Grandad left inheritance to his sons according to the time they spent with him

[Music] this story is a story of a good friend of mine grandfather and how he dealt with his inheritance in a very unique way he had two sons and each of them also had two sons in the last half year of his life my friend and me visited him every morning and every evening you see he did not want to go into a retirement home and apart from getting ready in the morning and in the evening he did not really need help now i need to explain something real quick back in the day we still have mandatory service in the army for 12 months but there was several way around it i will only explain the most common way since it is connected to our story you see instead of going to the army you could say you refused to go to the army for ethical reasons which was really just a formality you simply wrote a one-page essay why you think you being in the army would violate your personal ethics and they pretty much had to accept it but that meant you had to go into civil service civil service could be any kind of job that in a wider sense is a service to society so these jobs ranged from kindergarten to retirement homes and anything in between like hospitals homes for the physically or mentally disabled meals on wheels pretty much anything you can imagine you would be paid for that time the same amount of money you would get in the army and had the right to certain perks like a free room health insurance work clothes etc the same stuff any soldier gets plus since soldiers get free food you either got free food or a food allowance i did my time in a retirement home and it was an awesome experience i think a job like that really widens your horizon as young arrogant [ __ ] and really matures you and shows you what is actually important in life back to the story i was just done with my time in the retirement home and for one year imply wanted to job around and make some money then one of my best friends comes to me and tells me he needs my help his grandpa can no longer do everything by himself but really only needs help in the morning to get ready and in the evening since i have learned how to do this from real professionals he asks me to show him so his grandpa does not yet have to go into a retirement home he later admitted grandpa said he would rather k himself then get into a nursing home and he seemed really serious about it he did not tell me at the time since he did not want to pressure me into help like that which i really appreciated he was one of my best friends and i really liked his grandpa when i was younger i did not have a grandpa but we visited him all the time and i became his unofficial fifth grandson so of course i said yes the original plan was to show him for two to three weeks and then observe him for another two to three weeks then he would do it on his own but we ended up doing it together for over half a year then grandpa had a stroke and died within two days in the hospital two days later my friend asked me to come with him to the lawyer where the will would be spread his grandfather had specifically asked that his will should be read the day before he gets buried which is quite unusual but not illegal as such i asked why he anteed me there and he told me the lawyer had officially invited me since grandpa had left me something as a thank you for my service i was a bit embarrassed but also happy that grandpa had thought so highly of my service he even put me in his last will now my friend's dad is an entitled [ __ ] and the same goes for his uncle we arrived there and went into the room my friend is f you get three guesses whom he is entitled dad is it an entitled uncle is you ed to me why the hell are you here i know that dad called you ingest his fifth grandkid but this is for real family eu i bet the little gold iger hoped he would get some money in the will me i was asked to be here by the lawyer take it up with him i have no idea why i'm here ed if you pulled something to get to his money i will sue you so hard even your kids will still need lawyers f show some respect and stop shouting i know you two did not really give a [ __ ] about your dad but show at least a minimum of respect eu how dare you talk like that to your elders you little [ __ ] f you two get exactly as much respect from me as you showed your own father none he really shouted so last word and it finally shut the two up we sat down and still had to wait for the other two grandkids to arrive the two sat right behind us and what they talked about relay made my blood boil apparently they had both gotten new cars new jewelry for the wife and had planned a huge holiday all that was paid for by credit and they had planned to pay for it with the inheritance none of them said even a word about missing him being sad that he died nothing only me me me and money money money they seemed to be in competition who could spend the inheritance faster the way they planned away the money then finally we were all there and the lair read out a short letter what i tell you here is a much shortened version but the real thing was several pages but it boils down to this in recent years i more and more realized that some people in my family cared a lot more about me than others i'm especially disappointed in my two sons but i wanted to be really fair and not biased so i came up with a point system letter phone call one point plus one extra if it is very long visit two points per hour plus one point per hour of travel to me and back helping me out with something three points per hour this is the final result over the last three years of my life ed eight points eu ten points eu kid won 150 points eu kid 2 133 points f brother 288 points f 73 41 me 58.83 my lawyer has already liquidated most of my assets except the house once it is sold the money will be divided by the points so we know what each point is worth and then every person gets a share of the money according to his points for about a minute you could hear a pin drop then both ed and eu started shouting at the same time that they knew we would have pulled something and this will would never stand of course they tried to sue eu his kids and dead together but they lost and there was a secret clause not really secret it was simply not read to us that day so nobody realized it was in there since we all assumed everything was read to us on that day by the lawyer in the will that if someone sues against the will he loses his share of the inheritance it took nearly three years until all the lawsuits were over i was blown away when we finally got the money i am not naming a some but it was way more than i felt comfortable accepting so i wanted to give at least some of it to the other three grandkids but my friend finally convinced me to accept by saying to me you cared for him when he needed you without expecting anything for it which makes you ten times more his family than any of those duckers they got what they deserved background i work in a fast-paced healthcare environment where every minute counts and i have both male and female co-workers on my shift we have lockers with opaque doors where we are allowed to store our things when i'm in the office area i leave mine unlocked for easy access and i've started keeping a box of tampons in my locker i've told my female co-workers if they are in a hurry and need a tampon they are welcome to just open my locker when it's unlocked and i'm in the office and take one no problem i got called into my boss's office the other day because a male cow walker of mine complained that me keeping tampons in my locker was disgusting and he hated that he could see the box whenever my locker was opened my boss a male told me that some men were really sensitive to this type of thing and that i should try hiding them in a different type of box so i wouldn't offend my coworkers i asked what the point was because my coworkers would see someone reaching into a cracker slash pop-tarts etc box and taking out a tampon instead of food anyway my boss got all huffy and told me that it was for the best and i needed to do it well fine i made a cover for my tampon box that said mother earth's bloody nutrients bars with extra gooey nutritious filling with a photo of a bloody bathtub and placed it on the box that was two days ago and i saw the male co-worker open my locker trying to be sneaky and he paled when he read the box got all angry and i received an email from my boss that my cover wasn't funny and that i need to take it down so i emailed our hour person a copy of the ml as well as a summary of what happened and photos of the lockers the box and the cover i also suggested that the male coworker sit somewhere where he didn't have a direct line of sight to my locker if it really offended him so much she thought it was freaking hilarious and said i followed my supervisor's instructions and so i was fine nothing else has been done yet and i'm mostly angry that my time was spent on something as stupid as this and not on patient work the box of tampons i spend maybe three minutes on it so it does not look good fair warning let me first give you some background so you get here people are coming from my father has left a few years prior mum bought a small house from the money from the divorce and a few months before has gotten herself a boyfriend at first i was truly happy she had moved on but soon i realized she has fallen for some real piece of [ __ ] now you need to understand my father was an alcoholic and a narcissist so my mum's normal meter was truly broken anybody treating her halfway decent must have appeared like prince charming to her so please do not judge her too harshly for her choice i don't now he was not only halfway decent he really treated her well though he was anatomy brought her flowers went out to eat regularly etc but what i realized and she did not was that he was a parasite he had maybe 100 bucks to his name and his only income as support from the state a couple hundred bucks now i already hear you ask how did he afford flowers and going out by living rent-free and have all his costs paid for till he gets back on his feet one last thing as the headline already told you he soon started to show an immense entitlement towards me basically he said this is his house so i now have to follow his rules of course i told him this is my mom's house not his and i do not have to do jack [ __ ] unless mom tells me so he took that really badly since he had an ego problem as you probably already guessed i tried to tell my mum that she would not believe me since he always acted very nice to me when she was around but as soon as she was know the cold war started he pulled a lot of small [ __ ] like demanding in a patronizing voice i bring him some beer while watching tv with me while mum was on the loo when she came back he told her he had asked me nicely to bring him a beer when i stood up to get something but i refused insulted him and sat back down so of course she told me to apologize and get him beer i tried to explain but she would not let me so he kept pulling petty [ __ ] to establish dominance after this whole story i asked my mum why she would always believe him and not let me explain apparently he had told her i was super jealous he was in the house and wanted to get rid of him by trying to make him look bad so she backed him to show me he is not going anywhere time for the main act i had gone out the night through friday to saturday and had come back at 3am my mum was gone over the weekend and he ducking exploded how dare i disrespect him like that coming home this late i told him calmly he does not get to declares a curfew for me and my mum allows me coming home this late which is true provided i stayed at the house of three specific people i'm friend with and whose parents are my mom's friends he flipped out even more and called me a dirty liar he then gave me the classic as long as you put my legs under his table and me being a smartest of course answered this is my mum's in my house you are a guest here he screamed at me he is gonna kick me out of the house and i will not be allowed back till my mum returns i screamed back he cannot do that since this is not his house i threatened to call my mum he emboldened by her backing him up all the time told me to do just that but i better not lie to her and tell her what is actually happening i put her on speaker and told her he is trying to kick me out of the house till you come back monday it was saturday she did not believe me and told me to put him on the line so he started by telling her i disrespected him as the man of the house by coming home so late and then lying to him about this being okay when i stay at friend's house and that i need to learn to respect him so it is up to him how he disciplines me since she is not there then he lied and said he told me to be home by 1am for the first time he let his mask slip and she picked up on it right away so let me get this straight i allow my son to be out till 3 but you think you get to overrule my decision on my son and now you think you get to kick my son out of his house he realized he ducked up he tried to get her to take his side but only dug this hole deeper him well he keeps not respecting me in my own house if you let him win now he will never respect me huh and you think the right punishment for disrespect is to kick him out for two days him yes finally you get it i knew you would come around uh well he did nothing wrong since he was allowed to go out that long you have no right just to overrule my decisions on my son him but uh i'm not done apparently you think the right punishment for your disrespect is to kick you out till monday him but i only have 100 bucks this is not fair where am i supposed to go i'm sure my son had even less money and you did not give a [ __ ] you got 30 minutes to leave i told the neighbor to check if you are still here in half an hour he will call the police and have you trespassed when i come home monday we will talk i'm such an idiot that i kept believing you over my son once mom came home i told hannah how he kept pulling this [ __ ] on me and she was so sorry she kept backing him up i had tried to tell her many times he treated me exactly like my father did when she was not around one major reason for their divorce but since he treated her so differently and acted so differently than my father she believed him that i was jealous and tried to get rid of him but when she heard him say these words my father said so many times you owe me respect since you live in my house she suddenly realized i was telling the truth all along while he was the liar that is why she got so furious so fast she never realized how badly he really treated me and how entitled he acted since had hidden it so well before but when he started to talk about deserving respect in his own house something my father kept saying from me a house he did not put penny into but was somehow his even worse was thinking he could overrule her on her own son my father kept overruling her decisions so she finally saw through him and got all the evidence she needed i was telling the truth all along they broke up that monday he never even got back into the house they met for a coffee and she demanded her keys back originally she wanted to give him a month but when she entered the bar they met at he right away started to scream at her how dare she kick him out of the house like this and that now he would never get the respect from mimi he is entitled to so she told him she is only here to ask for her he's back and that they are through [Music] [Music] do [Music] you

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Length: 17min 12sec (1032 seconds)

Published: Thu Dec 24 2020