Mother wants my sister to get pregnant from my fiancé

[Music] the whole thing is an absolute nightmare and i don't know what to do i have nobody to turn to accept my best friends but i don't think i can my sister has always been my mother's golden child she always do everything right doesn't matter who ends up being hurt she is smarter prettier skinnier and successful than i or at least that what my mom has always told me she had the body of a model and the hair of mother teresa as i grew up my sister would always find any excuse to make me feel bad and my mom took her said in everything she always said that i overreacted or that i was being an ungrateful little sh because my sister has always been by my side teaching me how to be the woman i am today everything that i had had to be shared with my sister but i couldn't take any of her things her room was the biggest and always have the best things as in cell phones laptops or school things i started to work when i was 15 so i could start to buy my own things and therefore say no whenever my sister wanted to take them this angered my mom but i have my big angel at home my dad was my only support he never accepted how my mother treated us because he knew she wasn't only playing favorites but she was hurting me he was an amazing dad with my sister but she was always around my mom and didn't pay much attention to him so i became his little partner we would watch tv together play and have the same pets he stood up for me when they were both being mean he helped me to buy my first car and he even got a personalized plate for me not for use but for memories he was my best friend and the only person i trusted until i met my best friends and then my fiance sadly he passed away during my second year in college since i was always in a lot of pressure because i always had to prove myself for my mom when my dad was still alive they agreed in sending us to the best school options they could find it didn't matter how much it costed so while i was there i started to hang around the rich kids in my high school just like my sister did she has never been the best in school but my mother believes that it's just because her mind is always thinking too much ideas that she can't concentrate she has a brilliant mind she is just in the wrong environment so she ended up having her last high school year while i was in my first point during my friendship hunting i met nadia we clicked together because we both loved arts animals and musicals as time passed by she made me forget about my mother's expectations and i just started to be me while i was in college she then introduced me to her boyfriend liam and they became my best friends i'm an awful romantic person and i always saw his relationship as something that was never never going to happen to me because my mother made me believe it my sister was perfect so why would anybody choose me although i got to hang to the rich people my mom wasn't happy because my sister couldn't do it it turns out that the people in senior year are not kind to the girl who had to stay a little bit longer she lost her group because they did graduated and seeing me around the people that rejected her make her angry and worst she would torn my clothes apart destroy my homework and making me be late for class so the teachers will saw me as some irresponsible person i tried to talk to my mom and dad but my mother said that she was just feeling lonely and that i should make her come to my dates with my friends so they could accept her she even demanded me to take her when i was going out or else i had to stay home but my father never allowed it liam will often invite me and nadia to parties at his house his parents were quite party pants and loved to throw parties for no reason they even throw me a small birthday day party once so his is where i met my now fiance alec he is liam's older brother and he studied in another country at the time because he was interested in public relationship as a way to make his father company better alec is with no doubt the best thing that happened to me aside from my dad he is very strong and doesn't let anyone go past him he is funny and makes me feel like the best every day we are together we started to date after i turned 17 because he was always outside our country and knowing each other was something important to me i had to know this wasn't gonna be a guy that wanted to be with me for my sister and truly loved me when my family met him my sister went furious again because i got to date the rich hand awesome guy my mother always said it was gonna be hers and that i was insulting her and trying to make her feel less i was honestly so scared because she was yelling saying horrible things and being absolutely violent my dad had to take her and drag her to her room when i was left alone with my mother she said that she was so disappointing that i had to do that to my sister and that i showed her again the spiteful little girl i always had been i was honestly so so heartbroken that i tried to broke up with alec but after telling him my reasons he assured me that he was never going to leave me and that as soon as he could he was going to take me out of that house which he did when i turned 18 we moved together and he took care of me while i was studying i worked to pay things too but being with someone that loved me was the best thing now when we visited my family to dinners or holidays alec and my dad would always make me feel the number one my mom and my sister always always got angry and my sister even dared to feel offended when my alec turned her down on her flirtation but they never dared to say something in front of him because of his family position and after moving i never got left alone with them when my father passed i stopped the visit and we only went during some holidays for dinners in the left now alec proposed about two years ago but we never really planned the wedding because he has always been busy with his family business in school but after virus and all of what had happened we decided that we wanted to get married in december of the next year this is something very very sensitive for me because without my father i don't have any close family to plan it with me my mother and my sister are not a choice but i decided to give it one last go so we could fix everything and get it over when i told them about our decision my sister only said pfft as if i cared but my mom was kinda happy and said that she wanted to come and pick the dress with me if i allowed it it felt very weird but as a needy child i has always been for her i agreed we haven't done anything that required going out but we would often meet with nadir and my soon to be mill and still to decide some things i guess because the three of them are with us my sister behaves as the older loving see she has never been but i just let it go because i want peace after some meeting and watching them be nice with me i thought that meeting the three of them was a good idea so last friday i went to my mother house and we started to pick a few thing when i excused myself and went to the bathroom when i came back i heard them talking and since i was little my mother always hated when i interrupt them so i just waited how wrong they were talking about my sister going to my house and talk to alec about some party they wanted to make me my mother said that she had to be smart because alec knew how much she hated me but after some weeks of treating me well they were sure i told him how we were bonding and starting to fix everything i don't want to write everything because it just breaks my heart but they want my sister and alec to have drinks to the point he is wasted and they have s she plans on getting pregnant and have al leaving me so she get what's right for hers as in a hot husband a rich life and a good position my sister called me a stupid [ __ ] for leaving a man like him will be mine i fought so hard to no star crying and i enter in a rush saying that my mill texted me saying that she had to talk to me about the cake and that i had to leave so i just took my things and flee i haven't been able to told my friends or my fiance about this because i never thought they hated me that much i believed that yes my sister was my mother's favorite but i never thought she would try to hurt me like this i just asked alec to never never be alone with the both of them and he asked me why but i just said they plan on ruin my dress i know i lied but i don't know what to do they are my family but i know what they want to do is so wrong please help me background in 2006 i was 25 and married a woman 13 years older than me and became a stepdad to a 15 year old girl point i always considered myself a level-headed person kept my cool and went with the flow that was until my marriage fell apart cast me alma former wife marina step daughter carol step daughter's biological father karen bf's ex-wife so it's the summer of 2009 alma and i have three years in and marina just graduated high school alma tells me that matina has been asking about her biological father alma says that she wants to write to an old address she had for him and see if he would be interested in getting to know his daughter i was fine with it as i believe that marina had every right to try and get to know her father a month goes by and alma tells me that carol emma hold her and is open to getting to know his daughter alma and carol ml back and forth so she can feel him out and he can get a sense on what mourinho is like at this point i don't mind at all because elmer is open about all the emailing and what they write about fast forward a few weeks marina and carol are communicating back and forth regularly everything looks to be working out i start to notice alma on the computer more and more chatting with carol i ask her about it and she affirms that she and he developed a friendship over the past few weeks i don't think much about it as she isn't hiding anything and carol lives in mexico city we lived in central ca a few months go by and alma tells me that mourinho wants to meet carol and he has time off coming so it's a perfect time to do it alma will go with marina but i wouldn't be able to go since i couldn't get the time off of work alma and marina go on their trip they are gone for two weeks week one is spent at alma's grandparents home and week 2 would be spent in cabo where carol would fly in to give him and marina time to connect in person their vacation came and went and they finally came home when i picked up the girls i began asking about the trip but all i would get would be one word answers from both of them marina and alma looked like they were upset with one another i figured they got into an argument on the way home a few hours in a plane can do that to you a week later and we are back in our routine but alma and marina are still barely talking i ask what is wrong and she tells me that her and marina had an argument about carol i chalked it up to the meeting not being longer so i say well maybe next vacation carol has can be spent in california and he can bring his sons so marina can meet her brothers they can even stay with us a few days alma really liked that idea so and i kid you not the very next day both are at work and i have the day off i'm working around the house and come across a small stack of papers on the entryway table i pick them up and see if they are important it's a printed out ml and i see my name in it i read it and just keep reading through the stack of papers it was a complete print out of alma and carol's email conversations they were having through her work ml address i felt sick the more i read the sticker i felt in the mls they had the whole vacation planned out including the fact that carol would be staying with her and marina in the suite i had arranged for them rather than get his own hotel room the worst was the fact that they were debating how they should tell marina that they planned on being affectionate with each other during this trip because as he put it she should be happy that her parents are finding each other again after 18 years and how else are you and i going to be able to share a room turns out marina wasn't very happy about the situation and wouldn't let them be alone together first thing i did was take the emails and have copies made i wasn't sure on what i was going to do yet but i knew i should make them i then drove to almost work and tell her i was there to take her to lunch when we got to a secluded parking lot i confronted her about the emails she had the nerve to try and turn it on me how could you go through my private emails like that she didn't argue she just claimed that the bond that she and carol had was strong and that i wasn't the husband that she had hoped i would be i argued i cried and i asked her if we could work through it and all she would say is maybe and that she would think about it for the next few days i was a mess i would mope and pout when i was alone and would be alma's attentive husband when she was home then i saw that she and carol were chatting on the home computer not even trying to hide it the revenge when i realized that this wasn't going to end i decided that i needed ammunition i already had the mls from her work but i wanted more so i found a computer program that runs in the background it takes screenshots and is a keystroke logger i installed it on both our home computers with the program i had screenshots of their chatting sessions and i had access to elma's personal email accounts i found every last bit of correspondence and printed it out at first i thought i would take the mls to a lawyer that could use it for my divorce but then i found out that california was a no fault state so it wouldn't matter so i came up with plan b i took everything i had collected and began going through it i arranged it in chronological order and began writing down every bit of information that it thought i could use every break at work i would just read highlight and write down information i ended up with two notebooks full of random info where carol worked where his father's homeless phrases carol would use phase two was the fun part i went to a popular search engine that also would provide you with a free email address i found the link to the mexican version and created an email address for a fake woman let's call her miss sandoval miss sandoval ml's alma and tells her that she was carol's living girlfriend until a few weeks prior and that she had been debating whether or not to email and warn her about carol and his anger miss sandoval wrote about their relationship and things that they would do like his favorite vacation spots how she cared for his boys all the pet names he would call her everything written would come from one of the emails or chats they would have then miss sandoval wrote about how he would become verbally abusive and how it started around the same time that alma and carol's relationship changed emails went back and forth for a week and in one mli included pictures of a battered woman i found online as this interaction is going on i'm still keeping tabs on their conversations and their tones have changed alma asks about miss sandoval and of course he denies knowing who she is and of course alma doesn't believe him she is furious that he would lie to her and that now she feels like she is a reason for this poor woman's abuse in the end alma breaks things off with him and she even shares the email from miss sandoval with marina and convinces her that her father is a terrible person and she shouldn't have any more contact with him oh but that's not all during my spying i was able to find carol's ex-wife's karen social media and had miss sandoval email her a copy of every ml i had now i don't know what mexico's divorce laws are like but karen was very grateful for all the info and was sure that it would help her in the divorce that had been going on for three years at that point now let's not forget about alma she didn't go unscathed for this when her relationship with carol tanked she naturally tried to fix things with me and me so satisfied that i torpedoed their relationship was more than happy to accept her attention don't get me wrong our marriage was over i was just leading her to think that we were working things out on the day that i left the first eviction notice arrived from the bank apparently the ordeal made me forget to pay the mortgage on our house and her job received an email from me with copies of her and carol's inappropriate emails made using the company ml address and showing it was on company time it was worth the hit to my credit score just to get her frantic voice messages about her losing the house and her getting demoted at work edit update so to answer some of the common questions i've gotten marina and i still talk and visit on occasion but she has her own family and i moved away due to work marina and her biological father tried to connect again a few years later but in the end he cut all ties with her because she wouldn't act like a loving and devoted daughter on the first visit alma and marina never found out that i was the one to email her as miss sandoval i need to clarify that i intentionally forgot to pay the home mortgage for a few months she had no idea since i was the one who set up the online accounts and i picked up all the mail do [Music] you

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Published: Fri Nov 20 2020