Wednesday Night Live | 5/6/20

ladies and gentlemen Tony Gaskins here see if I got this thing working right the night wanna pop in and do my Wednesday bonus hey miss Elsie bless you okay so I think just working cuz that's a member hey there mama Tish god bless you wanna pop in and do the Q&A so y'all along if you new to the Q&A just remember to put a hashtag cue in front of your question and uh let me see I think we started probably a couple minutes early here hmm make some achat sit up right okay sighs or your friends are jealous of you know one one way you can always tell if your friend jealous of you is when they see you doing good they don't start asking you for something that's when you can tell they're not jealous of you and you also can tell by when you tell them something how enthusiastic their feedback is that first best if you tell them in person what that first face they made the first face they made yeah y'all hold on I gotta have a commercial break I forgot that right all right came in here too late Tony I met a guy on Instagram been talking for a week hour a day he has good character but his long distance should I continue well Trisha he has good character right now in this he'll first week he isn't he is long distance and y'all just talking so it's really you don't have much to lose right now when you start going past you know three months six months now that's when the stakes get a little higher but for right now it's kind of like research you get to learn you get to talk to the guy you get to learn about them get to kind of see how guys communicate see how guys move when they meet you all social media so it's some lessons to be gained in there hey Tony what are your thoughts on dating a guy with a roommate he's 28 they considered themselves as brothers but are really just best friends he's a late bloomer 28 is is a bit old to have a roommate so but I mean don't hurt the datum to see if you don't have any other options right now it doesn't mean that he's a bad guy he could just be fiscally smart and doing the right thing is money but you just have to pay attention to see if that friend is a bad influence hey Tony can you talk about the guys who don't have a mom around and have issues with women I mean that kind of speaks to itself if you see Kayla roles god bless you if you see a guy part in the life Lord bless you Kayla if you see a guy who doesn't have a mom around and he has issues with women then that lets you know that he's harboring some resentment and that could be very dangerous whereas you have some men who maybe didn't have a relationship with their mom and because of that they want a wife and they want to have that interaction with a woman that they can love because they didn't have that with their mom or they don't have that with their mom so a person can go one end of the spectrum or the other just like when somebody is you know violated when they're young some people have become very promiscuous and some people have become very reserved so think about that make sure you put hashtag Q in front of your question so I it'll stick out to me try to keep the chat clear y'all only put questions not comments only put questions in there so we could keep the chat clear how do you handle friends that don't really initiate contact with you and you always have to start a communication with them if it's not going both ways then either they're super super busy or they don't view you as a friend the way you view them as a friend so it just depends you know sometimes people just really busy and they caught up in their life they're building their life so you have to be able to you know recognize that Loraine god bless you Lorraine god bless you pouring on life loss blastula Rainer I really really good bless you Lorraine black diamond bless your part in our life Lord hello mr. Gaston's what are your top three things that women do that tournament off in the dating stage that can result in him not wanting to move forward everyman top three things may be different a little bit I think for me one of the biggest things was a woman who was argumentative like a woman who you just met her and she want to argue you know she won't fuss fighting argue like she won't debate about everything you know then another thing is when a woman is not just being authentic like a lot of times humans don't realize that we're all a window you know and that people could see right through you and a lot of time we don't realize that and so a woman may be nervous and she may be putting on either trying to act a certain way talk a certain way you know be a certain way and just not being true and authentic to herself and that's a huge turnoff and then a woman who just hasn't dealt with her issues you know and she's projecting whether she want to be loose booty or whether she wants to be you know guarded and you know like a like a guard dog that that's real off-putting do you think men moved to a new relationship so fast to avoid the pain absolutely Maryland that's that's what a man does I saw one time a man said men don't heal we a joke and that's true a lot I see if a man sits in his stillness and he's quiet he really got to see and hear and feel everything that he's done and that could be so painful it could be sold real that a lot of times that's why men go from woman to woman to to match that painting now y'all yeah y'all let me think Lorraine kress again why analyze Lord I met a guy recently asked him to look at a two-minute video for my business he lied and said he did wasn't expecting him to buy now giving me excuses I cut them off thoughts you probably introduced business too early you know if you meet a guy and y'all meeting to like on a romantic tip y'all gonna talk then you don't want to introduce business into a romantic situation where you meeting somebody that you want to date so that kind of was a little off-putting in itself and kind of threw things off because then it's like oh you you want to do business with me or are you looking to meet a man that you can date you know so you kind of want to separate the two in the beginning and don't just be that you know forward with the business situation caramel kisses mama TIFF share on the scene a few moderated god bless y'all really appreciate that help pretty humble bless ya how do you completely let go when you can't cut the person completely off because my children are involved you can't completely let go you know in the whole sense of the word so you got to realize that that's your lot in life and that that comes with lying down with somebody that comes with giving somebody your body is that you may get up and never be the same and so that's something that you lose in life and that's why it's very important to save yourself until marriage and then sometimes it happens in marriage but at least with marriage you you know that you went about it in a very real way and that you was given a lifelong commitment so if it didn't work out you don't really you can't blame yourself at all but when you sleep with somebody before marriage you're taking a huge gamble and what you gotta realize is when you gamble sometimes you lose your shirt sometimes you lose your kom 23 y'all keep your all comments you know I the chat we really don't nobody really want to see any additional messages on here all right we'll get nobody confused and a lot of people wrote in about that when they ask a question they want to hear one answer from the person page that they own so y'all keep y'all comments out of the tap okay we're gonna change some don't hear only put questions in the chat only put questions in the chat Miriam god bless you hi Tony if you ask a man not to like a certain woman's pictures on IG and he goes and likes a lot of her pics back to back after he told you he wasn't going to what kind of message is he trying to sin he basically trying to tell you - kisses behind basically telling you in kisses behind and you'd stop trying him like a base on which if you only want a base is like like a crackhead so that's what he telling you it's really the social-media equivalent of spitting in your face so what you have to do is just sit there right now and just kind of envision just envision you looking at him and then envision him doing like this just envision that and then envision that that what y'all call him to loogie that phlegm coming through the air and just hitting you right there and just let him win just envision that and let a little bit of it get in your nose and let a little bit of it get in your eye and then it's thick mucus and he and it just and you got to get that out your face that's the equivalent what he did you on social media he's spit in your face and so when a man taking do that because social media is real and so that's that's a man shooting his shot when he going liking a bunch of these pictures he's shooting and shot he's trying to get her attention you're trying to let her know a I see you ammonia I'm watching you coming to an inbox near you that's what a man is doing when he liking a woman a bunch of warming pictures so that's the emotional cheating that he want to become physical cheating if he can make it get there on Milly god bless you now part in the life thank you Tony for being a blessing in my life you are helping me grow into the god-fearing woman I want to become god bless you on your family a blessing Miller bless you not yeah Miriam I want you to really get that point miss Elsie God blessing now I've been independent my entire adult life because my parents never care about my path I work hard as a single mom pay my own bills but keeping home intact is a challenge seem to turn my ex off why some men just looking for a woman that's gonna cater to him some men looking for a woman who was you know raised to be very home centered and domesticated and just focus on the man you know he may grew up seeing that to where a woman is not independent and she's more so dependent or codependent on her man and she's just serving him hand and foot three hots a day three hot meals a day SLD what I called it says on a man okay and that's just what she did and so some men they're looking for that and so you come in independent strong focus you know take care your child and then you may not be able to really you know be on top of the house like that because of what you're doing Chiquita Harris god bless you god bless you well Cheers if his mom was the same thing that it's still the same thing you know it could mean that he resented that well maybe he saw his mom resent that maybe he felt you know neglected by his mom and so that makes him not like when you do it or it may not have anything to do with your independence I know a lot of times what I noticed a lot of time women want to put their independence as the reason why their ex left sometimes just with you you know sometimes he just didn't want to be with you sometimes it got none to do with your independence with your codependence with your dependence it's just he just fell out of the relationship he's just one filling in anymore and then just you know he saw this over here and intrigued by that and curious curiosity killed a cat type thing black diamond god bless you yeah you need a session black danke you poppin the hill with all any questions you definitely need you a session not gonna pay for your session all the question nine last question God blessing not poor in a life Lord when men take women to meet their parents does that whole wait if not what's their reasoning they don't really hold weight in most cases you know in most cases unless he was raised very very conservative by you know like bible-thumping parents or something but typically a family expects to meet multiple women as the young man is looking for his life partner so a lot of times women puts more stock into that then he actually holds and it don't mean a whole lot even God bless you know I exchanged numbers with a guy two months ago we talk in chat on video for hours today he told me that I remind him of his mom on and first love all in one not sure what that meant your thoughts it definitely a good a good thing I mean a good compliment he's trying to give you he's trying to give you a compliment but it is a little awkward it is a little awkward you know because on one side when y'all if y'all all the way together y'all get all the way together get married get intimate on one side is incestual when you tell me to remind me of my mom I'm on and then on the other side it's kind of sold tight when you remind me of my first love so it's kind of like can I be my own person you know how some people say I don't want to be the next Michael Jordan I want to be the first Tony Gaskins you know it's like in your cases like I don't want to be the neck first love I want to be the first me you know so it that is a little awkward there starfish god bless you what is a good way to capitalize on your gifts if you're very caring big-hearted and want to see others believe in themselves how to use shrimps that's like a life coach that's like a life coach you know consultant accountability partner and a lot of times people don't realize like if you like to help others then you can help others full-time you know like I'm helping y'all and while I'm helping you though you blessing me you know you bless me with a blessing and so that's a financial blessing while I'm doing what I would do for free like I set up something like this and just what I did for free for years but I've been doing what I'm doing right now I've been doing this since 10th grade you know answering questions from women about men and from men about women I've been doing this literally since 10th grade and so on three-way calls all that and then this right here came about so I say that to say you know become a life coach take the life coach certification caramel kisses she posts Tony Gaston academy.com in there with the coupon code enjoying my mentor got life and start serving my Jeana god bless you're not boyfriend insists he's in love with me actions aligned with that wants to marry me but sometimes it feels more like he's obsessed with me how can I tell if it's true love or just an obsession it's gonna feel like that that's what love gonna feel like let me grab this real quick Vesey god bless it does a guy catch feelings after being friends with benefits for over a year nope you don't know you don't now back to the obsession now it's kind of like when you say obsession do you really mean the true sense of the word like does it sound does it feel like he's just really in love with you just really all day all the way there with you or or you mean like you waking up every morning and you opening your eyes and he like staring you in the face while you been sleeping in and you say wow how are you already up and he's like I didn't go to sleep I watched you all night now do you mean like on a level like that that then okay we got an issue but if it's just like he always want to be around you hang guys stuff like that that could just truly just be in love I'm barely god bless you now my husband keeps coming by my apartment and we are separated because he cheated on me for five years how do I stop him I had the boys in blue stand over there one night I'll give him a fair warning like listen you come over here again I'm gonna put my ro on you and if he tried me again I gotta put that our own and he come over there again I got had two boys in blue come on over there and take him to sit down for a night and then I then called it cousin somebody's rebelling might but you gotta let people know like I'm moving on with my life I negated his chance I'm moving on my life and like things really could go down if you show up over here and not a move on with my life and got my new partner over here you showing up knocking at the door so what men will do is men are trying to force the issue force the issue force the issue and that means that's a lack of respect and that's a form of abuse and you gotta stop that without you getting out of character so you don't have to get out of character the 9-1-1 ah yes hello this is non-emergency but could you send a patrol car over here I have an unwanted guest that keeps popping up you said I'm saying you ain't got to get out of character you go out there screaming yelling all that now you got you out of character nah he see that you he still could press buttons only button I'm pressing it and three buttons on that phone ah yes then your God blessing nine thank you for your wisdom it really breaking down the game the teddy bear video spoke to my soul setting standards and working on loving myself god bless it's not if you missed the video I did a day to tell you about video make sure you get the catch that you're talking to a guy who was getting out of a relationship told me he wants me but there are few loose ends not sure what to do what to do I like them move on with move on by to business because if he really liked you he went and told you it's a few loose ends and he wouldn't told you he getting out of relationship he to close that door in their relationship he'd come right in he wouldn't tell you nothing but no loose ends he don't like you he wants you to be uncertain he wants you to be on your toes he wants you to be insecure and he's just gonna kind of use you and drag you and you're gonna be a band-aid Nicole Baker god bless you now move back in state last year dating a couple months and it's going well he thinks highly of my family for good reason how do I tell him it's my family mom bro etc without him viewing me different oh he doesn't think highly of my family for good reason okay how do I tell him it's my family mom broke cetera without him viewing me different you just tell him you just tell him is if he views you different and that's his problem not yours latina cop that should not but you got to tell him that's his problem because some men don't like your family because they want to isolate you from your family cuz see if a man put you on an island away from your family who loves you then your family can't hear your screams so some men don't like your family just because of their own reasoning it have nothing to do with them now you say it for a good reason but it's like if your family giving him good reason not to like him why is that what is it about him that they don't like do they just are they just doing it nasty and mean spirited just so you have to be single you know I find that hard to believe and if that is why they doing it then you ought to be trying to get distance from your family their toxicity so either it's a issue with him that's causing red flags and your family or it's a issue with your family just trying to sabotage and keep you single and then that means the issue is with you because you need to be trying to get distance to just teach them a lesson on Kenyatta god bless you now my ex and I are communicating again after seven months no contact he's asking a lot of personal growth questions inventing opening up to me about his issues should I put it into this I mean you're already in it nine you know so you got to ask yourself why you got in it and then you got to ask yourself how long you gonna be into it so you know it could be if he comes back a new man a change man I mean my wife and dating we were apart seven months I mean six months but the first time we had only been together two to three months so now if y'all was together for years and now he didn't come back after seven months of silence then yeah put it into it move on but if y'all were just together for a little bit he didn't really get to know you you didn't really get to know him and now he's come back seven months later and he's a completely different person it could be something there but that's what you got to use your wisdom and discretion then took God blessed I couldn't wait to see here or maybe be here by the way there's nothing that you have said in your videos that I haven't told my friends you truly confirmed that I wasn't crazy too hard on guys I feel like I can be a coach I'm Muslim hey god bless you not for being here god bless you not for being here on the Christian Channel and you know interfaith coaching when you ought to be a coach take the life coach certification and join us on my mentor dot life if you giving it out like that giving the game I a got to use the Gil Simone Roy god bless you tonight plot and pour it in your life I don't know I can't really see your picture but I'm praying you blessed thank you for being a blessing to me daughter God is using you to break generational curses blessings sir a god bless you boy in our life now I really appreciate y'all with them blessing I feel like it was some some I miss carries 93 god bless you now I see you hold on Charisse let me get you here hi Tony is it wrong or bad to send someone a song in this time you haven't talked to in a while it's uplifting no ulterior motives god bless you well you got to ask yourself do you want to open that door up are you opening the door that needed to stay closed if you're not opening the door that need to stay closed latina Jones blast your night then yeah thank you for your wisdom and really breaking down the game the teddy bear video spoke to my soul okay I see now don't bless your Danielle Beverly I saw that one Nicole y'all can keep moving about your life okay VC okay I ain't really get the ants on that one too good VC does a guy catch feelings after being friends with benefits over a year no no he don't you got it what you got a look at that like it's kind of like like if you have a sports team you know what I mean and it's a play on the end of the bench who just kind of a role player the team don't fall in love with the guy after a year and say oh I'm gonna make you the star it'd be like no we'll keep you on keep playing your role coming off the end of that bench but you're not going to get in here and replace LeBron James you said I mean so that's what you have to realize when you friends with benefits you a role player you were coming off the bench and so you he's not gonna move you from a bench player to the star franchise player a man who want to be with you you never gonna be friends with benefits Elena see god bless you now have you sent a financial blessing up there to the top and I miss you put your keep putting your question in there because I'm trying to see it was a lot of them yellow ones I was trying to get to them all Elena see is it wrong for a man last night to be in a relationship for over four years with no kids living together known each other six years prior he wants to start his own business to pass down to his nephews and nephews kids what happens if he marries it this thing it's not wrong for what demand see the man doing what whoever he with allowing him to do I mean not just his personal choice ain't nothing wrong with wanting to start a business and give it to your nephews that's your family you don't have kids obviously if he get married didn't that make change he's gonna put his kid before his nephew but that might mean he have no intention of having his own kids and getting married so it's the woman that stand with him that's playing the fool because if she want to be married and she wanna have kids and she didn't been with him for four years and been gone for ten and he's stealing elevated her from roomate shacking up mate to wife that's on her because what he doing ain't nothing wrong with him making that choice for his life but if a person is in that situation and don't want that same thing then that person has to make a choice for their life keep making his choice for his life the person the woman he whit got to make a choice for her life and say this ain't for me I gots to go cuz I need to be with a man who want to get married and have his own children stead of trying to start a business and create a legacy for his sister or his brother it's honest so you see what I mean so each of us got to make a decision for our life and we can't get mad at somebody else for doing what they want to do for their life and if they don't fit in our plans then we got to get up and get going five years two years five years five years year two left was having miscarriage said he didn't know what to do Christmas came and said I should help with gifts for kids since he helps with mine he wasn't working then spend less time now did I mess up miss Elsie you gonna have to go out to get you a couple of session system because all that privation I tried to go to privation University but I did not do too well you're gonna need a culture session now Miss Elsie Oh Kimberly god bless you god bless you bless you now y'all hold on now let me make sure Cherise god bless you not for that additional blessing let me see let me see if I could get up here to the yellows just to make sure that I got everybody pet beer god bless and I see here in the chat a man changes his I G private to public constantly Amy Adams Amy Sonia blasts your song CSUN yeah y'all see some of y'all on you in the chat you putting a message in the chat I don't know if that's a super chat or a sticker I don't know but um I don't know how do you completely let go when you cut the person completely off because okay I am so down all right I think I got them all Kayla god bless you not need to release soul time you have been such an inspiration for over a year I'm wondering what is the first priority for really releasing a soul time you got to take the course take the soul cop soul type courses on the fire although I made a fire olives but I go through all the steps in their stuff one two three four five six seven eight nine ten but you're gonna have to cut all ties you're gonna have to cut all ties the whole process I've got a video on it too but it's it's so long it's so in depth I can't really go into it here because I'll be cheating you Natasha Oliveira Tony do you encourage online dating now that this here is here okay 19 no because that ain't change the online date it's still gonna be a hot mess still gonna be a mess on there it actually probably gonna increase the desperation of the people on there and then other than that it's like you meet somebody online they just gonna want to meet you in person and coffee in your face with the 19 anyways so you know the world starting to open back up now so you ain't got too much long before you can step out with your face mask and and meet somebody with your eyes and eyebrows you know blinking to make sure you are browsing and your lashes you know on fleet and you attract somebody but don't get on that line no don't get on that line and you got to remember you know it is people traditional who have traditional wear that have all this covered up and just they I was opening and they'd be meeting love so going out there with your mask on and on you know meet love but don't get on that line I'm trying to tell you now crystal the dancer god bless you not know it not the dancer okay ballet and stuff I met a guy that's thirty and have everything good job car no kids in the house I'm 31 and had to move back with my mom to save up for a car I feel less than a woman because I'm not on his level am I wrong you're not wrong for how you feeling but what you got to understand a Kimberly Charlton god bless you now but what you gotta understand is he may not be judging you like you judging you okay so understanding because a lot of men most men is there looking to provide like they expect that's why you hear guys say all the time I need to be financially stable before I get married it's some truth to that statement some men use it as an excuse but deep down a man want to be able to provide like I don't want my woman my wife to have to go on somebody else job work for somebody unless she want to unless that is her career choice but I want her to be able to be home be full-time with our kids if she want to be working our businesses and not go punch somebody else clock and be on a schedule and job scared so a man is not really judging a woman the same way a woman may judge a man if the man living with his mama because a lot of women want a provider man a man that could provide him he living off of his mama so he could get his money together I wanna maybe more quick to judge him then a man will be a real man to judge you god bless it now I really want to take your course especially with the much appreciated discount you offer however I'm studying other courses at the moment okay not at that ATMs them at the moment if that's them at the moment I really think that abbreviation University now hide it hit me ATM at the moon I need to spend some time with that I felt good get that ATM you got to go to the ATM and in preparation of launching an online boutique in a few weeks seeking advice on what to do please um if you get ready to launch of online boutique that mean you've got a little business money so I would say sign up for your consultation so that you can cross your T's and dot your i's and we got business consultants brand coaches on my mentor dot life but on just do one thing at a time you know so you're doing the online boutique you passionate about that just go ahead and do that you know and then once you get that and it got legs and it's running and you got you a system in place then you can take the life coach certification because it's gonna be other people that want you to coach them on how to build their brand how to start their online boutique so understand that right there and on so the the money that you spend when you invest in yourself and you do something anything you do you could teach somebody else how to do it so if it costs you a thousand dollars start your online boutique you're gonna make 10 times that teaching other people how to do it because they don't want to start their online boutique and they'll pay you $100 an hour or whatever per hour for you to teach them so that they don't make the mistakes that you made while you were learning so that's how that work every single person could be a mentor there's people who work in corporate full-time and they are my mentor that life coaching clients on their off days just from their expertise if they climb the ladder in corporate America then they are a career coach on my mentor taught life helping other people climb the ladder so understand that Lex the comte been dating a man six weeks says he doesn't want a relationship right now is it too soon to ask for relationship after six weeks should we keep dating no because what you got to realize is the time period to wit a man is to see if he want a relationship is around three months so if he volunteered to say I don't want a relationship then that mean he don't want to be with you he wouldn't tell you that new day to see God yes you know he wouldn't tell you that so and if you ask him that means that to him that'll make it look like you need some Gatorade because you're thirsty and so that's gonna be a turn-off so if you pop that question six weeks in he probably like whoa hold on hold on give me some time to get know you like what's your middle name just met you you said a meaning so if you pop that question that's a red flag to him if he just volunteered that information that's a red flag to you and you need to go and get gone because he telling you I don't want a relationship so what that means in mangas is you're not my wife I don't want to be with you but if you stick around I'm gonna put you on your bike and then you're gonna be friends with benefits and really not friends frenemies with benefit Javaris Rosskopf blushing ah hello mr. Gaskins been talking with this girl for months and have made it official I slowed it down because of me not converting to her beliefs as fast as I should have how can I win her back you have to go and convert to them beliefs now when you say beliefs 9 you talk of my religious beliefs then and you strong in your religious belief than going about your business if you talk about beliefs and you mean foundational beliefs and you're strong in your foundational beliefs like you don't want kids or you don't want this or that and its foundational then going about your business don't go winning her back just how to eat go just to get her just to say you want because if y'all was on two different pages and y'all were unequally yoked that probably means y'all not supposed to be together because you won't have to convert to somebody beliefs that's for you so if you got to convert to somebody beliefs whether that whatever kind of beliefs that is then that person may not be for you tomorrow I am bored at work and want to change careers to a role that better utilize my skills what advice do you have to combat fear of rejection well you got to build why are you there you balance the dream with the job until the dream becomes the job so you don't have to worry about rejection when you keep your security you keep your job and then you tiptoe and you do some other things and then you don't have to just take no blind leap you'll see a bridge built you'll see a bridge built and then you'll be able to walk cross I balance doing this right here what I'm doing we're working 40 hours a week on the job and I really didn't care for and then after balancing that for almost four years four to five years then I saw my opportunity boom met somebody old friend from high school to say I want to invest in you and get your year's salary the legal job get your your salary give you a year to get on your feet and you give me X amount of percent of your company that you publish your books through and you know do your speaking engagements through and all of that I would work zero dollars and his friend came in just one and invest in me so that gave me one year I was only making 20,000 a year but that gave me a year to focus boom so your bridger come either you'll build up your savings you might get a credit card you build up your credit you might get a car that's $25,000 limit to where this your loan you got interest on it but you you loan it to yourself and you build and credit at the same time you see what I mean like something don't happen and can't nobody judge you for that motive my said god bless if a guy asks you if you want kids does that mean anything yeah I mean everything it means everything because if he do or don't want them that answer to his question mean everything to him t look god bless you not if coaching expert if coaching expertise is I specialize in on my mentor list do I have to just choose what's listed or could I ask for specifics I emailed the info mailbox but haven't received a response would like to get on the site ASAP on email again email again you know they just they get inundated with emails and it could have went to the junk mail depending on where you email it from you know your system so email again we pretty much got about everything on there we can have on there some of the stuff we can't add if it increases liability on my mentor got life so you probably may have to pick something that's on there if what you didn't with deals with any type of you know tricky areas you know Buell's and medical stuff helped and all of that and stuff where you touching on that stuff and it's going into depression or medical issues or anything like that but if it's something kind of generic to where it has nothing to do with diagnosing or prescribing then you may be able to get away with it but when you email them when they get it they'll send it to me and I tell them yes or no if we can add it or not I'm just for because it's only for life coaches okay crystal Bell cough that's a high Tony I want love but I'm scared any feedback on this oh you don't want love that mean you don't want low air commit lord god bless you're not you don't want love because love and fear don't mix when you really want love that means that you will have done the work that means that you have watched the videos you have read the books you have healed you have worked on yourself and that's gonna produce confidence when you operating from fear you have fear because you haven't learned what you need to learn about love and relationships so it's kind of like it's kind of like on in our end I see your question I'm gonna get you right here in a minute it's kind of like if you're getting ready for a test if you've been studying an hour two hours every day all we can tests on Friday you're not gonna have fear because you've been studying and you know you know it like the back of your hand if you have not been studying and you only got to study one day you're gonna be fearful when it come time that test because you know you're not prepared same thing with love when you really are immersed in these teachings and you really learn it from different qualified sources you're gonna get so much knowledge and wisdom it's gonna build confidence and you're not gonna fear the dating scene and I see people put that in the comments they say I can't wait to my next relationship I don't learned all this something to be so ready that's when that's the point you got to get to in rem honestly what is your thoughts on women dating younger men well you don't always tell people to think about it like this go you could go into a kindergarten classroom and see how a five-year-old boy talking high-five yo girl talk yellow boy he might be like hi ba ba ba ba ba ba yeah la da da la bus and so but yeah so I was trying to color with the crayon that then the crayon the file you were like might talk like that the girl you defy you a girl you told her hi how are you my name is Chloe and this is a beautiful polkadot ensemble that my mom picked for me or you Tate instead so you see what I'm saying so it shows you the difference in the maturity of the female and the male and that kind of goes into life to where you will see a man in his 40s still acting a fool still in the club still you know doing this stuff like right you forty whereas you look at a woman and she probably like Oh in the club yawning at thirty you said I mean thirty thirty-two definitely she like and so when a woman data young a man is kind of like trying to teach a little brother to gaining you know it's kind of like raising a teenage son so you got to be very careful with that especially if it go beyond three years younger than you Joe Misha complex you know I'm 20 so the guys I encounter in my age range don't seem very mature see what Joe Mesa just says he's just piggyback right off what I was just saying she Nino its maturity something that they'll grow into or should I keep it moving keep it moving unless you meet a man who is maturity there are special man I got married when I was 23 I was moving on a different level but my wife actually was two years younger than me my wife two years younger than me so it was like she felt like my age you said I'm saying and she was two years younger than me so that's the difference between men and women and so but here's the thing at 20 my wife was 20 when we got married you feel me so so really I'd make like two-and-a-half years younger than me but so a woman you could be mature and at that point but a man at 20 you really need to be focused on on your paper focus on yo and when I say paper that could be college degree certificate and your money all of the above motive mindset god bless you we are currently friends but he asked me if I wanted kids but I was wondering if he was thinking of seeing me as a wife because of that question if y'all friends he don't want you because a man they're gonna be friends with a woman that he could that he won't that he see as a wife again you don't go from the bench player to LeBron James LeBron's ain't came in LeBron Jane so l'orange and he's starting from the first day he stepped in the league you said I'm saying the bronze ain't was never Lou Williams six-man out of year so that's what you got to understand in relationship when a man see a woman and he sees wife potential he's not gonna put you in the friend zone he putting you in the wife zone wife in preparation zone so when you say we friends you therefore potential friend with benefits and you could be a baby mama because he may want multiple baby mamas cuz he may want to feel like a king or the old days they have multiple women and concubines you see what I mean so and it's now yes there are exceptions to the rule but that's how people get hurt trying to be an exception to the rule so understand that right there now I know that hard to hear but that's that that's the blood raw true 3:55 carpet I should thank you for all you do Tony and bless the Queen for allowing you to do so a cup that's you know I really been Mother's Day coming up there we got my wife's a great gift for Mother's Day some great plans cuz I'm like man she let me come on here and do these lives a few times a week and uh we'll do our date earlier we did our bike ride today I'm still stink smelling like outside and had our dinner whatnot and we're watching on Netflix and she let me come in and do this live man she really be supportive let me see I sent a prayer text to both my kids fathers and ask for God's protection and for them to be better fathers they both question why did I pray for them and they know I have a relationship with God why well it kind of really what they saying is why you sending me to eat prayers like say your prayer to God and keep that between you and God don't send me your prayer to slap me in your face slapped me in my face with your prayer you know like a Pharisee I'm standing on the corner praying that's really what they mean and Manglish like keep your prayers between you and God because when you say me your prayers now it's like you're trying to manipulate me with religion or with a prayer like you like is kind of like Thanksgiving dental the where the person be praying and they'd be like Lord and help certain people to realize how blessed and favored they are to have family that deals with them and puts up with them not anyone in this house but Lord you know who needs that on this day of Thanksgiving so they looking at it like that like you trying to use that to manipulate let me see now what does it mean when a man seems nervous to talk to you give you eye contact or approach you I have a feeling that this man in my job wants to pursue me but our connection feels stagnant that means he's taking that means that he has taken and he's battling and he's fighting with the urge to cheat on his woman so you may be attractive to him but he's taking but what you got to realize the one thing that's gonna give a man courage is when he see a woman that he wants and if he is available emotionally available and physically available he gonna approach you if he got to be sweating shaking stuttering he gonna approach you when a man keep making icon looking at you looking at you looking at you but he'd not approach you that's because he's he's at war in his mind like to cheat or not the cheek the cheater not a cheap okay I want to cheat oh he got a catcher said oh I want to go got a kid itself and so that's what he going through and and me and go through that a lot but a lot of times as a woman you don't have a crew then he got a little situation already Courtney god bless you hello Tony do you believe the idea of women waiting for God to send her husband or do you believe that a woman plays an active part and being found by her husband what is her part thank you and love your video that's a loaded question right there now on let me see the phone ninety-nine for it disappear on me cuz it called Li hold on get right back to you dating for a year miss Kate Johnson god bless she's not he's an ex hustler starting to see some old patterns surface because he's feeling money isn't enough I make more he's a grown man and a good man he'll well he might not be grown and good if he's showing you old patterns so he's trying to go back to hustling he's trying to get back into some stuff that's a huge red flag and y'all year in so this to do or not to do so you either make a move or not Courtney back to your question faith without works is dead so that's what the Bible say so what that means is a wonder who's sitting in her house praying to God saying lord please in my hood piece in my hood lolly but I'm ready for my home ready for my hood but she's not taking care of herself she's not preparing herself and she's just sitting at home and she's spitting at man he'll walk up to the doorbell ring the doorbell oh yes God sent me I'm here to make you my wife you see what I'm saying that's never gonna happen or she going out and she speed walking she on her phone she's not in expectation so you remember Ruth in the Bible when Naomi was trying to tell her that hey you got to move on with your life now meet you a man Ruth was in the field working so she was in the field of Boaz working and when Boaz pull it up boy I said who was that hey that's roof and then his home but put him on and say hey that's roof he said hey okay boom I got it what's going on hey Geoffrey coming in my left a she walking behind you dropped some weed on the ground so she could get a song hey Mark come on no mileage hey keep an eye on her don't let nobody else ha letter I'm finna see what's going on then he went and he started checking so guess what she was out and about then they all me said listen according to tradition you need to go lay at his feet now today that's not our tradition you go lay the feet you're gonna get flipped over you hear me but by again and roof was able to go lay at his feet and then he's seen he said okay so you were available all right let me go down here and check and see what I got to do was what went down now hey you wanna cuz you in line for you the next a can he said no I'm good because she nothing to get half of my stuff I'm good I already got another thing at the house so then boy I said okay cool I alright you out the way sign is here paper let all the witnesses see it a she mine so rude come on baby got you let's go and so roof was active she was out she will work and she was about she was what I call prepare in position and that's what happened is a lot of women they say they prepare but they don't get positioned you got to walk around in expectation your head got to be up you can't be on your phone you got to be walking normal speed to where some women walk so fast a man got a pull a hamstring to catch up tool by the time he'd get up to he out of breath and he didn't pull his hamstring from when he played in college and so you have to be an expectation and you're gonna meet your husband Brittany Johnson golf lesson nine second date and I saw somebody else question disappear i'ma find I'm gonna find you I'm pregnant John second day no contact he called today I didn't answer never not answered before what is he thinking do you think you playing mind games because he know you sent by the front and sitting by the phone looking at it and now he watching this live and he said you're on her answering asking question so he's old that's what she was got something for her I'm gonna see what she do now I thought one called for another seven days so you send I'm saying so it's kind of like this you played your hand wrong cuz you really haven't been in my videos that long and deep enough but you played your hand wrong when a man go no contact for a day or two when he called you if you want something with him if you want to be with him then you answer the phone and you check him on going absent when you return that energy and you don't answer now you playing mind games and when you play mind games everybody loses but when you answer that phone and say hey where you been for the last two days you know where you've been for the last two days and he's like oh you know what uh did you like listen this ain't gonna fly because if you trying to deal with me then you got to deal with me ain't no breaks and relationships and I'm not just gonna be sitting on hold why are you going in you know tricking off doing what you want to do and you check them just like that of course not not with my accent because my accent may come off a little more you know a bracelet if you do it in your accent so listen you know I'm just really not with the games at this stage of my life and if you are looking for something serious you say I'm saying you're doing your accents gonna come off a little better I don't date man so it would sound a little awkward in my voice I'm better god bless you're not I need to stop my husband from coming to my apartment I left him because he cheated on me for five years and I Beverly you must have got a phone call when I answered your question the first time Beverly so Beverly Beverly Beverly lifts everybody to make sure that they listen Beverly are you listening Beverly can you hear me okay Barry can you hear me testing testing now listen with your husband keep coming to your place but you got to realize is that you got to move on with your life so you got to send him a very real message this your ex-husband you know how he moves so you know what you got to say it and what tone you got to say it in for him to take you serious and if no matter how you say it he won't take you serious then you got to call them boys in blue like I said earlier ah yes this is non-emergency but could you send a patrol car over here someone is at my door continues to knock yes thank you very not in danger but please could you just protect and serve as you're paid for by the taxes okay thank you just like that and that's after you to let him know in a very real way to you and let them know I am that god bless you god bless what do you think now I'm sound much longer I got okay I am fit get ready to go okay on a stupid question messy question a real fast clip I normally do 90 minutes but hey I might get rid of go on y'all know what do you think about a man that made his mom cry because he feels entitled that made his mom cry because he feels entitled well he well if he disrespected his mom meaning he dishonored her then he got to answer to God the Bible say you know honor thy mother and father and your days will be long upon this earth now you disrespecting your mom and father then your day is gonna be short upon this earth now if mama just seeing it like he felt entitled and mom and her feelings miss reading situation on TV on Hill playing with my remote then it comes down to perception but because sometimes a person could just be sensitive to some real talk you know like I may tell my mom mommy you know the Bible said husband will forsake his mother and father and cleave to his wife understand that my wife come before anybody mama I love you but you raised me to be a man and when a man gets married my wife comes first the Bible tells me to love my wife as Christ loved the church so if I can't answer your call because I'm tending to my wife then don't get in your feelings about that you got to understand the hierarchy and the way things go right now cuz you healthy and you able-body you not in no dire need so Decker hurts somebody mama feelings and she could start crying mama could say oh he felt entitled but no he following the law you said I mean of what he called it ordered to do by God so it's also subjective but if he disrespected her you know person I cursed out or yelled out and you know dishonor her now he got to pay for that by the Lord is it possible to create a new color category for military on my mentor I am former Navy Navy and would love to reach out to our vets you know military be good but now I would imagine people in the military and see my mentor died like because I got some clients several clients in the military so you may actually be a better coach for them than me because I've never been in the military so yeah we can add military we can add military so like what we can't add would be like mental breakdown well we can't add for life coaches on my mentor that life is like PTSD you said I mean we can't add stuff that's dealing with you know the mental like depression all that abuse all that but what you're talking about yes military that could be added so email info and my mentor that life when you ready to sign up and we can add military coach what kind of relationships should I expect from a man who was abandoned by his mother you can't really you know I can't really give you an expectation because remembers two ends of the spectrum so one man he may resent women and be like bye-bye Bob you said I mean and then the other man he may be like super ready for a woman because he's yearning for a connection with a woman because he didn't have that from his mother so you just got to go in wide eye and just open eye open ear paying attention looking for the signs and being sensitive to the spirit so that you can feel if something off so that you catch it and you'll catch it within the first three months six months definitely semi-sweet god bless you know God guy at job blurps heavy for six months we finally exchanged numbers and social media saw a girlfriend on his I G confirmed confronted him that he's a cheater is that eagle or point he's the proof point he's he is proving confronting him that he's a cheater I understand buying me a point he proven or ego he's just a cheater you know he's just a cheater and see that speaks to what I said earlier night with the other young lady who asked about the guy on her job who keep looking at her and she feeling something but he's not approaching her that's cuz he in a relationship just like this guy right here till six months to shoot his shot because a guy always got that looked over he got a little angel and a little devil sake man come on man shoot your shot man ain't nothing wrong have a little friend on the side in an angel her light listen you need to be faithful now what goes around comes around so be faithful your woman is faithful she loves you she's counting on you and it just depend on which one he listening to if he listened the motivational YouTube videos he's gonna listen to the angel if he listened in old trap music he's gonna listen to the devil you see what I mean so that's how old it is it was good you confront now you got to cut them off completely and that solemn and God bless you now what does it mean when a guy looks at you googly eyed every time you're together seems distant sometimes when apart when he starts really missing me we are three hours apart it this sounded like a bunch of nothing I you know sometimes guys just do things they don't really make sense you know a man looking at you googly eye that's on purpose he's looking at you googly eye because he knows you calculating it and so a man does that on purpose because men are masters of the poker face that's why you see some of the greatest poker players in the world are men men are masters at the poker face at looking at you and not letting you know what we thinking and so when a man looking at you Google I that's very intentional when y'all three hours apart and he gets distant that's because he entertaining something else it could let's let's hope it's a video game and not another woman but a man is gonna be distant when he missing you because three hours ain't nothing for a man three hours saying nothing I Drive two hours just to get to the to the NBA basketball game you said I'm saying so I'm driving so I'll just go to the NBA basketball game with my wife you feel my soul um three hours cuz this right here what a woman got what I wanted got just the desire just the pursuit of it will make a man go to the moon and back that's why the first astronaut landed on the moon so that he could brag about it to his woman he can go for no giant step for me and small step for mankind all of that he went to come back and be able to a you know on the further astronaut on the moon don't you oh oh come on baby you want to let me tell you what that moment was like okay my first this what happened that's what that's all he was doing so what you got to realize if a man 3 hours away from you and he get distant that's cuz he preoccupied but see women y'all are fantasizes so you'll come up with a narrative your brain to give you a narrative that say who he look at me googly eye when he with me who and then when we apart and he starts to really missing me he gets distant that only makes sense because think about it when the person really missing you they can be calling you all the time they're gonna be willing to FaceTime you they're gonna be kiss me through the phone you see them saying they're gonna be sending you YouTube videos or songs lyric sheets Souls so that's why you got to think about what you're thinking about let me see now I got these spotlights in my eyes I got forgiven now spotlight draining now real lady god bless you know this love gift is just because I'm on my way I'm ordering my birth your book ace out and wants my hoodie arrives every time once my hood old hoodie maybe you made hoodie arrived every time I write on Sundays I will put my white hoodie on for extra inspiration okay you ordered a hoodie okay god bless you order one of the hood that's under the on video a god bless you now Lila J and y'all got forgive t spring for that you know sometimes they eat be kind of light I'd be wearing them teach them teach spraying shirts and that ink so understand that comes from T spraying I don't make them service okay T spring making them searching with this it's a wasting they probably trying to save ink so they just be putting a look they be doing like this on the shirt instead of putting it through the print cuz I get some of them T spring shirts and I'd be like like eating see the word on him so y'all please don't hold that against me you know and my brand a teespring making t-shirts and that you to went and partner with them you know so please understand that legally take off let's have been dating a guy for one year a guy for one year for now he only put me on my bike once still hasn't made it official should I give him more time new got to go you need to give him a two-week notice what you need to give them that's all the time you need to get him as a two-week notice cuz listen uh it's been twelve months remember twelve months by the end of that 12 months it's time to you and I step up in my life while still out of my life uni that twelve months and he didn't test drove you so you didn't let him test drive a Lambo but those y'all who don't know what she mean when she put me on my bike seat on my back but I pronounce it bite I'm saying back but I guess it sounded like bike the y'all cuz you not from well I'm from so I'd be saying on your bike and on so for the people who may be new here she's saying she told my they only slept together one time so you didn't let him test drive Lambo and it taken him a year to decide yet he wanna pay for the Lambo and driving on off the light so got to go got to go real lady 228 a bless you for that for that blessing you saying that's for that blessing you saying no scar tissue no scar tissue egg god bless it now and I wonder if your daddy named Scott because and that I'm very curious if it know if he did you like that Scott t show cuz I be seeing I'd be meeting Georgina's and Larry issues and stuff like that that's you know that's a beautiful name but if his name Scott now I'm very interested in no but there why did he bring me home to his wife even ask permission from his wife to be friends with me she said yes but I cut the relationship off after much prayer and soul-searching no judgment only 30 that is beyond me you look that good stop tisha you must look that good to him I really can't see a man doing that unless he got a soul tie with his wife and he feel like this his wife is his soul toy that he cannot leave but this other women look this other woman looks so good that he got it like you know babe can I be her friend and so I really don't know what that was a bad cook me personally ain't bringing no woman in my house talking about baby can just be my friend it'll be the lad day on earth why I ask that so that that right there beyond me I but you did the right thing by cutting it off but they're just a look awkward that's a little awkward area but yeah it sound like else for the set up maybe him and her do what friend me and maybe you looking to being like the movie on get out the way they often had you in your part of that down so friend might mean something different than them what advice do you give to a single mom having a hard time letting go of baby daddy he cut me off I love him and I'm sad son won't grow with him plans to move out of state you probably gonna need coaching and being a single mom you know as coaches on my mentor that life that $25 an hour but it really just gonna be a process you know so you do the same thing that you learn in the soul ties course and the wind to let go course you go through the same process but just being it you have a child with him it's just gonna take it could take longer and it just made be in a more a more intense or a more painful process but you do the same processes if you was breaking up with a boyfriend you cut all ties your only conversation is about y'all son and not about anything else not what you're doing how you doing who you dating where you're going where you was what's up next none of that look Johnny is doing good here's his letter from school he has a play coming up this and that all about love Johnny nothing else so you cut all ties and then you get new knowledge and that's gonna build your confidence and that's gonna help you hear your heart Briana god bless you no question I'm on the dating scene now I am a news anchor and feel like I intimidate most men on the other hand some only want arm candy any advice well I tell you this well if a man ain't ready he really don't want you to end up on the news during the day and segment talking about him oh yes we are live at Fox new 5 and we have a dog on the loose you said I mean so he might just be thinking like you so connected in the city and it could be some insecurity in in that sense to where he doesn't feel like he could fit in your circle and go shake Bob hand at the news station and things of that nature but on average I'll be honest with you me not really intimidated by women I be honest with you men are not really intimidated by women is more so and women aren't really intimidated by me you know we cuz we created to relate we created to connect so typically what it is what a man is it's just something that he's looking for or he's not mature or in that place and it's also you know what you thinking about oh wow she said I worked for Fox 55 I seen that rightful caramel kids got you on the body there nah nah y'all don't get upset when you see them comments get deleted we just trying to keep this hair chat clear I told my wife I said man i'ma try to do 60 minutes and she always looked at me like mm-hmm what y'all got a question still be flying so I'm trying to not a max I got I got 14 more minutes on her tonight and I got to get on a lot of dot if a man you are just getting to know text you every day but doesn't call you every day is that a red flag okay I think yeah so you new here god bless you welcome to the channel welcome to the China I appreciate you being here well absolutely that's a red flag you cannot build a relationship on text message you got to be able to talk you got to be able to hear that voice inflection you got to be able to hear from person stuttering if the person line you can't build a relationship on text me text message is not real communication so if you dating a man and the man on the texting you he don't want you that means he's juggling you with other women because a man who wants you he want to hear your voice he want to hear how you sound he want to be listening yo boy so he could let you boys play in his head while he's sleeping he won't fall in love with the sound of your voice a man who really really really wants you gonna put you on FaceTime he said I mean so he gonna have you on FaceTime I want to talk to you looking you and your eyes even with your bonnet on or what have you wildflowers yes he got blessing that son loved his body why do men play on women when they are down after exits a toxic relationship he got me on my back then ghosts cut it off but feels like I watched social account from different profiles any videos on players well I tell you what with wait you put in your question is you saying why do men play on women I have to see them come out of toxic relationship but the onus is on you to heal see I wrote him a book mrs. Wright and got it in here with me that you got a heal before you deal so what that means is you played yourself see if I come up to you and I say eh can you answer my emails me for a hundred thousand a year you're not gonna say absolutely not Tony I can only do that for 12,000 a year I will not accept a hundred thousand from you to answer emails Hume is gonna take whatever you willing to give so if you come out of Tasha relationship and you written you willing to go into a situation ship and get on your back he don't let you do every somersault flippin toast that you want to do he's not gonna say hey hey listen listen you just came out of a toxic relationship I don't want to sleep with you please please put your clothes on get back up get back up please please let me he's not gonna do that he don't say okay thank you all right here we go keep in a dive in now face-first and so that's what you got to understand that each of us got to accept our responsibility for our actions he knew none of you you did it to yourself now if he did something to you meaning he took that from you now he's in the wrong not he going to jail but if you willingly consensually went into this knowing that you heard him knowing that you haven't healed as an adult that's on you and that's that's sometime hard the hill you know but we got here on wavy black queen god bless you now we all like that one way or another but why is it so important to a man he will sabotage a good woman and cheat when he could have just stayed single now that's the question of the ages that's the question of the ages and I'll be honest with you explaining that question to a woman would be futile I only know a few tiles mean but that sound good right there so we're gonna make that mean something tonight but women just never understand that outside to be honest with you because me and don't understand it it's just something that men do and so and me I try to explain it and explain to y'all about the call of a man to replenish and be fruitful and that urge and that tick that's in a man that's making him go but it makes no sense to a woman because when a woman meet a man she she could turn off that reproductive desire to just be with whoever but man is it it takes really him being renew you know by God that's how I changed I was renewed my spirit was renewed and I tapped it to my purpose and not tapping not just my purpose I tell it to my god give him purpose so that's what gives me the strength and the courage and the confidence to live a righteous life style had it not been for me tapping into my god-given purpose I be still he'll still be out here doll but a man has to tap into that god-given purpose something that's bigger than him Lin W god bless is just a small blessing for your video today ladies please take time list - Tony's daily video you will be here a god bless it now so appreciate that miss the actual blessed night I'm a new evangelist and I'm considering becoming a coach for women how do you establish trust with clients and get started when you're new to coaching um for help with marketing you could join my mentor that life and you establish trust by what you give so if a person wondering if I could be their life coach they could go online and read my quotes they can see my videos and that builds a rapport and they hear enough from me that they say okay I see what are you rocking with on my mentor that life got a blog session so you could write a blog every day or three times a week and to where when a person finds your profile they could read your mindset and see what your heart says see what you're speaking from then you also build trust by starting at a low price point so if you come in at $25 an hour now you start in there improving yourself and then the more clients you get the more clients you get the more demand you can start to raise your rate to be able to manage it that's why my rate is at 275 now which is still less than half of my market value but it's at 275 because I've been coaching for 13 years so I have to build it as I go see so that's how you build trust by what you give juicy Vick god bless you no husband seemed to want me back he tried to hook up with me during the drop off of our son told him to change now acting like he is two good games he has our pics on Facebook yeah y'all piss on Facebook for everybody else but not for y'all and the reason he acting too good is he really don't want you and he don't want to change he jump trying to sleep with you see if he's still that was out of ego to see if he still got control in your life so you just got to stand your ground keep doing what you doing and realize that that's not what he wants he don't want y'all so just keep your legs closed keep your eyes open and just keep going about your business W bait god bless your night if a guy friend asked me how I would like to be courted can I tell him that after 90 days of consistency I expect a relationship can I tell him that after 90 days of consistency I expect a relationship and after 12 18 months I expect their proposal the first thing you said that was wrong to me as a guy friend okay you really don't do this with guy friends it's need to be a guy dating if it's a guy friend then he need to go ahead and make up his mind do you want to be a friend or you want to be a boyfriend now number two is a man should ask you how you want to be courted because that's common sense that's innate you know when you go to the kindergarten classroom deal oh boy know how to deal with these little girl they come up hey here's here's my new dinosaur do you want to play with it and then they sit then he put her on round and they playing with her dinosaur yeah that's innate he already know what do but see when a man don't really want you he'll ask you how you want to be courted cuz he gonna do it the way you tell him so when you read a manuscript he's gonna play the role he's gonna be Denzel in it and he and he want to ask her and then when he play it to the tee and he Denzel in that script and then he don't get what he thought he was coming for he's gonna flip the screw up be ready to cuss you out and be like listen I did exactly what you said you want it and you're still talking about you're celibate know you don't even know what celibate is because you're saying it wrong it's celibate and that is a priest you're acting it this one I'm sick and tired of you and so he's gonna hit you with that and you're gonna be like wow what's going on because he never wanted you but he wanna get you from friends to friends with benefits that's what you gotta understand Scott tisha god bless it now Scott and came back scott daughter so how do I publish my book who the Sun sets free it's my autobiography it will help many women who have been through a lot of stuff any advice welcome right now to birth your book program is 50% off I took it from $100 to $50 for the situation we in because people at home so make sure you visit Tony Gaskins Academy comm and the reason why I say that just because that's an hour long word for talking and I don't want to say the wrong thing and mislead you and I just put an updated in there today for a new publishing site because one of them closed down and I added another publishing site on there so the course only forty seven dollars just see that as a part of your book expense so that now you got lifetime access to it and you can refresh you can go through it as many times as you need to Amanda god bless I hate Tony I got by three more minutes on his people bad time people got to get ready for bed catch they can't pay 10 o'clock show yeah you could use the birth your book for that it's it's for nonfiction books but it'll still apply when it comes to how to publish it and in it get it formatted all of that the writing schedule still will work for you too but just a devotional you'll be done a lot faster than the regular non-fiction book Amanda let's you know how hi Tony thank you for all you do god bless you do you want sure we have plans to write a parenting book I'm still single and have all your books but I want to raise Kingdom children one day you know to be honest with you I would love to do that but I'm a little nervous about it just because the way we parent is so opposite of today's time just we really train our kids up like the Bible says and it's just so foreign to people today like you know our son don't have temper tantrums they don't you know get in trouble in school they don't give us no issues because we were so consistent we own that I just feel like it'll be a shock you know even in the way we train our sons just in school in life like my son was telling me his work out the day he ran a mile on the treadmill then he did on seven point three speed if y'all got a been on the treadmill you know seven point three you moving then he did Sprint's at eight and a half speed and he a B so the legs had to be moving then he got off and did a soccer workout on the dribble up out then he did an out workout and this kid 13 and it's still in school so he getting straight A's no a minuses then he going to training his body like a Olympic athlete you said I mean so the way we parents it's just you got to be immersed in it and you got to be all the way in and so that's what scares me because today the world so lenient on their kids and little Bobby cussing mama Hyde and spitting on the ground when she tell him to do something you know terrible tools temper tantrum in the grocery store laying out on all on the floor so I gotta talk to my wife buddy just cuz you know but I would love to do that we might have to do it independently though because the publisher might be like man is too real it's too real for this for the lost world Whitney Brooks god bless you now class you're witnessing my boy in our life ginger bless you now bless you Wow y'all be blessing me on here my goodness ginger god that's enough finally figured out how to sing I appreciate your work all the best god bless his ginger ginger woodworking trying to get a blessing to me Lord bless the 10-fold not get what tenfold eight ninety minutes I got to go let me answer the last question from deal off since it popped in right here my books on amazon.com anywhere anywhere you buy books from you could you could find my books hi Tony I been considering signing up to be a coach I have been on my strengthening I have been strengthening my walk with God so I could coach on faith but I'm not sure what else I could coach on advise I wouldn't coach on faith you know you can add that is one of your things but you're still imperfect you're still working on strengthen your relationship with God you can coach on confidence you can coach on self-love all of those things are encompassed in faith you know because what the Bible tells us to be wise as a serpent harmless as a dove so when you put yourself in a box you don't get the opportunity to show your love and your heart to someone who may not be interfaith but if it says confidence coach or if it says self-love coach if it says mindset coach this person comes and they working with you and then they inquire within and say how did you get so emotionally intelligent like how did you get to this place and then you're able to share your faith with them so when you have bible-thumper calm in your bio the people that you supposed to reach you can't even reach them because they just like okay no okay that little Pharisee you see what I mean so you have to be wise about it and you go about it in a way to where I'm a devout Christian but I talk about very very real stuff you know I talk about fornication I talk about oral sex I talk about everything that people deal with I talk about pornography turn I talk about all this stuff because it's real life so even a person like the sister in here earlier today who's a Muslim so you gotta have it open to where you who you are and what you believe in but you're a fisherman of men so you reel them in and then they inquire within about your stability and why you act where why you are where you are and then you're able to express your faith but first they feel your love it's a quote that says share the gospel and if you must speak so you got to be able to show a heart of love tami god bless you thank you for your birth your book course it helped hey Thank You Tammy we got your feedback that you sent in you know telling us to mention the other side so that's actually why I did update the date you see how I be working I've been meaning to do that I did be having so much going on and be tired up Amanda god bless you the Holy Bible is sufficient but I will be on the lookout for the one you are Cherie right independently by God's grace even if it's a course under your platform God hey you know what Amanda thank you for that we're gonna do a parenting course for the parents that just need a little reinforcement a little help the know what another parent is doing we're gonna do a course that's what we gonna do that's what we're gonna do stead of a book Khalid books preparing reading like they used to like they post to hey god bless y'all now let me see we got to go Devante say what do you think the top three qualities of wife should have a relationship with god and when she got a relationship with god to be honest with you that number one quality that means she's gonna be humble that means she's gonna be faithful that means she's gonna be honest that means she's gonna be righteous so you see what I'm saying so those things that it encompasses humility faithfulness trustworthiness selfless love all of those things come with being a true woman of God she loved god bless it's not you you hit with a buzzer-beater alright thank you Lord having me on here a few more seconds again see love hit him with the balls of Beto just had to say thanks for today's video if you missed today's video I actually posted two on one was a bonus but the one maybe she's talking about is called a teddy the teddy bear syndrome Tama god bless you now alright y'all I got to go don't send I'm more blessing up and go ahead and get up here and close god bless you and I appreciate you and the morrow Thursday so I'm gonna take them are off on the line but I have a video and I try to do a lot of Friday night depend on how my spirit failure god bless you

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