How Did Your Crush Instantly Make You Lose Interest? (r/AskReddit | Reddit Stories)

what did a crush do that made you immediately lose interest not so much a crush but we were in the initial sentences of the conversation getting to know each other we were describing to one another what our jobs were he corrected me on describing my job stopped right there said it wasn't going to work out and ended the conversation he would ask me questions about myself then cut me off in the middle of my answer to talk about himself bragged about how she was leading on a few guys so she always had a backup I was casually dating a 19 year old guy when I was 18 he seemed totally normal until I met him at his house before a date and his mom asked him to take the garbage out before we left he threw a fit that would embarrass most three-year-olds including crying yelling at his mom and punching the floor I pretended that my parents were calling and needed me to come home blocked his number and never saw him again I like to think that mom knew he'd do that and was trying to save you the trouble met a woman thought she seemed cool we went out to eat she's telling me about how she fell on financial hard times and moved back in with her parents the way she described it just sounded like she got in lucky not that she did anything you're responsible it happens when the bill came I told her I'd pay she said thanks I appreciate that I'm trying to save my money right now double quote me sure understand you want to get your own place again double quote huh no actually I mean I'm trying to save up $500 for a tattoo I want to get double quote I've got nothing against spending money on tattoos but when you've just spent a first date talking about the financial troubles you have maybe now's the time to start putting money away for necessities not tattoos poured lemonade on my head in the middle of a firework show she thought it was flirty and cute after my divorce I reconnected with a girl I had a huge crush on in high school after meeting up in Vegas and hooking up for a few nights then going back to visit and doing the same again found out she lived with her boyfriend no clothes she had a boyfriend it was messed up immediately lost interest said she would turn up on a date then slaked told me she had been called in to work urgently I said okay that's cool second time she flaked again said that she had to tutor someone which made no sense because would you not have that planned she told me her future plans to essentially become a gold digger like her mother when I laughed it off she couldn't see what I thought was so funny I ran into an old crush a few years back who told me he was into dog baiting the candle had blown out a long time ago as far as my crush was concerned but that pretty much killed any intention I had of trying to restart our friendship a bite what's dog baiting went on a date with them and they didn't ask me anything about myself it was completely one-sided son like a job interview or something I'm a guy by the way I went on two dates with a girl when I was in college she was wonderful but immediately wanted to be official and started drafting Instagram posts about us she wanted to spend every day together and have sleepovers every night it was so out of nowhere and we literally knew nothing about one another I tried to look past it but she asked me to be her first and I got uncomfortable she seemed naive and I didn't want to take advantage I suggested we take things slow and she took offense I cut things off and her reaction was super childish all of this in a three-week period sweet girl but the pacing was off he wouldn't talk to me in person for some reason this is me in high school captain anxiety takes over crush comes to my house I explained how I'm slowly remodeling attend my plans for my house she then starts telling me I shouldn't and I should do it her way and let her take it over and let her design decorate do it all the hell I will ask me to be their wingman because they're had a crush on my best friend we were driving down the road and she threw a Starbucks cup right out the window gross edit thanks for the silver also I was a passenger so I couldn't kick her out and I'm honestly not sure it was Starbucks uh bird it was easier than saying paper coffee cup : she told me that spanking her teenaged daughter didn't work because it wasn't satisfying enough double-quote edit a bit of context this was long ago and far away in a European country the mother was a statuesque blonde divorcee and the daughter was about 14 and headed for trouble corporal punishment was de rigueur at the time both here and in Europe I decided that the situation was hopeless and noped out of Eros app the daughter hated her mother big surprise and went on to get pregnant and force her mother to raise the child I came back to the States and still consider myself lucky to have dodged that bullet he talked about how he wanted to loosen up some boring family at a wedding reception so he spiked their drinks with party drugs did you go on a date with Bill Ponderosa we were eating dinner out and he was rude to the server told him we were pretty close friends it would be nice to add a please or thank you he said why should I she's a waitress implying he feels superior and I pay her to do her job gave me a 5-minute lecture on conditions where cheating is okay he would steal people's tips off the bar counter when we were at a bar together with friends then he would offer to buy me food with it no thank you a woman I was talkin to was recently divorced and had moved back in with her parents she already had a child in the couple pets and was talking about getting another pet and her parents told her no she chose to go ahead and get another pet anyhow and basically her parents began pushing her out the door and it was a stressful situation for her and I suggested she talked to her folks I had a crush on the guy in high school who was a little bit of a rebel nothing serious but definitely had a bad-boy thing going on one day in class the teacher told him to do something minor and he flipped out basically had a temper tantrum and refused totally kildall interest by being an [ __ ] for no reason she generalized everyone she was also such a [ __ ] to everyone that she didn't understand he plays video games well when do you think he'll move out of his mother's basement while she wear so much makeup can you imagine what she's hiding under that face just such a mean-spirited person and it completely turned me off he started dating one of my friends after I told her that I had a crush on him she tried hooking up with every guy she knew I had a crush on I felt like I couldn't like anyone edit this was back in 2012 when not on bad terms but I rarely speak to her now you should have picked a guy who absolutely thought was disgusting and then tell her you had a crush on him lawl coworker at work had just a beautiful energy absolutely lovely to be around always smiling at everyone and she would laugh at my jokes and she made some comments from time to time that made me feel validated and understood which was very very flattering like she guessed my passions in life and told them to me with a big smile while looking me in the eyes and I'm a reserved guy who doesn't share that stuff all just very lovely one day we're in the break room and she's talking to another guy the same way and I'm consciously talking myself out of being jealous you're not dating or anything you don't even have a cell phone number she's allowed to be with other people now come on no reason to be jealous then when the guy leaves she turns to the girl next to her and says god I hate that guy and I had just been jealous that she was treating him exactly like she treats me I still feel foolish when I think about it like does she like me or hate me was pretty rude too and consistently teased his roommates dog just be nice to animals but that hard I actually got her and then realized she wasn't the person in my head that I fell in love with so yeah I learned from that love a person for who they really are and not for who you perceive them to be edit thanks for the gold kind stranger much appreciated he was making fun of a disabled woman instantly not interested got so drunk at a party that she should see herself I had a harmless crush on a married friend that I did not signal or act on ever have been the spurned wife before I kept my distance and did everything short of unfriending him on Facebook he slid on into my DMS right after my separation became public knowledge and he found out I was no longer married he was still married to his wife with the baby on the way I didn't respond they are divorced now she's a really lovely person and deserves so much better we would be great in person both of us would have a laugh and genuinely had an amazing connection but trying to get a text back takes days it's really difficult to arrange to spend more time together when she barely replies to me I massively lost interest after this she tried to hook up with one of the members of air supply that would have left me all out of love he snapped his fingers at a waitress then as I looked mortified first friend in college he sat next to me in English class and we immediately clicked one day she suggests we go out and study together for finals and I didn't give it much thought turns out he liked me as much as I liked her so you couldn't imagine my reaction it was what happened next that changed the mood orders a coffee they make a small mistake and she flips out starts cursing at the cashier demanding a full refund and an apology I sit there confused this is the same girl who looked shy and reserved when you first meet she walks out I apologize profusely and follow after her she has the nerve to blame them and I tell her ik weren't work out the last week was awkward to say the least she refused to move seats or sat next to me if I moved and acted like I was to blame for not taking her side like no you don't treat people like that shat on a stage in Lloret in Spain not a crush but an ex jiggled the door handle while I was taking a sh t and then got angry that I wouldn't let her in huh why can't I come in are you not comfortable with me or something we're dating double-quote it had been three days edit directed were to wouldn't and thank you for the Commerce strangers I'd be upset if maybe if locked themselves in the bathroom for three days T personality doesn't matter how hot you are if all you have are looks people will notice once you get any one-on-one time with them said why do you hang out with that n anyway , ha da oh gee I don't know maybe cuz he's been my best friend since second grade and always has my back that was enough for me to realize she's ugly I was having a party and the drinks were flowing went to check on her cause she had disappeared for a while as I opened the door I see her sitting on a small wastebasket taking a sh t in my bedroom I couldn't get that picture out of my head I know I've done my fair share of dumb stuff but still couldn't forget it edit well this blew up thanks for the gold you awesome random person edit - woke up - Platinum thanks so much it's gonna be a good day edit three just read through all the comments I haven't laughed this hard in a long time sorry I couldn't reply to them all he started fingering me while we made out then reached into his drawer pulled out lube and squirted it all over my nether region and my panties which was still on and proceeds to grab my throat and kiss me before he leans over and takes a sip of water out of his water bottle only to then spit IT onto the loo BVG no mess a grown-ass man spat onto my vagina I thought that only happened in PRN that's a no from me dork played hard to get no thanks if you're gonna ghost me for days at a time and then get pissed off when I don't respond in five seconds and that's not my problem my family is Jewish and my grandfather survived the Holocaust on the second date he told me he was a neo-nazi or at least on the path to becoming one when I told him I was Jewish and also politically very left he told me that he wanted to sift ck the commie out of me never spoke again within the first five minutes of the date Lee told me women shouldn't work in corporate America because they take too many bathroom breaks he had come to this conclusion by parking himself outside of the ladies restroom at his office for an entire afternoon I said this date is over stood up and walked out she would eat butter as in grab a few sticks of butter and a small bowl of powdered sugar to dip it in she'd eat it like fun dip did you report her to the police made fun of my smile edit thank you everyone for all of the kind of comments everyone smile is beautiful because it shows that you are happy thank you for my first silver and my first gold : this making fun of somebody's laugh are two of the most f ked up things that a person can do it serves no purpose except to make someone feel self-conscious every time are enjoying themselves guy was academic hygienic and sweet treated waitstaff appropriately spoke formally but still funny shared things in common w me perfect gentleman date ended ten stroke ten while driving me home at a stoplight pointed to a homeless man crossing the street said I would stop my car for anybody crossing the street just not homeless men where do they have to be fear in no hurry double quote me thinking okay unsolicited and kinda odd he added another comment itd be funny if I run him over me combo I would stop my car for anybody crossing the street just not homeless men where do they have to be fear in no hurry double quote Mayo that--some Larry David Tish T for context him six feet four inches built dude me five feet zero non built lady we were hanging out at his house when he said you can be blocked my way when it was time for me to go and wouldn't let me pass I asked him to let me by when he wouldn't I told him I was uncomfortable and he called me a crazy [ __ ] that was the end of that for me cute girl in ninth grade there was a party over at her house out in the country had a big goal a crush on her so she says they raise in Chile's okay everyone wants to see the fuzzy critters there were about a hundred of them the ammonia smell was unreal so there's a platform with battery cables on it and I asked what that was for she said here I'll show you have some ready to go anyway she grabbed a little fuzzy critter clamped the cables on it and threw the switch without missing a beat killed that critter it was bizarre that a teenage girl could electrocute and animal that easily no more crush I was actually afraid of her a little after that it kind of sucked the life out of the party to say the least why did they have a chinchilla murder stay anyway called another clearly beautiful girl ugly behind her back she said she was a flat earther kept comparing me to her druggie ex-husband who beats her stole her money but you know he was a good guy she would always act stupid around me when I knew she wasn't she liked me too but I couldn't date a person that acted like that and she thought it was cute tried to convert me to his religion it's funny because his dad tried to do the same thing to my mom when they were teens they've been friends for over 30 years and at some point were interested in each other needless to say that my mom lost interest in his dad because of the same reason too he was a complete racist and told me he tried to kill himself the night before because he would rather die than be crushed on by a monkey this was in 4th grade and I was shattered call me racist for pointing out that she was improperly and dangerously using a power saw I mean I get that a lot of guys probably talked down to women using tools but for f ck sake she was so close to losing a hand or worse edit in her defense there was a guy there who had been constantly asking to take over what she was doing even when she was doing fine so I'm sure she was pretty sick of it by then there is definitely a lot exorcism towards women doing construction related things I rarely have crushes but once this girl I had a crush on in my class we went to a bar restaurant near our school with other classmates not only she was haughty with everyone she kept giving death galas and talking in an inappropriate manner about the female waitress I just lost interest after that night two days after our first date she showed up at my work with a pan of homemade lasagna ice cream making machine for my kids and all the kinds of groceries I was a single dad at the time and I guess it was some sort of care package for me I also work about two hours from where she lives when I said she didn't have to do that she started to cry bit of a red flag are you sure she isn't from an anime didn't pick up his dog's poop when we were out walking our dogs it's so disrespectful to words tailed me that I looked old to play on the playground and that she doesn't want candy really cute and hot girl textbook my type same interests same profession same outlook on relationships a freaking bed a few months in and I was wondering if she was the one then out of nowhere brutal racism told him the most casual of ways I tried to gently confront her about it and she got upset that I didn't agree with her literally could not look at her anymore you

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Length: 21min 16sec (1276 seconds)

Published: Thu Jun 18 2020