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i have this thing where i say self-love is the cure to self-hate i'll say it again self-love is the cure to self-hate now what i'm about to say is not with the intentions of getting everyone to separate from family from marriages or relationships if anything this should inspire you to stay in it if you're happy and if you want to be happier while in your relationship this will help hopefully to establish having more of a bottom line and setting boundaries according to the relationship that you're in so here we go everything that i do everywhere i go every meeting and conversation that i have every phone call that comes into my cell every text message every invite i get text messages with invites to this club this private mansion party this and that all the above i'm just not interested because at 35 years old i'm a grown ass man and me being a grown ass man i will say this everything that i do at this point is connected to two things number one how much do you love yourself because if you understand the value of self-love you'll never be friends with those type of people or ever accept any invites that has to do with this or that i already know how you're gonna make me feel because i've hung out with you before and you've already made me feel that way multiple times so you continue to invite me and i continue to show up because i'm desperate to have friends i'm desperate for the validation of all of these people being around me feeding me feeding me feeding me i ain't [ __ ] until you tell me that i'm the [ __ ] i don't love me until you tell me that you love me i don't like me until you tell me that you like me most of the people out here are running around empty they have no sense of self no sense of self love when i say self love it has nothing to do with celebrity money materialistic things and all of the things that your negative mind could probably go to has nothing to do with self love has nothing to do with looks nothing to do with cars and any of the superficial things that one would assume that could make you love yourself even more it's a matter of knowing your value it's a matter of you saying i don't have to be around these people in these type of environments and situations in order for me to finally see the value in myself i love me independent of you loving me i believe in me i know my self-worth i know clearly that i'm a child of god and god has a purpose over my life and if he didn't i wouldn't be here anymore and i don't need you to tell me that i don't need you to validate me when you give me compliments it inspires me to keep going but you're not the reason i'm doing this the comments the feedback that energy is not the reason i do what i do i am here and i have a purpose there is no value and having wisdom knowledge inside spirituality love and and having all of this stuff that i'm aware of and i'm not perfect i've have flaws every day i am a work in progress but what is the point in me being successful traveling the world having money cars and all the things that i currently possess knowing that there's a lot of people out there that look up to me and inspired by me not because of my looks not because of just my talents but now that y'all are getting to know me on such a personal level y'all know that i'm a thinking man i have a heart with views perspectives inside information spirituality wisdom that god continues to drop down on me as well as wisdom that god continues to send people so as soon as the information is passed on to me it is not an opportunity to do a video it is a responsibility self-love is the cure to self-hate i don't like you i don't trust you and i know you talking [ __ ] about me from behind my back why would anybody who truly loves themselves hang out with or mess with those type of people now here are the worst type of people in the world to me the people who literally hate your gut and dislike you and you don't have a clue that they feel this way about you because they're able to cover up all of their malicious energy and intentions towards you without giving you no tracer and then when you finally find out you like oh [ __ ] you've been saying this and doing this and you feel this way about me i had no clue but when people show you who they are and you see it to the point where you're able to talk about it can you believe what she said about me can you believe that and you're able to talk about it then you get an invite from the same person that you were just sitting over dinner crying about the following week and you show up you don't love yourself for you to be hanging out with these type of people i love myself i've worked too hard for all of these years to hang out with somebody that's talking about flipping 5 000 and turning into 15 000. so guess what homie go get your money go do whatever you got to do to double and triple your paper i'm out of here because i don't want to be on the receiving end of whatever those consequences are that may come from you doing whatever it is that you're doing and y'all know plenty of those type of people they got guns drugs they talking about killing people they've already killed people they gangsta cripping and blood and mexican gangs and essays they doing all of the negative crazy and dysfunctional [ __ ] every single day all of the women they jealous and envious of you they talk all of this [ __ ] about every girl and everything they're doing who they dating who they sleeping with you don't think they talking about you are you that special to where all of your home girls talk [ __ ] about everybody and you don't think they talking about you so when people show you who they are you gotta believe it and you have to make the adjustments according to all of these things that are revealed to you other than that you become another person that's desperate so guess what i love me i see the value in me and i have to be careful of who and what i give emotional access to me this is beyond important girl what does that mean it means that you will never see me in a random club you will never see me at dinner if my dinner isn't purpose driven you will never see me hanging out or doing anything with anybody i don't care who you are how much money you're worth i have visions i have ideas and i have goals now i believe in connecting with people on a human level but i am very mission and goal oriented that's who i am and so i would much rather stay at home then to be hanging out at clubs and doing a bunch of random [ __ ] that's not connected to producing results because i don't need friends i don't need to just be around a bunch of people doing a bunch of random [ __ ] because i'm like a boxer that needs my validation feed you the man you the champ you sexy you this you that as a matter of fact after a while it gets annoying because you go to a restaurant you got people walking up to you five six seven times while you trying to conduct business asking for a photo or autograph or something so [ __ ] let me stay at home i've never claimed to be the biggest star i never claim to be the most successful or having the most money i'm just me there's a lot of very talented sexy and attractive people running around here but they don't have this mind views perspective inside and information and so i'm passionate after you and i'm saying there's levels to this [ __ ] and you can't get to the next level with all of the devils that you have in your life you got so many negative mean evil malicious and dysfunctional people in your life and around your circles this is the reason why you can't clear out the clutter and get to the next level so that's it if you make it to the end of this message i want you to write self love you

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Length: 10min 44sec (644 seconds)

Published: Sun Dec 06 2020