There is a lot of men you should stay away
from. And there is also plenty of low quality men
in high society. Just because a man is rich doesn't mean that
you have to go for him. We are not desperate on this channel. We want high caliber men. We want good man. The quality men, men who are worthy of our
time. So make sure you watch this video because
I'm going to give you five types of men in high society. Stay away from these types, ladies. Save yourself a headache, time and energy. Quick disclaimer. Please
take into account that I'm only generalising in this video. Not everybody is like this and it doesn't
mean that you should stay away from everybody who falls in under that bracket. What's important is that you know that there
are exceptions. So, if you have a good gut feeling of somebody,
follow it! Welcome to my YouTube channel. I'm Anna and I run schoolofaffluence.com. It's an all night finishing school for women who want to become more elegant, be successful in high society and also date affluent men. Make sure to visit schoolofaffluence.com if you want to join us Number one. I'm sure this one will surprise you. Old money or a certain family money type Old money is a big group of people. OK. The reason why I wouldn't recommend searching
out for an old money type, it is because you are not from old money yourself. If you are. Go for it. But if you're not, then it can become complicated. You see old money types they like to oftentimes
marry within their own circle, marry within their own kinds. Parents to old money men will often times
be very strict with the woman that the man brings into the house It is often hard to marry
into old money family. Old money means when somebody has a generation of wealth for about
five generations. If the generation of wealth is younger, it's
usually called family money. So actually this can apply in both groups If you're just a regular girl it will be difficult
to be welcomed by a blue collar family. Also, I know that old money is somehow a little
bit more prestige somehow in our society. After all they were the first ones who acquired
wealth. However, this doesn't mean that they're better
or actually more beneficial to a woman in any way. On the contrary, old money are really well
known for being stingy and then the often case is even cash poor. They might have a lot of wealth but that is
often times tied in property or investment. Not so much money to spend and especially
not spending on a woman. If you think that you will be lavishly taking
care of an old money man, I would say Honestly, I don't think so! You should really go and find somebody else. Number two. Party playboys. Just go to Monaco Grand Prix or why not Cannes Film Festival or Abu Dhabi Grand Prix. They're all there and you should really stay
away from them. Now of course the party playboys they're
not only in these type of events They are everywhere to be quite fair with you. You can easily spot them in any local nightclub
you can easily spot them in the jetset circuit. I've actually made a video on the topic of
jetset circuit. So if you want to have a look at that one
it will be linked in the description box. I guess you won't be surprised with the message
of why party playboys are such a waste of time Because they're not serious. You are not going to be a wife to a party
playboy. They don't really settle. They don't really get married and if they
do get married and if they do get a girlfriend the cheating rates are very high. I'm talking about a 99 percent cheating rate. I've been there, done that, seen it, heard it,
everything. Ladies. This one I can reassure you. Leave a comment below if you agree with me. The problem is that these party playboys They still have plenty of women around them. Sometimes it makes me wonder is it because
women are stupid. Or is it because these party playboys have
such a strong game on. And the truth is, they do. They're very flirtatious. They're very like you know Casanovas and especially if they're good looking, young and rich, then it's like win, win, win in a woman's
eyes. She will fall for him. She might know it's not a great idea but somehow
she will be in denial and tell herself that oh no, but this one is different. No no no no no no! They're not different! They're all the same. And they are not worth your time. Save yourself a headache. Do not go and search for your future husband
in a nightclub. Do not go and think that you will meet Mr.
Right at the Cannes Film Festival. There are of course exceptions but they are
not the rule. You will be wasting your time. Go to these places. If you are just there to have fun with your
girlfriends, not to look for Mr. Right. Number three. Men who are from a different
religion. Oh that was controversial. Now hold your horses before you jump to any
conclusions. I'm not talking about the religious cannot
mix. Of course they can mix. I used to date men from all kinds of religions. That was never a problem for me. However, there are men who are a little bit
more religious than others. There are men who are less open minded than
others. There are men who are more traditional than
others. Those are the men you should stay away from. If you are not matching religion wise Problem with men who want to follow their
own religious tradition is that either you have to convert for them or it doesn't matter
if you even would want to convert. They want to be with their own kind. There is just like no negotiation about that
and usually that comes from family pressure quite a lot. Why this has a relation to the affluent
societies, because traditions tend to be more and more important with the rich. If they come from money. If they have you know strict affluent parents
then they will want to be with their own kind and religion then plays a big role. Luckily, there is a lot of religious people
who are not very strict whether they marry a person from their own faith. Which is great. I personally wish people could mix more but
it is how it is So make sure if you find someone who is from a different religion then you are, Try to really start investigating early on in the relationship. How they are in relation to your own religion. These men might perhaps want to have some
temporarily fun with you but going down the road they're not going to be marrying you. Look at Charlotte and Sex and the city. You know her story. Number four. Narcissistic men. Where do I even start with this particular
type. Sadly enough ladies they're everywhere not
only in society but especially in high society. That's because narcissistic people they have
this kind of grandiose view of themselves They oftentimes power hungry, their emotional
disconnected, so they lack empathy meaning that they can really climb mountains but they're
also a very toxic kind And the kind that you must stay away from. Sadly it's like said that 70 percent of all
narcissist people are actually men. That is scary. That means that women will be higher chance
of being victim to a narcissist. 1 percent of the population are narcissists. Now they're not dangerous or anything but
they're just emotionally damaging to a woman. And it's kind of their way or no way. You will always be suffering with a narcissist
he will say one thing he will do another. He will just do what pleases him because it's
all about him. It's not about you. He might give you some temporary attention
which is why a lot of women become addicted to a narcissist. He does the hot-cold hot-cold type of formula
that really triggers people to become extremely infatuated and hooked to a person but being
hooked to somebody doesn't necessarily mean it's healthy. Our relationship with the narcissist
is always unhealthy. That's why you really have to stay away from
them. Number five. The last one. Workaholic businessmen
or just workaholics in general. Of course I had to bring up this kind because
a rich man means that he works a lot. There is actually a very high chance of this
rich man that you're after This kind of archetype. He won't have much time for you. He might be very obsessed with his work Work might be the number one thing in his life no matter how much he's into you. Work will always be number one. Now the question to you is, do you want to
be with such a man? Or do you want to be with a man who actually takes time for you, gives
you the love, attention and care that you need as a partner in the relationship? Workaholic
person is not in balance and they will become a dysfunctional relationship. This person is always stressed, he's always
on his phone. You will probably have to just sit there and wait for him to be done. Not a fun experience to be with. I have a very good example to share with you. I was in the relationship once with someone
who I went travelling with quite a lot. He also happened to own a yacht so we spent
quite a lot of time on his yacht on tropical locations, really picture-perfect dream locations and I remember being there with him and thinking to myself that we haven't really spoken much
during this trip. He hasn't really said much to me. He's all the time of his phone even though
we're on the vacation I'm in this fantasy world in the way Millions of girls would kind
of die to be where I am right now. But I'm not enjoying myself. I'm not having a good time because I'm not
getting any form of love or attention or any of my needs met while being here with him. Well OK. I get one needs met the fact that I'm on this
beautiful vacation but for me personally I always need more from a man. I need the real deal. I need romance. I need love. I need to feel like I'm loved and cared for. And since then I've always seeks out men who
I know are not too obsessive about theirwork. They know how to switch off, they do switch
off and they actually state present when they are with you. Now I've covered all the types that I wanted to share with you. Make sure you watch my next video because I have plenty of videos on dating rich men. And don't forget to visit School of Affluence as well.
