Girls, What Was the Best Flirting Technique Someone Did to You?

girls of reddit what was the best flirting technique someone did to you met my husband through a random roommate's boyfriend i had met him a few times at this point and he spotted me unloading groceries from my car he insisted on helping me carry everything in and even just unloading everything onto the counters while asking about my day it was incredibly easy to imagine dating him all of a sudden because i had a tiny glimpse into what my day-to-day could look like jokes on him though i now refuse to carry groceries in on principle oh how heroes a day when i was 10 i received a love letter from a boy it contained a flower inside and at the bottom of the letter he wrote some cheat codes for mortal kombat for me he knew i was always playing that game on my sega flawless victory i'm british and i came over to the states on a temporary work visa to do one ski season with vale resorts i was bartending at an on mountain restaurant and a couple of snowboarders come in and start talking to me it came up that i was only there for the season then one of them says i'll marry you so you can stay but we have to go on a date first we just celebrated our 13-year anniversary and i'm still in colorado people having this much freaking game a man i worked with asked me for my phone number we had already been working together for a few weeks and a mutual attraction was evident i pointed to the bulletin board behind him it's on the wall there i know but i want you to give it to me i don't think his intentions could have been more boldly nor charmingly stated we moved in together three weeks later and are still in love 25 years later hey do you want to help me throw fruit at my friend's 16 year old boy at summer camp holding a bunch of oranges who wanted to meet me i was also 16 at the time i feel like this is the exact technique that cavemen used to woo cave women when my husband and i started dating he would do this thing when he shifted gears in his crappy little sentra he would kind of brush the back of his hand on the outside of my thigh as he shifted i don't know how to explain it but it was like fireworks every time it happened we were riding in that car when i realized i could spend the rest of my life riding shotgun with him you are i was in chicago on business got a horrible migraine and had to cancel a meeting with a man i had met with for work the day before i get really bad migraines really really bad after it was over i had to get a bit of food and something to drink but it was very late and there was no way i would survive any kind of car cab ride he was the only person i knew in town so i sent him a text to see if he knew of anything in my area that would be safe open that late within walking distance he drove 30 minutes across town in the middle of the night to walk me to a 24-hour restaurant and buy me dinner i've been with him for 11 years now was riding home with the friend group back in 2008 we stopped to drop off the one guy and i got out to stretch i mentioned that the stars were so much more visible up there in the mountains and he said yeah they're really pretty wish i had someone to watch him with i'm a sucker for corny guys we got married the next year and are celebrating 12 years this june this reminds me of when me and my now husband went on our first date we were sitting by the waterfront overlooking the city i remarked what a nice view it was and he said i have two beautiful views tonight the third time we hung out i went to his house we were both in grad school and were talking in his room but i was exhausted from school and my two jobs i was sitting on his bed and fell asleep when i woke up he had put a blanket on me and was playing beautifully on the piano i was so embarrassed cause i had drooled all over his pillow and surprised that he was so kind about the drool and not creepy about me being passed out on his bed we've been married for almost four years now and been together eight bonus fun fact his brother didn't believe i existed and accused him of making it up till i met him a year later i was his first real girlfriend at like 25 my first boyfriend came into the store where i was working and just straight up told me he had seen me through the window and needed to run home to clean up put on something nice so he could come back and ask me on a date it was super endearing we met at a halloween house party and when i was going to leave he walked me to the room with all the coats which also happened to be a kid's room and he asked me what color crayon would you like to write your phone number with i married him celebrated 20 years not me but my mum my mum and dad were set up by a friend of theirs my mum is completely deaf upon being told this before he met her my dad went out and learnt as much sign language as he could before he met her my mum doesn't know sign language adorable and hilarious i like sunsets they are kind of my thing i photograph them have sold calendars about them i just like sunsets anyway i was participating in a medical study and we were sequestered to our room for 14 days the guy i liked would send me pictures of the sunset each night because he didn't want me to miss any i guess this is what they mean when they say it's the little things i mean he knew you well enough to do this for you because he knew it was important to you first time i hung out at my current bfs house before we started dating we were laying on the floor listening to records and he turned to ask me what time it was i think it was four if i remember he then said wow you've been here four hours and i haven't kissed you yet still makes me smile and needless to say it worked very well i once had a guy walk up to me at a bar and said hello my name is rob and i'll be hitting on you tonight what can i get you to drink silly playful and direct we dated for about eight months i kinda like that ngl and if the advance was unwanted you can always say check please i started dating the university's lone wolf and was extremely surprised to find how incorrigible a flirt he was but he didn't speak my native language he was not from my state and my parents wouldn't have approved of our relationship when i told him i didn't want to let him on he said we would try our best and if it didn't work out he will take full responsibility for his broken heart and that i need not feel pressured the feeling of liberation i felt cinched the deal for me looking back i am strangely touched by how he an introvert had allowed himself to be openly vulnerable in front of me after seven years of a solid relationship which included three years of wearing my parents down to accept him we got married a couple of months ago was expecting a breakup instead got a happy ending congratulations to you too i was playing my 3ds on the train and a guy sat across from me said excuse me can i ask what you're playing and we struck up a conversation i was so engaged that i almost missed my stop afterwards we would sit and talk on our way home and he started gifting me books from his work that's when i asked him out 3ds was the entire freaking plane and this one we were walking quietly at night and he stopped looked me in the eyes and said i think you just broke my writer's block not sure if it was a technique it seemed genuine when we parted ways he went home and wrote the first song he'd written in a months boo but it was super hot and i melted when he said it holy crap that's so freaking smooth my former fiancee he passed away went 100 cheesy pickup lines but in the goofiest way he was nervous and i guess had no clue what to say so he went for broke lol it went from hello how are you to a cheesy dad joke why couldn't the bicycle stand up on its own to the cheesy pickup lines taps pockets like he's looking for something i i lost my number can i have yours although i could tell he was nervous he had an air of confidence that i was drawn to and he had a great smile i don't know if it's the best but it's definitely the most memorable i was at the gym and had been honestly taking things to the extreme for a while and not listening to my body i suddenly got very dizzy and my sight became white on the realization that i was about to pass out i slowly lowered myself down to the floor one of the guys working out came swooping in to grab me and prevent my head from hitting the floor he lay me down and tried to get me to remain conscious asking me all sorts of questions that required some concentration like what day of the week it is and who is the president when he saw that i was okay and recovering his questions started getting flirty what's my name what's my number now that he's become my knight in shining armor can he take me out on a date sometime it really made me laugh and feel better just by him being so light-hearted about it he got my number light headed to light-hearted took genuine time to get to know me and bought me a few gifts based on interests he'd asked me about before i was less amazed by the gifts and more amazed that he'd cared enough to remember what i actually liked i'd found most guys wouldn't listen and would just buy me generic stuff like jewelry or chocolates if they wanted to gift me something which was very nice but not for me so when he surprised me with gaming merchandise i was thrilled guys spend those months properly getting to know her yes this is another thing that drew my to my spouse he puts real thoughts into his gifts and they're always something super useful and that i would enjoy and he tries to find something to do to support my hobbies like researching sewing machines or taking me on little road trips to take photos it was my first day in middle school and this kid asked to see my planner i handed it to him and he flipped to the contact section and left me his name and number i'll never forget how smooth he was dang that's smart love the phrasing of that question and i shall use that from now on how did you and mom meet she did flirting to me sounds like something borat would say in us and a if you want to marry a girl you cannot just go to her father's house and swap her for 15 gallons of insecticide before american woman will allow you in her vagine you must do something called a dating in college my best friend was this guy that i had a flirty friendship with but we were both dating other people we lived in the same buildings as each other freshmen junior year and spent a lot of time together but again we were with other people freshman year we were watching a movie together and this couple had an epic kiss in the rain and i off-handedly mentioned i thought it was so romantic cena year rolls around and we're both finally single we were walking home from a party it started raining and he just kind of grabbed me and kissed me and mentioned he thought about what i said anytime it rained we had a very intense relationship for about a year and then it kind of ended in disaster and we haven't spoken since lol tl dr pay attention to the little details and things the person you're into likes show them you care about them by listening he bought me a giant bag of beef jerky a few years later he was tossing pebbles at my dorm window with another bag of beef jerky and roses he was a great boyfriend ended up being a crappy husband though will always be in love with the person he was before that however he said i have a riddle for you then he took my hand and traced a line down the middle of my palm this is a river it is too wide to jump over do deep to wade across too fast to swim across and too long to go around there is a bunny stuck on one side of it how does the bunny cross the river after about 10 minutes of me trying to guess the answer i gave up and asked him how the bunny got across the river he said who cares i just wanted to hold your hand i met my now husband while i was in the hospital he worked there and i was a frequent patient unfortunately anyway he would bring daffodils to my room or apple juice he snuck me extra warm blankets and would sit with me before after his shift when i got out he offered to get groceries and wash my hair all over just as a friend he knew i wasn't interested in dating while going through everything and so he was just there turns out i happen to like him there and we are celebrating our 12th anniversary this year man this story is so romantic yet could easily fit into a girls over it what was the creepiest thing a guy ever did trying to flirt with you post he said i caught feelings for you and i looked at him confused but blushing he showed me my screen and that he had caught a pokemon for me and gave it the nickname feelings we are married and have two kids now this is so freaking wholesome i love this thread years and years ago i worked at florist where the owner illegally hired mostly mexican girls in the states to learn english they went to school but worked for a rate that wasn't even minimum wage it was super shady but i loved working with them we would make up little games to teach me spanish them english anyway this latin guy comes in one day and one of the girls is helping him he wants to get a bouquet for a girl he likes so she takes him around the store showing him what she thinks are the best flowers she wraps it all up for him and write as he pays he writes his number on the paper and hand them to her i was flawed it was so smooth she was completely unfazed like oh that's how men are like where i'm from men don't do that here i was like i know we walked home together all the time from school and he would do something cute funny caring to make sure i was on the inside of the sidewalk when we were together like he would twirl me around and guide me to the inside or tickle my side and jokingly push me to the inside of the sidewalk i guess not a typical flirt move but considering 99 of the i was walking to get anywhere him wanting me to be safe when we were together was so sweet we are not together and have never dated but that still is one of the top things on my list of sweet moments even in school he'd walk on the outside cause i always got shoulder checked by people passing by aww this actually reminded me that this was something my man did and still does that charmed me so much in the early days not really flirting but my bf gave the best gift we're exchanging christmas presents and i get a necklace that is just one big sapphire i instantly gush and happily exclaim you got me my birthstone bf looks at me confused and says birth stone i don't know anything about birth stones i got it because it reminds me of your eyes i instantaneously melt into the floor he meant it too we were classmates in college and one morning i called him on my way to school i lived over an hour away and we usually called and chatted while i drove and complained about a headache when i got to school he was there with ibuprofen water and one of those yogurt parfait thingies i also made a comment once about my eyeliner running out and he brought one to school the next day found out from his brother after we started dating that he had spent like an hour at the store asking the makeup employees for the right one since he had no idea what an eyeliner pen was we've been married for four years now and he's still a total sweetheart i'm a married man and i want this dude i'm not a girl but my girlfriend is and she just about did the smoothest thing on me during our first get together over some drinks we were both unsure whether or not it was a date or just people chilling at a bar getting to know each other she just moved into town and was looking for some company and i liked her attitude over the course of the evening it because clear that we were at least a bit interested but she was getting really drunk being the gentleman i am i decided not to try anything however then she started rubbing my foot asking whether i like her feet and i was like yes can i have one she literally gave me one of her shoes and said i'll pick that one up later this week at your place then got up and left she's currently giggling next to me as we just woke up wonderful lady was on a date had been talking about books and authors he asked me if i wanted to go back to his place to check out his book collection mine was bigger but the sex was great coma mine was bigger but the sex was great title of your sex tape arguing with me but in a way that let me know he respected my opinion just disagreed not arguing to win or show superiority just an enthusiastic exchange of differing ideas this devolved into teasing and then into some other things that were a lot less cerebral it takes a lot of talents to argue without being a jerk plus you really have to listen to the other person just being genuinely nice my boyfriend was too shy to flirt with me at first since were only friends so he texted me saying i looked really nice that day after seeing me and it was such a simple thing but it really made my day better and that can let the person know you are interested in them it doesn't need to be a big scheme totally my now wife says that she really was pleased and taken aback when i said i had a really good time hanging out with you today i was walking on my university campus tripped and dropped my books healed sandals raised sidewalk he asked me if i was okay and picked up my books he then carried my books and walked me to class we chatted the entire walk and when we got to my class he asked for my phone number i tore off a piece of paper and wrote it but without my name i wanted to see if he was listening when i told him he listened we've been married over 20 years he makes me smile every day that's cruel i always forget people's names within seconds of meeting them it's embarrassing and i try not to but dang is it annoying i also have trouble with faces last year of college for us he'd show up after my classes and follow me around everywhere talking incessantly when he'd see me on campus he'd run over to say hi i would flirt by sometimes picking a little wildflower to give to him when i saw him next that day he'd wear it in his shirt or behind his ear we now have two sons and he's taught the older one younger as a baby to give me little wildflowers when we're out walking together so you were stalked successfully not sure if this counts as flirting but he read my favorite book just so we'd have something in common to talk about when i first started dating my long-term partner i mentioned my favorite author maybe twice one of the first gifts he ever gave me was a signed copy of my favorite book by the author he reached out and told him i was a huge fan i've never felt more listened to if you are new to the channel you can subscribe i publish new videos every day until then check another video [Music] bye for now

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Length: 20min 3sec (1203 seconds)

Published: Fri Apr 30 2021