He tricked me! | Talks with Tony

hey tony guys here popping in now i apologize about being late today and um about having this hoodie on the day it was cold in my house uh while i was coaching hold on hold on okay something telling me i don't know if my mic working my phone acting up today talking about my accessory might not be working so y'all forgive me hopefully you can get him i'm dropped out loud just in case my mic in front of me isn't working but we here with episode of talks with tony we're gonna jump right on in um i read the first two words so we'll go from there says i'm 33 mother of three beautiful girls worked full time married a man that has been in my life for seven years he was the one i would text here and there like a mentor i confided in him with all my relationship issues in return he would give me advice and bible scriptures i was coming out of a relationship and noticed i was moving through a spiritual journey his mind was extraordinary from all the others he came in sweeping me off my feet in the past he would contract women coach them listen to their problems i learned his history he saw mine uh now i just read what it said but it's some typos in there so we have to put that together i see my lightbox go out okay one of my lights went out y'all forgive me on that day um in the past he would contract women coach he would contract contact women coach them listen to their problems i learned his history he saw mine we ended up getting married and dedicated our lives to god and each other so i felt i expected marriage would be equal that he would care for my children like i cherish his that he wouldn't teach me with my history and that we would go to church as a family the first year was amazing visiting my parents going to dinners celebrations church etc second year very different when i asked why he had changed and we weren't doing the same thing as traveling to my parents together or events he expressed himself by saying he doesn't like people and we were going to do things his way from now on he states he did all of that just to make me happy he points out that he only gives me what i need and not what i want he's taught me life is full of lessons and this world is not as nice as i see it i'm very emotional i started to feel like this marriage was more of a contract and not a marriage we traveled to his parents home he inherited which meant we drifted away from my family he adopted my youngest daughter like his and commented that my two oldest daughters have their dad i used to look up to him as a better role model for my girls as a mentor and father figure he doesn't interact with them now before we left he would help with homework and have open communication he gets his children every other weekend buys them food brings them home and doesn't acknowledge mine i'm equal regardless of whose children my home is i'm i'm equal regardless of whose children my home is community property sharing i pay all the bills at the household so he can finish paying for school his truck note loans credit cards child support etc he goes to the grocery store and purchases the necessity comes back and tells me okay we are a team you go buy the snacks for the children and fruits and veggies i feel like i lost my confidant and myself at times i feel he plays mind games with my emotions even at times it seems like he doesn't know how to show emotions tony what am i not seeing here is this the devil playing games if you have to rewrite to make sense feel free i gotta go what's up buddy going night night wait why turn off my light are you still coaching i'm shooting a video right now yeah what's going on uh can you play uh two minutes of keep it up keep up the balloon okay yeah you about to go to bed a little bit okay okay hey y'all i'll be back so i'm gonna have to merge these videos together because my son want to play keep up he got a balloon that he just slap up in the air and we keep it up in the air so it's almost a bad time so i'll be back finish the rest of this here i need some time to process anyway but um i merge the videos and we'll talk soon all right i'm back my son said two minutes of keep it up and that really was more like 20 minutes of course y'all didn't have to feel it because i ain't leave the camera running now i wouldn't have been disrespectful if i would have left that camera running hey that would be disrespectful they would put all kind of advertisements in now but um this here letter all right so we back to the letter we back to the letter i'm gonna go up a couple sentences just we'll finish it on out again for y'all who forgot it i pay all the bills at the household so he can finish paying for school his truck note loans credit cards child support etc he goes to the grocery store and purchases the necessities comes back and tells me okay we are a team you go buy the snacks for the children and fruits and veggies i feel like i lost my confidant now see i don't know if she's saying i lost my confidence or my confidant it's felt i lost my confidence but i know it's a typo right there so we'll just say i feel like i lost my confidant and myself at times i feel he plays mind games with my emotions even at time even at times it seems like he doesn't know how to show emotions tony what am i not seeing here is this the devil playing games if you have to rewrite to make sense feel free now this is a hispanic name and it make kind of sense because some of this is kind of written like english may be the second language um at least you got an iphone let's say sent from my iphone god bless you god showed you some favor in your life with the iphone no offense to the android users god love y'all too but iphone sent me a chat and so sister this right here is just sad i'm like my goodness this sad so let me tell you what you got here let me tell you what you got here this right here type of man right here this is like one of the men like how you say he a life coach and you was moving through a spiritual journey and in the past he would contact women coach them listen to their problems i learned his history he saw mine this is one of those type of men see look and you say i confided in him with all my relationship issues in return he would give me advice and bible scriptures that right there that's what i try to help you all understand see a lot of times you see these kind of men out here online with they you know with their laptop like i got my laptop and they sit there in the room with the light on and and they giving advice but they ain't married they ain't married but they're giving you relationship advice and they're telling you what you need to do about your relationship or they're a relationship coach or a relationship speaker but they ain't got now wife and they giving you that advice they creating a fantasy because they get off on that they get off on women thinking that they're a perfect man they're an amazing man but they don't have a woman to exemplify that love on because doing it and saying it is two totally different things any man can sit up and give all the advice in the world but to live that advice out that's something totally different and that's what a lot of women make that mistake of and i and i noticed this too like if you go on my instagram you'll see 900 and some thousand people on there right you go on single some single relationship coaches and you'll see they over a million some might be over one 1.1 1.2 1.3 million the reason why is because women know i'm married so i got to get it out the mud only the women who got a pure heart is gonna follow me but the man who you know parading around as single a single life coach giving advice he paints himself as the perfect man and he's available so now he can get your heart he can get your money and then when he got you he already know because you've been confiding in him you told him all of your weaknesses you told him all of your weakness and none of this should have to even be said but you know obviously if you writing in it's you know you can't see it from the outside looking in and i understand that but the problem here is is you should never date your coach which that's it's too late now you're already in that but for the other people watching i want this to benefit y'all you should never date a friend if you have a man who is a platonic friend and y'all do not have a romantic interest from the jump never turn a platonic friend into a romantic lover never do that one out of a thousand times will it work if you are that one out of a thousand we do not care to hear from you in the comments congratulations god bless you we don't want to leave anybody else astray for the rule of the thumb okay rule of thumb we're going to say do not turn a platonic friend into a romantic lover because a man knows whether he wants you from the junk and and if he does want you he gonna make that known he ain't gonna play he's not gonna play life coach he's not gonna play mentor he's not going to do all that you say you married a man that has been in your life for seven years he ain't gonna be on there in seven years playing the game and then it's the thing this man right here he is all the way wrong because he sat down he see he said that he see that you 33 so you still young still a a baby a spring chicken a mother of three beautiful girls and you work full time he see that you working you got three kids that's three kids alone is a full-time job three kids or three kids is worth being paid more than any job in the world just by having three kids one kid really but you got three and then you got girls so that mean they super articulate they doing all kind of talking they telling you about yourself what they want what they don't want i mean look girls be talking you hear me what mom child please excuse i said this is hispanic last name young ladies they they giving a mama they giving you half a sentence and uh english half a sentence in spanish or other part other than spanish so you got you got a handful when you got three girls and then they finna go through all kind of stuff girls go through all kind of stuff and my personal opinion is way harder raising girls than boys i got two boys i see what parents who raising girls got to go through that's just too much articulation for me and you know i'd rather a little boy bumping his gums now my son they're very articulate but it's just low maintenance and i hear my wife say all the time she said i'm so blessed to have boys because she was like i am a boy mom there's a difference so this man see you got three girls then hitler nasty butt hitler nasty but let me i'm trying to talk proper just in case you do speak another language too you speak english very well this is email written very well but i when you say if you have to rewrite to make sense feel free um you know i know that saying you know what you were saying oh oh it said the message was clipped but that message ain't clipped that's that's the whole message so then this was a little nasty butt do you look nasty man pray on you for seven years get all your secrets now you said something here i don't know if it was a typo but it was profound i don't know if it was a typo but you show said that no and if you didn't mean to say that it read beautiful now and let me get to what where you said that whoo you said you said i expected marriage would be equal that he would care for my children like i cherish his that he wouldn't teach me with my history and that he would go to church as a family now that he wouldn't teach me with my history now i don't know if you meant to say that but so stop that's a whole sermon you hit me if you're a pastor that's your next sermon right now that jesus won't teach us with our history now see so now what you said right now to me i don't know if you meant to say that but it sounds like what you're saying is that he throw your past in your face and that he used your past against you all of the vulnerabilities that you shared with him the secrets that you shared with him the mistakes that you made in your past relationships that you told him about that he throws that in your face and that he makes you feel less than oh you dumb that's how you make you feel oh you dumb oh you gullible or you naive oh so you don't know what i know you don't know what i know because you ain't on my level because you this right here happened to you that only happened to dummies so you you're not on my level you don't know what i know excuse me let me share a scripture with you and then what the mass the man would give you bible scripture and then he stopped going to church with you this man was going to your family and what he was doing he luring your family in he getting them to drop their guards getting them comfortable he took a whole year to sell it and see that's what a scam artist got to do so because he played that role and see he was love again i'm about to say something disrespectful about the man off again because that ain't it's not a one size fits all but i was about to say he sound fine too like the other man later wrote in by but he sounded like he got a complex because this man played their role for seven years and what he did was try to make you lust after him and desire him and try to make you want him and try to make you miserable in your relationship by pointing out all of his perfections and all of his wisdom and all of his scripture and he pretended to be everything that your man wasn't he every relationship you had been in you said you confided in him with all your relationship issues so everything that your men weren't he pretended to be that man and the whole goal was so that you would like him so that you would lust after him so that you would want him and he did all of that to lure you in and then to make it look real because he couldn't just flip it on you the day after marriage he played the role for a whole year so he played each other so that he played you and now this man he'll load down he load down see me being a man i did some nasty and dirty stuff and i wouldn't do what this man did and that right there that scares me that scares me because i was capable of homicide domestic homicide i was capable of that and i wouldn't do what he did i wouldn't do what this man did so that scares me this man right here scares me for you in a relationship because you talking about this man gonna adopt your youngest daughter sister that's dangerous he adopt your youngest daughter as his own and we ain't talking like legality saying he went to the courthouse i get what you're saying maybe he did go to courthouse but you say he adopt your youngest daughter as his own and then he talked about your older two daughters which you ain't saying nobody age in here so that was very important to say that age but you probably but you know i probably would have went in on that so you ain't gonna give me that ammo but then your older two dollars how much they got they daddy you know what that says to me as a man it says that he's a pervert and they say that he won't adopt your younger daughter cause she's gullible and naive he could get lafiels in and she won't recognize good touch versus bad touch he could pick her up and cuff cuff booty and she won't catch it while he picking her up he could swing a finger around and grab some areas and touch areas accidentally and she too young because she needed him as a daddy and she think that's love and that happened every single day so when you raising girls and even when you raising boys you got to be careful with the man that you bring in and that's a red flag for a man to say i'm gonna take one of your children i'm except one of your children and the other two is outcast to me the other two uh i used to help them i ain't helping them no more they got a daddy that right there that's scary and you show this here video no you don't because this man right here he crazy no you know he crazy if you ever get you another city you can show them in this video and listen here lil punk you're nasty you're nasty and you're a grown boy and guess what y'all here playing these women guess what you're gonna have to answer to god and it's a hot place it is a hot place for men like you out here seducing these women and then you're going to get this woman and you going you are hugging on feeling on her little daughter i already know what you're doing because i already know the men like you boy you nasty and they told my other two dollars oh they got a dad you it's nasty and you need help you need to be in church now you're going to stop going to church you need to be in church and boy you won't burn if you don't change do you hear me i don't care if you don't even believe in a t double l if it didn't exist it's getting created right now for you if it didn't because that's nasty what you doing and then you gonna take your grown stinking musty behind as a man to the grocery store and by half of the groceries by half of the groceries you ought to be punched in your mouth one tooth at a time that you swallow them and choke on them man that is disgusting that you're gonna take this woman who was living her life and she come confiding in you and then you gonna take this woman manipulate her get married her and this to every man that's like that that you bumped into this video you nasty and boy lucky i pray god have mercy on you cause you the type of person that the wrath of god will tell you limb from limb i pray god have mercy on you boy because you will come within an enter your life when you out here doing god daughters like this as a grown man yeah i admit to being a no good man but i was a boy i was a boy i met my wife at 21. i was a boy yo it's grown and stink and musty you hear me and you doing women like this come on now and y'all forgive me now y'all forgive me for all y'all apologists that you want me to talk to to talk to a grown man like a baby like a little boy this ain't this the wrong channel for you because he know better than this he know better than this and if god gave me authorization i hit him in his mouth it's like man it it and me it's almost like i want to start a vigilante group that we go around and we just pluck off one toenail at a time if you of you once you cross a circle and once you cross the age of 25 you got to have all the sense in the world it really ain't no excuse for us before that either from 18 to 25 but i'm trying to give a little bit of grace trying to get a little bit of man you grown and then you ain't just taking this woman you taking her and her three kids so now they got to see her worrying stressing crying and then you take your behind to the grocery store and buy half of the groceries and then come home and tell her to grow to the grocery store man listen got my eyes watered i ain't crying i'm mad but listen man i'm listening what man do you know how to google do you know how to google okay you work full time that you know what you got a job you got a job man let me tell you something let me tell you something man do you have credit you need to get you a credit card you hear me get you a credit card and you get you 3 500 off that credit card if you ain't got no credit card then start building your credit work on your credit right now get you go get your secured credit card for two hundred dollars and charge twenty dollars on it and then when the statement come pay that twenty dollars build your little credit get you a credit card if you got savings because you work full time put your little savings up if it got to be five hundred dollars three hundred dollar one hundred dollar fifty dollar if that's gonna take too long you ain't in physical danger because you ain't mentioning nothing about no physical this man here's he he he doing you he doing you mental and emotional this right here is a slow burn right here and this is what i try to tell people like that when i try to tell people that yes verbal abuse and emotional abuse is just as bad as physical but it's the burn rate is different because see if if somebody hit you in your temple your life could be done like that if somebody do you like this it may take you years to break all the way down before you feel completely done for you see what i mean so it's a it's still a difference abuse is abuse but it's a difference in the application of it this coming from a former you shouldn't say somebody who used to be in this space so i understand this it's a difference and that's what you got to realize is it's all bad but the way he doing this right here is slow he'll kill you slowly and he'll make you want to do it to yourself and make you blame yourself and feel guilty about it when it was him playing puppet master and so because you allowed this man to see you moving through a spiritual journey as you called it his mind was extraordinary from others he came in sweeping me off my feet that sound like satan as a man that ain't that what ain't that what the devil do to us ain't that what the adversary do he come in like a thief in the night he lures in with sin and the sin is so seducing it's so seductive it gets you in just a little bit at a time and before you know it it doesn't cost you more than you can afford to pay that's what he did he got you in slowly oh yeah play boy i'm on to you you nasty and god got something for you god got something for your boy you better fall on your knees on your face and repent well you better cry out to god boy listen here you do not want to see the wrath of god for how you out here doing women and not just a woman but her daughter only heaven knows what you'd have done to her youngest daughter and i know because i coached the adult version of them young daughters who was being done wrong by a man like you and never get the courage to tell until they 30 40 50 60 years old i know the men like you boy you nasty and boy listen here it's a hot place for you you hear me and even if you repent the night you still gonna have to reap what you sow be ready to pay the price you ain't gonna get away scot-free trust me and listen here sister you don't want to be sitting beside them when lightning strike and i and that's metaphorical not lit but people got struck by lightning so for this hill clown it might be literal it might be literal people got struck by lightning it might be literal you don't want to be sitting next to him when lightning strike metaphorically hypothetically proverbially all other elise you do not want to be next to him when that lightning strike ma'am trust me you need to start trying to get some distance and what i ask you do you know how to google what i mean by that is when you go on google and you search google um foundation to help women relocate nine grants and charities that help with moving expenses that's a boom right there charities that help with moving experience grants for housing and moving list of charities that help with um money geek financial help for women in abusive relationships so you do google that a few different ways i'm a bad googler because i got my country accent i just verb stuff wrong but if y'all good at googling you google something you see a foundation come up in your area you know you can put in the comments what you google the phrase you google but i googled this in different ways before and it's foundations that pop up that they raise hundreds of thousands or millions of dollars so they got the money when you call them or you send them an application and you let them know what you're dealing with that it's someone that they'll go ahead and pay that first and last month's rent for you to move and as of right now this guy you mentioned nothing but no physical so when and that don't mean that's not there but again remember you can live on your knees or you can go out standing up either way we got to go so you have the decision that you make on when and where and how you decide to make a move and you analyze the situation you set up the situation you create a plan of escape but when you deal with somebody that can seduce you like this and trick you into a relationship and he's introduced you to his representative and see for them seven years he could just show you this perfect man because he was sleeping with other women he ain't have to live with you the reason why he flipped that strip on that second year is because now he lost his his zeal see what it is is he get off on being the knight in shining armor and he gets to be that too unassuming damsels in distress so when he had to go all the way through with the marriage to prove to you that he was who he said he was after a year he was done the jig is up the act is over and now he's feeling lowly and insignificant because he you're with him every day and your three daughters are around and then he gets his kids every other weekend he doesn't have the time and the space and the freedom to be the knight in shining armor for 10 different women because he doesn't live alone anymore so the second year is to break you down emotionally and to weaken you so that you throw your hands up and you quit but that but so that you feel worthless and useless and that you don't have the energy to uproot your daughters and to move and so you literally will go home and cook and clean and then you will go get in your bed and then he will go sit in the car or sit in another place in the house and and play knight in shining armor for strange women for other women and then the next thing that's gonna happen in year three he will start staying out all night he will be gone for nights at a time and then year four he will be gone for a week at a time and then two weeks and three weeks and you still will be paying all the bills and then he will even cut back on more bills and have you paying those bills and all because he got you like bambi a deer in the headlights while he coming 150 miles an hour in an f-150 and he just uh just take you out and you so he will have you so weak and so dependent upon him so mind warped because as in your words his mind was extraordinary from all others see i understand about being extraordinary i know a little bit about that don't confuse my confidence with arrogance god will show you who you are the devil will too so with two it's two sides you could pick you could pick this side to work for god or you could decide he chose to work for satan because see i could use my mind and my way with words and my way to articulate and the wisdom that was given from god i could use that to manipulate the draws off of women and so i used to use my gift to write poetry and a spit game and to have talk gang to get women to do what i wanted to do so i already know what that's like but i got my wife at 21 and the lord got me at 23 renewed me starting to work on me by 25 the lord had done done his work in me the devil hadn't tripped me up and made me fall a few times and the lord picked up brushed me off and say okay now you can work for me full time my boy i got you this man right here he on assignment from satan and what he is here to do is to steal and to kill and to destroy and he gonna destroy one woman at a time but as a full-grown slanking musky man that's what he fit to do destroy you destroy your baby girl destroy the egos and confidence of your two older girls then destroy the other woman he talking to right now on the phone playing night and shining armor then he gonna destroy her then destroy her kids destroy the next woman he literally on assignment and see nobody too big and nobody too small for the adversary if he got to use a demon like this man he'll pluck off one woman at a time one child at a time that's what he'll do because that's what the adversary set out to do this man working for principalities and evil and dark forces to ease his way in and do this right here and see the reason now some of y'all said well tony now how you got all of that from this email this woman ain't saying nothing about he punching her in the eye this man any man knows that a man who will pick his kids up get them food bring his snack-a-tooth kids to the woman his wife house let his kids smite you know kids don't know how to chew what they mouth clothes i know because i'll be ready to pull my hat one by one to look how i got left with my six-year-old be chewing i told him 90 times on two with you my clothes he chewed with the micro for two two nothing i know it's like he ate in in the whole six years he'd been living and this man bringing his native kids home they smacking in front of this woman three beautiful girls her girls sitting there looking at them kid catching a slob going out their mouth then she got to come home her daughter's starving she got to go in there and cook for her daughters and it's so sorry but see you know what i want because the government might not mess with me if i start the relationship form of black panthers i just watched all the black messiah judas and the black messiah and they had them black panthers and i hit up uh or one of the guys that interviewed me on his podcast years ago willie d i told him i said hey man you need to start the black chop on the black pencil and i um do the chapter here in florida he said man you're trying to get both of us killed i'll say yeah you're right i said you're right listen we'll come up with another plan but the government might not bother with me if i start the relationship version of this the way we start going him it up and he got to sit there and just get love and relationship lessons with a solder in the nose and just learn how to treat a woman because listen man i don't have no sympathy for men after you cross a certain age i understand when you young and dumb and fuller but once you come a certain age and then you ain't just doing it to no woman that's bad enough just do it to a woman but you traumatizing her kid her kid gonna be having nightmares about watching your kids smacking their face and then they gonna be growing up her daughter gonna grow up and could be man haters because they watch your sorry butt come home and then send their mama out in the cold rain snow heat they'll go get the other half of the groceries ma'am you could do bad by yourself and matter of fact you could do better by yourself i wish i could get a letter that say hey work this out this thing gonna work out but i can't sit here no lie man come on here these men right here come on here in the comments tony when you gonna advise somebody to stay together and work it out when when it fits when it fits i'm not going to force no work it out in no treacherous situation like these what i look like boo boo the fool absolutely not i got the answer to god i got the answer to god so yeah you can stay and try to work it out you want to but if i know you finna be better off alone that's what i got that's what i got to shout sister you will be better off alone do you hear me this man here will drive you to a early grave that will be induced by stress by emotional stress now he mad with me did he he finna try to find me and square up because he think he know tai chi all right let's see if that fist could block this lead this hot lead you see what i'm saying he's gonna be mad with people i don't kill nobody because men got the man up and me it's time for men to be men stop being punks stop being wrong boys like come on man we don't have enough time it's hard to get right it's time to get right it's time to learn how to treat a woman like a queen man come on come on now my company paid my wife six figures and she stayed behind on the emails and still get paid and all kind of emails don't be answered but you know cause if she's a queen so whether she do the work or not she gonna get paid because that's my wife now if it's another one working for the company oh man yeah we're gonna have the right to uh cuz i had because i ain't married to you right up now if i had to write you up again you terminated but my wife she gonna have a red carpet roll dot because that's my wife when you married you got to treat that woman like a queen you as a man you suffer the wrong you perfect her flaws you stand in the gap you grocery shop and buy all the groceries that's your little raggedy job you got this woman paying all the bills out of the house and then oh my goodness i can't say too much cause y'all might start seeing men disappear for days at a time and you you you've watched the news john smith disappeared he hasn't been around for three days but there's been text messages of pictures of him missing teeth and missing fingernails from an unknown number that is not traceable they say it may be a vigilante group that's out to get a some no we want our wrestling we're gonna return we're gonna return him he's just gonna be bumping and bruised but he gonna have 72 hours worth for love and relationship lesson that he feel to be the sweetest nicest man with them teeth get veneered that you've ever seen but it's like i'm i'm at the point now it's unfair for me to say lord touch us lord if us men doing wrong lord touch up because now i'm doing right now so now so i'll be wrong to say that now scott free diet doing good hey lord touch here man ain't doing right i'll be wrong to say that but at the same time it's like listen lord now come on it's a certain age it's time you you need to start paying a penalty the lord needs to start sending a wrath on you yeah i understand grace and mercy and all ain't nobody perfect but listen this god daughter that you doing like this and lord in the name of jesus right now lord put a hedge of protection around them them girls this woman and her daughters lord in the name of jesus put a head detection from satan minions out here doing the work of the devil this right here this woman were minding her own business and then here you come knight in shining armor seven years you plotted on this woman and then you're gonna get hun you're gonna get her one year apiece all the pain you just seen her go through got three daughters single mom working a full time job and you're gonna get this woman one year apiece and then you're gonna flip the script isolate her from her family moving to your family regular house and then you got her paying all the bills at the house and you're going and shopping for half of the girl i just cannot get over this i cannot get over this and then y'all have the nerve to ask me well tony why you help the women why you coach women wait do you see what they're going through you see what they got to deal with you see what they got to deal with and ain't no men right of me dealing with the equal side of this from a woman ain't no men writing me with that and some of y'all oh i know man all right tell them to write me then tell them to write me tell them to send an email in so we could balance the scales we can't balance the scales cause i'm out here i'm in the trenches i'm seeing it the scales ain't balanced men doing more dirt at a higher clip and i know y'all alpha males and mick towels and red pills want to feel good about getting tow up front to flow up by women and you want to have a sob story that oh women ain't no good but no i'm out here i'm seeing what's going on i'm on ground level i'm in the trenches beneath the ground looking around i'm out here and it's us men that's doing the dirt doing the dirt yeah some women ain't right but it's not equal it's not equal it's not an equal amount of no good women as it is to no good men and it's more women in the world than men so that ought to tell you something if there's more women in the world than men and it's more no good men than it is no good women that ought to tell you something that men need to get right then we need to get closer to god need to know the lord and listen and she said is this the devil playing game absolutely he playing games so you better get to know jesus and you better get going you better go about your business point blank period get both of the t-shirts when you get out on your own and get your money back up for now you need to be putting all your money into a savings account listen he'll assist this right here this is not on marriage this ain't no marriage go to the bank go to the bank yes you got the right to do this go to the bank get your own bank account get your own bank account and you have your money direct deposited in your bank account you get a bare minimum to this hill house to be honest with your sister don't even if your credit good right now and you need to get gone and you get paid enough for them next two checks if you don't spend no money on no rent and all of that that you could put that next to check down on first and last one rent on an apartment you get an apartment it ain't got to be the world's greatest apartment and need to be decent now you don't need you don't want to be living this snow basils and you know crackheads but it need to be a decent night but get you an apartment and and listen it he'll if he this type of man he'll heal him he'll pay the bill he'll pay the bill he'll want no eviction on his credit he'll pay the bills and that's as a man he need to be paying the bills and he deserved to be stuck with these bills to be left with every one of these bills for the shimmery he didn't pull it on you and i and that ain't no word but we finna use it right there for the shammary he doesn't pull on you he need to be stuck with them bills and you take your next two or three or four paychecks whatever it takes the first and last month's rent and if y'all got to sleep on our beds y'all going to sleep in peace and you go get an apartment well here at work and he don't know where to park me at you hear me and you could put the lights and water in one of your your daughter's name so he ain't got to be on your name he tried to look you up he can't find it have one of your co-workers a homegirl or one of these foundations or just do lights and water you ain't got to do cable yet do the internet and y'all can watch netflix and just youtube just watch these videos on youtube do what you got to do sister do what you got to do sit down let me tell you this sit down and talk to god in the peace and the quiet and the still of the night see i'm just kind of talking right now so this ain't no concrete plan but when you sit down everybody's situation different so one woman playing is not gonna be your plan so when you sit down and you let your mind just be ministered to and say god show me the way lord show me the the yellow brick road lord show me illuminate the path that i need to take to get out of this hill situation because this is not of you i would deceive by a demon lord lord free me relinquish release me from this here bondage lord i listen to my flesh instead of you lord and and just lay there and if you just lay down just lay down it might be 30 minutes it might be a hour it might be four hours you might stay up that night and be tired the next day at work but but lord gonna minister to you or he gonna show you a way of escape he gonna show you how to leave when to leave he gonna show you how to save matter of fact might even send a blessing to you might even send a blessing to you somebody might just draw some money on you somebody might just sow into your life you hit me if i had that kind of non-profit foundation which i talked about starting but then i just ain't had the time to vet all the people that was writing in and not just oh my goodness and it'll be it'll be just my the way i pick undercover demon and i got her executive director of the non-profit and come to find out she worked for the devil i ain't still coming because i was too busy focusing on other stuff so that's why i ain't starting that non-profit i mentioned cause i just the lineman and my wife said to me she said all right now listen you can end up working with some folks that you end up crazy and now now you put your name on stuff and stuff go so listen you get got to trust god just send somebody who ain't got no brand and all that to lose but god gonna send somebody might be a foundation right then you'll see it but listen to me now you're gonna illuminate the path and you're gonna see the way it's gonna be the lights right down beside the road you're gonna see the way to leave and when to leave and how to lead you're gonna go on about your business now this kind of man me hearing about me and how this man is this one of them passive aggressive man this this man is the type of man he more likely to slice your tires or steal your license plate versus busting a grape just that kind of man right here and so you know and just pray for a hedge of protection and when you get out of you need to get your restraining order right away at the gate first day just for precautionary measure the police they there to protect and serve a lot of them you could call them and they'll sit outside your house and that's just where they working from that night just to watch you know and got to get you favor with one of them they might not even might not be in a um jurisdiction or their job duties and they might just make it their job dude we don't have police climbing get cats out the trees not me personally but i'm just saying like what we see on the tv show so god give you favor with who you need favor with when you need a way of escape because the devil gonna tempt and try you but the bible promise that we're gonna have a way of escape so understand that it's gonna work in your favor it's gonna work in your favor but you got to be willing to let go you gotta be willing to let go you're not gonna be able to change the little demon and to see the thing about it is the reason why i really don't believe in change for this man is because you knew him for seven years you knew him for seven years so if he saw you at your lowest at your weakest at your most vulnerable state and he still could do you like this god have mercy on his soul god have mercy on his soul god have mercy on his soul listen to me and that's why i tell y'all you ain't got to be vindictive vengeance is mine saith the lord you ain't got to be vindica what you what you got to do for these kind of people you got to pray for them because without your prayer of mercy you will see them go through so you will see them go through stuff you would not wish on your worst enemy and and that's why i just you know be the bigger person be the bigger person this this right here i'm gonna be honest with you this here saddens me it angers me i wish y'all didn't have to go through this i wish y'all had just the foresight you know the wherewithal just more wisdom than this right here and then to have to fall for this and be lured in and and it ain't your fault because he played a good game he played an amazing match you hear me this man set you all the way up they may show you no red flags the man was amazing so it's situations like this right here that you can't even be mad that you get played you can't even be mad like you could be mad at yourself if you saw a million red flags and you ignored them this man right here was a knight in shining armor so you can't even be mad you got to be able to say wow i literally got played and that one you just got to take that you just take that on the chin you roll with the punches and you going about your business and next time you're you're used you'll find a couple other signs you'll say okay if a man make me wait seven years he ain't the one you're gonna find some things that you ain't have time to mention in here because it's a short email but as you really look back you're gonna see some red flags that you miss you're gonna see some red flag even at seven years right though you're gonna see some red flags even him confiding all letting all the women confide in him and he doing all that right there him playing knight and sean and armor to multiple women and he's single as a dollar bill i know uh yeah you're gonna see some red flag when you really sit down and spend some time with this right here but i'm gonna tell you now this one right here uh that my energy done left me i felt i just you know this right here this right here to drain me just right here the drain i just feel i just feel the just energy leaving my body from just processing and feeling the the the gravity and the magnitude of what you dealing with right here because this right here this sad right here this right here this i just oh my goodness it's like in a situation like this you're rather somebody you know just be blunt and straightforward and just i oh i'm a dog like you're rather somebody you know they know slow you know slow slow kill like that right now straining you out coming home playing mind games absolutely he playing mind game you know why you playing mind games because he's weak he's weak and he's insecure he's broken and he's lost so he is wise in his own conceit so he think he's so smart he think he's so deep he think he's so wise women like you have told him his mind is extraordinary he heard that so much he believed his own height so now he uses his mind to manipulate you so now he sees you as a rat in his maze that he has created and you searching for the cheese but you keep running into the wall and when you eventually find the cheese it's a rat trap it's gonna kill you that's the game he playing with you it's a vicious game this is a lifetime movie somebody bless me with 250 000 i'm gonna do a movie on this man right here on the men that play a moot and play a game like this i got a product coming in l.a produce movies for 250 000 and we're gonna put it on netflix and i'm just gonna play out how to eat show you how to eat type of men right here play tyler perry give him a call one of y'all work at paris studios y'all tell tyler perry it's a guy named tony gaskins life coach got a lot of storage could be a great consultant want to do a film with you and he'll put up some of his own money and pay for the studio all that right now tyler give me give my call let me help you out with some of those scripts this right here oh man and then watch now somebody wrote for television to tell tyler perry and then watch y'all finna see his next 345 movie gonna be from my talks with tony and he ain't gonna give me no call give me no look cut they helped produce it come on tyler don't don't don't come on now black man a black man don't do me like that don't do me like that don't do them like don't do me like that tyler give him a call give him a call give him a call now i can't play his role because i can't get typecast now i need to play something i got to play the good guy like denzel in all the movies i got to be the good guy like denzel and all the movies so listen to me this right here is sad it's like oh man it's like you either laugh or you gonna cry one or the other but still i feel bad for you but but at the same time you're gonna have to put your big draws on your adult size dependables you're gonna have to put them on and you're gonna have to wise up and you're gonna have to stop feeling sorry for yourself you're a grown woman now you're a grown woman you know right from wrong nine if you didn't know now you know now has been illuminated for you now you know now you know you got sense you got sense don't play dumb no more don't play weak and gullible no more it's time to stand up for yourself and love yourself you're trying to get going it's time to get going going about your business you're trying to get going no more excuses from this day forward you do not have another excuse to play the fool because it has been exposed and illuminated for you not another day in your life can you play the fool going forward up until today you could have played the fool and you've been doing so with this hill fool of a man for the last nine years or seven years whichever one it's been but now you know better so now you got to do better and that's the every woman listen to watching this i got to get going because that first video with my son about six minutes and this one at 51 so i got to go hey god bless y'all we'll talk soon

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 57min 16sec (3436 seconds)

Published: Tue Feb 16 2021