IT IS OVER, GOD HAS A PLAN | Let it Go - Inspirational & Motivational Video

you want to begin to get all the toxic people out of your life energy drainers get them out of your life see ladies and gentlemen it takes a lot of energy to reach your goal it takes a lot of emotional mental and spiritual energy to reach your goal and you can run faster with a hundred who want to go than with one around your neck so there are two kinds of relationships sid simon talks about this nourishing relationships and toxic relationships nourishing relationships are the relationships that inspire you they motivate you they bring the best out of you toxic relationships are relationships with people that always criticize you all they can do is find thought all they can do is just exploit your weaknesses all they can do is remind you of the mistakes that you've made in the past these people are bad for your health toxic people can run your blood pressure up one apple can spoil a whole barrel one negative energy or energy drain it can spoil your whole life i know people who lives have been ruined because somebody wasn't good for them see there are some people that aren't good for you hello they aren't good for you've got to get them out of your life see a lot of people put up with a lot of foolishness because they don't want to die by themselves make a list of who you communicate with most and ask yourself the question what kind of person am i becoming because of this relationship is it helping me to grow mentally and emotionally and spiritually am i becoming a better person because of this relationship do they bring out the best of me do they inspire me do they encourage me to develop my greatness do they make me stretch so you got to look at the people in your life and find out what kind of person are you becoming because of that relationship my mother used to say birds of a feather flock together you run around with losers you will end up a loser unconsciously unconsciously you will pick up their ways you'll pick up their habits you pick up most importantly their attitude about life if you're around cynical negative people all the time you will become cynical and negative i love you i repeat i love you if no one has ever told you this if no one told you this today this week this month this year but it's very second i want you to know i love you and i also want you to know that the fact that you're still alive and still on this earth even though it's been challenging and rough and sometimes you get discouraged and uninspired to keep going god has a plan you will grow through what you go through everything that you're going through at some point it makes no sense to you right now but at some point god is going to reveal to you why all of these issues challenges and problems continue to show up and what you are supposed to learn from it you will grow through what you go through [Music] my question to you is this who has text you and called you and invited you somewhere today who is this person who is these members of the family i want you to understand that when i leave these these these videos i'm not trying to preach or talk or instill separatism i have a responsibility to peace what does that mean it means that i wake up in the morning people are calling texting inviting me here inviting me there i have an opportunity i have a choice a very important word i have a choice to decide who and what and where i want to go what do i want to experience in my day because you're inviting me doesn't mean i want to show up because you're calling me doesn't mean i'm going to call you back because you want me to be there doesn't mean that i want to be there because we're family because we're friends because we grew up together doesn't mean that i want to be a part of any and everything that you want me to be a part of why because my experience with you hasn't necessarily made me feel good about my life or my experience at the end of every night because you go to sleep at night doesn't mean you're resting because you close your eyes at night and you are sleep physically doesn't mean that you're actually resting and the reason that you don't rest is because while you're awake everything and everybody that's in and around your life is so full of issues problems insecurities dysfunction negativity your mind is and your spirit is in turmoil it's issues and problems arguments yelling screaming dysfunctional all of this is going on all day every day so when you go to sleep at night you're not resting a lot of people would say i love myself do you really love yourself are the things that you're doing the people that you're hanging out with and the places and the circles that you're traveling in does that reflect a person that actually loves themselves if you love yourself why would you with those type of people you know what they're saying about you behind your back you know they're jealous and envious of who you are and the things that you got going on in your life in your career you know that they don't like you and they've made it clear they've sent you every sign imaginable that they could possibly send you and because you're so desperate to have people around you and in your life you continue to go back you continue to show up to everything they invite you to knowing what they're saying about you i'm not preaching separatism i want a bunch of people to just be alone at home doing nothing with no friends no family and nothing to do i'm saying that at this point you are old enough and mature enough to understand the difference in good people and bad people and when you're hanging out with negative dark and dysfunctional people you cannot expect yourself to go to sleep at night and rest you cannot expect yourself to feel good about your day when you're including negative and dysfunctional people in your day so what you grew up with so what their childhood friends so what their family [Music] we have a responsibility to walk in the direction of peace i want to laugh i want to smile i want to enjoy myself i actually want to feel good about the people that are around me you have that as a choice you actually do you don't wake up in the morning and negativity dysfunction problems and issues just randomly pop up these are the people that you have decided to include in your life so the outcome of your day your hour your minutes your week your month and your year is always draining always dysfunctional and always crazy because these are the type of people you've decided to include in your day-to-day life i'm talking to somebody you don't love yourself you can't say that you love yourself when you continue to invite and include these people in your life they're threatened they're insecure they have a problem with you and you don't even have a problem with them they try and make you feel bad about being so blessed they laugh about it but they're throwing subliminal and very direct messages at you i see you over there getting money huh that person has a problem with the fact that you're getting money oh like that huh i see you i see you they're jealous they're envious they're insecure they're threatened by the idea that you're coming up your career and your life is advancing people put god put people in your life for a reason others are there for a season and it's very important that you recognize when people's seasons are over god put people in your life for a reason other people are there for a season is the season over or have you decided because you're desperate because you just need validation you need all of this and people and things around you you've decided to drag these random people into the new season of your life you have a boat and your boat is at its capacity and in order for your boat to not sink and go underwater and that could be your career that could be your life that can be your your personal life your relationships is that relationship over do you feel mentally spiritually and emotionally stimulated in that relationship are you just holding on to it because you got this concept of loyalty that you have over abused overused and over abused well i've learned that loyalty has an expiration date loyalty isn't some open-ended thing that just goes on forever because technically some people just don't really make sense for your life in the new season the mind and the space that you're in think about this this is this is the this is a reminder that loyalty has an expiration date you ever been in a relationship with some folks three years ago and then you run into him and you like man what the was i thinking dating her or dating him and you almost want to beat yourself up for even the fact that you were in love or had all of these ridiculous feelings for this person that shows you right there that that loyalty has an expiration date you could never see yourself not being with that person but at a certain point all of the signs and wonders revealed itself that that relationship is over so if you had drug that person those people those friends those family members those situations into the new season of your life your life wouldn't be going as well as it's going right now i want you to stop playing the victim you are not the victim you decided that those are your friends you decided that those are the people that you want to spend time with you decided this is what you wanted to do with your day when you get invited to places doesn't mean you have to show up especially if you know what your experience is going to be like with these people no one wants to be alone why spend the rest of your life being miserable frustrated and insecure not really feeling as good as you have a responsibility to feel feeling good isn't just an opportunity feeling good is a responsibility that we all have for ourselves i don't need a million people around me if i don't like you i don't with you and guess what i actually don't care what you say about me i don't remember the last time i lost sleep over a hater and the things that people are running around saying blogs websites conversation tweets and i don't lose sleep over haters why because i know exactly how i feel about me and even if something appears to be very different than what it really is i don't even mind that you're talking about the things that you're assuming that's really going on i know what's happening i know who i am i know what my intentions are i know my heart and more importantly god knows my heart so for it to appear appear to be this appear to be that and then you're running around saying whatever you're saying about me that's fine you go right ahead and say it you have a job to do you're bored you have nothing going on in your life so you focused on my life it's the way it is listen y'all we have control of our minute our hour our day our week our month and our year stop running around being on the receiving end of whatever people want to dump on you you showed up you accepted that invite you invited these people to your house you're in a relationship with that man you're in a relationship with that woman that's you so how do you feel at the end of your night it's always going to be based on the people that you decided to include in your day your week your month your year your minute your hour you got 24 hours in a day when you go to sleep at night how are you going to feel about your day all depends on who you decide to include in your day stop running around acting as if you don't have a choice you do have a choice you do have a choice you're a dysfunctional so you love dysfunctional people you love rumors you love issues you love problems you love people calling you with their problems you love it that's why at the end of every night you are drained because you are submerged yourself in dysfunctional things people and situations people come at me hey man i heard man don't don't don't talk to me about no rumors don't talk to me about other people's problems and situations i don't invite that in my life so it doesn't show up stop playing the victim stop running around acting as if you have nothing to do with the people things and situations in your life i love you i'm tired of these grown-ass men and grown-ass women running around acting as if they don't have a choice [Music] you have a choice i'm a grown man where are the most crazy insane thugs gangsters crips blood dysfunction where can i find and seek trouble where is it where is it there it is and you decide to walk in that direction and what the do you expect the outcome to be you're hanging out with crazy people do you expect the outcome of your day to be regular and okay where is a heartbreak where is someone that's gonna make me feel insecure make me feel bad about myself where are they ah there they are so let me walk in that direction i love myself enough to say that i want to walk in the direction of peace love spiritual folks that are always evolving and trying to better themselves seeking wisdom and knowledge and how to take better steps and better directions to do better and want better for their career their life they have talents those people that you're around it's not going to help further your career you know that it's been revealed to you a long time ago but because you don't want to be alone you'd much rather hang out with a bunch of people that ain't going to do for you you have a choice and the land of the blind the one-eyed man is king see that i got one eye and the land of the blind you have people that have eyesight but they choose to not use things that have clearly been revealed to them and the land of the blind the one-eyed man is king most of the people out here are blind they don't see what's right in front of them [Applause] so they choose to just disown it push it to the back no no no no i didn't see that no no no i'm gonna let it fall on deaf ears i didn't really hear that i don't like the way i feel i'm gonna ignore the way i feel about being in these situations around these friends and these people i'm gonna ignore that i'm gonna disown that and the land of the blind the one-eyed man is king if you make it to the end of this video i want you to write that i don't have to leave these videos i don't have to do anything i know what i know when i live the life that i live and i'm happy with it i may not have all the money in the world but i'm comfortable i have peace in my mind and i move and operate in peaceful circles and i welcome people in my life with good energy that are talented that are beautiful that have good intentions towards me and others i am not gonna i refuse to invite this function problems issues insecurities negative bad people and that's why my life is as blessed as it is some of you all think that my life is blessed because i have a career i get to travel and i get to move around with celebrities and go to a-list parties and private yachts and private planes some of y'all equate that to living a blessed life that's not living a blessed life those are just perks and antics that come along with my life the day-to-day life that i live is that i include amazing and incredible people and that's why my life is so blessed all of the other stuff is additional perks that come along with it i want better for you the question is do you want better for yourself don't claim to love yourself and you're waking up every day and deciding to include these people things and situations in your life that's that is not moving like a man or a woman who truly loves themselves when you love yourself you want better for yourself that's what it is if you make it to the end of this video i want you to write in the land of the blind the one-eyed man is king [Music] [Music] you

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Length: 20min 11sec (1211 seconds)

Published: Sat Nov 14 2020