Why men hate women!

hey tony guys here popping in now this is uh something i've been thinking about been looking at and of course this is some men while some men but i'm seeing it more and more often and there is this pride and this um joy that men get by putting our foot on the neck of a woman and especially the black woman and it's it's sad it's sickening you know it's disgusting and a lot of guys you know they call what i'm talking about they call me a symph and it's really just because of their own pain it's really because of their own heartbreak their own mistakes their own upbringing so it's some men were raised by a woman who spoiled them and who made him her king so he didn't really learn a respect for women because his mom always catered to him she did whatever it took to get him the latest pair of jordans and she dressed him like the men she wanted to date from his hair to his jewelry to his clothes and so even as a young boy he loves his mother but he sees women as disposable he sees women as do girls then you have the man and so that man can grow to actually hate women like despise women who are not his mother because it's like hey you're not my mom you'll never be my mom you can't compare to my mom i love my mom you always come second to my mom because she's my queen but you ain't hurt you ain't carrying me nine months you didn't feed me you ain't put clothes on my back so i'm gonna use you and you gonna do for me what she did for me but i'm not gonna love you the way i love her and so that's the approach that that type of man takes then you have the man who his mother was abuser and she would punch him in the face hit him in the head because she was beat up while she was growing up by her mom or her dad or her husband or boyfriend and she feel like if you gonna be a man you got to be tough and i'm not going to be baby and you ain't with what what and she will she was abusive to him when he was a child before he could get with her and he could do something to her but because he know when he grew and he knew he was stronger than her he didn't want to take it out on her and so he took it out on other women he gave other women the beatings he wished he could have gave his mother but he couldn't give her because that's his blood that's his mother so he takes it out on every girlfriend and he doesn't know how to love a woman so in turn he hates a woman and he really hates a woman because he feels like his mama hated him and so you have that type of man then you have the type of man that his mom was an addict and she was absent and she slept with men for money she did things for for drugs as he was growing up all of the dope boys and the guys in the neighborhood would kind of look at him strange because his mom was their client and so it made him despise her it made him not like her and therefore he grows up and he takes that out on women and so this is just a few of these examples okay when it comes from motherhood then you have the guy who he wanted this woman and this girl or this woman and he tried to get her and she brushed them off she made fun of them and then she went with a guy that's like the opposite of him that guy never got over that and today now that he is taller or he makes money or he has a job or he's grown into himself or you know he can do something for himself and now he's like seen as handsome when before he was like the little nerdy kid with glasses and a big nose but now that he can you know put on a suit and look sophisticated and have more options now he want to put his foot on a woman's neck and make her feel less than like you nothing but really it's from his own insecurities and then you have the guy who he because of his laugh his style he was funny or he had money his mom was the one who kept him in the jordans and the latest clothes but yet he was kind of looks challenged but because of what he had going on his mama nice car his nice clothes his comedic timing he was able to get the pretty girl so he got the pretty girl but she cheated on him with who she really wanted the attractive dope boy he found out all the guys is you know you know riding them and clowning them oh your girl cheating on you oh she's she's eating wet peanuts hey peter cook your girl so now he hates women every woman after her has to pay the price for what she did and then that could also happen in adulthood a lot of men they go and they try to get this woman that looks like a bombshell to them or she looks like the adult version of the girl he had a crush on in middle school or high school or even elementary he uses his job status or his income and he gets her he gets her but it's all for looks she may have no character she may have no class she may be you know have worked in the sex industry or been an exotic dancer and she wants something different she she used to the fast life to the money she really not into this nine to five type of guy and or or this guy who at this income level she used to being able to do more with the man she dealing with so that guy still around stealing her dm stealing her text he come around boom shoot her some messages this dude on work on a trip for business or what have you or he cheat on her and then she cheat bigger she go to a dude that really got that money really got swagger really on that next level as far as attractiveness is concerned and not this dude even though he cheated on her or if he was perfect it go both ways he crushed now he hates women so now look the type of guy that does not hate women meaning that he can love a woman and he doesn't want to hurt her he doesn't want to use her and he wants to treat her right and he wants to be faithful to her that type of guy most often most often is going to be a guy who was raised by his father who he saw his father love his mother or stepfather love his mother and he never saw this father figure cheat on his mother he could have heard speculation it could have been said but he never could tell it himself never saw himself never heard about it so what he saw is a man loving a woman and being faithful to her that is most often going to be the type of man that is faithful to his woman not just love a woman so it's cause some men gonna say i don't hate my one i don't hate women and i come from a single parent home you might not hate her do you cheat on her are you asking her for threesome if you asking her for threesomes you don't love her if you do a threesome with your woman you don't truly love her you lust after her you have love for her you're not in love with her because when you truly truly love a woman all you want is that one woman you don't even want female friends you don't want women to be your friends you may have colleagues constituents hey how you doing hey and bye you only want female friends you want this one woman and you want her in her entirety from the crown of her head to the sole of her feet that's all you want you know why you know what i can say this cause i'm there because i i've been on both sides i've been the guy that had multiple women i've been the guy that had multiple women you can't look at me and tell me that men know men and men know what type of man could get women or had women we we if you didn't have multiple women then we we're not speaking the same language we're not the same i'm not here to argue with you if you you've been with five women i'm telling you from a former dog from a former womanizer to a 100 percent faithful man this right here space this all the way in love i call the police if a woman asked me can she have a threesome with me and my wife i want to turn her into the law that's how much i love my wife what woman don't hey and this ain't no this ain't no cap you you could do anything you want to do like some guys don't tried it some guys have tried to create a fake account or send a real woman that they know maybe is a sex worker or a dancer to my dms to try to strike up a conversation look you can do whatever you want to do if you believe that this cow you could call future tell future he got all kind of lady tell drake hey get one of your ladies and try to get her to get this tony gaskins i'm on my p's and q i'm looking for i'm ready for i'm waiting on because i'm really in love i know what real love is like when i give my whole heart to a woman but guess what i still have self-love if my wife took a stupid pill and she treated on me and she cheated on me i wouldn't hate women because i have self-love see that's the highest level of love self-love see a lot of y'all you get mad with a woman who cheated on you and you take it out on other women you hate other women because you don't love you if my wife was stupid enough to cheat on me if my wife was stupid enough to cheat on me guess what that'll let me know we're not on the same level that'll let me know god calling me to hire god calling me the greater that god might be calling me to be apostle paul and my wife is a human i can't speak for what she'll do for where she at all i can speak for is me i know i love me ain't putting all my hope and trust in a woman i trust god i trust that if my woman did take a stupid pill god give me the strength to do what i have to do to go about my business you see what i mean so the issue with a lot of men is you depending on a woman to show you love and to give you love but you don't love yourself and so most often the way that a man learns to love a woman purely is through the example of another man that he respects or loves and admires that is where that comes from and so ladies now now when you think about this now you see why men hate women because how many examples do you know personally of a faithful man in the household loving his woman purely without infidelity and being an example to his son we really don't know of that like it should be the norm like every person out of every person we know like all of our family members all of our friends all of our co-workers out of every person we know 80 of them should have this situation but sit and go down through the people you know go down i'm on my phone so i can't look at my testimony i was gonna go through my test okay who i text okay i deal with text with him single mom i just protection with him single mom just was texting with him mom and dad um but that wasn't that you know act normal present okay joe was checking him okay mom and mom and dad but dad wasn't that the two guys that had a dad they're not known to be cheaters like they infidelity if they doing something it ain't just out there ain't just swinging on but he had a dad in the home um the other one without a dad seemed to be is is married and seemed to love and really be locked in and be there and that's the other side of what i was going to talk about when i said most times a man who loves a woman purely and is faithful saw another saw another man that he respected does it the other time that it happens the most is when a man was raised by a single mother and he despises his dad but that inspires and motivates him to be the absolute best man he can be it pushes him and he says i'm going to be everything you were not and that's typically the two types of men but that last example is much more rare because it takes self motivation it takes a whole lot of maturity it takes a lot of you know discipline because you teaching yourself you raising yourself and that's why humans have parents because it's very hard to raise yourself if if a baby is born and then just left to itself it'll die because it can't feed itself and so it can't just crawl right away and crawl to food and go and hunt and find food see baby humans are not like that see a baby animal a lot of them can feed themselves but even them they have to be fed even baby animals have to be fed so what you have to realize is it's hard for a man to what what we call get it out the mud it's hard for a man to get it out the mud in manhood a man might get it out the mud but to go make money but even with that he's doing something that he saw somebody do he saw a pro athlete that inspired him to emulate that athlete he studied that athlete game and he copied the athlete game and that's how he found his path and made his way he saw a dope boy he went to the dope boy he said hey how can i get in can you front me a little something imma sell it at my middle school at my high school boom he get fronted and then he in the game so where does it come with fatherhood with manhood a man got to put you in the game a man that you respect that you look up to he got to put you in the game now see listen the reason i know this because i lived this and i and i was around it all my life i was an athlete i played basketball and football i was always the best in my league in basketball uh the people who played in my league they probably don't they'll want to say different i average more points than anybody in my in my grade in my league in football i was always the best running back and i really and i was the best running back because i was scared i didn't like the hit and i didn't like to get hit so i was running for my life that made me amazing at running back i averaged ten yards to carry in high school and eight yards of carry in college and because i was running for my life but that always put me in the top of my field as a running back and so i had access to a lot of girls coming up and then women as an adult and i was always around me because i'm my athlete so you playing sports and so you on the bus you with the team you're in the locker room and so i got to see how men are built how men are made what shapes a man and i studied people because i'm i was very quiet and i was very observant that's how i could talk today for hours on end every single day because i spent my life observing and so i saw this and i saw the makeup of men and what i realized is it takes a man to put a man in the game on manhood the men who do cheat and beat and lie and manipulate they learnt that from another man they learnt that from their dad from their uncle from their brother from their cousin the way men view women they learn that from another man and see here's the other thing the other aspect of why men hate women the other aspect is because we hate what we don't understand the same reason whites hate blacks and when i say this it's not of course it's not every single person but i'm speaking in generalities because that's what we're doing right here it it's gonna be of course there's exceptions to the rules but so understand what we're saying the same reason whites hate blacks the same reasons the germans hated the jews the same reason the fair skin hated the dark skin in other parts in every other part of the world we hate what we do not understand and so men do not understand women men don't understand the articulation of a woman men don't understand the mindset of a woman men look at women and feel like oh you spoiled and not take into consideration that women did not have the rights that men had men say oh woman got is is high maintenance you got to buy all this stuff for her you got to do her hair do her nails you got to pay for all of this the man got to work and provide the living and you got to do all of this for the woman the man get the short end of the stick and the woman just get catered she get took care of she can stay home but men never on average understand what i'm speaking general on average men never take to consider the plight of the woman because most men were not touched as a child most men there are a lot of men who were but it's a very small percent it's a much smaller percentage for men guess what ninety percent of the one the women i've met was touched as a child but for me i was not touched as a child me being a man and talking to men and talking to my homeboy the guys who were touched as a child you can tell it it changes their countiness it changes their demeanor the women who were touching a child you can't necessarily tell it because women have a different type of emotional intelligence some you can if she went through a whole whole lot it can change her whole demeanor but there's a lot of women there are women who are professors who are ceos who your mother your sister your wife that was touched as a child and a man will never know it unless she tells him and then some men because of his preconceived notions some men play on that and take advantage of that see this is the truth that we don't want to hear this the truth that men don't want to confront and this the problem with our world this is why we in the situation that we in because men see women as opponents men out here taking pride in putting a woman down and putting a woman in her place what is her place what is her place where did god make her he he didn't make her as a footstool he didn't make her as less than just be when it says weaker vessel that don't mean inadequate that doesn't mean less than that doesn't mean less of a human it means to be protected it means to be cared for it means to be cherished not to be beat on not to be cheated on not to be cursed out not to be manipulated and this the thing this why men don't have peace you can't have peace if you don't protect and provide for that which god has given you god placed a woman in a man's life for a reason not to be lied to and manipulated and deceived and controlled and cheated on and beat on and this the thing men are so strong in our opinions that millions of women have bought into the mistreatment that men have normalized women are attacking women to say you need to shut up and be submissive and know your place women are condoning threesomes women are condoning open relationships women are condoning cheating women are saying so many women are saying listen i can't control you i can't change you i can't tame you do with me what you want you want another woman in the bed okay you want an open relationship okay you want to cheat okay that is a trick of the enemy because a house divided cannot stand but see and it's happening in certain demographics in certain neighborhoods and it plays in with poverty and racism and discrimination all of it works together everything affects everything everything affects everything and it affects every race to a certain degree some way more than others and when you look at it and you analyze in your own life you'll see your own statistics because some people people throw out statistics but the thing about it is nobody don't nobody fill out surveys so even the statistic that you're reading on a website that don't mean they're accurate look at your life look at your life so i'll read a statistic but then when i look around and i go to a hundred men the hundred men that i just went to and evaluated don't fall in that statistic then my numbers like this hundred don't don't line up with the statistic i just read the thousand that i evaluated don't line up with the statistic that i read so you got to look at your life you got to look around you and that's going to determine your reality and your truth because you're going to get to see with your own eyes the makeup of real men versus grown boys and this is the thing a lot of grown boys have a platform and listen if you are a man like myself and you believe in a level playing field you believe in respecting the mind of a woman and not trying to control or manipulate or deceive a woman then you're not really going to have no huge platform and you're going to have very few men that support because this this what what i'm doing is what they call simple just what they you know all kind of words for it you know p-a-n i don't choose to use curse words but that's all kind of words that men are used for to describe a man like me but that's okay with i'm okay with that because i'm a real man and i and i'm okay with my manhood i i know who i am i i know who i am i know what i'm capable of and i and i've been on both sides i've been the man that did everything wrong to a woman everything everything when i went on oprah a lot of people look up and they google me and they said tony guys went on oprah entire banks that was me talking about when i used to strong-arm women that was me talking about when i was a toxic controlling abusive male i've been the worst of the worst now i'm on here and now i'm on the other side of it i tried everything else i've been the dominating controlling toxic male now i'm a healthy whole loving man and i see the difference in my peace i see the difference in my wealth i see the difference in my health i see the difference in my mindset my mentality i see the difference i don't been on both ends of the spectrum i know what it's like i don't walk through that path that's how i can identify pain when i see it because i haven't been there that's how i know a grown boy when i see him because i haven't been one see real recognize real so you know who looked familiar when you didn't been there and our world is broken and and we tore down because of the miseducation of black men and that's what i'm worried about and yeah it's other races of men that's miseducated but what did i just say i speak on what i have been through ain't never been a white man ain't never been an asian man ain't never been a his hispanic man all i've ever been is a black man and i'm around black men and that's what i'm saying i do not myself personally get to see the amount of black men that i want to see treating a wife not no long time girlfriend not no baby mama a wife if if she good enough to sleep with marry her why because we need stability we need your children to see stability if you messed it up with baby mama number one baby mama number two baby mama number three get it right with baby mama number four like be the man in that household to the children that's in that household because you can't be the man to the children that's in the other household like don't keep too wrong don't make a right don't keep repeating the cycle like find a time the way you say okay i'm finna get this thing right when you say look okay i don't beat on women okay i don't cheated on women i don't control women out of manipulated women i don't did this and they did that to women okay okay what did it bring me did it bring me an everlasting peace did it bring me uh indescribable happiness what did it bring me did it bring me wealth was it the reason for my wealth was it the reason for my success me cheating and manipulating and deceiving and controlling no okay so now you have to say okay let me all right if i want to be a man a man is about accepting responsibility a man is about taking control of your life so if i want to be a man so now now let me do something i've never done let me treat this woman with utmost respect let me treat this woman the way i would want a man to treat my daughter if i had a daughter if you don't have a daughter let me treat this woman like that let me treat my wife let me marry this woman that i got on her back that i got popping out kids let me marry this woman because she's a sacrifice for me she'd have been there for me and let me treat her with respect let me talk to her like a dignified human being and stop talking to her like she's a child like she's less than let me talk to her like she's educated woman because she is with school or without school see education don't come from a university it's a lot of dumb people with doctoral degrees it's a lot of dumb people with master's degree i don't even have a bachelor's degree i don't even have a bachelor's degree but you know what it's doctorates who what they earn in a year god bless me to earn in a day but you know when that blessing come that blessing those blessings came after i learned how to treat my woman and it was and and it had nothing to do with me toiling in the field it had nothing to do with my knees with my calves with my arms it had nothing to do with that it was my mind that god used to teach me how to earn a living but that type of peace and that type of clarity so listen i started earning seven figures seven figures because sometimes people don't somebody ask me what a six figures it's a hundred thousand dollars to 999 999 seven figures mean a million dollars okay a million dollars up to eight figures which when you go to uh 10 million and so when i started earning seven figures i'ma tell you the truth i didn't have to leave my house with no and i don't have any staff i have nobody on payroll to earn seven figures i don't have to leave my house to earn seven figures i don't have to sweat to earn seven figures i don't have to tear up itself i don't have to pull a ac ontario acl or mcl to earn seven figures it's all from my mind so what i'm doing to earn seven figures guess what i can do it until the day that i die and so but let me help you understand something in order for me to create on that level i didn't gain that level of peace and wisdom and clarity until i learn how to treat my wife see everything affects everything so you have to understand what is the main thing you cannot produce good if you hate women you cannot receive the bountiful that your creator has for you if you are hating the creation that he created to be your partner if you hate her when i say hate her i mean if you are lying to her you hate her if you are deceiving her you hate her if you are manipulating her you hate her if you are disrespecting her talking down to her you hate her if you cheating on her you hate her if you're beating on her you hate her you cannot receive everything that your creator has for you if you hate her you have to understand it's a transfer of energy what goes around comes around what you sow you shall reap you have to understand that you got to get out of this mindset that a woman is your opponent and that she out to get you because guess what if you become your highest self then a woman who is out to get you she will have sirens on her you will see her when them women show up in my dm it's like a glow it's like a it's like a a light is on them that i could see you is a demon you as a jezebel you is delilah trying to come take the strength of samson woman be dismissed satan i rebuke you get thee behind me you will see her when you become your highest self when you learn what self love is when you stop giving into the ways of society that has defined manhood for you let me ask you this why don't you see why don't you see rich white men with all of the ice and jewelry that you see rich black men with other than tyler hero but after that so let me ask you this how many rappers or men who got a lot of ice who show you their ice and show you their their clothes and show you their cars also show you the properties they own show you the deed ain't got to show the address but this this what we have to get to as men and understanding manhood we flexing things but really don't have ownership we stacking up money but ain't got the money growing and then we'll give our money to a white man because we don't even respect black men we don't even value the mindset of black men um i don't know what color al haymon is but a lot of boxers have him as a manager i assume he's i think a black man and i know he got sam walking working for him working with them and then we see we see that and then we see lebron james with um maverick carter other than that we really don't know a whole lot of i mean we got a few others out there but we really don't know a whole lot of black men who the nba player take his home boy and say look you get the education and the training and i'm gonna and you gonna manage my money listen i learned how to trade stocks and learn how to invest in my future and learn how to invest in my my children college fund on my own i do my i'll do my own money management because it ain't rocket science it ain't rocket science and but i took the hours and i spent the hours getting the knowledge on every aspect so i taught myself but guess what it's black men who earn more than me but don't trust me and never ask me a question about how to build a mailing list and my mailing list earned me seven figures never asked me how to build a mailing list how to expand my brand how to have multiple streams of income but will go to a white man or an asian man and empty his bank account to pay him because of his skin color and i get on the phone with men of other races and run circles around them ask them questions that they cannot answer and i know on the other end of the phone they're like oh my goodness this is not a dumb end oh oh well yeah well so well um well so yeah so this is probably not gonna be for you because i i see you have a lot of questions and i see you have a you know a lot of you know just uh there's some apprehension here and and you know so this probably is not the best you know investment vehicle for you so um so yeah you know hey you know hey you're doing a great job everything you're doing it's on point you know so hey so yeah hey good talking to you and i'm gonna let you go i will talk because they used to men who look like me not having no questions and just trusting their skin color because and not trusting my own not trusting my skin color that's what they used to and so we have been deceived about what manhood is we hate ourselves that's why we don't even put our own people in positions to win and power instead we give them fish instead of teaching them how to fish we give them fish oh here go your car here your house instead of saying hey take this certification to learn how to do taxes to learn how to repair credit to learn how to be a real estate agent and then i'm gonna invest in that we just say hey he'll go your house he'll go your car what else ever you need from and then we get stressed and then we're so stressed because everybody need us and we take care of these kids that we have from different women and then everybody need us and then we get stressed so then what we do we take stress out on our woman or on your women because some of you got multiple women and then you you using the woman as an energy dump because every time you uh every time you have that oh it's a release from your brain just like when you snorting powder on snort powder something some some of y'all do and pop pills and smoke weed and get drunk and do all of that to numb the pain it ain't doing nothing for you you ain't never seen no study that say marijuana is going to add years to your life you've never seen that study that say if you smoke marijuana you living to 100 years old guaranteed you ain't never seen that you doing that for pain you that's medicinal you that help you take your mind off your failures they help you take your mind off your shortcomings they help you take your mind off of your relationship with your baby mamas that's not good they help you take your mind off of not being able to be in the home with your kids that's pain medicine guess what i don't need it i don't need i don't get drunk i don't smoke weed i don't pop pills i don't gamble i don't masturbate i don't watch pornography i'm telling you the whole truth you can't even believe it you can't believe oh man that count oh that count all that bit count oh that [ __ ] man hey man man oh man listen i'll listen to the man video oh where the name tony hashtag tony i listen to the video man that bit count he lying cause i know a chick that's sleeping with him right now i call her right now hey hold on yo hey bianca hey what you told hey didn't you tell me that on loose booty sleeping with tony gaskin though you know the one on instagram who be always talking about always be man bastion didn't tell me be i could sleep with him hold on let me put your speakerphone say it again yeah that's what i heard um i can't say for sure but that's what my friend told me that uh tony gaskins is uh sleeping with her and or used to try to sleep with her i don't know i can't really say but you know all the men cheating on it why that's your argument but what i'm trying to tell you is when i learn what real manhood is when i accept the responsibility for my life and then i learned that taught me how to treat people and when i started treating people different starting first with my wife that's when everything fell into place that's where everything fell in place that's when that real peace came that's when the real clarity came that's when the real breakthrough came that's what i'm trying to tell you so listen you got to understand this right here you got to understand this right here what i'm trying to tell you is understand you have to stop hating women you got to stop taking your pain out on women because that's breaking down society it's breaking down your family when you think your kids don't know they know because your child a child know when his or her mama is clicking on all cylinders a child know when his or her mama is at a hundred percent that child no and that child know where his mama pain come from see a lot of guys who have become rich they right you could bring in here you can bring here my wife bring me some lunch um a lot of guys who have become rich they associate their mom's pain and misery with a job so the first thing they want to do is retire their mama and buy their mama house yo mama pain didn't come from the job she actually thankful for the job because the job paid her so she actually thankful for the job huh put on that paper oh god all right i appreciate it she actually thankful for the job because the job is what allowed her to feed you see if she hated her job is because she went to the job already unhappy but she unhappy with how your daddy was treating her see if your daddy was loving her and if your daddy was respecting her and your daddy was there for her and your daddy was there for you and he was a real man yeah he was in the house but if he really loved her she'd have a smile on her face because ain't enough love is the greatest gift given to mankind so ain't nothing else with a matter or what you say oh what you say boss man oh you need me to file the paper hey oh hey baby how you doing oh okay once we're done oh okay you gonna pick it up okay all right i love you bye that's how she is she happy guess what i get to live with that i get to see that i get to see that i get to experience that i get my 13 year old son and i always say this my 13 year old son got straight a's no a minuses and he go to a hard school in the eighth grade he doing 11th grade work he doing 10th grade work he doing work that i never did in all my years of school that i never did in the 8th grade he doing work i ain't doing 12th grade i'm like what kind of school is this boy straight a's no a minuses you know his lower grade is 97 and guess what it ain't the whole school he the only boy he's the only boy in his grade but guess what his mama is smart but she's at peace the smarts don't mean nothing if i was cheating on them the smarts don't mean nothing if i were putting hands on the smarts don't mean nothing if i was stressing out lying manipulate talking down to her disrespecting her the smart don't mean nothing so she able to use all of her to help her son but guess what because i tapped in my wife don't have to work unless she want to work so if she say hey in this season i'd rather be with my kids than to be 40 hours on somebody else's job i'd rather be 40 hours with my kids so if she say that and that's what she said but she's able to do that in peace she'll need retail therapy yes she's sharp but it ain't therapy it ain't aiming for stress relief because i'm causing her stress it's just it's icing on the cake you see what i'm saying so it's a it don't do you no good to just provide for a woman financially you also have to provide emotionally how do you talk to her how do you look at her how do you treat her even when she's not around how do you see her flaws do you pick at nitpick pinpoint all her flaws and throw him in her face while ignoring your own do you get offended when she got some feedback or a request for you do you get defensive see we don't want to talk about this all we want to do is being a man i'm not saying that women are perfect i'm not saying that women are the best thing since sliced bread i'm not saying that they just cannot do wrong that's not what i'm saying what i'm saying is as a man you have to take responsibility for your life and no matter what a woman has done to you and no matter what life has done to you another woman should never bear the brunt of your pain of your misery of your ignorance you have to do the work on you and the woman that you choose hopefully she chooses you and if she don't choose you don't take that out on the next woman but the woman when you take and you see her as perfect even though she's imperfect when you allow her flaws to make her perfect and you treat her as the best thing that has happened to your life because this is your wife this is who you will bring children into the world with this is your most important asset in your life she is an asset to you not a liability when you treat her like that then watch the way the rest of the world starts to open up to you watch the opportunities watch the wisdom and the clarity and the peace that comes to you watch the watch what happens watch what happens i'm telling you how to lived it until i lived it i can't even tell you everything bad that i haven't done to a woman because every woman listen to this or hate me they pro they wouldn't be able to receive me because i haven't been that man and now i'm this man and i know the difference and i'm here to tell you listen what i'm telling you listen what i'm telling you you got to make that shift you got to make that shift see you might not have the science to do it in every aspect of life you might not know how to make the shift in business you might not know how to go from good to great in your sport or on your job you might not fully understand that or maybe you understand that perfectly but the one thing that you fail to understand is how to treat a woman and see i can't even say treat her the way you want somebody to treat your daughter because some men don't even know how to treat their daughter some men don't even know how to treat a daughter but so but when you're dealing with this woman treat her as if the god you believe in whoever that is you know i know all kind of beliefs out there do you believe you the biggest on the earth oh if you believe you the biggest and ain't nothing higher than you ain't nothing greater than you and ain't no supernatural powers or nothing like that then okay god bless you all right god bless whoever you respect talk to her and treat her like that person is standing right there if it's jesus if it's god if it muhammad elijah if it's the dinosaurs if if if it's not my stay buddha who who if it's your mama if if it's your grandma talk to your woman and treat your woman like your savior your creator or the greatest person you ever met is standing right there and treat her like that talk to her and treat her a way that you want somebody to treat your daughter if you know how to treat your daughter if you love your daughter if you got a daughter or if you had a daughter come with that level of respect come with that level of peace and learn as a man how to control yourself that the attitude and i'm talking to myself right now because every day i'm working every day i'm like okay i need to not be snappy now make sure you get no attitude i woke up on the wrong side of the bed let me let me gather myself let me emotional intelligence emotional intelligence let me okay boom because i'm staring this [ __ ] i'm the head of my household so everybody looking to me my wife looking to be my son's looking i got two sons 13 and six they looking to me so if i'm frazzled if i got to go get high to get through my day my son's my daddy weak he need a drug we don't even realize that my daddy need to draw the coat but that drug ain't helping him his lips get black his lungs get black my daddy need alcohol my dad need pills my dad keep gambling what did he keep losing money do we got my college phone set up my daddy doing illegal scamming drug dealing is he thinking about when he get caught because everybody get caught frank loose got called ricky freeway ross got caught bmf got caught everybody get caught so is he thinking about how i'm gonna feel when he in the federal penitentiary you see what i'm saying your children they looking up to you what you think you doing and you patting yourself on the back oh i provide or i provide i provide you got to do more than that ain't just about your finances it's about your emotional stability it's about your spiritual stability it's about your physical stability it's about your decision-making that's what this bop this bigger this bigger than your ego this bigger than your pain this bigger than your trauma you got to do the work on you listen it's therapy side there's life coaches out there you come to me you come to me i ain't got time for everybody now i can't help every single person now but the video sit with these videos if you don't sit with these videos too and just listen to the video ten times play this every day you going to work you're gonna hear something different every time because i guarantee you something i said that you start thinking about your daddy you start thinking about your mama you start thinking about your baby mom you start thinking about your ex and you miss my next three to five sentence so listen to this listen this every day until they get in your spirit and i'm gonna tell you if you got a woman that's the closest that's the closest human to you if you got a woman especially if you're sleeping with her then that make her the closest human to you because who else you sticking your thing in and if you're sticking your thing in other other people then you need to stop you need to stop if this woman right here with you she's sacrificing for you make her your number one maker your only one and then you start with her and you learn how to live life and be a man through her i'll be honest with you i'll be honest with you i read a quote one time and said man strength is in his gentleness and that stuck with me and i s and i i say myself that a man's right a passage meaning in order to become a man you got to learn how to treat a woman purely i don't care if you can make a billion dollars i don't care if you can make a billion dollars you not a man if you don't know how to treat god's creation that was created to stand beside you if you don't know how to respect her you don't respect your creator you're a man of no dignity you're a man of no integrity if you lying to her you can't be trusted in business if you deceiving you manipulating the person that's doing the most for you she receiving your children she receiving your stds if you're going out here catching them she's receiving you she there for you if you can't treat her right i don't want no parts of you i win we ain't making millions together i'm gonna do business with you i don't want to do business with you i don't want to have no nothing to do with you because you can't be trusted you can't oh thorough i'm ten toe down in these streets no you ain't you're a snitch no you ain't you're a snit you're a snitch you'll still you're wrong and guess what you'll get killed cause you ain't never learned how to treat the one that's right next to you the one that's closest to you the one that's ten toed down for you yeah you you wanna pat on the back because you real with other men you real with other men but what about your woman that who you need to be real with these other men is the same ones that'll stab you in your bank this woman here lying on her back for you but you putting men before her this woman here carrying your children but you treat yo homeboys better than you treat her they can't have no child for you they can't do nothing for you a lot of them riding all for you a lot of them using you which one are making you money okay if they making you money that's all they could do this woman here could reproduce life come on now you got to get your priorities in order every person you know ought to be envious of the way you treat your woman that's what i tapped into in my life and i'm telling you it changed everything i'll never be the same i sing this message every single day for the rest of my life call me what you want to call me but i guarantee you you ain't got my peace guaranteed hey it's tony gaskin god bless you we'll talk soon

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Published: Tue Jan 05 2021