My dear elegant ladies, welcome back to another video
on femininity, elegance, and personal upgrade.
There might be a few habits, you are subconsciously
practicing on a daily basis that actually are holding you back
from becoming the most refined version of yourself. Today, I want to share with you,
5 things that feminine high status ladies do that you can
actually start practicing today that are easy to start with, but that will
elevate you as of right now. Because this way, you are going to tap into your
feminine energy and really blossomed to your potential. Anyway, ladies, let's dive in
with the habit number one. Let's start with one of my
personal top priorities in life, and that's keeping a self care routine. I started focusing on this when
I realized that I really needed it for my well-being to feel balanced, but also to actually
feel feminine as a woman. In today's patriarchy society, women unfortunately have to wear
many hats and be very much in the man's shoes, taking on
men's responsibilities. Meaning that we have become
much more masculine than ever as the female species. But do you know what really helps
balancing out the masculine energy? Well, that's when you do feminine activities. And a very feminine activity
is actually to treat, to personal self care. All high status and feminine
women prioritize this. And I want you to also understand that
self-care can really mean a lot of different things to different people. So there isn't a set formula for this. This is where you can actually step
in and just pick and choose of what nourishes you, whether it
is perfect your grooming, maybe hone into your wellbeing, maybe
it's doing sports, being able to nature. I don't know. Going to spa. Ladies, whatever it is that tick your
boxes when it comes to self-care, you have to find something that
naturally fuels your energy. Okay? The whole point
is to gain new energy, gain new strength and balance
out all the stresses that life might bring on us. So if you
don't yet have a self-care routine, please start prioritizing
this into your schedule. It has to be something daily or
at least a few times per week. You should be able to pencil
in some hours of self-care. Habit number two. Now I know that this might not
come naturally to all of us, but let me tell you what a difference
it will make if you can develop the feminine habit of being tidy. Okay? Your personal space, ladies is an extension of you as a person. And trust me when I say this, no feminine or elegant
ladies are ever chaotic, messy or even unhygienic. So I don't want to ever see of my
dear elegant ladies to ever let's say, do this selfie in the mirror and you
see in the reflection of your mirror, in the background,
a cluttered home, stuff everywhere, maybe even dirty underwear
on the floor. Yuck! Less is definitely more
in the home department. And I do want all my
elegant hoarder ladies to actually start thinking about doing
something about this kind of negative behavior of hording, collecting things,
being afraid of throwing something away. Because it is very liberating to throw
things away and apply more of a Marie Kondo type of principle when
you live more minimalistic, but clean and tidy and organized. You are actually going to feel really
good in your mental well-being. And that's what I meant
when I said that in a way, your home becomes an
extension of yourself. It kind of shows your inner world. It symbolizes your inner
wellbeing and a messy home symbolizes a chaotic
well-being. Remember ladies, how presentable your home is
really does say a lot about you. Because you can dress elegantly
all day long but if your home is a mess, are you really an elegant lady? Habit number three. Yummy. Do not do this ladies. Do not apply that much perfume. Apply only on your pulse points,
like an elegant little flower that you are. Ladies, I am talking about the habit
of, of course, smelling nicely, but smelling feminine
and smelling elegant. And it is actually a big deal how you
smell. And I know that these days, we stay a lot at home. We are hibernators. COVID is all around us.
So most of the times, we are maybe not doing the things that
we usually do, like a basic thing, like applying perfume. But actually, it is so important that you still do
some of these kind of daily habits that you would do in the regular life. Remember that life over
a year ago? Well, ladies, we want to use these type of tools for
our mental well-being. And when we, as an example, apply some lipstick or some perfume
or brush our hair or have a shower, then we of course feel
better about ourselves. But when we are staying at home so much, it is so easy to fall into
the kind of couch potato mode, which is a must for any elegant
lady to step out of that comfort zone. So start adding a little bit
more perfume to your ensemble, but you know what you should also do? If you want to add a truly
affluent and elegant touch to your home, then also make sure that your
home and surroundings smells nice. As an example, invest in some
really lovely home fragrances, or if you can't afford that and
at least buy a scented candle. The goal is to really have a home
that smells like a five-star luxury hotel, because when you are
in these type of environments, you feel like a million dollars. And if you bring that environment
home to your environment, especially now that you spend so many
hours in your home than ever before, then you're going to feel more
like a million dollar woman. So make sure you make the most out of
this energy because it's going to help lifting you up. Habit number four. You remember I've spoken about
how the elites value education, and this is a very important
lesson for everybody. Because one of the things that we
cannot stop doing is growing and learning. And I'm not only
talking about higher education. This can be any form of education. It can be as simple as getting to
know yourself, working on yourself, or it can be as an example that
you want to go back to school, or you want to finish a degree
that you never finished. I feel that one of the most important
habits of an elegant woman is to really never stop learning. And I have really
applied this myself, in my own life. When there's no COVID,
I continuously go to conferences. I go myself to courses. I buy courses. I take all kinds of
education that's out there, even as simple as just reading
a book sometimes so that I continuously can grow. I do it a lot in business,
but you can do it in any field. And I just want you to feel that, okay,
even though you finished high school, you finished your higher education, if there is still a hobby or interest that
you always wanted to pursue, but you held yourself
back for whatever reason, it's not too late to do so now. And you're going to appear so much more
interesting, so much more high level, and it is actually a very
feminine traits to study, to learn, to read, to educate yourself.
So please do this ladies. This is one of the best investments
in yourself that you can do. And this is also one of the reasons to
why I started my online finishing school, because I'm so passionate about
investing in yourself through education. Oh, and a little bonus tip, because many of you are asking me often
where you can meet the elite and you know what, through education. This is a really good spot for this, regardless if it's a higher education
or a course that you're taking, because you're going to meet
other people, other students. And you know that I actually have
a free cheat sheet called exactly, Where To Meet The Elite. And there you will get even more places, more ideas of where you can meet affluent
and the elegant crowd. So just go to. www.millionaireplaces.com and download
this free cheat sheet. Ladies, the final habit, habit, number five. And this one is going to be a little bit
interesting for you because I'm going to give you a tough cookie to crack, but I did it on purpose ladies
and I saved the best for last. One habit that you must stop
with and that's being defensive. Now, first thing you need to
know is that most of us almost, I think all of us have defences that
operate to protect us and that we have adopted from the past,
from bad experience, etc. But there are some people that
are just generally really defensive on a regular basis. And sometimes too much to the point that
really small and not important things creates this massive drama and
problems, and really puts people off. You need to understand that being
defensive is a very masculine trait. So a woman automatically steps
into her masculinity when she is on her defense. And I'm not saying now
that a woman shouldn't be defending herself ever because it's a masculine trait and that
would be so terrible if she did. No. And either do I say that
only men can be defensive. I don't think it's a good thing,
a man is defensive either. Nobody should operate being defensive.
It's just not an elegant trait. It's really just annoying. But I'm really talking more about kind
of the bad habits of being defensive. As an example, you get triggered by something that just
simply pushes your buttons for whatever reasons. I don't know, maybe you feel offended or you feel
hurt or annoyed or provoked in one way or another. So instead of operating on autopilot
and giving this person or this thing or whatever it is, a negative reaction, a non defensive person would
actually hold themselves back in that moment. So instead of acting on what's
being triggering to them, they pause, they hold back
and they ask themselves, what's really going on right
now with myself that make me so triggered? Because it's not actually the fault of
whatever it is that's making the trigger. The fault is you, it's your reaction. It's what's hurting you inside you.
This is all very personal. This has nothing to do with
the circumstance or another person or whatever it is that you're reacting to. An elegant and feminine trait
is to be able to manage your own emotion and also not to be blaming
your emotion on your surroundings or other people. And you know, what's
going to happen when you improve this, when you start becoming less defensive? You're going to have
less drama in your life, you're going to have less
unnecessary problems in your life. You're going to have it easier to
have better relationships with people, better friendships, a better
relationship with your partner. Plus, it's going to really allow you to step
into your fullest potential as a woman. And as a little bonus, more
people are going to like you. And to be able to form a relationship
with you. I have worked on it in therapy. I know that therapy really helps
with this. So have a little thing, whether that could be a
solution for you in the future, because this is the ultimate
self-growth. Developing new habits, it is a process. Now ladies, I do have bonus tips for you that you
can actually watch if you head over to my Instagram @AnnaBey, because
we have point number six, waiting for us there.
So don't miss! Now in the next video, seven rich people's habits, we are going to now talk about
the affluent habits that you must also adopt. So make sure
to watch that video now, because I am going to see you there.
