Run, Babe: 7 Types of Men to AVOID Dating

that's no good hello guys welcome back to my channel welcome to my channel okay for all of my new subscribers all of my 18 oh geez you guys already know what's up I'm back at it again with another video guys as you could see I've been on a roll here yes I've gotten my life together a little bit completely we've got a hang on things right now for those of you that may not notice I am building a schedule where I am going to be uploading on Sunday Wednesdays and Fridays if that is my current schedule for right now mix them with some more fun content that I will be dropping as well but you won't know about them if you are not signed up for my mailing list so make sure that you are signed up for the a list the link for that will be in the description box below also do not forget to follow me on Instagram mm-hmm and do not forget of course if you are not subscribed and this is the first video that you are seeing of mine hello how are you my name is H or Christina very nice to meet you welcome to the 18 angel sit back relax binge watch my videos I've made some great new content for you guys no further ado let's jump right on into this video we are still in quarantine ladies don't let your loneliness get to you I'm gonna break down the types of men that you guys should be avoiding this is in no particular order well let's start with number one late night Lance yes always calling at dark thirty because he knows that you are going to pick up we are more vulnerable at night I mean seriously that's why what did they say sometimes the best conversations do happen at night but for the most part it's usually some sort of hotline if you will right things get more steamy easily at night our guards down we're disarmed half of us are in bed no makeup pimple cream on who knows which is more vulnerable and then you have Lance texting you yo you up hey um yeah what's up can't sleep that's crazy because you know I was thing about you all David oh no I just I don't want to go to sleep and not say what's up and then here you go sucked back down the drain again oh my god I can't leave he's thinking about me it's such a precious hour and like girl stuff stay away from late night Lance he's taking advantage of the fact that he knows you're going to answer him he knows you're more vulnerable okay it's dark thirty no more with that next we have chaos and confusion Chris does boyfriend thanks for you but refuses to make you his girlfriend but you're upset because you are always feeling uncomfortable to bring things up because you know you're not his girlfriend yet he says he's not ready but he doesn't want to lose you at the same time aka manipulating you keeping a hold on you while not wanting to commit in this type of dynamic all you're going to feel is confused with this person and that within itself isn't answer ladies can't communicate Cory it's literally like talking to a wall with this guy I mean emotionally unavailable is not even the word you can't get anything out of this guy he dodges every conversation and he has mastered the art of being very vague all of his answers are seemingly just enough to answer your question but then once he's done talking to you and sneaks his way out of the conversation you feel emptier than you did when you came because I mean at least when you were gonna address whatever you were going to address him at first you had a strong standpoint but then he opened his mouth and you're just even more confused and what does this do this type of dynamic makes you work harder because whatever you chase runs and in that type of dynamic you're going to find yourself very tired and emotionally bankrupt by time he's done with you and disposes of you because you are working to get something out of this man now the issue with this type of individual is he doesn't see an issue with his behavior or his communication style and why is that a problem because you can't change what you're not acknowledging if you don't think there's an issue it's not gonna get solved and then we have don't define anything Devin oh how many of us have been in a situation with this guy and I say a situation because it's never a relationship this guy is how to get into a situation ship 101 in this type of dynamometers no red tape there's no defining term and what does that allow what does that enable that means oh no accountability all at the Grand expense of your feelings stay away from guys that refuse to define anything when you don't have a definition for something it is a breeding for deceits and lies in any sort of dynamic this even goes with friendships oh I don't really know if their participation or not but like I don't know like sometimes we're like a frenemy to me like no no such thing in relationships and relational leaves certain things are black and white when it comes to defining things are we friends yes or no that's it there's no us sometimes no are we together yes or no that is it are you interested yes or no okay to what degree let me know are we on the same page these all require answers when you are with someone who refuses to define anything you are going to run into a plethora of issues and this again will leave you emotionally bankrupt because I'm gonna tell you how this is gonna go babe you're gonna get frustrated you're going to be upset that you even let yourself get that deep into it without defining anything because you think okay well first month in oh I don't want to rush him but I do like him and of course a month goes in you feel like the vibes are aligned you guys are vibing on the same frequency and then lo and behold you turn around six months has gone by and you're still not this guy's girlfriend and I don't know why ideologue eyes have mastered the art of being consistent enough to hold us where we are and then one day they drop the ball cuz they can't keep the act up anymore and they naturally go find someone new and they feel like they have you in a good enough position which they do actually because now your emotions are at stake where they can do whatever they want kind of and get away with it while still potentially keeping you there it's not as high of a risk when you have someone that refuses to define something with you don't try to force someone to be in anything with you they're either going to once you are not once their address with the question okay like I'm just wondering like what are we whatever the case is however you do it however it comes about and they want to give you the you know I don't really believe in titles I feel like let's just kind of see where things go and keep things where they are because I feel like we're fine like we're good with where we are and I just feel like sometimes when you put titles on things it just for some reason it just really messes things up yeah okay these are the same types of guys that don't want to get married because it's a piece of paper no it's a to God you get a literal certificate for it by the states it is a very serious thing it is a vow and if you are a human being with some sort of moral integrity or understanding even if you do not want to get married you have that understanding even though you may not partake that is not for you to minimize the significance of a marriage license and getting married I even wonder people that have commitment issues have commitment issues in many different areas and be careful because it may not be in the areas that you guys assume you will think Oh super successful guy I mean it has to be committed to something he does make a pretty decent living for himself but then these people are inconsistent in their own personal goals some people just happen to be really good at making money but in otherwise they could have maybe weight issues that they are very inconsistent with and that is something that they are not broadcasting but it's very real to them they could be inconsistent in so many different variables and so many differing zhh in their life sometimes it's just so easy to look at an individual success and sort of assume that they have it all together next we have playing or player Peter and understand this people that are not of value or do not consider them selves a you will never understand your value it's just not possible because if you don't value anything it's just like some people like the idea of nice things but they don't know how to handle it so they mistreat it they misuse they lose it because they can't handle what it is that they thought that they wanted when it comes to players it is impossible to get to know them on a deeper level they're not even connected with themselves nine times out of ten people that are players are going through hopefully a phase and some men that are still doing this into their 50s and even 40s and up that tells you a lot about that person I don't know what this thing is sidebar of guys bragging about being 40 45 years old and even older how dare they on these dating apps talking about never be married no kids it's like congratulations for literally broadcasting what a failure we are there's a disconnect there like a guy even told me this one time a guy over 35 that is literally not married never been married or anything that's a red flag and I'm talking to the people that traditionally believe in you know in marriage - what are you doing that is not something to broadcast that tells me that there is something deficient in you and it must be great have you been working on a project for a majority of your life that you were unable to settle down with one person I mean literally for goodness sake Mark Zuckerberg was able to literally create Facebook while simultaneously maintaining having a girlfriend I don't know if he's still with her but probably he is like yeah I'm sure you can make it work aside from never being able to know these people on a deeper level these people don't even stick around long enough to even open up they form very artificial relationships with people because what to form a genuine connection with someone what do you have to do it takes time it takes relationship building which is bonding and these are things that people that are emotionally deficient and emotionally unavailable they are not capable of doing these types of things they cannot participate in that type of party it is just simply too much for their little peeny brain they're not in the head space especially now talking about younger guys especially you know late teens into early 20s or 20s period okay they are not in the head space to commit to one person all the time so what are they gonna do they're going to be here they're everywhere all around the square because they don't want to form deeper bonds of people because they're not in a space where they're trying to really uncover themselves it takes true self work and realization and it's a sobering moment to sit with yourself stop numbing yourself in the drugs in the alcohol in whatever your vice is in the sex and sit with yourself and ask yourself why am i this I don't want to run through you know these girls that is someone's sister daughter whatever the case is do you want it to happen to you it really just makes you call into question these people that do these things that hurt people they are going through something so a player that's in his 20s more than likely it is a phase and it will settle out but you do not want to be in the crossfire this type of individual and expect more out of them than they can give because right now they're running from you and they're running from themselves players are not focus right they're not focused they're just on to the next on to the next lesson next what can I get today they're living literally for the day hide and seek Harry okay tells you he hates social media refuses to let you put a picture of him every picture that you upload of him always seems to be blurry because he's always sort of in motion to something else because he didn't really want you to take that picture girl he didn't really want to be in it and every time you upload him you are uploading him too close friends he won't even let you do it on your regular profile probably doesn't even follow you on Instagram and you think that this is literally your boyfriend I see things like this happen all the time and I'm not judging but I genuinely feel bad for girls that are in situations like this where it's so obvious what's going on from the outside looking in it's like girls he's playing you he's flip-flopping between you and the real girlfriend or the other girlfriend he is playing the both of you I don't care what you think he's telling you he's either at his baby mother's house or he's at some other girl's house like it's drama for a reason there's a reason why you can't upload a regular picture of him because he doesn't do social media and he doesn't like broadcasting his business because he doesn't want people in it there really is a difference between an individual who genuinely just doesn't want to post their partner on social media like myself like I'm very private in that aspect I would not post my partner on social media however I know the difference and he would know the difference that I'm not hiding you this is just naturally how I am I'm a private person but you can feel intuitively when that's not really the case now is it right because you're still uploading it you're just uploading it to close friends now why is that and and why can't he seem to sit still long enough for you to get a still picture of the both of you why is it always him in motion or him looking in a completely different like he's never like there with you he's never attempted to take a photo with you it is always out of course some sort of coercion and for those guys that want to use that excuse all social media doesn't matter no here's why social media actually s'matter social media is a platform where people post their best lives that's what you want to show the world your friends your family so yeah it actually does matter to a certain degree because if you don't want to post or you won't allow someone to post you that you are in a legitimate relationship with we have a problem and it's not in Houston and also it's not Instagram either Instagram isn't your problem it's just that you don't want to be seen anywhere because you want to hide in the shadows because you don't want anyone tracking you and seeing oh ok yesterday she posted a picture in your bathroom now you don't want this girl to post another photo in your bathroom because you know we as woman we're the FBI we have a family you want to be we put two and two together why is a brick in the back one of them's green and I know I know that's his place and she she posted that when I was just there on Thursday and she posted this on Thursday night I let her say morning is he said and then you do all this FBI work and it's like you two are still with him you three are still with him however many of there are you you're also with him fighting for you know America's Next Top Model with this guy like I don't know what type of games you guys are playing but literally stop it's ridiculous now I'm embarrassed for you all is not lost if you literally just put an end to it now like an end to that relationship that situation ship because it's not a relationship this guy does not want to broadcast you for a reason even be careful of being in a controlled environment all the time where he knows who he's not gonna run into when he sees you he's always dodging you all the time if you dare bring up any of these sort of thing he's gonna do what most you not speak to you for three days okay maybe even a we make you feel crazy because he's manipulating you so that you apologize for you being offended that he won't even post you to begin with and then it turns now into you being upset legitimately at something and him ignoring you to the point of crazy insanity where you are apologizing for something that you did not even do when you were the one that was actually offended when someone isn't even asking you why you were behaving a certain way is a sign someone that genuinely cares for you and wants to be with you is always going to approach the situation from a why they're not just gonna say you're acting crazy honestly I'm done with you if someone loves you and they're in love with you they're going to say why are you acting like this you know that I love you how can we make this work it's not gonna be name-calling and walking away and I'm so mad at you I'm not gonna speak to you for a week because that just kind of means we're on a break by default and like we're not even really on a break because I'm not in with you like it's just you know what I mean and lastly we're gonna talk about the typical cheating chase this guy has a girlfriend he probably has a baby mother and he complains to you about how he's unsatisfied at home and how they're breaking up and they live like roommates they don't even sleep in the same bed anymore he like sleeps on the couch and like they barely even talk they're just living together and cohabitating for the baby or they're just living together until their lease is up save it no man is living in a home with a woman and I'm not saying it's impossible so calm down calm down over there in the comments settle down now let me explain the rest of my point thank you typically these guys they may be having issues but they're not going to leave same for even married men cuz cheating is cheating it all across the board wife girlfriend whatever because that means that you were in a commitment where you can be held accountable there is a line of red tape that says this person found out that I was doing this they wouldn't be too happy you wouldn't feel any outs of guilt or accountability for someone that you're not even with it's like whole weight on hold on a second I'm like not even with you so I'm very confused her and what's going on you feel more comfortable saying that as opposed to yes I literally just cheated on you yesterday because I was bored and I was kind of upset with you and this is how I handle my anger I literally go and I splurge and I deep dive into other girls lady parts because I don't know how to deal with my emotions I mean and even then you kind of you would honestly be lucky if you even got such an explanation because not only is that the truth but if someone's able to reveal the truth he's still workable they're a little pliable but let's be realistic here 9 times out of 10 many times out of many if I'd even make sign these types of guys that are complaining to you about their difficult situation with their girlfriend and she knows they're not together and she does her own thing too they are lying to you do not fall for it don't be the type of girl that's dating the guy who's living with his girlfriend his baby mother or his wife and think that you are going to be an exception to the rule your situation is also different it is not I can assure you coz let me tell you something sweetheart if he's gonna cheat with you he's gonna cheat on you and once you conquer that individual and you feel like yes I knew he loved me finally got him to get with me then guess what now that worried that you were a part of or the other girl is going to become your main priority and your main concern you're not going to sell off into the sunset and never have the fear that what you were a part of you are exempt from so never feel comfortable being in that sort of position and a lot of women who pride in their type is just whatever isn't theirs whatever doesn't belong to them these people have serious issues they love the idea of taking from someone as opposed to feeling like they rightfully earned that individual their perception of earning an individual is taking something from someone else and that's airtight you can't build a solid foundation on something like that it doesn't work like that how's it happen probably of course everything is circumstantial but for the majority I don't think anyone would choose to be in a situation like that so angels that is the end of this video I really hope that you guys have enjoyed it let me know in the comments below what guy you have encountered out of all these people that you learned your lesson from and that you are gonna stay away from for the rest of your life I want to know in the comment section below with that being said do not forget that I love you and God loves you and I'll see you beautiful angels in my next video

Channel: Asha Christina

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Length: 19min 28sec (1168 seconds)

Published: Tue Apr 28 2020