Why does your ex keep in touch?

hey Tony guys in here popping the air got a question in the comments the other day they said you know why can't the man who doesn't want me leave me alone and as I thought about it I get that question a lot all the time in the Q&A where so many women saying this and me and this guy broke up but he keeps reaching out to me oh we broke up one lady said to me the other day her and her guy broke up a year ago and they talked every day and all the time so many different variations of that uh we broke up X amount of time ago but he keeps reaching out or we talk every day like best friends or we talk every week or he reaches out you know every month or every three months he's checking in hey how are you doing and he wants to talk to me and so what I want you to understand now you got to understand about a soul time and so to put this plainly think about this when when you watch this video you're hearing me you hear me and it goes to your brain and then your brain processes what you're hearing so right now while I'm talking about this and I'm touching my brain it gave me the chills in my head my head got the chills I don't know why my brain is processing that I'm talking about it and that I'm feeling something because I'm trying to help you feel something so sometimes you may hear me and your brain processes it and it relates it to something that you experience and then it produces tears because you feel some sorrow or some pain or some remorse or regret and sometimes it may produce chills because the hair on your arms stand up because of what you're processing sometimes while you're watching a video you may hear something and your brain processes it and then it links it to something in your life something in your past and it makes you laugh sometimes you will hear something and your brain will process it and it goes against your belief so it makes you angry and before you know it you a comment war you and you bout to sprain your thumb trying to type your your rebuttal oh well Tony this is what I feel and this why you're wrong because and listen to me now I understand that I love your page and I'm not coming at you the wrong way but you are wrong about this and before you even listen to the whole video you in the comments just because of what you heard your mind processed and it was against what you believed it went against what you have accepted as your truth so you see what I mean how the brain works it reads and reacts reads and responds so in a relationship that is what happens where when you sit with someone you get a certain feeling and your brain may be releasing dopamine or serotonin into your system or it may release another chemical that makes you upset and angry or you upset and angry and then you get a release from that and that release think about this you know how sometimes you upset and it makes your stomach hurt that's the reaction that your brain is having and now it's going through your bloodstream so I want you to understand this so you understand a soul time when we say soul time is literally just an emotional bond it's an emotional bond that is grows to be a spiritual bond it just means that your body has had a constant reaction every single day you know I just coached a client and she was in a relationship for more than five years so every day you're talking to this person y'all are communicating and you're getting release so now going on a year later she's still thinking about them and and imagine your brain has been trained to get a hit to get a release from this person from their toxic knees from from their verbal abuse from their love from their laughs from their presence so now your brain has been getting this release for five years six years seven years even six months and now you trying to get away from it and your brain is like whoa what's going on what's going on now what are you did I needed it I missed this hit I missed this this gave me purpose this gave me feeling this gave me something where is it at no different than you drinking coffee no different than a crackheads Norden crank so think about this studies say that the same part of the brain that's activated during an orgasm is the same part of the brain is activated from a snort of cocaine you see what I mean so a lot of times what's happening is it's an addiction now when you think about this and you think about a drug addict right ask yourself does this person love this straw or this person addicted to this drug because he now love an addiction can be one in the same when love is the root when it's love when you love somebody you may also be addicted to that person but you can be addicted to something and not love it because you know that it's not good for you so see that's what I want you to understand your man that you were with he sees you and he doesn't want you as his main woman he doesn't want you as his wife is something about you that just doesn't turn you just not the one for him now he may be the one for you and you maybe can make him the one for you but he's not willing to do the same for you but guess what he gets something from you see it's one person you talk to that's gonna make you think it's another person you talk to that's gonna make you feel it's another person you talk to it's gonna make you laugh it's another person you talk to that's gonna make you angry that's gonna make you jealous that's gonna make you frustrated but everybody serves a purpose you ever had somebody that they confuse you and you like your person crazy but then you don't talk to him for a little while and you like I missed that kind of crazy you taught this person this person right he'll get on my nerves man just so petty oh wait wait the drama but then you don't talk to him for a while and it may feel good for a while but then every time and you just wanna go back and just get that a little bit of petty get that a little bit of drama because that that drama actually gives you a brain a reaction and it gives you a sense of purpose in that moment trying to put that fire out trying to solve that drama because now you get to be Sherlock Holmes now you get to be Blue's Clues now you get to be dr. Phil or dr. Felicia where you try to solve this hit a little bit of drama so now you get your look dr. Felicia in and then this person over here this your comedian so see that's what I want you to understand about me a man might not want you in your entirety everything about you I remember coaching one of my celebrity clients um celebrity woman and and we were talking and she said Tony you know man like the fantasy of me but not the reality of me so they want me in a life on the roster for the arm candy to say I'm sleeping with such-and-such but then don't want to see me as a real woman like a wife just want to see me as they got the woman that was on a TV screen you see what I mean and that happens a lot so a man may see us a hmm I want you for this reason and you never know what's turning a man on what he want from you you know what I'm telling you so cuz a man might want you because you are a nerd and I don't say that in derogatory wait but you'd extremely smart and you call yourself a nerd so you studious and that is a certain type of attractive to him a certain type of sexy this other woman she Luke she loose booty okay and that's what she has embraced and she loves booty and she free-flowing she carefree so that's what he want from her this other one she the prayer warrior she got to pray with you every time for she get off the call you talking to her and you telling about your promotion and she kissed she go - speaking in tongues under Allah sue somebody subsidy whoa yes Lord thank you praise You Lord didn't I tell you that was going to happen for you yes let's pray right now Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus Lord just in trench us right now Lord and so see your prayer warrior and she bring you in then anytime you feeling filthy you want to call her so that's what he go to her father this other woman she Tiffany Haddish you know not funny but so not funny that you laugh at I'm not funny she is so that might be you so I want you to understand that when you wondering like okay widest man on my phone he don't want to be with me he cheated on me got another woman you know situated got her but to bring into the world his seed but yet he still calling me or we broke up he and ahold another relationship posting on Facebook and Instagram but he called him me we broke up he called me but not telling me that he apologized that he saw her that he want to be with me he just want to be on the phone shooting the breeze and you know like I got the time to be just shooting the breeze and he don't understand you just what you saying he doesn't understand that my heart wrapped up in this that I loved you loved him you wanted to be with him you would have made it work even if he was a look looks challenged even if he was a look slow you know couple crayons short or a Crayola box but you was gonna make it work because you got to know his heart and now ugly duckling syndrome now II think you just want now you wanna act a fool and you like what in the world going on so y'all break up he don't want to be with you don't want to act right but want to talk to you guess what see this what's happening that's what I want you to have but this what I want you to understand with soul tires okay I got a whole course on this make sure you go to Tony Gaskins academy.com Tony Gaskins my name academy.com and go to school okay go to relationship school got all of course on that you need when you graduate from relationship school I got the business courses on they'll so you could start walking in your purpose now listen to me let me help you understand this okay every day that man was talking to you he was talking to you your little sweet voice or your strong voice you might have a strong voice but whatever your voice feels it was triggering some of his brain and he was getting a reaction from it so he's sitting there and he getting a reaction from what's going on in your voice your voice giving him this okay so we giving this reaction and then you laughter giving him a reaction now you may be an empath you may be a nurturer you may be a boss you may have the alpha personality a type person whatever they call it and you you call shots what do this do this do this do this you call shots and that gave him a release or you passive and you support of oh yeah anything you want to do I really believe in you you know you're so gifted you are so talented you can do anything you set your mind to so whatever you were telling him however you was treating him it was doing something fun right but where his desires are where his heart is he wants something that he doesn't see in you and ain't your fault and you shouldn't change that don't mean that you left and it just mean that he puts his value in other places that made not and he may not see that value in you y'all got forgive me hit this old table with no back scratching my son Bobby there's an old back scratching scratching back every night yeah now so he puts value in other places where he doesn't see it in you but what you did bring to the table you see what I mean when you and him break up now that part of the brain it ain't being activated he's not getting that release so let's say you was the love the lover nurturer supporter and that's triggering right here okay trigger right here Boop trigger sure that good look that good look dopamine getting put in that system but now I'm the woman he talked to over here she Hot Tamale loose booty you know she hittin this over here so he see her he see this is she hitting this over he'll get a little serotonin and now don't mean enough and but because of his upbringing because of his history and his biography because of where his priorities are he don't want nurturing by nature he won't Naughty by Nature all this just come to me as I'm talking so y'all gotta forgive me he won't knighted by Nature not nurturing by nature because his priorities over here nasty he hiding ready like Little Caesars so he'd nasty and now this where he want to focus well see he getting this he getting this he getting this but his body his brain missing this over here this release because it's like man she taken care of me in the bedroom all of that is great what I did somebody I'm missing that speaking to my life situation just one we don't speak it to my life she's just singing on a microphone but this one over here she really know how to sang on the microphone but she was speaking to my life and it made me feel good so not he called you and then you answer the phone hello and he like hey how are you you know our mission you like I'm doing fine how are you now you butthurt you upset because you like man not you over here mixing signals you know Verizon can't you hear me now cuz I had a clear channel I'm clarity I'm on Tony guys in YouTube and such and such YouTube and I'm reading this book and now you come calling me can you hear me now and here I was on this hold another frequency and I hit you on my line and so now I'm just not getting over you and then here you come pulling me right back in cuz see guess what that's the sole time that's what the soul is so see that's what you got to realize and then picture it like this if your picture you got your rope okay going on thick rope that you do tug-of-war with right and let's say you picture in this tug-of-war rope and it's wrapped around his waist and then it's wrapped around your waist but let's say he going that way you going that way and the more y'all start the stretch the more y'all stretch y'all stop for a minute but would you keep going and he keep going so now what starting to happening what's gonna start to happen else look extra light over him what's gonna start happening so now he going that way you're going that way let this rope start to he started to heat up so now you start to see the choo choo the different looks trains popping up its popping up popula is getting thinner thinner thinner thinner thinner and it's going from from this it's fit first and then they start to get smaller and smaller and get been it's been cuz ya'll breaking apart you're going that way he going that way but then when he get on your line the Rope started to come back together and it starting to form again and it started to pull you back in tug O'War see that's the sole time that's what it is you were tied and then yous getting further away you you get knowledge you get healing so you breaking the tie when he called you it's starting to come back together start to pull you back so now you're like whoa and then a big and jerk here you coming back and now you coming back at you like oh my goodness now you hear his voice you actually miss certain parts of him you miss all of them but you miss certain parts of him so now your brain getting a release now you got the tingles man you got the chills now you feel it and on your stomach feeling a certain way so what what started to happen was is the brain saying listen I need this hit over he'll play boy I needed hit over he'll play boy you getting a hit over here and you feeling it here but you not getting this hit over here that's that's talking to me over here and so guess what the stomach started to hurt his stomach started to hurt or the brain gonna give him a headache he gonna get a headache or you're gonna get a stomach ache and because he's not getting that hit he's not and so this is why used to go to feeling sick when you try to leave a relationship and you feeling sick and you got to miss some meals are you missing out on some sleep and you got to be taking pain pills and you got to be drinking or you got to be getting coaching or you got to be doing something to kind of activate your mind to get that hit get replenished in some kind of weight because if you just sit idle that idle mind become the devil workshop and it go to hurt you you go to fill in sit he feeling the same thing but see he doesn't value what you bring to the table but he missing what you bring to the table so he missing it and he wants it but he don't value it you see what I mean so instead of being LeBron Jane you're gonna have to look up the Lakers roster that it being LeBron James you Alex Caruso you see what I mean so he treat her here like LeBron Janey but Alex Caruso still in port but see Alex Caruso number 12 on the bench meaning if LeBron Emma Wanda you got the number two player number three player number four player than five player Alex Caruso hit number 12 player you've him I might be the made player so still valuable still gonna get you still gonna give you five million here but I'm gonna give you 40 million a year you see what I mean so that's why the man who don't want you still be calling you because you bring something to the table but see you bring the you bring the Caesar salad but see he right now he thinks she the filet mignon and which is affectionately known as for let me not see he faints either for let me not and you the Caesar salad so it's like okay I get fool of therefore let me know no but but let's see the sound get that pallet right you know that Caesar salad minute just gonna hit hit you open up their appetite father for let me not so now you ain't getting your Caesar salad you go to missing it but you could get fall off that for let me know so you give fall off for this this what really caused over here what you you miss that Caesar salad and garlic mash and that asparagus you see what I mean so that's why I'm an keep in touch with the women he don't so-called won't because you something to him but you not everything and he could live without you just like you could live without him but see he is not healing he hecho in see he ain't healing he ate Jordan you hit me in the field digging him up so he bouncing around like a little Jackrabbit woman a woman and when he do that remember that's his head that's his hit that's his snorter powder when he when he sleep with this woman and he get that the big ol that's his snore the power so his snore the powder it's activating that same part of the brain so that's what's keeping him drew it up from warm in the warming but then he missing he missing his Narcotics Anonymous class he missing his accountability partner from the Narcotics Anonymous class you hit me and then she over here this his sin this is hit and so that's why he keep calling you so you got to realize you got to get to the place to what they listen stay off my phone tell my phone because if Union gonna get right you got to get left so I'm fitting to leave you cuz you got to get left because you're not trying to get right cuz you got me sitting over here looking like who shot John and forgot to kill them why are you trying to bounce around from wanting a woman and you want me to stand still so you could run in and out of my life see that's what's happened and that's what he trying to do and that's what you got to realize you got to realize and understand that ain't got no clock I need to watch this he'll time y'all quick tips on the practicing a little bit so that's what's gonna happen so I want you to understand this is that and and this goes into the next thing I was gonna say this goes into it what a lot of women say well Tony if I keep coming back why he calling me why if he don't so call won't me if he's not interested in me why is he on my phone and and you want closure but see this what you got to realize a man is not going to give you closure see a man don't give a woman closure because he want that door to stay open cuz he want to come and go as he pleases he want to be able to come in and night in and night in and night if he give you closure and you and he tells you I'm never coming back in your life because you're not my for let me non for late men y'all you the Caesar salad and you say you know what I'm finna take my salad to the yard bring all the shape bring all the boys to the yard cuz if you don't want somebody else don't want it he knows you're gonna realize that and that you gonna try to move on so cuz he know you strong enough to move on but he knows that you don't have a heart to move on if you don't have closure because you hold it not for hope you hoping against hope that he'll come to his senses bump his head and wake up and say oh I need her that's my wife that's what you hoping and praying for he know you hoping and praying for word speaking in tongues boy shondo and so he is sitting over there and he like you know well i'ma keep that door open cuz if I keep that door open she gonna stay right down she's gonna be sitting right down on the couch waiting on me to come back in my time get back and she don't how bad so she'd have been sitting on that couch for so long waiting me to come back through that door so i'ma leave oh right there because one thing I know about that one if I tell her I'm going for good she gonna close the door she gonna call mr. locksmith and she gonna get them locked change and then when I'm over here dealing with this women over here all these strange women and I come to MIFF I come to my senses and realize that none of them don't fit me I'm gonna go back and the locks gonna be changed and and not a lots might be changed it might be another man inside the house so now I'm locked out all the way spiritually emotionally physically everything metamour what you call that metaphor metaphorically I'm not every kind of way and so that's why he leaves the door open and this is the thing this is the thing see he may have never heard the term soul time but he knows what a soul tie is every man know what a soul tie is even if he don't know the term so he knows that that that wrote them strange puppet because it's so much time in between he know them strange puppet so that's why he called you cuz when he call you he know them strange come back together and he starts you all over he resets your clock because now you go to thinking I wonder if we could work hmm I feel like that's my husband I feel like we're meant to be I'm gonna assist hang on I'm gonna just hang on you know I'm gonna just keep praying I'm gonna keep praying and believing and Lord you touch his heart and you do the unthinkable Lord because you can do what no one else can do Lord and Lord I command you to do what only you can do and that's what you sitting there doing and that's what he knows you sitting at doing and he said imma let us sit down keep praying cuz Guardian bit more hearing hurt than a man on the moon because God no ain't bit more to man for her didn't a man on the moon so he know that but I'm gonna let us sit then I'm gonna pop up and I'm gonna call to every 90 I'm just some old message here 9 I'm I'm uh I'm a look at a Instagram story r9d and just to make I think I'm watching a me and watch the store I just let it play through it I'm watching EF I'm just let it play through because I know that's gonna have her up she's gonna stay up an extra hour sitting there wondering why I looked at her story and what does that mean and why am i watching her and ain't look at her pay this what he telling himself just what do you already know she may know how to play with the mind he already know what to thank you here I know what you thinking Denis and and this way you're gonna do y'all mind ain't talked in a year your birthday come on happy birthday your mama birthday come up tell your mom I said happy birthday yo dog birthday come up I hate tell larocco I said happy birthday get him a dog biscuit for me so he cuz he know how your mind work that's gonna mess you up oh my goodness oh girl let me tell you he oh my goodness see this is why I just cannot get over him he called me to tell me to tell Rocco happy birthday and to get Rocco a dog biscuit oh my god how thoughtful is that so that's what you said no thank him so he like that's gonna mess all that's gonna mess it up he the rule that you got on your floor he know what he know that roll up birthday oh wow you know what just popped up in my memories from Facebook when I took a picture of the Indian rug you bought from home goods I have so many memories about that rug he gonna hit you buy something that's so irrelevant that's gonna make you think that he cares so much and you gonna be like wow and you're just gonna be stuck and he's moving on with his life he's just truckin but see this the thing he's a grown boy so he doesn't know what it is to be a real man and he don't know how to be a real man he's not ready to be a real man that's why he won't you stuck because he don't want to be up the creek without a paddle he want to be able to swim back the old boat and let him drive a boat because he want to be able to reach you if what he trying to make work don't work he want to be a come back so he needed to be able to come back if Betty Sue and Sally don't pan out if better soon Sally don't pan out he want to be able to come back the old dos down and move back in with you because he know your heart he know you were empath he know you were hopeless romantic he know that you were lover he know that you nurture about nature united by nature that was she but he know you nurture about nature so he know that you got a mother's love and that you love him like your son yeah yeah that's what he know that you love him like your son that you gonna treat him like a son meaning that he can be the prodigal son he can run and go to and fro he can go out there to the wilderness blow all his fortune all this money come right back to you and when you see him coming up the hill just like the prodigal son you you killing the fatted calf if you vegan and you you cutting on you couldn't open the fattest zucchini and roasted vegetable soup and the give him the best ring the best meal give him give all his blessings he know he can heal your prodigal son need your prodigal boyfriend your prodigal husband he already know that cuz he know your heart so we know what to do he'd know what to do we know how to do it just to trip you up and make you think something but see he ain't even coming back and what he did didn't take no effort not seeing if he say listen I might go here and hire this Hill Tony Gaskin for four sessions on my mentor night life I went of my mentor dot life he telling you it wasn't calm its my mentor dot life and when I went on there I was able to see his schedule before I paid so I found the time he walked out by eight weeks but I found the time and I paid $250 for a session with him and this what I did I told him that I'm okay with him reporting to you to let you know to confirm that I had a session with him and I'm finna do four sessions that's a thousand dollars because I won't do girl see he ain't doing that he doing that he just send you a text message they didn't cost him none took him five seconds but because it was so sweet tell your Indian world happy birthday from home goods and me and you like wow he remembers the anniversary of the rug we bought together from home goods oh my goodness that is my husband and I know it and I'm not going anywhere until this man comes back to me and so he'd know that Dinesh you up and so guess what right after he tell you that he's spanking cheeks you hear me cuz you suck and he in luck he has somebody bit wrong in all kind of fornication is sin and when it don't work out cuz he just what it is the same reason why you broke up with him or the same reason why y'all had to break up because he didn't grow I'll become a grown man he's still the same man so when she over there when Sarah Jane is soo come today senses a finna be on the bicep a tricycle playing a train first thing smoking getting out of Dodge they moving on out of his life so when they move on he need to come back to us hold me down and you his hold me now you see you his paperweight you who the the person that just helped him go from one season to the next come back it's best I'm with you sweet nothings that's why y'all off and on off and on for four years five years how many years cuz he just come back to you just long enough you the pit stop you the pit stop let me come get my new tires put on get my new love nuts put on get everything back on there nothing to get back on in the Hill Grand Prix Daytona 500 running running my race doing my thing but then when I need getting a pit stop go get put back together let me go back to her cuz she nurtured by nature's sheet of empath she's a heart healer she's a life coach and a mentor she just st. joined my mentor died life yet but she getting ready to go to the training on April 11 to become a life coach so I'm gonna just go back to and get let her get some practice before April 11 that way I know I'm gonna be healed to go back out here to these other ones and do what I do see that's what even told yourself until you said man you like man you know what I know I'm going Alana April 11 they can be certified like code but I'm gonna go ahead and help him out cuz he needs me he needs me what would Jesus do and you tell yourself everything in the world and then you looking up other people's story you know let me read let me go to the to this to this here messy room calm the messy room calm and read about Keisha kaor and Gucci Mane oh okay Wow they have millions now and she was there ten years waiting on him oh okay Oh Jada she let's we'll go on vacations with his eggs mmm and look how good they're doing today okay Oh Beyonce lemonade so jay-z cheat on her and B not B she's still with Jay oh my god you know what this is every reason in the or to wait on him that's what you're telling yourself girl oh let me tell you what okay cookie could call HIV for magic and they still together that is magic so this is my man I know it and that's why you waiting so you're waiting on a grown boy that don't want you and you leaving the door open and that's why he keep coming back because you his heart healer and so really what the perfect situation would be for y'all is if you won't my mentor not life and he was your client that's the perfect that's what really what y'all opposed to be you his life coach you ain't his wife you're not his wife and his life code you just his life coach and then he over there with who he wanted to be his wife and that's why you got to close the door and you got to move on with your life because he just was just what's gonna happen see this what's gonna happen see this I need you to understand I'm gonna get ready to go I gotta get rid of going a little bit but on drop-ins cars on the floor now this was gonna happen see it a man want things to be easy for him so he gonna hit you up every now and then sending to mix signals so you keep the line of communication open cuz he want to be able to walk back in your life but see when a man truly won't you when this truly your husband he gonna do cartwheels and somersaults back into your life he don't look like an acrobat what I mean my dad is he jumping through any hoops that you need him to jump through you need folk sessions with Tony gasping okay I'm through that you need me to go back to the church I'm through this hoop right here and I'm getting your bike somersault through this hoop okay you need me to go to counseling with you cuz Tony ain't got a college degree okay um that hope with you I just caught the woman she said tone I've been two years with a counselor Here I am do one session with you and I learn more in one session that I learned in two years with that counselor I should have been paying you I said now you just learned what real education is okay some people call to it some people just came to it but if you want to require that he do four sessions of life coach and focus and count that's what he doing that's what he doing when he really wants you nah when he come back and he sent you that mixed signal you got the line of communication open so it the mixed signal gets to you you you catch him picking up what he put down so now catching what he throwing so now you get it and then you say to him well listen if you want to be on my phone that must mean you want to be back together any like no I ain't say that ain't say that I'm just thinking we could be cool oh okay so you're trying to walk back in you don't wanna do no somersault bye good bye block you hear me blocking delete in 2020 but see so when you go to try to put any and stipulations listen if you're coming back and you're gonna be on my phone you you saying you trying to work on something we got to get some coaching and we can't afford culture we got to read this book together we need to read this book together make it work so we're gonna have to really make it work together now when you hit them with that stipulation this way they don't say you're gonna say no only thing we need to do that we don't need nobody else in our relationship we don't need all that all that stuff eight I'm not gonna do all of that for love ain't I'll do all that for love what you think this seals bootcamp I'm not trying to do all that I'm not ready went to boot camp for the United States arm of America and I'm not gonna go through all that again and that's what you want to do and be my drill sergeant I'm out of here so guess what you gotta be okay you out of here this honorably discharged by don't call me no more so that's what he's going to show you that's how you going see if he really trying to be on your line or he just want to keep you on his line hook line and sinker he want to keep you and be dragging you while he going where he want to go doing what he want to do but you can draw by his soul time and you can draw it through the mud and the asphalt and the red dirt clay road everything you can draw it through it all falling behind him because he giving you a little rope of hope just giving you a little rope of hope that you thinking this might work out he might come around so listen to him listen to him understand that he knows what a soul tie is he might just not know the terminology and understand he manipulating that tie on purpose and understand that you can close the door change the locks you hit me and if he want to be with you he gonna come back and knock and then before coming near he gonna be willing to stand on that porch and talk for hours without being given access in and before being let back in if you tell him he need to go to lovers Anonymous and take some classes he gonna go to lovers of non-obscene take old classes before coming back to knock again then he gonna take you out of the house not not to come in your house and kick his feet up he's gonna take you out and court you show you the world let you see some things and start all over with you then he gonna be at his place you gonna be at Joe place he gonna be talking to you on FaceTime from his place to your place and he giving you daily time daily attention and he's doing the work that's when you know he really trying to get back but see if he trying to do all of that he ain't trying to come back he just want to keep you stuck and that's why you gotta say no no no I'm out of here I'm cutting this time I'm cutting this tie and I'm gone I see you later because my husband is looking for me that's what you gotta be able to tell yourself that your husband is looking for you understand now understand never and when you get that hey that's gonna change your life now listen to me if you need some coaching make sure you click the link in the description my mentor dot life got plenty of coaches on you on there from $25 an hour all the way up to 500 an hour if you feel in booze you it somebody on there for you if you feeling a great value discount walmart.com we got coaches with a discounted rate on there for you right now and so make sure you book a session with your coach I'm on there as well but somebody told them the schedule look book back there but um I'll be there you know better late than never and for those of you who you see what I'm doing as a life coach and I'm my unconventional life coach because I you know I'm not all buttoned up in the button-up shirt and you know talking all proper with all the big words I hit you with some caveats and nuances every now and then but most of the time talked to you in regular language so I'm a different kind of coach life coach but this is what I do this is what I do when you're gone my mentor that life you're gonna see the schedule book that you know in real life for a real reason so I still do this and so if you ready to do this and start helping others in your way then you could join me in allowing for the life coach certification if you want to come live or you could look in the description to take it online on Tony Gaskins Academy calm so understand just cuz I talk to you like this now don't think I'm dumb don't think dongjak up cuz on you know say all my words the way the dictionary spelling don't think I'm dumb now I got something for you to help you like to the next level so a god bless you thank you so much for tuning in we'll talk soon

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Length: 45min 53sec (2753 seconds)

Published: Thu Feb 27 2020