Why faithful men win! | Man 2 Man | Tony Gaskins

hey hey tony guys here popping in now i'm messing for the fellas send this to your brother your boyfriend your husband your daddy whoever but you know oftentimes i bump into men and you know we talking and a lot of guys around my age especially sometimes they'll come in and they'll see you know the difference in life the difference in success and i always tell people the one real reason why i feel like that i've been blessed on you know a different level than average for men coming from where i come from coming through what i come from having done what i've done is because i'm faithful to my wife and it's a lot that goes into that and we've always heard the scripture a man who finds a wife finds a good thing and receives favor from the lord and that is true and a lot of times we don't really unpack that word favor but just that favor alone is above and beyond just that favor alone but when you think of it in a more practical sense because it's hard to measure god's favor but when you think of it in a more practical sense and you say well okay what are the benefits of faithfulness and i didn't write this down so i'm just talking to you from the heart because of what i'm living now the first benefit for me is peace because i don't have to worry about another woman texting my phone something inappropriate and my wife happened to look over and see that i don't have to worry about another woman texting my wife or calling my wife i don't have to worry about my wife having to call or text another woman i don't have to worry if my wife gets my phone and is on google doing a search or using my phone because hers is dead or because hers is in another room i don't have to have any stress or worry about that so therefore i don't have to start a fake argument to get my phone back i don't have to worry about my wife having all of my passwords to my instagram my facebook my uh email my phone just everything having all of my pastor i don't have to worry about that so if she ever needed to go behind my back and create you know a secret surprise party for me she can just log into my phone and text all of my you know friends just like i don't have to worry about her bumping into something like whoa what's this so just that peace alone not having to look over my shoulder not having to worry or wonder that right there is priceless like you can't even put a price on that as a man now the other thing that i realized is the focus so being that i only have to focus on my wife and any man knows a woman takes a lot of focus that's why when boxers getting ready for a fight they go to training camp and and they don't bring their wife or their girlfriend because women take a lot of focus because this is a whole human being the other thing what they say is men have a sexual thought every 15 seconds imagine how much you're thinking about that when you're with a woman so for me only having to focus on my wife and then outside of my wife being able to focus on my my purpose my gifts that's how i've been able to start nearly 15 companies and able to create over 50 streams of income meaning 50 assets you know written 15 or 17 books got 15 or more online courses each one of those creations is an asset it is a stream of income so a lot of times when i look and even like this year and i'm and i'm i've been home all year i'm a speaker but i've been home all year since march and the speaking engagements i did before march not many of them were paid i was you know working with sports teams and mentoring you know and so i've been home since march but because of the focus that i've been able to have since i've been married i've created streams of income that even being at home with no staff still been able to earn a great living and take care of my family so just having that focus to where my attention is not divided and i remember being a dog of a man a womanizer cheater i remember that by that by the age of 21 i had been with over a hundred women i stopped counting you know around 79 and i i was out there as a star athlete in high school as a collegiate athlete you know getting women was very easy just because for one it's kind of already easy just because it's so me it's so much desperation but then two it was really no guidelines like that was the goal every man knows it that you know a lot of men goal is to see how many women they can get and so of course my wife didn't know that i could i didn't talk to her about that and we didn't share you know hey here's my whole list and but it was kind of understood because most women kind of understand most women look and if they have a brother or if they have a father or if they had a cheating boyfriend a lot of women start to it's not normal it shouldn't be normal it shouldn't be accepted but that's the double standard that has been created that i'm trying to work on breaking and that's why i do the work i do today but i was out there i was lost i remember doing that and at the same time i also remember being broke busted and disgusted you know you can't really focus because when you're done giving your woman the attention then you worrying about a side woman that side woman and you're trying to text her you're trying to set some up with her and then you constantly in this game think about the energy and the concentration that that takes and at the end of the day what does it serve you what does it serve you like if you want to game a system then learn how to game a system like learn how to beat the algorithm on social media to make your message go viral like if you want to game a system versus gaming hearts and i got out of the game at 21 years old so i was i was young when i retired and it still was test it still was some trips you know it still was some time to where i was i would weep but i had to turn over a new leaf and say you know what okay i've done that what did i experience nothing special nothing amazing in living that lifestyle being a dog so let me try faithfulness and let me be 100 faithful and let me see what happens on that side of things so when i got married i got out of fornication because i'm married then when i became faithful and made a decision to be 100 faithful meaning not even an emotional girlfriend like a work wife but also not cheating i started to see my life go up because i was able to create i was able to build from that place of focus and in doing that my life started to change so i started to earn an income earn more money from my natural gifts and i had my wife's support and i didn't have to lose sleep wondering about at what point is this woman on the side or this other woman this strange woman gonna be able to come and just up end everything that i've built because she has this long drawn out story of this affair we had for years or even for months and everything i've worked on and cultivated being a father and being a husband just up ended because i got into something and stayed in it and continued to wallow in that affair in that cheating relationship so i didn't have to have that worry and just being able to be free from that i started to see the fruit i started to reap the benefits and going into that space i'm like man peace prosperity you know happiness love joy just all these fruits of the spirit and i'm like to be honest with you i wouldn't trade it for anything because to feel this on this side and be able to compare it to being a dog to being a womanizer being able to have that comparison and know what this feels like over here i don't ever want to go back over there now i'm like man what what why did i wait so why did i wait so long i wish i would have learned about you know faithfulness a whole lot earlier or or really took saving myself serious to where i could have avoided soul ties and i could have avoided just all that toxicity and drama that you go through being a womanizer being a liar a cheater a deceiver a manipulator now another part of this which i just talked myself into talked up on is just what you receive because of what you give so what you have to think about your your energy your personal energy your attitude your effort your energy and your effort when you are a cheater you're teaching yourself how to manipulate how to deceive how to lie how to take advantage of a human so what you're developing are very toxic traits of the human existence so how can god the world around you bless you how can you be blessed when you're full of toxicity how can you be blessed when what you are doing is savage savagery it's nasty it's disrespectful it's untrustworthy so how can you expect to be treated and re treated good and respect it and reward it when what you're doing to the woman in your life is filthy it's like good can't really come to you not long-lasting good yes you might get a little good break here or there yes you might have a good season yeah you might have a good year yeah you might you know be doing good so it seems but it's all getting ready to blow up in your face it's all getting ready to come to an end because when the women that you're cheating with or the woman that you're cheating with comes out because you're no longer giving her the same attention that you've been giving her and she blows up your spot everything you work for is for naught so you got to think about and so what i started to realize is by me practicing faithfulness i rewired my brain because being raised in our society men aren't raised to be faithful men unless you just had a mother or father that instilled that in you but that's typically not the messaging to boys growing up be faithful be fake that's typically not the message it's typically suck it up big boys don't cry you know work hard you know get you a good job make money how we treat women is not typically the forefront you know message the forefront conversation or what a parent or somebody is focusing on a lot of parents don't even care how their son treats a woman because they want the women to be a pacifier to their son they want the women to be a human teddy bear to their son and a lot of mothers don't even care how their son dogs out women because she can't baby him anymore so she wants these women to be his punching bag his play toy his human teddy bear and all these things a lot of fathers don't care because the fathers are lost and broken and confused and ignorant and or the mom is lost and broken and confused they're ignorant and so so a lot of parents don't even focus on teaching their son how to cherish and how to treat a woman the right way regardless of what that woman is or does to a man how to keep his energy pure and if that means leaving that woman versus putting hands on her or cheating on her that message still is not being taught one way or the other so boys just grow up and women become a casualty women become just the spoils of spiritual warfare and women are used to cater to a man's insecurity his brokenness his childhood trauma all of these issues so but when you come into the knowledge for yourself as a man that's when you have to say okay this is on me i know i was a dog i know i slept with 200 300 500 women i know men that have slept with over a thousand women i know men that said they going close to 10 000 women yeah it's real to be honest which is just the world we live in is so sexually charged that a man literally can sleep with one to three women a day a man literally can sleep with 300 women in a year and if he does that for 10 years if he does that from the age of 15 to the age of 30 that's 15 years you see what i mean 300 times 10 is 3 000. another 1500 that's 4500 women and guess what there are men who have done that there are average everyday men who when you look at this man you you will call him broke busted and disgusted and he slept with over between 100 and 300 women because he's trying to ease and soothe his pain because it's like a choice it's like you know picking for a lot of men it's like picking the lesser of two evil so when you do the studies the studies will show you that the same part of the brain that's activated from cocaine is the same part of the brain that's activated from an orgasm so if a man say i don't want to do cocaine but yet when he sleep with a woman he get a high he keeps chasing that same high until he gets the knowledge of self until he gets the knowledge of god and who god called him to be in his life and until he really confronts himself and decides to become a man so to my brothers who watching this you got to confront yourself you got to look yourself in the mirror and say what am i doing this for what why am i lying to this woman why am i manipulating this woman if she did it to you then why am i with this woman if she hasn't done it to you then why are you doing it to her what about her deserves to be lied to manipulated and cheated on and then how can you expect to hit your goals in life whatever your goals may be your business goals you want to make six figures you want to make seven figures eight figures nine figures ten figures how can you expect to hit that when you're not channeling blessings by what you're putting out you've always heard what goes around comes around you reap what you sow it's not just talking about reaping what you sowing meaning because you grind you just gonna get all these blessings yeah you're gonna get some rewards yeah you're gonna make some money but it's not gonna come with peace it's not going to come with longevity it's going to get upended because of what what else you're doing the harvest that you're going to reap from your cheating and you're lying and you're deceiving and you're manipulating that's what's really going to hurt you and then that lying and cheating and deceiving and manipulating is also going to lead you down a path to contract the disease you're going to contract the disease you only can shoot that shot playing craps so long before you lose at all it's gonna and and i remember in my last days of cheating i remember praying hard i remember you know slipping up and and being a no good man not cheating but fornicating and i remember because i cuz i was like it's just i was like it's no way i'm like it's like just the odds it's just the statistics i'm like the numbers that i'm at i gotta be closing in on uh herpes i gotta be closing in close on general wars i gotta be coming close closing in on hiv syphilis something i got to be closing in and i remember them last couple times of fornication to where i'm like lord lord please forgive me lord i fell again well please forgive me lord lord listen i promise you if i am clean and i have not caught anything lord i will change my life i will worship you work for you serve you i mean i was praying because it was like my conscience knew better you know better than what you're doing but you're making dumb choices out of weakness it i can't even call it ignorance because you know better but you're making dumb choices out of selfishness out of weakness and it can be ignorance meaning you just haven't had a real man to pull you to the side and say listen that's not manhood that's not that that ain't cool like that ain't smooth that ain't what it is like being that man like that means you broken that means you're lost that means you're insecure that means that you lack self-control so it's like me as an adult man i don't even do business with guys who sleep around i don't want no parts of you because you you lack self-control because you're not a real man so i can't trust you if you can't be faithful to a woman then i know you're going to be faithful in business how i know you quoting me a fair price if you if you unfair with your woman this woman sucking and ducking you see what i mean this woman cooking for you this woman bending over backwards for you bending over forward for you this woman taking it left and right this woman doing all this for you and you giving her your butt to kiss you dogging her out how you expect me a man who can't do none of that for you i'm not doing nothing for you in that department how can i trust you in business to be honest when you can't be honest with a woman who will give her life for you with a woman who's sacrificing for you with a woman who have carried your children gave birth to your seed how and you can't do right by her how in the world can god trust you how in the world can another man trust you in a business deal that could be worth millions you can't because you're not a man and if you're not a man guess what you blocking your blessings like do you do you realize you see me i became a life coach for pro sports teams pro athletes and collegiate athletes do you know that gm's and teams actually want to sign guys who are married like they actually are looking for guys who are it ain't a plethora of them but if you married you get preferential treatment especially if there's no scandals out there about you cheating on your wife you get preferential treatment and they want to give you a bag they want to pay you more guess what the same thing applies if you working on a job why do you think that a lot of these celebrities start showing their family life because it makes them more money because they get higher endorsement deals because you represent stability when you're a faithful man you represent stability so if you're not the ceo of the company you work for your boss will give you a raise and promote you if your boss finds out that you are married and faithful so if you married and faithful and you busting your butt and you work hard and it's another man who he's a playboy he's a dog he's a womanizer both of your reputations are known who do you think the boss and your work ethic is similar who do you think the boss gonna give the edge to the man that's stable see this man over here that's a playboy the boss know he's gonna come in hungover he's gonna have women coming up to the job slicing his tires he gonna be sleeping with women on the job so they can't do their work they can't focus he actually toxic for the workplace because of his lifestyle he talks it for the locker room because of his lifestyle i remember coaching a pro sports player who had a young head coach and he said man we can't even respect our coach because he in the club with us he's sleeping around more than us because the young head coach was like in his you know late 30s or early 40s or something like that he was like we can't respect them so the team sucked they was terrible the coach got fired after a couple years because of his lifestyle he hadn't grown he hadn't matured so i looked at then i started to pay attention see it's blessings when you're faithful because it doesn't just represent faithfulness to your wife it represents self-control it represents discipline it represents honesty trustworthiness it represents stability see it represents so much more than just that relationship and just you being faithful to that woman it speaks volumes about who you are as a man i don't even want to shake an unfaithful man's hand because i don't even know what you're doing with your hand i don't know who are you talking to and touching on i don't know what you were just rubbing in last night now you coming and putting that on my hand in the hand man give me a fist bump and i'm putting hand sanitizer on right in front of you just to let you know that i think you nasty that i think you dirty and that that's not the way to go dad look i was there too and i'm not proud of the man that i was i'm ashamed of that man but i had to i went through that because it helped me understand better on this side what i'm talking about see if i had always been a goody two shoes if i had never you know been out there in the streets hustling if i had never been sleeping around and been a womanizer and a dog and me telling you about faithful life but i didn't have three women in one day to compare it to then you really wouldn't be able to believe me but i'm i'm here to tell you that i don't been that man with multiple women in one day to be in this man and i know the difference in in the peace and the prosperity the difference in the emotional and mental well-being and i'm choosing this side over here all day every day that's why i'm making this video hey i ain't got to make this video yeah i'm saying yeah youtube and probably ran an attitude a four or five but that ain't enough money the the break the man law there ain't enough money to break the man code anybody the money is just about the testimony so you don't been through the test now where your testimony at so i'm here to tell you as a man like i won't trade it i won't trade it when i was like that dog womanizer i couldn't sleep the way i could sleep now couldn't sleep peaceful always looking over your shoulder always wondering when your spot gonna get blowed up always one of you finna walk out the slice tiles if you finna walk out the bus windows if you finna you know wake up to a text from your woman that's cussing you out calling you every name in the book and then it's still getting your tire slicing when you win this bus always wondering when is finna all come to an end what's going to happen sleeping with one eye open wondering if you about to be like the men who have lost a life at the hands of a woman who was jealous because of the manipulation that he put her through you watch this stuff man watch this watch the tv show snap i think about my wife be playing that just so subconsciously i'm getting trained i'm getting talked to just so i'll be okay all right look what you gonna do to me you see what i'm saying you got to think about it but i'm telling you listen start with a day start with a day see the thing about it is a lot of women who would cheat with a man who got a girlfriend or a wife they know what they doing i talk to them i coach them a lot of them decent like they they really believe in that you're gonna leave that woman for her they're not they don't want to stay in the place of second place of side chick they don't want to stay there their goal is to be promoted and they assuming they're assuming that there has to be something wrong in your relationship for you to be talking to her she don't realize that some men have a perfect relationship at home and still cheating because it just doesn't compute to her it doesn't make sense to her how can it be perfect at home and if he's dealing with me a lot of women just cannot wrap their mind around how a woman could be cooking cleaning sucking ducking doing all of this stuff god fearing don't curse don't get drunk don't smoke amazing mother and the man is cheating the side woman don't understand so she thinking this woman must be terrible because if he dealing with me and he telling me he's not happy with her he's getting ready to leave so guess what that's why she blow your spot up because you manipulated her and you deceive her you played her like a fool and she thought that you were getting ready to leave she thought stuff was was going wrong and you never once had any intention of leaving your wife or leaving your long-term girlfriend you just was calling yourself having some fun getting another taste of the rainbow getting another flavor of ice cream and just having you some variety having you some fun just seeing if you still got the game you call yourself having fun but you playing with real lives you playing with real hearts either one of these human beings could pull a trigger they strong enough to pull a trick they strong enough to swing a blade they they you playing with your life you see what i'm saying and that's what a lot of men don't realize that it's gonna come to a head it's gonna come to a head where you're gonna have to pay the piper you're gonna have to pay a price there's going to be a recompense in your body meaning a disease that's incurable it's going to be death it's going it's going to be losing everything that you got your family your job you're going to pay a price it's gonna come to a head so you better get out while you're ahead and if you go to this woman i'm willing to believe that if you go to this woman and you and you beat yourself up and you say listen i've been a liar and a cheater and a dog like i just wasn't a good man like she didn't deserve that but she doesn't know about us and i just my conscience won't let me continue to go on with what we got going on me dealing with these women eight out of 10 of them won't tell your wife eight out it's just just how women are i get messages every day from women tony i'm wondering should i tell his girlfriend should i tell his wife a lot of women just chalk it up and they they take that pain and they go on about their business if she does tell your wife don't threaten her not to tell don't beg her not to tell if she does tell your wife that's what you deserve that what you get if she doesn't tell you cause you made the choice you made the bed lay in it you bought the shoe walk in it put it on shoe fit where you got the deal you got to man up and if she doesn't tell that means you have been graced that mean you have been graced that mean you made a mistake before god and god saw fit to forgive you without exposing you but if you take that grace for granted you will be exposed you will be exposed and i know that some women say well well tony you need to tell him he needs to admit to it and he needs to tell if you're saying that then you need to admit to everything you've done and you need to tell all your secrets see our eternity is held by god not by humans it doesn't benefit us going and admitting all of our secrets to a human because a human doesn't have the capacity to fully forgive the way god does so when when you've done things that could hurt a human but the human doesn't know about it that's god giving you grace it's not your place to go tell every single detail of all your mistakes because that's god's grace being granted to you so i don't ever recommend a woman going to tell a man she's cheated if he does not know and she is erasing that she's getting that out of her life she's asking forgiveness from god and and vice versa because in that confession you could lose your life so that that's not my place to tell somebody what they need to go tell and me personally i'm not going to tell on myself to a human that don't have a heaven or hell to put me in because i'm not finna sit on the judgment seat of a human that's like me going up to the courthouse and say hey you know i'm you know i i have uh you know i sold drugs for five years and i just wanted to come up here to the police office and just turn myself in you know i made it out and but i just want to come up here and tell myself and just turn myself in because it just wasn't right that that would not be wisdom that would not be wisdom you see what i'm saying your grace is with god and so every human male and female gonna make mistakes i'm answering questions from women who have cheated on their man and a man don't know guess what if you go confess that to that man you could lose your life so if god has graced you that you could get out of this without him finding out even if that means you still say hey we need to break up it's just not right because you feel bad because you cheated on him so you know he's not the one that still don't mean you have to make him your judge and jury or vice versa so i know a lot of people in our selfishness we say we want to know listen anything and everything my wife did behind my back while we was dating in the rough patches of our marriage in the first two years when we were struggling in marriage i don't want to know i don't want to know because we're doing fine now we're doing 100 good now so don't tell me about your pet if god saw you god saw you that's what you need forgiveness from i don't don't tell me because i may never live it down i may never get over it so take it to god get your forgiveness and if and if what i don't know can't hurt me what i don't know about that kind of situation can't hurt me now what you don't know about just knowledge in life and then reading and wisdom can hurt you but what you don't know you might not need to know because it may ruin your life forever you may be scarred forever so listen i don't want to know nothing that god didn't see fit for me to find out if he see fit for me to find out it's because he was protecting me because he was protecting my heart because he knew what i would do he knew that it might be a couple more bodies added to the register he knew that i might do life in prison he knew that i might get capital punishment for my response to what i do to this hill man so god could be protecting me by keeping me in the dark on some certain things and just making sure that my wife had the answer to him and deal with him and and see the thing is this this is what you got to realize a lot of times we don't realize this we might see somebody go through something and feel sorry for them and don't even know why they going through it don't even know you might be like man why he keep getting fired i feel so bad why he keep breaking his leg i feel so bad why why does he keep having these ailments in his body have to keep going to the hospital getting put on the iv i feel so bad vengeance is mine saith the lord he could be paying a price or she could be paying a price for stuff they done did that ain't got nothing to do with you that you don't know nothing about so sometimes you got to pray for them yeah it's okay to feel bad for them pray for lord lord heal them lord bless them lord lord lord give them the strength to get through this but you got to understand they might be paying the price for something they indeed or it could be the sins of their father that have come upon them when you read the bible you'll see the sins of the father was passed down because somebody saying the generations after them had to suffer you see what i mean that happens that happen so my message to the men right now who watching this and you might got some infidelity going on get out of it today end it today this is your warning right here the fact that you came across this video this your warning right here because see now you know better now you have been confronted now god has created a cosmic collision that your path was crossed with mine so if you continue to do what you've been doing from this day forward you're gonna pay a price and ain't gonna be no mercy you don't want to go through the wrath of god you don't want that i don't see men lose it all i haven't seen women lose it all i don't see people suffer all day life because they never got their heart right you got to get your heart right and as long as you envious or jealous or cheating or manipulating or deceiving or lying you cannot be blessed you will not flourish in your life i could do all i can for you and it's still a be gone it's still a fail you still won't have happiness because you have not gotten your life right with god so hey this your fair warning right here play with it if you want to play with it if you want to out of scene both sides on the scene both sides play with it play with it everybody business ain't everything tony how you suffer ain't none of your business everything ain't your business but listen i don't see honestly i felt like my son paid a price and that ripped my heart out seeing my son skin looking like he didn't have a first layer of skin walking around without his first layer of skin eczema was so bad allergic to everything under the sun bumps and blisters and going to the parking kids running away from him like he a leper that broke my heart my wife cried many days i cried many days i feel like that was sins of a father that crushed me now god has restored him he still got allergy he's still allergic to milk and eggs and peanuts but he don't have his eczema like he did you know he his asthma you know overcome his asthma he running cross-country he playing soccer he's doing crossfit you know he doing baseball he he doing track he he got and restored but i feel like that's one of the prices i paid i feel like just the the trauma the torment that the ptfd from that past life still haunts me i feel like that's the price i had to pay i still got to pray i still have to struggle like i like you gonna pay a price like just being left to silence silence because nobody killed me a lot of times i still had to go to sleep with it with a uh something in my ear to just play to just silence my mind because i'm looking at my past trust me soul ties had a strong hold stomachate headache couldn't eat couldn't sleep because of soul ties i'm trying to tell you but hey i don't pay the price and still paying it to a certain degree this what i'm doing right here listen listen the money don't equate to the emotional toll that it takes to be what i'm being in the world the way i'm showing up in the world the emotional toll you can't pay me enough for the emotional toll that it takes but this part of the price that i got to pay for my past i got to heal thousands i got to help heal thousands god gonna heal them but i got to be the vessel that bring the message that causes the confrontation with yourself and then god takes it from there but it's painful being disresponsible because now i don't have room for error now i can't cheat on my wife see if i was an athlete pro i could cheat on my wife because ain't nobody counting on me to be faithful everybody expect athletes to cheat everybody expect rappers to cheat everybody expect construction workers to cheat don't know you don't you will be crushed if you found out that right now in my life i'm having an affair with all that i'm doing on here every day that's why you can't find a person you can't find nothing man woman dog cat you can't find nothing or nobody that i'm having affair with it's too much responsibility it's too much on my shoulders it's too many people that's hanging on every word that that need me in this season of their life so i got to be faithful i got to be responsible even if i didn't want to see a lot of time people women try to use that against me say oh so tony you're saying that you wouldn't be faithful to your wife if you weren't doing what you doing i probably would not you know why because i understand humans i understand the imperfection of man so i'm not arrogant enough to say that i would just be so strong on my own without god's purpose and god's hand on my life to keep me faithful i'm not that arrogant i'm not that ignorant because is your man faithful to you you got cheated on by your last boyfriend didn't you okay then so don't question me about what i'm telling you because you wouldn't know about my vulnerability or my weaknesses if i didn't tell you so shut your mouth jezebel when you want to bring that up and question me by something i told you see that's satan i rebuke you in the name of jesus get thee behind me one woman she went to say i say i'm faithful to god this woman wrote me in the dm and said oh you don't really love your wife because you said you are not just faithful to your wife you're faithful to god so that means if you didn't believe in god you would be cheating on your wife then by calling what my grandma would have called a stinking helper went and dm my wife and said your husband doesn't really love you the lord know if i could have hit that woman in the head with a rock driving by out the car just that throwed a rock i would have did it lord knows the lord forgive me but the lord know my heart i would i or maybe i wouldn't hit maybe i would have had paid pookie down there shaquino down there hey he'll go 100 let go beat the brakes off on you hit me be like she stole something lord know my heart so she just had to get blocked blocked blah i had my wife blah blah blah blah jezebel she was trying to come and so discord because just them little words could have had my wife having bad dreams could have had her really looking at me crazy if she was secure in what god then told her about her husband about the season that god has me in so see when you are willing to let go of the man that you are being or the man that you were when you willing to let it go that's when god can trust you and that's when he can usher you in see i got married in 2007. it took me until the end of 2009 to perfect my heart and when i say perfect i don't mean i was perfect but i mean to fully really be ready i i was 25 years old you might be 30 you might be 35 you might be 40. i was 25 yes guess what though i wasn't really ushered in i wouldn't really trust it until i was in my 30s see god gonna let you go through a valley period don't think that oh oh i didn't oh i didn't became faithful so whoa the come favor you might decide to be faithful to your woman and lose your job you might decide to be faithful to your woman and total your car you might decide to be faithful to your woman and lose your best friend you might lose your leg you might lose a arm you might lose a opportunity you might lose a contract you didn't have for the 10 years of cheating you've been doing you might lose something that's your price pay it pay your price whatever you got to go through go through it because on the other side of paying that price is peace and it's prosperity and when you can be trusted see god sits high looks low god knows the beginning and the end god already know that what i need you to understand god already know what you gonna do god know if i'm a fail ten years from now i rebuke you satan in the name of jesus god know if i'm a fail 50 years from now so right now okay right now i got to renew my heart i got to renew my heart because right now i might be sitting in a place the way i say hmm now if i retire at 65 and i happen to meet a 65 year old billionaire who look good and i just need one more go around and i pop me two of them blue pills and she too old to be a snitch we 65. she's too old to want to break something up she didn't been around a merry-go-round too many times she grown sophisticated if i didn't have 40 years of faithfulness you think i could tell my wife that i'm going over to tahiti for a wellness retreat with the greatest minds in the world and meet that 65 year old over there and well out of frame and then come back and nobody knows the difference see right now if that is a possibility god already know it so right now in this moment i'm consecrating my heart satan i rebuke you i rebuke you that is not gonna happen unfaithful for the rest of my life no matter when i stop talking to the people when i stop preaching when i stop telling the truth i'm and nobody holding me accountable nobody looking up to me no more i still ain't gonna cheat lord hey lord lord you could trust me lord don't let none of my blessings pass me lord put everything on me that you got for me put it all on me that you got for me lord cause i'm locked in i'm focused you could trust me hey lord you could let the devil send every test he want to sin cause i'm locked in you say what i'm saying god know your heart you could say what i just said and be lying god no people say god know my heart yeah he know your heart he know you lazy he know you a liar he know you think you playing him and you playing yourself you were right he know your heart he know you a hypocrite he know you're a pharisee you right he know your heart and guess what he got a hot he double l for you cause he know your heart he got all kind of just vengeance for you because he know your heart he got a ralph that's about to knock that wig off your head because he know your heart push your hairline back cause he know your heart you right god knows your heart so get it right let him purify your heart let him renew your mind let him renew you as a person be renewed if he was an atheist watching this and you come this far and you've been rolling your eye your eyes in the back of your head cause you just watching it just cause my tempo and my tone then kept you here but you really don't believe in god i'm living proof that there's a god i can't i i don't believe in fairy tale i don't like santa claus i don't like an easter bunny i don't believe in fairy tale but i believe in god with every fiber in my body because i don't experience the grace and the favor and the mercy and the blessings from god i'm here to tell you so listen get out of that life of sin that you're living in right now young man old man brother seasoned brother listen you might not be physically cheating you might be cheating with angela let her go let angela go guess what i let angela go oh yeah you might be cheating with the computer screen with the phone screen let it go let it go i didn't have to let that go because i never was into that i never was into nasty movies and really while i went international movie because i was making them i would i would nasty so i ain't have to watch it i noticed a lot of times guys who get into the nasty movies was just a little socially awkward with women and but i would out there so i ain't have to watch it on the screen and the screen and the few times i did see it it upset me i'm like oh watch nobody's having no fun i'm not gonna watch him get healed i'm gonna go get mine you see what i mean so i was nasty so i didn't have to let that go but that might be your issue let it go and listen whether you let hansel go whether you got the letter a nasty stuff you watching whether you got to let that go or whether you got to let a physical human being go one thing i'ma guarantee you by you letting it go it ain't gonna take the breath out your lungs and unless the woman is gonna take your life but other than that it ain't gonna take the breath out your lungs you you ain't gonna you're not gonna miss a beat yeah you might get a love and you feel a little flustered yeah you might you'd be a little frustrated yeah you might be a little snappy but your brain gonna reset i guarantee your brain gonna reset your brain gonna reset when i let angela go i i thought that was something that men needed just just got to get you a little relief check out to get you a little release i thought that was some men needed guess what i realized i never needed that i realize not in general in period in life that i don't even need a orgasm period the only need set i realize now on this side of things that sex is a plus not a priority we've been tricked to believe that it's a priority it's actually not a priority it is a plus it's the cherry on top it ain't the cake listen to me now i'm here to tell you but you got to consecrate yourself to get there to find out to realize that you're going to have to consecrate yourself you now when i say consecrate yourself look up the word i didn't say uh castrate yourself some of y'all what he told my consecration you know what let me get out that man crazy he's talking you got to cut your thing he told me you got to cut your dangling off for you to get the life he got what i said consecrate okay let's look it up now let's look it up and i might be let's look it up now it's a make or declare sacred dedicate formally to a religious or divine purpose you need to make or declare your body sacred your mind sacred and dedicated to your purpose consecrate yourself not castrate okay because i already know because every time i say it hello country every time i say consecrate i say not is this this is the word that mean cut off now see castrate mean remove the testicles i said consecrate not castrate a male animal or man cash straight move the testicles they ain't what i said but see now listen to me speaking of castrate you keep playing with uh what you keep cheating and you just very well may get castrated okay play with it play with it somebody told me because we always make a joke of uh lorena bobbitt but you know that actually lorena that was not a joke that was she had a a man that was of you and had to defend and so that right there that let you know that right there let you know from 18 yep john wayne bobby lord no no offense but i'm glad they okay okay because it always be us that y'all won't look at us oh black people there's black people that john and lorena pogba were an american couple married on june 18 1989 whose relationship made worldwide headlines in 1993 when after years of allegedly being right okay and from the behind by her husband lorena cut off his with a knife while he was asleep in bed cut off his third leg you see what i'm saying somebody gonna deal with you it's gonna be the woman you doing wrong the woman you cheating with or the man you cheating with or god and see but see guess what man human humans don't forgive the way god forgives so you better go to god and ask for forgiveness before man made justice get dealt because now the wrath of god will be bad too but god is a forgiving god so if you go with a glad and gracious heart with a pure spirit and you are repenting to change your life to then go out and be a witness to other men and other young men to tell them look that ain't cool what you doing that ain't manly what you doing they don't make you a real man that make you a punk what you doing if you gonna be that man god god will forgive you it still may be a little bit of price you got to pay god i forgive you but you keep playing the game you're going to pay a different price and i'm telling now i'm seeing it you remember the quarterback steve mcnair that lost his life it was found it was assumed that the one that he was cheating and that the woman he was cheating with took his life and her life it was it was that was alleged on july 4th no every night ain't got an alleged on july 4th 2009 where were you where were you july 4th that's a holiday that's independence day you know what the woman said on independence day if there was a lie this on wikipedia somebody could have came he'd say mcnair was fatally shot by his mistress saeel kazimi in a murder suicide you hear me took him took herself because when you playing these games your life on the line and that's what god showed me god said your life on like god god tell you in the book of proverbs read the book of proverbs it's talking about this type of woman in the book of proverbs where it's talking about the man walking down the street and he being lured into the house from this woman but this woman she's looking to devour this man a celebrity ain't no such thing as no mystery she know he married she know what he got going on but look it's spirit side down so while you playing with it you finna bump up against a spirit that you ain't qualified to be entangled with and that entanglement gonna strangle me and you're gonna be so i'm trying and listen you're a grown man i can't scare you this ain't no skeletal this this truth this ain't no threat it's a promise you could look at you can look at history and see how this play out hey i got to go for an hour god bless you watch this video again

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Published: Fri Nov 20 2020