Men and Online Dating!

hey hey tony gaskins here um i don't have too long today i got i was trying to close my computer i need to keep it up so i watched the time so i got about what what i got i probably got about 44 minutes today to do a video got to get get me a haircut my son asked me my 13 year old asked me the other day he said daddy you ever run out of stuff to teach and yes i do but the way i come up with these messages is just a conversation i have a question i get in the email on dm some of y'all may send me a question i may not get to respond to you because there's so many i got to go through but i see some of the questions and if you leave a question in the comments sometimes i see it if it's a question that can apply to many people i'll make a video if it just apply to you and your situation you need a session mymentor.life and so understand this today i'm talking about men and online dating and that's what i want you to understand this is what i want you to understand oh if you'll notice today 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on instagram that's not a dating site that is a social networking site so you're not going there like a shark in the water to hunt for women you're going there to connect with friends and family in the world wide web you're not paying a fee to be on there that is social networking it is different than meeting someone who has gone to a dedicated dating site now him let me help you understand and this is the dating sites as they are today when i raise me some money i'll probably do me a dating site done the right way and it's not gonna be like these dating sites today today these dating sites they set up they just throwing you to the walls they just throwing you to the wall you you bait and you're getting fed the sharks that's how today's dating site is set up that's why when i do mine might not might not be nobody on there because it'll be set up the right way and so now understand this a man my client that i coached today helped me come up with this topic and i told him doing a video on today thank you very much a man has no reason to get online to get on a dating site absolutely no reason whatsoever and the reason being is because there are so many women there are so many women walking around and it's so many single women it's so many single women if you go up the if it's 10 women if you approach all 10 it's likely at least half of them single unmarried and might just have a little joker that they texting with but they single so understand that there's no a man literally on a coach a client that she was at her auntie house and walked outside to the mailbox and met her husband that's just how easy it is for a man to meet women and so it's no reason whatsoever for a man to get on a dating site and so now listen some of y'all i know you're already offended some of y'all my clients some of y'all met your child's father or your husband on a dating site i'll be honest with you the jury is still out on him if y'all have not been married for 10 happy years the jury's still out on them because it takes some men three four five six seven years to show their true colors for you to see that they crazy look at the netflix documentary on the family next door it take me some time to show that they crazy now for them not they still met online i think they met on facebook so you still can meet no good men on social media but it's still totally different than meeting a man who went to a dedicated dating site so now listen there is probably out all the men that's on the online dating site it's probably a thousand men that's on there with the right intentions i don't care if it's 10 million total if it's a hundred million total it's probably a thousand men that's on there with the right intention so if you met your man on a dating site and he doing good and y'all married he might be one of the thousands i'm just here to tell you the reason why i'm telling you because i'm a man now you're going to have some grown boys that's in the comments arguing because they own dating sites fishing for their next victim that's what they doing a real man who is ready is not going to no dating site that's like that's like a guy who he want to be in a fraternity but he write a letter to the head of the organization and ask them can he get in without rushing because he got money or because his daddy is such and such can he not rush can he not pledge can he not go through the little hazing thing they do and can he be in there that's like the owner saying because i own the team i'm finna play quarterback that's what a man getting on online dayton is like to be honest with you it's it that's like p did it getting on people album and rapping it's like bruh hush duck bro hush this is not your gift this is not your gift let the artist round all right that's what it's like a man getting on a dating site it's too many women walking around so let me tell you what these men want they want it easy they want it easy it is of the essence that a man works for your heart but see this man and see sometimes guys who are quote unquote nerds they may they refer to themselves as nerves they'll get on a dating site you know why because it's set up like analytics it's data they could go and see okay brown hair they could use the filters brown hair blue eyes christian caucasian african-american they could use filters and now they got just like all these women served up or they just do just flip through so it's a smorgasbord of women it's a buffet of women it's kind of like when i go to the buffet when i used to eat bad still you look bad not in but when i used to eat bad i used to go to golden corral you know i wanted to go to golden corral because for one price i could have me a meatloaf with gravy with mashed potatoes and gravy and some corn boom ate that dinner feeling good now i could go up and get my fried chicken with my macaroni and cheese and my collard greens ate that boom feeling good now i could go up and get my steak with my mashed potatoes boom ate that feeling good now i could go up and get my my cherry pie my apple pie my red velvet all in one place that's why i buffet popular for bad eaters people who eat bad people who is greedy love the buffet that's the same thinking that a man has when he get on an online date he don't have to waste time having to go out and introduce women the way he's sweating under his arms he dripping sweat because he's an introvert he's shy or because he busy and he work a lot so he don't get to get out a lot so he go online and now he get to juggle women he get to juggle women he get to shuffle through women like a deck of cards he literally can meet women i don't set up a dating profile before for my mama on a dating site when she got divorced and after that she was talking i need to meet a man i just was curious and wanted to see what these sites would be like so it probably was match or something like that i never gave her to log in and password she never do nothing with it but she got on there and i remember when i set that thing up messed up it was like the sight had box set up to send messages to make you feel like you getting hits to keep you on now i don't even know if it was real men or not it probably was though but anybody i'm like whoa now come on nine nine i love my mom and i but i know she don't look this good man yeah she cute but now she don't look this good that good and i have three messages and i just signed up and so not me being a man i know what's up all right so i'm looking around looking at ego okay yeah all right okay that's ted bundy nephew right there okay all right here go uncle cletus here he go he got a catheter in all right here go this guy so i'm looking through these men and i realize it's a certain type of man that get on this online date i'm gonna tell you like this right here point blank period if he tall dark and handsome he's a scammer because since when you know a tall dark and handsome man got to get on an online date inside he's a scammer he's on there to get money and see this the thing if you're a woman you understand this you understand when you look around at every woman you work with and you look around at all your female family members all your female friends when you look around at all the women that you know not the males not the males and see you got to say male after you say female because now you got this new movie uh you said female what is a female oh it's the opposite of a male 9 all of a sudden female is a cuss word that's what god made you that's what the name of it is of the gender is okay female that's just like a male and so understand this now when you look at all the women you know what you what you know what do you know to be true what you know to be true got by 31 minutes is you know that some of them is loose booty some of them is desperate some love to spin on a man some mom look like the back of your shoe some of them ain't had a man since had a man since a man been had they ain't had a man and so you know it's all types of women so when you get on this online dating site not a social networking site instagram facebook twitter youtube but a online dating site you could go on there with all the class in the world you just the classy you just swear you classy you swear you got it together you just everything and a bag of chips but guess what all the other women he talking to could absolutely be the opposite of classy they could be trashy so now he wasting your time because he's juggling you with women who sending him all different kind of news and it's in the reason it's so many women see it ain't hard for you to find somebody that's crazy if you talk to 10 people one i'm crazy if you talk to 10 people one on the loose if you talk to 10 people one on nasty you talk to 10 people one-on-one scam if you talk to 10 people one on been to prison it ain't hard for you to find whatever you looking for when you got a smorgasbord of options so this man what he doing online and i've never personally signed up for online dating site uh since uh it wasn't a dating site but it was a black planet which was like myspace so that wasn't a dating site but i was on black planet all right only thing i remember from black planet i remember oh no what nah black planet i got catfish i did get catfish i hate to tell that story but i got cat fish by a woman thought i had i met my wife i one woke up one day got a message from a lady she said hi you've been talking the the messages y'all been sending and the letters that's been coming from my 14 year old niece i fell out and died not not the good the god be the glory was no pictures exchanged it was nothing nasty it was literally like i was talking like i was talking to a wife i was being classy respectful come to find out catfish the ladies say that's my niece and she's she been using the picture of her 24 year old cousin from atlanta georgia i was like wow i don't know what the woman looked like now if i bumped into her today i'd be like hey do you know your sorry cousin catfish me with your picture x amount of years ago but i can't remember what later looked like why i was so heartbroken and let me tell you the other thing i remember from black planet a guy messaged me and said hey um i'm a dl brother and i want to know if you are too so i so here i am this is like 2002 so i'm like dl brother i'm not defensive lineman cause i'm playing college football so i'm like defensive lineman i'm like no i'm an rb running back okay defensive lineman uh i'm like uh daddy long uh dead leg uh dead lift down low what down low that's what i remember from black planet down low brother child holland i say wow i couldn't believe it that was the closest thing to a dating site i've ever been on you know why i've never been on a dating site it's because there's no reason to be on a dating site it's too many women if you are a man and you got any kind of man in you and you want to do right you want to meet your wife you want to be married with kids and you want to be a upstanding respectable honest citizen you're not getting online now some of y'all cannot some of y'all women cannot believe that because your husband you met him on plenty of fish and you just think he the world's greatest man all right wait the year 10. all right you don't know it's true colors yet i got to sit down and assess them myself i told you it's probably a thousand good men on there he might be in the thousands i have to sit down and talk to him obsess on myself i'll tell you the honest truth but listen to me i can't tell you what i feel about them in front of you because i might have to whisper i'm gonna tell you what this is somebody you're 10 you're going to be chopped up in the freezer from what i just picked up from this man listen you're going to come up missing yeah he's been nice and sweet have you heard the term psychopath have you heard the term sociopath have you heard the term that y'all love you would start with an ear no not the n word that you call black people the other word y'all love you n-a-r-c-i all right you know the rest of that that's what you got okay what when he gonna show this that's probably your 9-10 why because you met them on the dating site so i had to whisper in you know what i what i assess of them but i'm just telling you as a man i'm a man i know men that's one thing point blank period if i didn't have discretion and discernment and intuition it would be no way in the world i could get on here and do all of these hundreds of videos a hour at a time if god didn't give me an ability to read and assess i want you to take a topic and i want you to turn your camera on on your phone and i want you to teach on that topic for an hour all right good job congratulations now i want you to do that seven days a week you got to have somewhere to pull from and it got to be the heavenly father so i'm here to tell you what i tell you i'm telling you you better take it to the bank you better take it to the bank that man you met on that dating site keep your eyes open keep it you gotta sleep like this this is how you got to sleep you ain't gonna be able to snow you're gonna get those good you start snoring that's how you better snow [Music] that right there how you need to sleep if you met that man on a dating site i'm i'm here to tell you listen to me because it's too many men it is two i mean it's too many women literally it's too many women i'm a married man and if i was single i couldn't have met a woman in my neighborhood just driving from my house to the stop sign at the end of the road be so many women running up and down the street and so it's like and yeah they could be a widow they could be divorced they could be whatever i bet if it was ten of them and i asked if i wanna be either divorce the widow and so it's too men and women for a man to get on a dating site listen to what i'm telling you well have you ever considered that he's an introvert listen there's no such thing as a introverted man when it comes to a woman if he is heterosexual when he sees the woman that is for him he no longer an introvert yes he is an introvert but an introvert does not mean a mute a introvert does not mean he cannot approach a woman that is not what introvert means oh well have you considered that he could be extremely too busy listen to me barack obama got time for michelle he is not busier than barack i'm gonna tell you that right now the only way he need to be online dating is if he is in a spaceship that is on mars and he's studying mars for the next five years he might need to get on online dating to have a pen pal to write over the cyber web from earth to mars that's the only reason that's the and even then him and the woman astronaut sleeping together up there they floating in the air on the spaceship and they just come together while they flow and they just flowing through the out till he done listen what i'm telling you listen he not by herself they they have a woman on there they got women on there they getting in here they getting in there he let it go us it's flowing through the air they playing a new kind of game to what she got to fly over to it and let it hit her listen to me it's too many women it is too many women for there to be a single man on online dating and see but why are the women on online dating that's that's the excess that's the excess women that's the women who saying i'm too busy i'm not meeting anybody in my city my city is so trash i don't want to move i ain't got the fun to just pick up and move i got a good job i can't just up and leave so let me get online to see who i can meet i ain't mean nobody might say listen listen so it's to listen you need coaching you need coaching you mean nobody in your city it might be because you're in the 99 you got to become a 1 woman in order to become a one percent woman you got to be you really got to do the work on brain brain and body it just if one of them bees off you get overlooked you're getting overlooked one of the bees is off the brain brand body which one is off that's why you're getting overlooked that's why you're going online today listen if you work on you it's it's enough men out here for you when you go to the grocery store go to the grocery store take your headphones out your ear so when the guys try to get your attention you can hear them do not be walking and texting in the grocery store have your head up walk a normal speed and be alert and aware with your head on a swivel looking at what's on the shelves and you will meet your husband in the grocery store if you have worked on the three b's if you double b or you single b okay you get overlooked that's why that's why you're going online today this the hard truth that you do not want to hear oh tony i have it all together and i still chose to get on match.com okay according to you you got it all together you talk to no honest man that ain't trying to sleep with you that could give you the honest truth and tell you why you might be being overlooked right now now listen being overlooked is not necessarily a bad thing because you could be overlooked because you in god protection so i'm gonna put that out there for those of y'all who holy roller i said what are you trying to say you might be on the in guard protection do well again that's still you missing a bee because see god wants you to do something he might be waiting on you to start that foundation he might be waiting on you to start your company or write your book before a man come into your life and then you get distracted from your purpose that god has given you that be that's bran that that that might be the reason right there and so god ain't letting no man approach you because you his daughter he won't put more on you than you can bear which is another be bear but you need to be building your brand and your body and your brain and when you do that you will attract your husband because look look at the women that you know that's married do she look better than you no is she a better woman than you no then then why then why she got a husband okay for one his her husband might be sorry husband might be a piece of trash that's for one that's the first thing you got to realize the other thing is it just was her season it was her timing because she hadn't perfected her three b's and brain brandon body and she happened to bump into the man before you bumped into him could have been your husband but that's her husband because she was ready cosmic collision god sitting high looking low cross our path with the people we need when we need them you ain't waiting on god god waiting on you stay off the online day stay off the online dating listen to what i'm telling you do not online date and then and if you meet a man online and it's not a online dating site you still got to be careful just as careful and i got a video on how to online date because a lot of y'all gonna do it anyways because you think you know better but you know what i'm coaching a lot of what i'm coaching is plenty of fish graduates i mean flunkies people who have been on plenty of fish and the flunk dot because it was trash it was plenty of sharks and then now i'm coaching them and you and i have to tell them now see what i'll tell you about that online i know you said in your video that was part of the reason i got off of there but oh you were so right just the trash i met on there yeah they but need to call me plenty of fish call them help y'all get y'all stuff in order but they don't want to get it in order they want to be terrible and they don't care about you being thrown to the shark they do not care nothing about that plenty of fish give them a call y'all need to go if you on the site any dating site you own go to contact us page say y'all need to contact life coach tony gaskin he got some great ideas for y'all to get y'all stuff together because your site is trash with the quality of men that's on here and women that's on here and so understand that a man who knows who he is and he's confident because look do you want a husband do you really want a husband that is too shy to approach you in person do you really want a husband that is too busy to get out of the house and go to the grocery store to the mall to the park do you really want a husband that's that busy do you really want a husband that's that introverted and that's that shy you can't even take the man to your family birthday party to the family reunion because he's sitting over there in the corner your family coming to you uh what's wrong with your husband is everything okay are you are you sure this is coming do you need help is there anything you need to tell me do you really want a man so why are you making excuses for why the man on online dating you got to ask yourself do you want a man with that issue do you want a man that that introverted that that's that's that busy that's that shy that's that socially awkward do you is that what you want no you need a healthy functioning mature elevated emotionally intelligent man because that's what it takes to be a husband in a healthy and productive way so listen you got to find balance in your life play boy just so that you could go out and meet you a woman listen you got to build a confidence and the courage so that you could hold a conversation with a woman play what get off that online and start developing your people skills instead of defending why you getting online go outside and meet you somebody and get offline but imma tell you why they getting on here because it's easy and see what it does to these men online it turn them out it turn them on so yes you meet them yes you may have a husband from online but you don't know what phone he got at his job in his desk with his other account that's still on that date site that still got he got he got big betty he got busted down becky he got loose booty lou lucille he got all the different women and now and then this what he doing didn't turn him out he was he was almost a good guy but now he's seeing how easy some women are how desperate some women are so busted down becky what she doing she's sending them new d's every week every week he call it t-i-t-t-y tuesday every tuesday uh every wednesday he called it wet wednesday every wednesday the other one sending them that right there then you got something that's going further and further and further he is it because they they all over the world one arm in australia and she trying to get over here to america she willing to do anything she got that remote control do you love this video does this video turn you on she trying to do anything to get over here you hear me he got one over here over there he got one over here over there listen to me oh man i know that's the only reason a man finna get on now because a man of god believe in god and he know he could just walk outside he could meet a woman he know god what god got for him is for him he ain't got to go pay no sight or get on the site for free to find is why because it's too much on there to choose from it's too that's too confusing so he know god is not in no digital data on no dating site so he got to go through 70 women just to meet the one but guess what when you get on them sites especially like a bumblebee i think they say the woman got the message first nah that site so backwards that's that's so terrible that is so terrible because now you up ending the natural order of things so now you approaching the man and that's how they doing it so women feel safe and all that man get out of here y'all trying to have loose booty culture so because every man knows in his heart that if a woman approached him first that he don't see her the same every man know that no man no man respects when a woman approaches him because he know how women are built and he know how men are built and he know men are built to be the pursuer that's why the man has to go and pay the dowry in africa that's why the man has to get on one knee and say will you marry me a man knows a man is built to shoot the shot first so when a woman is put in the position to shoot that shot a man don't even respect that he see that is she desperate she thirsty and she lose all of that may be false but when you put yourself in that position it becomes true so listen to me and these boys got monty on bomb ain't talking about the men that's on they're talking about the founders of the site because they got they they own they own the los angeles clippers jersey i say is you kidding me lost in the club let me slap this on in the mouth did you promoting a dating site on your jersey bro like you couldn't promote this sporting goods store on your jersey you promoting a dating site come on bro come on bro let me promote my mentor.life on your jersey for that 3-4 million let me promote that on your jersey come on now but that's how much money these people getting and you know how they getting so much money off of ignorance and desperation of ignorance and desperation and they throwing you to the wolves now some of y'all gonna say what's honest how many people listen to you ignorant and that's right i ain't throwing it to the wolves and if you came here ignorant and desperate you finna leave here wise and confident you're not leaving that dating site wise and confident so understand that right now you see what i'm saying and i'll make nowhere near what they make that's a billion multi-billion dollar industry where somebody would give me a billion to be out here giving knowledge and wisdom no but if i create old something that's scammy something that's throwing you to the walls oh i could be a billionaire tomorrow do you realize what my following right now i have three million people between my social media networks i could create one of these scamming dating sites that have the same mission as the rest of these dating sites and capitalize on my audience if i was a nasty person but that's that's not me and yes i could do it yes i could afford to build a site yes i could do it but or yes i could get the partners because they already see i have a follower but i don't believe in online dating the sites i don't believe in it and if i ever create one it's gonna look totally different and that might be why it failed because it's gonna look they're gonna be totally different and the man gonna be like i wouldn't finna get on here man this thing here too real man this hill i'm coming over here to scam man i'm gonna hear this man i'm gonna get nude and this man got all these checks and balances in here i can't do what i want to do i'm not going to pay for this it'll just be a bunch of women on there the next thing you know the women uh you turning us in the last man because now we got date women because it's all women on here so that's why i ain't did it yet so understand what i'm telling you there's no reason on god green earth why a man have to get on an online dating site and if you get on the online dating site you got to be very careful any man you meet on now he got to pass a he 10-year test a ten year test and it's something that's gonna pass a 10-year test because they're gonna hear this video and they said man i got to be good for 10 years before i chop up put in the freeze oh man i guess on our 11th anniversary i have some philetmic none of her inner thigh on my plate but it would be like fine like wine ought to get me a bottle of wine when we get married so it'll be brewing for 11 years so when i finally chop her up year 11 i got a nice red wine to go with her for let mcna inner thigh that's what he's saying listen to me listen i'm a man okay i know men i know how we built i know how we wire i don't trust a man online baby brother i don't even shake my hand but i don't even know if i can do business with you sir let me talk to you why did you get on that site i got now some of y'all i got to talk to and these guys i know that have been on online dating and i have to bro what you doing on that site now what would you doing on that site [Music] yeah so you were spending me the quality one you just better meet your wife or no why you didn't want to go outside and meet your wife walk to the grocery store why not the the the bottom answer is it's easy it's way easier it's too stressful to have to meet all these different women out in public one at a time when i can meet 10 of them in one week and it's just too easy they just never know what you're going to get one of them might see your news one of them might send you a cash out one-on-one might do this one on my amelia huh soap pan is in the mail you just never know what you're gonna get and it's just it's just it's like jack-in-the-box you know it's just like cracker jack box where you get your little gift in there it just you just never know what you're going to get and yes i'm a good guy and you know yes i want to meet my wife but you know it's just fun sometimes just fun and i just want to explore the mind of a woman i just want to see how a woman thinks and just you know and just made it easier being able to get to know 10 different women at one time instead of having to meet one woman at a time it's like i'm talking to 10 women message her boom two seconds message her boom ten seconds two seconds two seconds two seconds ten women it took me all of two minutes and then i'm waiting on their reply the reply comes in two minutes two minutes two minutes another 20 minutes 10 different women they're falling in love with me because i'm messaging them one at a time the words are sinking in and then what i'll do is i'm busy that's why i'm online dating that's my story that's the hook so because i'm busy i talk to this one at 6 00 pm i talked to this one at seven i talked to this one at eight so i just dedicate three hours a day talking on the phone for the top three and then boom next day another three next day or another three boom so i'm talking to these women every few days and they just say oh he's so successful he's so busy he doesn't have time so they're falling in love all the while i'm getting to meet 20 different women because i'm not talking to him they're craving for me they're scratching and clawing because these women don't like a man that is overbearing that chases them they kind of want to have a little chase themselves and so now she's falling in love because i talked to her on monday but since monday i haven't talked to her until tuesday until wednesday so she thought about me all tuesday and when she met me because i'm a good catch when she met me she closed her account and when she closed her account she doesn't realize i still have my account open so i'm still meeting betty becky betsy betty i'm meeting all of these women and now she's still over here solely dedicated to me because she's patting herself on the back for being classy and says that she doesn't believe in talking to more than one man at a time so she got on there and she wasted her money 39.99 a month met me in the first week close her account i'm on there and i'm meeting 70 women in a month so honestly tony that's why i'm on there if i just lay it all out there that's the reason it's just a lot easier if a man told you the truth about why he online dating that is what he will tell you so while you sitting over there classic guess what stay classy he'll let you stay classy he's still talking to you a little bit and if he talks to you every day guess what he on the phone with you uh yes you know hey so how was today he looking at his phone getting nude from the other woman he talked to so yeah how was today oh okay yeah that's what that's how it went oh really is that co-worker still bothering you [Music] oh really okay he on the phone with you next thing you know he looking at something else now he didn't whip somebody's pants not he'll and you're wondering why he sounded sensual oh that's cause he got 70 other women from bumbling plenty of fish and mats.com and eating harmony christmas he got seven other women and they all messaging him and they sent him all kind of stuff so while you sitting classy thank you all classy it don't matter he could just drag you out because the other women taking care of his nasty needs listen to me stay off that online dating stay off that online day if god you serve a good god if god is sent to your man at the church house at schoolhouse at the grocery store at the at the park where you run at at the gym where you work out at at your job at the other department so that if y'all break up y'all ain't stealing y'all ain't got to see each other y'all just happen to see each other in the corporate cafeteria that one day if god don't see your man in a normal place then it ain't time for you to get married any time for you to meet nobody it's time for you to work on yourself keep focus on yourself you might be doing everything perfect but then just create write your book start your foundation do what you got to do it ain't it ain't your time yet stay off that online date stay off that online day listen to me it's it's a thousand good men on there it's 10 million men on 20 million men on now the odds are so low some some women got lucky some women got lucky they believe in god and will say they got blessed maybe god said i'm gonna protect you because you're my daughter and you don't know nobody you ain't get to hear the video about staying off online dating but since you going into this uncharted unknown territory i'ma still put a hedge of protection around you and i cross your path with one of the 1000 men out of the 10 million that's on online dating i cross your path with one of the one thousand that i have out here i don't play enough fish that's that's decent let's tell them stay off them stay off of that the men ain't getting on there with the right intention they not only with the right intention and then people need to put more checks and balances in there they need to do better but they ain't doing it they ain't doing it because you know why you got on there because you got tired why you got on online dating not because you feeling so confident and so invigorated and so positive about your love life you got on there because you said it's slim pickings in my city i don't know how long i'll be single i'm tired of being single i'm so ready to meet a man i'm so ready to be married so stop that's desperation oh i'm i'm on online dating and i'm not that yes you are because if you worked you would not be on a buffet site that's desperation just call it what it is i know you trying to call it other stuff because you look good and you fit and you got a good job so that means that no that do mean you desperate because if you're not desperate then you have the confidence to just walk down the street go downtown and just walk around look in the stoves look in the stove you'll meet a man with your mask on he can look you in your eye he could just look at your your hairline he can look at your eyes he can look at your wall and tell if you're his wife you ain't got to see your whole he got to see all this right here he just could see d2i right here see your house down here see your outfit and he'll know if you're his wife he'll approach you and talk right to you through that mask you hit me and don't worry about what's under that mask because everything else show him this your wife so if you take that mask off you know and and look like something he wanted it's better still he didn't met you just go downtown and walk around keep your mask on go downtown walk around hey hand sanitizer but just go downtown walk around if if you confident and you ready to meet a man just get out the house stay out get off that online day hey i gotta go god bless you we'll talk soon i might have to do a follow-up because a lot of people ain't gonna get it uh i don't believe that wrong online oh you know what's happening my friend all right how long are you been married all right is it 10 years yeah okay all right wait 10 years then come talk to me me and my wife going on 14 years of marriage i'm here to tell you something i know something about this here relationships and i know something about men i'm here to tell you listen to me now and god bless you we'll talk soon

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Id: X9R7vnVtIPQ

Length: 45min 4sec (2704 seconds)

Published: Fri Oct 23 2020