When Have You RUINED Someones LIFE?

serious redditors who have completely ruined somebody's life intentionally or by accident whether they deserved it or not what happened and why did you do it I built homes in Huaraz and oaks occur for families that were living in scrap shacks these regions became even more inundated by cartel violence over the years some of these families were murdered by the cartels for their homes the road to heck is paved with good intentions I had a butt hole professor who would line us all up and grade us on our appearances paying special attention to all the ladies in the class when he made really or four derogatory comments on our appearances it was a journalism class and his excuse was that appearances are important one day he lined us all up and wouldn't tell us why he ordered us the way that he did but all the attractive female students were at the front of the line he walked down the row patting each of our heads and giving us a great like he was playing duck duck goose with grades a a a b b v c c c d D F F F F F F F F I was an F I suddenly realized that this crazy man had the potential to destroy my really hard earned perfect GPA based on really unfair criteria so I decided to do something about it I started recording him in class and I assembled your best hits of the most offensive sexist foul things he said I also fact checked his resume which he'd given to us on the first day of class and it turned out half of it was fabricated he had virtually no journalism experience at all although he had played a reporter on TV and several primetime TV shows I brought my tape and fact-checking data to the Dean they let him finish the semester but they intervened on grading and terminated his contract at the end of the semester he never worked as a professor again how the Frick did this butthole get a teaching job like what the actual Frick I confronted my mum when I suspected she was having an affair with an underage boy she denied it and my family hated me for causing drama and repeatedly accusing her eventually she confessed and went to prison my dad stood by her I saw him cry for the first time ever but she still treated him like crap he visited her every single visitation after being released she was on strict probation for years she wasn't able to return to her job my dad finally divorced her because she was still selfish and always blamed other people for what happened they had a lot of debt at the time and now she is impoverished but she never said sorry or took responsibility for what she did so I try not to feel too guilty after years of suffering through my brother's idiocy and downright illegal behavior I turned him in for taking out multiple credit cards in my name I was trying to buy a house and I had no idea why I had three credit cards instead of one even more importantly I didn't know why two of them were maxed out he broke into my parents safe they actually used my mom's freaking day as a combinations got all of my personal information and took out credit cards he did it to my parents too this was after he had stolen jewelry sentimental grandmother's jewelry right out of my dryer he threatened to stab my mom he's still one of my dad's work vans somehow he managed not to go to jail bill he's on probation with a long long record I sent an anonymous tip in to the police that this guy had a significant amount of drugs in a hidden compartments in his car and that he regularly sold them to underage teens I also tipped them off that he was driving this vehicle around without a valid license in case they needed a reason to pull him over these tips inevitably led to him being investigated arrested charged and sentenced to a significant number of years in prison both for the drugs and other things that were discovered about him why did I do it he was in a relationship with a family member of mine for several years and was emotionally abusive and controlling to her throughout no matter what he did to her she refused to leave him then she discovered he was cheating and confronted him at which point the abuse turned physical he became increasingly violent after that she didn't want to report any of it because she didn't want to start any drama with his family and she didn't want anyone to know what was going on embarrassed or ashamed I guessed after a particularly violent incident that put her in the hospital I thought that if I didn't do something then next time he would kill her but so I took the information I had that she had confided to me about previously I found a public computer and I used it to contact that police I made sure I included as many details as possible so they'd know it wasn't a joke not too long after that they showed up at his door with a warrant to search his car and things went on from there she never put it together that I was the one who alerted the police I will never tell her either a few years after he went away she met a genuinely great guy who treats her well and she's happier than I ever saw her I don't regret what I did at all this had such a satisfying ending good for you that you didn't get violent with him I don't know if I'd be able to come to a non-violent resolution with someone that repeatedly physically hurt a family member I sued a couple for everything they had and as we near the end of it they've told me I've ruined their family's lives a backstory they were my dad's estates executors mom already died and became my Guardians they told me I was adopted which wasn't true since it turns out I was a crown ward and I lived with them from when my dad died on the eighth birthday until they kicked me out around 16 strokes 17 turns out that when the estate funds exhausted themselves so I had help and had them served evidence points out they used the money on themselves and were really awful caretakers of both me and the estate I'm 24 now and a lot had happened most of it not good this should be settled at some point in December 2015 after five years of judicial process I don't feel bad that their lives are ruined but I don't feel vindictive if anything I find it sad how pathetic they became to steal from an orphan you didn't ruin their lives they ruined your life then they got caught in middle school my friend and I really got into catfishing but back then we didn't know it had no name we would make fake myspace profiles and get on chat rooms pretending to be other people they used be a cell phone company called all tell they had prepaid phones with unlimited texting as long as you had minutes and you could change your number just by calling and following automated instructions so we would always talk to all these people pretending to be someone else and when someone busted us or got too weird we just change our number sometimes we would even switch phones over the weekend and pretend to be each other's pretend identities I don't know why we were weird damn freaking kids well my friend ended up with us extra weird dude she told him she was 15 which was actually two years older than she really was he was a serious pervert and wanted her to do some really weird crap like send him naked pictures while she's laying in her parents bed pretty much everything he wanted her to do involved sneaking around her parents like he got off on knowing she could be caught by them at any time of course she never did any of that because he thought she was a petite blonde white girl but she was really Native American then he starts wanting her to sneak out and meet him it was more like he wanted to sneak in through her bedroom window and fritter while her parents slept in the next room like I said we were freaking dumbasses and decided to take the opportunity to do our own version of To Catch a Predator but we didn't actually want to meet the guy so we sent him next door to my mean but neighbor's house he once shot my dog with a BB gun for peeing in his driveway it was the reason behind our decision he drove from an area code on the other side of the state don't know exactly what town he lived in we turned out all the lights and ran around trying peek out of the curtains to see but we never really got a good look he started calling her phone back to back and we start hearing shouting then gunshots it did not come from a BB gun my parents woke up and we watched the guy get taken away in an ambulance and his truck was impounded my parents were really freaked out they thought our neighbor got robbed I don't know what that guy told my neighbor or the police he was doing there I never found out anything about it but I'm going to guess he didn't tell them he was there trying to freak a fifteen year old I'm not sure if it ruined his life but I'm sure it flicked it up quite a bit this all happened over a decade ago one thing I know for sure is I'm monitoring my children's online activities fold middle school theater teacher of mine had been sleeping around with students once he moved on to teaching high school he started making moves on my then-girlfriend so I sent a couple emails around that school district about him he's divorced and in prison thank you when I was 15 I had a teacher send me this long email professing how in love with me he was in detail with some graphic content I went to my favorite teacher the only adult I was close with who sent me to the guidance counselor who got police involved it turned into a whole undercover sting I think I'm using that word right the police through my email exchanged emails with him for months eventually there was a trial and he went to jail he had a wife and a daughter my age I still to this day feel awful that he couldn't take her to the ice-cream store or his daughter's graduation registered sex offender I think he mostly deserved it and I'm still glad it happened to me and not somebody who wouldn't have had the strength and supports to handle the situation but a part of me will always secretly feel a little guilty and wonder what if I had just ignored the email about a decade ago I lived next to a gay couple one day while getting ready for work I heard breaking glass and decided someone must have dropped something in the kitchen next door only the sound of glass breaking carried on over the next several minutes which was enough to alert even me that something fishy was going on I looked outside and discovered a teenage boy halfway and through their bathroom window I told him I'd already called the cops and he needed to leave he did and then I genuinely called the cops 20 minutes later a police car turned up and a couple of constables started looking around the property then another car turned up and another and then a van which seemed like overkill for investigating a failed burglary after an hour a cop came over to my place to take a statement and asked if I'd ever noticed the spiky plants in the garden behind my neighbor's house oops after work that day one of my flatmates told me the neighbors wanted to see me to say thanks for reporting the burglary and would I mind popping over I was a little concerned that maybe they just wanted to knife me for getting them in trouble with the law but I thought I'd better talk to them and see how it was going to be they actually did want to say thanks which made me feel a little worse about unintentionally nursing on them when I was 11 I took part in a judo tournament it was the fight for the first place and I threw him to the ground when he fell very wrong breaking his neck resulting in him being paralyzed I saw him a couple of times afterwards because he lived in my neighborhood he never smiled or even looked a bit happy after that incident there was always this deep sadness in his eyes 11 year old me through the prize for the first place into a nearby lake it still haunts me to this day during my third year of college I became extremely close like family close with a bunch of my neighbours guys and girls alike in my apartment complex we all hung out almost every night we would have dinner together all the time and take the bus downtown to the bars multiple nights a week one night of the bus we met a guy named AIESEC who was really quiet but friendly enough if engaged in conversation we invited him to come with us and had a blast drinking all night it was pretty obvious that Isaak didn't have many friends he was slightly awkward and new to town we started inviting him to hang out with us in had a good time with him for a few weeks until he brought a friend to a party we were throwing it was a party for a football game and there were probably 3040 people in attendance I didn't see what actually happened but Katie girl hosting the party kicked them out apparently Isaac and his friend were about to shoot H in the middle of the party and everyone got really bugged out over the next few days Isaac starts texting all of us to apologize for bringing H to the party but everyone was ignoring him I was the stoner of the group and smoked and hooked Isaac up a few times without the rest of the group I didn't know what to do I smoked and drank like any other college student but have lost more than a few friends to H and didn't want to be associated with it at all realized that everyone was ignoring him and started hitting me up like crazy I'm a pretty nice guy and I think he figured if anyone out of the group would hang out with him it would be me I felt torn but didn't respond a few days later I ran into Isaac downtown between classes and he tried to make plans to hang out with me but at the time I didn't have the heart to tell him I wasn't interested in being his friend anymore so I just told him to hit me up sometime he did and again I ignored him fast-forward two days Idzik is dead we never heard what the official cause of death was but one of our group's girlfriends cousins boyfriend or something or other was an emergency responder and said something about a suicide involving H and ice-cold bath water whatever happened either killed himself he really wasn't a bad guy and his suicide has deeply troubled me over the past seven years I have always wondered if I had just reached out to him and tried to help him with his addiction or just be his friend maybe he'd be alive I was the security manager at a club we took up 'old drinks at 2:00 a.m. but were in no hurry to kick people out so we just let the music play as the crowd went bald usually closing at 2:45 3:00 we wouldn't let any new people in though so I'm at the door it's 2:30 or so and two guys want in keep telling them no they go from annoying little brats that just not used to mommy telling them no to go we are in the army dog will flick you up if you don't let us in keep telling them no one of the bouncers walks up to me from inside and asks if he should start emptying trash cans I turn to him to tell him yes then turned back towards the guys to see a fist about two inches from my face I nice sucker punch and then they bail that other bouncer and I chase them for probably three strokes for over mile we're now away from the bar district in a somewhat residential area they hop a metal fence into someone's backyard and hide under the person's car we try to go them into coming out infighting but they just sit there so we call the cops as soon as the cop car arrives they try to run huge mistake cop ends up semi running over one as he chases him down in his car then cuffs him the second one actually couldn't get back over that metal fence at first so cop runs back and yells at him to get over the fence all with gun drawn and pointed cuffs the second one probably like two months later I finally get a call for the court date show up the DOE asks if I want to just drop the charges since they're just kids I was also a kid at the time only like 20 I say no I would like to press whatever charges possible turns out they weren't in the army but were in the process of applying and doing the tests and all that one of them cried to the judge asking for mercy saying that if anything went on his record they wouldn't let him in the army the other bouncer that saw it was there I was there and the cop was there for the resisting arrest type charges judge told them with three witnesses their odds were quite low so they could either accept charges with probation or go to trial with a jury they accepted the charges I assume that means they couldn't join the army but don't know for sure I don't think I want people like that issued any m16s he deserved it okay so I'm kinda a pod person and play a long game my ex never bothered to pay attention and thought he was always smarter than me I was finishing school and became deeply depressed and thought that finishing school would make my depression go away I was right but he didn't see that but before he broke up with me he helped me move he used the occasion to steal all paperwork for my dog after we broke up he decided that my dog was actually hasn't made my life heck because I wouldn't just give him my dog he called the cops all the time saying I had robbed his place that I stole his dog that I did all these terrible things the police or someone posing as them never figured that out would call my boss at my new job he told everyone we knew that I was some nut job threatening him he sued me for my dog and Superior Court well I assume so because he never specified that he wanted the dog back in the complaint I answered in a way only an attorney could figure out how to resolve so he never prosecuted the suit further but he then broke into my apartment while I was at work and still my dog it was awful he had secretly made a copy of my keys when he had helped me move and I don't know if he had been in my place before that incident I wasn't able to get a restraining order and it took the police nine months to assign a detective I told the cops not to bother because he had given away my dog to his relative on the other side of the country by that point so through all this I kept my hands and thoughts to myself I gathered up all paperwork I could get I filed notices to the course in his suit against me with updates about the dognapping then I waited I know that in the long run everything evens out and I would have my day about 18 months after he's stolen my dog I got a call from the security clearance people in the army are sir hurt enlisted to a position requiring clearance it was a job he had been wanting well I said I'd be happy to tell the agency everything I knew I gathered up my file made notes book the nice conference room at my nice office made a copy of the paperwork for the investigator etc it was a nearly four-hour interview I gave them everything how he stole my dog who his a Daryl dealer was how he hated different religious groups you name it he didn't get his clearance never went to the Army's language school and got stuck at a podunk base in West Texas for five years he's now fat bald single unemployed and sleeping on his kid brother's couch life equals fricked over when I was around six a friend and I were playing around on my street he was riding a bike and I had a hockey stick that I was shooting rocks with I had the brilliant idea that I wanted to jam the hockey stick right into my friends spokes because that would be hilarious right anyways he fell he hit his head it took him about ten years to get rid of a stutter he developed that day yes I felt and still feel absolutely horrible thank God he has a sense of humor my younger cousin did that exact same thing only it was a game both boys were playing a cousin got his face smashed in had a huge fat lip for weeks but I guess it cut his upper lip tie which they were going to cut in or how foot braces and it ended up saving his parents money on the surgery in college one of my closest friends was this crazy dude that we all call see suffer more year it was me two other dudes and see hanging out everyday eventually me and the two other dudes joined the same fraternity see wasn't given a bit because his grades didn't make the minimum requirement so slowly over time we hung out with see less and less because he started to resent our fraternity for denying him a bit see started hanging out with the wrong crowd that was into oxys and xanax and over time slowly became a junkie we tried hanging out with him but his behavior started to become more erratic with him stealing from people and randomly picking fights with people during parties we had this one huge fight where we banned him from the house a couple months later we lift the ban because we wanted to bury the hatchet see came over that night and stayed at the party till everyone was basically passed out someone caught him stealing wallets out of passed out people's pockets and he also had one of our brothers cell phones in his pocket he got his butt kicked by one of our brothers and physically thrown out of the house the next day I realized I was missing money and some medication from my room I was so angry I looked up his dad's phone number and told him that his son was a junkie that steals from people to support his habit the last I've heard of see was that his parents withdrew him from college and put him in and patient rehab you didn't ruin his life but you just might have saved it being in college wasn't going to do any good for him with a raging habit that was just getting worse I thought this dude at work stole $40 from me so I told the manager it ended up he didn't take it it was just my mom who borrowed before I left for work that day and didn't mention it to me I apologized to the guy but we work in a grocery store with lots of security cameras and management kept a close eye on him for that short period of time they realized he had been taking boxes of food home thinners the guy is in his early 30s has four kids a wife who is out of work and the job plus the food he was stealing from the store which was all he had to support his family was gone now he actually got arrested at work and now has a criminal record on top of that he had about ten years seniority at store and was probably hoping to use that to move up a little bit all gone within a couple days I fired a guy that graduated from tech school he was playing Counter Strike and bragged about his clan I looked up his stats and found he was playing games his entire shift he was in so much debt his wife left him and he eventually drank himself to death so I don't exactly know how this is going to shake out because it literally just happened but who goes it's a few months ago I matched the guy on tinder we exchanged hazed but that was it and I really didn't care so tinder has this feature where you can post a picture for 24 hours kind of like a snapchat story and people can like it in his profile it stated he was in medical school and an EMT and a few weeks ago he started sharing pictures from his job it started innocuously just picks off the inside of the ambulance but had quickly escalated to pictures of blood spills and then two pictures of missing limbs gashes a newborn baby that had been delivered in the field even a dead body besides the fact that most of the pictures were disgusting they were also an enormous violation of patient privacy you see my mom had cancer for eight years before she passed away I witnessed firsthand how vulnerable she was to the medical professionals that treated her they literally saw her at her worst but luckily the people treating my mother treated her with humanity respect and empathy when my mom found out she had six months left she decided to donate her body to a medical school when she died because she said she'd rather her body go towards teaching a future doctor about Anatomy so that they might be able to cure others with her disease than go to waste and the ground I really struggled with this decision and was sick to my stomach thinking about some doubt she medical student objectifying and exploiting my mom I eventually made my peace with it to the point I've decided I'm going to do it when I die as well so essentially this dude tapped into a really upsetting memory and fear for me not only that but he was violating HIPAA in a big way some of this pictures absolutely had identifying markers in them tattoos et Cie in his pictures he was wearing a lot that clearly stated his school so over time I took screenshots of all these pics when I had a pretty good representation I sent an email to one of the deans of his school I will never know how it turned out because at one point he posted a super identifiable picture and I messaged him saying he was violating HIPAA and he unmatched me I'm also an attorney which my profile states so I think that probably made him panic I don't regret what I did because someone with that little regard for human life or privacy has no business being in the medical field I get to be a doctor you have to be somewhat emotionally distant from your patients good to lack so much empathy that you are willing to use a picture of someone's dead body to get laid to freaking far I will say I'm super curious if it was actually working for him my uncle who had retired from the Army was offered a new job in Saudi Arabia as a government contractor he wasn't sure about taking this job long distance possible danger etc my aunt wasn't sure about him taking this job either he and my aunt were moving back to our home state to be closer to family and she already had a job back here and was living here and he had been looking for one for almost a year when he was offered this job he liked the fact that he would be able to spend more time at home since the company was based in the town where they were originally from and that my aunt had already moved back to in my opinion he was still on the fence about it when he came to visit me and him had always been close and when it was just me and him in his car he showed me the contract they offered him he asked me should he take the job and I told him that he should and I'll never forget what he said next do you think it will be safe I told him that Saudi Arabia is really similar to Western countries and that he'll be fine he ended up taking the job and was over there for a little over a month when he was killed in a terrorist attack I wish I hadn't been a know-it-all and told him something I clearly had no idea about this happened almost a year ago and I haven't given anybody any advice on anything since I had a co-worker committed into a mental institution he was behaving erratically for weeks eventually we learned he had caught his best friend in bed with his young daughter they had then run off together he had lost his wife years ago and this last event induced some kind of nervous breakdown which induced psychosis hallucinations and diuretic detachment from reality or whatever the Frick it was we had footage of his strange behavior but that wasn't enough they needed somebody close to him to sign off on the validity of his antics that was me because everybody else chickened out in prior to this I had spent the most time working beside him at one point he had begun to go into fits of anger after a fly landed on his arm and demanded to enter his body which it allegedly did though his mouth it was then living in his chest demanding to know why his daughter had run off with a man 20 years her senior taunting him for a reaction every day he would go into a long monologue with the fly in his chest and break things when it peed him off that's just the fun quaint little harmless thing he started doing won't mentioned the rest naturally that crap insane would be an understatement still locked up I had an uncle who was abusing prescription medicine and other things he would spend all his money on CDs of dark depressing bands I was riding with him when he picks them up the CDs and contraband he said he liked me because I didn't squeal on him and kept to myself I've screwed up other people's lives with this tray anyway he ended up overdosing and dying due to mixing pain meds with alcohol I hate myself for it I'll never forgive myself and I swear to never let that happen again sometimes you have to squeal if only we would have gotten help for him I was a dumb HS kid back then you didn't know don't blame yourself from not knowing how to handle something besides people have to want to change themselves too if you are new to the channel you can subscribe I publish new videos every day until then check another video bye for now

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Length: 28min 55sec (1735 seconds)

Published: Thu Jun 18 2020