What Made You Lose Your Crush On Someone? (r/AskReddit)

what is something that instantly killed the crush you had on someone when he tried to finger me with cheeto dust fingers it ain't easy been cheesy started dating a girl after a couple of weeks I went to her house and it was a disgusting mess trash piled up everywhere old food and fast food drinks they had a bunch of animals and didn't clean up after them when they ate there was rotten wet food all over the floor and walls animal pee all over the place killed any romantic feeling real quick this semi popular preppy guy at my middle school and I hit it off pretty well and then he just sat there with his buddies bullying kids with disabilities then his clique was super nice to the hot young parent of Keita that worked in the special ed classroom and they volunteered only to make the kids lives miserable he asked me out later I declined this is frickin terrible he argued with the waiter because they did in stock Cabernet only Cabernet Sauvignon he insisted just Cabernet was a thing now I don't know any better myself but I know I wouldn't get along with someone so convinced he's right that he'd argue with the man who literally serves wine for a living also just Cabernet is definitely not a thing source worked in the wine industry for seven years she was telling me her boyfriend issues then casually mentioned he was married like her last boyfriend later I found out she dated three married guys and a gay douchey almost married she told me all about her fantastic exciting life but the more I got to know her the more holes I notices in her tales turned out she was just an adept pathological liar and I literally didn't know her at all the girl she had painted a picture of across three weeks and multiple dates was entirely fictional the magic died when I asked about a small inconsistency giving her the benefit of the doubt and she blew up at me turned everything I had told her about my life into an attack on my character and then acted as if she said it for my benefit all that just to deflect from my question I genuinely wonder how did people like these are able to get through life I had a crush on a customer at my job then I found out he was dating and later married the popular girl from my high school class I can now talk to him without blushing it was amazing how instant it was when her Petra and child slapped me across the face and she laughed about it also she talks about herself in the third person this cute girls daughter walked up to me and farted on my leg and then started giggling at me that first the mom just rolls her eyes until I leaned down and belched in her daughter's smiling face little girl starts bawling and runs to mama who can't stop laughing at her own crying child probably my proudest moment as an adult my ex one time wanted me to hang out in the bathroom while he was showering so he could tell me about his day after a few minutes the most g.od awful smell to ever grace mine nostrils appeared and I started coughing in between trying to breathe and trying to ask what happened he interrupted me and laughed saying sorry babe I couldn't wait any longer and he showed me that he took a dump in the shower I was pretty grossed out but accidents happen I guess then he started smashing IT with his foot so I T would go down the drain oh don't worry babe I do this all the time I was done at that point these stories are traumatizing me he picked his nose and wiped it on a door handle people were watching my dad did this on his first date with my mom she took it that he had plenty of confidence he send and wanted nudes to my close friends at the same time as we were having a normal conversation i woldn't Saders was instant but I started to figure out she really wants attention on her at all time if people stop talking about craps she has no idea about she will just start talking out her about to be Center on conversation and if people still don't care she will just leave the conversation and join another one where people will listen to mostly her that is a big no-no about people I get involved with I am rather laid-back person and probably could not handle spending significant time with someone like that sounds like my wife's friend if the topic isn't her or something she can comment on she'll just blurt something to get the focus back on her she's 43 and very very single how reckless she was it was cute at first but then she's gonna die soon plus with recklessness usually comes selfishness with recklessness usually comes selfishness thanks for this you are the first one to introduce his theory to me and it seems true I've just never connected the two trays source and reckless and selfish he was brought shouldered and had wavy dark blond hair and a cleft chin he sat in front of me in biology 101 and about halfway through the semester he said hi I died inside his voice was melodious and deep I knew he meant I love you he wore thick whale corduroy pants and a nice button-down oxford shirt and had a worn leather backpack he was very handsome Tuesday Thursday in that three-credit class I put on my tightest guest jeans waited until he was there then sat down behind him and said hi he would smile and say hello I died every time I told my roommates about him summer came and we all went home I was in my local bar with my friends and there he was I couldn't believe it hey I said how are you he looked up from his beer whoa hi he said we chitchat for a little bit it was the early 1980s in a rural area hey can you do me a favor sure can you act like my girlfriend what was this a ploy to get me to be his actual girlfriend could my dream boyfriend be true he put his arm around the guy next to him yep he likes boys crush gone we stayed friends for a while he was super fun and I always thought he was so handsome in truth it might have been maybe dangerous for him to come out so when I look back at it I'm glad he thought he could trust me what a hidden gem within these other comments in the mid-2000s I had a few community college courses with a good friend of mine in our English class there was this girl that he was immediately smitten with they started hanging out all the time I'm pretty sure they might have actually been freaking but not 100% sure anyways one of our assignments was to write a paper about our biggest hero and to present it to the class I wrote about my World War two veteran grandfather my friend wrote about his music teacher from high school and then she gets up and starts talking about Hitler later our professor said his favorite moment of the year was the look of absolute horror on our faces as she spoke whatever he had with her ended instantly had a major crush on a neighbor friend of mine for years eventually I built up the confidence to tell her she didn't feel the same way fair enough the next day we were both going to a mutual friend's party I walked in the door and overheard some of her conversation with her cousin which went something like this cousin why don't you give him a chance crush because he is ugly yep not only did it kill the crush but it absolutely killed my confidence this hit too close to home had a crush on a friend of mine we hung out a load one thing led to another and he was aware of my crush on him someone asked him something and he responded I would go for with her but I want a gf that's actually hot right in front of me it hit two birds with one stone law I had a crush on this guy in my church for years as a teenager I started liking him at like 12 or 13 and was undyingly in love or so I thought when I turned 18 I was about to move out and he asked me on a lunch date that night when I got home my mom was on the phone kind of bragging to her friend that I finally got the date I wanted for so long her friend was like um you need to keep your daughter away from him turns out he was babysitting for a neighbor a family I actually babysat for and a family in our church too and he took one of the little girls into the bathroom and made her take off her diaper all panties or something and was touching her when the older sister walked in the family moved away and he was in a very complicated legal case after that I don't know the results because the family moved away and I moved to college and nobody heard anything even if it wasn't true though I lost all crushes and anything else for the loser complete and utter laziness there was the girl in my class once I was crushing on mad hard she was real cute and I didn't have the courage to actually have a conversation with her fast forward to the end of the semester we are doing a group project and we wind up in the same group after days and days of trying to find a good time for all of us to meet we eventually meet at the library just a few days before the project is due I'm already mad going in because I've been ready to get started for a while now she shows up sits down and contributes nothing the entire time doesn't chime in with anything useful doesn't offer to do anything just sits there we eventually agree to do our own parts on our own and bring it all together later on she was supposed to do a few slides and nothing more I don't think she even had to research anything just take what we already did and make it look good the night before she still doesn't contribute to a goddamn thing and I ended up having two Bs a slides last minute didn't exactly have a crush on her after that I tried once to be the person in the group that does nothing after three years of doing my work plus others and university I got sick of it this lasted for all of five minutes before I felt terribly guilty I don't know how some people can just feel okay with contributing nothing wasn't me but I saw it happened to my friend it was as going-away party he got accepted to an Ivy League school and he had a crush on Miss our hometown she was still his drop-dead gorgeous he decided this bonfire party would be his night he was going for it they were somewhat friends and she flirted with him sometimes right as he's telling us we hear her go I've never even read a book in my life some girl asked about as a child or required reading for classes I said I've never read a book in my life my friend grabbed the whiskey bottle and downed a good bit saying he was gonna need it he almost got there and then came back later that night saying she was absolutely too stupid to talk to he should have given her the moby dong instead she admitted to making out with her stepdad every now and then like it was no big deal I've seen that movie she casually mentioned how many guys she has dated to get free perks she called it breakfast lunch dinner and that s exactly what it was she would set up multiple dates on the same days so she would be wined and dined I'm kind of impressed at her commitment even barring any moral compass I don't think I would have the energy go on three dates a day especially with people I'm not interested in that sounds like a terrible terrible way to spend a day was talking to her dude we had like held hands but nothing past that one day he confessed he was in love with me little quick buddy but that's not even what stopped me commented out of just like his ex even if that's true never say IT I can't remember much more besides wanting to stop in mid speech and give him pointers on asking someone out so I knew it wasn't going anywhere when my friend asked me to help cover up hi keys from that dude she didn't know we had been talking I didn't know they had been past talking I bowed out said you can have him but I don't think you should found out later he was talking to five of the set ones one was married and the married chick notes out of there fast the others fault over this pose picky girl one and they started dating out of nowhere he tells me he will drop her in a second if I will give him a chance no no I told her everything showed her the texts trying to save her from heartache but didn't listen or care they're now married with kids and he cheats so often she started shooting back in retaliation I was invited to the wedding and said Frick no holy crap I was casually dating this guy as in we had only recently met and only been on a couple of dates back in college he was educated had a good job in his own place polite etc basically no immediate red flags one day he wanted me to come over for a casual Pizza night at his place I had just finished up a 12 plus hour long day due to my scheduling combination of non-stop classes and a part-time job I was exhausted and did not feel like spending nearly an hour doing my hair and makeup to get all dolled up for such a casual date I texted him something along the lines of I had a long day can we keep it casual tonight I hope you're okay with yoga pants and a hoodie he responded with actually no that's not okay when you're spending time with me you should always make a full effort to look your absolute best then he started trying to tell me what to wear something along the lines of why don't you put on a pretty dress make yourself look nice for me it was one of the weirdest conversations I've ever had after he made the dress comment I simply stopped responding I never spoke to him again he kept on texting me for a while asking what was wrong and why I had just disappeared I honestly don't think he realized what he said was so off-putting my brain went to Patrick Bateman Jean next time high heels I like high heels he randomly sent me pictures of his dong it really weirded me out because there was nothing in the conversation that could have led up to that and I didn't know what to say so I just told him nice ppph and then never talk to him again if you ever receive an unsolicited dong pic send a nicer looking dong bag it makes most men uncomfortable back when I was in school I liked this girl who was all unique and stood up for herself just a real character one day though I was sitting there waiting for my class to start and I overheard her talking about how she chased down a bird caught it then squeezed it till it threw up it was totally in a joking manner - she was laughing about it I didn't even look at her the rest of the year shoots not okay it's okay till it Mar good and handled her if you're gentle but you gotta be fricked up to squeeze one till it throws up freakin butthole I met who I thought was a sweet girl in college one day we were walking around campus and talking we talked about pets she told me that she had a purebred English Sheepdog that she had put down right before she left for college because she didn't want anybody else to have him I told her off walked away and never spoke to her again saw him at a family reunion that's never ideal I'm an engineering major and so is this guy and his roommate his run mates is struggling but he doesn't want to help him so I helped his roommate and he just hovers nearby and then scoffs and then says to his roommate being taught engineering material by a girl you're so stupid TBF they are both foreign exchange students so the culture is probably different but the fact that he wouldn't spare a minute for his roommate friend and then spoke as if girls are incapable engineers made it really hard to like the guy I hardly even hung out with him by the time last semester ended dang even if this exchange was partially a cultural thing in this context he insulted you directly I had the beginnings of a crush on a guy I'd met through mutual friends started hanging out and getting to know each other a little bit hung out with him and his friends at a bowling alley and he and his friend started basically beating the crap out of each other for no reason pretty positive he did it to impress me I didn't like that at all so was already mentally on my way out and then he sent me a text saying he was falling in love with me after three days right after I mentioned that we should take it slow nope nope nope abort when I was in eighth grade there was this quiet girl in one of my classes that I thought was really cute but since she was so shy I rarely talked to her one day in class as I was doodling on one of my notebooks she asked I was drawing to which I replied it was a van Halen logo it was the mid 80s she didn't know who that was so when I explained it to her her face got real grim and she said that's Devil's music you're going to hug her listening to that noise I laughed but she was serious I rarely ever spoke to her again after that day had a crush on a girl on/off for like three years in high school we were great friends for the whole way through though anyway during Christmas of my first year of college her sister sent me a snapchat of this girl I liked lying on the floor practically in tears screaming I teased the wrong one I responded with something along the lines of Oh Frick what happened turns out her mom got her a ps4 for Christmas but it was the Uncharted Edition she wanted the last office edition she liked both games and was going to get both of them anyway at some point that's when three years of built-up romantic fields just fell out of me like taco bell with laxatives her sister was being a solid bro for you on our first date he screamed at the waitress for taking too long only about five minutes plus they were busy to bring out our dessert after we ordered she kept apologizing even though she did nothing wrong but he kept going on and on until she offered to comp our meal as soon as she walked away he gave me the doubts East smile and said see that with me you'll always eat for free I left what would have been the total for my meal plus 20% as a tip for her when he wasn't looking I was totally planning on a second date right up until that moment glad I dodged that one I just can't believe anybody would think that behavior makes them look attractive who the Frick is Shawn at my little brother who I talked about yesterday so not only did he not listen when I talked about people who are important to me he was aggressively possessive and jealous I dated a guy who would verbally crap on my brother all the time and by this point in the relationship I had been manipulated enough that I just let it happen biggest regret took everything I had not to blow up at him when he said sorry for your loss too when said brother died like take that fake crap away from me saw her kick a stray cat on the street I ain't gonna love someone who just abuses animals like that crap I'd stop walking right then and there and just verbally crap on her i frickin love animals that is not okay I was about 14 in the late 90s working basically as a volunteer Babis at a teacher's assistant in Vacation Bible School in rural Mississippi one of the elder boys was 16 and quite attractive we were both assigned to clean up the arts and crafts room which had been completely destroyed by a pack of children we walk in he scoffs and says what the Freak I ain't cleaning this crap up my skin ain't black I've never lost an attraction to someone so fast in my life come a Vacation Bible School in rural Mississippi yup saw a girl who was mad cute she placed wintergreen long kachou the size of a baseball into her upper lip instant crush Cola we went on a date it went well and we were both busy but looking forward to seeing each other again but we sent flirty texts back and forth he apparently forgot that we had friends in common because he sent one of my pics didn't have my face it still to a mutual guy friend yeah guy friend sent it to me to let me know he hid it there was no second date as of the end of my most recent relationship I had a repository of at least 100 nude steamy pics from her when we split I deleted all of them I felt like keeping them was counterproductive to my progressing past the breakup be a right crappy thing to do just my to see you kicked a dog out of his way and saw no problem with that unacceptable should have kicked him when I was in seventh I heard his friend saying go talk to her go talk to her so I was waiting there all excited so um how much do you weigh his friend in the background screamed anything by that other friend mission failed we'll get em next time ran into an old Exeter party ended up shutting the world out and talking to him for four hours I noticed a group of people talking about us didn't care enough to find out what it was about because I was very into what was happening with my ex then one dude from that group comes and asks us a question has a stutter and gets nervous when he can't make out the word and stutters more so I tell him to take his time and that it's no big deal X tells him it's okay and not to worry then after the guy walks away X goes I don't like that he didn't thank us for being chill about the stuttering off-topic but from someone with a stutter thank you for letting him take his time ignorance she was pretty but she didn't know anything ignorance can be corrected if someone wants to dumb can't be fixed I'm not going to link her name but she's a relatively famous Instagram fitness model that lives in the same town as me she had a rocking body that I was crushing on super hard ran into her at a bar one night and ended up taking her home the whole way home consisted of her talking about how great she was and generally just being condescending about anyone who wasn't up to her standard but basically thought she was special for some really basic qualities to a fault never been more turned off by a non-physical attribute so quickly in my life looking at her page now it's clear as day that she's super vain but it took me meeting her to really grasp just how someone's crappy personality can make a gorgeous person hideous I didn't even know I had those sort of standards for women I wanted to sleep with so I guess overall it was a net gain I was on a second or third date with a really attractive girl in college and she told me a story about her week I knew she was religious and it didn't really bother me as an atheist until she explained that she stayed out really late and got drunk this caused her to oversleep the next day and miss a midterm that was like 40% of her grade in a class she then told me it's okay it's all God's plan he must want me to fail and take I again my parents will understand instant vibe color I can't be with someone who has zero personal responsibility sure enough she stopped paying attention or going to that class and failed it and ended up failing 3-4 other classes and dropped out after she got married and pregnant though there were rumors it wasn't in that order in her junior year dodged a bullet when I was at school I fancied a boy so much that I couldn't concentrate on anything else but it turned out he didn't like me back I was crushed Intelli friends suggested that I imagine him taking a long steamy crap I mean imagined the whole process from start to finish the expression on his face the noises the wiping really imagine it he fell off his pedestal pretty quickly after that I'm keeping this technique this is awesome I had a dream where the guy I fancied kissed me but a pee fell out of his mouth and into mine even though it wasn't real it just killed any feelings I had I literally saw her eat the passat verone's it that is fricking horrific you have been spotted by the money pigeon comment gimme gimme and he will bless you with good fortune like' and subscribe' you magnificent person

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Length: 24min 26sec (1466 seconds)

Published: Fri Apr 03 2020