What Deep Dark Secret Did You Learn About A Family Member?

rajat what are some deep dark secrets your family members tried to hide from you but you found out anyway my grandma and step grandpa had eloped long before their actual wedding ceremony apparently neither of their families wanted them to get married because all the difference of race my grandma was Filipino and my step grandpa was white so they waited a couple of years for everyone to approve after my grandma passed away I had to go through her things and found their certificate of marriage from Vegas which was certified over a year before the actual day they got married with friends and family as witnesses I had asked my parents about it and they had no idea apparently neither did anyone else in the family it doesn't seem like such a dark secret now but since they kept it to themselves and took it to their graves it must have been a pretty big deal to them it's mostly just a sweet story to me and as someone who had lost all faith in romance it was kind of encouraging I may have two or three dead elder brothers I really don't know any more about it beyond that as literally nobody in my family will talk about it with me all I know is my grandmother on my mom's sight has a picture sitting in the frame of a mirror that hangs on the wall of her house this picture is of my grandmother and two boys who were between five eight years old that I had never met or heard anybody talk about the picture had always been in that exact location as long as I could remember one day when I was young I was at her house and happened to be looking at the picture one my grandmother was in the next room she came in to see what I was doing since I had gotten quiet and I asked her who the kids were in the picture with her she told me there were my brothers and that there was a third who wasn't in the picture I then thinking I had three older brothers excitedly asked her where they were and why I had never met them she just walked away and ignored the question any attempts after that to ask her or anybody else about the picture or the kids in it has been ignored in the same manner I kind of gave up asking since even my parents would ignore it I don't wanted sig deeper more than likely they died in a car accident caused by my alcoholic father that nearly left my mom paralyzed from the neck down all she's ever told me about it is that it happened in her mid to late 20s that her and my dad were in the car my dad was drunk driving and they had an accident she woke up in the hospital unable to move with the doctors saying she'd probably be that way the rest of her life the next morning when she awoke she found that she was able to move normally but that O neck hurt like heck to this day her neck still hurts and when viewed from behind it almost appears as if one of her neck vertebra was spun 90 degrees any doctor she's ganda has said the only cure would be to fuse the vertebrae and she'd rather keep her range of motion and deal with the pain and have part of her neck fused while it might be nice to know more about the lost brothers if my inference is correct then I'd rather not force my mom to relive the possibility of her losing them thanks to my drunken prick of her father's carelessness he's already put her in permanent pain I don't wish to add to it my uncle was a huge drug dealer and banking major money he ended up getting killed by some cartel when I was nine family told me he died fishing I guess you could say he's sleeping with the fishes I was talking to me my mom and somehow we go to the topic of why I've never met anyone from her family she explained that her older brother tried to violate her on several occasions and her mom and dad remained in denial about it even in the face of evidence forever after she never told anyone else about it after her parents blew her off including my dad I've heard other instances of the victim not being believed by the family and it drives me crazy effort your mom is better off without them I watched too many crime shows I was definitely expecting you to tell us that your uncle murdered your aunt and she was stashed in the fridge my mother owns over 10 buildings and didn't want to tell me in case I start becoming corrupt and money hungry my uncle told me this then when ah Polly jokes is why I love read it also to those curious apparently from my uncle again eight of the buildings are to be given to be in her will she should trade some of those in for a single hotel when I was 17 my family finally decided to break it to me that my birth was the result of my mother cheating on my dad that my dad bailed on me when I was 8 because he found out that he was born sterile so it was impossible for me to be his and that I am darker than everyone in my white family because I'm actually half Filipino when I was 18 I found out by accident that my mother was a REM user hit me hard like a truck and about three weeks after I found out the depression was too intense to carry so I sit down and talk to my grandmother as soon as my mouth opens my throat tightened up and the floodgates opened I finally got it all out and I asked she was stunned I didn't know but I thought the way she had acted all my life was normal my grandmother then tells me that my dad used to just as much my dad died when I was 2 and I never knew him especially that he was addicted to such a serious drug lastly I've also learned that one of my two uncles as a frequent end user at least I know I will never touch that crap sorry to hear that man my uncle was a heavy crack user and is currently in jail for dealing ironically his son is going down the same path and may actually end up doing worse things than his dad one of my grandfather's ran a brothel in El Salvador he was murdered in Texas and one of his lesbian daughters now runs that same brothel when I visited El Salvador as a kid my mom told me to avoid a particular Street on the eastern part of town it wasn't until a couple of years ago that she told me why my mother didn't want kids so my father threatened to divorce her filed the paperwork and everything but she called him over one last time and well here I am secret family in Japan apparently my American dad left the army having unwittingly impregnated his Japanese GF she sent a letter but my grandma intercepted it and tore it up he didn't find out for yours now there's a whole mess of half Jewish half Japanese folks related to me wait a minute this is a king of the hill episode dang it Bobby a few years after my father died I learned that my dad have been visiting those gay freaking places in the woods or at parking places where you can just hook up with random guys and Frick if there's a name for those places I'm sorry I'm not aware full-stop he was HIV positive and even kept it a secret from my mom for a couple of years while still freaking her unprotected when my mom found out she was furious but luckily she didn't have HIV the only thing I remembered was my parents having a huge argument at some point and that I was really scared they were going to get divorced they stayed together for the kids and to be honest aside from the fights sometimes I always had great parents and we would have a lot of good family times my mom must have had a really hard time then well my dad must have had a hard time too but they still did a great job raising their kids after my father died my mom told me everything when I was about 16 and I was so shocked that I had to hear it a couple of times because I just blocked it the first few times she kept it from me because she didn't want me to hate my dad the funny thing is my mom is now married to a woman so I guess you could say both my parents were gay I never understand these situations where a man and woman marry then both happen to be gay makes me wonder if they both know about the other my mom poisoned me on at least three or four different occasions on purpose she would usually under cook some food hoping I would die of food poisoning I'm guessing no idea if she added anything I got suspicious when I ate some Salmonella chicken I was young and starving and later overheard her telling my brother not to eat them and that they were for me she made a big batch of chicken as she usually does some pieces seemed fine so I a them and not the funny smelling ones still got sick but I got better according to my uncle on his deathbed he claimed to have walked into the house with my father to find her drowning me in the tub then there was that one time she almost shot me that was an accident go I was chasing my dog because he got off the chain and rounded a corner just as she fired we was outside the dog ran down the street the bullet hit a tree a few feet away from me we caught him later and she shot him anyway and told me he died off fleas I had to bury his bleeding corpse my dad is a Duchenne Frisch's his sister I'd like to say that escalated quickly but it was freaked up from the beginning two things one I have an uncle in France a parting gift from my grandfather to a very pretty young girl that he helped protect from Germans during World War two - my mother came very close to marrying her first cousin until their grandmother let him know who they were dating I grew up thinking that my two brothers were my only siblings however I found out recently I'm 31 that my dad had been cheating on my mom before my parents were married the other woman was married though and when she got pregnant by my father she deceived everyone and raised the girl as if she were the product of a healthy marriage my parents married shortly after that and two years later I was born the kicker go my half-sister and I grew up together as friends we knew each other in school and neither of us had any idea that we were siblings TL DR my dad was worse and my childhood friend turned out to be my sister we all knew my father used to be a triad gangster every time we had family events when I was young there would be a lot of uncles about normal people who lived near us would always avoid us never look us in the eye and be extra courteous back when I was young I didn't have a lot of friends because all the kids parents feared my dad I never knew why they were scared of him until I overheard him on the phone one day in 1992 my father has always been very quiet about what he does his role in the organization that he worked for and I could understand why from what I gathered after listening to the conversation on the phone he was some sort of enforcer someone had snitched on the location of their drug warehouses or factories in China and they knew who snitched they had him and my father just said make it very slow and find his family you know what to do after listening in on that conversation I couldn't even look my dad in the eye for a few weeks but he's no longer part of the organization and he's retired still sometimes he scary a TL DR father was a high-ranking gangster in Hong Kong who did shady stuff I smell an AMA wouldn't really say this is anything dark however growing up I thought my family was awesome and we all loved each other crap was fantastic however I start to get into my teen years and this doesn't seem the case anymore my dad's parents don't seem as close and I began to feel like they look down upon me and maybe my mom well not long into my teens I find out my dad's parents hate my mom my nan wrote a letter to my dad before their wedding telling him not to marry her so now I understand that actually these big happy family events I thought were happening were all fake now whenever my dad's parents are over I can't help but thinking this is all fake crap you all hate each other why are we bothering to pretend I'm sure my grandparents love me but I can't stand how false everything has become let's see when I was 12 or so I found a suitcase of gay pee videos and mags and a my dad's bed I found out that one of my uncle's had killed himself following a certain amount of incest between the other siblings my sister was violated while at university another friend a musician disappeared in the genocide he was rounded up along with some handed other Tutsi youths when the Tutsis were invading from Uganda and simply vanished a cousin not by blood was convicted of genocide in Rwanda my half-sister my dad was prolific tried to steal all my father's money and ended up becoming his favorite child I've successfully hidden most of my dark secrets from my family holy crap you must have had an interesting life so far I'm sorry for all if that crap you must have gone through man if it makes you feel any better I hope you feel great Hanna my great-grandmother was outside with her two-year-old sister this was in the 30s she was watching her while her dad was out in the field working and whatnot so my grandma's little sister got annoying so she got a huge stick and beat her nearly to death she got sent to an insane asylum my mother claims that my father is some man who disappeared when she got pregnant she won't give me a name or anything my entire life she's only referred to him as your father and refused to elaborate recently though my aunt made it clear that this isn't true we were having dinner each of us had a few cocktails and my aunt said that the whole story was just ridiculous she said my mother made herself the victim of the story because she was so ashamed of the truth but I still don't know the truth but at least I know that my father isn't some mysterious man who blew in and out of town I can only think that your father is a relative of your mother I'm one of four siblings my parents had planned on three kids and the fourth was my mom's last-ditch attempt at a girl she deceived my dad into thinking that she was still using contraception she confided this to my ex GF who was murdered so I may be the only one who knows the secret other than my mom but life has a sense of humor my youngest sibling turned out to be another boy they didn't keep this a secret but when I was younger I had a second cousin who was very intelligent I remember he would always get on peg left at that game at the Cracker Barrel every time he also really loved Stephen King novels as time went on it turned out he was a schizophrenic and he was admitted to a mental hospital he ended up escaping and killed himself by being hit by a train my great-grandpa's youngest brother was really his nephew his sister got pregnant at 15 in the 1930s and they lived in an super conservative area so they tried to pass the kid off as her brother kinda like the empty child during my parents divorce when I was three my dad offered my mom a one-time payment of $15,000 or so for us to walk out of his life and never deal with him again he was trying to get out of paying child support and my mother's lawyer told her to record every phone conversation with my father to be used against him I found out when I was about 12 or so because I was looking for blank cassette tapes to make radio mix tapes and found a huge stash under my mother's bed the first one I picked up was that conversation and cued up to be played for the judge TL DR my dad is sort of a dong my mom tried to commit suicide when she was 18 by jumping from a two-story parking garage she broke dozens of bones and is now littered with steel plates and screws under the skin as a kid I assumed that was just normal and eventually I would get some metal bones too until my grandma asked how my mom's past injuries felt in the winter she was asking if she had arthritis from the injuries specifically I had to ask my mom about it and I have never viewed her the same since as a 13 year old that had just begun taking antidepressants and therapy it hit the softest of soft spots I used to think she was basically a pillar being a single mom and working two jobs to scrape by and all that now she just seems so fragile : I am sincerely terrified of her attempting again I never want to see go like that she deserves better I am the only one of my siblings to actually be related to my dad my mom's husband time the eldest to clarify my parents were together for all-around births and divorced when I was 12 my youngest sibling was 8 my father doubted I was his child not my sisters and got paternity tests on all of us I'm the only one who is actually related yet another reason why I hate to go home my mother's monitor would be always turned in a way that I could not see what is on it but she did not realize everything did reflect clearly in the glass behind her this way I had to discover that she watched some really weird and messed up pee this is read it define messed up I have a few strange things about my family not many are dark though my grandmother had six children the last was an accident a product of her sleeping with a 15 year old Baba after she had my uncle she put him up for adoption but went back to get him two days later my aunt got pregnant at 15 and my grandmother brought her into an abortion clinic under the guise of it being a doctor's office my aunt had to run away for a few weeks until abortion wasn't an option that leads us to the next story about her daughter she gave birth to my cousin told her that our uncle a different one than one previously mentioned had physically shamed her as a kid my aunt did nothing about it this same uncle beat up his former wife because she couldn't get pregnant Ardi I barely remember her and cheated on her and got another woman pregnant he has two girls but their mother took them away around the same time the accusations came up about him physically shaming my cousin until recently we didn't know where they were but he found them the younger one is ignoring him the older one who I remember playing with is pretty cool but I think is a slight sociopath my older half sister's father was a coke addict and when given the choice chose the drugs over my mother and my sister they never met until a few years ago when she was a junior in high school about seven months before he died ofhat see my mother dated my father before my sister father and went back to him after they split I was makeup Frick baby about a month after I was born after being with my mother and helping with my sister he bailed he says my mother said I wasn't ace but I think he's just shifting blame my mother was abused as a kid beaten kicked out etc but that didn't stop her from being an abusive herself she thought as long as she didn't beat us it wasn't abuse she was very mentally abusive would blow up at anything and everything and make us feel like everything was our fault every failed relationship was because we scared them off made us feel like existing was ruining her life she trashed our rooms ruined friendships for example my mother got into a fight with her boyfriend about not wanting to give him a [ __ ] when my friend and I were in the next room she never came over after that when my sister's father died his caretaker and girlfriend was neglecting him he weighed 85 pounds when he died and was around five foot six my sister doesn't know TL DR you think your family is freaked up uncle physically shamed my cousin who was almost aborted another uncle is the baddest it is sperm my mom is an abuser in denial and my sister's dad wasted away before his death because his girlfriend was a psychopath my extremely homophobic uncle was a big crossdresser he always preaches about how God will punish America for allowing gay marriage but he was the biggest queen in the county he thinks no one knows but we all do my paternal great-grandparents emigrated from Germany because their whole family became Nazis rather high-ranking in the Vermont were some of them too I found out when I found an Iron Cross in my granddad's drawer when I was 15 I was accused of physical assault this came after having met a random girl outside a movie theater around my area trading numbers and then being called by the police several hours later saying that I was a suspect I was arrested later that night charged and held in remand for almost exactly a year including the trail it turned out to be exactly a year to the day funny how those things work out I dropped out of high school obviously had to resign from my part-time job while incarcerated a weird experience and to anyone outside of the family who knew me at a time I basically vanished off the face of the earth eventually at the end of the trial I was found not guilty glaring holes in her story DNA evidence showing no contact physical or otherwise etc and a really badly performed investigation by the police and went on my Mary my parents and family sacrificed a lot trying to get me out especially money-wise I'm 22 now and even to this day we're still feeling the effects parents are still working to pay off debt after a few years of denial heavy drinking and more than a few social embarrassments caused by my behavior I was diagnosed with panic disorder and major recurrent depression of these days only my family close family friends a few of my own friends and my fiance know when an article was printed about it some years after it had all happened a friend of mine who I had known for two years happened to see it and couldn't believe it I had forgotten that she didn't know since I don't really speak about it anymore my teen years were pretty surreal realized now that this isn't quite so much something that was hidden from me so much as it is me hiding it from other people if that would have happened she would have been given a prison sentence for false reporting and I would have sued the crap out of her for damages and pretty much try to ruin her life like she tried with mine that my brothers exclaimed someone to botched her became pregnant and gave the baby up for adoption yeah the baby is actually my brothers and to this day they perpetuate the debauchery life for some odd reason and pretty much everyone in the family knows it's my brother's child this happened to a buddy of mine but she kept the baby kind of a one-time deal after they had broken up she is married now to another dude and he treats the kid like his own good dude when I was 16 and sitting in some computer class in high school I decided it would be fun to hop on the diddler list and search my last name to see if I could find something humorous after about 15 minutes I found my favorite uncle had been convicted of chili P charges in Texas it was my mom's brother and I had no idea how to tell her so I told my dad and we agreed to keep it a secret a few days later an anonymous letter came to our house addressed to my mom detailing what I had found online five years later my uncle is in jail for kitty P and selling em saddest part is how this has destroyed my mom emotionally this was the uncle that I wanted to be when I grew up bought fast cars always had a pretty girl and now I can't even hear his name without thinking of what a piece of crap Nia's be TL DR found out my uncle was a PR file by accident my aunt's Phyllis and Sandy the ones that live together yet not sisters sandy wasn't my aunt in hindsight I'm amazed at how accepting my Ubik Affleck family grandmother and are different on to a Catholic school teachers was of their relationship they were invited to all family reunions and Christmas and we would visit them when we were in their town if you are new to the channel you can subscribe I publish new videos every day until then check another video bye for now

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Length: 24min 49sec (1489 seconds)

Published: Sat Jun 27 2020