LET THEM GO - For all those walking alone, Going through breakup | Best Motivational speech 2021

well lord if i could just stay with him a little bit longer maybe you don't need him maybe he the reason you ain't got nothing now well i don't want to leave him cause i've been with him eight years well hold up whoa whoa you want eight more years of this let his monkey ass go and get up and go on with your life it's all right sit around be depressed for a minute cry about it do whatever you have to but don't stay there too long get up and go on with your life so you know what i this is what i learned in all these years only sir if somebody want to walk out of your life let them go [Applause] especially if you know you didn't done everything you can do you can sit around and been the best man or the best woman you could be and they still want to go let them go whatever they running after they'll see what they had in a minute but by the end it's going to be too late because half these people you'd be sitting around crying about it worried about two three years from now you ain't gonna even remember their last name how many times you've seen folks somewhere you'd be like what the hell was i thinking adam finley i'd be like what was wrong with me what was i going through i must have been lonely as hell to hook up with you most of us have two eyes and we still can't see can't clearly see all of the the scams the people's motives people are showing you who they are in your life every day and your your choice is to just do this oh no no i didn't just see that you know you're hearing things let folks go son some people come to your life for a lifetime some come for a season you got to know which is which and you can always mess up when you mix them uh seasonal people up with lifetime expectations you can't they got people that got married with people they was only supposed to be with for a season and got married to people they don't supposed to be before season and wonder why they're having so much hell in their life that was the person that was supposed to come and teach you one thing you didn't know it so you just fell in love and now you wonder why hey you ain't got no peace know where you go no no listen i put everybody come in my life in the category of a tree some people are like leaves on the tree the wind blow they over here they're unstable blow the other way they're over here ain't nothing season change they with and die they gone it's all right there's some people most people in the world are like that they just there to take from the tree they ain't getting there to do nothing but take and give shade every night and then that's all they can do but don't don't get mad at people like that that's who they are they will never be nothing that's what they put on this earth to be but be what they are at least some people are like a branch on that tree you gotta be careful with them branches too because they'll fool you they'll get that make you think they're a good friend and they real strong but the minute you step out there on them they'll break and leave you high and dry but if you find you two or three people in your life that's like the roots at the bottom of that tree you are blessed because they're the kind of people that ain't going nowhere [Music] they ain't worried about being seen don't nobody have to know that they know you they ain't got to know what they're doing for you but if their roots weren't there that tree couldn't live you understand and and and they ain't got a whole a tree can have a hundred million branches but only a few roots down at the bottom to make sure we get everything i need you guys i'm telling you something when you get you some roots hold on to them but the rest of them let it go just to let it go let folks go god sends us signs and wonders god sends us bold signs and wonders and tells us to change our environment and our surroundings so that we can reach the ultimate level of being blessed mostly all are able to say you don't like your friends you don't trust them they they tell all of your deep dark secrets so why are they still there but if you tell somebody that what you doing is hurting me and i need you to stop it and they keep doing it they don't care move on let them go no matter how much it hurt let them go and it'll get easy i promise you every day it'll get easier and easy and easy if you just got to make it through and cp you got to learn how to be by yourself people have to learn how to be alone i don't understand all these people i need somebody lord where's my man lord where's my that is crazy as hell if you don't know how to be by yourself what you gonna do with somebody else [Applause] [Music] stop praying about it shut up and wait go work on you hell that's what that time is for to get yourself together i'd rather be in a corner by myself with a puppy and a goldfish and be happy than to be sitting around with somebody in my house i'm wondering what the hell they there for you would be surprised the things people put up with just to have somebody to say they love them that's cr i don't understand i can't live in dysfunction i'm sorry i'm sorry i don't come through too much been through too much hell and high water to come there and let you come up in my adult life and when i'm supposed to be at peace and give me all kind of hair only two places on this earth you're gonna have peace the grave in your house now if you can't walk up in your house and you ain't got no peace something wrong something wrong i'm sorry [Music] life has thrown me a curve it hasn't been fair but i'm at peace i know god is still in control if you're going to reach your destiny you have to learn to kiss things goodbye you're not going to understand everything that happens people may walk away life may not turn out the way you thought it's easy to get bitter hold a grudge lose your passion do like naomi kiss the bitterness goodbye kiss the person that left you goodbye kiss the dream that didn't work out goodbye god wouldn't have allowed it to happen if he didn't have something better up in front of you but sometimes god will close the door he'll move people out of your life there are people and opportunities that were ordained for your past that are not ordained for your future they were right for a season but that season can come to an end the key is how we handle the closed doors how you handle the disappointments how you handle the people that treated you wrong sometimes instead of kissing them goodbye we smack them goodbye good riddance i didn't like you in the first place don't let the door hit you on the way out are you at peace with your past or are you bitter over the loss upset because your plans didn't work out holding a grudge because that person walked away it's time to kiss some things goodbye don't bring bitterness into a new year don't bring self-pity a chip on your shoulder that was in your past it doesn't belong in the future you cannot embrace the new things god has in store as long as you're holding on to the old god put people in your life for a reason others are there for a season and it's very important that you recognize when people's seasons are over god put people in your life for a reason other people are there for a season is the season over or have you decided because you're desperate because you just need validation you need all of this [ __ ] and people and things around you you've decided to drag these random people into the new season of your life you have a boat and your boat is at its capacity and in order for your boat to not sink and go underwater and that could be your career that could be your life that can be your your personal life your relationships is that relationship over do you feel mentally spiritually and emotionally stimulated in that relationship are you just holding on to it because you got this concept of loyalty that you have overviews overused and over abused well i've learned that loyalty has an expiration date loyalty isn't some open-ended thing that just goes on forever because technically some people just don't really make sense for your life in the new season the mind and the space that you're in think about this this is this is the this is a reminder that loyalty has an expiration date you ever been in a relationship with some folks three years ago and then you run into him and you like man what the [ __ ] was i thinking dating her or dating him and you almost want to beat yourself up for even the fact that you were in love or had all of these ridiculous feelings for this person that shows you right there that that loyalty has an expiration date you could never see yourself not being with that person but at a certain point all of the signs and wonders revealed itself that that relationship is over so if you had drug that person those people those friends those family members those situations into the new season of your life your life wouldn't be going as well as it's going right now i want you to stop playing the victim you are not the victim you decided that those are your friends you decided that those are the people that you want to spend time with you decided this is what you wanted to do with your day when you get invited to places doesn't mean you have to show up especially if you know what your experience is going to be like with these people no one wants to be alone but why spend the rest of your life being miserable frustrated and insecure not really feeling as good as you have a responsibility to feel feeling good isn't just an opportunity feeling good is a responsibility that we all have for ourselves when you kiss the past goodbye it releases you into your future you have to be at peace with what's behind you it's not enough to just move forward angry bitter mad at god that's why naomi kissed orpha it was symbolizing this is painful i don't like it i feel betrayed but i'm at peace it takes maturity to kiss things that don't feel good god is asking us how long are you going to mourn over what you've lost how long are you going to be discouraged over who hurts you and what you didn't get and the boss that wasn't fair i don't believe in giving people the right to feel sorry for themselves not because they don't have a good reason some people have gone through things that nobody should have to go through but i've learned if you stay in self-pity with a chip on your shoulder thinking you have a reason to live defeated you will never see the vindication the restoration the promotion the favor that belongs to you god wants to pay you back for what was unfair don't sit around in self-pity kiss the bad great goodbye kiss the unfair childhood goodbye kiss that injustice goodbye one of your dreams may have died that didn't stop god's plan he has another dream one relationship may not have worked out if you'll kiss goodbye the old god will show you the new when god makes up for what you lost it's not going to be less than it's not going to be equal it's going to be better just because it hasn't turned out the way you thought doesn't mean you have to settle for second best god has to come up with a plan b god already knew what would happen he knew every door that would close he knew every person that would walk away he knew how you'd spend time and energy but a dream not come to pass all that is getting you prepared for where god has taken you now don't get stuck mourning oversaw disappointed over a bad break bitter because of a loss kiss it goodbye move forward and you will see your davids you will see more than you can ask or think [Music] [Music] you

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Length: 13min 57sec (837 seconds)

Published: Tue Jan 05 2021