What to look for in a man?

hey Tony Geiss is here one pop in the day for a quick video well I don't know how long it'll be but lately I've been coaching a lot of women who are single and having started a family yet not even you know from an ex or not married and having a poor past marriage not from a divorce but you're single working no other you know responsibilities that they have to take care of itself for themselves and in a lot of these cases successful educated and I know a lot of you are watching the videos and it is different when you're dating single with no kids versus single with kids it's a different situation largely due to what you have to look out for as a single woman and you don't have any kids you don't have to think about how they would respond to this new man or how the new man feels about them so the next thing comes is well Tony what are some first date questions how do you identify the right man and to be honest with you that's a million videos it's a million books it's a whole lot that goes into it but what you first need to ask yourself is where are you in your 3 B's and so I did a whole video on that so make sure you watch the video on the 3 B's where are you in that brain brand and body very rarely is someone working on all three or where they need to be with all three the next thing is how much do you understand about me and see this is the thing you can get mad about people explaining men and who men are and why men do the things that we do or you can scratch a booty and get like my daddy used to tell me what I mean by this is it will do you no good to watch videos if you're just gonna get angry and upset and want to refute and debate everything about a man because anything I tell you about a man it's the truth about men and it just is what it is and so it's better to have the knowledge and know what's out there versus saying you know well why don't these guys just get together you know why can't they just come perfect and just men need to heal themselves and men need to just come to the table ready I don't have any time to be dealing with a man who's not perfect and taking that mentality about it because that's gonna hurt you and you have to understand that you will never in your life never in your life never in your life meet a perfect man in in manhood in husband hood in fatherhood in adulthood in nobody hood are you going to meet a perfect man the only perfect man that there ever was accounted for is Jesus Christ and you did not meet him and he is not available for you to date so understand this every man you meet just like yourself gonna have some issues that gonna have to be worked through why y'all together it's soccer Sunday for me and we had a game this morning we got another game in a few hours and I'm sitting at the game and I've been with my wife 13 years and going on 13 years of marriage being with a 14 years and she is to quantify me why to crime fighting she she too energetic she has so much energy she's so talkative but that's my wife that is my wife so I have to love her about that so I can't even see that as a flaw that's just a difference in personality I say that to say that you every single man you meet gonna have something that you don't like but you have to ask yourself is this a deal breaker how much does this matter in the grand scheme of things when you get that answer then you can move forward now when you think about identifying this man and let's say you go on the first date I've been seeing the question a lot of what are some first date questions to ask and that's the wrong way to think about it what you have to realize is get this knowledge but don't let it make you a robot don't go out okay what would Tony gasps and say what we're Tony gasps say okay well so does that say what would such that say what would such that say just be you did use the knowledge get the knowledge and then just be yourself you're gonna move correctly based on what you know what you've learned just be yourself so you should not go into a first date with pre-planned questions the conversation should just float and when you're just flowing in conversation it's literally just so you know thank you so much what made you choose this place and then he's well you know I came here before and I just liked it I liked it okay is this your favorite type of food or just one of the types oh well you know I love you know this Indian food and it just discords hicking and rice and this little stuff here that's not okay but you have an Indian in you or or you just love the culture you see what I'm saying that's just a natural flow of conversation and everything he say you ask another question and the more you let a man talk the more you're gonna find out he's gonna offer information you mean Emacs for but that's well if you go in y'all sit down okay let's get right to it so do you have kids okay okay how long we laugh let you okay okay do you Mary okay all right um wait you are oh okay okay do you have 401k oh okay okay do you know when you're gonna retire okay and that's how a lot of y'all trying to do you want to go into today go to this man with all of this knowledge to where it not to made you a robot so you can't even just free flow and be yourself youyou literally instead of having a conversation you interrogate in the man not even interviewing you interrogating him it's a bit there was not between Oprah count and first 48 and a lot of y'all on the date and you got the man feeling like he on first 48 and he like wow the world guess what the first date gonna be the last date or he or he's just gonna put up with you to he could nail you to that bed and then you don't played yourself so the key is is to get all the knowledge you can get without fussing fighting and complaining and arguing about what you don't agree with and what you don't understand and what you don't like and just get the knowledge just get the knowledge like Daddy to tell me to to me spit out the bones to to me spit out the bones just just that simple okay then you go on a date you have a normal conversation and you're watching everything you hearing everything and you listening more than you talking point-blank period is is that sample is that sample and then what you're gonna see you're gonna see you're gonna see this man personality traits you're gonna see you pitch in to how he talked to the waiter how does he talk to the waiter or the waitress you also gonna peek over there see what kind of tip eally you trying to get your life all of that till that let you know if he scarcity minded or if he abundant minded you see it I mean it's a little stuff like that this is nonverbal cues you see how he yes it is he is he got on a Nike sweat suit he got on a three-piece suit he got on jeans and a polo you said to me you looking at his watch you might mess around and take a peek what kind of car you get in what kind of Transportation here does he drink if he drinks how many drinks does he have on the date you see what I mean do you say in questions you ask in him these 19 question you asking does he offer to pay when you offer to take care of your half does he turn you down and pay or does he let you pay so and then you just how does that make you feel he said well what does it mean Tony what does it mean if he lets you pay it don't mean nothing really it just how does it make you feel is that okay with you because you gotta sleep with him not me so don't try to understand every little thing and that's one that's one of the downsides of being a woman is y'all wanna understand every look thing not everything gonna be understood I still don't understand women and being married to one almost 13 years still don't understand women but I realized I don't have to understand I just got the lover that long machine disrespecting me dogged me out t know me lying to me I just got to love her that's what you gotta understand about a man you understand and like everything he's saying do but is he abusing you is he cheating on you lying are you deceiving you manipulating you controlling you then he doing on that then okay y'all could talk ya'll qabil y'all could conversate y'all laugh you're not gonna like every single look bang now so you watching everything you hearing everything okay now I was asked a question about faith and listen to me listen to me you got to know what you know you got to know what you know because faith is it's a personal experience this this is not something that my understanding of God and Jesus Christ is my understanding it's my interpretation even when I did a video on the proverbs 31 woman it was so many it's so many people that have different understandings up you know it's so many people that see it totally different and so it's everything God understands that because God is a spirit God is not a man sitting on the throne it's a spirit and so some people get mad when people refer to God as the universe God is the universe he all around you this is everywhere and we say he just because of the way that we speak just because of language but if it was she if it was it it's it's a spirit God is a spirit not not a man in the flesh sitting up in the clouds with an oxygen mask on or special knows that the breathe out of space and that's what a lot of people get this thing confused that's why you have to have a relationship with God and that relationship is personal and it may be inside of the parameters of a certain religion and that is a religion that you choose and that you believe in and there should be evidence in your life of your belief system see I believe in Jesus Christ and I keep the lifestyle of Jesus Christ I live by the teachings of Jesus Christ and it has produced in my life in every area of my life it has produced Pia and prosperity so it tells me that this lifestyle is the right lifestyle for me that what I'm believing is the right belief system for me and that we are subject to our interpretation based on our education level or our spiritual understanding and so when I read the Bible I'm gonna interpret it maybe differently than you but that's between me and God and God understands that because he's all-knowing omnipotent omnipresent so you have to understand that so here's the thing when it comes to your faith you may feel as if your faith is fluid and that every day you are learning and evolving and growing and you're experiencing your faith differently as you are gaining knowledge wisdom and understanding and so you may be coming outside of some boxes that you were placed in as a youth growing up and you may now understand some things or have a difference of opinion than you then your parents have or then your pastors or whoever a priest or whoever had and so you may be looking at things a little differently so what I want you to understand here is that your faith is everything because it is the compass for your life so it is guiding you so you cannot one thing I can't ever tell somebody to do is play with a faith I cannot because I know how serious I am about my faith and listen to me when you have a faith there is a belief system and although you may respect other beliefs you have to choose the belief system for you and there's someone out there who has chosen the same belief system as you that's who you need to be with okay that's what you need to be with I get a lot of questions from women asking me about men who are seven day Adventists and I don't even know what a seven day adventure is gonna be okay what these seven days adventures they doing but the seventh day adventists is what it was told of me is that they don't celebrate holidays because of the pagan roots of the holidays listen if you want to be celebrated on valentine's if you want to celebrate christmas because that's what the world does and you want to delegate you a day to celebrate and you don't see nothing wrong with that then you need to have you a man that feels the same way don't just because he got a third leg swinging in his pants and because he seemed like a man's man and he's manly and all of this does not mean you need to compromise your beliefs for this man just to have somebody you're gonna be living in misery and so I've been getting a lot of messages and even doing coaching sessions with women about these men who don't believe in holidays and I listen I don't believe in holidays either I don't own you know care farm either but it's just a designated day and I'm not finding to stress myself out trying to explain to my children when they got to go to school with all these other children who celebrate Christmas and Valentine's and every other day and me trying to explain to my church why they have to be the only one in the whole school now if it was something that was sinning against God then that would be different but that's not the case it's just a day of celebration it sinning against God and regardless of what they say the day means even on Halloween regardless of what they say it means which I have not looked up the origin or the meaning and most people have not look about what it means my my son told me what it mean and and actually it didn't mean what I thought it meant because I always thought it meant it's the day for evil spirits that come out and Rome and Rome and have fun and torture everybody but got a whole different meaning and so guess what this is the day the Lord has made so if my children want to put on some put on an outfit and go across the street to get some candy okay we doing it as unto the Lord yeah me in the name was Jesus we're going to get this candy okay cuz I need me some of the candy that y'all can't eat so hallelujah in the name of Jesus thank you for this candy bless it Lord and praying over and everything and y'all could say what y'all want the day to mean whatever it meaning you this is the day the Lord has made you see what I'm saying so that's my mindset around it that's my wife mindset around it so we don't have no problems we don't have any problem now I could be all you know religious oh that right up that's a big holiday that's big holiday hangs up right now man listen man that's a scam that's a scam just to get all the money they want all the money that's all that I mean everything in the world is just about money listen I understand that but here you go because he goes he go more money because it's gonna help it's gonna put a smile on my tearing face okay so yeah go you might on Black Friday all right I'll make some more on Saturday and Sunday I'm not gonna worry about what you're doing it for because that's what make the world go round so I'm not finna waste my time getting into that fighting debt your relevant battle that you got you're gonna spend the money anyway so whether you're gonna spend it on Black Friday or whether you gonna spend it on purple Saturday or yellow Sunday you still spending it you have understand so whether you gonna celebrate Christmas on December 25th or December 21st you still buying gifts so why not just put it on one day that makes sense for everybody you hear what I'm saying so what people gonna do things the way they want to do it and what you got to realize a lot of people do stuff just cuz their parents did it and a lot of people and a lot of parents did it just because it made sense to them some people do stuff cuz they want to feel special some people want to be the odd man out so they can get attention for being the odd man out oh we don't know we know celebrate holidays that's that is a pagan holiday this paganism so yeah we are elevated we are intelligent we are above you okay yes we understand the real meaning of the holiday so okay sheep be a sheep go spin all your money okay and so some people that's that's they take on it because they so deep they so deep they so evolved they so enlightened they know all the stars and whatever star mean with every day of the year me so for some people they doing out of ego that's what that's all they bore down to me ain't got any more time I ain't gotta prove none of you even though I know about how I feel about it yeah that's not about it we're fighting you see what I'm saying so if that's how you view the world the way I view it then don't go get with no man who see it the complete opposite way but if you see it like the man sees that who don't want to celebrate holidays then that's fine but listen to me you shouldn't be in no relationship that you got to be coming to me crying and complaining because you got a choice and it's two men and man walking around here for you to be fool up with a man that don't believe the way you believe because of your belief system that's your foundation that's your foundation so understand this right here me and my wife we we had the same views on politics that's a belief system we got the same views on politics and what Obul views are ain't none of your business we got the same views on religion we got the same views on holidays we got the same views on how we ought to raise our kids whether a spanking is necessary in time I in all that happened and so we believed the same on the foundational things now she might wanna eat her kale salad and I might want to have me a hamburger death is not a foundational belief that ain't gonna shift the universe death you're not gonna argue over that okay so she wanna eat a bowl of sauteed vegetables and I wanna eat me a piece of pizza okay she mad with me ain't mad with her and last night after the all-star thing we watch I had a couple of mentees in in all-star activity last night so I wanted to watch them and after that we wrote the statement shade 11 o'clock at night and I had Miller burger and she had her fry and we both had us an Oreo shake guess what we don't take like that serious we're not finna be oh yeah the game over I'm hungry but you know what I'm in a minute fast and starve might not wake up tomorrow with ATS dominate and we not trendy well you know what I'm gonna go and get my Tupperware of avocado and kale and just spring a little lemon juice on it because I need to be healthy Oh little life we don't overdo it and no one way or the other but we live life so we had the same views I go on a little kick the well I'm keto for two weeks trying to burn me some weight she's going huh look kid where she eating super healthy for two weeks just to reset your body just to shock your body get you know burn your look something then then you chill a little bit and that's just our mindset we had a same belief system I say that the safe when you out here and you dating and you looking for the person that's for you it's it's less about how many questions you're gonna ask and what questions to ask and more about just conversation and where that leaves and what he or she is saying and then what you're reading from that and then this what you have to understand is is billions of people in the world it's hundreds of millions in America over 300 million or something like that in America so what that means is you don't have to force anything stop trying to fit a square into a round hole stop trying to force something to work and you're trying to stretch and make some work because you like oh well you know if I let this one go then that might be all I'm again if I let this one go I might be I probably won't meet anybody else know you plan yourself you got to believe and know that is too many people out here in this world there's too many people out here for you to be settling and so I'm getting a lot of messages and it's like well you know and this one thing that I keep saying over and over and over women saying oh well Tony he is an amazing man oh just so much integrity just so much responsibility just so respectful just an amazing man I've just have not seen a man that treats me this way well yeah he all his dirt so he ought to know how to treat you you know he didn't been here 45 50 years he that's more than enough time to know how to treat you okay number two y'all ain't been together but yeah so that's supposed to be perfect you posed to have no issues in the first year it's supposed to feel like a honeymoon you and me like you floating on cloud nine so he didn't in and then hit go to caveat but he's an atheist or but I believe in Jesus and he just respects Jesus he doesn't believe in Jesus or but I'm a Christian and he's a Muslim or but you know I'm a Muslim and he's a Christian but in all of this and it'd be that one but it'd be that one but you mean and that but is the biggest but you didn't scene and it just said one but well guess what if that but includes a foundational belief that you base your decisions in your life off off and that if and oh but is different from your belief system or the opposite of your belief system then that's not the person for you point-blank period that's not the person for you the devil was nice the devil ain't ain't ain't scroll up on even cuz I he affirm spoke life and tour was amazing in that conversation when when the devil approached Jesus he approached Jesus with no pitchfork and fire and spitting fireballs out he go like old dragon no he walked up to hey what's going on brother how you doing man listen here man you so amazing you so blessed you could jump off the side of this hell mounting your angels I catch you before you hit rock bottom man that's so amazing man let me see you do that well I wanna watch that today whoo you're a bad man that's how the devil talking to Jesus hey come on up in let me show you this hill whew man I got everything I hit on all this listen to me listen to me you come on over here you work with me all is right here yours you could have it all what you're saying be at all what it's gonna be what you're a bad man that's how the done we're talking to Jesus that's why that's why I want you to understand is that when you meet somebody okay they posed to be nice what you think they're gonna come on growling at you they posed to be nice they posed to have integrity they don't even know you yet so you see you dealing with the representative but what's the foundational beliefs what's the foundational belief that's what you got to get to that's what you got to get to when you get to the foundational belief now you know if this person is for you let me give you a sample if I believe that if you spare the rod you spoil the child and I meet my wife and I'm talking to this woman and she say oh well you know studies show that whipping a child has nothing beneficial to it and it actually is more detrimental than it is helpful and so you see now I've been getting a lot of emails from mature women so this one I'm putting the mature voice on for y'all who y'all mature okay but don't understand nothing but no man but y'all so mature okay listen to me you know different then the woman over here that I'll be there oh wow Tony that what you need out there y'all same woman when it come to me don't know what you talking about okay let me help you understand that okay I'm a man I don't talk to the one who talked well yes so let me help you understand something and when we go to talk about man don't know no more than a man on the moon and I'll talk to the woman over here oh wow Tony this one I'm sick of tired we go to talking about me don't know no more than the man on the moon y'all the same when it come to me yeah one might come from the Hamptons and one might come from Hoover and one might have a doctorate and one might have had to take the GED test at 7 p.m. at the local high school but when you come to me in both flinging and play both flinging in dog that ok both playing in the been cheated on so that's what I'm talking about so y'all please start writing me with this oh you need to talk to the mature women because we are mature no y'all dealing with the same kind of man so I'm talking about the man not about your education and where you went to school and how much money you make that make you think you better than this other woman just because she didn't had three children okay she no less than you okay she just got caught up both of y'all was blowing your bank it just hers it was a price to pay okay so this what I need you to understand the same thing when you come and you sit down and if I if I'm sitting down with this woman and she saying you know you know spanking a child is actually detrimental and it really hurts the tile overall and you are doing long-term damage by doing that and I'm sitting over there and I'm like listen to me ya mean I got spanked yeah hold on forgive me Angus spank I got wool yeah me and look how I turned I I'm doing just fine and do nothing in my life because I got a woman so first and foremost and second last most had I not gotten spanked I would have been way worse than what I was but it was doing workman's that I was able to recollect that kept me in line and so if you too tight that got the children in the grocery store rolling down our screaming Holland at the top of their lawn cuz you won't give them a thing of no rito hos ain't never had deal with that with with my two because me and my wife on same page you spelled wrong you support a tile guess what my sons they had no terrible tools give me because we did it the way the Bible say do it and we live by that so if I would have sat down with a woman and she owned all this new age all this you know you just have to talk to him nicely and you just tell him listen listen body okay no mean with all that we're not with all that a well is here boy if you have in your life you hear me and we took a different route so guess what we have deal with all the issues that we see any parents deal with getting cussed out and spit on by they cheering that day paying a bill they paying for that they take care of and child cussing their mind so guess what that's a deal-breaker you you have different views on how to research that's a foundational belief that's a deal-breaker you have different views on your politics politics what running the world so you won't write and the person on the Left somebody in the middle of somebody at the top at the bottom y'all different view guess what that's a deal-breaker because that's a foundational belief if you're Christian and this personal atheist that's a deal-breaker because that's a foundational belief if you believe in drinking socially and responsibly but this person believed in drink until you passed I and you got to get you a scratcher to get rolled out of the bar that's a deal-breaker that's a foundational belief if you don't curse and the person that you're dealing with curse like a sailor that's a deal-breaker because that's gonna affect how you speak to your children how you raise your children okay if you believe in spending and living but also having a savings and other person believe everyday spend every dime you got because tomorrow's not promised that's a deal-breaker because that's a foundational belief then finances is very important in your life and so this what I need you to understand start making exceptions around foundational beliefs it's totally different if like I say my wife wanna eat her salad and I might want me a piece of fried chicken that not no that's not a foundational belief so and she might just be doing that she'll help he's fried chicken too but she might be doing that for a season for two weeks she trying to cleanse or whatever it may be and and I may do the same thing I'm a vegan for two weeks I will I will keto for two weeks I tried that buddy anything for two weeks long as this with the sight of the Lord but that ain't gonna kill you and when I went the keto and all of that and vegan my wife seen like that she didn't like it because she's not with what she called fat diets she just believed in eating clean and eating healthy and but it on the end of the world so I'm not listening that's what you could do because you had that kind of self-control you got to remember I come from Fried Chicken you need taste a piece of fried chicken till you met me that was the truth so I can't I've got to be drastic with my baby if I'm trying to lose this head ten pound I need to be vegan okay cuz I can't be oh we just could eat clean cuz I'm gonna end up eating dirty and so I got to go all the way over here so we understood that that just was a mental thing it just was a difference of personality but that's not a deal-breaker because I don't eat junk all the time and and on and she don't eat one way all the time we have a healthy balanced living life and both us is healthy perfect bill of health so ultimately our belief around food is the same and so in every area that affects life so all these different things that affects your life your decision-making how you gonna raise your family how you gonna build your wealth how you gonna live your life in those areas you and whoever you talk to need to see eye to eye and you gotta be realistic 9 I'd never forget woman told me she loved classical music and if her man don't like classical music it's a deal-breaker and I said oh Lord and see that's what y'all that's what y'all start to go wrong get right now things that don't matter things that do not matter in the grand scheme of things and so ok you like classical music but as long as he don't like devil worship and heavy metal then it's okay if he's just like gospel music he might not like Tosca mukha he know her classical music cuz where he come from they couldn't afford nobody classical music concert and they had listened what they can listen to on a free radio and they won playing classical music so you can introduce him to classical music go to a classical music museum go to a classical music symposium or whatever it's called symphony and introduce him to that and then he may start this wow this is calming and so that's what I mean and so it's like what was what's happening right now is people getting too picky men and women getting too picky oh she don't know how to make tacos and came angry Whittle oh my goodness she's always can't make a talk oh my good hi you could take cooking classes teach you how to make the taco yo but don't know how to make taco so y'all go learn how to make tacos together and I hear man leave women over what she can't cook or how she clean or how she do her laundry and and women leave men over what kind of clothes he won't wear how he what kind of music he want to listen to and so you have to get down to the foundational beliefs okay and when you do that and you know who you are you know what you want then you decide what you can stand for and what you absolutely cannot stand for and when you make that decision now you go out into the world and you're gonna attract all different types and limit let me help you understand this if you got this far put be blessed in the comments cuz I'm just you know I'm talking I'm trying to take you through it I got explained in a different way just in case I miss you on one part so y'all forgive me for that you know but I try not to rush through these anymore cuz what I'm noticing is I'm rushing through stuff I do a 15 20 minute video 30 minute video something I would have said had I took my time I leave it I for the sake of rushing and somebody had that exact question or what our left eye or they'll fire one little hole you know one fine one little hole a lady said what I said other day what I said other day I think I did ah the video could have been 30 minutes and I coulda said something I probably said a word wrong or something had nothing to do with the entire letter video and I later sent me a message by that one thing that had nothing to do with the video at all and I say wow I say Lord this hard to devil working this hard to devil out here trying to strike me and and I'm gonna tell you you'd be working too he he tried he tried to steal you focus and so I said well I look it up so let me over explain so you over stand not just understand I'll need you to over stand okay and just what I need you to get right here because I'm seeing this a lot today and all of these here you know messages is you just you're blocking your blessings because you're trying to be too specific and you blocking your blessings and what you got to do is you have to work on you and when you work on you you're going to attract your match but let me help you understand this now know this what I'm about to say this is what I'm about to say whenever you getting ready to have a date with destiny meaning the person for you when you getting ready to have a date with destiny the adversary will send you a distraction that looks like destiny and in every aspect of life the adversary will send you a distraction that looks like destiny example I'm supposed to be working with college athletes to become real men off of the field off of the court but right as I'm in the midst of it and I'm working you know good and I'm working with all these different schools I mean big schools I'm working with the athletes and these schools trying to get checks to me they trying to rearrange the budget he'll come to the NBA and say Tony we want to hire you full time and we want to sign you exclusive and you can't work with nobody else so I had he I was my destiny is to be serving at a college level because they still listen and I got distracted by something that looked like destiny because it was a desire of mine but I didn't realize that sometimes what your heart desires what your desiring may not be what you need it may not be your destiny it may be something for your ego you may be chasing a fantasy instead of a dream and so but when you put that into the universe words have power this is is beyond religion is your words have power whether you were a theist or a Christian words have power it shapes and shifts and forms the atmosphere around you you speak things into existence whether you will believer or non-believer that's a universal law not just a Christian law and so I need you to understand that so when I say I want to be a life coach in the NBA and I started to ask all the players I know in the NBA and all of them told me they they don't have a team life coach and I started to ask guys that played in the 80s and they said no we didn't have a team life coach I asked guys who played in the 90s in the early 2000 they said no we didn't have a team life coach and God was telling me listen we don't even believe a team will hire a life coach for us we don't think they care that much and then I get a call to be hired as the team life coach in signed to a three-year deal but guess what I was ineffective at that level because these young men their dream is to make money so when they make money they don't care nothing else pot-growing as a man because they got what they wanted and that was money now I make that whole point right there to take this back to the relationship to help you understand the same exact thing happens in your relationship when you on your way to your date with destiny the adversary will send you a distraction that looks like destiny here's what I mean this man will be tall dark and handsome he will look like a glass of water in the Sahara Desert okay and he will walk right tall right smile right flip right bop right everything right you hear me but the one thing that he don't have is a relationship with God and you will be sitting there you will be like oh my goodness how did this man look like a piece of chocolate on Sunday and just glistening and glowing he don't even walk this man glide this man got a Oracle for a tongue oh my goodness his his car his house his job I mean my goodness God has been good to this man and you sitting there and this is what you're saying that's what you're looking at oh this man so full of integrity so full of character so full of wisdom oh great conversation Oh pay for the day's open my door pull out my chair but he don't believe in God well he believed in God but not Jesus or he believed that Jesus walked the earth but don't believe he the Savior the way the truth and the life and you and that is your foundational belief and that's what you believe guess what that was that's a decoy that man is a decoy sent by the adversary he is a distraction and then here's what he is there to do he is there to derail you off of the path to destiny that's what he's there for to derail you and what this man will do is he will distract you he will get you comfortable he will make you drop your guards then you own your bike spread-eagle he will deposit into you so now you know when all of this time without conceiving and and reproducing and then now because this man looked like chocolate on Sunday you take and drop your guards and you own your bike and not you are with child and then he taking heat up and leave you and now you sitting and you looking and not you questioning God and you met with God and you got all the prayers in the world you speaking in tongues and God say if you would have been listening to me if you would have been in communication with me you would have known that I didn't send him because how am I gonna be God and send you a man that don't believe in me the way you believe in me how am I gonna send you I am NOT a man that I should lie I am not the author of confusion that's what the Lord said I'm not sending you a project like that now he leave his drawers on the floor that's different but we talk about a man that don't even believe that my son that I sent to die on the cross and be rose again he don't even believe that he Jesus Christ is the way the truth and the life how and where in the Holy Bible did you read that that that's what I'm gonna send you my daughter who I love who I promised to give you the desires of your heart but see now you took and wanted the lust of your flesh you forgot the desires of your heart and you started focusing on the lust of your flesh and that's why you end up look the creek without a powder on your bite spread-eagle and not you with child and but guess what daughter that's Ishmael okay he gonna be okay but he not gonna get my blessing I can't get my blessing Ishmael because that's not where I told you to go so it's so now you gonna have to raise that child with love and I'm have some blessings and favor on but it ain't gonna be the whole blessing because I didn't send you that man the adversary sent you that man and because you lost sight of what I showed you what I promised you that's why you end up in that situation not that's why you're a single mom that's why you're divorcing because you love sight or what I told you so that's why you had to go through and and don't get mad with me daughter don't get mad at me about what Sheree Gaskins got okay because she did some things wrong too but the one thing about it was her man believed in me and that he had to surrender to me so see her man was the prodigal son he won the 80s you hear what I'm telling you so this was God talking to you then what God saying you that you don't want to hear so he told me to make it plain [ __ ] it so what he's saying is get up off your bike close your legs open your eyes and your ears get centered with the center get aligned identify your beliefs identify your deal-breakers and then date from that place and refuse to compromise and if you refuse to compromise everything that I have promised you is what you will receive otice church on Sunday Otis the Sunday sermon it is time to gas and god bless you the spirit just left me in the spirit said we done so I got to close it right here because I don't want to speak without night god bless you we'll talk soon make sure you check the links in the description follow you up-and-coming news and whereabouts and what you need and Lord willing I see you tomorrow

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 51min 37sec (3097 seconds)

Published: Sun Feb 16 2020