Entitled family demand I give $12000 dollar wedding dress to my sister

[Music] I'm the executive assistant to the CEO of a pretty big fashion brand which basics mean I'm my boss's bee and I do what every Shia asks my job has many aspects and is always open to more it gets hiring sometime but there are perks to my job I get free clothes a lot mainly for when I go to big event with my boss it wouldn't look very good if I was wearing another designer but my boss also give me any defects clothing that came out wrong or is imperfect or not up to my boss's standards now this for some reason make people think I stock up I'm Swann or I'm not I really appreciate that my boss does this as there was a time when I had very little and couldn't afford to buy food no matter clothing cheap or expensive anyways one day my boss mentioned that one of the wedding dress she had was a defect that train shorter than it was supposed to be she asked to find you anyone who could use one which I didn't my best friend of 5 years had gotten engaged a few months before my boss gave it to me and I gave it to my friend this friend has been there for me since I was 20 she took me in and helped me find my path out a very dark situation I loved her more than anything in the world here's worth and get messy my friend made a post thanking me and my boss and my family saw it and it started a stream of calls and messages from my family I do not have a good relationship with my family my parent kicked me out when I was 16 after I came out to them my sister wasn't much better than my parents we actually never got along even before I was kicked out she a very entitled person who was very selfish I struggle for a long time after that I live with my aunt until I was 18 which wasn't easy as we had little money I ended up going to design school getting an internship and then a job at my current company it wasn't until my family found out that I was making good money and working for a multi-million dollar company did they suddenly want back in my life which I allowed to avoid drama basically my mom and sister called Aman to know why I gave the dress to my friend and not my sister apparently she was getting married I didn't even know she was engaged they berated me yelling how family should come first these are the same people who kicked me out at 16 they even suggest I try to take it back from my friend as family should come first when I told them point-blank that was never going to happen they started bashed me to extended family who also started messaging me insulted me my sister even tried to call my boss to complain which is just nuts right update little more positive news my friend texted me today saying her and her friend made a pact who will use the wedding dress three out of five of them are already engaged I think that sweet pea pointless I know her girlfriend's very well and they are a wonderful ladies well last night my entitled family struck again last night I got a call from my mother at this point I haven't spoken to my family since the previous incidents this is the conversation we had me hello MA hallowed axe me Mom what is it now a little rude I know but it has gotten the point I can not even pretend to be nice with them mom your sister is still upset about the dress me well she needs to get over it I gave the dress to Meg hand it belongs Meg hand plain and simple ma I know me really mom she except she not getting the dress me okay good mop me and your sister came up with a way to make it up to her me what mop since you didn't give her the other dress we thought you could get her another one me I can't do that MA why not you've got one for that friend of yours me I didn't get one for her my boss gave me a defect dress and told me I could give it to someone I know who needed it mom your sister doesn't want a defect she need a perfect dress me are you kidding me mom no she says she wants the one your post on your Instagram the other day me the dress cost $12,000 more that perfect me seriously expect me to give you guys a $12,000 dress ru hi MA you do not speak to your mother that way me your ridiculous mom she is your sister do you have no respect for family me respect seriously me you kicked me out when I was 16 more Dax that was a long time ago and we are talking about your sister not me me yeah my sister the one who calls me her [ __ ] brother when I'm not around me I'm not getting her address from work in that final model fine but the least you can do is help buy her one me are you kidding me at this point I hang up she called back a few time but I Justin go them I really consider cutting them off again this is getting ridiculous anyway as the title says I have made the decide to permanently cut of my entitled family I informed my family last night of this and then blocked their number my mother had a lot to say which to be honest I do not feel comfortable writing as it was pretty must all offensive and I'm guessing it not going to be pretty for a while but my biggest problem was that I knew even if I did cut them off they wouldn't leave me alone they hate being told no or that they can't do will have something I also knew they'd do everything to try to get to me including trying to mess me my life this scared me and I can now admit is part of why I let them back in my life I was scared of them but I'm not scared anymore I just downright fee they messed with my job and other aspect of my personal life they are trying to break down everything I have made for myself and I can't let that happen so I figure out what to do about it now many of you suggest a restraining order which I have actually already look into my lawyer said I wasn't likely to get one apparently that despite what crimes show make you believe it is not as easy to get a restraining order as you think which is why my lawyer suggested a no contact order instead which means they can't legal contact me in any way no phone calls no email they can't even send me letter in the mail and if we do end up meeting in public they are not allowed to and all talk to me it kind of a lesser version of a restraining order so this is likely and hopefully is I'm granted the order my last post about my entitled ex family I wanted to thank all you guys for your support or advice on how to do this you guy really gave me a lot to think about and our lab as you were right I wasn't avoiding drama I was opening the door to it all so there were few people who suggested that my friend Sisterhood of traveling wedding dress idea as you guys like to call it was a good idea for a marketing ad and I agree which is why I took the idea to my boss who loved it and put me in control of the project so you guy really helped me score some good points with my boss thank you all for your help because of all this drama I made the decision to cut them off completely and I thought that's was the end of it turns out I was wrong since I cut my family off I have had no contact with them since my last post so a lot of this is hearsay from friend and family who are not completed it's like the rest as well as info from a video my sister posted on Facebook okay start I will start with what start this new drama I got engaged Friday night my and my boyfriend had 5th anniversary my boyfriend proposed to me and of course I said yes now we have no intention of getting married in a time soon as both our jobs are hectic and neither of you skir entire time but being engaged is still amazing but I didn't get to enjoy it long my parents and sister found out about my engagement and apparently flip-out calling me any and every name they could think of from what I heard from the others they pretty much were going around saying I only doing this despite my sister going on about how my marriage isn't real anyway because we're both guy and some more offensive nonsense I rather not right here but the kicker was when my sister thought it'd be a great idea to post a story on fafsa book basically berating me for even daring to get engaged when she is saying I was trying to take her spotlight she also went into a rant about the dress again which I skipped through then a homophobic right and basically starts saying about how I should call of my engagement until she get married here the thing though I recently found out she her fiance do not plan on actually getting married in a time soon so not only did my sister expect me to give her her expensive wedding dress for a wedding she hadn't even planned yet but also think I should wait to get engaged or married until she decide to honestly don't know what to do since my last post thing have been pretty quite my family has for the most part me alone but yesterday something happened that changed this announced my wedding date online now I said in my last post me and my fiance weren't planning on getting married in a time soon but then something came up my boss offered to pay for the wedding as long as she could plan everything and you said for advertising for the company basically me and my fiance would wear her designs she would plan our wedding we will also have to pose for photo to be used to advertise but in all honesty I think the investing thing was just a way to make me say yes my boss no I'm not a fan of handouts and think she did this as a way for me save face my boss and I are really close I started at her company a lonely intern and she took me under her wing and helped me to grow into the person I am today she been more of mother to me then my actual mother has ever been in fact we pretty much have a mother son like reiationship so I knew if I agree she make this a wedding something me and my fiance would never forget so except I love my fiance and didn't want to give up a chance to give him what could be her amazing wedding a huge part of the reason we were waiting to get married was that we really didn't have the money my wedding date is set for July of this year to line up with my boss's summer line release so inner attempted to milk this for everything it is worth my boss had me and my fiance take engagement photos which were post on the company's Instagram this is what started it as my sister saw them now I have a no-contact order out on both my sister and my mother meaning I have no contact with them so all of this as information is from a video my sister posted online basically she went into a rant about how I was being selfish for getting married before she did as she was older and should be getting married first she also went into a rant the dress saying how I was the worst brother ever for not helping my sister out she also talking about how I should have to pay for her wedding since my boss paid for mine as well as some really bomber phobic comments I'm not going to repeat but basically she went in a rant about how she deserved the wedding more because my wedding wasn't even real as I was marrying a man worst part is a good amount of my family agreed with her on the post so yeah not sure how to react to 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Id: mwrIS2ReMjQ

Length: 11min 52sec (712 seconds)

Published: Sun May 03 2020