My Entitled Sister in Law from Hell

[Music] what is your brother sister-in-law horror story I could write the whole novel on this piece of work and if people want I will boast more stories I speak English and I'm on desktop there won't be as much back and forth dialog here because this was a whole ducting experience that lasted months cast s entitled sister-in-law W girlfriend wife M me this all started shortly after W and I started dating we were both in the military and I had just moved off base she was living with me but technically still lived in the dorms while visiting her family one weekend they were only a couple of hours from our base she gets a call from s telling her that her husband is leaving her and taking the kids and she needs somewhere to stay while she saves money to get them back W asks me if I would be okay with it and stresses that she won't be upset if I say no I'm pretty sure that the next words out of my mouth are responsible for how bad everything became she is your sister how bad can she be fast forward a couple weeks and she shows up she immediately gives me the cold shoulder and I get the impression that she thinks that I'm living with W not the other way around I tell her she is free to stay as long as she needs so she can get back on her feet and get her kids a couple of weeks later this exchange happens paraphrased it was nearly 15 years ago s I'm so happy I found out I qualify for financing for a new laptop M well you're not going to buy it right now right you said you were saving money to get your kids back s oh yeah no I'm not buying it right now that I can get one when I'm back on my feet M okay cool two days later s my package shipped today M what package s my new laptop I should note that she already had a perfectly functioning laptop when she arrived I'm very non-confrontational so I didn't say anything that I was fee as was W over the next two months she continues to buy crap she doesn't need such as DVDs and crap for her room she realized she was homosexual shortly before moving in with us and bought every rainbow thing imaginable to advertise it basically blowing money left and right christmas comes around and she tells us that her ex isn't bringing the kids to her parents for the holidays like he agreed and she needed money to go see them where they were living us being the easily manipulated Schmucks we were at the time gave her two hundred and fifty dollars to go she never went but we didn't get the money back during this whole time she wasn't paying any rental bills nor was he pulling her weight around the house she also adopted a stray cat that happened to show up one day in our apartment complex she set up the litter box in her bathroom which we never entered because we had our road this will be important later after a few more months of her mooching off of us treating us like crap and generally being a bad person on all around as well as not saving a dime to get her kids but bringing them up every time she thought it would get her what she wants I finally had enough W and I have a talk and agree that she either has to start helping out around the apartment or paying her share of the rent and utilities W goes to tell her this I go to my office to work for a while and stay out of it a little while later I see s head outside to smoke and go ask w how it went M what did she say W fuming she said that she would rather live in her car be a maid to a couple of slobs like us m grinning from ear to ear okay then I then head to our balcony door and tell her that I expect her out by Friday she decides to move in with her then girlfriend and tells her mom that I was an idiot and kicked her out it took a while for her mom to like me again after that despite W constant protestations about what actually happened it wasn't until s lived with her for a few years that had changed but that is a future story after she leaves we go into the bathroom for the first time in six months and there is cat poo from one wall to the other it looks like she never cleaned the litter box and a lot of it had dried it was disgusting she had kept the exhaust fan on at all times in there and our other cat had a bad habit of not burying his when he went in his litter box so we hadn't noticed the smell which honestly still surprises me to this day that took a whole day to clean and get back to a usable State and she had been using it every day when we went to clean out the room she was staying and we found that her cat hatch in her bed as well she had started sleeping on our couch the last month she was there and we hadn't thought anything of it this explained why she also left her cat behind when she left we had no problem with that because her cat was adorable after she moved out we noticed that a cat had trouble walking and was having digestive problems we took her to the vet and told us that it looked like she had been kicked at some point and that her hip had broken then healed wrong and was causing an obstruction to her bowel we spent several hundred dollars trying to remedy it but in the end we had to put it asleep I have no proof but I'm almost positive ested that to her at some point probably when she shown her bed shortly after moving in with her girlfriend they broke up and her girlfriend kicked her out she told her mom some sob story about how her girlfriend took all of her money and she needed somewhere to stay so her mom and stepdad came to move her down to their home W went to help load the truck and they found that she hadn't even started packing it took them the whole weekend to get her packed and moved with at least she was out of a life for awhile I'll end the saga there for now I can tell you right now that it did not get better in fact it got much much worse and in the end we actually helped our ex brother-in-law get full custody of their two kids during that process we found out that she already had the kids when she called W to ask for a place to stay then called her eggs and told him to come pick them up or she is dropping them off at the fire station and she was going to go live with her sister I've had a few people asking already for the next chapter in this saga so here goes I'm going to summarize a large portion of her time living with her mom because I wasn't there and there was no single holy crap moment more of a culmination of small things cast s entitled sister-in-law Mel mother-in-law r SF step father-in-law Phil father-in-law W wife and one nice n to nephew bill ex brother-in-law REM me s moves in with Mel she can't hold a job for more than a few months and it is always because of someone she works with everyone is out to get her blah blah blah she treats mill and SF like her personal servants and drains their savings in the process mill is very non-confrontation and while she doesn't like how it is going she can't bring herself to stand up to s SF has troubles with his own kids and doesn't want a button but isn't happy either Cooper fetch storm for her to manipulate the crap out of both of them during this time bill gets remarried to what turns out to be an absolute harpy kids aren't happy there he sort of checks out due to how bad it gets so kids come to live with s during the school year in the same small home during this time she doesn't take care of them Milind SF do they are only allowed outside to play when someone is with them due to mills fear of them falling in the pool and s yells at them constantly to be quiet when inside they are both less than ten years old at the time one summer s just ups and decides to move in with Phil after he went through another divorce and drains his savings as well after a few months she just decides to move back in with mill without telling Phil or her work first he founds out about it as when her work calls him concerned Phil as a piece of worked himself so I don't have any sympathy for him we don't have any contact with him anymore she moves in with a girlfriend for a while but it falls apart and she moves back in with Mel s decides to go back to school to study psychology then when mill is getting sick of her non-sentient to drop the hammer on her she suddenly developed serious schizophrenia symptoms I'm not saying that she doesn't have it but the timing was very convenient and she went from zero to full-on hearing voices and making up crazy stories overnight she gets on medication and it all goes back to normal but of course now mill is even more timid about confronting her she starts to gain weight due to the medication and tries to get her doctor to give her a different medication that won't cause her to gain weight the doctor says no she calls W saying she is going to do something to herself because she doesn't want to be overweight W calls her doctor who relents and gives her the other meds s calls W to gloat about getting what she wanted during this whole time she adopts a dog a prairie dog and her son gets an iguana Milind SF end up adopting the dog from her near the end of it bill has left his second wife is now getting his life together but only takes the kids for a few short runs each year they spend most of the time with s we visit every summer to see mill SF n1 and n2 one summer we watch as 12 year old then one goes to try and wake s up for work multiple times each time she walks in she is saying things like mom you have to get up for work mom you need to go take a shower before work each time she goes back to try again she looks more and more embarrassed n1 and n2 just seem miserable they aren't doing great in school and it is bad all around shortly after that summer trip s gets a wild idea she knows that Miller's about to kick her out so she decides she is going to move to the city we live in we make it very clear that under no circumstances will she be able to come live with us the kids are welcome but not her we do everything in our power to talk her out of it but she is dead set on it in the end we decide to help her move because if we didn't my aging SF and mill would and probably hurt themselves they moved out and for about a year everything seems great the kids like their school and are making friends and good grades she seems to finally have her priority straight and is holding a job I start to think maybe she has pulled her head out of her a spoilers she hasn't Ida tell what happens after she moves to our city in the next chapter there is a lot ok this is going to bring us to the end of the saga right now we have zero contact with s with a youngest graduating in a few weeks we hope to never hear from her again cast s entitled sister-in-law GF s s girlfriend and one knee sent to nephew W wife B ex brother-in-law BW X brother-in-law's wife Mel mother-in-law R M me at the end of our last chapter it looked like s had finally gotten her act together for roughly a year she seemed cool we were hanging out with her regularly the kids were doing good in school she was holding down a job all good the only downside was that she would drop her kids off with us for the weekend on a regular basis without warning this only made planning a life for bit difficult but we loved having n1 and n2 over because they are great kids W would also pick n1 up from school each day because their schools were too far apart for s to get both of them after a while we started to notice things the kids would eat us out of house and home every time they visited there were teenagers so this wasn't immediately recognized as a problem the kids would be happy and carefree when visiting us but the second air mom showed up they just seemed to shut down our son spent the night a few times with my nephew told W that s was mean and was always yelling at everyone and that he was scared of her then the ovitch started happening one day while we were all at a park n2 and I were chasing each other around with nerf guns and swords and we were outside her view she starts screaming bloody and for him to get back over to where she was and proceeds to start cussing him out while standing next to the populated toddler playground n1 leans over to W and tells her that she is always doing stuff like this n1 starts to confide in W that S is not buying food but is buying expensive jewelry for girl fee s also bought a Bowflex for some reason and a number of other things they didn't need she also apparently threatened to get rid enthuse iguana and n2 asks if he would get in trouble if he had to defend himself if s tried to hurt him s also develops a habit of leaving the kids alone in their apartment over the weekend while she goes to stay with girlfriend one night while she is out the breaker for the heater throws it is the middle of winter and getting really cold at night when the kids call her she tells them to sleep in the living room and she would take care of it the next morning mind you I lived less than five minutes away and all she had to do was call me and i whould fixed it one day she decides that they are all going to move in with girlfriend in the next town over this is in the middle of the school year the kids are obviously not happy about it we offer that the kids could stay with us for a few months so they could finish the school year and then move in with her she says that she likes that idea and that she will ask the kids if they want to she does and when they say that they do want to do that she goes off on them telling them that they don't love her and how terrible they are for not wanting to be with her etc n1 is stressed out now because she is doing really good and is scared she will not be able to graduate on time if she has to change schools she decides to try and talk to s again while they are visiting us s again berates and yells at her n1 comes out to my garage where I'm to get away from her and has a breakdown I asked if she has her B's phone number which she does and I'd give him a call the call goes like this M s is making the kid's life hell and is moving them up to where her girlfriend 'is n1 is scared she won't be able to graduate B you know what happened before with my ex are you sure that I'm a better option than s M just by the fact you are asking that question yes B okay I'll see what I can do turns out that B's employer had an office in our town and was friends with the company owner he is given the option to transfer here but waits until he can save up the money to get an apart we all plan on that following summer the kids know what the plan is they and having to move that school year but when they go to visit me over the summer he brings them to our house the plan is for them to live with us while he moves up here this allows them to be re-enrolled in their previous schools everything goes exactly as planned the kids are of the age that they can pick what parent they want to be with and say they want to be with their dad when they won't leave with s and GF at the end of the summer she loses it calls the cops and drama ensues cots talk to the kids and allow them to stay with us court date for custody comes and she doesn't even show up so B wins by default kids live with us for about six months total he gets an apartment in town first and they live there for about six months then he surprises us by buying a house in the same subdivision that we live in with his n girlfriend now wife for the last few years the W has been a better mom to those kids than us ever was n one had some fallout from all of the mental ER that I won't go into but is now very well-adjusted graduated HS early and is in college and two graduates in a few weeks and is joining the Army National Guard and planning to go to college to become an EMT s cut size with everyone in the family and no is particularly upset about it that wraps up the saga of s know a big moment of her getting it handed back to her but it worked out in the end for her kids and that is all that really matters [Music]

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Length: 16min 50sec (1010 seconds)

Published: Sun Apr 26 2020