99% of women don’t believe this, and 99% of men won’t admit it!

hey hey tony gaskins here on another run now you notice sometimes this is why i get to shoot my videos when i'm making a run for the family going to pick up our game food for the football game uh our tampa bay bucks getting ready to play now listen to me i posted a video earlier talking about you know what will it take for me to change and a young lady said only the most high can make a man change and i responded back to her and i i deleted the comment because i don't like misdirection in my comments because when i'm sitting here as a man and i'm explaining something to you and i'm telling you something from a male perspective i'm a man i live around men i've been a man all my life when when women are dismissive and always say so many women say only god can change a man and what you have to realize is that's not true because it's not god alone what i said in my last video i said it's going to take god and a woman to change a man now god can change a man but that's not the only thing that changes a man because there are atheists who have changed their life and they don't believe in god and they say they faithful to their wife and they're gonna say oh they did it you're gonna say i did it or he gonna say my wife did it now i can't attest to that but what i can attest to as a man of god is that men of god i personally have never met a man who changed just for god because and this what this the hard part that see the thing about it what i'm trying to get you to understand what i'm trying to get women to understand is there's a reason and a purpose that you have a you have influence in the world you have to stop feeling like you don't have influence you have to realize that god and the devil uses women for to get to men you notice that the devil couldn't just get to sampson he couldn't just he went through delilah he couldn't just get to adam he went through eve he couldn't just get to david he went through bathsheba that's how jezebel was successful jezebel spirits the influence of a woman you have to understand when you see men in our world end up in a scandal it's dealing with him sleeping with a woman doing something to a woman that driving force if a man get caught up with money he was making money trying to impress a woman trying to get women with his money with his access he went and slept with more women he used that to impress women it was the influence of a woman that told to make him feel inadequate and he said hey man i got to look cooler to these women women have so much influence but you weaken yourself when you do not realize your influence so when i tell you that a man fears a woman that a man that a woman has more influence in a man's life than god until a man becomes a true man of god so in order for me to really get to know god i got to know god through the influence of a woman and that's every single man who really sits down and processes and i'm not talking about apostle paul but do you know an apostle paul like do you know an apostle paul try to try to do you know an apostle paul okay let me ask you this have you tried to sleep with him all right then you don't know if he'll apostle paul you don't know if the apostle paul i meet guys who resemble apostle paul in their lifestyle and it ain't long before they come and they say man i fell in sin i was in fornication man i got weak and and i'm gonna slept with i don't touch me son you know why because he can't see he can't see god so he could read his bible he could pray and still be in fornication see what i want you to understand is god does not just come and force a man to change god give us free will so the the catalyst in a relationship for a man to get to know god is he will say lord i'm inadequate lord i want this woman because that's a man's focus is money and women and even the men who are the mgtow men men going their own way they they not abstinent they ain't bragging about abstinence and the ones who do brag about abstinence they're using sexual transmutation to channel that energy into their purpose or their money making endeavors only to get to a certain point to be able to get the woman they want or the women that they want but they're not saying i'm gonna be abstinent the rest of my life lord why look here somebody came off that thing and one paying no attention see that's how my eyes be on the road you just it's just like you a car seat in here you know i'm just talking to you like you a seat in the car or like you riding with me so don't y'all be thinking about nothing lord be showing me everything angels encount around me don't call to do this all right so don't don't try to do this here and don't don't worry about me doing it don't try to do this here you got to be covered by the blood of jesus you got to be sharing the real word so this what you need to understand i love the lord i know the power of the lord i live under the power of the lord i live with the lord i know the lord guess what if god was if it was if it only took god if it only takes god for a man to change then every man who know god would be changed every man who pray would be changed every man who was a pastor would be changed every man who go to church would be the perfect husband what i'm trying to get you to understand as a woman is that you have influence and that what you reinforce is what will be repeated so if you keep going in and you saying uh i can't do nothing only god could change them what you think god use to change people life a human that's why you have apostles that's why you have bishops that's why you have pastors that's why you have husbands that's why you have wives it's not just god because god is a spirit so god will use someone in your life that will drive you closer to god a lot of people write me and they say tony thanks to you i'm getting closer to god it's still god's work it's still god it's still god work but god using me as the vessel so what i'm trying to get you all to understand which i don't know why this is rocket science but that's the thing that's another problem is that we don't listen to each other not for one it ain't many women that's talking to men most women talking to women because they fear men and they don't think men will respect them but they don't think men will hear them so that is the way the world has made women to believe that oh let me just talk to women because men ain't gonna listen to me so women teaching women how to date women teaching women how to dress how to be feminine women teaching women how to get a man how to trap a man how to woo a man how to get a man but it ain't many women that's talking directly to men and so and that's that's all programming too now you'll notice men talking to women the reason why is because that has not been placed on us to feel as men because there's so many double standards men feel like or we could talk to a woman without fear women need to have that same energy and realize that you could stand up for yourself you could speak up for yourself you could tell a man listen uh-uh don't don't never again will you call me will you tell me you gonna call at nine and not call if you tell me you gonna call at nine you need to be in a hospital bed if i don't hear from you it needs to be because you were unconscious or you was in the hospital or you was locked up in a jail cell if you wasn't in a hospital bed or or sale bed then don't reach out to me no more see women scared to take that stance because you're scared to lose a man because you're scared to be lonely you're scared to be alone and that's what it takes for a man to change so when a man realize he's immature that realization comes from the woman he's trying to be with he realize he a grown boy that's when he go to god and he say lord give me the strength to be 100 faithful lord give me the strength to stop watching pornography lord give me the strength to stop masturbating lord give me the strength to stop emotionally cheating so now god takes and gives this woman a strength to know who she is to know her worth to know what she bring to the table god taking strength in that woman then that woman stand her ground that man go and try to get this woman to get on her back the woman say no the man say wow i'm gonna keep going and this this man could be a quote-unquote man of god this man could be a pastor this man could be a deacon and he could say you know what all right we done then you don't sleep with me we done well i thought you said i thought y'all women say it's only god that only god could change the man no god is in the midst god in the midst but god give humans free will so a human has to go through something a human has to lose something a human has to want something need something so in the case i'm talking about i'm talking about a man and a woman i'm parking waiting on my food i'm talking about a man and a woman okay now i could be it could be a job that the man won't and but he smoked too much weed and then that job say we can't hire you because we you you failed a drug test then he go to god lord give me the strength give me the strength to stop using this drug lord give me the strength and then he changed his life like that all righty gotta pick up for tony tony yeah is there anything uh it should be checking check and see yeah yeah okay all right so then this man go to god see listen don't don't get confused and say oh and uh oh you oh you doubting god oh you discounting god are you saying god ain't all powerful listen god is all-powerful but you have to be willing and submissive to the will of god god all powerful so if you believe god the only only only god can change a man then why god ain't changed you yet all right thank you very much how's it going man all right you too then why cause they change you yet why you still sinning why you still back biting and gossiping huh because god don't make you do anything god don't force you to do anything you still got free will that's why you're in fornication that's why you're gossiping and backbiting that's why you're coveting and jealous and envious that's why humans do those things because of free will that's what you got to understand so what i'm trying to help you understand is that you can't just throw up your hands and take yourself out the equation that's see the devil got eve to use her influence that showed you in the beginning right there that shows you in the beginning right there that men will take men will take and let a woman influence him before god adam you know god you sat with the lord you talked with the lord you come from the lord you sitting here talking to the lord and now here go your woman the devil get the huh the devil said i can't i'm not going to go to adam because i i'm miss time just a little serpent and see look the devil didn't even come as himself the devil used a serpent so now we now some people oh that's metaphorical that's metaphorical look at look at the life today the pastors that's in sin who they sin with a woman a woman this woman know this man is a pastor no this man is married but she say oh he's a grown man if he want to sleep with me i'ma sleep with him so she uses her influence her desire her power to to reinforce his immaturity if that woman say i'm not sleeping with you you're a pastor i'm not sleeping with you you're a married man guess what he then will say wow this woman got more class and respect than me why am i like this he then got to look himself in the mirror and then he had to make a decision do i change or do i stay the same and if he chooses to stay the same guess what he gonna have to answer to the wrath of god because god gave that woman the classiness the self-respect to love herself to stand up for herself and say no no no i'm not dealing with you you a married man to say no no no i'm not sleeping with you because that's fornication so when this woman taps into her power this man then taps into his power because of a woman's influence and see this is giving a whole lot of power to a woman and that's why so men and women say i'm tired the ladies say i'm tired i said no you're not tired because if you tired then you'll stop putting up with mess when you get sick and tired of being sick and tired you're gonna stop letting the man do what he want to do you're gonna stop letting a man run over you you're gonna stop letting the man use and abuse you you're gonna stop putting up with grown boys when you really get tired don't hold about you tired cause you keep getting cheated cause you keep staying with this man who keeps cheating you keep staying with this man who keep cursing you out you keep staying with this man who dogging you out and doing you wrong now see that's the thing this this thing when you hear my messages to the men my message why men hate women and i'm going hard on the man and i'm talking to the man when you hear me talking to these grown boys when you hear me talking about the benefits of faithfulness and i'm telling a man about the benefits of faithfulness my video why did i get married my video why i married my wife all these video when i'm talking to the man when i'm talking to the man every woman yes yeah amen read them tell them guess what it's not all on the man it's not all on the man the woman has to be accountable too and when the man is not accountable the woman can't fall in line and say oh you're not accountable i'm not going to be accountable so since you're not so since you want to fornicate uh here you go open leg here you go fornicate i'm yours no if the man is weak it don't benefit y'all for you to be weak because he weak if the man weak and you got the sense and you could see clearly don't get mad if this man is deceived by the enemy and then you got clear you could see clear because you stand on the outside looking in and this could go vice versa because sometimes the woman is deceived and the man sees clearly and if the man choose to go down and be the blind following the blind he can't get mad at the calamity that comes upon them as a woman if the man is weak and you can see clearly and you choose to be weak as he is then you can't get mad at the calamity that comes upon you so listen if you can see clearly and this man has been blinded or deceived by the enemy don't just throw up your hands and say well i'll well we just finna be ran into the ground well we just finna be in sin because he he's not being man enough to change so we're just going to live in sin we're just going to shack up well you know he's not allowing god to change him so i'm just gonna let him beat on me he's not allowing god to change him so i'm just gonna i'm just gonna be sick and tired and i'm just gonna let him keep cheating he's not allowing god to change him so i'm gonna give him this threesome so i'm just gonna be okay with him watching pornography i'ma just be okay with him masturbating he's not allowing god to change him that's absurdity that's ignorance but see this what this when you don't want to hear what you want to hear is the women who don't want to hear what you want to hear is the woman got to do all the work that's what you hear that everything on the woman that no responsibility on is on the man no the man still just still has to change the man has to want to change the man has to accept the power of god here go the key thing here go to keyword if you dealing with this man you are the catalyst to his change listen i know you ain't asked for that level of influence i know you didn't ask for that level of influence i know you didn't ask to be a catalyst but that's what god gifted you with the power of influence and then women say well a man is not a man has to want to change you right so the man for you will want to change but guess what even the man for you will not change if you can see straight and and then choose to be blinded see men men give in to lust way easier than the average woman the average man gives into lust way easier look at the crimes look at look at the sex crimes look at the sex trafficking 90 of it gonna be men because men give into that based on our makeup and our weaknesses we give into that more than the woman so as a woman you look at me and a lot of times you say man men are dumb you look at some of the stuff men doing you like how dumb can you be so guess what if you could see clearly why not accept that gift and operate in that gift and say listen i can see clearly so i'm not going to be on in fornication i'm not going to be in fornication i can see clearly i'm not finna get beat on you put your hands on me you never gonna see me again i'm sorry about your luck hey i'm not finna keep getting cheated on you cheat on me you're never gonna see me again i can see clearly so why not accept that gift if you could see clearly if you see a man dumb if you see a man led astray if you see a man immature don't become immature with him talking about you gonna wait on god you're gonna wait on god to change them you waiting in the river waiting on god to change when god gave you the sense if god gave you the sense then appreciate that gift and say oh i'm fearfully and wonderfully made oh lord that's why this comment says to me and it ain't common sense to him oh lord that's why there why the men is sleeping with underage women and i don't want to sleep with an underage man is why i turn on the news and i see them these men killing a babies and i have no desire to do that this is why i turn on the news and i see these men touching little girls touching babies and i have no desire to touch a little boy it's it's uh lord are we that different like it are they sick what's wrong with them so if you see a deficiency don't blind yourself to say oh i'ma wait on god you see how i'm driving you see how i'm driving i see where i'm going how how ignorant of it what me would it be of me to close my eyes when i can see where i'm going how ignorant of me would it be to close my eyes when i can see where i'm going when you take and you say only only god could change them and and you don't realize that god is trying to use you because you his real you his backbone you the stability you are the favor factor a man who finds a wife finds a good thing and receives favor from god so you activate the favor god put all the power in the influence in you but the issue is is that a woman has been tricked out of her power a woman has been made to feel worthless and useless and weak and dumb and ignorant and powerless so you don't value yourself you don't realize your influence and here's the thing the devil tricks you to believe that you're powerless because you got cheated on and you told a man if he ever cheats on you again you leaving and he cheated on you again a man put hands on you and you decided to stay and you told him never do that again and he did it again so the devil has tricked you to believe that you powerless you know why that happened because that's not your husband that's who the devil sent to destroy you so now you now you say i'm tired i'm tired i give up game over the devil one the devil sent that distraction before god sent your destiny before god sent the man for you that will change for you that will grow for you that will mature for you god sent him he was on the way right before that man you met that man the devil sent a distraction that looked like destiny to steal your joy to crush your self-esteem to break you in half to make you feel powerless so that you will settle in that role and remain powerless so listen you absolutely right it take the power of god but the catalyst the vessel the tool that god will use in a man's life is most often the woman for some men god will use what the devil meant for evil and turn it into good what i mean by that for some men god will allow this man to get in a car accident that nearly cost him his life god allowed that to happen the devil wanted it to kill the man god didn't let it kill him so the devil meant it for evil god will turn it into good and allow that near-death experience to wake that man up but god does not wish that all of his sons have to come through a near-death experience but the reason why god made a woman so special and so powerful and so influential is because god knew that the woman would be the key vessel that he uses to encourage a man to change to be the catalyst in a man's life and see only a woman who knows god who's called by god will have the peace to understand this see i'm gonna turn the comments off because i'm finna shut the jezebels up because this for the women of god who have bumped into who have bumped into a distraction that looked like destiny who was sent by satan so now you exhausted and you feeling weak and you feeling powerless and you do not realize that you still are a catalyst you do not realize that you still are walking favor you do not realize that god can use you to create and craft the life that he has for you you do not realize the power in your voice the power in your stance and you believe that a man has to be left to his own that only him and god can change when god say listen i am going to change him but i'm going to do it through you through the strength that i've put in you through the backbone that i put in you yes i know you didn't ask to be that but do you think mary asked to be married do you think mary wanted to put up with joseph insecurity and him wondering woman who you gonna slept with woman ought to have you stoned so god used the woman to bring into the world the messiah and then he spoke to the man and he said listen i'm using your woman to bring about a change in this world see when god take and he utilizes a woman to reach a man what i'm trying to tell you is i could not change by myself alone just me and god because i knew god i cried out to god i prayed to god i literally cried out to god but i became a real man through the influence of my wife that god used a 19 year old woman a 19 year old woman come here son don't be throwing that ball hard is t yeah hey t hey tayden come get this sauce hey my food here so i got to get ready to go listen that's what i'm trying to tell you as a man so listen sometimes when god using somebody because listen the devil using men to to come on youtube and tell other men to dog you out to mistreat you to seduce you then god trying to raise up men to tell you that you got influence that you don't even realize you got but the devil is in your head no that ain't true ah that ain't true that ain't true you ain't got no influence you can't change no man you can't do nothing change no man you can't do that that's what the devil's telling you so you hearing that and then you coming in the comments ah a money can't ever change a man it ain't about changing him it's about your influence god gonna change them but see god can't change them if you aiding and abetting if you are complicit with his grown boy ways then god cannot change him because you think god you think that man gonna listen to god when you got open legs who show me the man show me the man show me the man that have turned you down when your legs was open show me the man that beat on you that cheated on you and without you putting your foot down he came back to you and he said you know what i'ma change just because i wanna change and then he never cheated on you again show me the man a man will take every advantage that he could take every man to the man know it every man to the man know it but a man don't want to admit that see the devil use a grown boy to come in the comments why ain't letting the devil talk today not today because god trying to let you know listen god say i use women i use men i use teachers i use preachers i use authors i use school teachers i use youtubers god say i am a spirit who embodies and emboldens and strengthens individuals to enlighten and inspire other individuals when the last time you seen god show up in human form when the last time you seen god come out of the sky and stand before you as a hologram and talk to you with an audible voice god is a spirit and he embodies and emboldens those who are willing to be used by the spirit of god to affect change in the lives of other people i am speaking to you as a vessel that is willing and i am saying something that i do not want to say as a man but i have surrendered and submitted to the power and to the will of god my flesh want to turn the ads on to make money off of every second that i give but this video does not have advertisements on there because i did not turn it on so that you could get the message uninterrupted so that you don't have a reason to say oh i'm going to leave this message because this adam popped up hear what i'm trying to tell you i love the lord with everything in me and god is using people god will use a woman the wife to reach a man the devil will use a wife to reach a man god will use a husband to reach a wife the devil will use a husband to reach a wife that is spiritual not physical is spiritual but if you operating with a carnal mind you will not understand it so you cannot say i'm tired if you believe that god alone can change the man then why don't you believe that god can strengthen you how can you say i'm tired and i'm throwing in the towel if you believe in the power of god the man not gonna believe in the power of god in his life if you his real don't believe in the power of god in your life if you say that you have no influence in the life of a man then you are saying that god has no influence in your life you are saying that you worthless if you don't believe that your presence and your stance and your decisions and your heart matters if you don't believe that you matter then you won't believe that you can have influence in the life of a man and that is a lie from the pit of hell so the devil has deceived the man the devil has turned the man over to his youthful lust and in this season and this may change one day but in this season god is using the woman to influence the man to impact the man the weaker vessel according to the bible is being used spiritually to reach a man and when a man buys in he buys in but he's buying in through the influence of his woman because if his woman accepts weakness he remains weak but if his woman who can see clearly when he has blurry vision if this woman can see his immaturity if you could see a man's immaturity and you reinforce it then you're weaker than he is if you can see his immaturity and you reinforce it you're more immature than him but if god has given you clarity to see his immaturity then accept the gift that god has given you and walk in your power and when you walk in your power you will realize that you are more powerful than you thought you will realize that yes although you are said to be the weaker vessel you are still precious in the sight of god you are still fearfully and wonderfully made that god can use you to influence this man so now you will see that the happy marriage that has been created was done so through your heart by your hands by your willingness to be a vessel unto god but if you allow the adversary to trick you at your spot to trick you out your influence to trick you out your position and make you feel powerless see what you have to understand is that the devil knows scripture so when you holier than thou when you sow heavenly minded that you don't have earthly common sense that's the enemy tricking you the devil will say to you you can't do nothing only god can because the devil no god trying to use you that just went over somebody's head you got to listen to it again listen to what i'm telling you god is a spirit not a man god is spiritual not carnal read the bible god says my ways are not your ways my thoughts are not your thoughts god says my ways are higher than your ways my thoughts are higher than your thoughts so see it does not make sense to your carnal mind that you would be a catalyst in a man's life so you say oh oh a man need to be a man and be mature by himself i'm not going to be no catalyst i'm not entertained no man like i'm not going to be used detained no man you trying me well tommy see that's the problem all y'all want to do is use a woman you need to change by yourself that's the trick of the enemy to get you to spit in the face of god god trying to say listen i have put influence in you that man don't even understand man can't even explain it and the god and god said listen right now there is a battle for your mind who you gonna believe god telling you i'm trying to get you to understand that if you accept the power of the influence and you become the catalyst meaning that you know your word you stand your ground you speak your mind you speak truth to power you let this man know that you will not tolerate disrespect you will not tolerate manipulation and deceit you will not tolerate infidelity the demon possessed man who has come to devour you he will flee the man that god has called for you he will look at you he will recognize the queenship in you he will recognize god in you and he will be influenced to change he will draw closer to god he will fall to his face on his knees and he will cry out to god and he will say god make me whole so that i can behold the woman that you have brought into my life he will say god give me the strength to be the man that i need to be for my family but if you quit if you get out the fight if you listen to the devil who tells you that you're powerless and if you lie down and you accept this man beating on you cheating on you yelling at you cursing to you cursing at you lying to you manipulating you and dogging you out you have turned your mind over to satan to the adversary and he comes to steal to kill and to destroy and now the same way that eve was tricked in the garden of eden is the same way that women are being tricked in a household today to feel like that you powerless that you weak that you don't have influence that god has not given you influence and that's why the devil has already stolen the mind of man and the righteous mind that's left is the righteous mind of the woman but if the devil can trick you out your spot if he can make you feel weak if he can make you feel powerless if he can make you throw in the towel and say only god could help him only god can help him hey god looking at you and god's saying listen yes i'm going to help them but i'm going to help them through you i'm not asking you to settle god telling you i'm not asking you to settle i'm not asking you to lay down i'm not asking you to be weak i'm not asking you to get cheated on and be okay with it i'm not asking you to get beat on and be okay with it god's saying i'm asking you to speak to the reprobate mind of this man and understand that satan is out here moving about and that the president of the united states they're being turned over to satan that the next president and the next president and the next president who are men all 46 of them have been men and look where your country at racism killing unarmed men of color in the streets women still be in traffic sex trafficking still exists drugs still running rampant poverty is still running rampant because satan has gotten the mind of the men the leaders and all god got is a woman and then even when god get a hold of a man and a man come tell you as a woman i changed my life for my wife i didn't change my life for god i was carrying guns i was selling drugs i was sleeping with three women in a day i would be my ex-girlfriend i would dog in the eye slanging up throwing her did not care for did not care for but guess what my ex-girlfriend stayed you know why she didn't believe in god she didn't know god she was a muslim but she wasn't even a real muslim she didn't worship allah so guess what when i put hands on her she went and took a shower and she'll come back and have sex with me she went and told my sister i love when he mad i love when he angry she would demon possess and god spoke to me he say listen this ain't love i left her for my wife but guess what i tried to be the same man with my wife but god used my wife a 19 year old woman god used my wife and he gave her a strength that she accepted that she did not understand i did not understand and when she stood her ground and she used her influence that is what pushed me to god i tried to cheat on my wife i tried to beat on my wife i tried to manipulate my wife i tried to dog my wife out i wanted to be a man who would beat on his woman cheat on his woman manipulate his woman deceive his woman but my wife would not even let me raise my voice at her my wife would not even let me not keep my word about what time i was going to call her my wife would not let me sleep with her when i wanted to sleep with her my wife would not let me in her apartment when i said that i would be there by a certain hour and i was not there by that certain hour she operated with a strength that every single thing that i did she gave me one chance she gave me one chance and she say don't ever do that again or i will not be here but the fact that she called me out on everything the fact that two months into dating she left me it let me know when i got her back six months later i knew that i had a real woman and that if she said i will leave i knew she meant it the problem today is that satan has gotten women to believe that they weak to believe that you powerless to believe that you cannot influence a man that you cannot change a man by standing your ground so you lie down and you let him do what he wants to do to you and you put up with it and you say oh a man's gonna be a man oh i'ma wait on guard to change them and god said you're not waiting on me god said he's already turned over to a reprobate mind god say you hear from me you know me god say i'm trying to utilize you to reach him god is telling you your vagina has more power than i have in his life right now and as long as you are on your back with your legs open in fornication he cannot hear me over a orgasm god is trying to tell you that as long as you keep coming back to this man as long as you are afraid to tell this man that he can never curse at you he can never cheat on you he can never beat on you he can never manipulate and deceive you god is telling you that as long as you are afraid of this man i cannot reach him because you have made him believe he is a god so he does not feel the need to be in submission to god because you have made him a god and god is saying it's on you he's saying listen you're my last hope he's saying look at the leaders of the country in one country he's a narcissist in the next country he's beating women he has multiple wives in the next country he's single and he's sleeping around with women in the next country he's embezzling funds in the next country he's running the sex trafficking ring in the next country he's illegally embezzling money he running a scam throughout the whole government god's saying look at the men in charge and realize that i'm trying to raise up women god's saying i got a man who i'm using who i'm blessing beyond measure who i'm paying ridiculously rewarding him ridiculously got him on youtube in tears his voice is hoarse he crying out he trying to get you to understand that i am raising up women that i'm giving you power that you have influenced stop listening to the devil stop saying out your mouth that you don't have no power stop saying out your mouth that is only up to the man stop saying out your mouth that only god could change him when god is saying i'm going to change him but i'm giving you the influence to send him to me god's saying when you stand up for yourself as a woman that he can't lay down with you the man can't lay down with you if you stand up as a woman god's saying to you these men don't care because there's so many jezebels that's on their knees they're swallowing kids it's so many jezebels that's okay being the other woman it's so many jezebels that's okay living in fornication god's saying i'm trying to make an example of the righteous woman of the godly woman and i'm trying to give you heaven on earth i'm trying to bless you the way i've blessed sheree gaskins i'm trying to give you that but i need you to understand that tony gaskins did not change on tony gaskin's own will that tony gaskins would still be a drug dealer if sheree gaskins didn't tell him if you don't stop selling drugs i'm leaving that tony gaskins would be beating on sheree gaskins if sheree gaskins did not say don't you ever try to hold me when i'm trying to leave god is telling you that tony gaskins will still be a cheater if sheree gaskins did not check him the first time she saw a facebook message that was inappropriate to another woman and check me on that and told me i will leave you that tony gaskins will still be cursing women out beating women cheating on women pimping women dogging women out if it was not for sheree gaskins believing in the power and the influence that god placed in her that i am here today because god used my wife god did not use me alone listen to what i'm telling you listen to what i'm telling you this a righteous indignation i should not care this much but i care because god has called me i don't even like saying the word anointed or the phrase anointed and appointed but when god is in the midst of your life he in the presence of your life you cannot deny god that's why i do not see a man that's more blessed than me because i have surrendered to the will of god but it was my wife's stance and her presence and her influence in my life that drove me to my knees to cry out to god had my wife stayed on her knees i wouldn't have heard god listen i'm trying to get you to understand you have to rebuke satan and the thoughts of him telling you that you're tired that you don't have influence that you don't have power that you cannot influence a man that you don't have a voice in a man's life i need you to hear me when i'm telling you that god is trying to do something new that god is about to raise up women of standard women of power women of influence that slowly but surely he's starting to move in the lives of women and that god had to use a man because you might not believe a woman god had to use a man to break the demand code to break the man law to let you know that this ain't even about money because you know why if this was about money you know what this video will make me in a year this video right here or make me in a year this video right here or make me in a year probably twelve thousand to fifty thousand dollars this one video this ain't even about money i'm forgoing the money i'm not even turning on the monetization so you could get the whole message because i want you to understand and see this is the thing right here i'm gonna tell y'all right here this is why real men don't bother me because they know about my mind they know about my mind because they never heard a man talk like me they ain't never seen a man live like me that's what i'm trying to tell you but the reason why i am the man that i am is because of god used sheree gaskins i did not get here on my own and guess what listen to what i'm telling you listen what i'm telling you i have never in my entire life and i'm not listening to you as a woman to tell me who your daddy is because you don't know your daddy because you don't sleep with your daddy you don't date your daddy you ain't never been married to your daddy can't nobody tell me about your daddy other than your mama but guess what your mama she gonna lie for your daddy that's why you think your daddy perfect because your mama done hit the flaws of your daddy i have never in my life met a man who changed and is a man of god and he did it by himself never never every man who becomes a real man there was a woman in the midst when i say a real man i mean a man who has surrendered and submitted and fears god fears god that's why i'm not talking about an atheist because see atheists will say he changed his life and that he faithful to his wife i can't attest to that i can't attest to that i ain't never met him i ain't met a man that i believe he that i believe him when he tell me he faithful to his wife unless i see his walk with god that's the only way i'm gonna believe them that's why you see these pastors keep getting caught in sex scandals they preaching the word of god every day they read the bible they know the bible like the back of their hand i watch my own daddy read 10 chapters a day from the holy bible and still end up in a divorce still end up with another woman i watch men fall by the wayside day in and day out when the woman in their life did not tap into the influence that god gave them see my mama did not listen to god she listened to satan so she belittled my daddy she talked down to my daddy she disrespected my daddy and so i saw this with my own eyes that drove him to despise her and eventually divorced her after 24 years of marriage had her influence been different had she heard different and then he heard different they could have strengthened one another but see the devil gonna attack both he attacked my dad he attacked my mama so then they were at odds and they both was working for him so that's why the devil won this was with my very own eyes i saw it happen to my best friend whose dad was a pastor all my other friends didn't have a daddy in the home i'm seeing it happen right next to me i've seen men who've been with a woman 50 years married to her but his daughter is giving threesomes daughters on the strip pole daughters turned over to a reprobate mine you know why because that man has not surrendered to god and that man has convinced the woman to listen to the devil in her instead of the god in her so that woman has been turned over to a reprobate mind and that reinforces the man's decisions and his choices and his actions listen to me i know the call is great i know the burden is heavy but if you believe god can change a man if you believe god can strengthen a man then believe god to do the same for you as a woman believe god to strengthen you believe god to give you the strength to speak truth to power when you meet this man believe god to give you the strength to go from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm because what seems to be failure to man meaning to have to walk away from man after man after man on the first date or in the first month may seem like failure but that's actually victory because what god is saying and what god is doing he's saying listen every test that the adversary is sending you i have sent the wisdom to get to you so that you are aware of the test before you are tested so that when you are tested you see the test and you can flee the test you pass the test by not falling for the grown boy games and one day after the adversary has sent you a distraction that looks like destiny god says i am going to send you destiny but because you believe me because you when i say me i'm talking about god god say because you believe on me you have the strength that you need that you don't lose enthusiasm when you have to walk away from a grown boy you expected that but you know with every grown boy that you cut off you that much closer to a grown man and you know the grown man is on the way so you refuse to settle at all you refuse to compromise your morals your values your self-worth or your standards you refuse to compromise any of that because you know a grown man of god is on the way listen to me listen to me so when you meet this man of god you will have the peace of god the wisdom of god and the strength of god and when you meet this man of god just how you get weak he gets weak but where he is weak god will make you strong and where you are weak god will make him strong and the two of you will complement each other you will fit like a puzzle piece and so where he is weak in sex because he believes he needs it to function god will give you strength when you are weak in sex god will give him strength when he is weak in communication god will give you strength in communication and vice versa so you will uplift each other and you will come together and you will strengthen each other and you will fill each other up you will fill each other up and this will this will not be your downfall this will not drain you this will not break you it will make you and i saw this happen where i was weak god gave my wife strength where she was weak he gave me strength so we came together and we strengthen one another and that is the work of god and that is why our marriage is perfect do not listen to the devil to the adversary when i say perfect don't let your mind say no relationship is perfect is god perfect then a god-centered relationship is perfect in my marriage there is no infidelity there is no yelling there is no cursing there is no sleeping on the couch there is no breakup to make up there is no lying and deceit and manipulation there is no going to bed mad there is no going to sleep crying there is no going to work crying there is no going a whole day without talking there is none of that and that is the god's heaven truth that's because the relationship is god-centered god focused listen to me listen to me listen to me hear what i'm telling you and guess what i ain't coming back to youtube until this hit the views that god say that's you reach who i've had you reach i don't know what that number is but god gonna say it in my spirit one view is counted when somebody watched this for 31 seconds that's all of you is 31 seconds of watching when this hit that morning when it gets to the amount of view that god say i've reached the woman i was trying to reach to restore her to refill her to build her up because god is saying i need her to know who she is i need her to know her strength i need her to know her worth i need her to know that she don't have to compromise her self-worth and her self-respect i need her to know the difference between her preferences and her standards i need her to know the difference between a man of god and a man of the world i need her to know the difference between the man satan has sent and the man that i'm sending i need her to know the difference between her season and my season i need her to know that what's going to be done the perfect work that's going to be done in and through her will be done in due season but i'm trying to reach her i'm trying to fill her up i'm trying to replenish her i'm trying to strengthen her i need her to stop masturbating i need her to stop fornicating i need her to stop using profanity because i cannot do a sacred work if she's full of her profane heart i need her to stop watching television that does not edify her spirit i need her to stop reading books and listening to things on youtube that do not edify her spirit i need her to stop being jealous of women like sheree gaskins i need her to stop hating i need her to stop debating i need her to get over her ego i need her to get over her arrogance and i need her to be humble and submit to the word of god to the will of god that's what god trying to say because god's saying if tony gaskins could reach a hundred million if tony gaskins could reach one billion her husband could reach a hundred million her husband can reach 1 billion she can reach 100 million she can reach 1 billion god said listen i could do a work through her by herself in her singleness god say i god says she could reach millions without a husband before i introduce her to her husband if that is the desire of her heart see god say that she could do a work with her husband or god say i can strengthen her and give her a piece to support her husband in his ministry if it's not her season if it's not her calling the same way sheree gaskins does see god say i could use her but i need her to hear me first now see i'm drained now i'm drained i'm dreaming and i'm the spirit getting ready to lead now the spirit can ready but i need you to hear that message and if you need to listen to this message every day and if you need to get beyond what the devil tried to tell you and you need to understand see see only a real man of god that has been called by god will be authorized by god to say that god uses people see if only see if god worked alone he wouldn't have sent jesus christ if god worked alone he wouldn't have used moses to deliver the slaves out of egypt if god worked alone he wouldn't have used apostle paul if god worked alone he wouldn't use solomon to write the book of proverbs see if god worked alone the bible would not exist because man wrote the bible with the inspiration of god and i'm here to tell you as an author that the holy bible was inspired by god that's why you've never read another book that can compare or compete with it that's why the quran which comes after the holy bible quotes the holy bible because it is a dynamic book that's why the watchtower and the book of mormon quote the holy bible because it is a dynamically inspired book when you listen to minister louis farrakhan he quotes bible scripture because the book is divinely inspired but god did not write it the spirit of god wrote the bible using the hand of man and it has been translated into countless languages and it has lasted thousands of years what does that say to you about the attributes and the way that god moves that god will use you as a woman to get through to your husband because although he is a man of god guess what satan can still reach him unless god has reinforcement a man left to himself will be devoured by satan a woman left to herself will be devoured by satan see god will use somebody it might not be a husband or wife it might be a teacher a speaker or author a pastor see god are you somebody and so what you got to realize is if a part of your calling is to be a catalyst in your husband's life you can't run from that because god's saying if you are afraid of the work then your faith is null and void because you believe in me for a husband but you're gonna have to do some work for the husband i'm gonna send them to you but he gonna be tempted he's going to be tested and if you turn a deaf ear to me and if you don't hear if you don't accept the strength that's been placed in you to tell him i'm not sleeping with you then guess what your husband will never realize his full potential because you will be in the way of the work of god that's a high call that's a high call but some of us have that call to be a catalyst i'm aware that i have to be drained i'm aware that i have to be used i'm aware that i have to be an example for the work of god to be done because if you mute my mouth if i mute my mouth and if i delete my messages if i remove my voice then thousands if not millions of lives would be hanging in the balance i am not ignorant to that fact because the spirit of god has let me know the calling on my life but guess what i could not hear god until my wife and until you hear that until you hear that and accept that calling on your life to be the catalyst in your husband's life meaning the man you are with or the man to come then you won't realize everything god has for you if you want to accept the call to be a catalyst to be the influence that drives him closer to god because you are not siding with the devil and reinforcing the weakness and the temptation and the sin that satan has called him into and so when i say that satan will use scripture against you you got to remember that satan used scripture against the son of god have you read the bible the scriptures you quoting to back up your argument about not being a catalyst for god not being a catalyst in your soon-to-be or your current man's life by not being used by god to be an influence in his life the same scripture the same holiness that you think you using to absolve yourself of your call in life a part of your calling is the scripture that satan gave you to use on you the same way he used scripture on the son of god but the son of god grabbed another scripture and used it against the scripture that satan used see satan brought the word of god to the son of god and he said is it not true that if you jump from this cliff that the angels of heaven will swoop in and catch you so that not even a hair on your head will be harmed and then jesus said do you know that you ought not tempt thy god see jesus had to try the spirit by the spirit see jesus had to speak the word to a word so what i'm here to tell you is if you have a calling on your life to be a catalyst in the life of a man that god is trying to use you will not be absolved of that calling that calling will not pass you by if you want to be married not every woman has that calling for some women your man will find god through another man his mentor his father his pastor for some women your man will find god through a car wreck through an accident that nearly cost him his life or through an accident that took the life of one of his loved ones for some women your man will find god through other means that do not involve you but yet still you still will have a role in his life to be a positive influence in his life because he still will be tempted and he still will get weak because if you are waiting to meet a perfect man who does not get weak who does not get tempted who does not feel like sinning a man who does not sin a man is who is completely renewed by god and who will never fall into temptation again if you are waiting to meet that man you will die first you will die first you will always be used by god to be a positive reinforcement of the presence of god and the word of god in a man's life and if you do not believe it try it and see a lot of women will remain single because they refuse to accept the influence and the responsibility that god has placed on a woman see a part of the burden comes from the original sin in the garden of eden that is why god said a woman will experience pain in her life in birth giving birth that the the snake will bite at the heel of her child and that they will be at odds that is why we suffer today that is why there is pain in the world because of sin so it's the presence of god it is the love of god it is the strength of god in who he decides to use in whichever season he decides to move that moves the life and pushes and influences the other people you come in contact with so if you are a catalyst you cannot run from that and if you a jezebel spirit i call that out of you today i rebuke that spirit of doubt i rebuke that spirit of fear i rebuke that spirit of loneliness i rebuke that spirit of frustration i rebuke that spirit of bitterness i rebuke that spirit of envy i rebuke that spirit of hate i rebuke that spirit of delight love i rebuked that spirit that came into eve when she was you see eve didn't deceive adam satan deceive adam see satan did the work but he did it through eve see let me help you understand something my wife did not change me god changed me but he did it through my wife do you understand what i just said eve did not deceive adam satan deceived adam but he did it through eve my wife did not change me god changed me but he did it through my wife so understand this had eve told had adam told eve no i would not eat of that then that would have changed the course of the world had my wife not told me no when i tried to use and abuse and dog and mistreat her with the initial test of yelling at her not keeping my word being a controlling man when i tried to test her with the initial test to see if i would be able to get away with the greater offenses had she not told me no then i would have never changed my life at that point for me to become who i am today my next experience would have been a near-death experience so at the same time in marriage two months into marriage when my wife put her foot down was the same time i was robbed of my car which was my prized possession so i got two lessons at the same time one that i would lose my wife and my son if i did not change my life for god and two that the next time that these criminals come to rob me because i'm selling drugs and i'm shorting drug lords in the streets on the drugs they're buying from me i'm cheating them that the next time they come to touch me they will take my life so god sent me two messages at the same time that say son listen if you lose your wife and your son you've lost your life figure it's a metaphor figuratively if you keep selling drugs and doing what you're doing in the streets you're gonna lose your life physically do you hear me i heard it through my wife's influence hey i'm not gonna go over an hour and a half because i feel the spirit is done and that who this is for has got this god bless you i'm praying for you we'll be in touch

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 89min 58sec (5398 seconds)

Published: Sun Jan 17 2021