Am I a gold digger? And do I teach women
to become gold diggers? Well, ladies, today, you're going to finally find out
because I am spilling the juiciness in today's video. I am going to answer some of your
assumptions and misconceptions about School of Affluence. Let's find out what they are. My dear elegant ladies, welcome back to another video.
Ladies, a while ago, I asked you on my Instagram and
if you don't follow me there yet, make sure to visit @schoolofaffluence. I asked the question, what
was your assumptions about me, about School of Affluence
before you got to know my work and my platforms? It was actually quite interesting to see
because there were some that were repeatedly mentioned. So that actually motivated me to create
a video and answer them once and for all. And maybe get a bit of understanding
where things are coming from. Actually for this one, I don't even have to check my
phone to see what people thought, but let's start with the first one.
Now the question is, is School of Affluence a
school for gold diggers or not? And I guess this one is probably
one of the most common ones. So usually what happens when
we have certain assumptions is that actually that's more
a projection of our own self rather than has anything
to do with the other person. I think people who link School of Affluence
with school of gold diggers is because they have certain
stereotypes that they act upon. So this has nothing to really do with me, but unfortunate how our society is built. If a woman sets boundaries
in dating, with finances, then she is a gold digger.
If a woman wants to marry up, if a woman wants to do better for herself,
if a woman wants to elevate herself, then she is a gold digger. I mean, today we have to walk on this
massive mind field to not be gold diggers. It's like, if I do this
and I'm a gold digger. If I do that, then I'm a gold digger. So I think some people who are not
very educated and very stuck in stereotypical views, and perhaps don't
expand their mind to certain thinking, yes, most likely they will think that
this is a school for gold diggers. It's a very narrow way of
looking at things, unfortunately. But I am very lucky that I'm still able
to reach so many people worldwide who sees that this is not a
school for gold digger, who actually sees my program
and my YouTube channel and my work for what it actually is. I'm here to empower women and
I'm here to help women with their transformation, which is both
a physical transformation, a mental transformation
and inner transformation, but also lifestyle transformation. And it's really wonderful that I do
have this great opportunity to change people's lives and actually
empower women for the better. So I don't really see how that can
be gold digging. Anyway, moving on. So the next one actually
is a little bit the same, so I'm not to spend too much time on
this one, but a school for sugar babies. I mean, what can I say? The answer will be pretty much
the same as with the previous one. I don't know why sugar babies though, in particularly because I've never really
made any content about sugar babies. But no, it's not a school
for sugar babies either. I think my type of content is really
applicable for anybody regardless of what they do with their life. And definitely not only women who are
interested in high society or elegance. I think a lot of the things that I teach, I always take into all
kinds of women worldwide. So even though my niche is
more of elegance and affluence, it's not only cut for
that specific audience. We have a lot of Russian
here, a lot of Russian. So I guess a lot of people
do think that I'm Russian. So let's clear out my heritage since
it seems to be quite important for a lot of people. Now, my heritage is yes,
I do have Russian in my heritage. So to give you the full spectrum, my mother is from Estonia
with Russian background. Since Estonia is an ex soviet
country, so then my father, he is from Finland and
I myself grew up in Sweden. So this kind of complicates things
a bit because I am a bit of a mix. However, I look quite Russian because I look
very much like my mother and she is technically Russian. So that's why people oftentimes jump
to conclusions that I am Russian. But the thing is that
I've never been to Russia. So it feels hard for me to
associate myself with the Russian, even though I personally wouldn't
mind because I do think it's a very exciting and rich culture. If you ladies remember my blog
Jetsetbabe, which doesn't exist anymore, I used to repost a lot of Eastern
European women because they really do fascinate me. I love their style.
I love their femininity. And they're also very good
with setting boundaries. If you have to define me as something
and I guess I would be Swedish because it's my passport,
I've always lived in Sweden. So I was raised in a Swedish culture.
Swedish is my first language. I speak it perfectly. I certainly
feel quite international. So I call myself a citizen of the world. Ladies, sorry for interrupting you.
But I have a big announcement. As you know, I am going to discontinue
my current program, The Seven Step Formula To High Society. And we are closing the doors to
the program in exactly 48 hours. So if you are still interested in
purchasing this program that will get discontinued, go to www.SchoolOfAffluence.com and join us today. Saturday at midnight,
we are closing the doors. Okay, let's do the next one. And
this one also came up quite a lot. And this one is a little
bit annoying, I must say. I'm going to explain
why I find it annoying. So the fact that I'm a dating coach, the fact that I'm a billionaire
matchmaker, honestly, these taglines are becoming so
tiring because I wonder sometimes how journalism works. And really I'm not throwing any shade at
journalists because I do appreciate the fact that I've received a lot of
publicity and a lot of journalists like to write about me. So thank you for that.
I do appreciate the attention. However, I also appreciate when people
get the facts straight. And I do know that journalists
like to write whatever fits their boat, whatever
fits their agenda. And they're very much aware that
I'm not a billionaire matchmaker, but it sells more if that's
what they write about me. It creates juicier taglines. I get it, but it's almost becomes a little bit frustrating
because people really get confused. They think I am a matchmaker. So they're contacting me and asking me
to set them up with people. You know, how many messages like that
I receive on a regular basis? So that's why I'm now trying to
really explain in my channels that I'm not a matchmaker. Please, ladies do not contact me if you
want to be matched up with somebody. And I'm also not a dating coach. So that's something else
that they keep writing about. The fact that I teach women
how to get a rich man, I guess that also sells and
creates headlines. However, I'm not a dating coach because
I don't specialize in dating advice. I specialize in lifestyle advice
and helping women upgrade their lifestyle primarily. Then of course, dating falls in under
the bracket of lifestyle. So I also do touch upon that subject. So when it comes to the rich man topic, I've been very straightforward about
the fact that I talk about high society. I talk about affluence and obviously, affluent men are going to
fall under that spectrum. But I do still think that what is
really more important sometimes, it's not really how
much money the man has. It's actually what quality he
possesses because there's a lot of affluent men out there who
are really low quality men. And I wouldn't want my ladies to be
associated with that type of man. So I am talking more these days
about dating high quality men. Because ultimately that's
what I believe in. However, we do like to have a man who is
financially stable and affluent, and that I'm never going to lie
about. So let's see here, snob, think that I'm better than other people. Well wait, I think we have a
few more actually. So we have... We have arrogant, judgemental. I kind of think that we should actually
group these together because they're all kind of fall under the same bracket.
I think a lot of the times, like I mentioned, a lot of people project their
own things about when they hear certain topics or certain words, or see someone look a particular way.
I think that if you get to know me, you really know that I'm
none of these things. Last one and yes, this one, of course
this one had so joined the conversation, anti-feminist. I guess because I have certain conversations
that are important to me and that I'm very passionate about. And also because we live in a climate
where certain feminism has been imposed on us. And I am here as this person
who is questioning it. So people assume that
I'm an anti feminist. When in every conversation that I make, I really made clear that actually
I'm a traditional feminist. I'm not even going to try to validate
myself how much of a feminist I am. I really don't have energy with that
or think that it matters, honestly. Because if you are somebody and you
still don't get the message that I'm actually here to empower women, support women and help women, and
I see this as probably my biggest mission in life, then I can't
do more than that. I'm sorry. Then I'm out of here.
No, but really ladies, anti-feminist is probably like a
very bizarre thing to say about me, to tell you the truth. But if people want to think of stereotypes, then I guess that is up to
each and every individual. I do think that one of the things
that we can learn from some of these assumptions is that it's definitely good
to try and widen your horizons a little bit and not to maybe jump to
conclusions very fast. Now, ladies, if you want to get to know me better,
there is a video that I did called, Get To Know Me where I answer some of your questions
so that you can get to know me. I will see you in that video.
