The truth about making a relationship work!

hey Tony Gaskins here I want to talk to you now we still in the first month so we setting up for the whole year and a lot of you didn't get a chance to sign up for this is my year program sorry about that you missed it but I'm still trying to help you here on YouTube and in the relationship space I want you to understand when I read it one time and in a good book and the Holy Bible that the greatest gift given to mankind is love or charity which is love and that hit me and so not just love like loving one another but when you think about the way we mean love and the way we love we want love everybody wants to grow old with somebody and so we have this insatiable desire to connect and once we connect it's almost like you know how you hear the term oh I could just you know eat that baby to pieces or I could just eat that little baby you know when you see something real cute and you know kind of grossed me out but when I think about it literally I think about how when you love someone it's like you just oh like you want to just hug them so tight you want to just kiss all over them you just you really what if it's your child you you just want to cuddle you want a hug you want to buy them everything give them the world it's just this overwhelming sense that you will do anything for your child because you love your child you will die for them you'll kill for me and then when it comes to an intimate like a romantic love your partner it gets to the place to where now your expression of love is giving your body and so it's not just a hug in the kissing the buying gifts now you want to come all the way together you want to give your body and when you give your body think about this a lot of times when you give your body in in our lives we contraceptives were developed along the way so in the beginning that's why it was so serious to where you know women will get pregnant so easy because you eaten the best you eaten the fruit of the land you top-notch you know you healthy you eating from the land you raw diet with if you eat meat whatever but you eating the best of the best because it's not processed and all of this there's no preservatives and all of this stuff and women just popping on my mom women having 15 20 kids in the beginning the time now and then so there was no contraceptives you sleep with somebody you forming that soul time if it's outside of marriage you in sin and then the good book starts to talk about how we got into sexual immorality and we went into where there were men sleeping with men and there was men sleeping with children and so these got very immoral and I was reading the Bible I was reading the Old Testament and I was reading on this us my Study Bible and it talked about it was somebody I can't remember all the names but it was somebody who went to somebody else house and they went to the man house maybe was in Sodom and Gomorrah or something like that and went to the man house and the the men of the city came to the man's house I can't remember the man was like a hair the [ __ ] or something came to the man house or let Levon Leben came to the man house and said bring those men out here so we can rape them that's what it that's what it said I was like uh-huh and my reading is correct it said bring those men out here so we can have sex with them this was man telling this man you got some visitors in your house anybody come through this here city getting touched men and women we putting it on you so let us turn them in over to us so we can do some torn strange for a piece of change and I was like wow so early on early on in the human existence this lusts this desire to connect to replenish the earth began to take over and people began to be immoral in their act so I want you to understand don't ever stop doing this stop trying to reduce their Zaku intercourse to a meaningless you selfless casual act it's not that it is deadly it is deadly you know the word helping the task and then you know the word for a man's third leg the D word and they called it D Matata y'all heard the word I don't want to use the word but hypnotized and you are you might eyes the D word d mmit eyes y'all know I'm sayin I don't put it in the comments but y'all know I'm sayin and the reason why people say that the reason why that came up is because it became known when a man sleep with a woman now he owns her she feels a sense of ownership to to him she feels like a piece of his property like he has taken her he has her that's why if you do it then it's not consensual is seen as a violation that's why it's called rape that's why it's called molestation because when it is not authorized it is a violation because this is a serious act now when it is consensual now what you have to realize is you are still giving your body man and woman man and woman you are giving your body and what I need you to understand is that the world is turning the world is spinning the universe's is at work and humans on this universe are here and one of the the main goal the main order for a human is to reproduce life because if the desire to reproduce life was easily tamable easily kwench able then the human race would cease to exist so that desire in man is insanely insanely strong it is very very strong it is mind altering Lee strong it is mind boggling Lee strong it is beyond your comprehension I talk to women about this and to be honest with you women have no clue no clue no clue how strong this desire is in men it is different I don't care if and and I've talked to several women who they say what Tony you know I want it just as much as a man I want as much as a man I say you think that because you have a desire for it and yes you feel like you can do it every day yes very few women say they could do it three times a day I think it was a celebrity that came out and said she had to get her release every 12 hours I remember I've dealt with and talked to ladies like that and in all of those cases in all the cases that I saw I would ask them I said well when were you exposed to this feeling that you're chasing and they would say at 10 at 11 so their body was put into an orgasmic state before they even know knew what it was they were penetrated and received their release they were violated and so what happens is that release happened and when that release happens as a young age before you understand what's happening it can become your norm it can become an addiction it can become a perversion of a deviation from what is normal and the same thing happens with a lot of men when guys start to be exposed to these feelings at young ages 5 6 7 8 9 there's men who have been put in that state that orgasmic State even before they had anything that could come out it was being stimulated 8 9 10 years old that release from the brain that is attached to that action when you are in your imprinting stage now can take over you and become an addiction that's why they have sex addiction classes in therapy because some people say they are addicted now let me help you understand this I do not believe in that being an addiction for a man because what one man says in is an addiction is actually the same thing that every other man is doing so when you really sit down and talk to a man who says he is addicted and he tells his actions and how it works that's the same thing that every man experiences pretty much unless something is wrong with him like you know II D you know dysfunction and so we going here now so Paul's not Paul I need you to understand this okay I need you to understand this this is the most powerful act on the earth human intercourse it is the most powerful act on the earth because greater than building a rocket ship greater than building an airplane greater than building a car guess what all of those minds that created those inventions are a product of human reproduction what that means is two humans came together the man deposited into the woman the woman took and fertilized and birth a child which houses a brain and all which then creates our existence today which all comes from the so called simple casual normal everyday act of intercourse so how can we reduce something to casual when it holds all power when if you remove it the human race cease to exist if you increase it the human race is overly populated also because of the misuse of it because of bacterias because of it being used improperly people began to receive a recumbents in their body now I don't know what the turn recumbents mean but the Bible talked about this in the time of when you're talking about Sodom and Gomorrah of how when they got immoral and became sexually immoral they started receiving recompensed in their body so to me what that word was saying to me is that that's when stuff started to happen disease ailments you know whether that be similar syphilis HIV things of this nature sexually transmitted diseases and so when you realize sexually transmitted disease is basically just bacterias mixing and then fermenting and then producing this bacteria that is a disease and so but think about this those diseases are created it doesn't just you're not you're not a virgin and and not swapping spit or swapping genetics DNA and just got syphilis you see what I mean we have to commit an act of some sort or somebody committed an act and then it was passed down so somebody committed an act somewhere Calton disease a parent may pass the disease to their innocent child may pass the disease to their innocent child but it comes from somewhere at some point in the lineage immoral acts were being done and innocent people are hurt by this meaning it could be a person who just had all pure intentions and they slept with the wrong person but that person had been promiscuous sleeping with all these different people and that person received that disease in their body and then here you are innocent here you are innocent and now you contract the disease or if not a disease now you have a baby on the way and you may have a baby from somebody from a man who doesn't even love you from a man who had no intention of being with you but because of his immaturity because of his irresponsibility and because of your irresponsibility if you're a woman you receive a child so I want you to understand that the greatest key this greatest key right now in love and relationships today is keeping your legs closed stand off your back man keep your pants zipped up and to save yourself we've all unless you're a virgin we've all made the mistake we've all made the mistake I made the mistake and that's why I can see clearly now what they say hindsight is what 2020 it is 20/20 this is the year of perfect vision so you got to change your vision you got to start seeing correctly now hindsight is 20/20 people say to me what time what you know you did that use like you wasn't seeing you were promiscuous and now you telling us we need to save ourselves America well yeah of course you you think I'm gonna tell you to take the same chances I I took I'm supposed to be laid up in somebody hospital bed with all kind of recompensing my body you mean I'm supposed to be taught from the floor but the Lord had his hand on me so that he could usher me he to doing the work that I'm doing that's why I do this every day that's why I served the way I serve because I'm not supposed to be here I'm supposed to win out like Wilt Chamberlain I think he slept with a hundred thousand women I ain't sleep without a thousand women now but I think he died of AIDS Magic Johnson contracted their heels and when he caught a hill and he announced it now he got some medicine he got the money to get the medicine but I know a lot of people to heal and if you want no I'm the HIV and a lot of people contracted through sexual intercourse or through drug use IV drug use and so and then some people is passed down from their parents because of their parent being either innocent victim of somebody who had contracted it or the parent being a promiscuous one or the parent being the drug addict and so what you have to realize is that there are sins that's happening and the wages of sin is death somebody gonna die at some point somebody got to pay a price and it might be the innocent bystander but see when you are an adult this what I need you to understand when you are an adult and I try to I try my best you're not trying absolutely my best to be empathetic you know and to keep in mind you know and but one thing is keeps coming to me one thing keeps coming to me is and it's hard it's hard this is hard to hear it is hard to understand listen to me this hard for me to say but it is very very rarely do I experience and I see people who were living a righteous life style and they have to suffer the wrong and they are forsaken see never have I seen the righteous forsaken even in your pain there will be a praise even in your mess there will come a message even in your brokenness there will be a breakthrough see never have I seen the righteous forsaken now you may have seen somebody forsaken who you thought was righteous but see God sees what you cannot see God see that 24 hours what you do with that 24 what you do in your bedroom what you do in the backseat of your car what you're doing the front seat of the car what you're doing the bathroom what you're doing somebody else bedroom what you're doing is somebody else apartment what you're doing in your home where you reside see now Almighty sees all and the wages of sin is death so that's what I want you to understand that a lot of y'all a lot of y'all believe in God a lot of people believe in God men and women and said well I'm waiting on the man god I got with me alright man I'm looking for a good wife is hard find a good why a man wrote me yes sir he said Tony where's the video for the godly men who have been with the loose wanted that whatcha get it because who got hurt by the loose warm and the worldly woman that's what you get because you were unequally yoked forgive I ain't mean to say that's what you get I told you I'm trying to be empathetic and this what I'm trying to say is that it's so many people that's coming and they saying turning I have this disease it's altered my life it's incurable and when we look into it it comes from premarital sex so I said man had you removed and you remove the premarital sex have you taken that off the table did guess what this person who was promiscuous that brought you this gift that keeps on giving that person most likely would have left your life or the person would have eventually broken down and told you that they was coming to bring a package that they had a package because had you taken that off the table if the person remained in your life he or she would have been forced to really get to know you and if he or she would have really gotten to know you then he or she would have felt in love with you and then once they have fallen in love with you it would be very hard for them to knowingly sleep with you unprotected and give you what they have in their body and so but because there was no guidelines because there was no righteousness you end up in the bed and when you end up in the bed and you outside of a covenant you outside of the Union you are you in willing sin when you're in that place all is fair game all is fair game because the wages of sin is dead is dead it's not remorse open the good book google it it'll take you to description google the way to the sin is death if taken so description it's not remorse it's not pity it's not forgiveness the wages is dead so it don't say we it don't say who you don't say how because a lot of children are suffering due to the sins of their father due to the sins of their mother so I need you to understand that in 2020 the year of perfect vision you need to start looking at your life in a different way and to the versions stay a virgin don't if you were virgin you watching this on care how old you are don't care if you 12 stay off urgent until you married I don't care how hard it is I don't care if you got the Splane from monkey bars I don't care if you got to do a hundred flips if you need to do yoga every day whatever you got to do remain that way until marriage if you have already given up your vCard then you need to recommit you need to rededicate and it needs to become a society of abstinence abstaining until marriage and if enough people commit themselves and get on board guess what change will start to happen change will start to happen and this one act this one act this one powerful act if it is reserved for a real union which has real love because because listen to me now listen to me now you got to really fall in love to get married if you've never come together in intercourse see when you have intercourse you distort the picture see when you have intercourse you cannot have love and not even notice it because of the chemicals that's being released from your brain from that act you could actually be with someone that you strongly dislike you can actually be with someone that you should not be with at all but when you get in the bed you get high you see what I'm saying so it's like crack cocaine see crack cocaine is killing you it's actually killing you and it's killing you slowly but it's making you feel good on the way to your deathbed that's the same thing that intercourse is doing because the same part of the brain is activated from drug use and intercourse the same part of the brain is activated now the dosage that you receive may be different but the same chemicals are being released because the brain only has but so many chemicals to release and they trigger by certain things certain acts certain experiences that the mind responds to so what you have to understand is that you're being drugged to your demise you're being drugged to your death what I mean by that is you so high from this intercourse I remember talking to a lady and as a coach I never could say names or location or anything like that and and it's multiple people who say the same thing that's why I'm able to come up with these videos and the topics because the human experience is the same we're going through the same stuff just in different parts of the world I remember talking to hearing the lady say she said Tony I she had been cheated on and all this man she known and stuff and and I said well if you are committed to standing you really want to stay you need to take that off the table take that intercourse off the table for a period of time and y'all need to start over and y'all need to rebuild don't just jump back in the bed y'all need to feel real love y'all need to become best friends and she said to me she said Tony well that's where we get our chemistry in the bed that's where our chemistry caught myself well if your chemistry comes from the bed you and you all have nothing if the way you bond is in the bed y'all have nothing because what if he have a stroke and his third leg don't work and you don't like his mind you don't like his conversation you don't like his personality you don't like his character y'all finito what if you go through a surgery what if you get put on your back from a back surgery on the front what if you had a commission and y'all don't have real chemistry through communication and real love you have nothing what have he come in the edie and his member don't work anymore what if you hit a point in your life to where you tired of it and you gone through different phases in your life then you have nothing so see what I need you to understand is that when people when you connect that way through intercourse it won't blind you it will dope you it will trick you into a marriage you it will trick you into a relationship that you shouldn't even be in because you feeling high because you feeling this feeling of ecstasy so when you take that off the table now now the person you're dealing with is forced to make love to your mind and if a person cannot stimulate your mind if a person cannot touch your heart and stimulate your mind without intercourse then that person is not for you because they don't have the key to your lock they don't have the code to your safe you hear what I'm trying to tell you so you need somebody that in your conversation in your communication in your quality time it feels euphoric it feels like you are on cloud nine that you can fall in love with this person is heart this person's mind not with the tricks that they can do in the bed can see a lot of you getting your back broke and when you get your back broke then you lose your mind cuz your spine out of place so now your mind out of place so now you thinking you in love what you hypnotized by the vitamin D so you so worried about the vitamin D okay and the the vitamin P and vitamin V whatever you want to call it okay you so locked in on that vitamin that not you addicted not you addicted and you can't see straight you know got not cross-eyed you can't even see straight you can't think straight and so now what you call in love is a toxic soul time what you call in love is a spiritual and emotional toxic bond to a person that you gave your body to because see what you have to realize this what we're all doing there what universe no it's spinning on an axis and inside of this universe we find planet Earth and inside a planet earth we find humans and inside of these humans we find the seeds that the the semen and the egg which is intended to come together and move the human race forward but see what you have to have is you have to have purity in that union because if you are not pure then you take and you put the universe office access because everything is energy everything is vibration God is a spirit God is not an old white man with a long beard sitting on gold chair thank God is this air I'm breathing you said I'm saying a lot of people gotta confuse a lot of people literally have put a picture in their mind to God a lot of people didn't left God and become an atheist because somebody painted Jesus with blond hair blue eyes people then gave up on God because humans then gave God a picture and those people don't like the picture that another human gave God God is a spirit do you mean so when you get out of alignment of the spiritual realm when you're supposed to be in covenant with a person before you combine your body with them before you join juices before you swap in DNA and and chemicals you supposed to be in holy matrimony because by that point you've been through the period of patience where you are learning and you are growing and you are getting to know one another where you are creating love see love is not found love is created and is created by giving of yourself to someone purely wholly fully in bounds not out of bounds love is in bounds see lust is out of bounds love is in bounds so when you give that way and you receive that way now you build real love and when you have real love you found see the call and the charge of a human is to meet the person to become love to be love to become love and when you become love when you operate from love when you operate from a place of love true love pure love in your heart mind spirit body when you become loved you will attract love love can do nothing other than attract love your enemies become your footstool your haters start to praise you because you are operating from love your haters your enemies will respect you they won't attack you because you're operating from love love has to be recognized and realized and it cannot be rejected forever and those who reject it will pay a price of their own on their road to their destiny or to their fate but you will eventually attract love if you become love and when you attract love listen to me slow the video down you need to rewind it now watch it three times if you need to when you become love love pays the price love is all you need see when you become love you don't have to get on your back when you become love you got the whip by your zipper when you become love law pay the price love is enough people say well Tony well what if I wait and then I don't like it the only way you don't like it is when you don't have love but when you fall in love there's no such thing as bad intercourse it's all good because you're in love because the largest sexual organ is the mind it's not what's between your legs it is what's between your ears it is the mind this is what sense is feeling this is what sense is emotion this is what produces the release into your bloodstream the largest sexual organ is the mind so you got to learn how to make love to the mind not to the body y'all worrying about how long somebody can go y'all learn about the size y'all learn about the Aquafina y'all learn about all the wrong stuff it has to be a love connection not a physical connection this is a spiritual and emotional connection because we are spiritual beings having a human experience so in order to truly connect your spirits got to be aligned your spirits got to be on the same page so you go on and you connect them with your body and that's why you 5 years 10 years 15 20 years in and there's still trash your relationship is horrible you losing your mind that's because your spirit is not in alignment with the person that you are with therefore you are not in spiritual harmony you are not in spiritual unity you are in spiritual warfare and that is why your chemistry comes through intercourse because you need to drug yourself with the release from your brain that comes from that useless and meaningless intercourse that you are having with this spirit that you are not conjoined with that you are not connected to that you are not in harmony with but your bodies have come together but your spirits are worlds apart listen to me see a corner mile will not understand this so if you don't understand and I'm making no sense to you that's because you are of another mind and I am NOT of that mind so what I'm saying gonna sound absolutely foolish but if you can understand a word and I'm saying if you you might not understand everything but if you can get a word that means the language I'm speaking is inside of you and that I'm calling this spirit of lust and perversion and promiscuity up out of you and you may have to pray it on up out of you get it on a body you got the power you got to speak it out of you and then this is what this what I'm here to tell you for all of you so-called sex addicts for all of you at let's say I'm addict I'm addict let me tell you this don't give in to it and see what happens you will not die you trying to tell me that if you don't have that intercourse you think you're gonna lose a little bit start convulsing you think you're gonna start foaming out I'm not no no you might feel some a little anxiety you might be oh oh you might get a little angry you might get a little frustrated you might want to punch a pillow go punch a wall you want to that's your friend to break your fingers punch the go punch the punching bag you need to do your hundred push-up do your hundred squats run your five miles you will not die you will not die for abstinence but what's going to happen that weakness will become strengthened that weakness will become strength now is people who when you coming off a real drug a powerful drug when you coming off that cocaine now you see those people go through withdrawal to where they may be vomiting they may be sweating they may be shivering but even then when you get through that storm it's a rainbow on the other side and the battle then is not in your body the battle is in your mind the battle is in your spirit so listen to me like the girls say you could delete your HOA miss she said you could delete that guess what you can delete it you can't delete if I still be on your resume but you could delete it from your spirit you could delete it from your mind meaning that you don't have to keep getting on your back you don't have to keep unzipping your pants fellows just because you've done that a hundred times already or a thousand times already you can change so in this year make a commitment listen to me make a commitment because this is the greatest act physical act the greatest gift is love but the way we express that love is through this physical act but that's also how we express how we fulfill lust because you can express love without that physical act but that's how we fulfill lust but that's also for the means of reproduction so you got to understand what it is for where it should be for when you should do it and why you are doing it don't just be giving your body away willy nilly we've already made that mistake so now you know Bella now it's time to do better because I still have the urge I still had a urge but see I realized it's not the war it's not in my body it's in my spirit man it's in my mind so what I have to do is I have to renew my mind and when I renew my mind I renew my spirit so what that mean by renewing my mind that means that I'm not watching pornography you need to let go of that I'm not self pleasuring feeding the lusts intensifying the lust because that's what it does see the more you keep self pleasure the more you warming it up the more you warm and the more you intensifying it you feeding the monster you feed new monster and eventually that right there is not gonna be good enough and you gonna want the real thing you gonna want the real thing you tired of eating artificial crowd you want some fresh add water that you see get dropped in the pan that you take the leg yourself crack it open and dip it in some bottle see when you doing on that self-pleasure you're gonna get tired of that artificial and you're gonna look that real that wiggly jiggly you hear me you're gonna look that real because you you're gonna build up your tolerance just like with anything that you keep doing you keep doing you want more you want more you want more you will lift a 5-pound then you got the ten pound you got the 15 then you got to 20 you see I'm saying so you went from this little hill vibrator did you went do something else then you went to you something else then you need you a man do you want a real you want a man saying what the man went from the computer screen went from the phone screen to where not you out hunting looking for you a woman now if you get you a woman and you got women that's gonna do it instead of that screen now you're going that way let's see that screen couldn't deposit that Hill in your body so the wages of sin is dead and I see this death maybe by natural causes or it made me you feel it suicidal because of where your life has led you based on your choices and your decisions or it means your actions make somebody else feel homicidal and you getting ready to become the victim because of who you dealing with and how you dealing with them that's why I tell you man you keep playing around with emotions with these women and you're gonna meet the wrong what you're gonna meet the one that you are the straw that broke the camel's back and she gonna put a knife in your heart and I'm not speaking metaphorically she gonna put a knife in your heart she gonna put a bullet in your head you know why this show snap exists that show snap and on that Oh lock season that channel an old lifetime channel all the stuff real stories you know what CIN CIN just being fed being fostered being cultivated and it just leads see that that that lusts spirit then permeates and it turns into that greed spirit that's why I want to deal with some spirits because them spirits bring about other spirits and them spirits feed off other spirits that's why when you see you ever notice somebody with a promiscuous spirit that same person the same people will also get into illegal activity because of the spirit of greed wanting to get fast money illegal money is spiritual Oh Lord I looked up at four to seven minute forgive me but this right here this is that serious this is that serious forgive me Wow I thought I'm gonna talk of 10 minutes this that's eerie I have a little lower reach of the day because he's somebody right now put be blessed in the comments if you got this far see somebody right now you own the fence you own the fence you worn in your spirit you worn between your righteous spirit what you know is right what you know you should be doing in this evil world this corner world this profane world this promiscuous world this overly sexualized world and you warned in your spirit and you asking yourself should I keep compromising should I keep compromising and conforming to this world to find love should I keep going against my values and ignoring what I know is right should I keep giving my body away sowing my Wild Oats should I keep doing this knowing that it's not sitting right with my spirit knowing that every time I get up I feel less than I feel like I just gave my body to another evil person to another person who does not care for me who does not even really know me who has not shown me enough to even deserve me in that way who has not even won my heart and now here I'm giving my soul I'm giving my whole body see somebody on the fence and I'm here to tell you I was reading this morning reading proper 31 and I believe around proper 31 and 30 was talking about this woman and it says many women have done noble things but you exceed them all you've surpassed them all what that said to me and what that meant to me is that you need to be a one percenter you need to stop trying to be in the 99% and be okay being in that 1% because if 1% of 7 billion people is is 700 million or or 7 million then guess what out of them 7 million if it's 35 3.5 million men and 3.5 million women or even 5 million and two million guess what you won't come upon the time you're gonna stumble upon the time to where you as a 1% you meet a 1% whether you a man or woman when you enter the 1% guess what you ain't no only one taking that leap you ain't the only one taking that leap of faith I remember the man in the Bible you say Lord I'm the only one righteous I'm the only one living right God say I got 700 of you over there livin righteous you're you know only one you never the only one it's always don't be somebody else that's that that God has put on their heart to take up the same charge that you've been given so if you own the fence I'm here to tell you stay off your bank in 2020 and if you can find the strength to stay off your back in 2020 you're gonna be able to roll right in the 20 21 right in the 20 22 but along the way if you're doing this with a glad heart and your spirit is pure and you're operating from love you are going to be radiating love you're going to be glowing love and you're going to attract love you will be in a sea of people walking down the street and you will have a aura about you and and your your likeness the person that is intended for you will have that same aura and you will be drawn to one another because you will become the light in the darkness and so you will see the light and your partner will see the light in you and y'all will be able to come together and join forces and guess what guess what my body tire yeah let me tell you when y'all when you ever you know a lot of y'all ain't dealt with the spirit when you deal with that spirit and that spirit using you it'll drain you but let me tell you something just a part right here that I had to get to there's one act that many has reduced as a casual act there's one act of intercourse sex if we can take this act and place it inside of a holy matrimony a union a covenant a lifetime commitment before God beneath God under God in God if we can take and put that act and reserve it for only that union with one person that union will then produce children who are seeing love manifested who are seeing and experiencing real love and when this love is real it is reinforced and when it is reinforced it is passed down and when it is passed down to your children children who have experienced love through feeling and through sight it is extremely hard for a child who has been immersed in love to grow up and be a deviant to deviate from the right path it is extremely hard he or she may do it but because they were trained up in the way that they should go they will return so what happens is just by placing the sacred act of sex inside of a union a covenant you sanctifying you keep this act sanctified and sacred you create and you build real love you transfer and you teach and you impart this love into your children in their imprinting States they grow up and they are a even better version of you they become the light in darkness they attract a light in darkness they come create a union they produce more light in darkness now what this is doing you are single-handedly now becoming a part of the eradication of hate of violence of premature pregnancies or when I say premature I mean out of wedlock children of sexually transmitted disease of crime of all of this pain and poverty all of this can be eradicated through being sexually pure being keeping sex inside of a moral a moral compass so that you have morals and you have values and even if you cannot change the entire world one thing that you do is break the generational curses and you change your lineage you change your family so if your family is the only light in darkness guess what when you have peace you have love when you have love and you have peace you produce price disparity so when you have love peace and prosperity you know no pain because even when you are introduced what others will call pain you have peace in the midst of the pain you have strength in the midst of the struggle you see pain differently you perceive it differently pain becomes opportunity for growth instead of room for sulking and sorrow see just by keeping love pure you change your life you touch the world you began to change the world guess what I had to grow into this space so if you've made mistakes like me you can grow into this space too because now I could be sleeping around with multiple women but I'm keeping the act of sex sacred with my wife with one woman all of my mistakes now are behind me and going forward for the rest of my life and I've been on this mission for more than a decade now for the rest of my life I want to be in purity I want to be in peace I want to be in righteousness I want to do with God's Way because even though I was in sin before marriage I still could be in sin now by being in adultery so I still have to make a choice and I'm asking you today to make a choice I'm in this for a hit of our I'm asking you to make a choice and change your life make a decision to change your life and keep your body keep your love sacred and then you attract real love if you already married then keep your marriage sacred and pass it to your children and let your children go and touch the lives of other children and let them grow into an adult and let it change the world guess what this type of child does not become a gang member that's killing people so you're eradicating crime this person is not robbing and stealing this person is not promiscuous and breaking hearts this person is not a deviant a a criminal a menace to society this person is bringing help hope and healing to the world that one act that we call casual has so much power it is Tony Gaskins I told y'all gonna get done for Howard now I ain't noticed I was this far in but god bless you make sure you check the links in the description if you want to become a member of the channel and we'll talk soon

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 59min 44sec (3584 seconds)

Published: Wed Jan 08 2020