Desperate for Love!!

I hate Tony Gaskins here hey I've missed my video yesterday I apologized so understand it sometimes you might get two videos in a day I might hit you with three one day just depend on what's on my spear what's on the docket what I need to address and I saw something yesterday that was it was showed me a lady gave a man sixty thousand no one lady gave a man two hundred thousand dollars that she met online another lady gave him gave a man some sixty thousand oh six hundred thousand or million that she met online listen y'all got took nah nah okay every race and nationality is guilty of this all right these two young ladies happened to be on the same race okay not the race that I am off and they maybe have more expendable income but I've noticed women of all races and nationalities do this so this ain't just exclusive to one type of woman women from all levels do this rich broke middle class lower middle class upper middle class okay lower upper class upper upper class all classes socio-economic levels women do this and listen y'all got to stop being so desperate for love listen to me understand see man man desperate for this hill alright here's what a man won't a woman a lot of times I notice women desperate for companionship and it's two different types of desperation that I see and women is I see the desperation for financial security that that's the real reason is the underlying reason and then the desperation for campaigns now financial security that's gonna cost you a little bit more meaning that desperation is what brews up a little bit more of a Jezebel spirit loose booty 901 women who really want to be financially secure they want to literally dreams have money they want to be on private jets they want to be on yachts they wanna have it a little bit time Cartier so that's that right there I see a lot of women doing something strange for a piece of change and you gotta really sit down and identify and get your bag together make sure that you getting your money that you are working on your brand you building yourself that you have your own don't get bought by a man that's one thing that I noticed that a lot of women today trying to do trying to get rescued trying to get bought by a man you want to be sat down and I don't have women tell me women who make hundreds or thousands a year Tony you know I make good money but it's tiring I'm tired of hustling I'm tired of having to get up in and just make something happen to the entrepreneur type women I want a man who can help me I want a man who could pay my bills who could sit me down so if I don't want to work I don't have to work I could work freely you know light hearted without having to be desperate for money and what happens is that that's what lead a lot of women into scamming and doing different scams it's women I hear as couples I hear scamming people for money for they love services whether its tax company or credit repair as couples I hear scamming people uh-huh yeah I don't heard about it and then you got you know couples on Hill scamming people for retreats and and live events and won't get refunds and all of that so it's happened people get money hungry in the same thing happened with single women now imagine you do this in a relationship what you were doing when you sing when you sing or you just it bad if not worse and so it's a lot of women who focusing on money and getting into scams and then you got man focus on money getting in the scams and then guess what then women get together I mean people get together just like we saw the lady from the Atlanta housewives got with the man who she wanted some financial security she won't huh some companionship so she thought oh I got two for one the man he in the fraud night and then he went to prison I don't know if he's still in prison but it's like hi you doing fraud on you on national television he was so focused on looking like money and being able to buy this woman does he know this woman ain't gonna be with no broke man and now I can't remember the name but if y'all watch the house while I remember I just see stuff when they hit the blog's or something and so this the thing you have to sit down with yourself and you gotta settle within yourself man you gotta you gotta quiet the noise you said I mean you got to quiet the noise and that body clock there by the clock then why I [Music] by the clock be silent you got to quiet the noise you you listed that body clock you see a man you ready come on what I got to do and then I saw a lady come and she said honey these men today don't want to be held accountable you call them I and they disappeared listen good hood that's what you want to happen call his butt out call him up from the jump the first time you sent something call him I call him I if he ly good you just say yourself a lifetime of misery now you don't have to be a single mom because you call him my and he ghosted you good Caspar bye fine let it go look you want to run me man off fast as you can because what I noticed is a lot of women afraid to stand their ground afraid to tell a man I'm not comfortable sleeping with you afraid to tell a man I believe in God and I'm a server God afraid to tell a man listen you're not gonna yell at me afraid to tell a man listen I don't think that that is right for you to be liking all of these half-naked women pictures afraid to tell a man I'm not comfortable with you going to your ex's house to sit and have an in-house visit for hours on end if you're trying to move on with a new relationship y'all need to meet at the park at a neutral location afraid to tell a man what she really think I feel and then what I'm noticing now is it's two ends of the spectrum and it's the one who is passive and submissive and afraid to to run a man off the loser man and then you got the woman over here that is completely fed up and she goes all out crazy and that's all I see I don't see enough in the middle you need nice so I'm in the middle but it need to be and when I say it I mean Center I don't see enough Center people who can express what they want now see this the thing this is why you people say a cholos be winning it's it's not they're not winning all right really what right now who winning in this relationship who would look like who winning in the world or religion is man and the reason why it appears that men are winning meaning that they got to pick of the litter they could juggle a bunch of women you know they could do it they want to do and they get they way they they sleep around and then we find the one it shouldn't that shouldn't be the case that shouldn't be the case but see the thing is it's me and do what we are allowed to do that's it humans do what we are allowed to do you know why they got a speed limit because if they didn't have a speed limit people would be driving 95 100 miles an hour to get to their destination with the speed limit I'll be going 75 I'm always gonna inch it up to 80 imma set on cruise control at 80 if people running me off the road because they going 95 100 I'm like all right I got ticket money but I don't want to mess up my license I don't want my insurance to rot like you ain't got a care in the world what you smoking I'm like what the world you smoking what you drinking right not like why you going 95 mile an hour hundred mile where is you going sir but humans do what humans allowed to do I've been me my homeboy was driving to college from Florida to West Virginia it takes 16 hours to 18 hours if you driving the speed limit we got that 10 hours I remember looking over when he was driving he was at 115 mile hour ain't kill it didn't bother me because it was a new gallant Mitsubishi Galant whoo but I'm the lost used to be bad way we had no gallant it was a rental car and it didn't feel like 115 miles hours that's why I came I do not listen to him this why try to tell women all the time we different ok now as a woman this to me not as a woman at 18 19 miles an hour at 18 19 years old listed as a woman are you gonna feel comfortable driving 115 120 miles an hour down the highway on a straight road on four hours on the air are you gonna feel comfortable driving between 90 and 120 for ten hours straight that sounds absolutely crazy right it is absolutely crazy I'm 36 9 I know that that is absolutely crazy do you know I didn't think nothing was wrong with it I was having the time of my life could've lost my life what having the time of my life me and my homeboy both of us going to college we play football I was running back he was old line we raised in two-parent Christian homes two-parent Christian home raised right we was not raised by savages we was not sleeping in the street sleeping up under the bridge sleeping in the trap house no we both had a mother and a father in the home and here we drive into college like we ain't got no sense that's why I try to tell y'all you don't know your children you better make sure you know your church but you don't know your chair you think you know your children or your children you need to spend more time cuz you spending more time on housewives then you will with your children you don't know your chair you better get the norm here we was I remember we call our mom and dad it when we got up there and I I can't remember my mom want his mom I think it was his mom what is that bad y'all got there too fast you did is too fast that is too fast they're from the island and we were like oh boy we made some time but we kill but oh well we felt good we were like 10 hours it take from Florida to Ilana take six seven hours from where we're at we got to West Virginia that's how men think that's how a lot of me and our that's how men do that's why we're not going 80 or 85 it's a man in an f-150 f-250 on my wife's already kind of trucks not not some time to look cause with the loud mufflers but it's always me and flying pad or nothing it would be a woman but tippy is mean 95 huh wait you come on bro where's you're going ain't no woman in the car so what ain't break so where are you going but that's how we think it didn't what what what women say what y'all want to do just what y'all want to hear what women want to hear is me come on here and say listen man you need to get it together as a man you need to grow up you need to man up you need to zip your pants and you need to keep your thing in your pants until you marry and when you meet a woman you need to tell her the exact plans that you have for her you need to tell her exactly what you plan to do with her and for her in her life you need to show up and you need to be a man you need to break bread you need to be opening doors pulling out tales you need to be paying for dates you need to be courting her and do not ask to sleep with her and if she offer to sleep with you turn it down and wait until marriage until you sleep with her and then you get on one knee you will get engaged you plan as soon as you get engaged the next day you need to pick a date for the wedding with her and you need to turn it over to her you need to raise the money get the money borrow the money do what you need to do for the money to get her a budget for that wedding and you need to get that win how that went and write out that win you need to take her anywhere in the world and she want to go for seven nights for a honeymoon and when you get back you need to go to your bank credit union Navy Federal and you need to sit down and you need to get a home loan on the house of her dreams and then after you get that home loan and they done going through your credit and your bank statements you need to go to the dealer and you need to get hurt the car of her dreams and then y'all need to plan when you're feeling have kids and then you need to sit down and find out when she overladen get that out for look at when she oughta late when she oughta late you need to get on a bike put a lit up okay you need to put ankle behind it ill and get up pregnant and then on the day that she wanna have that child you need to make sure that water break and if you got the skill and she holla break that water get her to that hospital and how a baby she need to have a minute why she need have a doula she needed how to the toilet with the water in it if that's what she want do give her what she needs okay and then you let her sit down for the next two or three years I don't care how much she made what she doing you need to make up for her income however you got to do it you need to work 24 hours a day do what you need to do you said you see I just that's literally what women be asking me to tell me that's literally what a lot of women wanna hear a man tell a man but listen to me listen to me do you have yours do you have a song he barely listen to you listen to me do you have a daddy yes you have a daddy did you see your dad interact with your mom your daddy didn't listen to your mom listen to me did your daddy got a mama yes he do your daddy didn't listen to his mama do you got a brother how well did you see your brother listen to your parents do you got a male cousin how well did you see your male cousin listen to his parents do you got an uncle how well did you see your uncle listen to your grandma so now let me ask you this so now if you seen your uncle your daddy your brother your son your male cousin your boyfriend you got you ever had a boyfriend what about a husband how well did he listen to his mama was he raised with his mama okay what's his mama attic was all your boyfriend's mom most addicts okay the any of them cheat on you oh all along cheated so let me ask you this let me ask you this okay let me ask you did so if all the men you know in your life barely listen to the people that they knew all day life love them careful will kill for the mastered is what make you think that a man gonna go to youtube and search for my video to let me tell him what to do with his life okay what makes you think that I just want to know what make you think that a man gonna listen to me see I'm a man that's why I don't waste my time then why do I got videos on here for me and not but honestly I'm doing it just before all other loud women in the comments that Jack oh you need to talk to the man you need to talk to the man but I know man listen just watch I'll tell y'all listen that's why this is called this that's why I titled this book I titled the book okay listen the table of contents this table of contents [Applause] number one a man's world okay chapter two know you're worth power versus influence the grown boys syndrome the poker face the 72-hour rule break up to make up show don't tell the rules of engagement let him love you when we play mind games everyone loses complacency is the enemy just say no honor and respect trust and freedom sex is a plus you're not a maid silence is golden don't compete a woman's influence that's desolate that right now if the table contents okay hmm I wrote the table contents you know why I titled it woman's influence because that's what's going to change a man's life not a man a man could have a daddy you're gonna listen to his daddy gonna remember what a daddy say but his daddy could talk to him blue in the face if he made a woman and no woman gone oh you mean he finish swan dive right in Jimmy he finish wanna die list him this time look at the Holy Bible read the Holy Bible okay read the Holy Bible when you read the Holy Bible you're gonna see who God used to get a message to a man we when Jesus need to come in the world he went to mirror he didn't go to Joseph and asked Joseph for permission hey Joseph is it all right with you if I use your wife to bear the son of man to bring Jesus Christ into the world the Messiah into the world's all right with you Joseph cuz you'd ahead someone's happy to know God went to the one told her right the finna go down then went to Joe's eggs calm down play black she did not cheat on you come on down play why she did not cheat on you okay I'm God that's what I that's what I do all right you feelin froggy leap all right you wanna leap again calm down SoDo like all right I can't be that our governor white baby daddy is God whatever a lama do so Jose would like all right a woman's influence you got all the power when God needed to get the message you know he told Abraham that even gonna have a son Sarah loud she like what the one who harder to reach right then didn't a man when it doesn't want to get to Adam who he went to he didn't go to he didn't go to Adam doesn't go to Adam he went the e that what a pain that's what the picture paint the reason why is letting you know then he said listen what am what it our good night a but I hit there my only no over the out it could have been a thunk quiet well you know it could have been a great you know but he went to II when when they needed to get Samson well who they sent in now Delilah when when the adversary needed to let God know that David ain't apple of your eye what he did jumping on with Bathsheba put a little bug in his ear hey get up and go to the window and you know why he was at the window it was so hot out there he's standing out from in front I wanna sweat look that done saw them him bend over saw that late water running down sorta hell lease lay back on that Bank with that water and that water slip on down right through that back side David lost his mind Bathsheba was taking a bath David lost hit my a come on - hey you rise put him on the front line in the battle he's amazing warrior you put him on the front line we need him we need him he amazing David had everyone the hook and kill why fall woman it's not brawn you got in all these women are here all these women I had they brought what you could have sat down with you rise and you rise could have been like they come over I lay if you wanna if you wanted that bad a give me a thousand pieces of gold nine your mother's piece of gold a we could work it's not night that's how me and our me and don't be tired to nothing me gonna be tightening that men are not tied to nothing that's how you ask all the time Tony how do you mean walk out on their kids because a man's heart is conditioned differently because the same man got a hunt and kill live beings hunting and killing skinning them for dinner then he got to go to war and cut off his blow hits off shoulders so God knew what he was creating when he created a man but he knew that I need something that's gonna slow this man down I need something that's gonna soften his heart ain't nothing gonna get to this man it's one thing that could get to this man and that's a woman and what women gotta understand is you got all the power but the thing about it is men know that you don't know your power see a lot of the women who know their power they use it for evil and they find a power because they've been taking advantage of for so long they've been done wrong for so long that they say you know what I'm fed up I'm tired on by the fight back and they fight back with with violence and vengeance and evilness and they become a Jezebel spirit they become a savage hearted woman when has she knew better has she been told bail she could have stated exactly who she is and what she want cool calm and collected and that man would have put up a shut up that man would have stepped up in her life or he would have stepped out of her life stepped on up out of her life she went had to break a sweat when they had to shed a tear when they had to raise a voice what could've just I just stated exactly what she want without getting loud and crazy I see a lot of women that they get loud and crazy and feisty because they feel like that's the energy they got the brain in order for a man to listen listen to him that man not listening to you that man do you not scare that man you doing that screaming and hollering and yelling and crying and cussing and fussing and boring stuff you're not scaring him what you got to understand this man is wired to kill [Music] what do you think gladiators used to do any man could have got it now in that circle look at what you see boxes doing look at what you see MMA fighters gone that's how me and why here so you screaming and hollering and yelling and cussing throwing stuff grabbing a knife you're not scaring him you're not scaring him you know what scare a man when you look him in the eyes just like this in the same tongue and say listen if you ever try me you'll never see me again play with it that's what scale man and then when he taken tried you a little bit he'll try you a little bit now he know when you said you try me you know you told my cheating or be in so he'll trying to look good just to see if you really bought that life he gonna test you now that's man that's me why you think the men are going highway get on the highway get on the highway go to speed limit pay attention who fly by you count how many men how many women fly buddy you're gonna count mommy you're gonna count moment you know why could we ignorant men are ignorant it's just what it is it's like we wise but we dumb it's like we know a whole lot and we know so little that's just how me are I'm confounded I'm confused by the creation of man I'm a man and I don't understand why me and do it do what we do it don't make no sense to me like I brought how do you got six baby models right any pointing here did you get an itch or a burn and any point in here did something say to you I can take care of the kids it was the any point in here that it just dawned on you got a condom cause of the hollow you get called 75 cent out of CVS barrel friend did it did it dawn on you at any time that the child support courts do not play did it dawn on you you like a lot of things man do I don't understand my brother how can you walk out on your child not call your son your daughter how can you cuss out your child mama cuz I like a doll spitting on faith talk to it like trash and it's the same woman that you was dipping your dirty D in unprotected but not she trash I don't understand I don't understand it lit so I'm trying to tell y'all what the disc what they say the future is female and now women get mad by the time female I'm a later literally wrote me and say do not say female I said Lord I say Lord you got to come and you got to do something witty men because the women so hurt they'd only want to be called female I said it's a male and it's a female it's a man and this old man it's a boy and it's a girl like female is not a derogatory turn but someone feel that it is so I'm guessing male is a derogatory term as well and I said Laura something got the Gil some got the Gil because it's so much hurt in pain but listen you got the you have to protect yourself nobody coming to save you nobody coming to rescue you look a man a man has to be solid with God that's the that's the only hope for you to get half good in a man is that he knows God so what you need to be is where God is where God that where's-where's God he might be in Starbucks okay he might even be God might be more install busting in your church that you're going to if you know it's a whole lot of sinning then your past ain't living right you know your pastor is trying to commit tax fraud in the city of Atlanta and trying to do tax fraud trying to hide money and taking the money to put a non-profit buying Gucci and Louie and over paying themselves you know your pants are doing that instead of having a salary or legitimate salary that's reported to the government through the nonprofit you could get paid through a non-profit non-profit don't mean you can't get paid but you know your past ain't living right you need to get on about the turf because the oil flow from the head everything flows from the head it curses the wrath of God the sin everything gonna flow from the head you look bad and ugly you know you're passing first lady ain't doing right you need to get on get on the body on and especially there's three fold witnesses didn't told you that now one person said okay that could be a Jezebel spirit in a male or female to three people go to Santa all right guy gotta go but you need to look at this man how much did this man how much does his temperament remind you of Jesus how much does his temperament remind you of righteousness now I've been coaching some Muslims it's some Muslims that follow me on here so and they invert this information it's been crazy to me to see how Christians could be sold I know I'm a Christian how Christians could be so judgmental and so combative and so hypocritical and want to argue over the letter of the law and they never got better than a C in reading comprehension class but want to pretend to be able to interpret and unfurl it understand the Holy Bible would have translated from another language that they've never heard of and and and reading the Bible King James Version barely got through English class had the big for a bee had a big for a bee in a reading and comprehension and not all of a sudden the Bible scholar understand every caveat and nuance of the Holy Bible and want to argue with other Christians I'd be on here talking and it's like you get what I'm saying I'm talking off the dome I'm coming off the top of my head so I might miss speak and you're reading up teleprompter it'll be Christians in the comments wanna argue about the scriptures video anything about that but then hideo Muslims hiring me from around the rural other parts of the world hired me and they said Tony I know you're Christian but what you're teaching on about saving yourself on to a marriage I relate to it that's in my religion as well and I understand that we you know we both believe in God and we both believe in living right and being a decent human being I understand where you come from and I respect your message I'm like ain't that son I said Lord trying to show me something hi in the world Christian wanna argue you to death and here is somebody of a whole nother religion understand me but see now I've got well going but I need to put that right down I need to put that right down but this what I want you to do oh I said that because not a Muslim she might say well how much did he remind me a lot of Prophet Mohammed you know that's that's you know that what y'all do all right but what I'm talking about I'm a Christian so I say listen when you look at this man and see the under in order to understand the attributes of Christ you have to read a Holy Bible you can read the Holy Bible you gotta listen to the Holy Bible if you can't listen then all right it'll be in sign language somewhere and what you read lips and somebody can somebody who you know and love can't explain it to you because he some people cannot read they didn't they didn't go to school they cannot read somebody can teach it to you but it got to be somebody you know in love and trust and and you could hear it from a few different people I know adults who can't read and that's why I try to tell people all the time it ain't just about the letter of the law it's also about the Spirit of God that's why the Bible says serve God in spirit and in truth because a lot of people in the days that the Bible is written couldn't read you see what I mean so you got to serve God in spirit and in truth and God gonna call leaders he's gonna call prophets he's gonna call teachers he's gonna call apostles he gonna call people that when you look at their life and you feel their spirit you're gonna feel a purity you're gonna feel a period you know when somebody when you look at somebody and and you know that you're not scoring so like it's people who have judged me I called me a charlatan or scam all of this right here but the heart is hurt from somebody that hurt you it ain't and I ain't never met a person who got a pure heart who healing actively healing working on the healing to call me a scam ain't never heard that I hear that from the people with the fake pictures the people is not even real person or it's a woman and in her bio we got all these terms that she called herself all this stuff she studied the Stars so she studied this kind of this she a master it is master that basically I sum it up to somebody who has been turned over to a reprobate mind but he never seen nobody with good sense common sense or respectable you know carrying themselves right look me in my eyes or write me and say Tony you strike me as a stamp you strike me as a scam and so what happens is you try to spear by the spirit you're gonna know the tree by its fruit you're gonna know the tree by its fruit so when you see this person you got the when you see this man you have to when you talk in him you listen to him you dating him you you going out with them you got to ask yourself how much does his spirit resemble the Spirit of Christ resemble the Spirit of God and so and in order to know that you got to understand the attributes of God and you know that by studying the word so when you study the word you're gonna read things like be slow to anger you're gonna read things like don't covet don't covet your neighbor's wife you're gonna read things like if you lust in your heart you've committed adultery you're gonna read things that tell you fornication is a sin adultery is a sin you're gonna read these things that say love your neighbor as you love yourself so you're gonna read things that say like if somebody asked you for your shirt give them your coat - so I'm gonna ask you to go a mile go two miles with them somebody do you wrong turn the other cheek you're gonna read these things so now what you got to do is you got to watch this man okay you got to watch this man and you got to see how you move you got to watch how you move so one thing I notice you know I noticed that there's a lot of people who talk down to customer service I see it because I see my customer service emails song some of y'all women coming up it's only been a couple men is typically women because my audience 95% women and on YouTube at least it's 80% every other social media but some women come into the customer service and talk to more customer service people I'm a virtual assistant like trash blame on lie on put words in their mouth a lot of time they talking to me and don't even know it and I I'm gonna tell you how it is when y'all have an issue with my customer service like the customer service felt it was a little rule to you it was me I'm going to MIT to it now if you ever felt like customer service will rule it will mean it will mean you yeah cuz and that's why this the CEO is not supposed to be doing all lot of customer service email cuz once you hit a certain level of success you hit a certain level of income your patients be different and I get in a cup and watch by be reading left to right so if y'all ever had my cousin's serve it Allah rule it with me cuz you got out of pocket you got online but that's what I see so I noticed that I know it's a lot of people they talk down to customer service or to a waiter and I seen a lot of people haven't seen it in a lot of people okay I'm gonna say name but I'm telling people right around me alright people my family and I just would be like I didn't understand that you know because I want to emulate Christ I want to show law so so when I talk to the waiter I'm like hey yeah so um and I'm looking them in eyes hey yeah so of course before you sold tear about this now now what do you like between this and is what would you recommend okay all right cool all right all right I'm gonna try that you know I'm gonna have that and then every time they come they bring the water they bring another for refilling up every time thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you all night long thank you end of the night I till 25% nine nine okay I couldn't always tell 25 percent but now that I'm able to till 25 percent I tell 25 percent and a lot of people trying to get away with 15 percent 10 percent when I do take out I read that is nothing wrong not the tip I'll take out I tilt 10% gonna take out in in in the situation we're in a man Emmett I tell 20% on take out why because you're saying about me and this men is business they buy me in God if I want to see them win God gonna make sure make sure to it that I win so when you meet this here man this the number one thing that's the number one thing how much does he resemble the Spirit of God so you watch the way he talked to a waiter when y'all go on a date watch the way he held a roll race he roll ready not okay when I was in college I used to pull that thing on you you cut me you cutting off pumping that thing in your face you hit me it was BB gun so I would have had a real problem somebody would have pulled a real gun and shot out of it shooting them BB bite but I just put a thing on me but whew how costs can be absolutely did it BB gun but that's why I used to beat with it we roll raise pull right up beside and let that one down me mother it looks like here they were dead yeah they were dead yeah that's how I used to be not role raised until I'd be role raised not role raised I'll be driving somebody cut them off well I can't believe it whoo that was yeah yeah you cut them off all right yeah going all right then I had to roll right now I probably I probably I probably hit the horn two times in the last few years see I'm saying the Bible said be slow to anger so I'm sharing this with you and the way I treat my wife not listening on Ephesian fire it's a Ephesian fire is saying husband love your wives as Christ loved the church so my wife I got everything I say present her blemish and spot free my wife I go broke for my wife you know why could cracklin broke for me when he got on that cross that was going broke that was given everything so I give everything for my wife we moved my mother long to a new apartment and we paying her in you know the rent 1,600 hours a month we put my put my mom in a new place around $1,800 a month we paying that we paying it and because that's our parents and they not in a position to earn the kind of money they're putting them where they need to be so you know that's three four thousand dollars a month dad we committing to and I told my wife I say do the math on that night they live another 30 years what's what's what's what's 30 years 12 months a yeah times 4000 but Bob says honor thy mother and father and your days be long upon this earth so what's the opposite your days gonna be show 9:00 honor don't mean pay for we're doing that could be able to do that honor me any respect on I mean up lift up whole you respect so you ain't cursing on mine you ain't going on now you might get distance you might not talk to your mama for a while cause of her spirit negative you're not dishonouring her by getting distance so that so we'll do another video on that but you honored them so I told and she looked this from me as a man I said baby I got to get my mom in a new place I just wanted to be comfortable wanted to be sailing together in a new place you know we got the she owned the house I mean you got to buy a house bus but it's it's in a you know ran down neighborhood it's from my grandma from my grandma so I said even putting in gated neighborhood nice house when he got to buy the house we can rent the house cuz she might want to move but I just want to be comfortable hey let's get your mama in a new place and let's get my mom a new car let's get your mom a new car all right let's get my dad a car my wife daddy good you know he good but our other three parents they not as good so I said that why cuz I believe in honoring the mother and father ain't always right they're always nice but I don't never raise my voice on cussing my I may have to get distance so this what I'm saying with you looking at this man you got to see and and and you got to understand I honor don't mean a mama's boy my honor don't mean he don't understand that a husband will cleave to his wife all right so you got to understand it's a balance he got to have balance but that's what his spirituality that's what his relationship with God comes in so when you look at this that's how you can tell if he's the one that's how you know if you'd want by how he moving then that's the thing you got to be consistent see God is constant God never changes he's not a man that he should lie so when a man is following God he gonna be consistent he gonna be consistent and see now I have the problems different I used to go off I used to raise my voice I used to yell when I'm dealing with customer service I get mad now I keep it cool common collector I keep it cool comic collector I needed to break my lease I needed to break my lease on on my downtown because it's you can't go down now they got over it in a building every day and I got my son got asthma so I'm dumping $3,000 a month I need to break that lead they tried to tell me no you gonna be the break that leave I'm like okay all right we'll know who we talkin to okay now used to go off I used to get on that phone you can hear me I'm finna be loud I'm finna be wrong you hear me angry black man a call I be that I used to be that I said I'm cool calm and collected I wrote an email I read that email to my daddy when I read that email to my daddy I didn't know who wrote that it was like the Spirit of God came and put Johnnie Cochran in me but when I tell you I sounded like a lawyer you hit me that letter had to take some time she had to take some time they later winner talked to her bosses she came back she said mr. gesslin we finna let you out this lease you not responsible for the rest of the months that you owe we finna let you out the lease you know why cool calm and collected and I went off the hint flying yelling cussing on cursed but and I got I read all that she probably would have made it her business that make me look like an angry black man to to the company so that they would be willing to spend money to take me to court but because I read her I read but in email cool calm and collected sure you see what I mean so I'm taking through examples of how God changed my life of how telling the Spirit of God and stand near to the cross being in a place to where I'm trying to move like faint light be like Christ see I used to want to be like Mike Michael Jordan used to want to be like Mike now I want to be like Christ so you when you meet this man you need to see that his spirit his temper me if he if he talking down to the to the waitress or a waiter got to go he's not the one you'll pick that up on the first date okay if he yelling and cussing at customer service and and he didn't want to swipe the car but trying to get loud and lie but it was a fraudulent charge and Uslan you watched him swipe the car you got to run and you gonna you're gonna pick that up if he disrespected his mama even if she's an addict even if she abandon him if he has not healed as a man guess what he's gonna hurt you so if he disrespecting his mama now if he kisses his mama behind meaning he let her run his life and you see she got a Jezebel spirit well she got a controlling spirit manipulative spirit and he cannot be man enough to stand his crime so like I take care of my mama you said on me I got my mom in a nice gated neighborhood in the house cuz the city she live in is different it's not the same so what we live in a house in a gated neighborhood Beach three times that so it's a little different and our apartments nice to hear too and and my mama she always keep her other three grandkids you know so it's a different situation for my mama and my wife Monica day in different cities different setups I take care of my mama okay I bought my mama a brand new 2020 car and I and but she worked with a group home so I bought her a work car so my mom bought my mama too cause she got two cars and she got a place to live I paid her rent I paid her life's water all that we pay that and so but guess what my mama don't call no shots over here my mama don't tell me what to do nothing to do by my household my mama no my wife come first know that if my wife hang with it it ain't it ain't gonna fly but she know I married right so if my heart say I wanna do something my wife's not gonna tell me no if my heart all the way in it unless it's a dumb decision and so my momma know that so my momma don't come telling me what to do for wit my wife and what to do with my household and in the past when she tried it got put right to the place respectfully honorably i honorably put her writing up late mama listen remember the Bible said husband well forsake his mother and father cleave to his wife okay listen to me I know who I'm heir ain't done alright respect my wife you and my sister keep my wife named I told my if y'all think by saying anything negative about my wife if you dream it wake up and ask God for forgiveness because I know who I marry and I know her good and her bad I know she ain't perfect y'all ain't either but listen to me I'm marital ain't gonna be no Hill speaking of her from nobody I let all them know that there's no no hey you you ready to get mad cuz some man buy you some money and get you and you wanna put it on my wife ain't got nothing to do with my wife my wife wanna help y'all try to help y'all ain't got nothin to do this is what I don't want to do I don't want to give you the money think I'm gonna do it my wife so I had checked and put them in play you said I mean so in every aspect you're gonna see its balance I honor my mother but I also understand that my marriage comes first so my momma don't running over here in my household God the head of my household not my parents you see what I'm saying cuz I'm gonna I'm responsible for me not me and God and so when you dealing with this man it ain't got to be it ain't all or nothing you're gonna see a spiritual balance you gonna see a spiritual maturity and see God gonna rectify and he's gonna reckon in every aspect of his man life he gonna fix on so with his attitude with it finance see God say the borrower is servant to the lender so as I was I'm spiritually mature empowered II stood alone and probably credit cards paid credit card down to zero said I mean because the borrower is servant to the lender so if a man is crazy by debt and he crazy stuck in debt now you always know how dead you're always gonna have debt because you advance in your life and you you were it's better to find that somebody else money didn't and put your money to work be investing in yourself flipping your money you you becoming building your business building your brand you're gonna make more money your return on your investment when I invested me my return on my investment is like a thousand percent so if I got a loan that's four percent five percent I'm good I'm too good she said I mean that's how I think so they in business let them do business they do loans let them do loans but you need trying to just be stuck as a slave to the loan you're trying to get out of loan so when you see this man if he living apartment he got apartment apartment eight fifty a month but then he driving the g-wagen g-wagen cost him three thousand a month all right got got to go got to go he upside down he upside down cuz he trying to look good for out there and then he coming to sleeping next to the rats and cheese in his apartment versus toning that down a little bit getting a better safer place to live and then you know still a nice car so you see the man he all the way flipped upside down and dead in by critics coca Cresco you could be late on two pavements and your credits go look like you raised with the wolves but anybody credits coke it's how he managed money that's a number that's a number it's so much that go into that how he managed his money you pay attention to that because he the Bible teaches us to be a good steward of our money the Bible teach you to be slow to anger the Bible teach you to love your neighbor as you love yourself the Bible tell you that God had no respect a person the priest saw the pauper the the peasant other team God see him the same seeing the same and treating the same so listen if if you meet a man and he sniffed bootie of a celebrity well he sniped booted or somebody that got money and then you see him talking to a waiter and he talked to the waiter like he's better than the waiter you got to run he ready he ready see you see and this what y'all need to understand it's something it's two or three women that get this oh yeah not literally but then we talk I understand a lot of time wouldn't be asking me Tony talked to the me and talked to the man talk to the man what you don't understand if you change the way you listen to this and you stop getting offense offended if you stop feeling attacked and you listen to what I'm saying you will hear that this video is also for the man because this man is watching this the man who being knows that he was trying to learn trying to grow in this video he just learned that if he quit the anger that if he bad with his money that if he don't love his neighbor as he loved himself and he don't honor his parents he just learned that he's not a man you see what I'm saying I just told him that what I happened to talk directly to him see that's how me and learn and not he sitting there like hey right well he right cuz cuz if he was talking to me I oughta felt so tight I wouldn't listen to nothing and that's what happened with a lot of time with with the women as well your felt you feelin attacked you feeling an attack so so you shut down and instead of getting a message and let it do for you what it need to do you feel attacked because it's stepping on your toes and so you said I talked to the man you need the top to the knee there's a lot of people talking just women it's up to the man lady told me yesterday I love your video but it's it just saddens me that that's how you think women sound may I listen to be okay I deal with 10 million women a month you hit me my message is reaching 10 million people a week then when I say this is how women sound this how they sound to me I've been toured the whole world I'm toured the world doing love relationships I'm not when when women get stand up to talk and they fed it up and they got this question that's how they sound that's how they sound of course I'm not Eddie Murphy or Jamie Foxx to know how to change my voice to the exact tenor and tone so forgive me for being an octave off but that's not the sound oh honey you need to talk to the man because what I've been noticing is that it's a lot of people popping up talking to women but who's talking to the man but you gotta realize is the man who talking to women we understand because we men we understand how me and learn so we understand men gonna watch this but they're gonna learn back handed because they know the man that I'm preparing you for he know he not that man yeah I gotta go god bless you

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 59min 59sec (3599 seconds)

Published: Thu Jul 09 2020