Parents Who Have Disowned/Stopped Loving Their Child Share What Happened

like the video and subscribe right now or FBI will see your internet history ass credit parents who have disowned or genuinely stopped loving your child what happened my parents disowned my oldest sister she always struggled growing up more than us she became a teen mom with a bad elder Jude partied a lot et Cie but my parents helped her a lot they do okay for themselves but had a no co-signing rule for all six of my siblings and I still they co-signed for her house so she could get a head start she didn't pay the mortgage for almost three years before my mom got served in front of all the other nurses at her work my parents worked tirelessly to try to work our deals where my sister and her family kept the house and got some leniency but to no avail because my sister never showed up for court dates during this time she paid $12,000 for IVF and got pregnant with her fifth kid when my mom demanded some of the money back she accused my dad and my brother of beating her sons when my parents took them to Disney World he didn't and said she'd file a police report if he asked for money again they kept asking cause it wasn't true she awkwardly joined us for Christmas and punched my brother in the face during the meal for humiliating her oldest son by asking him if he wanted to work at my brother's company for good pay her oldest son is in and out of jail and my brother was trying to help him after his release but her son said he didn't want a job and got mad she then called the cops and told them the same brother had illegal guns in his truck and they came on Christmas night and searched his truck no guns found needless to say she is not welcome anywhere near any of us and my mom still cries about it but refuses to talk to her again my heart actually aches for your mom this sounds a lot like my friend's wife's older sister she is slowly heading in this direction and the only reason why her parents keep giving her money is because she has three young kids and the eldest is in his mid teens and a total entitled [ __ ] because he was raised never needing to do anything because his mom was raised to never need to do anything either I hope she got more than justice I have disowned my oldest son he molested my daughter has been diagnosed as a sociopath and we have restraining orders against him it isn't fun and I never thought I would be that parent this may be weird coming from a stranger but thank you for doing so my partner told her mother that her older brother sexually abused her for close to 10 years and she did nothing she never reacted to the info kept letting brother live with her and still expect sussel to play happy family I really respect you for what you did dated a girl for a long time who had been molested by her brother for years growing up her parents tried the whole we need to move on forgive him he's our son he ducked her she'd up having to see him at holidays she was cutting drinking herself to sleep almost destroyed a very beautiful and amazing person it got better when he went to federal prison for making and distributing child pornography and sex with sOooo many underage girls TLDR you absolutely made the right choice sorry you had to make it I'm so sorry for your daughter I wish the best for you and her my family disowned me because I disowned my mother I was sexually groomed and abuse slash tortured by her husband for years and when I finally told her she not only didn't believe me but stayed married to him for seven years I had to move out at 16 to get away from how I was being treated then when I finally began speaking to others she started to cover her ass with her social circle by telling them that I said used her husband I cut her off for years and didn't ever want to see her again but my family bullied me to just get over it and have a relationship with my mother and that I was hurting her even my sister who knew what happened knew I stayed for so long to protect her fell into a trap of my mother whining to everyone around her and painting me as a liar about for years against he was very suddenly diagnosed with advanced cancer and didn't have much time I was moving out of my home state and everyone told me I needed to see her before I left that I needed to be there but I didn't want to in the end everyone turned their back on me they were so mad I wouldn't just forget my trauma just to say goodbye to someone I hadn't loved for a long time and rightly so edit I'm getting a lot of replies so I just want to say thank you and send you all virtual hugs I'm okay now I'm grown-up and though I was set back in a lot of ways life wise I came out on top for the best anyone who is also experiencing this you aren't alone and if you need to talk I'm here hey dear I am in the same boat I have some siblings who know the truth who were also abused but not sexually like I was and are also MC but my little sister stepfather is her real father basically said it was just one time so I need to let it go it wasn't one ducking time and the fact that my mother admits it'll happen now but his downplaying it infuriates me more you know what with loved our mother's long after they deserved our love extended them so many chances and they've just [ __ ] on us I miss my sister but I don't think I would even return for my mom's funeral I'm done pretending she's a good person by not pretending I've taken my life back you did the right thing duck you're ducking piece of [ __ ] family you don't deserve that I'll never understand people's own families wanting to sweep something under the rug like that just seriously ducked not only was you not going the Wrights thing to do you shall given them a firm duck you I hope you're living a happier life now you are worth happiness and being around people that truly love and care for you I love my son that he abused me when he turned that violence onto his sister by choking her I had to say goodbye I wish my mom had done that to my brother sometimes she saw it all but what hurt the most was having my parents the people who are supposed to protect me ask me to forgive my attacker just because he happened to be my brother if anyone else had done that to me they would have gone nuts on them but he's blood so it cancels out I guess me too I caught him when he lunged for her routinely attacked us he went to his mom's where he attacked his new stepfather until the stepdad left my son and I don't speak a little different I was disowned but I deserved it I was an addict and a mess for a long time my mom couldn't keep bailing me out of trouble and watch me self-destruct anymore I wasn't living at home she came to see me one last time to tell me she was done not to contact her she would no longer have anything to do with me she was in pieces I can't imagine how hard it must have been for her but it was the best thing she ever did for me once she cut me off my rock bottom came hard and fast after a little while of living on the streets in my addiction consuming me I made my way to a detox center got a few days clean under my belt and never looked back that was almost 15 years ago after I was cleaner little while I contacted my mom and little by little we built a relationship again and now we are really close I'm forever grateful to my mom for letting me fall and letting me back into her life this has to be the most heartwarming thing I've ever read to be able to look at things rationally and not hate your mother but rather appreciate what she did to you while you were in a dire spot this is something not everyone can do at all I don't know you but I'm glad you were able to get back into your mother's life and I'm sure she is also happy you got up on the out feet wish you all the best that's beautiful I don't know you but I'm proud of you I wouldn't say I've discerned or stopped loving my son but it's real tough to find love for him he's almost 14 next month and he's currently out of our home at a treatment facility he's average two arrests a year for the last two years and he's attacked my wife several times our daughter several times and the neighborhood kids several times he's run away from school run away from home and tried to push me off the roof of our house after threatening to jump off and hurt himself we have become that family in our town where the police are called to our home on a semi-regular basis he's been getting more violent as he gets older not to mention bigger and stronger and I honestly don't see an end in sight the key fact I'm leaving out is that he's been diagnosed as high-functioning autistic and is also bitola that's like putting around a tornado and expecting it to stay inside the walls a lot of what has occurred he had little control over because of the way his mind is where he's constantly at war with himself structure versus chaos and my wife and I have tried desperately to give him the best life we can while keeping ourselves and our daughter safe but I'm tired it's been eight and a half years we've been going through this with him and I've been ready to throw in the towel on him for awhile but my wife refuses to let him go so we wake up every morning trying to give him the best life for him and our girls my brother has the same combo and was in a similar situation at that age he's 10 years older now and studying for a PhD and engaged to a wonderful woman I'm not promising that it will get better but it can I've seen it happen feel free to message me if you want to talk more my father said my mother's issue was she had too many children and it gave her some kind of brain-fever much like a dog that loses its mind after having too many puppies my mother said my father felt trapped by me he was planning to leave when it was just my two older brother and then my mother got pregnant with me and he felt obligated to stay now that I'm am adult with two kids myself I think I realized that both of my parents are are just extremely mentally ill and incapable of loving anyone including themselves garish just three kids I thought maybe we were talking a couple doesn't hear much like a dog that loses its mind after having too many puppies is that even a thing my ex-wife disowned my son we both married young when I was in the military high school sweethearts she became pregnant six months into our marriage I don't think she connected with him at all after he was born the most she did with him was Instagram photo shoots where she painted herself as hash one mommy when he turned 3 I left the military a year after that she ran for the hills I remember it like it was yesterday i sat down with her at a local restaurant to talk divorce plans we split all of our financials and material items down the middle we finally got custody form Aikido something I dreaded to discuss because fathers never gain custody in my area and she tells me I want absolutely no responsibility I was taken back and I asked if she was sure she was that one sentence hurt me more than anything else that happened during that time my biological father wanted nothing to do with me and now I was seeing it happen with my own child but with his mother I received full custody and she married within a year afterwards she had another child to her parents try their best to be a part of his life but she still does her best to avoid him he's seven now and used to it but I know it waits heavily on him [ __ ] sucks ass but its life I guess it's better she isn't there if she never wanted to be he may not know that now but he'll probably figure it out as he grows up that's vile and your son is lucky to have you I'm sorry that you both have to live with this not me but my great-grandma this story is really sad but also interesting so I thought I'd share it she was a young Creole teenager French Creole was her first language and she was a quarter to half black like me with tan skin and loose brown curls she was born in Florida but when things started getting worse for black people in Florida her family relocated to Texas for those who don't know Creole people tend to play heavily into Carla RISM although they are definitely mixed-race they prioritize light-skinned people the looser you curl the lighter your skin the more white you look the better her parents had high expectations for her to marry a wealthy light-skinned man who would take care of her instead she met my great-grandfather a poor dark-skinned man jumping from job to job working for farmers and trying to make a living the two of them fell in love they were just teenagers her parents threatened to disown her if she continued seeing him and like a rebellious teenager she refused they wanted her to do better she wanted to be in love they might have broken up eventually if she didn't get pregnant but she did and that was the end of it her parents base luckily said you've ruined your life and discerned her right there the whole family discerned her no one would speak to her aunts uncles cousins not a single person stood up for her so she had no choice the two of them moved to California so he could get a job picking oranges he built a house they had their first daughter she was 16 she never saw her family again since it seems to have widened a bit a family torn apart based on an aunt and her niece aunt starts signs of dementia at a relatively young age is moved into an assisted living home niece who bounces around jobs gets higher ex to go visit her about once a week take her out to the mall or a walk in the park whatever paid handsomely we get an alert that unde has a check bounced from her account that should have $5,000 in it niece has drained the account proven beyond a doubt with receipts niece would take on two aunts Bank machine every Friday and withdraw $200 then fill her car with gas aunt can't drive and charge us hours when she clearly didn't spend hours with arms charged us claiming she took out two appointments there was no appointment we can actually call the doctor for your information the family rift for some bizarre reason nieces family took her side of course they took her side I'll bet in their minds the niece earned it niece was doing the unpleasant and sometimes emotionally / mentally draining work of visiting and entertaining a family member suffering from dementia it saved them from having to set aside time to do it themselves everybody wins right Ike was nice the aunt's daughter that somehow makes it worse you have been visited by the dog out of curiosity good knowledge and secrets will come to you but only if you comment tell me more Papa thanks for watching do not forget to subscribe for more daily videos

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Length: 15min 22sec (922 seconds)

Published: Wed Oct 16 2019