Get Distance! | Single and Healing

hey hey tony guys here popping in a little video another installment of the single and healing i've seen i i've started the single healing series and i just was doing it wasn't really thinking nothing of it didn't know if i was gonna continue to do it but then i've seen two or three people write me are you gonna continue to sing on healing i'm like hold on now you got a lot of requests for free he paid those money for no coaching either requesting up i said okay got all these requests so let me get on here and then be making requests and then be complaining about advertisements on the video like hold on okay so i just supposed to work for free i'm just supposed to be out here just taking time away from a family for free so okay let's all right let's make a little understanding okay i'll do your series this of course this is a whole course now when i'm doing a little series if you didn't see the other one look at single and ready that's like a little course that i'm putting on here this youtube that could be on tonygasersacademy.com behind a paywall and i'm putting it on here free of charge okay let's get that understand man so now listen to me in this second installment i want you to understand that when you single in healing you have to keep your distance and what i mean by that is there's this thing that's going around people saying that blocking somebody online is childish that's because the person who whoever made that up and got that going viral is don't want to be blocked or they don't have the strength to block their ex but when you single in healing you have to take that x and you block the x on you unfriend the x on facebook so that way you're not going to see his or her post you unfriend the x on facebook you unfollow the x on instagram and you block the eggs on instagram same any other social media you have whether you unfriending unfollowing blocking what have you if the ex want to see you the ex has to make a fake page and subscribe to you it's not necessary to be on private accounts to where you have to approve every person that comes so on your instagram on facebook you approve friend requests if you don't recognize this as a real person then you just hit ignore but on instagram keep your account public if at all possible now if you work in a certain job and you got to be private and do that but you know stop hiding behind the private wall because you can actually meet your next lover the love of your life through instagram so that's why your page should be public also when your ex goes to get a fake page or log into one of their other pages to follow you on instagram they can still see your glow up they can still see you eating a good caesar salad for lunch they still see you reading a book a week and you posting that book so you just post like this right here you hate the picture you put this down somewhere on nice background you take the picture book of the week next week put this on a nice background sit it down on a nice little marble table somewhere go to the look restaurant downtown sit this book of the week every monday post you the book of the week if you listen to the audiobook or you're listening to are you reading the ebook screenshot the cover from your phone and post that book of the week you making that investment if you cannot afford a book of the week then do a book of the month or a book you know every other week you don't have to type you don't have to put hashtag book of every other week but on your instagram with this social media because this is very real you just want to show you want to be tracking your growth so even you can go to your page and look back and be like man i read that book that book that book i went to that conference i went to that retreat man i was eating good i mean nice salads garden salad all this right here you know you could track and see your progress outfit of the day um once a week you post the outfit of the day so that way you can see how you dressing and you keep your life going the mistake that a lot of people make that a lot of singles who single in healing is they go into hiding they go into hiding and they hide in shame because all of their friends was praising their relationship all of their family was praising their relationship a lot of people love their ex because they don't really know the real x like you know them so the mistake is to go into hiding deleting your facebook deleting your instagram putting everything on private going into hiding if it's one thing if you want to get away for like a week two weeks but after that you got to get back to normal life because if you had all this social media and you had all this going on on friday night to lounge or what have you if you had all that going when you was in a relationship and then you go and do the opposite when you out the relationship that means you're not living a authentic lifestyle that means you're not doing what you really want to do because what you really want to do and how you really want to live you was doing that in you when you was in the relationship you had all kind of posts going on on instagram you had all kind of posts going on facebook i mean you just you you couldn't stop showing off and then when your relationship crashed and now you want to go into hiding but no it's like listen you want the praise now sit over here in this hill single life single and healing and still show just like you were showing before show your life just like you were showing before what you eating where you going out whatever who you hanging with the book you reading stay active stay public and you just blocking your ex you unfollowing you blocking your ex and the reason why is because the way the mind works you're already going to be thinking about your ex but the way the mind works is every single time that you see your ex post every time you see somebody else post your ex it strengthens the soul tie and what i'm that emotional bond it gives you have a chemical release from your brain you get a stomach ache or a headache you you start to sweat you start to shake you start to feel some emotion because this is your ex so that's why you got to block them you also block your ex on your phone if you know you don't have the strength yet to get a message and not respond you block your ex on the phone and you and blocking the x on the phone you also block the people who make you think of your ex meaning you stop talking to them if that's his sister his brother his mother his father her or if it's the other way around if it's a man watching this video her sister mother father and if you don't want to technically block them on the phone you just create distance to where you're not talking to them and what you could do in order to do that you can have a closure conversation that says hey you know i just want to talk to you and just let you know i really appreciate you and everything you've been in my life just the light that you have been has been so amazing but i'm going into a different season as you know you know we have broken up now and i just kind of need to heal i need to get some distance and separate myself from everything that concerns him because or her because it'll keep keep it fresh on my mind so i just want to let you know i'll be off the map everything's going fine and i'll be off the map and you know god bless you and i wish you the best and just like that close the conversation there may be a lot of guilt piled on oh i like you and you know what we have our friendship has nothing to do with them and i still want to keep in touch you're a great amazing friend to me it's hard to come by true friends all that will be dumped on you you can't listen to that because the way the brain works if you're talking to your ex's sibling mother father best friend you're going to be thinking about your ex and it'll keep that tie just as strong as it was when y'all were together the other thing why you can't do this is you need to get separation so that your ex friends and family don't feel like they can reach you on demand at any time so that they stop reaching out to you so when you meet someone new because you can meet your next person next week next month um you know you single and healing but life does not stop you can meet the person of your dreams within a month and if you're out at the park and y'all are taking it slow like you have romantic interest that is established you're taking it slow so you're just going and meeting up at the park and you having a little picnic and you have your phone out and your phone is face up your ex is blocked but your ex's friends or family are not blocked and so somebody calls you and then when they call you even if it says it may say such and such mom such and such sister which if you've already mentioned to this person about your ex they know the name if they don't know it they know it says such and such sister now they're looking at your phone if none of that happens and the numbers aren't saved in your phone and it just pops up at the least you know that number and when you see that number you have a release from your brain and you get tense like you it gives you a rush of anxiety or worry or stress or whatever feeling that you got from your ex from dealing with your ex so now you get this feeling and your countenance changes while you're on this date and so that's why i say you have to immediately cut off your ex and all of his or her friends and family anybody mutual and then your friends and family who you can't cut off because they're your friends and family but if they're mentioning your ex you have to shut that down immediately and very sternly let them know hey i'm going to ask you this one time and i'm not going to ask you again do not ever mention that name to me again that is i'm moving on my life i'm healing i'm growing and i don't want to hear anything concerning that person and can you do you understand where i'm coming from very firmly so that they know because see the way humans are humans are miserable and so because we are miserable until we learn how to daily choose joy we like to see other people hurt we like to see other people in calamity we like a little drama because that's why reality television is so popular right now because humans we like to watch other people in drama and calamity to make us feel better about our miserable life if we're not happy in our life when we get happy in our life you'll notice when you get happy in your life you stop watching other you stop watching other uh stuff y'all hold on real quick when you get happy in your life you stop watching the other uh [Music] you start watching reality tv and you start watching messy stuff because you're happy in your life so you don't need somebody else you know you don't need this nonsense to make you feel good but see what what people love is you're gonna have a miserable friend or family member who's just not happy with their job not happy with their relationship or their relationship status and you going through some pain and some agony and crying and you needing them as a shoulder to lean on it gives them purpose and meaning in their life and they start to feel good about that so in this process you have to cut everything you that you don't hear this person's name you don't see their post you don't see them on social media so that you can truly go into a space of healing truly going to a space of healing and the healing will come from the the first video in this series single healing about doing the work watch that again if you miss that you do the work and that's where the healing is going to come from and so you put this together and this is you keeping distance you're not answering any text you're not accepting text and when you if you block your ex or now if you have the strength of where you say i'm i'm an absolute stone cold g like my ex could not be blocked and he or she could text or call me all day and i'm not responding then you don't have to block you don't have to block anybody if it's not gonna you know make you respond but at the same time not having them block every time they reach out even though you don't respond it still strengthens the tie because it keeps the person on your mind it keeps them right there and whenever and sometimes it's just telepathic in the sense of you could be with somebody else who is a romantic interest and your ex just kind of feels something in their spirit or they just all of a sudden start thinking about you or somebody tips them off and says hey i just saw tony with sheree um down at the park or at the gym or at this restaurant and and because that's a miserable person and they want to see some drama and they want to see your ex hurt so they tell your ex and then your ex start blowing you up if you then block your ex and your phone blowing up guess what this romantic interest is over with that could be your husband or wife and it is absolutely over because they're going to see that you got some drama going on you got some mess going on there's some nonsense you in and they just washing their hands because they don't love you they don't love you yet they get to know you so being that they don't love you and they getting to know you they could easily just walk away without dealing with you y'all got to forgive me i got all my sleeping clothes even clothes i'm sleeping in last night but you know how i work from home so i ain't got to get up and put on the whole outfit and then so yeah that's how i sleep so you know they looking at you and they like okay sure yeah you got too much going on i know there ain't no spam calling that ain't no that ain't no uh telemarketer calling you back to back to bite the bike the back to back the bike now come on that's x yeah that's your ex so then what that makes them think is that you just slept with your ex last night you just seen your ex last night and then the day then got tipped off and heard you with somebody else and they losing it and it could have just been complete coincidence it's just the way the mind works as well when we're thinking about somebody it's really just a signal it's a signal that when we think about somebody it's just like how to telephone you get on the phone and you could dial a whole another country and it's just going to go through that line and it's going to get to that country you haven't been thinking about somebody and they text you it's how to mind work like we are connected mentally and so there's a lot of power in the mind and a lot of times you think about something and then you get a text from the person and it's because you connected you know and this ain't about just romantic there's nothing like i literally be thinking about one of my homeboys that i ain't talk to in a while and he'll call me the next day or text me an hour later like that's just how the mind works that we nobody can really explain or understand but it's just what the lord doing hey baby baby baby that's somebody got signed for huh [Music] oh no i didn't hear or not i just saw the ring pop up on my phone uh the package would be coming and got a sound file just trying to make sure i'm missing i just i ain't gonna miss nothing you it did something get missed did something get missed did you miss something oh cuz i saw it i saw it twice i looked out there one time oh oh okay okay y'all gotta forgive him my wife be having packages and stuff coming in a lot of stuff sometimes you gotta sign for it i don't be wanting her to miss now because she'd be wanting her packaging and then you missing it like might not come the next day or the next day and you'll be waiting on something and um and then the okay those dry cleaners too we got a little portable cleaner the world has changed so much the day had groceries delivered from the grocery store then had some other groceries delivered from costco and then just had a dry cleaning delivered like the world has changed so much to where it's just it's a business for everything that's why i try to tell y'all like ain't no reason to stay broke like lay on your back not up under nobody but lay on your back and look at your ceiling until you get your vision and start your business this another thing that you could do while you single and healing that's why i tell people when you single and healing do the work meaning get going like be busy it was a lady that i had to block the other day because she come on here talking about somebody said that in the church they like for people to be single because singles put more money in the offering plate and here i am on here telling people telling singles that they need to be living life and traveling and you know doing them like not just sitting still and she had a problem with that i said man i said man for one i don't have an offering plate and i'm not no pastor so they don't have nothing to do with me i don't want nobody to be single because you got more money when you're together when you're in a relationship because you got two incomes still one for one and then two me telling singles to travel and see the world that ain't got nothing to do with me that don't put money in my pocket but the thing is is when you sit you rot and when you rotting you dying so when you single and healing you can't be sitting in the dark just you know crying and complaining every day and just so miserable like get up and get a routine you gotta you work out every day you building your dream even if you got a job and you love your career if you hate your career then get the certification get trays get whatever and start building i was talking to a single mother today and it's a single mom of three and she then built a business to where she she the minimum she make in a month is 30 000 and she worked from home but on average she may be making 50 to 100 000 a month and she does what i do you know she is a speaker a life coach a mentor online courses trainer as a single mom and so listen she could have sat there and looked at her kids and just just every day just go to a dead-end job come home crying and complaining she hate her baby daddy don't want to live don't want to do nothing you know but she looking to buy her a house or rent her a house till she ready to buy you know looking to build her life like doing what she got to do and that's what i mean when you single and healing like get busy it's about you and now the question asks you know well tony how you block people when you got kids with them that's a whole nother situation i'm thinking about doing a co-parenting course so and then in that and i got a video on this but i can't remember the title of it but um something when when kids are involved so if you search kids involved tony gaskins maybe it'll come up um but with that it just you do what you can do you know so what that means is you minimize communication to the very least that it can be so in a situation like that what i recommend you do look i was just thinking about one of my own boys and he text me right now soon i was telling you how to mine work i thought about a particular homeboy and he text me right now you see what i'll be trying to tell you like god has set some up god the lord has set some up to where the mind is powerful and and this the lord this ain't got nothing to do with y'all manifesting and all that what y'all be talking about but the same way you that's why you visualize every single day i say to myself i'm gonna be in there i'm not connected to the results i don't really care what happens but i'm speaking it because one thing the reason why i speak that so you got to speak i'm healed i'm loved i'm blessed unprosperous i will attract love i'm going to attract love today could be my day and every day you get up with a renewed faith of today could be my day to attract the love of my life and you do that and so that your your countenance is going to be in expectant so you're going to be exuberant you're going to have a smile on your face you're gonna have a pep in your step because of what your mind is saying it's a man i know who do mind coaching and he try to say the mind don't matter and negative thoughts don't block nothing and that's hogwash that's that's when you don't believe in god but when you know god you know that there's power in your mind the the lord said a double-minded man receives nothing from the lord so such as a man think of so he is there is power in your mind and and when you think it and then you speak it now that's confirmation in the world that's confirmation out about and around you so that's why i tell y'all stop coming in the comments and being negative oh this just is so depressing a later a later uh comment another day this is so depressive listen to this man talk about the single moms video when i'm telling single mom to be careful and don't be bringing anybody around your kids don't be letting people move in your house you don't even know these people she put this is so depressive and it's like guess what if you think that and then you speak that and you type that now you just have literally three different ways rewiring your brain that you are depressed about the state of the world about being a single mom about being single now your mind cannot find joy cannot find happiness because you just cemented depression over your life and that's the thing we we be speaking depression over ourselves we'd be speaking misery over ourselves we'd be speaking loneliness over ourselves you have to speak abundance you got to speak love you got to speak prosperity you have to speak what you want and you have to believe what you want speak what you want and be in expectation for what you want and when you do that you start to what happens is the mind unlocks i tell myself i'm a billionaire and because i tell myself i'm a billionaire my mind goes to different opportunities and things i could create and so that's how my mentor.life was created that's how i told myself i want to earn a living in my sleep and that's how i created tonygaskinsacademy.com and when i woke up this morning the people who want a payment plan i could see okay 250 came in from this person on the payment plan uh 47 came in from this person who a part of this of the mastermind group uh 600 came in from somebody who bought the entrepreneurship course the entrepreneur course i can while when i wake up i could see a thousand dollars was made while i was sleeping but also it was people watching these videos while i was sleeping so that was earning it was people buying my book while i was sleeping so that was earning while i was sleeping because i said i want to earn money while i sleep so then the lord planted ideas in my mind that helped me create products and services that allow me to earn 24 hours a day and not just eight hours on somebody job and i don't have a college degree i don't have a mentor i don't have a full staffing team but because i believed it and i spoke it my mind expands and it sees it and it moves towards it so that's what i try to tell y'all stop speaking loneliness stop speaking depression stop speaking anger and frustration and bitterness because that's all you're gonna have don't come in the comments tomorrow you know it's just a sad state of being it's just so terrible the men we got out here it's like it's no hope i'm losing hope and i just want to give up all hope you i can't tell you how many times i see somebody put that in my comments and i have to delete it because i don't want somebody this ain't about losing hope it's about getting the knowledge to boost your confidence so that you ready for when you get tested when you get out there so that you ready so this is preparation preparation can be painful when you stretching the muscles when you growing when you toilet that preparation could be painful but you got to get prepared so that when you get out there you ready for everything that come your way but if you sit there and you just sulk and complain you're going to start to die you're going to wither away in your mind in your heart and your body and your spirit and you won't be worth nothing to yourself to your family or to the world and it's all here it's all here so regardless of how you feel don't speak how you feel don't speak negativity don't speak loneliness don't speak depression don't speak worry don't speak frustration don't speak these things call those things that be not to be as though they were call those things that you want and you speak those things as if they already exist and by doing that faith is the substance of things not seen and the evidence of things not heard how it go i just said it all wrong but you know what i'm trying to say faith is the substance of the things that you can't see the things you can't feel the things you can't touch that's what faith is so what i'm going to say if i'm single and i'm healing and this is the thing hindsight is 20 20. it's a lady she she come on here i you know i just really tony you don't understand until you in it and you know it's it's one thing to be married and happy to be talking about what it's like to be single you don't understand it so we need somebody to talk on this who is single and hurting what what do that say to you what do that say to you right there what i just said if you had to pull a moral from what she said what does that misery loves company how can somebody in it with you who's single and hurting tell you how to be healed you you you you see the the the irony in that you see the ignorance that our pain and frustration will have us speak and that ain't first time i've seen i've seen that several times where i see people in the comments say i'm tired of hearing advice from married folks we need single people to tell us singles how to live how can somebody single tell you single and hurting somebody in the same space you in tell you how to change that situation now if somebody's single and happy and they coping with it for one ain't nobody ever 100 happy single even though i use that term because we created to be with somebody you could be content but contentment does not mean you don't have desires you content where you at but yet you still have a goal being content don't mean you don't have a goal of marriage don't mean you don't have a goal of living with the love of your life even though you content so you could be single and tell somebody what you did in your mind in your spirit to have a sense of peace and contentment but a single person not going to be able to tell you what it's going to take to be married and happy and if that's your ultimate goal then that's where you need to be hearing from somebody who then got up from right where in the situation that you in then found a way they got on a path then got out there and did some walking and then got to a new destination and then they could say you tell you okay listen all right what you're gonna do is you're gonna go to the left okay take your new another two three step then all right it's a book right there you're gonna read that book in that book gonna be some instruction it's gonna send you to the right it's going to send you up 200 yards then it's going to be a course right there then over there you're going to go over here to the left then you're going to see a video over there then you're going to go on up down turn around hit the hill corner make the hill bend now watch out for a pothole right there and then it's a detour right there so you got to get ready to go over here then it's going to be a road block okay watch out for that now and listen i got a nail in my tire on the next street over so be careful for that so see somebody who in what you in they're not gonna be able to tell you the how to get where you're trying to go un unless they don't got them so that's what you got to realize and understand like stop feeling sorry for yourself and stop sulking in your misery in your frustration in your pain in your worry in your fear and stop speaking that the worst thing you could do is to speak that out your mouth to somebody or to come online and write it in a comment that you tired and you ready to give up and you losing hope and you stressed and you depressed and you don't see no hope in the world that is the absolute 100 percent worst thing in the world you could do get up get the knowledge create the distance from everything you need to let go of and get the knowledge and get to work and get going speak life speak positivity speak prosperity speak peace speak abundance and even though you can't see when it's gonna come you'll know how it's gonna come you'll know where it's coming from you still speak it you still speak it i was looking for my wife from the age of 16 and it took me to 21 the final and i didn't know how to find a wife that's why i was sleeping with women thinking that if you sleep with me early that mean you're not a wife i didn't know i was hurting myself too but i was going after what i wanted the best i knew how and then when i met my wife and she wouldn't sleep with me on my timeline i say this must be the one that's literally how i chose my wife based on what she was willing to do and not do that is literally how i chose my wife that was the first woman that i met out of over a hundred women of dating since the age of 16 that had her stuff together and knew who she was and what she wasn't okay doing that was the first woman who wouldn't do stuff that when i said jump she said ha ha that was the first one i say this the woman i want to be with right here because she knows you who she is she independent and i could build with her we could grow together i tried to change her into some toxicity because that's all i knew and she won with it so see this a thing you could say i'm gonna meet my husband i'm ready to meet my husband i'm ready to meet my wife i'm ready to be married i'm ready for the love of my life when you say that is that gonna send you into a space when you say that how i said it is that finishing you into a space of the people no when you say that you believe that you meet my husband [Music] you just are smiling and you speaking to everybody because you feeling good if a man tell him hey today could be my day i'm going to meet my wife today there she goes right on over there oh yeah excuse me man i see you from across the way and i just wanted to come over and introduce myself my name is tony and such i don't know i don't know are you single just like that boo because he not spoke that thing he believed that thing guess what his eyes open to it if he tell him man these women trash out here man it ain't no good women man all the good women gone like my goodness i'll be watching tony he keep talking about these good women like man everybody can't meet sheree gagnon like you already got her so what you what you you know so if he talking like that not his head down he moping he complaining he mad so because he think ain't nobody else out there and i've seen men come in my comments and say that bro you found one of a kind no no i did not it's it's million women out there just as good as my wife on the same a million of them i don't coach the lot of them now of course i don't know the real them because they talking to me so they're going to put on their bet they're going to put their best foot forward and all of a sudden they healed and whole and holy and righteous but at the same time i still know to a certain degree just mean people who don't know what i do and that i'm a relationship coach and i could tell just feel the energy and they vibe and just tell that it's a good person it's a whole lot of women that's out that it's a whole lot of good men out there but it's about what you believe you are worth what you believe you're going to attract and so when you say this to yourself your your mind opens up so your eyes are open so i'm like this right here when i in for me i'm in a relationship already so i don't have to speak that so i speak on my business i'm a billionaire so then boom my eyes open i'm meeting people somebody come to me with this tech idea boom i own five percent in that tech company now somebody come to me i'm working i'm serving i'm out here i'm moving i'm shaking i meet this person oh i own 10 in this company now 10 in this company now 10 in this company now 50 in this company now 50 in this company now so now because i said i'm a billionaire i'm open to the conversations i'm i'm networking i'm out here so now i got equity in 10 plus companies but had i just been man i ain't gonna never get out man ain't gonna never make it man can't oh make it guess what my head down i can't meet nobody i'm mean mugging because of what i'm telling myself so the man who walked up to me it's because i had a pleasant look on my face he said hey i'm such and such i see your son out here he run track and i see you with the nba mask on um you know with your mask got the nba logo you know i got this app and it's for athletes to sell their memorabilia you know and i see you work with the athletes so i want to run that by you i said okay i said all right so um um i like that idea i said i said well who you got in mind that you're working with he said oh we got this person this person i said well what you think about bringing a hall of famer on you know like tracy mcgrady man i would love that i would i said okay cool i'm gonna hit tracy up and we're gonna set up the mead and had i been mean mugging telling myself i gotta focus i got to grind like hey i'll come out the boat i got i'm walking around here that man wouldn't approach me so now i own a piece of that a piece of that out because i was pleasant i'm telling myself a billion now this app that if done right could sell for 50 million at the at the least could sell for a hundred or two 200 million and when it's sale y'all might not see me unless the lord give me a peace when i'm in the mouth d if the lord say hey you blessed you blessed you see now you see that what you was doing for these people on youtube now you see it wasn't work this your purple this your calling you miss it so even though you over here in the maldives go shoot some more video if the lord give me that kind of peace i'ma still be on here shooting video if the lord let me rest he gonna heal for me you're not gonna hear from me but listen because of my countenance because of my mindset and i'm speaking i'm a billionaire guess what if i'm speaking i'm a billionaire it is absolutely crazy to me to be saying that as a black man from arbendale florida who in a city of 5 000 with no mentor with no team with no college degree with no experience in coding that sounds absolutely crazy but guess what when i was making twenty thousand dollars a year i said i wanna make six figures that sounded absolutely crazy somebody making twenty thousand talking about they wanna make a hundred thousand a year with no skills no trades no no degree no mentor no none of that but just me and god that me and god and guess what when our blessing came go to my podcast i posted on the community page on the podcast link and i'm telling my story and you're gonna hear on my story probably on episode two i think maybe on episode two or three you're you're hit part two or three on my story you'll hear the blessing that god sent in my life that i ain't even asked for because i spoke it and i believed it and i'm aligned with the king i'm aligned with god you hear me so listen it may look impossible right now to you that you could heal and that you can attract the love of your life that sweep you off your feet but you got to believe it and you got to speak it and you got to work toward it you got to prepare for it do you want to meet the love of your life in the body that you in at the weight that you at at the skill level that you at at the business level that you at do you want to meet the love of your life and where you at right now if the answer is no then get to work get to work i say listen that's what i'm building these different little companies right here i want to be a billionaire boom one day i bump into i'm reading the email i bump into uh email you're telling a story about this guy i i listen to the guy's story i look at what they got him built and he them built several billion dollar companies one worth one billion another worth two billion with nothing worth three billion and he then built several different he owned several different websites just like i owned several different websites this guy on several different websites but these sites then built up to be have billion dollar valuation he ain't got a billion in the bank but the site worth this if somebody want to buy it and so i typed the guy name in i find him on instagram i send the guy a message i say listen i want to come and meet you talk to you and learn from you about the principles of success i pay the fee that you charge i pay the fee you charge and that the man it took two three weeks the man just wrote me back yesterday and said hey tony i'd love to meet with you in person send me an email here i emailed him this man own billion dollar companies but because i'm speaking this and then i'm working towards it see this what i tell i work twice as hard as i believe faith without works is dead so you can believe that you're gonna heal but you've got to work twice as hard you could believe that you're going to be positioned and you're going to be prepared and you're going to attract the love of your life but you got to work twice as hard some people say oh i'm going to meet the love of my life from meat love my life but then instead of eating donuts and red velvet cake putting on weight how you going to meet love in your life and you're not working on yourself you have to be working on your mind body and spirit to be prepared because god gonna send them god gonna send the person for you but god can't send them until you ready because it'll be unfair to the to this other person who believe in god and praying to god for their match to be matched with you if you're not ready god nothing to give a gift and ask sorrow the bible say he give gifts and he adds no sorrow so if he if you expecting a blessing on your behalf you got to do the work so that you prepare and you in position for the blessing so that when this person doing the work now both of y'all working both of y'all elevate and then the the cosmic collision happens the meaning god ordained meeting happens at where at the level y'all supposed to me that but y'all done did the work that's what i need you to understand this might be the last video for the single healing because it's not rocket science this all you got to do is rinse and repeat watch part one watch this part two rinse and repeat it ain't it ain't rocket science if you do this it's going to get you the way you need to be hey tony guys and god bless you we'll talk soon

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 44min 57sec (2697 seconds)

Published: Tue Sep 14 2021