What Was Your Most Uncomfortable Moment With Your Sociopath Friend?

serious friends of social path psychopaths what was your most uncomfortable moment with them i remember from a very early age that my mom would just stand in the entrance to my room with a knife this didn't happen very often maybe two three times a year when i was nine i finally asked her why she would do this i'll never forget how she said this she looked me dead in the eyes and said that i was a mistake and she was deciding if she should do what she should have done a long time ago i asked to move in with my grandma a week later thinking about how she said it still gets my heart racing 22 years later i don't know if i can accurately describe it but every single hair on my body stood straight up i was paralyzed with fear and i felt like if i moved too suddenly she would strike backstory mom had me when she was 16 and regularly told me that i ruined her life she was a habitual drug user and alcoholic she told me that if she had the money she would have had an abortion in high school my boyfriend at the time and i shared a math class together it was well known we were dating so i would always take him his homework via teacher's request if he missed he skipped a lot i broke up with him over christmas break he cheated on me math teacher obviously still assumed we were together so he asked me to bring him his homework i did got to his house wanting to drop it off at his doorstep he told me to come in and explain it to him he locked his bedroom door and started saying crap like if i can't have you then no one else can i could get you back in a second just admit it etc then the true kicker if i killed you or if you died i would keep your body in my closet or hung behind my door just to frick it disclaimer i never freaked him and i think that killed him he then proceeded to try to make out with me and jam his hands down my pants he actually thought it was endearing and had no idea why i was so upset i got out called my mom to pick me up and ran back to the school he lived close terrifying to this day i'm still horrified about it and him last i heard he was trying to be a magician looks like charles manson and is in and out of psych wards we were cleaning our guns this guy pointed the gun at me and asked me if i trusted him do you think the gun is unloaded he asked me i could be negligent or evil and i could have left a bullet in there he pulled the trigger laughed and carried on cleaning the gun like nothing he thought it was funny someone in our extended family he offered to kill my cat for me to save a vet bill the cat wasn't sick or old he was just very enthusiastic about helping us out with that particular issue he's not allowed to be alone with pets anymore he had a gas powered pallet gun and we were 13 years old and it was one of my first times being high he had me against the wall and gave me five minutes to choose between him shooting me in the genitals or in the head if i didn't choose he said he was just gonna go nuts i just kinda fidgeted in place saying you're gonna kill me i was 13 and high and at the end of the five minutes he told me he was freaking with me he also emptied a huge box of matches into the sink one time and when we all told him not to he called us cowards and lit it all on fire he was a major pyro i'm pretty sure he's in jail now when he told my gf sitting beside me at the time that if she did something horrible to me and we broke up that he would murder me for her i've been long time friends with a sociopath he is honestly like my brother we have developed this relationship where he basically treats me like his moral compass but it doesn't always work he is still manipulative and cruel at times and he does only truly care about himself but he tries to be a good person because he doesn't want to be a butthole this being said my most uncomfortable moment with him would have to be when he was telling me about watching some guy almost die he was telling me how he knew he should have stopped watching and helped him but he was too interested in what the outcome would be if he didn't help it was creepy to know that as hard as he may try to be a decent person sometimes he still can't help himself my ex would say headlines headlines which meant i would be in the headlines in tomorrow's newspaper because he was going to kill me married one last straw was the day i caught his reflection as i passed by pure evil and hatred in his eyes i told him i was leaving the following week he said if i ever see you somewhere with someone else i won't say a word you i said okay he then added i'll just walk up to you and shoot you in your pretty face i was moving some things out and looked under the bed for a pair of shoes found his guns fully loaded and out of their cases under his side of the bed i went to the cops nothing came of it fast forward and he remarries before the ink is dry on the divorce new wife shoots him in the head and kills him in his sleep proceeds to kill herself by odin on his pain pills yeah i sleep better these days this kid in my eighth grade class he showed us a video of him lighting a cat on fire while it was alive he thought it was funny we reported the video to the school and he was apprehended next day my sister is a sociopath it took me a lot of years to realize this and stop rationalizing it i'm a diabetic and have been in comas during the last one in 2015 after a year of no contact she showed up at the hospital saying i had expressed to her that my wishes would do not resuscitate about 12 of my friends shut her down and i woke up three days later on my own if i had coded during that time however there would have been a lot of gray area around if they were allowed to revive me about four months later she took out a life insurance policy on me and asked me to sign it i said no lol i no longer speak to her i dated one once didn't realize it until much later when the abuse was so thick i couldn't breathe the one situation that sticks out the most was one night completely unsolicited he looked at me solemnly and said if you ever left me i would find you and kill you 11 years of crap like that suffice to say i'm glad i've got an entire country between myself and him now i dated someone who i now believe is a sociopath the most uncomfortable thing while we were dating was that he would constantly whisper things in my ear in public in ear shot of other people like do you think i look hot right now or do you think i'm cool and the first few times i thought he was joking so i laughed and he'd get angry he wanted a serious answer he wanted me to tell him how much i wanted to jump his bones right there in front of all of our friends while they were watching and listening i'd get lectured afterwards like you know you really insulted me personally when you laughed at me in front of everyone he could also cry on cue to get what he wanted and as soon as he got what he wanted it would instantly switch off and he'd turn very serious and tell me what a horrible person i was the instant emotional switches are disarming when he broke up with me i went from being his favorite person in the world to instantly at the very bottom of his crap list he laughed when i cried on multiple occasions calling me ridiculous what's very alarming about people like him is how many people they can get on their side with their charm none of his current friends know anything about his behavior behind closed doors and they're all new people all the people who caught on when we were dating are gone from his life he has convinced his new friends that i'm a psychopath because i tried to tell others what happened so whenever i say anything about what a creepy is i get brigaded by the new people who are now being manipulated also he is completely dead in the face and eyes until you interact with him and then it's like he becomes animated my uncle we found out things in bits and pieces my dad and him work together he got my dad fired by saying all sorts of lies to their boss and then pretended to be the white knight by offering him a job in another country where he's living money was tight back then and we were in a lot of debt so dad agreed he took him there gave him work but also made him a slave to his wife and kids who also lived there but dad was expected to cook food wash the dishes clean up the dining table after uncle's family ate and then eat himself yeesh dad didn't tell us until much later according to the rule set by uncle he wasn't to contact us often should mind his own dang business even if his daughter didn't turn up at home all night and keep his mouth shut about work dad was miserable there and we couldn't do much because again that job was a welcome relief to us uncle meanwhile would come every night to our home have breakfast and dinner that my mom generously cooked because his family was abroad while bitching about my dad in front of us one day i had finally reached my breaking point and i started crying because i felt horrible for dad who was trying so hard to make things right for us uncle just sat opposite to me smiling god i'm smiling we'll never forget that psycho grin on his face days later dad suddenly turned up unannounced at home turns out he'd been dumped by uncle to our city without prior notice dad didn't have the guts to tell us what happened we realized uncle was a psychopath later he'd routinely mentally torture people and enjoy their misery while pretending to offer sympathies and help he's in a powerful spot so he offers his victims jobs once they accept he makes them entirely dependent on him he'd then put his victims under even more psychological stress be it threatening to cut off ties or getting them fired if they disagreed with him my dad was really messed up for days he'd swing from utter despair to not speaking for days to extreme violence to absolutely broken got beating up a bit for trying to calm him down dad could finally regain his mental sanity after we cut off all ties to that uncle last we heard he wants to contact my dad because their brothers and people realized what a piece of crap he is so they avoid him too dad's like oh heck nor when he would tell a story that i was a part of and make up huge lies of what happened even sometimes switch his role and mine and i would just awkwardly nod my head and wonder if he truly remembered it that way i was making some brownies my sister was visiting for some reason maybe it was christmas anyway i like my brownies gooey and hot so i'm cutting into them a little earlier than i should the sister flips the frick out and starts beating on me grabbing heavier and more dangerous weapons from whatever she can reach pants rolling pins etc it becomes a scuffle where she keeps screaming stop hitting me while all i'm doing is grabbing her wrists to avoid taking one to the head maybe it's not the most uncomfortable she's made me or the most evil thing she's done and she's done worse to people we aren't related to i know but when people ask why is your sister so crazy that's the memory that comes into my head her gigantic freakout out over brownies that i was making i knew this kid in eighth grade michael i considered him a friend but he was absolutely loony he was simultaneously a dong but likable because he was really funny he'd constantly pitch friends against each other and encourage people to fight each other i always knew something was sort of off then some girl he dated said he uphead her oh and he'd brag about freaking his dog guy was off i have a friend who's a pathological liar he's also mostly scottish in heritage northern scotland where the viking influences he's six feet eight three hundred and fifty pounds when he's watching his weight four hundred plus when he isn't and there is a lot of muscle to go with everything else the lies aren't all that awful most of the time he's known as a very entertaining storyteller and everyone knows he'll embellish greatly from time to time but he can't keep a girlfriend apparently he can't be honest is a pathological cheater the lies catch up with his relationships in a few weeks at most one day we were in a taxi together and he got the idea that the driver was taking a route that was unnecessarily long he stopped the cheerful story he was telling me mid-sentence his face changed and he barked at the cab driver in a voice i'd never heard loud and angry and aggressive the cab driver immediately pulled over and let us out without paying and a good thing too i think my friend was about to kill him i was petrified in my seat i felt like he might kill everyone in range i was terrified it was the last time i spent time with him though i'd known him for 20 years i later learned that he won't associate with someone after they've seen him snap as one of his other ex-friends put it he told me i must be seriously mentally ill for being upset that he while dating me propositioned my married best friend by far figuring out how she dangerous she actually was i grew up with her until she was removed from the house due to trying to burn it down with us in it she said it was a suicide attempt okay whatever maybe years later i find out her house burned down with her disabled daughter in it she said it was an accident candle or some bs like that a possible coincidence but highly unlikely she did other things too for example poured paint over every item i owned when i was around 10 slept with a knife under her pillow etc my best friend in high school was a sociopath though i didn't realize it until later in life he was good-looking and astoundingly manipulative he could talk pretty much any girl into bed i was always a bit socially awkward and never got laid at that age whenever i confided in him that i liked someone he would target them and frick them they could be a nice girl virgin whatever it didn't matter he was that good one of the most uncomfortable moments of my life was after we graduated and we were hanging out and he got invited over to a girl's house who we graduated with he knew i thought she was cute said it was a party and that she had said she liked me well we got there and it was only her her roommate and her roommate's boyfriend and i didn't drive he immediately goes in her room and freaks the girl i was really peed off and confronted him about it of course he made me seem like the butthole and told everyone that i invited myself over and made me feel sad and pathetic i completely lost it and broke down crying in anger and felt ridiculous luckily her roommate was nice enough to drive me home that was his mo he wasn't violent or anything but he liked hurting people emotionally that night was the last night i ever spoke to him i still feel stupid for being friends that long my ex-husband told me he took my dog to his friend's house to live find out a year later that he took her to his father's land and shot her multiple times because the first was not enough he proceeded to skin her and take out her parts pulled out her heart and showed his friend laughing told me his friend was being a coward about it he laughed and was completely unaware of any wrongdoing so glad i'm out of that situation disgusting human being what in the frick probably when i found out he was dating three other girls at the same time and the girls and i exchanged screenshots of conversations with him how creepily similar the way he spoke to us all charming nice dude unless you don't give him what he wants i'm an ex-friend of a sociopath i think it was when we were hanging out and we started arguing about me going to his house i had left my wallet there and i told him this and told him we needed to go back so i could get it he then started claiming that his parents didn't like me and didn't want me at his house he said since they weren't home that would just make it worse i just kept saying i need my dang wallet and that he could get it for me he proceeded to call me selfish and a monster for arguing with him like he yelled it in my face in a public area i was shocked and had nothing to say then he proceeded to act like nothing happened asking me if we should get food etc i eventually got my wallet back from him he didn't spend any money of mine or anything but needless to say we aren't friends anymore honestly i didn't even consider him a sociopath until telling my therapist about how he manipulated me into thinking everything was my fault and how me being better mentally was never enough she basically told me straight up he's a sociopath and it clicked he used me just to fill his ego my sister feels nothing but rage when she doesn't feel rage she feels literally nothing she spends her life manipulating everyone around her and satisfying that rage she mercilessly abused me growing up she tried to kill me three times before i moved out no one believed me because i was older and larger i was always considered to be the aggressor even when i was being violently assaulted in my sleep living with her was a nightmare the most uncomfortable moment between us wasn't something she did to me it was something i considered doing to her i'd been sent up to the crawl space to get an ornament you could only access it from a ladder in the garage when i grabbed it and turned around she was at the top of the ladder staring at me there wasn't any room for her to come up she was just waiting there staring she told me to get out of the way and i told her i couldn't there wasn't room for two people in the crawl space she'd have to go back down the ladder she immediately switched to rage she said she hated me and she wasn't going to let me down from the crawl space it was 110 degrees in there and i was already exhausted i remember thinking she's at the top of a ladder over a cement floor i could make this stop i'd just say it was an accident i'm only 12 no one would convict me as soon as i thought that her face suddenly went blank and she went back down the ladder a friend of mine is a functioning psychopath he has some severe anger issues but knows on a logical level not an emotional one what the implications of unleashing this are he has no remorse he could kill his mother and not care but he knows this is morally wrong even if he doesn't feel it's wrong he can also be extremely manipulative with no remorse and i've seen that come out to play sometimes and it isn't pretty his ego is well endowed he's got one of the highest pain tolerances that i've seen part of a suspension group and he's a really great cuddler to meet him he's pretty strange but all in all he's a decent person and i admire that he's decided to be better than his diagnosis she used to brag about her therapist diagnosing her as a sociopath and then obviously denied when it was ever brought up i think the moment that put it all into perspective was when she manipulated me into having a threesome with her and her ex she knew i was in love with her because she thought it would get him to take her back i was in the mental hospital with him he was my roommate he was a diagnosed sociopath while i was just in there for a suicide attempt he just all over the toilet sink and shower handle and laughed at it he made my bathroom unusable and the staff thought i was trying to be funny when i reported it he's still one of the funniest guys i've ever met even though he was in there for making homicidal threats he once tried to manipulate me to come in and work basically 50 hours 10 of which would be off the clock so that i didn't get overtime because he knew that if he could keep labor low on his shift he could get a promotion he would also expressly lie to my face about giving me a break saying verbatim i'll come back here in a moment and take over so that you can go on break then he will just never come then when the time has passed to where a break would be irrelevant that is 30 minutes before my shift is over he'd offer again my ex invited me over to her house to catch up i assumed she was being genuine because she had a boyfriend at the time and it had been three years since we broke up but before i came over i told her that i just wanted to catch up and nothing more i said that i'd leave if she tried to hook up with me i did this because i knew she had cheated on her boyfriend before she promised me that she just wanted to catch up and that she didn't have any ulterior motives i knew that she was a psychopath and that she took medication for it but i didn't really think about that stupidly i went over to her house within 30 minutes she was trying to make a move on me i told her that i was uncomfortable and wanted to leave she said to me number you can't you're going to stay the night and sleep with me i told her that i was really uncomfortable with that and tried getting up she pinned me down and flicked the light switch so i couldn't see anything i tried pushing her off of me but she was holding me down i convinced her to turn the lights back on and she did after she flicked the lights back on she pointed to the wall right behind us and said you see that mark on the wall that's the mark from when i stabbed the wall with my knife that's when i was certain that she was off of her meds i spent the following few hours trying to calm her down i was able to do so and then got the frick out of there as fast as i could she told me that if my mom would to ever sleep at our future house that she will murder her while she is asleep in the middle of the night nobody says that crap about my mom or anyone in my family haven't talked to her in like five months now and i'm very glad she's out of my life my sister and her daughter my nieces straight up told me she's killed animals but after seeing my reaction she said they were accidents she is not allowed to hold my baby nephew anymore because she drops him she says he's being squirmy and again it was an accident but the look on her face and in her eyes was a look i used to see on my sister's her mum face when she would try to hurt me as kids she is also not allowed at my house because she terrorizes my pets i caught her throwing my kitten into her travel carrier and shaking it hard thankfully my kitten was fine this was after i caught her throwing shoes at my senior cat to get him out of my closet the similarities between her and her mom are terrifyingly uncanny it brings up a lot of bad memories from childhood if you are new to the channel you can subscribe i publish new videos every day until then check another video [Music] bye for now

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Length: 23min 21sec (1401 seconds)

Published: Sun Jul 19 2020