doing what you know the breaks he's getting or he literally hates himself from just his upbringing and all that he went through all that he suffered through he really just hates himself he hates him like his life he curses the day he was born and he takes that out on one so anytime a man gets physical you have to go you got the lead when he get physical with the intent to harm you got to leave and the reason why I say that is it's different if y'all are arguing and you get up to walk away and he hugged you you know he bear hug you or he hanging on to your ankle and you dragging him across the tile that's different his intent is not to harm he literally you know groveling a there please just talk to me don't leave and I did that one time with my wife and when I went on Oprah to talk about demand that I was in college when I was a different man and Oprah asked my wife she was like you know has he ever put hands on you and she said well one time and I said no I didn't hit you I was trying to hold you that's different now and so I understand that the difference between because I know the difference because I have been on both sides I've been that growing boy that had you no intentions now mine was not on the level that I've seen but it still was no love involved it was all from self hate so when I was 19 20 years old I went through that period and that's the largest period that it happens between ages of 20 and 24 studies show that that's when the most you know physical happens and I believe that is the most confusing time in a man's life and in a woman's life you know I've coached men who they didn't put hands the woman put hands I remember you know coaching a man and his woman punch him in the nose ah had him leakin he got done licking blood I was like whoa brother what happened to you and he was like in that one no she body slamming on the hood of a car oh you didn't win but hey it happened the other way around too but men are less likely to reported because of the way men are raised suck it up shut up beat boys don't cry so it happened both ways cuz it's on women that was raised very feisty that was raped that was abandoned I was mistreated that was dogged out and so some women become a wolf just like a man and some women with both hands faster than a man and really want to do damage and got the power to do damage so I didn't talk this ever man that knows bus look bus head split open you know from warming and angry and in that same case in that same case I'm saying this to the man to you've got to go you've got to go you've got to go now me me myself person I've never had putting hands on me in a serious way I've never had that happen and I just think that every woman that I'll be able to talk to they just kind of know they just could feel my energy and they just kind of know that tone anyone to put your hands on like that and so not to say that anything he also happened in return but I'm gonna go to the first extent or what I'm trying to do so if I got to get on that phone now on one ah yes she just hit me and I need four officers over here right now immediately do you want press Start absolutely win the court date you gave me I sold me ain't one we're going all the way but a lot of men they won't say anything they're gonna call the police they won't report anything and so I feel like anybody I ever talk to Daisy kind of new days kind of a filled with me that I'm not the one that there's not like fly and I remember the time in college that I got into it with an ex and it was not you know don't let your mind run it was no black guys buzz little police and all of that you know it was it was pushing shoving hustling and it was over you know infidelity from the woman's side of situations and I told that story you know Oprah later in my life and so but I remember being in that mindset I remember going through that and this something that I would say 80% of men go through at some stage in their life but probably less than 1% of man talk about it and so that's how I knew I was called to be somebody to work in this space because I was willing to be transparent about my life experiences and although it was not the although it was not you know knock-down-drag-out the absolute worst that has been seen I still was in that space in that mindset and so I still understand what goes in there and so and I'm here to tell you that when things get physical it has nothing to do with love that's hate and you see the self hate or is hate for the other person is hate and on that right there you got to leave and you can't come back you got to leave and you can't come back so if you hanging in the balance right now and you thinking about taking your ex back if physical physicality physical of you is was a part of what you've gone through keep going keep going about your business keep going about your business when I say recognize crazy early I'm not talking about the man who yell at you who curses at you I'm talking about the man or woman who put hands that's what I'm talking about when I say recognize crazy early because and the reason why I say recognize crazy early it's because there's a there's a progression to this so yes it may first be yelling okay then it'll be yelling with cursing then it'll be yelling with cursing and name-calling then it'll be yelling with cursing and name-calling and restraint then it'll be yelling and cursing with name-calling and restraint then with physical intent to do something and that first one their first physical intent may be a push it may be a ground it may be you know a thump a really hard thump some me and I'll hand things like a low and they could pump the skin off your forehead it may be a thought yeah it may be a pinch oh yeah somebody man I have pension so many man I have pension okay it may be mmm a low blow but is to the body I remember in college we had one of the other running backs I was a running back scat back I was a running back and one of the other running backs he was older and he was violent he hit me in the jaw one time and he hit me in the jaw he sucker punch me I was looking the other way he sucker-punched me and really he hit me because he was older than me and I took his position the coach put me to start in front of him and he was mad like that but he made it like he was mad about me telling his business to my girlfriend and my girlfriend telling his girlfriend his business that's what he said it was about but he hit me and it went hard you know it made me bite my jaw there was no swole jaw and old bus no bleed and then like that and then but that same gentleman in the locker room he gave a dissertation to the team on how to put hands on your girlfriend and his lesson to the team was listen you got subido okay but what you want to do is punch in the real just beat the ribs up you know it'll bruise all up but it's under the shirt nobody sees it that was his lesson to the team and I remember sitting there like am I really getting a lesson on this and everybody's not taking notes not literally but you know everybody's chiming in oh okay yeah hey how you know that that's what I beat on that's what have you doing and that's why I tell it that's why I tell women all the time like that's why tell women all the time like and this this the the pitifulness of of man and that's why too many men don't deal with me cuz I'm just saying with pitifulness no more but i remember when i think trump was saying something and he was talking my all that's just locker room talk i think you talking my grabbing a woman by the peel son like that he said oh that's your locker room talk and then all the athletes came i like a bond and all these guys telling my all know a locker room using I don't know what locker room he was in ain't locker room talk and I'm just like man come on man he he like that's the culture that what man teaching that's what man thing that's the real culture but wrong boys they're not gonna say yeah he right that's the culture that men have been raised and taught that you could do whatever you wanna do to a woman and she gonna deal with it grown boys gone oh oh he lied oh he lied had a true ain't true when I literally was sitting in college and I won't even met no bit College you know I was at a private school junior I believe what they called it you know private school so sorry he was come from wealth a lot of he was and have to get it out the mud they they come from wealth and deed the kind of conversation we have an in high to do this to your girlfriend and no signs be shown and you know what it just has come from self-hate self-hate its immaturity its irresponsibility so that's why I say don't take this thing lightly like because a lot of women have accepted this to be a part of a relationship I remember my ex that I was with in college when I was playing football and this was a big thing so like you could be walking down the the dorm room hallway and you just hearing screams you're hearing a scream from different rooms and these young ladies is being that's happening to them and you know at the most people would knock on the door and the guy would answer the door is everything okay in there yeah everything all right slay on the door but you just will hear this and I remember when I was studying it and learning about every nine seconds this happening and learning about its most prevalent between the ages of 20 and 24 which is college age you know which is that young confused lost age but but it's happening before that and after that it's happening in high school was happening in middle school and it's happening in 30s and 40s and 50s and 60s and 70s it's happening across the board but they was the studies was showing that it mostly happens between the ages of 20 and 24 which is just a high gross number and then it still happened in the mother ages but a lot of women I remember when I was with that girlfriend she told me that it happens it happened to all her sisters and her mom that she seen all her sisters get to-- and her mom get to-- and there were a full family you know looked on the outside like a successful healthy family and so her belief was that if a relationship doesn't get physical it's not love and a lot of women believe that and the reason being is because now the reason being the reason why a lot of women feel like it's love is because in the moment most men I would say 90% of men that I don't talk to that has done this let them put hands most men 90% of men know that they are wrong I would say 99% of men know that they are wrong you got a percentage that's just slap crazy he just slapped crazy he says he don't you hit me he is gone he he is a fry the ketchup the mustard short the drink the toy short he all of that short of a happy meal he is gone you got a percentage which maybe 1% 99% of men know that when it gets to that all right done they know they wrong they know it's wrong so 99% of men that's why I called it a lady after Tony what do you mean by WWE you know WWE is the wrestling so you know when you watching wrestling wrestling is fake so they going through the motions so he might jump up and he come down with his leg but he holding the weight of his leg and he just let it he just he let me leg hit the man but he ain't come down all the way through he jests he let the leg he'll he throwing a punch but when he put he stopping so you hit a noise and the guy when the fish get him and they do like this barely touch the other guy do that so WWE is faith now they get hurt sometimes and yet a training real but it's not like mmm a c9 MMA is real so they coming out whoa they coming out leaking they called a contused concussed I mean they literally could lose their life that's real boxing is real so what I'm saying is most men when they get into it with a woman they go WWE so dad she feel it but his intent is not to in her his intent is not to leave a showing so that he going to jail he don't want to go to jail and that's why this happened so much and so what happens is the woman takes it as is she takes it as if she got a whoopin she looks at it as if the same way her daddy would whoop her because now some of you who got weapons you know that every night then you get a whipping that draw blood but you live if you got whipped with the wrong switch or you got hit with the wrong part of the belt it draw blood Italy Italy verb rules oh well some of you got weapons then you know what I'm talking about you get weapon then this foreign to you and you call indicia somebody you don't even know hey listen you over there like Karen yeah I don't listen Tony got some video and it is just dawn on me I just learned that african-american children are being abused and I need you to go to my african-american neighborhoods right now yeah so some people don't know if you know what's paint you don't know that something and woman drew blood left foot bruise and so this thing is serious this thing is serious and this is what happens guess what if a parent keep doing that today child and DCF ain't being called that parent actually taken out their childhood issues their childhood pain on a child that parent goes from a place of love to a place of self-hate and hate and taking it out that that child becomes that parents human teddy bear oh yeah it's real so if that happened to a woman or a man and they grow up and get in a relationship and it happens to them in a relationship they equate it the same way they look at it the same way so the one that's it's happening to they're looking and they're saying well I remember my mom with me one time and I was bleed and I know she loved me so if he did this and yeah you know kind of bust my lip a little bit or yeah you know what kind of little eyes you know a little purple and black but I know he loves me I know he loves me and and this is what women will be saying I know he loves me because he sacrificed for me he works two jobs and like he has never spent money on a woman and he's bought me Tori Burt sandals he bought me Michael Kors purse for $300 he took me to Red Lobster and he is so cheap he told me he is so cheap but he's never spent women on the money money on a woman and when we went to Red Lobster he got me the ultimate feast I know he loves me and and this what I'm listening to this is kind of emails I'm reading kind of stuff I'm here ma'am ma'am ma'am that man who spent went on every woman he ever knew he's just telling you that how are you believing what somebody who will put hands on you to this extent what he has to say man home if that man tell you the sky blue he line that day the sky is green you can't listen to nobody like that so whether you telling me what he told everything he told you is a lie a man who will put hands on a woman he had knows no truth with that woman they had an old relationship he hate himself and he hate her all the way so listen to me when I'm telling you that's one thing Cassy verbal it could hurt worse than physical emotionally because you replay them worse but then worse it ain't gonna make you lose consciousness now you might if you're not getting therapy and you don't get to help yeah it could destroy you slowly but that feels good it don't take no slowly so then the argument that we here to have and I said it's in another video on people want to owe verbal can't kill you oh the motion can't games like listen we're not talking about that we can talk about the long slow you beat yourself up and uh we're not talking about what I'm talking about if you don't want to be gone if you want if you don't want to meet the Lord like this that's what I'm talking about it ain't how much you feeling down and feeling sorry for yourself and you keep listening to this groan boy you listen to a grown boy tell you that you this and that that to this and that that you better be lucky he with you and you worthless and you this and the unit you listen to a grown boy and you letting the words of a grown boy make you lose sleep at night make you feel suicidal home son ulis to a grown boy you giving a grown boy a ignorant man that well it no Ramos could look at him and see he ignorant a can of paint could look at him and see he ignorant and here you got all these sense in the world and you letting this ignorant foolish man break you down verbally mentally emotionally and or physically come online come online you was raised better than that you were raised better than that you literally let in this man how this kind of control in your life are you serious right now this is an idiot this is the idiot Oh what's wrong with you it is so many other man out here there for you to be not with this ignorant lowe's stupidest ignoramus of a man come on come online you got to love yourself more than that you got to get off you need to slap yourself he know already you know already but let him step on you need to get some baby powder slap yourself and leave not literally I'm figuratively speaking there's a metaphor okay you need to get up smell the Folgers and leave because let me tell you this a man who will put hands he's a grown boy he is ignorant he's lost he's hurting he's confused he hates himself he hates his life and he's taking that hate out on you but he is a punk he is salt because a real man who comes into his manhood would never put hands on somebody unless it's self-defense he will never put hands on male or female unless his self-defense not understand a real man don't let a woman put hands on him nah don't think just cuz he a real man that she friend to be a he either calling the police and if the police can't do nothing a real man will defend himself not so don't don't think that that's a license to go oh here here real man so license to go use him as a pretty bad no honey what I mean that's not what that mean man you find the heart where you want to but that's not what that mean okay what a real man is never when he become a real man he's never going to put hands on somebody out of her just up just cuz he mad so what you got to realize if that happened to you and I'm telling my anything in it any kind of physical intent to harm or pinch aslam Oh Cho a heart push into the wall onto the flow any of that you got to go again I'm out of here Jessica Jessica you cannot play around with you can't deal with it if you got lead when he at work lead when he at work got leave when you sleep leave when he she go somewhere he can't reach you King can't talk to you he could talk to the voicemail you could hear what he's talking about you might have somebody else send him a message she gone for good let it go let it go because guess what before that happened it's gonna be plenty of time to check on it's gonna be painted time opportunities to check on they let him know that sonic settled on be yelling at me that's on his cell phone be cursing at me that's on itself gonna be lying to me that's on yourself don't be cheating on me it's gonna be playing time to check them before it get physical so when you get feels good he don't he don't Worr out all his grace you got to go don't think twice about it don't think about coming back on cab y'all got a football team together okay that's a lemon that's 11 children I don't care if y'all had 11 children together I think I recently met a woman at work here man ain't no they did that since the 60s or 70s on Cape y'all got a football team together you finna get child support for every last one of them and government support your stimulus spending look so good that stimulus check but you getting 500 a head so you finna get $5,500 for them and 1200 for you whoo you hit me $6,700 your stimulus is lit solar but listen to me you are part of them you are part of that if y'all gotta eat government cheese and government peanut butter that's what you need to do if you got to get on WIC that's what you need to do you got to Google to local foundation that help people in your situation that's you got to do that's what you got to do but do not I'm telling you because not the verbal and emotional yeah that's gonna take you out to but one thing but that feels good it's gonna get you up out of here faster and so when I say recognize crazy I mean talking about I ain't just talking about now I'm talking about the verbal and emotional but I'm really talking about that physical a man who got the potential of the physical because when I look at the news I look at the news and I see you know this man this man this man then you know I did was just showing the man who got out because of you know situation we in health situation in the jail they let the man out the man God I went and killed his girlfriend and the man she was sleeping with killed him but why he got out they let him I cuz he had no serious crime let him I so did he win cast in nineteen behind bars he come on take her life and somebody else life I think I think with man that was over there and so they all know she was sleeping with but I think it was make a man over there just like that but guess what he got embolden see a man not gonna do that to a woman he's only known a month two months three months a man do that when he crazy but he didn't built with this woman she didn't tolerated him for a year and typically it's years three four five six seven years when you look into the stories when you look into the cases you know and I'm not talking about Ted Bundy now I'm not talking about that that's the exception to the rule that dude this on the first day ain't talking about that we talking about the man you didn't with we tell my job boy friend when you tell my Ted Bundy we tell my job boy friend we tell my the one you tolerate in that then him you up we tell my the one you tolerate that the one you tolerate that one that's what we talk about when you entertain that six months a year year and a half two years three years five years seven year you reinforcing their behavior so he getting him bolting he now it's building up building up building up building up and if you ever been through it that's why each instance get worse than the one before because it's building up building up building up last one good enough let me go a little further last one I'm gonna let go a little further before you know it you wanna meet Lord that was a long blank before you know it so listen to him listen to me don't play with it don't play with it I'm dead serious don't play with it not so yeah yeah okay alright I know you got I know you think he loved you alright yeah I know y'all got kids together yeah I know y'all got a place together you don't want to break your lease listen what you don't wanna break your lease do you want to break your life do you want to end your life you thought about a lease you thought about link oil business you have a buyer you know have another break the news your chair they already know yeah I know you Hollin they know differ between hollows they know to Harlow I love making any no no hollow they know that they're between Harlow they already know your chair don't care know about that by being with you ladies ready for you to get the strength to leave that way they keep trying to tell you I was telling someone something and she was telling about her son who is six years old seven years old give him her relationship advice okay advice about who to date and who not to date it's a law boy he said mom this kind of man you want cut he got your back this other guy you was talking to no don't talk to man like that oh look so listen people know this look boy know what's right from wrong so guess what you're wrong man know what's right from wrong he doing wrong cuz he choose to do wrong and he doing wrong cuz you let him do wrong you got the goal because you wasting time on what the devil sent you because he God is not the author of confusion if God got somebody for you it's gonna feel good it's gonna work God y'all problems and issues gonna be trivial it's gonna be little stuff look tricks other enemy that you can easily spot out and work through and get past but when you're going through this big stuff when you go on through that that man was sitting was sent by the devil so the longer you deal with what the devil sent cuz he you praying to God for your destiny for your desires of your heart but when you ask God for your destiny the devil here too so he sent you a distraction that looked like destiny you get caught up you get sucked in because 90% of him look like destiny and 10% of him is that but that 10% outweigh the other 90 so that's the trick of the enemy to send you a man who look like he 90% of what you need but that 10% okay yeah that 10% you hit me but do you in will send you to meet the Lord early to talk about the desires on your heart that you did not get because you fell for the devil decoy then look like destiny but actually was a distraction hey it's only guys I don't like do videos recorded videos over I only do my live Q&A I don't know when I'll be back to the live Q&A I really in the spirit of it right now so y'all just be writing down your questions and write down some good questions I'll be back to it hopefully soon but right now I'm just doing videos but god bless you listen to me now listen this video again now just to the videogames videos very serious as to the video again do not take this lightly do not take this lightly cousin this whole video you ain't see me crack a smile ain't telling no jokes ain't laughing I'm very serious on this night I'm very serious on yet but hey god bless you and we'll talk soon and to the life coaches keep doing what you're doing people need you I congratulate every life coke that's on my mentor dot life coaching I coached a lady yesterday who booked me for a session told me she got booked for her first session in the first week of signing up so hey y'all keep going cuz I can't be the only one I need you out here doing what you're doing put your link on all your social media and let your friends and family hire you for sessions to help them everybody need help right now hey god bless and if you want to become a life coach then make sure that you visit Tommy Gaston academy.com the link will be in the description god bless you we'll talk soon

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 58min 58sec (3538 seconds)

Published: Tue Jun 09 2020