Stop Gold Digger Shaming!

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👍︎︎ 1 👤︎︎ u/AutoModerator 📅︎︎ Jan 19 2020 🗫︎ replies

Money is just a proxy for other desireable attributes.

Men are obsessed with looks. Why isn't that called "looksdigging" or some other pejorative term? Oh, yeah, it's because broke men wanna get laid, so they make up this shit to shame women into dating deadbeat men.

Don't fall for this shit, ladies. You're better off on your own than with a broke man. Why? Because then at least you have your freedom, and the option of doing better. You hook up with some broke dude, and he'll be taking up all your time so you can't ever get ahead. Avoid broke men like the plague!

👍︎︎ 32 👤︎︎ u/rftw2013 📅︎︎ Jan 20 2020 🗫︎ replies

money is a huge part of a relationship! a woman wants a financially stable, independent, reliable man! yes, there are obviously some women who are only interested in money, but otherwise what is wrong with caring about financial stability? its more than just the money too, a man with no job or any interviews is most likely a man with serious motivation and commitment issues to everyday life. we should start “attraction shaming” men who only go for looks even though they’re a straight up 3/10 and have nothing to offer intellectually or emotionally lol.

👍︎︎ 14 👤︎︎ u/mgmtbitch 📅︎︎ Jan 19 2020 🗫︎ replies
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What is a gold-digger? And why do people use this word so much? I feel like this has become the new word, popularly used by both men and women, instead of calling someone a "bitch" a "slut" a "whore".. Whatever, people like to use the word gold-digger. They like to shame women and tell her off basically! Well, let's figure it all out! Why are people doing this? My name is Anna and I run an online finishing school called SCHOOL OF AFFLUENCE. It's a program for women who want to improve themselves to become high caliber women, elegant women, and the woman who navigates successful in high society. If you want to join us visit SCHOOLOFAFFLUENCE.COM ... So what is a gold-digger? Let's find out! Okay, I have made some few notes here.. I had to Google this, of course, to give you the exact definition. Because you know what? I've noticed that people have their own definition of gold-digger. Some people think that "just because you have rich friends" = you're a gold digger! Other people think that "just because you don't want to pay the bill as a woman in a restaurant when you're on a date with a man" = you're a gold digger! I think both is absolutely crazy!! But the whole point that I'm trying to make is that, people have so many different variations and perceptions of the word gold digger, so let's just quickly find out what it actually means? Gold digger: A woman who forms relationships with men purely to obtain money or gifts from them. Okay, so as I understand it, it's ONLY if you want to have some material gain from them. Another one, Someone who only likes people because of how much money they have or because of the items they own. Again, we have this word ONLY. So as I understand after googling around, it seems that according to dictionaries and so on, the word gold digger stands for when women are ONLY interested in the material or the monetary gain of somebody. I can understand the negative associations with the word gold digger. If it's all about using and abusing somebody, I do not believe in that myself. I don't think that we should use and abuse anyone, as much as (we don't like when) men using women for sex. I don't think women should use and abuse men for money. However, how come in our society it's SO accepted for man to treat women as sex objects, YET - it's so incredibly taboo and forbidden for a woman to somehow have a financial interest in the man. SHE cannot have financial interest in a man, but a MAN can have sexual interest in a woman. And why I'm mentioning these things is because genetically speaking, men and women are wired differently research has proven. Biologically speaking, we were designed this way for the survival of the offspring. A woman needs to really take into account who she meets with, because that increases the survival rates (or decreases) of her children. A man who can offer the woman financial security, a man who can provide, a man who have some form of status in the jungle. Now that's going to be a high survival rate for her children, obviously a woman is going to take that into account and actually prioritize it. This is written in our genetics, in our biology, in the millions of years of DNA programming. Now men on the other hand, they're not driven by this type of instinct because their instinct is to impregnate as many women as possible because that has a higher chance of survival for their offspring. For this reason, men are very much sexually orientated, the same way a woman perhaps is more financially orientated than a man, but a man can get away with being sexually orientated! How come, HOW UNFAIR is that in our society it's like if a man sleeps around, he gets a pat on his back. But if a woman sleeps around: oh... She is a slut, she is this, she's that! Anything to shame a woman! Now this is something that I'm very tired of, and for that reason I make videos like this on my channel to raise awareness because I think we all should start thinking about exactly what happens when we call a woman a gold digger! Should we really promote this misogynistic hate? I know my values, I know what I stand for. I know that I'm not using and abusing anyone. I value the romantic side in a relationship as much as I value the materialistic and financial aspect. Both are equally important to me, and yes you can have both in today's society! But what really frustrates me is how this word is being used against women, and how it actually has an impact on women. I see it also in my community. Women who are laying low with their interest in luxury lifestyle because society are judging them and labeling them and that is unfair, and that is against any form of feminism in my opinion! But where does this whole misogynistic trend come from? The word gold-digger comes, of course, originally from men. It comes from men who do not appreciate women, who perhaps hate women. It comes from men who get triggered by the higher standards of a woman that they cannot live up to! It's basically broke guys, who cannot afford this type of women. So they start creating this whole Gold Digger trend and in their way to try and control a woman and somehow dominate a woman. This comes from dominating someone, to push someone down, to put someone in their place, into the corner! Shaming a woman by calling her a gold digger, is the man's, and also the society's - it's a way of controlling her, it's a way of telling her that "You! Don't come and think that you're somebody! Go back to your place!" That's basically what this gold digger word is communicating to us. A woman is not allowed in this world, to be true to her instincts the same way a man can be true to his sexual desires. A woman is forbidden to have a desire for financial gain or status gain. Sadly these misogynistic men get backup from our fellow women. Oh yes, us women we are doing an amazing job backstabbing each other. Which is something I really, really hope and pray for, that one day maybe we can act more like sisters instead of predators. I believe we should hold each other's backs instead of taking the side of men. Now I know this stems from competitiveness. Women can be awfully jealous and competitive with each other. So that's actually a way of controlling other women, by calling her gold digger, by shaming her for having these types of interests. But more so often, do I notice that actually these women who use this name-calling and call other women for gold diggers, they are sadly enough just programmed by society, brainwashed by thinking that a woman has absolutely no right to have this type of preference, this type of interest. That she's a bad person and that they should do a witch-hunt against her. The word gold digger has become a modern-day witch hunt, as they did in history, burning all these women. They're doing the same thing but but by bullying somebody emotionally and calling her gold digger! And lastly, we have to also think about WHY does this upset people so much if a woman has financial interest in a man, if a woman is benefiting financially from a man, if a woman has a preference that she wants to be part of high society, she wants to change her class from middle class to upper class. Why is it so triggering to people? Why do people get so upset that a woman wants to do this and has this interest? Because money triggers a lot of strong emotions in people. Money is actually a very strong emotion in itself, because money represents all kinds of different emotions in people. We have a lot of things that are operating in our subconscious that we're not even aware of! So money becomes a very very strong heavily loaded emotion. But what I don't understand is why do other people care so much what people do with their lives? Why don't people focus more on their own life and perhaps improving it and becoming a better version of themselves? And maybe go to counseling and maybe heal some issues? Perhaps WHY these issues are triggering the person to feel all these strong emotions? One thing is to have a different opinion but another thing is to have very strong emotions about something. Not everyone has to have financial interest in a man. The same way not every man has to be sexually obsessed, right? People are different! Some people have a very high sex drive, some people have a very high financial drive! People are different! Let them do whatever they want without judging. Let us be who we are, we're not killing anyone... We are just staying true to what we believe in, to what we desire and we are not ashamed of having a man provide for us! And if that is a problem for you then maybe you should think about why you have such a big problem with this? I have more videos on this topic, so please do go and check them out I have loads of interesting content about high society on this channel. But before I leave you, I want to say one last thing... If you're a woman who want to have a financially secure partner: You're not a gold digger! You are just staying true to instincts, so never let society or anyone tell you that you're wrong! See you in the next video!
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Channel: Anna Bey
Views: 241,797
Rating: 4.0586252 out of 5
Keywords: school of affluence, jetsetbabe, anna bey, luxury, luxury lifestyle, gold digger, why are women gold diggers, gold digger shaming, controlling men, gold, digger, women gold digger, men gold digger, rich men, online finishing school, elite society, millionaire life, high society, dating rich men, level up, is she a gold digger, stop saying gold digger, sugar baby, sugarbabies, gold digging, gold digging girls driving me crazy
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Length: 10min 6sec (606 seconds)
Published: Wed Apr 03 2019
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