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get there live together I got my set right on yes told y'all I was gonna do a hater heaven do a nightshift Q&A cuz on the blessed tribe is growing you know the blessed tribe is growing and I realize that made a promise when you sign a foot a blessed tribe I'll do weekly Q&A s but I understand that when I do a Q&A even though during 90 minutes I don't get to answer everybody's question so and the question is y'all be having so many conversations in the chat that I missed so much cuz it be flying up probably be easy if I do this on my laptop but my laptop camera I need to get me a new laptop laptop camera a little fuzzy so that's why I do it on my cell phone and so we get a look tough keeping up with y'all messages on here but if you made it in early now you got a question put your question in there what does it mean if I don't want to get married I don't know I don't know what what it mean for you you know what the media sound like fear sound like fear from a lack of knowledge that's what fear a lot of times come from how to take advantage of getting to know someone that is interested in dating you while on quarantine since it is best not to quarantine until by the phone by the phone face time you can FaceTime you can't catch that 19 through FaceTime talking on the phone and the good thing you talk all day earlier this morning you told me I need to do business consulting with you since I can't come um yes sign up for business consulting go on my mentor nightlife hit find a coach and then go to the tees you'll see me live eight hours a part live 8 I was a part he can't move because of custody should I move 32 and 38 both divorced with kids no you shouldn't move unless y'all get married the only way you move is when you got that wedding date set when you got that wedding date set moving in that week you can move up there that week or you could go up there get married then move Tony what about age I don't know what else you're talking about on the 8th so send me a full question on now Lydia how do you do that okay you got it go to my mentor got life now for those y'all who can't afford your courses you know just right now up front that's why you have self love you which is also Gaskins University so you know I got Tony Gaskins Academy but I have Gaskin University which is the other domain for self love you that is where you can do a monthly so you can take your courses but smaller bite-size payments Tony would you recommend opening a business bank account before taking clients yep open your business bank out cuz it's free you know what I mean it's free to open some some banks you can do it right from the app on the phone and so I definitely recommend opening that business bank account because you keep your money separate and don't thing within business accounts you want you may want to go to a credit union so where that account will be free cuz you if you go to old raggedy Bank of America like who I'm with they saw but on are you every month thank you for all you do WI has me crying tears of joy now no no no that's a typo or WI that's I missed that in abbreviation University what does it say if your boyfriend said to you I want to see you or you don't love me what you said about something like that I don't know what you're talking about system so right I'll write your question again you spoke about a man not putting up with women that talk down to them so why do they stay instead of wanting a woman who speaks with love and respect to be honest with you the men who get talked down to and they stay they stand for revenge that's why they stay they stand because it hit their ego and for some people that respond to insulting their ego the neither Boykins god bless you god bless you you know I've missed somebody else that are sent a blessed double speeches speech god bless your speech speech so that's why something man state since I'm a coach on my mentor do I still need to have a website and YouTube channel or just drive traffic to my mentor if you like YouTube if you like doing videos then you have a youtube channel on my mentor you really don't need a website because what is the website is your bio is where you get booked back and it's where you post your blog posts and you do all that on my mentor so that's really another reason why we created it is so that coaches can have a place that's already designed and it look nice and it bring that credibility and it's simple and easy right there in one place and you just put that link you're my mentor link put it on all your social media by oles dated back in high school things didn't work forward to 2019 dated until four months he mentioned he isn't ready and he was still talking to his ex but said they're only friends still reaches out to me um it just for fun he reaching out for fun for exercise for practice I remember answering a question like that anytime a man is not very intentional and all in just keep it moving just keep it moving a man gonna be all in and intentional if he want anything with you my friends found the guy I am with on bumble I confronted and he says it's not him picture pictures were clearly him give benefit of the doubt or run I don't do dating out run because he nobody but nobody to be still in the picture uh so if his picture on bumble that's his but so going about your business and that's what you get for being on bumble did you get on bumble you're gonna get strong that's why it's called bumble bumble bee you get on Bom Bom bow your but don't get strong I told y'all stay off that social that day stay off them dating stay off that dating app thing and just get out the door get outside and go you're on your walk okay go to the grocery store go to the gas station you're gonna meet plenty man you ain't got that you ain't got to get on that online dating currently in my single season I want to enjoy it and continue focusing on my growth how do you gently turn down men who are interested in you you don't have to worry about as long as you say it just like what I'm talking you know no unfortunately I'm not in the wrists in a space for a relationship right now that's how you can tell me and that you're not interested in and just like that you can't worry about how he take it some men gonna get and it but you can't worry about that okay you don't do the apps your friend found them on the app okay good god bless Jesus yeah that yeah he own their team around he looking around where can I find a recording from the life coach Q&A it's in the on Tony Gaskins Academy in the course if you if you in the course the recordings in the course I added it today Tony I attract young men have you coached a relationship that the woman is older than the man is this a waste of time yeah I that happens it's typically only a waste of time when when the woman is 10 years older or more that's typically when it's a clear waste of time when the woman is 10 years older or more up under there you know inside of five years you're still kind of the same generation get past five years between six and ten years it started to get a little iffy over ten years that's your son how can I work on letting a man do things for me in a relationship I'm so used to doing everything myself that no matter how small or large something is my first instinct is to say I got it keep that interesting keep that instinct because that keep a man at bay and a man will have to work to do something for you and that's what he need to do he need to be able to say you know no I got it I got it listen I got it listen let me carry that listen let me pay the bill I got it so you know keep that interesting because when you just sitting there looking like give me what got me here and I hear what I'm saying give me what got me here give me is what got me here when you like that with a man and that's when he kind of look at your look oh okay you want it old so a man actually like a woman who won't try to do for herself and he got to really let her know like no I'm really serious about this let me let me do this met the boyfriend three months ago says says his intentions are good and wants to get married we've been intimate is it wise to back off from yes now red or woman's influence want to give relationship a try yeah it's why the back off not but Lola why's the back off y'all met three months ago if you're already in the bed then you kind of turn that thing on the head already so now if you've not already been in that bed and you flip the script you got to be ready to lose them do you suggest audiobooks or written books for first-time authors written books because audiobook is hard to produce as an independent as an independent author it's a whole lot more work a lot more production it's a lot of specifications and stuff that it has to be inside of it's very culturally going to the studio because that's gonna be fifty five dollars to a hundred and fifty dollars an hour it may take you 20-30 hours to do an audiobook then it has to be edited mastered got to fit inside certain parameters then upload it so audiobook is an expensive and complicated production that a lot of people don't realize everything that goes into it but writing it that's a whole lot easier you write it it gets edited it gets formatted uploaded it's on its online two days later for sale on amazon.com two days later make sure you take the birthday book program I made it 50% off right now so I think it's only forty seven dollars on Tony guys in academy.com well a man know you are his wife if he has not healed from the past relationships yeah he can know you're his wife and and it can induce healing he'll start to heal heal starting to grow hey god bless you to the new members to join the blessed tribe I think the link is in the description I see some of y'all found it god bless you me and husband is on 72-hour rule but he stopped contacting should I be worried no shouldn't be where came where even if you are worried can't let him know you weren't boyfriend saw that I was watching your life and got so upset saying I ain't messing with no female who listens to you saying all you do is bash me and ask me am I gonna listen to you over him thoughts you need to run you need to run that's a grown boy especially this your boyfriend this ain't your husband who treating your right and doing your right and he ought to know better than talking my I'm bashing man all I do is tell the truth so if he doing the right thing the truth ain't gonna have nothing to do with him if he's doing the right thing gonna actually make him look better you actually realized you got a rare man but what it sound like to me is you got an average man you got your average man because he's not comfortable with himself he insecure and all the time when a man get like that is because he know he ain't doing what he's supposed to be doing and see because he given you or can give you the vitamin D okay the vitamin D and because he know you want a husband and he know I came married that's how here use that leverage but your man should never be intimidated by you getting knowledge you feeding your spirit he ought to be happy that you doing that he's really more so a red flag of a woman who don't want to expand her mind and get knowledge outside of herself and so but see what what grown boys do they want to keep you in the dark they want to keep you in the dark cuz if you see the light is going spose down so what you have to realize about what grown boys do grown boys want to isolate you put you on an island so nobody could hear your screams because he know that if you listen to me ain't nothing he do gonna get by you ain't nothing he do gonna get by you you gonna catch everything and that's what he knows and that's what are you scared by so you know tell him man up Playboy Tony Gaston said that get your life together my boy let them hear this get your life together if you live and right in doing right you ain't got nothin worry about cuz I'm already married so I want you wanted but all I got to do is all I'm here to do is bring the truth to the light so if you already in the light being I worry about nothing but if you operating from a spirit of darkness I'm here to expose you absolutely absolutely so treat you one the right and she's gonna hear nothing on my page that's gonna make her in fact your woman gonna be wow I got a good man I can't worry about you growing boys out here now while I keep the tool on me 9 just kidding when I'm getting froggy let him know ain't ain't a lily pad said you pay for your name of your business before you get started if you got the money yes if you don't got the money then get started make the money then buy you your name of your LLC it should be only 125 dollars in most in most states it'll be 125 or less if you go to a site like legalzoom.com they have their fees in there so you could get up around to $300 let me see a young god bless you bless you for that blessing pour out in the light Lord well a man wait till marriage for it if a woman is a single mother with two kids man now you're gonna struggle with that one you're gonna struggle a little bit with that one not he can't wait now but let me tell you what he's gonna wait on if you his dream if you hit dream he gonna wait but ain't no man gonna try to hear about walking if he see you know how to ride a bicycle if he said you know how to ride a bicycle he ain't trying to hear no walking ok so the fact it's in a hat - he know you didn't been on your bike many times so he know you know how I go down so for him to wait until marriage you got to be what he's looking for give me so this month this is my plan example when making good say she waiting till marriage my ringing sat down I wrote a book about it because that was his dream she looked like his dream when Sierra said she waited till America Russell Wilson could've wrote him a book about it cuz she looked like his dream that's when a man who then already had lost his virginity waiting on a woman when he feel like you are his wife if he don't feel like with a hundred percent of him using wife he know it so Tony if a woman is making less money than him is that an issue for the guy I feel I should stay single until I make 50k or more no that's not an issue for a real man because a real man anticipated taking care of his woman anyways especially if y'all gonna start a family he really kind of want you to be home with the children the children because from like zero to um from zero up to three or four a man who can afford it and who working hard he wanting kids to be home with you stood at the daycare getting hand foot and mouth disease or whatever that is that the kids beginning thinking hand foot and mouth but them they care so nasty that that's your last resort you only do that if you're a single mother and that's what you got to do because so you know how you could get frustrated with your own children imagine somebody else who hate their life who hate their life and your child in there did they kill your child that they can work on thumping all outside your six-month-old baby and and guess what the baby can say nothing and the person who hate her life she enough doing like this - your baby's scalp that's why when they turn that camera on you see all of that going on you see all that going on so a man he really worried about your money he worried about your heart your integrity can I do the book coaching with you for a poetry book started writing last week um that'll take one session it'll only take one session now if you take the birth to your book course yep that'll help you to know because it'll teach you about your writing schedule and then it'll teach you how to publish so it will help you and and it's a very small investment so I would go that route and if you don't get what you need on there on the course then consider doing a one-on-one session no self worth 48 years the last boyfriend for two and a half years bought on my car okay mm-hmm Baltimore car I helped start his business by buying licensing bids cars after I got him a job he got fired in one year happy life now stay like that yup stay like that and get yourself work get yourself work what I need to tell you I can't tell you I'm here because there's too many people on here and if you know too sensitive and people taking one thing you're saying and run off on you but when I seen all that you did and I just looked up on you looked at you already I already know yeah you got to get that together you gonna have to get yourself worth together I met a guy two months ago he keeps asking me to come over to his apartment is this work for someone no nope not worth pursuing he need to be asking you and I see right now this man is 19 you don't need to be going anywhere he need to be trying to FaceTime with you he need to be trying to zoom meeting you Skype you if he asking you to come over this house right now in the midst that it is 19 you go over there and he coughing up along and not got you with the 19 and then don't mess around and be asthmatic cause it's gonna be really this is gonna be a long day and so that kind of managed and you let him know look playboy by July I'll be able to link up with you and it will not be at your house cuz I don't know if Ted Bundy your uncle so we could meet in July at the movie theater or at the bowling alley or at the skating rink but not in behind closed doors because I don't know you like that so let him know that now Lisa gosh children God God blessing for a new life Lord he says I'm an amazing woman but he can't offer a relationship spent lots of time together before nineteen and now we talk on the phone daily still shows interest has mentioned he's afraid back away yup going about your business let him go see when a man tip when a man want to do all that talking but he said he can't give you a relationship listen to him if you want a relationship going about your business if you're looking for a male friend that's gonna have you on your back in a few months then keep on talking to him if you're looking for you old splack a belly now if you're not looking for a splash of Le which is basically a friend with benefits a man that gonna help you on your back spread-eagle in a couple months then going about your business don't don't don't deal with a man who say I can't give you a relationship if you looking for a relationship strict Christian it's hard to find a man same denomination who is okay with divorce and one child advice well see what you have to realize is it's becoming a little harder just to find a man period so then when you a strict Christian and you have a child it is the pool is gonna get a little small but what that means is if you're a strict Christian that mean you got to increase your prayer life you got to increase your prayer life and you got to increase your faith life and then when you do that and then you got to increase your work meaning working on yourself producing what you need to produce doing what you need to do and when you do that then that's when God can't deliver but if you're not meeting your man it's because you haven't done the work you need to do is it possible if a guy was going through financial hardship when in a relationship the first time back together is it possible if a guy was going through financial hardship when in a relationship the first time back together he's back on his feet will he'd be a better person seeing stress was taken out on me so I left it's possible it's possible but you just got to take your time stay off your bank stay off your bank and keep your eyes open keep your eyes open and your legs closed and you will know within three months if he's a changed person if he a better person six months at the latest you are known currently have a coaching session scheduled with you on the thirty of super excited trying to heal from my divorce 20 years with ex and also still dealing with daddy issues at 41 how many sessions well start with the first but it sounds like two to four sounded like four is typically the average a lot of people have the misconception that a life coach tries to hold a client forever and try to keep a client in there forever because that's how life coaches get paid but it's not really true that's moreso counseling and therapy you'll be going to four years coaching is about progression and you graduate from coaching and then you just check in every now and then if you need to or want to but coaching is not about being in something forever because we're not gonna be discussing the same thing forever we it's forward progress so most of my clients do on average four sections some some will do I think the most honest scene is up to 1820 sessions but on average it's about four sessions I have coaching with you and may can we go over relationship and purpose yep if we could do it in that hour now when it comes down at 59 minute mark well you know a it's been great speaking with you and who this hour flew by fast so yeah you definitely might need another session so if we could get through it in an hour then absolutely we talked about whatever you want to talk about Tony I was talking to a guy and he told me he was by a family member glad I saw that video thank you hey god bless you god bless I don't know what video are you talking about but god bless you that's a tough for now hearty single one and a half years he was the most manly of law had an attitude of willing to support but sometimes wanted me to pay withheld but will come sleep over together one year ghosted me kind of mutual mm-hmm move on with your life move on with your life move on with your life mr. Gaston you said that we could promote our businesses on here but yet when I try my messages don't does not post I don't know I don't know what's up with that now YouTube does censor comments so if it looks like promotion they will send they will sensory questions same as Kate Mac low self-esteem working on losing weight loss over 80 pounds god bless you in the past two years I just found out I have been being scammed how can you know when someone is being authentic it's gonna take you getting a lot of knowledge you're getting the knowledge and really learning the traits and the behaviors of a real man and being able to get that in your spirit and really sit with it and understanding that a man who is serious about you I got some video I think on how to know he's interested in you really sit and study those type of videos and it'll help you let's learn incorporate a god bless you you helped me a lot during a coaching god bless you I bless you can you make a relationship official before a meeting talking for nine months never met I wouldn't recommend it I wouldn't recommend it unless you know y'all was talking on FaceTime unless you were talking on FaceTime and you know you really got to see you and Phyllis by kind of read them but if you just talking on the phone and you know where he's at you know where he lives and things like that I wouldn't recommend it making it official before meeting somebody because if you can't if y'all ain't close enough to meet then what's the sense of being together cuz how you gonna go to the next level can be carb-less you pour in your life watch your videos on how to make a relationship work and how to become law very impactful thank you I am learning a great deal from you a god bless you if you open if you open to an outside perspective you're gonna get something out of it a lot of people come with spirit or disagree it's looking for something argue and debate bow realizes I'm the wrong one because I don't argue a debate by what I know so when you come with that spirit you got like my daddy used to tell me to to meet and spit out the bones chew the meat and spit out the bones it was for you and let the rest go mr. Gaston's I thought you said we could promote okay that's the same post on hill I was in a relationship with this guy and started shouting and cheating thank you for your blessing because I get a lot of knowledge from your video and your book god bless you Tony if a man or woman is still in their parents home should they not be in a relationship no you could be in a relationship you could be in a relationship and if you have a situation to where your family believes that you should stay in the home to work and save your money then that's cultural you know that's your family situation and most people are understand that most people understand that so it's nothing wrong with that but um if you are living with them just because you can't you don't have a job you can't earn any money your life is in disarray then in that sense they know you shouldn't be in a relationship you should be focusing on getting yourself where you need to be apart from completing the life coach certification course is there any other personal requirement or recommendation you have before starting to offer coaching sessions I would say do 1 to 4 sessions yourself even if it's with a coach who charge $25 an hour just so you can get an idea of how a real session is ran and maybe if you say if you can afford $100 for coaching then do a session with 4 different coaches from my mentor got like that charge $25 an hour so you can see how it's done I would recommend that Leticia thank you Tony for your live chats and videos a thank you God bless you God bless Tony would you recommend starting an LLC before a non-profit to get your business license sooner you don't need a business license if you're talking about doing coaching now LLC is is enough and a non-profit it just depends on how you choose is if you want to charge the person for your services or if you want to raise donations so if you want to charge the people that you're working with then you need an LLC if you want to raise donations because you got some connections to rich people wealthy people or giving people and you want to raise donations that didn't pay yourself to offer your services for free then you start a non-profit or if you just want a non-profit to raise donations so that you can give and use the money to give stuff away you know products or what-have-you when should you introduce your significant other to your family when you engage know we're all serious when you are committed and you say we are in a committed exclusive relationship then that's when it's time to introduce your significant other to your family because your family may see something or sent something that you can't see and that will give you the knowledge to not get engaged but you don't want to get engaged and then go and then introduce them because your family may not approve of it and now you did all it is in and your family don't approve and now you haven't you know second thoughts Tony what are your thoughts on letting friends and associates play matchmaker for you it's fine as long as you got your own set of standards and rules so that even they match you with somebody that's a bond you know it and you able to go about your business hello Tony I'm in the 14 day challenge due to man not being ready to commit it may go longer than 14 days may be indefinite on my behalf he's reaching through my daughter now what do you say that's not when you use the 14-day rule you use the 14-day rule when you in a relationship with somebody and y'all are committed and he is ready and he has committed and you are in a relationship and then he commits a deal-breaker that means like if he cheats or if he is exhibiting something that you like listen this cannot happen this cannot fly and you've told him once before or twice before then you leave for them 14 days to send him that final message to say look we done and so it's 14 days for you but he don't know it's 14 days and that's when you see if he gonna chase you if he gonna beg forgiveness is he willing to change and he willing to do things differently but if a man says he can't give you a relationship he don't want to commit and you need to keep it keep him moving anyway lay god bless you pour in a light Lord a guy keeps trying to pursue me and ask what is it going to take to give him a chance I told him consistency but he still is not consistent enough with communication so why did he ask if he's not doing that it's because he is looking for a roster filler he's looking to fill his roster so a man who fell in his roster it isn't gonna be consistent with you he gonna hit you every other day every few days because he knows typically a woman gives a man credit and it's fantasizing and thinking about that man even when he's not on her phone line and so and if he just does that long enough a month two months three months the woman builds up feelings for him that he didn't even earn because she's thinking about him on them in between days and then he finally comes around and he able to get on her bike because she's desperate for love and she been fantasizing about love and she's falling in love with the idea of a relationship even though she doesn't have the reality of a real relationship and commitment so that's what he's doing in that case right there he's looking to put you on the roster you need queen god bless you block my ex and been doing the work it's been three months no contact at all it was very hard at first but now I'm doing much better watching your videos has changed my life thank you for your wisdom a thank you god bless you're doing the work that's what you got to be that's what you got to be doing that work misty lost both parents within ten months very close to them in a deep lonely depression I ended up marrying a man in prison that will never get out if mr. Wright ever comes do I have to tell him this huge mistake you definitely have to tell but it'll take you probably three months to six months to know if it's mr. right so don't just go telling a man on the first date you know it'll take you a little time to norm but at the same time you marry so what you need to do is do a consult with a lawyer to see how you could get a divorce because yeah you need to go get that divorce you married a man in prison who ain't never getting out and you know you did it for the wrong reasons you did it from a place of you know loneliness and brokenness and hurting so you need to nullify that right there and I'm sure a tourney could help you sash is royal god bless you thank you for that blessing bless you but not good god bless you oh I didn't like Lord oh I did online Tony your messages have taught me a lot about me and your wife's emotional intelligence that she exudes so effortlessly has in part inspired me to work on mine thank you and don't stop being obedient to God god bless you I really appreciate that I really do what are yous is supposed to do if you're super curvy in all directions keep winokur's keep landing curves it's a lot of men like curves in all directions do I need an LLC for each entity of my beers if each one is under the same main business name but each entity's name varies slightly for example ABC publishing ABC apparel ABC coaching all London ABC company you don't need a different LLC unless they and just you know you can do enterprises you know your LLC could be or like you know mogul Enterprises LLC and then those other companies can be a DBA you know doing business ads and you can all you can file all in it's only certain types of businesses that needs to be in its own its own ll see you know like if you get into real estate investing then that may be its own LLC but it fits all products and services then that's something different the cordilla god bless you god bless you you showing i pull out in a light Lord pull out in our life so on a c4 blessing you and the Queen for the blessing you and the Queen have been in my life via a woman's influence thank you both thank you so much I'm getting great feedback from a woman's influence if you have not ordered the book it's on audio if you don't like to read it's on eBook you could download the Kindle app or the Nook out which is owned by Barnes & Noble or you could get the print version but please you know grab that book if you're looking for something new to read and McKoy your god bless you I'm pretty low point in Niecy Harvey bless you bless you lotta know like oh I've turned into the crazy woman after dealing with a lot of bad men now I'm dating the complete opposite I have been doing way too much overanalyze and do way too much I need help sir you got to heal before you do a good thing for you will be on the soul ties course I reduced it about 90% so instead of it being fitted all this fire all it on Tony Gaskins academy.com take that soul ties course because that's way deeper than what I could give here right now and you need to spend the time with it and really go through it and let it help you let it bless you vintage god bless you pour out in our life Lord wanted to thank you and your beautiful wife may God continue to shower your sacred union with blessings awesome God found me he is open to her to relationship coaching he is successful and Christian if he opened to it then encourage them that he do it if he open to it that's a good sign and it will not hurt so encourage them that he does it and he could you go to my mentor got life it's a lot of coaches on their candies war god bless you pour out in our life lord thank you for being a blessing in my life I love your work I really appreciate that I really appreciate that Kili now I hit gold more vice president Nike League on I might have to make you the vice president another company you go my vice president blessing me with a dividend check god bless you Kili thanks again Tony for all you do using your past to grow and be the man God meant for you to be and helping us is priceless you are family in the blessed trial having the power and Easter blessing to you all good night a my killing you something else god bless let hit a lot of the Sun you know I'm saying well I'm leaving a lot but I'm ranlo it moving your life some kind of way fitness mom asking the question for King I can't get past men commenting on my body within the first few minutes I'm a mom so I don't wear booty shorts or anything workout clothes mostly I'm automatically turned off what am i doing you ain't doing then you dare wearing what God gave you but um you know I tell you this right here just just a compliment you know it's just a compliment when a man come up to you and he just go to give you a compliment about your body the but he can't help himself that just let you know that it's just otherworldly in his eyes and and it also mean that he honest as long as you know that he can't touch your body without being your man then that's how you gotta worry about but you can't get offended unless he come at you just disgusting you know but if he come and he's like wow you know you are beautiful amazing you know shape everything hit the toe like God showed out on you it just some II can't help you no so don't don't be too sensitive about it cuz it's the same thing for some man you know first thing somebody say to a man is give him a compliment by something that he got on or his cologne or the way look or one of his features and you know if he got offended by that like man that's the only thing you kept by I remember when girls you should get mad at me in school oh the only paint good bocce is your eyes that's the only thing you got like mistreat me Lord make me so you know it could go both ways so I wouldn't worry about it super chat is for Miss Gaskins age I'm gonna bless her with it Lord hold me to it have a blessed weekend and I am enjoying the audiobook and I do plan on getting a hardcover for the household a god bless you thank you thank you I really appreciate that ratio R Anora ain't bless you go out in our life bless you emotional intelligence please advise where to start with emotional intelligence what you have to realize is what emotional intelligence is is feeling like doing something like when you feel like cursing you feel like yelling you feel like you know going off you feel like crying getting stressed worrying with emotional intelligence you taking you pause you think about what you about to say or what you bout to do and then you do the opposite and when you do that you literally are rewiring your brain like you're creating new synapses in your brain and you're training your brain to respond differently to that stimuli so you have to understand that so so and I'll give you an example how emotional intelligence can work out I'm hold on right quick Jasmin god bless you hey Tony what advice do you have for single women with no children dating men with children my advice would be make sure you not his his day care make sure you know his day care make sure that he taken care of his chair and you could see that they taken care of and that when they need something Dave mama Dell or a grandmother make sure that he's not recruiting you to be a daycare director and that's what a lot of men with children do is they're just looking for a woman to be a daycare director so that when they got made kids they putting it on this woman because they know she has a nurturing nature now what I was saying about the emotional intelligence is I used to be the type to where some going wrong I'm going off I'm going on quit you know like with the car dealership I'm going off you hear me you know you talking to listen here and man I'm going off but I've got to the place to where I go and then I'll sit down and I'd be cool calm and collected I could read a man left or right let him know what it went wrong getting all this and I recently got 9,000 dollars worth of service done for free because I was emotionally intelligent and I talked like I had some sense no Jessica don't have a video on it cuz it's not really my lane to be speaking on that there but I do what I can when I can kimberly god bless put in a light lord merit 25 years feel like we're roommates I can understand it have an eight-year-old daughter I have leveled up educated no romance cetera in the marriage I have discussed with him he does not want divorce good provider but I want a loving romantic marriage thank you Kimberly when it comes to marriage what what you're gonna have to do is do about four sessions or less with me so that we can really talk about it marriage is something that's real deep and you can't really apply a blanket statement to marriage marriage you can't I can't really generalize with marriage and marriage is so real it's something that you really want to fight for if it was your boyfriend I say you know just just take on one off but with marriage you got a sit in you're gonna have to exhaust all options now what it sounds like he's going through and it's sometimes you got to seek to understand then be understood so what you're gonna have to do is you have to start sitting down by him and just asking him a question so how was your day today what did you do and then let him answer and they asked him the next question asking the next question ask the next question talk to him like he the most interesting man in the world what that's gonna do is start to stimulate his mind and then you're gonna start to be able to see where he's at cuz he's either gonna open up or he gonna get snappy and shut down if he gets snappy and shut down that's when you got to look a little deeper because that's when you may have to check that iPad check that cell phone look in the glove compartment pop a better job looking at desk see if he got a bat phone at the job see that's when if you being nice and you ask him questions and he go - snapping - when it could be another woman or a nasty moving because now with this hill with these sites all these different little nasty sites a man could get so wrapped up in that to where he's sleeping with his fantasy through Hansel Oh see hands Allah is the tool and then he got oil awesome lotion or he bare him with Angela but he own his screen where you know man be xoxo and you wondering why you don't have romance and it's because of Bambi xoxo loose booty 901 that's on the screen so that's when you kind of got to start looking a little deeper or sometimes it is look Jimmy then went to sleep early and he's struggling with that and it's affecting his self-esteem so understand that hold on one second let me get the Teresa god bless you god bless you Lorenza god bless it's not on a II I'm gonna catch you on here real quick but these other ones they'll disappear on me you have inspired me to start my food blog catering and coaching business so although I don't have much right now I want to show my appreciation and bless you with something abundance money hey god bless you little render for that blessing now that right there are lower part in our life so what you do when you when you abundant mind it when I got off here earlier today I'm gonna tell you all about something when I got off here early today I went to mastermind group I got a mastermind group and you can post tell about this kind of stuff and you don't tell about what you do but it's a teaching moment there's help y'all about abundant minded I come on here and y'all bless me and I got off here I went to my mastermind group if anyone on me here they can attest to it and I say I wanna send y'all a blessing and send me your cash shop they all sent me a mic they cash up I sent them all one hundred dollars and when I got dunked that I wrote my family I say I want to treat y'all out to some takeout tonight now make sure you be safe you don't get that nineteen when in your food but and I sent my sister hunter ala several more fifty dollars and that's how I do some time my wife look at me like I'm crazy but I believe in thinking abundantly because see when you give and you give from a good place you ain't giving for a return but a return are gonna come because it's a universal law so when you give is giving back to you pressed down shaken together and running over and when people look at how blessed I am and how favored I am the one saying that anybody who know me can say is Tony got a giving heart and that's the one difference that is between me and anybody else on me who is not blessed and highly favored on the level that I am is our heart difference some people selfish and some people jealous and when you selfish and jealous you block all of your blessings because you can't receive blessings when you selfish and jealous now when you bless me I don't necessarily need the blessing but the reason why I don't turn it down is because I understand that if I turn it down I'm blocking your blessing because your harvest is in your seed so you got the patio see in order for you to reap a harvest and that's why people cash out me one dollar on send the dollar back I accept the dollar and I pray over and say Lord bless and pull out in their life because that dollar a hundred dollars gonna end up coming back or a thousand dollars gonna end up coming back so my wife's used to look at me like I'm crazy but now she'll question my giving because she see how God be pulling out and blessing ayee god bless a god bless you that's a that's a mighty mighty blessing you sent a lot in your life hi brother Tony I don't believe in coincidences I believe that your videos and your recent book a woman's influence has caused my broken heart to heal note 72 hours equals three days for Jesus death and resurrection anyways continued blessing hey god bless ain t put that together I ain't even put that setting to our rule I ain't put that together you tied a thing on together now god bless you Oh caramel know my mentor is the cold for the life coach certification on Tony Gaskins Academy calm on Tony Gaston Academy calm for those you want to become a life coach the coupon code is my mentor I appreciate the care about a caramel to share tool Bellamy helped me out natural girl god bless a single mom who shares custody with my four year old dad to rebuild my finances and professional life from job loss and death will I still attract a financially stable man who's successful you can if your heart is in the right place and if you are ambitious and you work and now see if you sit idle and you get complacent and you waiting on a rescue you waiting on Superman then no you won't attract that but a man don't care how broke you is as long as he see the change waiting on no handout if you're willing to work and that's the problem with a lot of people there's a lot of people don't want to do what they got to do but if you got to work in a call center for $10 hour if you got to do temp work whatever you got to do as long as you Sean if you got to start to a business on Etsy or Shopify selling t-shirts as long as you showing that you have some ambition and a go-getter about you a man ain't worrying about your money you can make a dollar out you don't care thank you for being a blessing to us Tony sherry god bless you Sandra bless you $10 thank you for all you do you have helped me understand the men and they're growing boy ways Hey bless you pull out in the light let me grab this question from Fitness mom fitly mom looking out for somebody for Beverly Johnson Tony just found out that my boyfriend of three years how praying a blessing for you fit in mom how you be doing people and I and I and I believe that you getting some blessings and some kind of way for you to keep doing this cuz you be doing this every time you won't you so a bless you just found out that my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me the worst part is I saw it he acted just like he didn't care why do me an act that way did he ever love me um he loved you like the roll up on his floor that's how he loved you he loved you like a rug on his floor which you walk over that's how he loved you and the reason why yet like you don't care because he does not care about you and that's the cold reality that you got to wake up to and smell that Folgers in the morning and going about your life because he's showing you now what's gonna happen is when you leave him he gonna be hurt and what he did he gonna reap what he saw because while he chasing wild tale he out here chasing wild tail loose booty he gonna meet his match and that woman gonna dog him I didn't mean that one me finna do him nasty and he gonna look back and realize he had a good one and you're gonna be already happily mayor and he's gonna be able do nothing buddy Jessica god bless you oh the healthy leg overdue look dawg I bought the family of the dog is that my office dog standing up on her hind leg looking at Hill and dog get too smart to for her Jessica how did you evolve to this higher level of thinking regarding emotional intelligence did you follow someone in particular now and I'll tell you tonight you know what it is you know what it is I'm tell you I follow okay the person I follow is Jesus Christ oh you hear that y'all went here that I follow Jesus Christ and so when I what I did is I read the Holy Bible and I studied the life of Jesus and then after reading about Jesus I went on through the New Testament up until the Book of Revelations and I learned about the characteristics of Christians and I learned about being the Bible say be slow to anger the Bible say love your neighbor as you love yourself see the Bible say when you give it'll be giving back pressed down shaken together and running over see the Bible say don't covet the Bible say don't lie the Bible say don't steal the Bible say don't kill see when I read all of this stuff and I started to live it I realized that it is the bibl II basic instructions before leaving Earth so when I put that in I realized that this the guy book for life when you get you a new product when you get you something new it has a user's manual the Holy Bible is the user's manual for humans when you read it it ain't gonna lead you astray if you keep the commandments and you live the way to tell you to live so that is why I am the way I am today and how blessed that I am when you see my business creations like self love you dot com and my mentor dot life and Tony Gaskins academy.com and character university dot-com that come from being centered and at peace and operating under the direction and inspiration of Jesus Christ and a lot of people don't want to hear that because in this world we want to thank that's a fairytale but I'm living proof to let you know it ain't no fairy tale it ain't no fairy tale I'm trying to tell you I run circles around anybody in business because I got Christ I mean blessed and highly favored I can tell you by a blessing you're open your mouth if I tell you about the blessing on my life you hear me I'm trying to tell you all better get with it better getting that Holy Bible and start living right the God is K how to change communication skills when in confrontational conversation I tend to not say what I feel until after feel like it's not as effective don't want to say the wrong thing want clear thoughts first you're gonna have to help the person you dealing with understand how they need to communicate with you so it shouldn't be confrontational you need to let the person you know who you dealing with let them know hey don't raise your voice at me eh don't use curse words hey don't stand up why are you talking eh don't cut me off so you got to bring it down to a healthy communication so in my book make it work I got a whole chapter on communication with a list of rules when you implement that and you teach the person you communicate and wit how to communicate with you then that's gonna bless you yeah yeah Blackmon god bless you I'm learning how to give I'm gonna tell you that's the secret right now the secret to abundance is giving when I understood that when I start when I tapped into that my whole life change siobhan god bless you pull out in the lion fitness mom now fit him on he's blessing y'all she brings y'all questions up here cuz he the VIP line got long up Dan Sophia's mom she see the question that she liked and a child keep asking and she'll grabbing and she sent a blessing I feeling model I don't do no charge by it's not fitting mom I want you to block your Pleasant now moving you know my ex drove one and a half hours just to see me for an hour he said he needed to see my smile we share pleasantries at the park while watching my dogs and then he went home what was that about it what it was about is he should have been doing that when y'all was together so now you can't give him credit for doing that after you turn left phone that's your ex so what that was is that so time how them like this Betsy that's the whole time and that's all what I had like they're right here and when that's old talking on it he got to come see you the loosen up that soul time y'all hear me say his soul tie strangling that's what I'm talking about a that's old tight and got so tight on him he can't thank he can't breathe he can't live because he need that fixed from you because he your energy your conversation it releases chemicals from his brain so it give him that dopamine release that serotonin releasing so when he missing that he got to come back and get that fix that's why a lot of times it's not love it's an addiction to the person and the feeling that we got from being in their presence and that's what we call a soul time Jessica best advice ever god bless you god bless I can't remember what I said to you and I've been told I overanalyze how do I know if it's true or just a tactic if the person who you analyze analyze and telling you you overanalyze then it's attack me if a friend or a family member telling you you overanalyzing about something you talking to them about then that's when it's true if you're talking to them about something else now see me I overanalyze I will analyze a lot and but I know when I'm overanalyzing but sometimes you can't convince me I'm wrong ronita covert hai bought the barfi book course I'm dating a peg thank you for that God blessing I'm dating a pastor but we met right before my then-boyfriend proposed marriage after three months because my ex is his drummer we are in secret to protect integrity bad news that sound definitely that sound messy to me that sound messy to meet now the captain another sound messy to me i'ma tell you that down because it's it to men and women in the world for him to be dating his drama ex girlfriend and he too passed them that nasty it up to me that's nasty that's just two months concoction too much crossing other waters and so me personally I really don't I really think y'all in the wrong I don't think God gonna move like that not in the house of the Lord not in the house of the Lord I don't thank God I'm passing a woman around in the house of the Lord passed a woman from the drama to the pastor I don't thank God is in that I think that's y'all lust and I think that past the nasty and that's something he doing for for table he might have heard something from the drama by a Aquafina down now and not path to want to get him a deal so yeah I don't really trust that and jelly Tony god bless you and jelly Tony thanks for the video on co-parenting with a complicated ex it really spoke to me dealing with my current situation when the co-parent is a boy in blue how do you go about placing your boundaries we'll see when a boy in blue you actually got more leverage because you can let him know hey listen you want a job that requires integrity if you step out of line one more time I'm calling the chief I'm calling your chief I'm calling your sergeant because you cannot be out of line in your job so please try me if you think I'm playing with you so when he is in a position that has some accountability you actually got a little more leeway than just a random man off the streets Ciara Simone god bless you thank you for your content I am only 25 but I wish I had info like this much earlier just finished a woman's influence I needed this knowledge a god bless you god bless I'm glad that you were able to get this knowledge hey y'all I got my 24 minutes on hit now my 24 minutes on your China get off here look my wife a whole face for a few hours for she fall asleep on what are some practical things we can do in quarantine after cutting off a friends-with-benefits to build self-confidence and foster self-love you don't have to get the knowledge so literally do you a marathon why are you cleaning while you cook and be listening to videos be listening to videos of your favorite teachers and it's just gonna feel you up it's gonna restore you when you're tired of listening to video listen to some music good music now that booty shaking nasty fornicate music putting some gospel on some contemporary Christian music put you something that got some good lyrics to it let's gonna feel your spirit up I'll see what this knowledge is gonna do who is this gonna replace the old it's gonna replace the old knowledge that you thought you had and it's gonna renew you because when you replace old knowledge with new knowledge knowledge is power because it builds confidence so that's what you're gonna need to do in this time Harry if God bless you how do you build the courage to record yourself on IG and YouTube to speak your truth I have a hard time recording myself you can't record yourself unless it's your calling unless it's your calling it's your purpose you want to do it to help people that's what I do it cuz I'm shy saying anybody meet me in person I'm shy I really don't say two words the people who know me in my city from from my kids sports my kids school they probably sees me on here and be like who was that who was that person he don't say a word don't nobody hear me say a word at my son kids soccer games at the school they don't hear me say a word any time so only time somebody got his son from me and when you try one of my family members and I got to come get you I got to come read you to filth he had the tow left right and center that's the only time somebody gonna hit me say something but other than that I won't say a word and so for me this is my purpose and that's where I get the strength and the courage and energy to do it but I'll tell y'all a little secret I don't watch any of my videos when I do it I can't remember what I said and I don't go back and watch it only listen to it study it to see what I said right or wrong I couldn't do it I can't do it that's why I don't edit my video because it probably never go up pretty energy god bless you working on a business plan and a name for my business any advice on where to go tools to use you only need a business plan if you're looking for funding if you're gonna get a business loan other than that that plan don't really matter cuz it's just for you so you just write our children notes on what you want to think about and as far as your name you could watch videos on that you could look at names of other companies you know and get the knowledge there but don't don't think too much on it don't think too much on it Thank You sheriff Thank You somebody say I'm a comedian I won't be telling no jokes so they'll let me know I always tell y'all if you laugh at anything I say that meaning your spirit in the right place it's my dog nation showing up for the book I tried to do the donation on this live but I don't see it I also email support this morning I didn't get an email back I wanted to donate one book well it's Saturday so support really don't work on Saturdays and Sundays so it might not be till Monday that you get an email back but um I did feel like I saw your name up here on a donation but yeah you should get an email back by Monday though once Tony answered your question and you asked like he didn't answer I will feel like you are trolling hey yeah but listen to caramel and I said y'all got to be listen why y'all posting that question over and over and over and over and over now I think what it is sometimes is this a lag on the video so I better answer it and they listening it's behind as a coach how do you deal with challenging personalities or those who spoke in negative lead to themselves for so long they are hard to encourage keep working with them or pass to another Pro sometimes I past coaches to another program you know I pass them to my dad a lot of time cuz my dad he's a much more patient than me and much more emotionally intelligent than me so if a client is too much for me I pass them to him and because yeah I struggle with that as well somebody who they just got money so they just pan but really ain't trying to grow ain't trying to learn they just want to talk about a problem but don't want to solve a problem that is very annoying and it's hard to do and I used to fire clients but then my dad started telling me he said listen so long were they willing to pay for your time then let them do what they feel they spirit need to do because eventually they're gonna get it so I started to realize it ain't about me and how fast I wanted to grow everybody growing their own pace and as long as they not taking advantage of my time and they honoring that I'm a professional I'll take a little more time at work well Latoya Clark no I didn't see that one I didn't see that Alicia god bless you Alicia god bless you I saw that sometimes if it comes in the chat like if you do it as a sticker I don't see it because it goes in the chat and then it might I see pretty energy right there with a blessing bless your pretty energy I think that's what that's it see Harriet yeah sometimes I don't see them if they go into the if you do a sticker I think they have super chat and they got stickers so you have some time I don't see stickers let me see I'm looking for question on here I Tony I got your book in audio I sent my sister your video on rod and Dottie she got offended we don't talk no more she's still holding on to her deadbeat husband how can I help her just keep loving them keep loving I keep supporting I keep sending her the truth let her get offended Apostle Paul and the Bible says sorrow leads to repentance Miss Jones god bless I thank God for you Tony I bought a woman's influence you helped me realize I expected my fiancee to love me the way my dad did and that isn't realistic the burden has been lifted off me and my fiance thank you so much hey god bless I'm glad that you that you got down Oh Lord to see me do comedy I probably be terrible at comedy because I don't know how to write jokes or tell jokes everything I say on my video it coming off top of my head I couldn't I probably I couldn't write a joke to save my life hey I'll see y'all trying to get a blessing to some of the blessed tribe members god bless y'all for that god bless y'all for that well look like I don't see any questions unless I'm missing him simply pee golf bless you what's your thoughts on casual dating for people who don't want to be in a relationship don't casual date don't casual date the purpose of dating is to be in a relationship so if you ain't ready for no relationship and there is no sense in creating a soul time no sense in creating a soul tire because it's nothing casual about dating cuz he why you dating you could bump into somebody that's cuckoo for cocoa puffs so you bump into this person and you just want to be casual and this person might you know be somebody that got screws loose and now why you out there just playing they serious and not not your life from the line so you cannot play with dating because when you dating you're dealing with the heart and never play with the heart why don't you recommend LLC verse escort S Corp is only if you're gonna have multiple employees that's so that you can cut yourself a w-2 but if you just a single member if you just one person and the people you pay independent contractors that you can give a 1099 to you don't need an escort you know it and with the escort is rules and regulations that you gotta buy buy and it's a lot of little things that you got to stay with inside of and certain stipulations you gotta adhere to and that you gotta meet so that's what you got to realize by the escort but it talk to a CPA and they could help you you know they'll break it down a little more for you it's marriage like a business no marriage is more so like a sports team you know you teammates you know it is more so like a joint-venture it's not like a business cuz see sometimes with business business is just about money sometimes business is just about the goal at hand and you doing business with somebody that you dislike just because they help make you a lot of money but see with marriage you can't be enemies behind the line you gotta be teammates instead of being opponents and so marriage is you can't see marriage like a business per se but you can't see yourself like a business like a brand just meaning like you're not gonna merge with somebody that's not an asset you're not gonna merge with somebody that's a liability so in that sense yes but in the sense of like just doing it just for the sake of pulling your money together or just doing it just for the sake of financial security or just to have a warm body didn't know don't do it for that reason LT or i t god bless you hiya Tony I met a man online the first video chat I had with him he showed me his Johnson he told me if he didn't show any physical attraction for me I should be worried is that normal should I move on you ought to move on a hundred percent you gotta move you got to move on rat nine you got to drop this phone and you got to run put your track shoes on and you got to run that man is slap crazy you hit me if that man taking will that thing I don't know first video call that man is crazy you hit me you would be chopped up into little pieces and being a deep freeze or something well you hear me don't you ever in your life talk that man again block his number and twice on Sunday don't let him sniff you you hit me he can treat you with a thousand foot pole Ron Ron Ron Ron that man is shot up a cannon you hit me he is not crazy look who shot John I forgot to kill him man is in prison two years together and been there for him he yells at me and calls me out my name he says it's because I make him upset and he's stressed out should I leave him or stick it out leave his butt absolutely verse but listen to me and when you leave him now make sure he ain't crazy now cuz if he crazy and he behind bars for a violent offense then what you need to do is when you leave him make sure you move make sure you move and he don't know your new address when you move don't send him another level that he got your address and don't get nobody your address that know him but what you need to tell him is listen man you you and I chill rabbit mine to be yelling and cursing that somebody that's for you that's sticking by you and you a jailbird you behind them bars and can't do nothing and Here I am I here in the free world with a million men at my disposal and you got the nerve to be behind bars locked up without freedom can't do nothing for me but be a pen pal can't do nothing for me but be a pen pal and got the nerve to be yelling and cursing at me you can't play with no man like that you can't play with a man that's unappreciative that you there for him and while he locked up and he they're trying to you know use and abused you just because somebody in the tan hid booed a whole lotta frames that's really why he's dressed somebody no way in it behind and so he taking it out on you you can't play with it if a guy who's the face time to have a combo is that a sign that he is interested not yeah I miss a sign but it don't also don't mean a whole lot sometimes guys just want to look at who he's talking to and that could just be the freak in them he just could be nasty but he don't have to FaceTime you so I wouldn't read any more into that than him caller you on the phone bears drop the phone and run that last rent was ridiculous I had the bless you lol a hey god bless you brother look like a brother though god bless you on receiving a blessing from the brother Delaney for god bless you hey Tony I've heard your messages about men who don't want a serious relationship but what do I do to separate my feelings can we still be friends no you can't be friends because if you ever been in something that was kind of almost relational with a man then he gonna have relationship he gonna have situation shield energy and that situation ship energy will block your blessings of a man who has husband energy so if a husband come near to you and he sniff you and you smell like a situation ship he gonna go on about his business so when when you talking to a man and the goal witness man was to be in a romantic relationship and then he tells you know you have been demoted to friends with benefits or to roster player and that's when you got a demand the trade get on off his team and going about your life so you can attract the man who got husband energy and so don't ever turn a situation ship into a friendship because really why men do that is to have a friend with benefits so they'll hold you there in that space fantasizing about being with them wow they got you on your back and you suck but like Chuck but then they'll go and get in there my whole another relationship and then when they fulfill their they'll drop you like a bad habit you like what in the world is going on I thought we was friends no you played to sell sonic our pleasure let's learn in a blessed thank you for that thank you for that blessing for that support we need to start a book club y'all with Tony Gaskins books never show nothing a blessed night yeah I was starting a book club not gonna get on now doing some more Q&A stupid new god bless you my ex did drive one and a half hours every week to see me while dating Tony I left his butt because he lied about some serious stuff and he is immature thank you for explaining Fitness mom I need your cash out please hey thank you and hopefully Fitness mom still on there and get that cash yeah Tony what does your mom think about your ministry she loved it you know she does he baby keep on going baby keep telling the truth she ought she's trying to chime in sometimes and she'll tell me stuff that video too long anybody gonna watch a long video don't know how to do a video that long and I said mama hush know ye not what God has called me to like Jesus told Mary woman know ye not that it's not my time I have to tell my mama sometime know ye not what God called me to I said that's what I do I said just cuz you ain't got time to watch our long video cuz you raised me don't mean somebody else don't need our long video so but she support me don't see one of my biggest support and she don't say too much not cuz she don't want to cut that check off cuz she know I'd be sitting on some blessings and she know if she if she get on my bad side get distance I create this I create distance from anybody not in a negative or spiteful hateful way but anybody who come the block what the Lord got me doing they'll get put on on hold you know a don't get in the way of the Lord work so keep your opinions to yourself so she supported me though quake god bless you soon-to-be ex-husband is a pen pal now he wants to reconcile after he cheated multiple times three kids divorced question mark 12 years three years married how to co-parent if divorced still begs not to divorce gone gone divorce them he didn't broke he didn't broke you know the marriage vows in the Bible and in real life you know outside of the Bible even wrote the marriage vows he cheated multiple times that's the key word multiple times when I might achieve multiple times that's a habit okay that's not a mistake you got a mistake then you got a choice then you gotta have it he got to get left the other red flagging here is that y'all together 12 years but only married three years so that means he never wanted to marry you they began with he'd never saw you as his wife but just ran out of options because he was a sorry man and realize anybody else gonna put up with his mess except for you so nine years in he married you so he married you as a last ditch effort a last resort and then still took you for granted and cheated on you multiple times so you got to go about your business going about your bidness let him sit in his mess that I'm sitting his mess and deal with him I look forward to your hour-long video every day as part of my daily routine a god bless I really appreciate that I really appreciate that please give more detail on why men won't wait for a divorced single mom of one young child I'm working on building new income streams though I struggle with letting go of the cakes I don't know what you mean by letting go of the cakes I say the reason why a man won't wait on a divorced single mom of one is unless you are his wife unless you are his dream and when you say wait you mean wait until marriage what that means is this whether this what I'm saying is that you say you struggle with letting go of the cakes oh maybe you mean okay sleeping with him what I mean is if you have children you've been abstinent don't make sense to a man he like how in the world you afternoon and you'd have been flipped in toast like a pizza in New York and then you coming to me because your ex was sorry and did you wrong now you coming to me telling me I got the wait so that's why I'm saying it don't make sense to a man unless he sees you as his wife if he sees you as his wife he will wait so what I'm telling you is a man who giving you a whole bunch of problems that he trying to force you and coerce you into that bedroom and you telling him no I'm not ready for that no I'm not doing that then that's not your husband if he keep pressing you if he your husband what he gonna do is go ahead and marry you so that he can go ahead and have you all the way because he already knows you're his wife anyways hey I got two more minutes on here now talk nine months live nine hours apart never men communication dwindling I think we won't make it is it okay for me to keep talking if I plan to move and then cut ties well why are you doing that man you trying to use him for talking and then you want moving and cut ties you might be playing yourself so you might end up you know up the creek without a paddle so I wouldn't play I wouldn't play with it somebody say at All Saints he doesn't recommend in dating apps but if you meet them online it's different so what that mean is yes they off to date now stay off the day now now if you meet someone on Facebook and Instagram that's different than meet somebody on bumble attender but stay often bumbling and tender and harming and mask on stay off all of that they off all of that get outside and walk to the store you'll meet your husband how do you know when you're completely healed from your last relationship when you can love as if you've never been hurt before you are healed my daddy taught me that when you can love as if you've never been hurt before so what that mean is you don't go into your next relationship giving the person two strikes when a Meem stepped up to the plate yet I struggle with cakes like actual cakes okay okay like eating cakes you try is you saying you're trying to lose weight with cakes or you struggle with baking cakes you know you got middle of advice please xoxo god bless you god bless advice please for those of us who do not want to wait till marriage to have what our dating with the intention of marriage that's like gambling when you go in and you don't want to wait until your marriage just understand you taking a gamble and sometimes when you gamble you lose your shirt okay so I took that gamble then for several relationships I lost my shirt finally I met my wife and it happened to work out but I had a lot of damage a lot of soul ties so you got to ask yourself how many soul ties you want because why are you not waiting for marriage you risk and every time you lay down is getting up with a std and spiritually transmitted demon spiritually transmitted disease sexual transmitted disease every time you lay down so just understand that you've taken a gamble yeah and you risking your life you risking your future because you could wake up pregnant and then now you tied to somebody for the rest of your life through that pregnancy that you ain't even know marry and now you meet the person you want to marry but you got a tie to somebody else that treat you like trash because you got on your back hey last question has not come a phone but down y'all - Queen Draya god bless you in our life thanks Tony for the work you put in to pour wisdom into our lives you allow God to use you to expose the truth that we otherwise wouldn't know god bless you and your family I thank you so much and thank you for that blessing hey y'all god bless y'all I got to get going try to relax my body now tomorrow at 9 p.m. Eastern is the normal is the normal Q&A for the Blessed tribe these here I do on Saturdays is bonus Q&A the bonus q and A's Sheila your first book should be on your coaching category which also could be your experience in life because even if you telling your experience in life you tell a story and make a point so eight god bless y'all I really appreciate it Sonya that's fine but you got realized you break up with your man that you meet at work work trying to be a hard place to be up to be a so don't don't do that unless you gonna marry the person and y'all listen to share when she say rape the book y'all five-star so if you bought a woman's influence now I may say you go where you bought it from and give us a five-star review and I'll be reading five-star reviews and I really appreciate you god bless you and we'll talk soon followed by the down

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Published: Sun Apr 12 2020