How to make a man
run after you? Oh yes, it is still doable. Even though we have a harsh dating
climate in today's society where men has become spoiled and women have
become desperate. But ladies, if you just apply these tips and tricks
that I'm going to share with you, you will actually have men
begging for your attention. My dear elegant ladies,
welcome back to another video. This is a topic that we need to
discuss because we have men around us, whether we are in a marriage,
in a relationship, or we are single and looking. So I think the tips that I will be
sharing with you today will be applicable, regardless of your relationship status. And I do want to mention one important
thing because the media keeps writing that I'm a billionaire matchmaker. A lot of people keep thinking
that I'm a dating coach. And even though I make videos
on the subject of dating men, how to meet men, but also how to keep men. That doesn't mean that I'm a dating coach. It Is just the topic that
I enjoy talking about. That is part of a lifestyle transformation.
And ultimately ladies, lifestyle transformation is what it is
that I teach in my elite finishing school. So if you want to join us,
come and visit www.SchoolOfAffluence.com and begin your transformation today. I did mention that the modern
society is not going in a favorable direction for
women today. However, ladies, we have to address the very important
aspect that men have become very spoiled in our society. And it's thanks to women. So we're not that innocent here.
We're not going to be victims here. We are actually responsible
to why men are spoiled today. And there is a simple reason for that. Women have become desperate.
Women have become very forgiving. Women are violating their own
boundaries in order to keep men, in order to satisfy men,
in order to just have a family. This becomes problematic because one
of the things that we as high caliber women, we cannot afford is to violate
our own boundaries, is to start flexing the initial message that we sent out.
Because majority of us, we are probably playing
a little bit hard to get, but the problem is when we
are not acting hard together. So this takes me straight
into the first and foremost, biggest dating cliche out there.
I'm talking about being hard to get. Yes, it's a cliche, but yes, we have to talk about it because you're
probably not doing your homework. You are probably still texting
him first, calling him first, flexing around with the boundaries
and not really being hard to get. And I'm sorry to say
my dear I'll get lady, but there is a reason to why you perhaps
are not getting the treatment that you are expecting to get treated.
It's not only because men are pigs, actually majority of men are not pigs. You still have those who are very highly
educated that I call high quality men. And those are the actual men that we
want to hunt for in this modern days. Because let's face it,
I don't have time or energy to start educating a man
or start raising a man like if he was a little boy. Quite frankly,
high caliber women don't do this. So I don't think you
should be doing either. Women do have a tendency of being
also impatient. I see it everywhere. So let's not deny the fact that women
rather jump on quantity rather than quality. And what I say by that is that
sometimes women feel uncomfortable staying in their singleness.
They think that, okay, he seems, all right, okay,
let me jump this ship. And then off they go. And then she wonders why she's
unhappy in this relationship, why things are not working out and
why the man that she chose is a pig. So I don't want any of that for my ladies. I want my ladies to be very
selective ladies, to be choosing, to be taking their time, |
to be really testing the guy, seeing is he really worth my time?
Is he really worth my trust, my love, my energy, my efforts? A man has to prove this. A man has to earn this.
When a man earned this and when he knows that it's a challenge, that's when
you're being hard to get. You're not being hard to get by just
like not answering the phone once or texting him half an hour later,
instead of immediately. Ladies, that is not being hard to get.
Men know those games from far. That is just being stupid.
I'm sorry. Ladies, hard to get is a lifestyle. Hard to get is an energy
that we transmit. You know, that we are actually very lucky
in the sense that physically and hormonally, we are actually
not built desperately for men. Men are the opposite.
They have their testosterone. They are messing with
their mind quite a lot, meaning that they need to hunt for women. They need to have their
testosterone released and satisfied. Meaning that they're actually physically
desperate whilst the women are not physically desperate. However, it becomes a problem because
we become a little bit emotionally desperate. And that is something that we
need to start being aware of. Emotionally desperate is the biggest
trap we can enter and how we can stop being emotionally desperate
is by sorting out our emotional needs from the ground. I have spoken so much in all my free
content and in my elite finishing school about the importance of doing the work,
the work in therapy, spiritual work, growing you as a human being,
working on your mind, filling that emotional gap that
seems to be awaking little Mrs. Desperado in you that
makes you chase the man, instead of having the man chasing you.
I know it sounds like a quick fix, but it's not. Becoming emotionally
strong as a woman is a long journey, but it has to be started because
if you are really neglecting your foundation, your inner world, kind of
the person who you really are inside. When you are doing that, that's when you start attracting
all these men that we're looking at. And we wondering like,
what is she doing with him? Doesn't she know that she deserves
better? Lady snap out of it. You see another common, common thing, and I'm also saying it
because I've done it myself. But I managed to sort myself
out after a lot of trial and errors. But one thing that I think a lot of us
can recognize ourselves in, and that is when we validate
ourselves, our worth through a man. Now, what does that say? That says that we are always
going to be emotionally tied to a man to basically validate us. That also means that we always
require the presence of a man in our life to be attached to a man through
relationship, through a marriage, to be seen as a woman who have made it, a woman who is accomplished. Now, I want you to also be aware that
the society is built very sexist. A single woman is still
seen as worth less in our society than a woman who is
in a relationship or married. She must be married if she is seen as
a woman of respect. Everybody else, not as much.
That is sexist. And that is something you need to be
aware because little Mrs. Desperado, she gets affected by these
stereotypes in society, by the sexism that we have. But when you become aware of all these
things that I'm trying to explain to you, you are actually going to
start thinking about this. You might be able to separate
yourself from certain stereotypes, from certain imposed beliefs.
And you might actually, okay, let me take a step back. Let me not rush
into this. Let me not be so desperate. And you start figuring
things out in different ways, just by using the method of awareness. What makes a man really beg for a
woman's attention is when she is being hard to get,
but she actually lives it. She doesn't just pretend it and make
him like see through the whole game of hers. Because men see through
those things. They're not stupid, especially not if you are
dating high caliber men. Don't you think that they have dealt
with a lot of sneaky women and they have learned a lot of the
games that women play? Because we play a lot of games and some
of us play them better than others. But this is why if you want
to play your game good, you need to actually live your game, which is why you need to really position
yourself as a high caliber woman. In my elite finishing school, I talk so much about branding and
personal branding and how to position yourself correctly. That is something
that I will always be teaching. And it's simply because
your actions define your brand. You cannot just dress nicely
and you cannot just speak nicely. You need to live what you showcase. You need to do the walk,
not just do the talk. And high caliber ladies
are the ones on the market. The men really beg to
have their attention. And how are these ladies? Well, like
I said, these ladies are selective. They're hard to get, they live hard
to get because they have a life, they're busy. They don't just wait around or jump on
every opportunity that the man offers them with. They live elegantly.
They look after themselves, they have expensive taste and
they're not afraid of showing it. Surely they do it with good
taste, with the discretion, never being too much because
who likes that? Nobody. And high caliber ladies are always educated
and always passionate about something, whether it is their profession or their
mission in life or some pet project that they have, or let's say if they
have a family and they're homemakers, and they're very passionate about that. But they have a passion and
they're dedicated to it. And that makes them interesting. Women like this are the
hottest women on the market. Women like this in an
existing relationship, makes the man become in love
with them over and over again. The man never grows bored of her. If she's always interesting because
she's cultivated, she is particular, she's intriguing. She sets
boundaries. She knows her worth. She acts as if, but of course we cannot go away from
the fact that men are very visual. So we have many different trends of
styles today or fashion and so on. But I think a lot of the times
women forget who we dress for. We dress for ourselves,
but we also dress for men. We have to take that into account
either if it is our partner or if it's somebody that we wish to attract,
but the opposite sex, it is important. And it is important that they
like the way we look visually, because if they don't, then our relationship will go down the
drain or we're going to forever stay single. So we have to balance those two aspects
out where we dress for ourselves so that we gain the confidence, that kind of pleasure of life that you
get when you wear beautiful clothes that you enjoy. But also wear
something that the men enjoy, that makes them look at you and be
thinking that that is a very feminine, attractive woman. Then skip
dressing for other women, that is a waste of time.
But unfortunately, majority of women dress for other women
mainly and forget the part of dressing for themselves and dressing for men. And ladies I've said it so
many times on my channel. You do not need to be a conventional
beauty to be so successful in the male departments.
First of all, understand this, there isn't just one formula
of appearance that men want. Men really like all kinds
of women, believe it or not. And the day you start believing it is
the day you are going to become that woman who just is so incredibly
confident in herself and men just get really attracted to her
because of that. And of course, because she makes look the very best
that she can. And I think that's, what's really important
work with what you have. Make that look the very
possible best that you can, but add the magic flavor to
this recipe, add femininity. So femininity is really what sells.
Sex does not sell. Vulgarity does not sell. Asking for a fast track where
you get sexual attention. That's not the answer either.
Feminine attention is what you want. We've spoken in previous videos, how women like Monica Bellucci
has mastered it to perfection. It's about you adding that
little spice to your repertoire, adding that little spice to your flavor,
highlights your feminine traits. If you have a feminine
silhouette, highlight that. If you don't have a feminine silhouette, create one with all the tips and tricks
that I've also been teaching about in these videos. How you can create a silhouette,
a more balanced silhouette. And of course you can play
around with things like fabrics, with perhaps some showing off
certain details, but hiding others, things like that. But ultimately, femininity is an energy just
like being a high caliber woman. But all of these, of course, I teach more
in depth in my elite finishing school. And ladies, if you are interested
in that transformation, visit www.SchoolOfAffluence.com Now I want you to watch the next video, which is all about body language
secrets that turn men on, where you will be learning something
very special in that video. So I will see you there.
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Have a hunch she’s a forever girlfriend larping as a trophy wife lol. I like some of her tips on clothes, though.