What am I to him? | Talks with Tony (3 emails)

hey hey tony guys here popping in for another episode of talks with tony now we're moving right along i did get to read the second sentence of this on accident and so i figured it may fit for the talks with tony series hi tony i wonder if you can do a video about this or help me here i have written with a guy for one year the first day he wrote with me for eight hours back and forth and we realized we had a lot of interest in common and he and he already then mentioned he really wants to marry me and meet me as soon as possible he said he was christian and virgin because he waited until marriage that made me take him serious but yet he would ask me if we could lay on our first date sometimes he told me he waits until marriage and other times y'all [Music] on the first date hold on now and and this this okay this might not some of this i don't know if this is an english person or english day second language but it just kind of throw them off a little bit now y'all forgive me i forgive them i don't edit these videos so if i was an editor i cut that little part out but y'all forgiven no no the man said he said he was christian and virgin because he waited until marriage so that's what made me think this might not be an english speaker on the first language because she said he waited until marriage but he's not married yet you know so he's waiting until marriage is what it probably meant to say if she wrote what she meant then it could you know so y'all i'mma read this the way it is and we'll you know make it make sense that made me take him serious but yet he would ask me if we could lay and she spelled l-a-y so that's a if we could lay on our first date sometimes he told me he waits until marriage and other times that it doesn't matter then one day i didn't respond him for five days so that he also didn't respond me ten days okay okay yeah english her second language okay okay y'all forgive me on this now i went angry on him because he was online but then he blocked me he had me blocked for two months and had a status two months later ignore me all you want but remember who made you come okay and those did not when it's a huh it's talking about it ain't talking about come to you c.o.m it's not mine i think it must have been there i think it must have then been about another girl when he writes nasty things online to others he always says he is just joking he unblocked me after two months and didn't want to meet me then when i could he said let's meet within a half year i'm nervous to meet you and not ready and we didn't meet after a half year two he said he isn't ready and really needs the time sometimes he used to tell me if you don't send picture of your body i don't want to marry you because i won't know how your body looks like and yet he used to come back after a month he is 20 i'm 24 and had never meet him he always used to call me wife and says he can wait until marriage if i want but he still had never met me and i caught him lying several times and ignored me for days or weeks many times he said to a fake account that he wasn't he said to a fake account that he wasn't virgin and there that he wasn't virgin there and made with seven and then told me several weeks later that he just lied to that account i made i don't know if he's lying he says sometimes he is not sure of me because i am not white i'm middle eastern and then said i still want you as a wife but i don't know if i can treat you good last time he didn't respond me for days so i told him it's over and he didn't respond to that i can't get him out of my head and don't know if i ever should have given if i ever should give him a chance again thank you sincerely all right okay so we're gonna be going on to the next question on this one here today okay okay okay i see i would like not a name that the email from is a different than the name the email say at the bottom but i see the name at the bottom is just the short the short name for the name at the top so now listen now listen listen all right now like we said there's no bad question okay we said it's no bad question and the reason why i said that is because everybody going through something and everybody's situation is important but and not everybody can see clearly what a person means so what you got to understand here on this right here is this for everybody i'm going to take this and not necessarily speaking to her but this for everybody i want to remind y'all again about this online dating when you meet a man online and y'all talking and see y'all talk for eight hours now i don't know what kind of world time y'all got y'all writing each other back and forth online for eight hours they say he wrote me so on unless y'all maybe or not y'all could have been on the text but the media sounded like y'all was online somewhere and then when you going online and you reading statuses so it sounds like y'all in what's out y'all in whatsapp and then now you got this man who tell you he a christian and he a virginia but then he asking you for nasty pictures so and you sitting here wondering why and what you doing it's just a listen so it's a lesson i know you're over there in middle east but listen if it ain't nobody over there in the middle of east that and told you that if what a man saying out his mouth does not match his actions then he is a liar now i know this sounds plain and dry and it's just clear-cut for us that's reading this letter but it's a lot of y'all that's in the same kind of situation where what is coming out of man-mouth does not match his actions and you ignoring his actions and just listening to his promises and what he's saying out his mouth so one side he's saying he a man of god and on the other side you getting cheated on you getting lied to you getting talked down to you getting asked to come out and draw so where is he a man of god at on a lot of y'all the man is saying to you i love you i love you but you keep crying because he keep lying and you feel like you dying but instead of dying now you sign you see what i'm saying and now we gotta run so you have to understand what this man is doing across the board not just this young lady here because this one thing i keep saying over and over is that so many women you holding on to what a man is telling you but not paying attention to what he is showing you and so you have to be able to look at what he's showing you and say okay is this how i want to be treated and this how i want to feel now for useless you 24 you're dealing with a 20 year old so essentially you only know if he 20. have you seen a license that got his birthday this sound like you really in there talking to a 15 year old who telling you he 20 and he playing a whole bunch of y'all in there and what's up or whatever this is that y'all end up chatting in over there and then the man told you he'll know if he could marry you because you him because you ain't white so he must be white and you middle eastern so it's like come on susan come on now y'all got to start trolling me y'all in here trolling midnight now this is a real email this is a real email this is a real email here y'all trolling me with this yeah like come on all right y'all we got two we we're doing two and one today i can't leave y'all like that i can't leave y'all like that now my nine this one here look like how to answer this one [Music] you gotta answer this one so this is the hill she sent us three photons right and let me see about this one now this one guy now this one here long so this will be the whole video so what what the lady wasted 10 minutes all right it's just a god bless you so much god bless you the last one going about your business going back again next letter greetings mr gaskins this one here is very puzzling sign i'll try to explain i keep attracting confused men meaning they are either known gay men or very flamboyant men that come out later as gay here's some background i am an independent federal contractor so i travel state to state working with multiple federally contracted companies and agencies i am also a writer slash inventor and want to create movie slash tv series hopefully soon i am five 9 and i am a member of the blessed tribe listed as such and such on youtube so now this is wanting y'all to know her name because she put her name in here and she in the blessed tribe but it's like since i ain't gonna put the business out there like that nah i almost read your name on accident like i did on that one level but this one here would have told people exactly who he is now she not one of the moderators for those of all wondering she is not one of the moderators but i just don't want to put this name out there because sometimes people think they want people to know who they are but then when i answer that question they'd be like i wish ain't nobody know while working a county government contract i was training and releasing inmates from the basement of the local jail [Music] transportation from other jails federal officers and courts come through and i would open the automatic bars to let them in and out there was an officer tall and handsome from the state prison up the street that would transport inmates daily at first he would hardly talk their transportation team lost the supervisor black lady she would speak and was friendly then it was just him and the other guy left he started getting very friendly and would go out of his way to speak to me especially if i was busy with a lot of inmates males with a lot of inmates around or if i was training ladies but my gaydar kept going off and i something would not allow me to show him equal interest to move things along holy spirit question mark i mean the more i side-eyed him the more he pursued me and even asked about me when i wasn't there he would stare at me from across the room and make funny eyes at me while i was presenting new information to the transportation whole team i just didn't like how he would act around a room full of men or how this one inmate got so excited to see him specifically just odd behavior my friends and or slash ladies i was training would amp me up and encourage me to take steps towards him since he would go out of his way to speak to me this ending of course because i moved on to a contract with the local supreme court i finally told my friend that if he asked about me again for her to ask him if he wanted my number as i felt bad for writing him off and without getting to know him i said to myself if he was genuinely interested he would take my number and call me a week later the same friend she called me screaming saying she can't believe what just happened she said your man came by the night and asked where you were when she told him that i went to supreme court and asked if he wanted my number this was his response no she cute and all but i'm gay what the heck was it all was all that for then i could see if i was a masculine female but i'm miss priest of the group and practically the southern belle as well now when i do this they doing quotation marks i'm just doing what they doing okay don't don't be putting that on me now because i ain't that lame i was doing it other than reading something to my wife and because of reading he talked with tone i'd be doing this i kept doing it she said do you have to keep doing the hand thing i'm like listen i if quotation marks on them and i just realized i ain't got my ring on now so if you new to this video i am married i am married to me i'm a song playing basketball today and my ring is kind of thick it's a oh cartier love rain so with that being thick i'll take it off and then i came home and i showered and i also take it off when i shower because it's just a thick nice ring and i don't want soap and all that all that in there did not lotion after i got out my hand ashes so y'all forgive me so if you knew i am married now and i'm not one of the men that walk around without the ring on either i would get up and go get my rain but i did that to y'all yesterday and i don't want to be rude again how you saying hey wait i need to put my old ring in this hip flop so when i forget my ring i just put it on i don't like i don't like talking about relationship without my ring on give me this to me now now what's he saying um i just don't get why or what i could do for a man that likes men sadly there's more when i told my sister about the confused but fine transportation officer i did not like her response she laughed and stated girl whatever you doing you doing it well to have these gay people after you when i asked her what she meant i didn't think it was funny she told me that this very flamboyant and openly ate guy from high school had a huge crush on me like he were he wore lip gloss and threatened the girls he was beefing with that he would perform favors to their fathers she told me that i broke his heart and he was crying and told her he missed me when i moved away mid sophomore year i have i have had to have serious conversations with a female of two in college or two in college that i'm only interested in men i'm usually like no thanks but your hair is cute though sis to make light of this awkward situation and then problem solved because this is happening to me this seems a little too often for one person at first i thought something was wrong with me but now i think there's a problem with the people and their confusion within themselves but i don't know honestly flamboyant tendencies in men are an extreme turn off for me and i notice right away like a neon sign over their heads i've asked god to forgive me for being on oh it is is there something that i can do to discourage their approach i understand women not knowing which team i play on as a woman but why do you think confused men would want a woman instead of pursuing what they are attracted to men as a single woman with a career dreams and no kids i do date but i have not planted permanent roots anywhere yet also i feel that when i pursue my dreams fully and accomplish my three b's i'll run into my husband if you knew the three b's is brain brand and body please help me mr gaskins i'm stomped on this one uh now i wish i could pull you up on old youtube and see you on here on the black tribe to see if your pictures say something to me but um i will tell you now see i answer questions about men that are grown boys and dogs because i was a grown boy and a dog me myself personally i'm not gonna be able to tell you why these type of men that you attracting want you now i'm on here trying to see if i can get to the blessed tribe on here y'all forgive him um membership sometimes it'll show me uh who on here your members let me see [Music] see what your name was on here so i really ain't gonna be able to help you on this one here sister i i hate to say that there but i honestly i am like you say you stomped on this one this got me stooped or stomped or whatever the right word is because i have not a clue now you said you five nine that is tall for a woman now you did not say a weight or shape or you know anything like body type one thing that i've noticed with those men is a lot of times they'll pick a woman who they feel like you know they re they read some in that woman you know and they feel like the woman looked like she could be naive gullible or she could be outside of the beauty constructs of that society that culture so a lot of times you know if this type of woman who is built like this and shaped like this is in style i noticed that men who like men would choose a woman who built the opposite of that and because he assumed she may be desperate or he assumed that she may not pick up on that he like me and so and a lot of times that so typically they will pick somebody who is the complete opposite of what they think men in that area are pursuing now you move around a lot and you single you did not say you've ever been in a relationship or that you've been married and you divorced or that you but what i hear is just you [Music] over and over and over people who like they same gender keep coming after you so you know you seeing that as something could be wrong with them or something could be wrong with you and i'm here to tell you that you know all i've ever seen is that these men as far as the men are concerned they picking a woman that in that area in that community in that culture right then her look is not in style i don't know if that's the case because you didn't post no picture and i can't i can't you know i don't know how to find they don't let me search the blessed tribe members by name so i don't know if that's the case um god bless you regardless of what it is god bless you may the lord be with you and um give you the strength and the poise to keep going but i see it like this whether the woman like women or whether the man like me and anybody approaching you is saying something about your energy and your aura the fact that anybody want to approach your peers now i would assume it's some men in there who like women that have approached you too and you're just leaving them out because the other guys may outnumber it but um you honest it would take one of those kind of men to be able to explain that to you fully you know because i honestly that right there got me just bewildered so now we have wasted we going through these together we going because i ain't have no else for that one if you don't know what to tell you so hold [Music] now on me see if this one is a question [Music] no that's not a question that's what i'm saying thank you hey god bless you now god bless you so she started her business all right we moving right along now listen nice on the stuff ain't got no else on like the first young lady who 24 messing with that 20 year old who probably 15 sounds like he's 15 lying to about his virginity and all that if y'all have an answer put in the comments maybe they'll read the comments for the next young lady who keep attracting certain type of people if you have experience with that or you know that's how your brother is or how your sister is and you understand that put in the comments that might help them because i can't i don't claim to know it all i know what i know but i can't really speak on stuff i don't have no clue about it so here we go now this one is a little shorter hi tony please keep me anonymous please keep me anonymous all right her name is like this these all anonymous these anonymous email thank you so much for your videos may god bless you and your family i am 25 years old and for as long as i can remember have always been a no-nonsense strong woman when it comes to men i don't tolerate mistreatment and i do not hesitate to let any man go however i am at the stage where i am ready to meet my husband i feel as though i am at a great place in my life i have a great job i volunteer at three different organizations i'm working toward making my dreams come true and i'm really embracing my singleness and love taking myself out and spoiling myself i have a lot of self-love and know i deserve the best although it gets lonely at times i refuse to settle for any less than i deserve when i am out and about men approach me however i do not give my contact details out as either i'm not attracted to them or something inside me tells me not to entertain them am i being too harsh and not entertaining the ones who approach me as i am patiently waiting for the man who makes me want him to or am i doing the right thing by not refusing to settle thank you all the best um decent question real real simple though you're doing the right thing you're doing the right thing don't ever give your contact information to a man that you just don't get that feeling about a woman's intuition is extremely strong and so when the right man approach you you're going to feel it because if that is your husband and god has set that in motion and they're supposed to be your husband you're going to feel that this is your husband and he's going to show you that he is your husband that you are his wife it's going to feel that and it's going to be there so you're going to be able to you know work through that don't settle don't get desperate and see you 25 so you strong right now all right 35 45 they might look a little different and you might go to settling so keep that same energy now so we gonna move on so we gotta know because see normally i could go up to an hour today i got up to an hour today so this one right here maybe this may be the one this may be the one look a little long this may be the one where it take a little bit more time for me to answer good morning tony my name is wow i read that name now come on now it wasn't the matter though because it's like you only know her name you don't know who she is where she from and she put her name in that night so we'll see her name because it ain't too uh definitive she said her name is kiara and i am 20 and i am from australia now do anybody know who she is all right no okay she's still anonymous i wanted to see if you had any insight with the situation i've been going through with this guy he's 23 that i was seeing but not anymore but he's still reaching out and i might have never said a name wrong so it might not even be that person so if you know somebody with that first name and you live in australia that ain't who it is so i met this guy early on during the year and he kept pursuing me like constantly replying to my instagram stories and constantly wanting to hang out with me all the time at that time i was fully focused on my nursing studies and completing that and i didn't really want to have a relationship because i knew i just wanted to focus on my goals and me for a little bit before getting into a relationship because my past relationships haven't been the best when he was messaging me and texting me he was still seeing his former girlfriend but it was very on and off between them both and he claimed that it was toxic he had cheated five times in his previous relationships but only told me that later on when i first met him he told me twice i was only really responding back innocently like i knew he had a girlfriend and it was on and off i really only wanted to be his friend and just to be there to support him as it seemed that he was going through a hard time we had first met face to face when i was walking with my friend and then not shortly after that we hang out and did a workout at his house nothing happened it was just purely a workout but i'll admit when i did meet him and we hang out for the first time i felt something there like we just connected he did too as well when he first saw me when i just smiled and said hi and he was taken away and felt like he had to know me i only really gave in to him and slept with him three months into him chatting me up and wanting to hang out i had a pregnancy scare shortly after that and he was still seeing his previous girlfriend but we had sorted that out and then i didn't really hear from him in a couple of weeks and then he reacted to one of my stories on instagram and contact started again not long after that he broke up with his girlfriend he was pretty broken up after that then i started to be there for him and hang out with him more frequently even though he had voice to me i'm not ready for a relationship and at the start of us hanging out and getting to know each other i did say that i was okay because i didn't feel anything for him at the time so i thought it wouldn't be an issue but then we really got to know each other and started to share personal experiences with each other a couple months into then we started to do relationship things together without even being in a relationship like i was constantly staying at his house he met my family and went and went to the beach together and i was cooking him dinner and cleaning for him showering together he told me he loved me throughout this whole throughout this whole month that we were seeing each other we would spend time together and then he would be like we need to stop doing what we are doing i'm not ready for a relationship and then he would still reach out to me and then we'd go back to hanging out and acting like we were in a relationship he did voice that he was scared though like he said he never felt this kind of love before he was still he was still seeing pursuing and talking to other girls and i did continue to say it's okay and i do admit i should have voiced my opinion and told him in that time we were seeing each other it was constantly back and forth between us more on his end than mine i would just accept that he didn't want to continue it and then i would get on with my life he kept coming back to me anyway we eventually ended it with an argument it was messy i had gotten rid of him off my socials and blocked him for a period just to move on and get over then i unblocked because i thought it was over i thought i was over it and i wanted to be mature about the situation i did also block his number for a period of time but then i ended up unblocking reason being is i think unmature to block someone just because they don't agree or see things in a different light to you anyway he is a he is in a new relationship with another girl but i guess the question is why did he want to be in a relationship with her but not me and then why is he still checking in on me this three months we've been apart like there is not a month where he hasn't tried to re-follow me on instagram or text me to see if i'm okay or hi how i am going and every time he does he always leaves the message like i will talk to you later and his recent one was i will talk to you later bye for now that's always how he ends our conversation like it has really been a mind mess up because i don't understand he is in a new relationship but still reaching out i had recently like a month ago told him to stop checking in on me anymore because there's no reason for that and our voice we can never go back to what we had as it was toxic then a month later he re-follows me on instagram again he's done this multiple times throughout us not seeing each other i think he still has this idea that i'm going to want to talk to him later and then i'm going to accept him back every time he does call he always asks if i'm seeing anyone or slept with anyone or if i'm talking to any of his mates and if i'm seeing anyone he does get protective over me if he knows the guy i just don't understand why he would want to keep me in his life if he is happily in another relationship doesn't make any sense to me at all if you have any thoughts and advice to help me to let go that would be greatly appreciated thanks well i'm guessing by now you watch my videos you already know the answer to this you already know the answer to this now see here's the first thing what i want y'all to remember man hold on to this quote if somebody is running in and out of your life that means you are standing still if someone keeps running in and out of your life that means you are standing still that's what i want you to remember first the second thing i want you to remember is the second thing i want you to remember is if you don't want to be in a relationship and i said it's in two other videos do not talk to a man talking about friends date intentionally never talk to a man if you are not 100 ready for a boyfriend that's the next lesson number three what i want you to understand that blocking someone is not immature that is very mature and is very needed when you done with somebody you need to block them on all social media and their phone number the real reason why you unblocking him is because you want to leave the door open that's why you unblock him on social media that's why you unblock him on your phone the next lesson is you have to stop lying to yourself you want him you want him to come back to you you want him in your life and that's why you unblocking him on social media and on your phone and that's why when he does call you you answer the phone not only do you answer the phone when he asks you about your business you tell him about your business you should never tell a man that is not your man about your business because you don't have to answer to that man and he does not need to know what you're doing but that makes you feel good to be able to tell him that yes you talking to billy joe ball and then he know billy joe bob so now he get upset and say whoa partner what are you doing out here in the down under in aussie so now you out here dating my my mate you you dating my mate and i know me mate down here down under so that make you feel good when he gets protector because now it means oh he still likes me he still care for me [Music] now see this right here it's the part that's gonna hurt [Music] this part gonna hurt him sister this man do not like you this man do not like you at all do you hear me what you is to this man is yours you are a band-aid you're a band-aid you know what a band-aid is for it's for an open wound is for a cut that's why when we don't have a cut we don't wear a band-aid because a band-aid is not cute a band-aid is not cute and it's not fashionable so we don't wear a band-aid only person wearing band-aid was nellie the rapper nobody else wear a band-aid for fun and the reason why nelly had that band-aid on is because he had acne and so he had a bump on his eye and he need to shoot that video so he put that band-aid on and that's also why he had the headbands on covering up the bumps on his forehead the reason why i know that because i used to have acne and i used to wear a headband for the same reason so gain recognized gain and then i saw the black spots on nelly face back then when he was young so i said okay he's struggling with acne that's what that band-aid was coming up a big bump and the headbands are coming up the buns on his forehead nelly the secret out he got enough money got a skin fix not skin clear same thing happened to me i went dermatology got my skin fixed now my skin clear for the most part so now listen this man right here nah that had nothing to do with this y'all y'all gotta forgive me that's just how i process stuff in my brain but this man here is using you as a rebound and as a band-aid that's all he wants you for he can never make a relationship work because he always reaching out to his women in his black book you're not the only other band-aid he reach out to that's why you don't hear from him every day you hear from him once a month you hear from him every so often because he got other women he reaching out to because the relationship that he gets in he only gives it 50 percent because he give her 50 percent then he give another woman 10 another woman 10 another 1 to 10 another one with 10 another one with 10. so he's juggling six women he juggling six women one of them get fifty percent five of y'all get ten percent so what happens is the woman that's only getting fifty percent she realized she gained gave 50 she also finds some of the messages eventually and that's why he keep going through these breakups when he go through the breakup he come to the woman which is you that he does not think is attractive that he does not think his wife material but you like a teddy bear you like a teddy bear and now [Music] when i say a teddy bear i'm not talking literal now if you now if you sit over there and you say well oh well i am kind of you know built like a teddy bear then that's what you said i'm not talking about a literal like you look like a teddy bear i'm saying you his consolation prize you his comfort he go to you to lay up with you y'all you and then it's the thing you cooking for y'all taking shower together y'all doing all this here and he acting y'all acting like you're in a relationship but he's not even giving you a title and then he tell you we got to stop doing that because i'm not ready for a relationship that sounds just like a man who do not want you he don't even think you're cute sister he don't even think you're cute he he thank you barely decent he thank you barely decent so what you have to do is you got to block him on everything because when you meet the man that's for you you can't even meet the man that's for you because you keep answering his phone call you keep answering his messages so you have to be done with the past listen to me everybody under the sound of my voice be done with your past close the door on your path block your past that is not immature the person who wrote that meme that told y'all it's immature to block people probably was a man who got blocked by his girlfriend and he running that meme account or it was a woman who trying to win the favor of a man and sound like she cool but actually she's a fool so talk about y'all immature for blocking men no you not immature that's exactly what you need to do because what you have to realize is when you getting over a relationship it's like you coming off of a drug because when you get on your bike and that release you get from that big o that you get when you're sleeping with somebody that's activating the same part of the brain as that cocaine when you coming off that cocaine you have seen somebody that's on that cocaine and now you over there so you like what a cocaine i'm talking about cocaine okay i don't you know that's where it goes up you know don't know what what do but listen when they coming off that down what they have to do they have to block they have to block their dealer they got to block the street that they go down to the to the dope house they got to block all ties to that they're not they're not still going to the dope house and just oh i'm just coming out to hang out man hey hey all y'all y'all smoking and y'all getting high and i'm just sitting here just chilling yet whoo i have to get my little sniff but i'm good oh i'm good that's like somebody coming off alcohol leaving the door open to the bar and they just go to the bar and just sit at the bar amaretto sour gin and tonic bud light how's it taste today i'm doing great i'm doing great i'm 371 days sober i'm doing great how did that look how what kind of food will do that that's what y'all doing to need relationships when you leave somebody that you know is not good for you that you know you should not be with but you leave the door open so they could come in and out your life then man dm'ing you on instagram texting you on your phone then calling you on your phone and say what he doing is he calling you and he said bye for now what that mean is me and my girl she mad with me today because i ain't caller so the day i got a free day that's why i'm in your dm that's why i'm on your text man that's why i'm on your phone but now tomorrow i'm finna make up with her and so angle had no time for you so you ain't gonna hear from me for a month that's all he doing so you got to realize so you wonder why is he bothering me it's because you're a band-aid you will hold me down you will fill in that's what he uses you ass it's just like okay it's like when you have you uh when i get off this right here cause i'm feeling a little famished when i get off this right here i'm gonna upload the video but i'm finna go on to to aussie uh what it's called it's outback steakhouse but they got a new little thing called aussie and it's fitting because you over there australia so i'm finna go over there it's called aussie bites i think and they have steak you know look look greens they have burgers you know little stuff the food good night i'm finna going up there and that's been hoofing to be myself tonight but see in between that meal all right this morning my wife made me friday with turkey bacon on a bagel a onion bagel with some butter on it that thing hit we're hidden you hear me and then for lunch me and my son was that before brady and i have some chicken wings with nashville hot rub on it so i have different shelves all right but now see in between that lunch and that dinner what a person to do eat a handful of almonds eat some almonds you know he loves some grapes strawberries just get a little something like that so this what he doing he going from entree to entree but in between the entree you his hand full of almonds then the almonds taste good okay almond taste good i'm almost good for you a little protein get you a little salty on me get your little flavor on there so you good for him for him he's not good for you he ain't good for you so he using you and you don't realize you getting used and so you each little time you falling more and more in love and this how y'all keep playing yourself because [Music] you're working on your nursing but then you let this man creep in if you work if you focus on what the task at hand be focused on the task at hand start trying to juggle a man with the task at hand you can't juggle a man with the task at hand because a man is a whole job a man is a whole priority a man take up a whole complete capacity of your mind you don't have time to be focused on no nursing why you focus on no man because especially a new man now if you already know the man y'all already been together your relationship already solid then yeah you can focus on your nursing but you building something completely new that's absolutely no no that's an absolute no no so listen to me again begin in the lessons that you hear over and over and over it's important never deal with anyone if you are not ready for a relationship never because you will only end up playing yourself because in so many words you let that person know that you're not ready for a relationship so now they know they ain't even got to get you nothing real because you're not dating intentionally you're not dating with a purpose so they already know they they can turn you into a situationship because you just looking for a little fun you just looking for a little hold me down and then this this thing now says this the thing what really had you looking crazy you said i decided to be there for him because he looked like he was going through a hard time okay is you on my mentor.life if your sister you trying to be a nurse if you want to be there for somebody having a hard time you need to take the life coach certification on tonygastonacademy.com and you need to join my mentor.life and get paid 25 usd 25 usd why are you with this man what's up buddy i ran uh two laps around the quarter cent you did wow two laps how you feel [Music] my lady don't hurt that much oh so you could have ran longer could have ran longer i like your new smile [Music] uh i like the new smile that lady that is showing the video i'm not on the phone call i was just shooting the video i'll be done in a little bit and then i'm going to pick up some food you ate dinner what you tell mommy that when i get off this here video i'm gonna go get some food from um aussie you know i say aussie aussie i think it's called aussie bites i see bites tell mama that all right so my son got his teeth kicked out by his older brother they were wrestling in the room and my oldest boy fell off the bed and when he fell off the bed my son was behind him so my older boy kicked his foot up it hit my son right there in the teeth it knocked his two front teeth out so that was the front two teeth the baby teeth the permanent teeth wasn't set to come in for another year and a half so he went to the dentist and they have like little kid dentures and so they put him two fake teeth in there and it's on a bridge that click into his mouth and it's in his mouth real tight but he got two fake teeth they give him a smile but the day when he went to the dentist they had to gone take them out because the other two getting ready to start coming in and those two fake teeth in there to change the pattern of the teeth coming in so now he running around he got a little left there he got a little list because he got that opening right there and so he ain't got no teeth right there so now he kind of known for his smile you go on the instagram me and my wife instagram you'll see him a young boy he just turned seven and them two front teeth you see in the recent picture the old fake teeth and then when they had a little hint of gray on but nigel got gums right there so it's something to get used to and why he was just devastated when they got kicked out because his smile just so beautiful and the teeth didn't fall out naturally so it bothered her that they had got knocked out with some trauma with my older son so it was an accident and my youngest boy was ready to fight people if they talk about his brother did that on purpose he did not do that on purpose he accidentally hit me with his soccer foot his foot is strong because he plays soccer you defending his brother now like this accident my brother don't beat me up so yeah so y'all may see some pictures with us with don't say no not the way now because you will get blocked so sister that's what i'm trying to tell you it's not immature to block people because me i do it daily somebody be in the comments acting a fool ain't ask for your appeal i still did not make my song yet i'm gonna make my song where that thing i'm gonna have me all beat on y'all i'm talking my blah hey y'all have a stream that's on that all day you know what i'm saying because it's streaming i'm going to stream in the web you know drake and future them be calling me man you got a billion screens on that song hey don't worry about it don't worry about it blocked and so now listen to me system in closing block him on instagram block him on the phone and never talk to him again whatever it is in you that made you settle for him put up with him and deal with him and be a band-aid be a teddy bear and be a rebound you need to address that you need to address that insecurity that unsurety that naivete that gullibleness you need to address that you need to keep watching these videos you need to keep getting the knowledge go on tonygatsonacademy.com take real love university take uh get on my metro.life book your session with your coach whatever you can afford book your session as low as 25 hour book year session i got some clients in australia uh y'all good people over there but this man here he playing he playing like a deck of cards playing like a board game you hear me he does not want you he does not want you this typically is what a man does who he got a little leverage that he could play a little game he 23 you 20. three years older than he thanked you young and dumb and you've proven him to be right so now you got to show him okay just cuz i'm three years younger than you don't mean i'm dumb don't mean them no dummy don't mean i'm gullible don't mean you could use me so you got to get over the fact that you had your older man sleeping with you and you thought you had something special you over there cooking food my goodness come on says you doing the most so now y'all walk away with the lessons now and for those of you who keeping track got your paper remember when i say get your paper if you don't know what i'm talking about when i say get your paper out then you already behind and you watched all the videos all right get your paper number three write number three and then write stop standing still exclamation mark stop standing still write that down on your paper number three is stop standing still i ain't gonna show you the paper because i don't want nobody who missed number one and two to get them because i'm doing this for you know a reason so right stop standing still on your piece of paper exclamation mark at the end so yes now this was very unconventional talks with tony today y'all please forgive me i don't read these letters before i do the video and i know somebody will say well why don't you read them before you do the i don't have the time i don't even have the time to do this video but i'm doing this video so we have to read the letters together so that's the other thing when you watch me answer these videos and you see holes in it oh tony forgot to say this he forgot to say that that's because you are a monday morning quarterback the game was on sunday you on monday talking about what plays i should have called you i mean your arm is easy when you watching the video from the outside looking in and you can hear all of my advice and then you just got to find a little hole that's easy to do but when you got to read the video and answer it off the real off the top of the dome with the holy spirit that right there is not as easy so when you see me leave the holes in it's because i'm reading the emails live and i'm reading them live because i want my response and my reaction to be real to be natural and not staged because i'm not denzel washington i don't know how to act so i got to be real with mine and so if i want you to get a real response i need to read it with you live and god has given me the ability to be able to read it live and still give you a decent answer with a decent amount of substance may not be everything i may think of something else i could have shoulda would have said later but it's too late because i was answering it live so understand that right there especially if you knew and uh god bless you i'm finna go get me something uh-huh i'm gonna kick back and re-light the night you hit me i'm gonna put the phone down tonight yeah everybody i'll be answering people after seven o'clock seven o'clock and put the phone down i'm done for tonight hey god bless you we'll talk soon

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 56min 1sec (3361 seconds)

Published: Wed Mar 17 2021