I slipped up and now his behavior has changed | Talks with Tony

hey tony guys here popping in on this sunday night with another episode of talks with tony now we're moving right along here don't know what we're gonna get but this one looks like it's about a long distance oh wow [Music] yeah this one here is kinda long all right hello mr gaskins i watch your videos from england and have purchased a woman's influence with the aim of applying them in my life thank you for all you do and the time and effort you pour out apologies for the length in advance i'm just trying to give some context now see that's why i created asktonygaston.com because you can't get long now but i i actually in this here inbox talks with toner i actually like the longer ones better because it helped me because i can't ask any questions back to the person so this actually is better context i've been in a long distance relationship with an international student for one and a half years it was arranged between his family friend and my parent so initially we would communicate via phone now y'all forgive me if that's via um but i say via might be via uh via phone when he was in his home country and i was in the uk for a few months we are now both in university in the same city met meet once a month and are both in our early twenties we have the same background despite growing up in different countries we decided in the beginning that we would be abstinent from set as christians until we unders until we understood each other deeply but recently i sensed that he was becoming distant she put on she put this in underline he was becoming distant in messages and on the phone he was watching the whop video privately when we were together in person now the video for those y'all who don't know that's the cardi b and meg the stallion stand for wet a what the what the generation doing he was watching the walk video privately when we were together in person so i assumed he was bored of the way things were despite our abstinent and fun-natured relationship he never initiated or engaged in overtly sexual behavior initially and would often mention that he was trying to make our relationship solid and last long-term for marriage when i tested him i thought that he was frustrated with the sexual aspect of our relationship so i decided to shake things up and we both gave into temptation by being much more physically affectionate we've had very steamy moments and i gave oral unfortunately but we have not engaged in full-on [Music] i noticed that he has become inconsistent since then only responding to messages hours later despite being online occasional good morning text and recently sometimes when we are together he is constantly on his phone and seldom engages with me with no attempt to make phone call conversations interesting at all you put that in all caps at all i mean bold letters with an underline and now all this right here this part right here is in blue when it started i noticed that he became inconsistent so she color coded in the different parts to break up the email since it's long and she got some of it underlined in bold letters i just just really went all out on her email or not he is constantly on his phone and seldom engages me with no attempt to make phone call conversations interesting at all after the basic catching up we had some minor issues before but now the relationship is like a pendulum where some moments are great filled with love and fun moments and when we are apart it feels completely estranged and lackluster with no in between leaving me feeling confused now we're back to the blue he has always been the more reserved and sheltered one and is incredibly handsome humble and patient and i was always the one to make conversations interesting and the career-driven one but i feel like he is not the same since we became a bit intimate now we're back to the black i addressed the communication issue and he said he changed that he was simply busy as a post grad and with his family that came to see him recently on social media he likes very revealing with the underline photos of beautiful glamorous girls he follows and gets followed by i've mentioned it and he says they are just friends and i shouldn't feel insecure but i cannot help but notice a pattern in the particular kind of women he likes and at this stage of final year medicine and building my life i don't match up to these women stylishly i feel pensive now nah okay nah nah is this a typo let me see this this is the final year final year of medicine school and throwing some words out here on that pensive engaged in involving or reflecting deep or serious thought that's what did we with a word now i'm like this is a typo like no that's what's hey all right okay that's what's in medicine school nah let's say final year of final year medicine and building my life i don't match up to these women stylishly i feel pensive now so okay what they say she what that mean man i asked it out she deep in thought i think that's what it because he is now going to his home country for a couple of months due to some visa issues and seems almost relieved about it despite the disruption i've met his siblings when they visited the country and he always reassures me that his feelings are sincere and that he's simply more occupied now he comes from a very decent and wealthy family and so i feel somewhat conflicted about my thoughts of being used for ulterior motives i'm not sure how to shake this feeling or address it as i have several times before and don't want to constantly be the one to drive things should i move on and focus with my own life or am i over reacting my last relationship was one filled with mistrust and infidelity so maybe i am proceeding based on those emotions now we in the red extra info i went through his phone when he was asleep two months prior and saw a draft on notes of a message to a girl that his family member had introduced him to a one month back it was very similar to the message he first sent me when we met and he spoke of how he'd like to get to know this girl i confronted him about it in a stylish way talking about a scenario of being introduced to a girl by a family friend but he seemed confused and casually said that she was just a family friend and that i was behaving erratically because i had packed my bags and he said that he'd give me no signs that there was something wrong we were able to get over that by conversation however what do you think now this is over here in the uk now i wish now i should have read that in the uk accent i just don't listen to him enough to know how they talk he started watching the watt video wow brother well there go your lesson right now there go your lesson now she said in the beginning they thought they'll be abstinent from as christians until we understood each other deeply but recently i sensed that he was becoming distant in messages and on the phone so now here's the thing right here in this situation now i can't i'm not really talking to her because the decision probably long gone but if you know maybe this will help you if you did mess up now because we still on november 3rd and so but here's the thing when you go into a relationship with a man especially a man in his early 20s but this still can apply for men in their 30s 40s 50s 60s when you go into a relationship with a man just like some women a man is not sure if he wants you and if he wants to be married but you look good enough to him that he'll give it some time now most a lot of men i ain't gonna say most but a lot of men are okay with giving a woman easily five years of his life that may not make sense to a woman but a man can easily flush five years of his life down the toilet with a woman going through the motions with no intentions of marrying her and some men will do 10 15 20. the reason being is because all along he's cheating so he's not actually just devoted to one woman for five years without moving forward he's sowing his wild oats and he juggling typically about three women y'all gotta forgive him i'm a long boy he juggling typically about three women so with this guy right here for one he come from a wealthy family two you say he is incredibly handsome now incredibly i'll try and wonder what do incredibly handsome look like like what it like what an incredibly handsome life george clooney grandson thought i heard some um ladies say george clooney look good um and then of course you can't really listen to black women because every time my air man with money looked good i'll but really kind of talking about my sister now yeah he's fine whoa he found like now i don't know what fi a fine man is i don't know what a handsome man here i know what a ugly man ill and i have seen some of them and i'ma tell you and it's a many days i beat myself up and i but and just feeling ugly just feeling like man skin like leather around here you know when you're struggling and you're going through stuff but then sometimes you'll look and you'll say all right all right you know hey be thankful now okay all right whatever and you just you know how sometimes you'll see somebody and you just go to praying for them because you know the world you know the world is is cruel and so you sing like lord bless them lord that's how i be i'll be like lord bless the lord please give them strength lord strengthen them give them strength give them confidence because this world and the way they treat people is just uncalled for just nasty how the world to treat people and so every night and i and i had to go through a little bit you know growing up having a big head more head than i had body and i remember my cousin i used to go to look and he'll duck he'll duck down cuz hey man don't be swaying that thing man you need to put on turn signal before you turn before you be looking left and right man you almost hit me with that hook and they used to just go hey hey but tony you don't have dreams but you have movies and it just used to be just riding all and i remember the first time i went to play football the man came up to me and my dad he said uh sir you know we've tried every helmet in the building and we don't have a helmet i was seven years old the league go up to 15 years old the master sir we we just don't have a helmet that'll fit his head it's just it's it's not it's just the way his head is shaped so we're gonna have to order a helmet from texas nah i i lived in florida so you know i went through something i'm a cousin he's a hey tony boy if you look down you're gonna tumble over you're gonna fall down the hill hey don't don't look down now you're gonna be rolling man and so i got him the helmet still to look coming from texas still ain't fit so the helmet the face man stop up here the face man stop up here and it had to sit up here on top of my head and the face man stopped right here whole chin was out because my hook was too long watermelon head everything boy and then i remember had my first son and a doctor was doing the ultrasound or something on my wife's stomach and she like well you know now the shape of his head is is going to change that don't worry about that that will change and she happened to look over at me well um and it might not change and yeah go and get us another hospital get my hat hey so listen so that right there just going through as a man if i hear a woman saying man it's incredibly handsome i'm just like hey this brother here man here now i don't know there's no picture with this i don't know the race or anything like that you know she got a black dot for a picture okay okay let me see that last name and now he come from a wealthy family last name is arabic arabic last name no that one's about a little different yeah so this here and then y'all was connected through family and that just sound to me that just sounds like all money that y'all got oil money stuff going on you know the oil money and this last name look like an oil money last name and i don't know the term that y'all use if it's called cheeks or you know i don't know the turn but i be hearing people saying like oh this is an oral chica this uh uh a shawl's a sunset you know the show shaw's this sound like some up in there like you know but y'all christians though and so you know i thought this last name was like from a country where it's majority uh muslim so what does here sound like and this for every woman out here that's why i want you to help me and y'all forgiven taking taking so long to get into this hill but i'm just really trying to process all this and just piece everything together because i'm hearing some money in here and in school for medicine and i'm just sitting over here just taking i'm taking a bath cause i'm like is it is this royalty it's sorority grandchild of royalty right and me so i'm just trying to figure and then the email is the first email i got that is color coordinated black then blue then blight and blue then red and then with certain stuff underlined with underlined up under certain words and underlined with bold so it's just like the school system this woman went to it's just immaculate and then they all in different countries and stuff going to school and so you know not just a year and a half all right now to the point of this here and this is across the board this this all this every man when i say every man i'm i mean 99 of men he gonna come into the relationship and he does not fully know what he wants or if you're the one especially if he in his 20s and then what he gonna do he gonna sell you a dream you're gonna meet his representative even with good men a lot of time women say oh not a christian man this man christian oh not a good man oh not a real christian listen every man is flawed okay he gonna sell you a dream he might be some of it he might be most of it but it's going to be a little extra sauce on it okay and that's his representative and a lot of these men now they will give you what you say you want if you tell him you want to be abstinent he'll say okay i'll give you that he's not worried about your abstinence because he got the five finger angela so he's not worried about your abstinence he got hansel then he on here with walk okay he got walked so while he watch him walk he over here going to work and might not right then because you at the same place you were in the same you know household at that time with him so what he doing is he buying his time he buying his time and then he going through the motions while he taking care now if he incredibly handsome that mean he he could easily have wound down thank you mouse he could meet a woman in class he could say hey let's hang out tonight or she could say hey do you want to hang out she could be one of them fast forward women he go to hang out 30 minutes she kissing him on the neck she kiss him on lip if he all introverted and shy stuff like you say and you outgoing she's making her move on on him it's a lot of women that'll do that now and then boom boom and then the reason i know that this could be happening for him in a split second wound bound thank you man is because you who are a christian woman who proposed to him being abstinent until marriage or being abstinent you said until we understood each other deeply you so know y'all okay you say we decided in the beginning that we would be abstinent from as christians until we understood each other deeply now that ain't got no that ain't christian they'll not y'all try but christian is abstinent until marriage now we all fall short we all fall short but see it sounds like y'all planned to fall short like hey we just gonna abstain a little bit of the christian way so we're gonna be halfway on this hill word of god and we're going to stain until we understand each other deeply and then when we understand each other deeply then we'll just take jesus and just sit jesus right on over here to the side and just and just take it put a look rag over his eyes uh lord just cover your eye lord cover your eye cover your eyes lord okay cause we understand each other deeply not when i found thank you man now look then you say you start to feel he get distant now see men every man innately understands what i call human physics now human physics may be a real thing i know physics is a real thing but i never took the class so i really don't know what is taught in physics but what i mean by human physics is when if he pulls away then you're gonna come closer if he chasing you then you're gonna pull away you're gonna run a little bit and so that's what i call human physics so when you not a lot of people use this tactic of ignoring people or being uh short with words and you notice if you i've done it accidentally to where like somebody write me like text me and i'm i'm tied up and then i get stuff going stuff going on and then they'll write me again and i'm tied up like literally driving the speed limit or something going on and then they'll text me again and then the next thing you know here come the text did i do anything what is going what what's wrong is it anything that i did if it's something i did please let me know you know if not i'm this could be my last time writing you you know have a great life bro you know i just thought we was cool and then like now you're driving you're eating and you're trying to text with your two thumbs while you're eating and drop hey don't worry about it you know i was the attack you trying to text anyway you could take voice hey man hey i meant to hit your bike bro i just been tired up man calm down but just the the act of pulling back just not being so accessible it send people into a frenzy and they start to wonder what's going on what's going on and now they want to you know chase and pursue and so what you got to realize this right here what happened to you he uh so now he he watch and walk before he watch and walk you say i sensed that he was becoming distant in the messages and on the phone so not he dissonant in the message and on the phone now he probably developing something either a relationship with another woman or a relationship with angela through nasty movies and he getting a little disinterested because he ain't getting none from you he getting that pay dirt and that's really what he want unless he a virgin which i doubt he'll virgin and i doubt you a verdict because you ain't say all of that y'all just thought that you know y'all cute so y'all gonna try to fake like y'all don't want to sleep together and y'all just gonna fake like y'all want to be abstinent because y'all wanted some cool points with each other like hey let's pretend that we classy and let's hold off from sleeping together and give it a little time so we could really build up and both of us could get some cool points for being classy and so because y'all was faking when he went to watching that walk he already knew that was finna because he didn't have to watch walk while y'all was together in person you said he was watching walk video privately when we were together in person so i assume he was bored of the way things were despite our abstinent and fun-natured relationship now it could have been fun for you because you say he kind of kind of introverted kind of quiet kind of chill he never initiated or engaged in overtly behavior initially and would often mention that he was trying to make our relationship solid and last long term for marriage when i tested him now see now that's also another little game that a man will play when he already satisfied and see what a lot of men will do is will go ahead and treat themselves before they come over so that way damn damn you know too gung-ho they ain't too ready to go because then i already got that release okay my homeboy taught me that in probably 10th 11th grade he was like yup man before i go over there i go get that thing out of there so then when i get over there something gonna happen for one i ain't got to be begging for it and two if it do happen i'mma last longer because i know already got me one and i was like oh man you we in like 11th grade you pretty much experience you that came up with a uh uh strategy i was like wow pretty creative and so that's what some men will do and i see this why me i'm sitting here talking and i'm just like every man law being broken i'm like that's why men be mad with me they were beating my own home boys i grew up with beside iron like [Music] but i just i have to do this because we gotta level the playing field we gotta level the playing field so that we can have clear communication and healthy relationships people get it twisted and they think like oh this this about money but they don't even see a bank account they don't even see that it ain't no real money in this ain't no real money in if i if it was about money i'd be going do something else that give me some real money this ain't no ain't no real money in this i'm doing this because this is what god instructed me to do so for the men watching this because there's been more men popping over here because they waiting on the next person to fail and i've been seeing more men in the comments oh simp oh silk another such and such and so 98 they they wait they just sit hey keep waiting gateway okay you feel the beat sit don't hold your breath go but you listen i ain't been do nothing stupid you hit me all my stupidness that been done long long time ago you hear me and i'm gonna keep saying that to y'all now listen so he's sitting there he know what it's gonna do he he's sitting there watching it and may like he's in there watching on the phone [Music] he knew you were finna catch him he wanted you to catch him strike that insecurity because he could have watched that at home he could have watched that in the bathroom he could have watched that any well he watched it why y'all was in person together so you could catch him and guess what you caught him mission accomplished so i assume he was bored of the way things were despite our absent and fun nature relationship now he never initiated nothing that's breaking you down it breaking down okay so so he's showing you that he's looking at other women half naked then he's not trying to touch you it ain't matching up what it does is it sends you into a state of confusion and you start to say well he obviously like half naked women i'm sitting over here and you saying you over here and you could get butt bunky naked for him but he rather look at the computer screen at half naked and then he's not touching you and then when you would test him he how you talk to the hand talking about he weighed and tried to make this thing long-term so now you being sent all the way into a frenzy now you know what this is i now i'm gonna tell you like this right here i've never listened to one of these videos but me being a man i already know what it is i already know what they'll call this what he pulled on you especially that he rich and that he's international student he extremely intelligent when you rich you you bored a lot of times and so you're on youtube a lot you know what this is this is this alpha male strategy fake like he abstinent with you take care of himself introduce other women in your face to increase your insecurity you come on to him he let you talk to the hand make you even more antsy and anxiety and then now now you just have now you just read it now you just read it just drop it like it's hot 400 degrees and so now i thought he was frustrated with the uh aspect of the relationship so i decided to shake things up and we both gave into temptation by being more physically affectionate [Music] no he did not give in to temptation you was set up to fall into his trap that's what you said cause listen every male knows that you do not let a woman see you looking at another woman he's sitting there watching them women video i went to look at the video i seen the trending on twitter i typed the video in i couldn't even get through about 30 45 seconds i just it just felt like it was just too much going on i'm like they channeling something in here it's probably some some uh what you call that some symbolism in here that i ain't even catching but it'll be hitting me subconsciously i said dude okay that's what they talking about because i just seen you walked and i seen it trending and i tried to keep my finger on the pulse and when i went to look at that i said uh uh you let me go because uh what eric snowden then told us they watching anyway they they said no why oh this is relationship coach life coach with x amount of people online let's let's hack a computer see what he'd really be doing see if he living it living what he teaching and they just got all access see i ain't all of them just sitting there watching everything so i'll be careful because i always know somebody watching you hear me god and somebody else i so i be very careful okay i eyes on you all the time eyes on you all the time i watch a little bit just understand what it was about what they were trying to do what they talking about i had to get out of there i had to get out of there nah i'm sharing this with you and then you watch that video man you wouldn't know if i didn't tell you so if i'm telling you it's for a reason of transparency so that you understand something okay so that you understand that if i'm looking at the stuff to see what is going on out here and i click at the video a man who don't have a conviction a man who don't have a position a man who ain't discover his calling he couldn't watch that whole thing and he can watch over and over and over and on and he get their hand going give me some help you understand this right here now listen he set you up for this right here because for one what i could tell is you say he incredibly handsome that could be some of that money on them now because because when you got some money now yo your shirts a little nicer your shoes a little nicer everything a little cleaner because you could keep your hair cut keep your nails manicured told pedicure you know keep that skin together when you got a little money not eating good you know living good so some of that incredibly handsome could be some of that money on them and uh and now you say you won if you been used for ulterior motor what ulterior motive do you got you some money you come for you some money now you over there in medicine school so is that stu is that a financial aid or that's your family because is he with you because you royalty you know cuz cause something special about you because you said it was arranged between his family friend and my parent so i guess they knew y'all was gonna be going to the same school over in the uk which i'll go to oxford i sound like it and uh so now so listen to me now listen to me you were set up and this what i want every woman and also some men because this goes both ways even as men we are set up by women we are set up by women and here's one of the strategies i found women try to do women some women try to use a strategy of being rude being real rude being real cutthroat being real and that i always know that's what let me know when a woman when a woman like me when what let me know when a woman is attracted to me and that she would want to sleep with me is when she rule and short just yeah no no like i used to be networking i write some write a woman she add like she got 12 assistants like ma'am you got 13 followers i'm writing i'm writing you about your little etsy store for my wife um yes unfortunately i do not answer dms i would need you to reach out to lauren my assistant thank you [Music] i say okay here we go we got one of the whereas if a woman is confident in herself and she's like hey how are you you know thank you so much for reaching out yes okay how can i help you okay because i could look and tell i didn't write no 10 time grammy award-winning artist i ain't right no celebrity i'm trying to support your business because i got a wife that i get for nothing else for but the woman try to act like oh nasty and then on a scene i'm saying kind of women flip they script because what they want to see is they they try to get they think if they appear to be hard to get because they assume that if a man is writing them or a man saying something to them or talking to them about business that really is a disguise to get with them and if they try to be hard to get that it'll turn on the hunter in the man and make him want to come harder i already see that child sit down sit down nobody want to sit down somewhere but then when i notice a like if i'm with a homeboy or a guy and his girlfriend or his wife is cordial and she friendly and like unless she's super shy it don't apply but if she's not super soft but she cordial and she could talk and she could oh yeah yeah all right yeah and she could chime in and let me know that she got she pure if she sit over there and she real quiet and she won't say nothing and she trying to then that let me know okay she might feel she might feel some type of way she might she might feel some type of way and she trying everything in her to not say nothing or have any kind of interaction because she don't want her boyfriend or her husband to think that she attracted to this man and so and now that might not be to bait the man or nothing like that but women will play these games too so that's on the flip side so so some of y'all women they get the same the games that some of y'all women play you will fall for the male equivalent and so that's why i shared that because i know some women gonna realize oh my my home girl do that well i used to do that some some women going real and then then they help you better understand what this hill man doing and and then you say tony how you know he's just not introverted and he just don't want to um pursue her because he watching a video that stands for wet a the cuss word p okay the kitty cat he watching a video that's there for wet a p while he with his girlfriend that one sign right there lets me know that he was gaming her [Music] and then guess what it worked out perfectly and i could tell that she had no clue that she was game because she didn't hit on it at all [Music] so now she say so i decided to shake things up see she thought she was under her own cognizance that she was making this decision to shape things up and don't even realize that she was put into this position because look at what she said this is reactionary she's saying i thought he was frustrated with the sexual aspect of the relationship so i decided to shake things up now see how this go so cause effect so she thought that he was frustrated so in response did not respond in a reaction reactionary so so he did he showed frustration so she decided to shake things up but i see look look how look how you come back and now you say we we both gave into tim take no you gave into the trap and then it played right into his hand the way he wanted it to because guess what if he did not want it to he would have kept that same energy that he was faking earlier when he let you talk to the hand and said i want our relationship to be deep and us not sleep together until marriage i want the last long term for marriage he would have kept that same energy because if if if amanda made his mind up about something he ain't changing that mind he would have kept that same energy said no hold on what you doing oh hold on get off your knees nah get off your knees what are you doing what are you doing get get come on hold on hold on what are you where are you doing what are you doing and he would have got you on up now see listen huh now listen we both gave into temptation by being much more physically affectionate we've had very steamy moments and i gave oral [Music] unfortunately [Music] yeah me unfortunate danny unfortunate that what you want to do don't put that unfortunately in there for me because you talking to me going to put it unfortunately she put it in korean come on outside that was unfortunate you down there singing all on that microphone you down there on that microphone winning grammys that's what you win for singing yeah you gotta get grammy award-winning performances on that microphone karaoke night and i gave oral but we have not engaged in full on now see this the thing imma reiterate this in case you new to the videos and you ain't seen my old video what i need women to understand is that oral in the mind of a man is more filthy and degrading than actual enter [Music] because a man will allow and when i say man i'm not i'm not when i say amen i'm speaking just like how when the bible say mankind or he but it's talking for men and women when i say man i don't mean every single man it's understood that there are exceptions to the rule and it's understood that it's not every single person what is understood should not have to be explained okay so i want you to understand that now see a man will allow antibody to get down get down on that karaoke but he will only sleep with certain so let's say he have this scale of 0 to 10 10 is top top top top notch he will allow karaoke from zero all the way to ten nine nine nine and who he see as nine and ten he really don't he don't even really want no karaoke from her unless it's just like unless they married and if he's a if he's a decent dude he really don't want the karaoke from nine and ten until it's like marriage and like all the way in all the way locked in because he sees that he knows that it's more degrading how is it more degrading because one you on your knees knees being on your knees is submission you get on your knees we used to get on our be taught to get on our knees to pray you submitting to god you you you get on your knees to submit to god so when you on your knees for a man and this ain't spiritual this sexual now he looking down on you he looking down on you and you are submitting to him and you worshiping him and what comes from him it goes into a place that has no purpose for it because when it goes in there it can it don't go down and then go down and go down through your stomach and down and then fertilizer it has no purpose going there so that's what also makes it more degrading whereas there is an actual purpose for enter there's an actual purpose for it where that is how you procreate how you reproduce life so that is the most powerful act that two humans of the opposit of opposite sexes can do because it actually reproduces life that's what you have to understand so when you got on your knees and listen don't be so technical uh well well i was actually on my knees i was laying on my back and he sat up here come on come on now don't don't be so technical when you reduce yourself and that's what i try to tell them all the time if you finna put something in your mouth you might as well get on your back because you're not saving any respect he's not going to respect you because you use your mouth instead of what's between your leg he's not going to respect you anymore he's going to respect you less and that's how i learned this this how i learned this this how i figured this out about me is there would be certain women who um it would be certain women who would you know um they look was not in style their look was not trending and i would hear guys say i love to give me some karaoke of course they use a different word that carol got that my word i made that up i'll let her give me some karaoke but i ain't gonna i ain't finna get down and do that with her but i'll let her do this here and it never really made sense to me it never because remember i remember i tell y'all about the young lady that went to college with us who would have literally a line of 30 guys at her door and she would just karaoke same karaoke on each one of them and all of them would say they okay with her singing karaoke night but no but they won finna you hear me put no meat in no taco bell you see what i'm saying not for those y'all why tony talking like this and why he's using all he look because this is not tony two this is youtube okay so it's certain things that you okay understand that so how much time is 50 million all right i got to go in 10 minutes now listen to me now see i'm up i got time tonight because my wife she at tennis so she coming she coming back from the tennis matches today now when i finish this i'm going back to my email to answer until my wife get home to answer questions from those of you who wrote in submitted a question through asktonygaskins.com so fred not you remember it pop up you know um five business days and also if you get the email back to you that say hey your mail wasn't delivered you'll see my the email address in there so some of y'all have already done it just forward your email right back to that email address because it it comes through but from the website it'll block a lot of it because it's filtering spam and when y'all have this hot link such as such mail at hotlink.com yahoo.com all the old outdated gmail is the king and queen of email right now if you don't have a gmail account then your email is getting discriminated against when it's coming into a gmail system you see what i mean because google is running things right now they own youtube that you own and google is every single human use google so they saying listen stay down till we come up all right get down with the get down and get you a gmail so when y'all writing in from hotmail and aol and yahoo and all being and all this that's why it's bouncing back okay so y'all get y'all the gmail come on get y'all's email they just some people over there they're just too smart they're too talented they just got so much going on in here inbox and and that's why they blocking you because they they trying to say hey we the upper echelon of email we don't let no just anything come in here so y'all understand that right now now listen to me when when you took and you got on your knees that's when he lost respect for you he lost even more respect for he was already looking around and doing his thing but when you did that it canceled everything out because he then said now she has done what a two dollar woman does to make extra money on the street corner and i'm her boyfriend have been with her a year and a half and she would rather swallow kids on these than be than to quote unquote what they call make love see you shouldn't have been doing anything but if you're gonna do something don't do the more degrading of the two if you finna fall into sin because this still sin yeah it y'all say y'all christian god ain't looking down oh oh that's not fornication you want to swallow that go right ahead of course i created it where you could just swallow it and it's protein for your body it gives you muscles like that's not a sin go right ahead no you in sin so i don't condone none of it now honey you could done it no what i'm saying is wrong folks gonna do what grown folks gonna do but i'm just letting you know that if you finna go do something when you get on your knee and swallowing kids [Music] even if you spin the kids out that's still more degrading than you coming together knowing each other okay knowing each other in a relationship that's a year and a half so understand that at that point right now he lost respect and so now it's like okay i don't if a man came in and see if he was playing games you have to let him play himself if a man shows you his representative and his representative is amazing you got to hold him to his representative that's what my wife did a woman's influence i introduced my representative to her and then when i tried to go to the real me she's like oh hold on hold on play what pump your braids do daddy what you told me so she made me be who i said i was and guess what that changed my life for the better but see what's happening is is y'all letting the man come in and show you his representative and then he go to show you his real colors and you're like oh okay that's more a little more colorful actually you was kind of black white and gray but now this fiery red is just oh and so now you let him be that and so when he gonna whip that microphone for you you just went and you went to singing on the microphone so now he like whoa hello so so you down there oh i broke my [Music] y'all gotta forgive i gotta calm down i've got i don't broke my little lighter this how this how i like my candle i'm scared to light it nice thing being exploded in my face that's that's a lord might be telling man calm down calm down you doing too much son no i ain't not see you down now got all that going down so so this what happened let me use it here [Music] what the lord's trying to say listen man you got too much going on boy so this is uh you know and so he he uh he's looking down now oh okay christian [Music] correct oh the crit okay the christian huh happy doing all this waiting acting like you asked in it now you down there doing what the two dollar woman do you see what i'm saying oh yeah i want you to feel it now i want you to feel it y'all gotta forgive me hey this one let you know these videos these videos i don't stage my videos and come on with no remember thing and talking all fast all that know you got to flow with me because i'm in the moment so y'all got to forgive me that about staple my finger but the god be the glory i didn't it's just the metal kind of the metal kind of clap it and so this what happened and so now i'm going to tell you what what you got got going on then on social media he like very revealing photos of beautiful glamorous girls he follows and they follow him the fact that they follow him and he say they just friends that confirms that what you say he uh incredibly handsome because if he have naked women following him back they only follow by certain type of men they only follow like a man that they look like that they know he got some money or they think he looked good you know they know who he is or what family he come from or or or he looked like money they could tell by his shoes or his clothes so what you got you here is you got your little nasty you got a little nasty at it he like him some nasty movies okay he like a nasty movie he love him some hands a lot and so this guy here and it's the quiet ones you got to watch out for i could tell you that cause i was quiet very i'm still very very quiet but now you ain't got to watch out for me on the relationship side now what you got to watch out for is if you cross me might meet the lord and i'll be on my knee praying begging crying out for forgiveness lord i ain't mean to send them to you that fast so and so i could say when you tell my oh he not that he chill introverted him do all this and that i'm normally the lively one and all of that though that's the kind right there you got that's the kind right though you got to watch out for so to answer your question should i move on and focus with my own life or am i overreacting you absolutely should move on you absolutely should move on when a man giving you his butt to kiss he giving you so he being distant he being inconsistent he liking women pictures he watching have naked women on video he disrespected you to your face and then he let you sing on karaoke night you put all that together he don't respect you he don't love you he doesn't see you as a wife he's getting ready to go back home he looking happy about it all of that together that's not your husband it's not your husband so god bless you all for giving me this video to be this long but god bless y'all we'll be in touch

Channel: Tony Gaskins

Views: 38,315

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Id: Qtnw1h2isiI

Length: 59min 47sec (3587 seconds)

Published: Sun Mar 28 2021