Wedding turned into revenge party

how my best friend transformed his wedding into a huge revenge party this is one the best revenge stories I have ever heard and is even now years later constantly discussed when the subject wedding or awful mother-in-law comes up so my friend was together with his girl for a good six years at the time of the story it was roughly seven years ago but to make everything easier to formulate we assumed wedding day is today so I can just say three weeks ago when I mean three weeks before the wedding all on board the revenge train starts whoo-whoo then give you a bit of background the whole story plays in Germany where Mills family comes from my friends wives family is a Sindhi background now Sinti and Roma do have a bad reputation here in Germany they are called gypsies and supposedly are all scam artists which have no real home and travel around to be always two steps ahead of the law on their heels you get the picture but her family is actually really well-off in fact quite a bit richer than mill that she did not know that since instead of asking she decided that her prejudices are away better source of information then simply asking since all gypsies lie doncha no lives in Germany for well over 30 years and owned their own company that produces motor parts for several big car and truck companies now how much the company is worth is really Noel that important but to paint a picture they employ well over two hundred and fifty people just in production alone and on top of that all the other staff from it over clerks and whatnot Mills family is typical middle-class nothing much to say their dad works an office job and she works delivering medicine for a pharmacy a couple hours a week now since there was so much leading up to the wedding I just make a list instead of describing everything in detail I could easily make this five parts but most of what she did was typical just no behavior the first year of the relationship she pretty much ignored he had a girlfriend until she sees a photo and realizes to lose a few shades to brown for her taste which is pretty much a quote only she said in a way less friendly way I do not want her to repeat here I just give you one example she first thought she was Arabian and called her arrest a and EMI asterisk asterisk er isn't she so lovely friend then explained her being sin T and she lost it even worse it boiled down to her being a gold digger or a scam artists and constantly Swift's in between the two but friend has steel spine and it ended in her being in a timeout for six months which became over a year since every time she tried to force contact the timeout started again at zero once contact was established again Mill had realized open warfare was not something she could win so she decided to switch to guerrilla tactics the absolute highlight was creating two fake facebook profiles one for friend and one for his ex with which he had spent four years of his life she sent back and forth texts for months to create a fake affair Auden be thanked she made a great mistake my friend had four weeks prior afford a business trip for his company the texts basically claimed his ex had come with him and they had well des every night what mill did not know was that friend never went there it fell through a week prior and he took the days off instead to do a short trip with his girlfriend so he had the best possible alibi for the time otherwise I don't know what would have happened on the day Mel came into the house with printed out screenshots from that page at first girlfriend was devastated in P until they found the messages about the business trip in that moment both turned on mill who of course denied everything it landed her in nine months time out again the rest until the engagement was mostly back like constant hints she learned her lesson about n attacks and RT rants at least at her being not trustworthy bringing up news stories that showed sin T and a negative light et Cie point et Cie but since they where Elsie meeting twice a year and the one or other phone call she did not have many opportunities then came the engagement about one year before the wedding her family was over the moon of course they are very just eyes but describing them in detail to would make the story too long while mill had a complete meltdown over the phone worst sentence was he would stop this wedding and if it is the last thing she would do in her life the actual wet planning began and it was a total show when she was asked for an address list she actually gave them full sir dresses in the hopes once the cards would have been returned it would be too late to send a new batch to the actual addresses of course the cards came back within a week and this time they were smart enough to ask someone else for the addresses and simply did not tell her she started a rumour campaign that was at least partially successful so the contact to his side of the family got worse and worse she tried to just cancel the flowers but since the florist knew the bride in person he called her to confirm after that everything was secured with passwords this way they found out she also tried to cancel the venue change the whole menu most of bride's side of the family are vegetarian and she tried to change it to an elite menu and other shenanigans finally came the thing that made my friend and his fiancee snap and decided it is time to show the bee who is boss he had found out thanks to his brother who had volunteered to work as a saw in the enemy camp he acted like he was on his mother's side when in reality he was firmly in his brother camp that all the women on his side planned to come in black morning clothes to make it clear this was not a day of joy for them but a day of mourning since her son made the biggest mistake of his life but since they wanted to embarrass her to the bone they acted as if they knew nothing and decided to exact their revenge on the wedding day important this was a good four months before the wedding so it gave them ample time to plan so they day of the wedding comes all the guests have entered the church and are sitting down the guests are informed that the wedding party would be late by about half an hour but they would show a DVD in the mean time and that DVD was explosive they had collected evidence and witness accounts - telling exactly how sneaky MIL had tried to sabotage the wedding it started with an account of the food deliverer that she had tried several times to change the menu followed by the florist story how she had tried to cancel all the flowers for the wedding including a message she left on the answering machine trying to act like she was dill but everybody knowing her could hear it was her up to this point nor had been shocked in silence but the next part would change that either groom's brother had secretly recorded how she trash-talked and lied about bill to everybody who would listen to her on skype brother simply installed spy software that recorded everything emails skype etc and created a highlight reel once she started to hear those words she suddenly screeched like a banshee and stormed to the front to stop that DVD but they had anticipated that before she could get even close three gentlemen closed in earlier and told to either sit down or she would be escorted of the premise the film only went on for a rather three or so minutes anyway so till they had escorted her back to her place where was the family in all this they had already had a full showing of the video the day before but we're sworn to secrecy so they acted as normal as they could tell the DVD started then just shot daggers with their eyes now once the film was over the father went to the altar with his wife and addressed the family of the groom he told them the following our daughter could have accepted they do not like her and had tried for years to get a good relationship with all of you especially with mill again there are so many smaller things I had to leave out but to no avail she was either insulted or shut down finally they started to plan the wedding and mill was trying everything to ruin this very special day for the two and they finally had enough so the couple has decided your side of the family does not deserve to be at the wedding I hereby inform you that there will not be a wedding today at all months ago they have changed everything to a different date my daughter and your son have married a week ago at location and let you believe the wedding would be today that way we could ensure there are no further evil plans to ruin this young Coop's wedding and we all had a wonderful wedding without any of you there it was a day of joy and a day where everybody was happy for the couple and supportive right now they are already on their honeymoon and will return in four weeks since the wedding was so much smaller than originally planned they had a way bigger budget for that once they returned they do not want any contact with any of you for a year after that they are ready to get into contact again under certain requirement which you will be told once the year is over as mill we'll be able to confirm they will do this very strict any attempt to contact them in any form leads to the perpetrators here start again at zero I suggest you take the year to reflect on your behavior and decide what is more important to you to have friend in your life or to treat my daughter badly because right now he is ready to cut contact for good but I talked him into giving you one last chance friends family stayed very silent during this speech probably shocked and embarrassed into silence PS Mill was not the only one in the family treating dill badly but she was the reason for it they are back in contact with most of the family but definitely not Mel after the year was over some sheepishly apologized and told the couple about all the lies they we're told but brother could slowly but surely using his evidence show the family how she triangulated lied trick DTC pointy CC pointy TC today mill as a pariah for at least 80 percent of the family I used to manage a catering company for my boss while he was undergoing chemotherapy this is one of my first gigs where I was in charge the bride calls me at 1:00 in the afternoon the day before the wedding and decides she wanted a cheaper menu she and her husband already paid for almost everything and it's far too late to change anything I told her that but she started throwing up fit saying that she wants to change the steak to a chicken and demanded we either serve chicken or charge her the price of a chicken and she will not be paying for anything extra I informed her that according to the contract she is to receive 150 steak lunches at a price of 50 per plate and it also states that she can't change the menu unless she does it at least a month before the wedding when she hears this she flips the hell out and starts screaming at me calling me illiterate and telling me her fiance is a lawyer and they will sue me etc etc she handed the phone over to her fiance and he also started screaming at me saying it's his damn wedding and he can have whatever he wants they end up firing me at the moment and I informed them that the cancellation fee is 90% of the cost of catering which I was already paid for and they start screaming at me telling me that I ain't and they can get anyone to cater for them and they are going to make me pay for it etc they end up hanging up on me thank God and I had an inkling that I should probably keep making the food in case they call tomorrow and they want us to cater so we finish cooking and the next day at 7:00 a.m. I get a call from the groom and he demands that I come down there to cater the wedding or they are gonna sue me for not providing service I calmly tell the guy that they terminated the contract yesterday and as per the termination clause on the contract we are entitled to keep 90 percent of the entire cost of catering he is raging he didn't say anything but I can feel how mad he is over the firm after a moment of awkward silence I inform him that if he would like us to cater the event he has to do same-day catering which is three times the original price I charged him he has to pay all fees in advance and the food depends on what we have available and ready and we also reserve the right to refuse service he gets really pay off at this point telling us this is extortion he already paid for food so he didn't have to pay again I informed him again of the termination clause and also informed him that the food was for a previous contract and that contract had ended and he would have to pay for it again he ended up starting a new contract with us and for three times the original price he tried to change the menu again just to spite me but I then made sure he knew I reserve the right to refuse service he and his Britta's illah kept everything the same down to the baby carrots and of course the steak whole while paying me three times the original price if they had just stuck with the original contract as soon as we got to the venue before I got anything out I made the bride and groom sign the new contract and pay me completely in advance 22k and left to deposit the money while I was gone they harassed my caterers and threatened someone with deportation even though they were legal he tried to sue us later and the judge heard the recorded phone calls saw the contract and told him to pay my legal fees I looked them up on Facebook recently apparently they are divorce now it's only been three years first I would like to start out by saying that I'm not trying to defend my brother in any way I'm mad at him too and that's why I'm posting here my brother has been married to a wonderful woman for six years now a couple of months ago a courier delivered an envelope to my house I was at work but my wife was home and she called me after she opened it inside the envelope was a wedding photo of my brother and his wife there were also two dozen other photos of my brother and another different woman in compromising positions like the two of them walking hand-in-hand outside an apartment them in robes on the apartment balcony them together in a restaurant arm and arm etc the other woman was circled in all the photos and there was things written on the pictures like not his wife and she knows he is married besides the photos there was a photo of an email where my brother is telling someone how hot and s she is and how his wife is clueless my brother had been having an affair and his wife found out somehow he thinks he left the m/l open on their laptop accidentally and she saw it but he isn't sure his wife sent an envelope like the one I got to my parents and our other brother and several of our family members she also sent them to the other woman's parents and family to a few dozen of their co-workers my brother met her at work the president of the company several of their friends as well as people from my brother's church which myself my wife my parents and other members of our family attend also the other woman and my brother got their envelopes at work at the same time as their co-workers and my brother was served with divorce papers as well when he went home his wife and her stuff was gone and he hasn't seen or spoken to her since he left for work that day because she changed her phone number and email address and he doesn't know where she is staying her work is not somewhere you can just walk into either they only communicate through their lawyers none of us have seen or spoken to her either now as if this wasn't enough the other woman is pregnant and she has moved into the condo my brother had lived in with his wife my brother had been paying for her apartment before she moved in with him my brother will always my brother but right now I'm so mad at him and embarrassed for our family his wife was a good person and he had no reason to cheat if he wanted out he could have left her first instead of running around I don't agree with how his wife publicly outed him though I understand she was upset but this caused so much embarrassment however I have no control over that as I said I'm mad at my brother and my parents are embarrassed beyond belief most of my family is mad at my brother but some of them are madder than others and there is disagreement as to how mad people should be and how wrong he is it's not easy for me to stay out of the disagreeing and fighting because it involves everyone around me am i right to be mad at my brother how can I help my parents get over their anger and embarrassment or at least make them feel better how should I deal with all the family drama like I said I love my brother but I'm angry at him and don't know how to help my family

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Length: 16min 32sec (992 seconds)

Published: Sun Feb 09 2020