Cheating husband and the OTHER woman!

hey hey Tony guys in here popping the air now this topic came across my desk today about the other one and saw the article on it this morning and wanting to talk on it now I'm gonna spend some time talking to you about the man and then I'm gonna talk to you about the woman and kind of help you understand this and understand yourself if you've ever been in this or you getting ready to go through it now first what you got to realize is you should never never ever ever ever ever in your life deal with a married man what today is happening more than ever because a lot of men are married millions are married and millions of women are single and so a lot of women start dealing with a married man some know right away some knowing the first day some knowing the first month some don't find out for six months to a year some men found out two or three years but it's a lot of women dealing with a married man and a woman dealing with a married man a lot of times end up sounding certifiably crazy when she try to explain what she doing and why she doing it it makes no sense to nobody but her and saying goes vice versa a man cheating on his wife now let me help you understand this about a man cheating now I'll be honest with you as a man as a married man marriage being marriage can be easy marriage can be easy because you with somebody that you chose that you talk to several hours before you married them the hard part is being faithful and the reason why it's hard to be faithful is just because as men we are nosy we are at interests we get bored very easy we like variety and some women can say the same thing about themselves but I know as a man that a man's sex drive is much stronger than it is in a woman now you have some women who were exposed to the act under the age of 15 and become very promiscuous and then say that their drive is equal or greater to that of a man but on average we're not talking about those exceptions to the rule on average the drive is much stronger in a man that's why you see some men I've had to work with men who sleep with animals you heard the right a cat adult yeah yeah so for all y'all want to argue that it's the same Drive in a woman as it is in a man that's not true I know you want to feel that way I know you get a lot of time time it's way stronger in a man look at the stuff man do look at and this every day man this this your Pope okay this this ship preacher this your principal this your police officer that you see on the news that you see on the news with the okay yeah if the drive is extremely strong in a man in the owner or the only way I make sense of it is like this humans came about we were created or manifested or whatever you want to call it and the only way for the human race to exist forever is for there to be an extremely strong drive to reproduce in the man because the man is the hunter the man is the pursuer so the man has to have that drive because see if a man did not have an insatiable desire to be with a one which is the act of reproduction then a man could just shut it off focus on his money focus on lifting weights focus on fishing and gambling and playing sports and the human race was slowly but surely cease to exist we would have we would be far less populated far less popular I saw a couple the other day somebody paid and they was debt free and they probably look they probably look early thirties late twenties and was holding about five or six kids I said to myself I said man would you please get that woman to break ain't no way in the world that woman want to stay on my bike and be popping out a child every nine months this Manhattan one popping on every nine months did you even get a woman six months I mean the six weeks recovery after the last baby I was like wow but that's man that's man if you wonder who have had a time and you had that child you still with your man a minute ha not on 10 men tried to jump in there before them 6-week recovery that the doctor asked you to give your body he trying to get it now one weekend some men have been another two days in oh yeah the woman inside just floated and he didn't know like Nemo and I'm like come on nine this woman just drop the baby hole a couple months ago and you got a pregnant again some man to do that so that's the drive in a man so what you gotta understand is it takes a mature man see it's not a it ain't normal it's not a normal teeth the drive that the man is feeling a lot of we don't understand because you'd never be inside of man mind but I'm telling you I can't even take you all the way there cuz you can't even handle me anything out y'all always tell my tale the trailer truth I can handle it that's what we hear [ __ ] but then when I give you a little bit of truth you're in the comments oh I don't agree with that that is not true not anything on me in our process II know what I told you like the man said on that movie you can't handle the truth so let's tip me on this the tick inside of a man unless you can have a man's mind you'll never understand it you will never understand it is not normal it is not normal so this this is my philosophy on this is if God created man and this is man's disposition that he has this insatiable desire to be with a woman even after finding a woman and marrying her the desire is still there to be with multiple women the only person not person but the only thing that can rewire that man is God that's the only thing and so the Creator coded man anything that has been coded can be decoded and recoated it can be hacked so that is why the Good Book says that when a man finds God when he comes to God when he comes to Christ he is he becomes a new creature so the only way I'm able to be faithful to my wife I'll be honest with you is the power the strength I receive from my Creator from my Savior I would not be able to do it on my own strength it is a super night for strength ARMA one lady said so yeah if you're so if your husband didn't believe in God that means he wouldn't be faithful absolute that's what it means that's that what it mean the power will go to God not to man did that no such thing as a faithful man it ain't no such thing as a faithful man without God now he might be strong for two years he might be strong for five years but without God's purpose on his life without him coming to God finding God repented becoming a renew creature mentally emotionally physically and then receiving his birthright his god-given purpose the man gonna fail again and again and again even if it's just with nasty movies just him watching nasty movies and dealing with Hansel look that that's gonna be the least of it but eventually it's gonna go further than that it just is just no way around it I've been out here and I've been around man I'm beyond switching I ain't never met a faithful man who ain't had a power God that he leaning on and believing in and calling out to you me and I'm gonna tell y'all women it's not for something you to speak on because you've never met a faithful man because all you know about a man is what a man tells you as a woman you don't know nothing about a man other than what he tells you and what you get to see but as a woman you never get to see the real side of a man you don't even know your dad you don't even know your daddy you know what he showed you when he put his cape on but yo mama could tell you some stuff about your daddy you hear me your mama could tell you some stuff about your daddy that will up end everything you ever thought about your daddy you mean you don't know a man as a woman man get the opportunity to know man because we take the cape off in front of other men because we know we all float and that's what I know this would be every guy I talked to curses every guy I talked to curses maybe it's up one or two and if they don't curse and they black they say the n-word and you know what black people call black people didn't work and what racist people call black people what's going on at the end and then lose they teeth and so there when I'm talking to me they'll say something because they taking a cape off and they want to see if I curse too I don't curse they want to see if in the N word that's in context they want to see if I drop my guard if I show Who am I really and then after some time they realized Tony is exactly who he says he is online Tony is the exact what he show online faithful to his wife love God serve God no man will be able to say turning on turning on love God and turning on li'l what he preaching no man will be able to say that even my security guard my barber who be on the roll with me we're coming back home coming through the airport I'm in Tiffany's or Pandora by my wife for nothing deal perfume bracelets what happened he like man what are you doing I'm in Cartier Cartier however they say it buying a little rain you know when we in the mall I'm in this though that stole just getting her something to say I was thinking about you and I tell my security guard a man get your lady some man just let him know you think about it no I'm good no I'm good she'll be all right ain't paying the bills doesn't know a thing about it you know and he true to his values he don't try to Front for me and try to act like Romeo you know but he see me and he know ain't got the front for him and it just what it is if a man look around and he lost it they he'll hear from me man I can be looking over that merit so understand renew by cranks that's what a man have to be I side of it I just say I just say met a real representation of a man that is thorough that is full of integrity and see the reason why that's why I say that's why I'm not an in crowd that's why you don't see me taking pictures with celebrities and adding celebrities and then posting media and me and taking picture with me because my lifestyle that I have to live it makes me uncomfortable it make an average man uncomfortable because I'm living pristine because I'm living right and most men want to be able to do a little dirt they want to be able to sing and so that's what you got to understand about 9 out of 10 husbands they're gonna be tempted just internally it's not even about the woman being a temptress that married man he will go after her he'll go after her that's why I try to tell women all the time it's very important that you choose a man of character because you're not gonna be able okay hi nice your booty is okay how good you think you is in a bedroom there's nothing you can do to keep a man faithful other than himself that man has to keep himself faithful it's on him so you had so when you choose a man who has low character he smoke weed he get drunk he gambled he watched Pern he masturbate he go to the club he go to the strip club he curved like a sailor drank like a fish smoked like a chimney when any saying that this man does that is outside of a pristine character the chances of him being unfaithful is increased by 10 to 90 percent you mean so every look man he does so just him being a man just him being a man it's a 50% chance he's gonna cheat on his wife just being a man because of how men are wired and built and raised see it ain't just it ain't God fault it ain't God fault it's society's fault it's okay in society for me and to be mean so it's kind of like when you see a mama or in a daddy raising their son it's a lot of songs that was raised you might be an exception to the rule and I'm so tired of the exception to the rule blowing a trumpet in the comment oh okay congratulate Hindle the Packer catchin up for chick-fil-a okay congratulations do you want another catcher here you go hey calm down we talked about the average we talk about the rule but when you see your men being raised most of the time like official look girl at five years old and she hugging and kissing on a boy now if it's a little boys like that is so cute oh thank you oh it didn't put me and we'd be like oh like girl no daddy like girl that's how me a lot of me and B and so and that's just the honest truth it's a double standard and then some some people don't care even it's some of the boys wearing heels and dresses any mom it's like we're just gonna let him express himself and just be who he wants to be and just just flourish like a little butterfly child don't know the difference but yeah you just gonna let them bump into your clothes and wear your clothes and okay alright so and but again just the freedom you know that boys get freedom to do whatever they want to do how they want to do it and boys get excused oh he's 16 oh he could go out to the party she's 60 ah you need to be home 10 o'clock what the party start at 10 all right 10:30 you need to be home you know that's how a lot of girls are done so it's the world the way we raise and so if you're gonna raise then keep this in mind that you don't play right into this cuz you could be raising a cheater because you've been making exceptions for the fight for your son this whole his whole life he could do stuff that your daughter can't do instead of having him on point and having her on point and raising them like that with morals and values and both of them happen to pay the consequences for bad choices equally and so that's what you got to realize I understand that's the nature of this man and not as much soul not as much the nature but societal constructs and how the world reinforces this loose behavior of me and loose booty behavior sowing your Wild Oats you know a man thinking a go saw your while before you get married and even women to tell they Sun and a make sure you get it all out your system make sure you do what you need to do before you settle down and what people don't realize is it's never out your system it's never done it's always there it's always something there it's always just look look they look double all we're gonna be tugging on hey try this right here try that right now and this man that in your community leading and end up getting to you know to a 14 16 year old girl oh yeah oh yeah it's me and end up getting tall until until a merit woman till there's another woman that he married yeah he ended up seeing that getting to fill attempted and acting on it why because he'd have been coddled and bad behavior has been reinforced all his life excuses the been made for him all his life haven't really faced real accountability all his life so now here he is married and he still want what he want he want to do what he want to do he wanna give in to his youthful lusts he want to give in to his flesh he want to do what he wants to do and he doesn't want any consequences for doing it because a lot of little boys didn't get spanked a lot of little boys didn't get what when they did something wrong didn't get grounding they are just a boy boys gonna be boys boys are gonna be boys that's what that's what people say all the time no boys is gonna be what you let them be that talking out of turn in class beating up people in class cursing out tomorrow all that that's not boys no that's a child who's not being raised right by irresponsible parent that's not boys but that's the excuse that's been given so that's why a lot of men come cheat on you as a woman and then don't expect consequences expect you to just deal with it expect you to just put up with it cuz that's what he'd been dealing with all his life and then next thing you know he been imposing his will imposing his will and didn't eventually he meet a system that he can't impose his way along that prison system or the police officer and that's when they bumped heads and now it's a sentence a death sentence in the street or it's a death sentence in the prison and that man was was not prepared for that because he'd been able to do what he want to do but the system get out cuz momma gonna let her my grandma gonna let her mind you know every teacher gonna bail or my boys gonna be boys so now let me help you a man who was married who willing to cheat with a woman that man is a trash bag the man is a trash bag so what I mean by that is he's so full of pain and hurt and loss and and just so full of the sins of his father the sins of his mother he's so full of the sins of the world he holding air by the trash he holding everybody trash he holding all of his trash the trash in his mind the trash in his spirit the trash in his body so guess what the woman who will don't end up being a garbage can he the trash bag she the garbage can it's a hot mess this was thinking filthy mess when you get into an affair that's just what it is - lost confused ignorant people who were not raised with the proper dignity and respect we're not taught about love and relationships and that's most of us that's most of us I want to talk about loving relationships not in a real way and how to be a man I wouldn't talk that and I was in a two-parent home it just something that a lot of parents try to avoid because you're thinking or if I talk to him about it it's gonna make him wanted and he's gonna be looking for a wife at 13 or at 15 or at 16 so let me just be let me just be quiet and let him focus on video games and sports or robotics or whatever he into puzzles and you know stuffed teddy bears at 16 whatever he into and let me and hopefully he won't worry about women until he 20 - nope nope he right out there I remember when I was 17 my mom was around her friends and it was we was that some kind of whatever function get together my mom I heard her telling her friends I know my son I have no sick but he is too shy my son is too shot you got shot quite he'll say I don't know he ain't got what it takes to climb on top of no one I was 17 years old my mom was saying and believing that I had been when stuff like the frame since 15 you hit me I had been out yeah mmm since I was 15 you hit me too I was two years in I was in there long neck shot one shot but no one that's what I was sitting there doing near my sister's turn up pregnant she got pregnant at 16 my sis got pregnant at 16 had her first child 16 years old all pregnant maybe pregnant 15 then I don't know what I think had a daughter when she was 16 years old and two-parent home dad it was a pastor but you know what the one talking about love and relationships because they dealing with their own relationship stressed out by then trying to figure that out and just thought that ain't gonna come this soon just thought that he ain't gonna be this kind of temptation no in the world we live in you need to talk about little a [ __ ] around the age of 10 by 9 10 and 9 years old I told my son everything about love relationship at nine years old he told me daddy daddy please my stomach hurt all right you let it hurt let her that wouldn't need to do hurt cuz you need to keep the thing in your pant cuz it 9000 eight I was already though we was already experimenting yeah so the world just advancing the world is advancing and so what's happening is need me that's cheating only why they want raves they want a raise they just grew the women that's what a merit man they wasn't raised they just grew and so it takes a lot of people don't understand that parenting is not letting a child find themselves and figure themselves out and letting a boy wear dresses no parenting is about imprinting you're teaching them what they need to do what they need to be how to behave you imprint because if you just leave a child to themselves they might go live in the woods and be barking you imprint even in animal kingdom is imprinting you learn that what about say train them up in a way that he should go train him up in the way that he should go and when he is old he won't depart from it that's why the Good Book says that but that's not what happened so this man listen did what I need you to understand I might have to go over this thirty minutes on the man this man he's not cheating because he's unhappy in his marriage he's cheating because he's a no-good man see a good man who whose wife has broken the Covenant will just get a divorce see he's cheating because he is a low character man it has nothing to do with his wife because there's nothing she can do that will make him cheat it's not her arguing it's not her bickering it's not that she won't sleep in him it's not that she don't know how to cook it's not that she doesn't know how to clean it's none of that it's he is a low character human being who is a liar a manipulator a deceiver a cheater and a thief that is the place that he's in in his life he cannot be trusted can he grow yes can he change yes you talking to somebody who changed yes he could grow yes he can change it's gonna take a concerted effort it's gonna take knowledge of the Lord it's gonna take some discipline it's gonna take someone and some designer and some know-how but yes he can change once a cheater always a cheater is not true once the cheater ology is not true it's a lot of people try to say that but we listen I would the absolute worse I'm 36 years old it didn't take me the 60 it didn't take me to 80 you know and I've been with my wife now for longer than 13 years the first two years there was my biggest toughest times you know I had to pick myself up wipe my cellphone I would want I had wandering eyes I will weaken my spirit and 25 years old 25 years old I made a decision and now this after having been all the way I've done nasty with a capital n you hit me and so understand once the cheetah always cheetah is not always true now it's true for a good amount of men because they don't desire change see me I want to change because I fear God you know I fear God because I believe humans were created by God only we came from the rocks crashing in the sky I believe we were created by a supernatural being and then guess what I believe that supernatural being inspired books like the Holy Bible and I believe the Holy Bible is a guide for life and I believe Jesus Christ lived walked the earth and was crucified rose again and I believe that Jesus Christ is a savior and I believe in the lifestyle of that the Holy Bible teaches and when we go from the old to the new and in the New Testament where these are laid out for how you should live I implemented those teachings in my life and it changed my life it changed my life it renewed my mind renewed my spirit I went from broke busted and disgusted to a blessed and highly favored I went from lost to found blind I can see deaf knocking here you hear what I'm telling you listen I believe 100% you can't convince me I don't care what you're talking about I don't care how educated you think you is I have proof of the evidence of God in my life and we could compare anything notes we could compare piece we could compare bank account we compare health we could compare wisdom week prepare anything you wanna compare and you're gonna see the evidence of God that's why I believe so yes the man can change but it won't be on his own so understand that understand that it's gonna take another level of motivation and inspiration for this man to change but when this man is cheating don't ever let a man tell you it's because my wife well you know she doesn't listen to me you know she never listens to what I'm going through and these other women they listen to me and they hear me your women ain't listen you know women ain't hearing you your wife ain't listen to you cuz he know you full of crap that's why she's not listening to you cuz look what you're doing cuz you full of it well you know she doesn't she won't give me any sex you know it's like she don't even want to sleep with me all the time and a man has needs he has a drive well yeah that's because she doing everything around the house by herself that's because she worked from fire to crime and that's because she only got no help with the kids nine out of ten times and that's because you're not making love to her mind all you want to do is go to work come home lay on your stomach eat a bowl of cereal watch TV so that's why I feel like you know her by cat in the night when that's not using massage your feet one last time you don't wash the dishes when the last time you don't cook for her when in that time you know got the kid ready for bed when in that time you didn't took care some of those things that she run around like a chicken with her head cut off trying to do that why she won't sleep with you mob well so it's still your fault okay and let's say she's a savage you know she just wasn't raised right she was she in the foster care system and you know she lost all her family and she just is a savage hearted person she cursed me out she beats on me y'all okay Lee okay leave because I see all of that and you go in the t99 she finna be homicide nah you can't even worst price so if she if she that crazy why would you cheat on that Taiwan you better leave me if you got to go on a witness protection program and hi the West Union got no address no phone number nothing you better off doing that then cheat so again that's another excuse that let me know that you're not scared of this woman because if you scared of her you wouldn't be cheating on her cuz you know that's your life that gonna cost you you're gonna be like up a sort of snapped so you're lying so listen to me if you're a teen man you're trash bag and but guess what the law can renew you can write your wrongs can wash you with the blood of the Lamb make you whole make you new you could change you can grow oh yeah I did it but guess what you ain't gonna do it on y'all not long turn you're gonna need you're gonna need some extra strength you're gonna need some purpose in life you mean you're gonna need some righteousness in your life for you to be faithful long term to listen I was telling one of my clients she like man every man I ever met in my life is a doll is a cheetah I say well I ain't never came on T you'll see me chief and she said what Tony that just for right now that's just how you know that's long time how you know you're gonna be faithful in 10 years and I had say hmm I know cuz I know you mean I know cuz I know it's a choice I know in order for you to cheat you got to choose people don't cheat by chance you cheat by choice you don't cheat my chance you cheat by choice understand that now let me flip this on old night sort of one I'm gonna tell you if the man is a trash bag you the trash can you hit me and y'all a mess together listen to me listen to him lips there's something ladies who didn't with a married man this didn't that man does not want you the man does not want you okay the man did not want you you are not his wife now I know somebody gonna come and say well my man cheated on me with a woman and not a merit together wick he is that is an exception to the rule but to be honest with you is still a healthy you didn't lose a man you lost a grown boy cuz a grown man gonna do things decently for one he's not even gonna cheat he's gonna break up with you before he cheated so basically you just transferred a cheater you didn't lose your man you just transferred a cheater and so as the other woman really the only way that man gonna leave his wife and be with you is because he could get more out of you let me help you understand when a man cheat on his wife and then leave his wife for that woman when he cheats on his wife when he's married and they together and they living together and he cheats on his wife with another woman and he leaves his wife for that other woman it's because the other woman is a bigger dummy than his wife he does not want to be a man he does not want to grow up he does not want to be held accountable and his wife is putting up a fit and a fuss about his infidelity and she is getting ready to leave so he beats her to it so he can say I love her because she's crazy but he made her crazy she was perfectly sane until he started playing games now she had to bring out Sasha Fierce so now her alter ego come out and now he says she crazy but don't take into account all of the stuff he did to make her crazy she getting ready to leave so instead he he leaves then the woman when she calmed down she come to her senses she then tells herself my husband cheated on me and left me for the woman he cheated on me with no your husband didn't leave you for that woman your husband left you because you too much of a woman for him and he left you for his trash can see the trash bag don't just want to be it no nice pristine house the trash bag want to be in a trash can so he left you for his trash can because this way he realizes she is dumber because she was crazy enough to be with him while he was married to another woman living with another woman her standards were low enough to court him to deal with him and to be with him while he was married and she was crazy enough to believe that he was unhappy in his marriage his wife ain't do nothing to him for him to cheat he cheating coz he wanted cheat he cheatin cuz he's a dog he teen cuz he's a liar and then guess what he's gonna do with the new woman he's gonna get her law her to sleep lü well it might be two L's on the law even a law heard asleep rock good-bye baby in the treetops even a law heard of sleep and a thief and a cheat on her and then this hot woman the other woman she may have a better job she may have better benefits now sometimes she may not have none of that sometimes she might be a complete downgrade on the financial side but what he could do with her he could do that to get away with it didn't take all his pain out on he could curse I he could introduce threesomes Folsom's he can introduce second wife third wife he see a deficiency he sees inadequacy or he sees a come up so it's the come up he emotionally or financially and when I say come up emotionally understand what I'm saying we talking about a grown boy so what come up for him emotionally is being able to pummel this woman emotionally to make himself feel better it's not a literal come up like she makes him a better man no she makes him a worse man by reinforcing the lack of a man that he already is the grown boy that he already is so he's not leaving his wife for a better woman because he knows it's impossible for a woman that's willing to date a married man to be better than a married woman who is being faithful to her cheating man listen what I just said he knows that it is impossible for a woman who was willing to date a married man to be better than a woman a married woman his wife who is faithful to him who is a cheater that's impossible so he's not leaving his wife for a better woman he's leaving his wife for a easier woman a more naive woman a more gullible woman a woman with less self-esteem or she has all of that low self-esteem lack of self-love like her self-worth but she got more access to capital her she make more money so now he can quit his job and open his auto garage he can quit his job and become a pro-gamer he can quit his job and start flipping real estate with her life savings and he don't know what he doing so he losing money on every deal but it's her money he losing and then eventually he may run her dry emotionally financed spiritually every kind of easily and then go try to go back to his wife and say I made a mistake please forgive me take me back that happens as well and it's because he wanted to come up because it's only one thing that turned a man on more then said it's only one thing to turn a man on more than it and that's money heavy so this woman here is but is and because she's gonna be open all kind of tools and threes and folding or it's what is you mean and then sometimes the other underlying reason is he will leave his wife to be with this woman to just have to show follow-through so that he doesn't look stupid to the community to his children he needs to sell it so he'll leave his wife to be with his other woman to sell it so that he doesn't look like a dummy and have to tuck his tail between his legs and say I made a mistake instead he leaved to say yes my wife wasn't for me it was a bad fit or she was crazy and this woman is my soulmate he will go all the way through with the infidelity to sell it to make it look real to make it look like he's an innocent human who made a mistake by marrying wrong and then while married bumped into his soulmate so he destroys the soul of his wife to go and consume the soul devoured the soul of his so-called soulmate he may even preach a sermon on fire keys that identify your soulmate because he leaving his wife for another illicit woman who is not his wife and after cheating on his wife he take and need to justify him leaving his wife for this other woman but he going to this other woman for a come-up she got more money bigger name more access more capital trajectory is different so it could be this woman over his wife was in the mud with him helping him get it out the mud help build him but he was never a good person never a good man and this woman over here she the mayor of the city she the heir to the throne over of a rich man she she's next in line to take over the megachurch she the CEO of such-and-such he wants to be in that light he want to be in that situation or she a stripper she her down so she escort and he just thing he friend to get the jet live for a daily brothel they even have all the women that she's gonna be bringing home all the women from the club he's gonna be jail living lavish you understand what I'm telling you as the other woman if you meet a married man that man is not your husband if you as the other woman if you meet a married man that man is not your husband even if y'all end up getting married you just married somebody else husband you just marry somebody else husband if he was married when you met him that's not your husband because one thing that God will not do is send you somebody else husband guarding in the you ate this garden in the you ate this your ate this don't howl about you a preacher you're a woman of the cloth you know God you don't know God if you met a married man and then you married that man you ate this cuz God don't deal in that kind of confusion guarding had no parts in that right down you hit me anyhow no parts in it you don't know God you spit in the face of God because you come and intervene in a covenant and instead of letting that man deal with his own fate his own repercussions from his illicit behavior ignorant decisions you come and you get in it you get in the mix and now you fend the crash and burn with him you're gonna crash and burn with them it might take fire you might take ten year might take fifteen year but you're gonna reap what your soul you're gonna read what your soul other woman I'm here to tell you you're gonna reap what you sow you me ain't no way to get it ain't no way to get away from it so I understand what I'm telling you if you were the other woman you will come up you'll do girl your crutch you're a band-aid there man he want to be rich in lust or rich in money and he see that he feel like he could get there with you but for the wrong reasons he don't love you don't care for you he want to use you point blank period point blank period I listen to if he married wrong if you married wrong he will get a divorce and then have nothing to do with another woman he will get a divorce he will be single then he will meet another woman but when he's married and he meets you and he entertains you then he gets a divorce you're not his wife and I see here's the other thing if you the other woman and you dealing with this man and he's not getting divorced it's been six months he's not divorced divorce papers are not filed [Music] you the trash can you're the trash can you are the do girl give me don't want you using you and why is he using you he's using you for variety it's like having two cars it's like having different pairs of underwear it's like having more than one watch more than one bottle of perfume more than one bottle of cologne he using you for variety he using you to mix it up because he's not cultivating the love in his marriage so he's bored and he's bored because he's not doing the work he's not cultivating love with his wife so he's bored so he's using you as his rollercoaster he's using you as his vacation he's using you as his casino he used in us his high and you using him as your high because you're getting an enlisted high from sleeping with him from dealing with him knowing that he is forbidden fruit just hi Eve want to bite off that forbidden fruit that you taking a bite out of this man because he's forbidden fruit and it's turning your own and you liking it and you enjoying it cuz its racy its sassy it is tempting its tantalizing it's all of this hill and that's what you feel and you're getting a release its secret it all you got on your long trench coat Thank You Carmen Sandiego and you just a witch in the night Oh Jezebel spirit and that just a Belle spirit then just consume you and it's in your life you ain't who your mama raised you ain't who your daddy raised you ain't who that foster-home raised that was a good foster home look out for you and yeah yeah you went through a lot of stuff yeah you went through a lot of pain but somebody loved you and if ain't nobody love you God loved you but you didn't throw it all of that you didn't do it all the way Lord kiss my behind know what you told Lord kitchen Lord my age I think me saying it oh I'm saying that what she said I know words have power loss oh please I know you all knowing so please know that what she said okay I'm speaking [ __ ] you didn't told the Lord to kiss yo behind why are you dealing with this merit man you to tell everybody who ever loved you and tried to do right by you to kiss your behind while you deal with this merit man listen both of y'all both of y'all is living in a state of gum on the bottom of a shoe both of y'all acting like gum on the bottom of the shoe both of y'all acting like some soil chicken broth at the bottom of the trash bag in the garbage can both of y'all acting like sewage oh yeah oh yeah oh yeah I know y'all want to be talked to oh I people being a comment Oh Tony that is so harsh of you to talk to them like that you know if you want someone in to change you need to talk to them with love that is not of God to talk to someone without love listen what is the hurt your feelings you read a Bible Jesus heard you say you tell them vipers you tell them foxes that I said this you hear me Satan get thee behind it Jesus looked a man in the eye and call him Satan save ya the same in you so that's what I'm that's what I'm telling you today Satan get thee behind me you need to get in right standing old cheating man old cheating woman y'all need to come from out of the miry clay ah we're rolling with the PX in the mess and get your life together unite them Affairs get out of them affairs that is filled that is nasty that is lowlife that is trashy and it's breaking down Society you the other woman you are being a curse you hear me and you you bringing about curses on your life you the man cheating or the woman cheating you - married person having an affair you are bringing about curses generational curses on your family you hear me people don't suffer because of you the sins of a father the sins of a mother you want your lineage to do well you need to be in right standing good don't happen to bad people you need to be in right standing you need to be doing things decent and in order you need to get in line do not expect anything prosperous to come to you when you go about it getting the wrong way lying cheating deceiving manipulating playing interference you know you know it's interference right so it's like in football when they throw a long pass if the defense grab the wide receiver hit him before he get an opportunity to catch the ball they throw the interference flag and offense get the move all the way up to where that ball was gonna be caught at even if the wide receiver the wide receiver probably would have dropped the ball probably could have dropped the ball but because the defense hit him before the ball got to him the offense getting to move all the way up the field closer to the touchdown you see what I'm saying there's a penalty for interference so if you the other woman or you know of a man let's invert it if you come this far and you to other man you are interfering and you will be penalized let me say penalize all nine two ways y'all gonna say that you will be penalized for interfering you gonna pay a price you're gonna pay a price you're going to pay a price don't don't don't think you gonna escape it either this man gonna be cheating on you or this woman cheating on you be known you either your children gonna be cursed because of you don't have generational curses because of you you might have to watch this other woman that he left her for you might have to see her take your job soar beyond you get a husband getting a husband that you really wanted you you gonna have you won't watch her shine she finish I'm you mean she finna come up she finish on she get her life together she finish I and you finna suffer you gonna pay a price you're gonna pay a price for interfering in somebody else covering it instead of staying out the way and if that man want to cheat let them cheat with somebody else that's dumb enough to cheat with them and let them pay the price but no you want to be the other woman now you finna pay the price give me understand it's not understand this listen it's not listen everybody make mistakes certain type of mistakes but a mistake is something that you learn from that's why it's called a mistake it's a mistake it's a mistake but you do it over you learn from it when you make a deliberate choice a conscious choice to continue doing something that is wrong cheating or being the other woman or the other man when you make a conscious choice to continue in that situation that's not a mistake that is a choice and with every choice there are consequences see there's not always a consequence for a mistake it's a mistake that's why we have grace but when you make a choice meaning that you understand what you are doing is not right there are consequences and there may be grave consequences for doing that so I'm here to warn you today I don't make mistakes I don't made all the mistakes but you know what I did what my mistakes I learned from it and I did not continue down that path I learned from it I got a brush myself off change my mindset change my choices and moved on with my life so I could step into my favour it is Tony guys got to get going got a coach in a little bit I want to be able to upload his video before McCall god bless you we'll talk song

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 56min 55sec (3415 seconds)

Published: Thu Jun 18 2020