People who had pp encounters with a teacher, what happened? - (r/AskReddit)

our slash asked reddit serious students of reddit who had a sexual relationship with a teacher how did it start and how did it turn out I slept with one of my professors in college at the time I was 19 or 20 and she was in her mid 30s I went to see her during her office hours we talked for a few minutes and when I went to leave she gave me a long hug and told me you give really nice hugs as she held onto my arms I asked for her number and went on my way we exchanged a few flirty text message over the next few days before she invited me over to her apartment to help her hook up a new TV she had bought we ended up sleeping together about 10 times before she moved away to take a new job at a different school it started innocently enough she was my chorus teacher fresh out of college and only six years older than me my brother waa actually dating her friend from high school I used to cut class and say L had a music lesson and we just hang in the music room talk about books music movies then she started complaining about her relationship a lot needing hugs which I was more than happy to help with it eventually turned to making out and we finally started hooking up when she gave me rides home after school I honestly felt like L found a million dollars but couldn't tell anybody about it it was weird then she got weird asking for her hugs in front of the entire class I knew everyone knew I started riding home with my friends again then she started just showing up at my house had a very awkward convoluted on but was so impressed he just kept saying damn she's pretty Kirsten hadn't been invented back then but L did the best L could eventually she chilled out a few months later L stopped by her room during our normal hang sesh time and she apologized told me she was just going through a lot with her shitty boyfriend and needed some attention from someone that actually liked her we didn't talk much after that l graduated soon after but we're friends on Facebook and she actually married a decent guy and has a nice family I'm very relieved we were never found out it would have been devastating to both offer had a crush on one of my grad school teachers for a year and a half I was into everything about her looks brain everything I ended up teaching the same subject many years later and I still use the notes and materials from her classes with my own students she was engaged to someone else so I never even thought about anything ever happening it was a nice fantasy then out of the blue she calls my cell phone and tells me that she's thinking of getting into yoga and knows that I am into yoga so would I get a drink with her and tell her more I was not exactly experienced with hookups and I actually took her at her word I went expecting to talk about yoga and go home afterwards we ended up getting totally wasted making out in the middle of a bar and then I walked her home where I kept saying I'm sorry and this definitely isn't happening and I'll just get you to your door and go home it did happen but the joke was on her she got a few seconds of the worst sex of her life and then got to listen to me in the bathroom for a while the next day she found me in the hallway and told me that it was a huge mistake and asked me not to tell anyone nobody would believe me anyway so I agreed I can honestly say I wish the entire thing had never happened she got married and moved on with her life I ended up having to take her husband's class before I could graduate my 8th grade teacher this was during the 80s before all the scandals when no one really cared if a female teacher was spending a lot of time alone with one of her students I was 14 she was mid forties and a family friend who had known me since I was a little kid she asked me to volunteer for a school activity that had a spending time together after class and occasionally off-campus my mom knew her so wasn't bothered I was spending so much time with her she had always teased and playfully touched me as a kid when we were alone after class she started touching me more and flirting and talking about intimate things like her divorce and asking me if I had a girlfriend yet she escalated the intimacy through the year pushing boundaries a little more each time we started having sex that summer it went on for about three months she ended at once went to high school my family moved out of state after my freshman year I had a long talk with her before leaving and we parted on good terms I never spoke to her again but heard she eventually remarried and became vice principal at another school she died a few years ago I'm almost 50 and still think about her quite often my religious studies college professor she was hilarious and brilliant and always brought her interests up in class and they usually aligned with mine it started off with what felt like on topic to class discussions then into more friendly casual conversations about books and movies then they definitely transitioned into flirting which was weird because I'm also female and had never had feelings for another girl so I thought it could just be some weird fantasy in my head and I was just making something out of nothing anyways fast-forward semester ends I'm out of her class I submit my final at noon by 1 p.m. she emails me my final grade and says I'm all done submitting your grades so you're officially no longer my student Congrats on passing the class and good luck so I sent back an email with a song attached and then the emailing went on from there before we officially hung out which led to sex which led to a three-year relationship we moved in together for about a year but it ultimately didn't work out cause we wanted different things long term but we ended on good terms and I'm grateful for the relationship now 5 years out as it helped me realize what I want in a partner I now have an amazing boyfriend and I heard she recently got married to a woman she started dating after me edit thanks for the love guys I'm glad my story made some people smile and for everyone asking about her teaching religious studies I'd just like to clear up that my major was in religious studies from an analytical perspective by studied cults specifically all of the Religious Studies classes at my university were purely academic for people who found religion interesting but didn't necessarily have to practice she was teaching an introductory course on the philosophy of religious studies she herself was not religious or affiliated with a religion or new religious movement I guess I technically had a sexual relationship with a teacher she was the lab tape of my invertebrate zoology lab and refused to do anything with me until after the class after classes we partied and hooked up quite a lot after a year of us still being together other TAS started dating undergrads six seven years later we're married and have a kid together edit because someone had to point out that I missed an apostrophe edit too my wife says it's seven years what does she know I fell in love with the workshop supervisor at my university that guides the workshop that I need for my education she is about a year older than I am I am doing some small arts and crafts and leatherworking she was interested in getting something and she bought something custom I can't remember how it started out but for some reason or another we had some drinks which ended in a night spent together and a sexual relationship we discovered an attraction to each other she went to the faculty director with the situation and explained it since she cannot give marks on my work and is only a guide in the eyes of the University they approved off the relationship - that was about three years ago we are still together as I am finishing my education the relationship moved on from the sexual flirt which it all started with - something deep we live together for two years now and she helps me something with running the two companies that I set up aside my study when I finish my education next year I will even propose to her small at it I just want to clarify that at the start of this relation we well pasted the 18 years old mark I went to a vocational high school and attended the culinary program for three years the baking instructor / pastry chef was 7 years older than me and we grew up in the same small town when I turned 18 and he left for another profession we went on a few dates and had sex a couple times we weren't a good fit together and ended on amicable terms pretty uneventful there was a super hot student teacher that was at our school so he was only like twenty two stroke 23 maybe does that count I was 17 and it was at our graduation dinner when we had snuck a bottle of passion pappan so we were pretty tipsy I told him I always thought he was hot and before I knew it his hands were down my parents we still had about three weeks to go before we left school so spent the next week ducking around the school and nearly getting caught a bunch of times it was pretty ducking hot tbh and I still think about him from time to time happened to me when I was in seventh grade she was my conversations teacher tbh she was my first crush which started when I was in fourth grade she knew my parents so sometimes I had to stay with her when they were late to pick me up from school it happened two months before finals she told me that she wanted to kiss me and if I was okay with this I changed my school and she left town some years later the dilemmas although I remember time spent with her very fondly I wouldn't want any other kid to be in the situation as I was in when I was 19 I dated a professor at my university for a few months I wasn't his student but he taught some of my friends we met randomly at a club and I had no idea he was a professor at my uni until a few days later when we started texting he was really hot he had dark hair and bright blue eyes and told me that his female students would flirt with him in office hours he was 33 so very young for a profit but pretty old for me at the time it was fun for a bit he was not happy when we realized he taught some of my friends the day we realized he taught my friends was when I was at his apartment a couple weeks after meeting and I asked to see some of his class materials he thought it would be interesting if I could tell the difference between a BS essay and a great essay even if I wasn't familiar with the subject so I started reading and realized the BS essay with the failing grade had my friend's name at the top he was very upset because apparently it's some sort of privacy violation that I was looking at her failed assignment but I thought it was sexy that he thought my friend's essay sucked really played up his position of power in my mind so I actually didn't know she was my teacher she was maybe 23 24 and I just turned 17 I was in California during summer vacation went to Disneyland California Adventure all the fun stuff met her while in line for Winnie the Pooh ride none of my friends wanted to go with me we had fun hit it off and eventually go to her hotel room spent the weekend meeting up and hanging out and then we parted ways first day of the new semester comes around and I see her in the classroom and I'm excited I didn't know she went to this school and so I went in and sat down and she goes up to the front of the room and introduced herself to everyone than we do that Oh get to know each other thing and what we did over summer got to me her face turned purple like she couldn't breathe I'm not a student anymore it happened in the 90s when I was probably eight or nine hero M and went on for more than a year doubt it started with making me sit on his size often and I could feel his erection I never knew what to think of it as I never got any training or attention from parents about situations of sexual abuse it went on from there after 22 years of being a biologically straight guy I still remember what the dirty stinking penis tasted like the experience gave me depression and anxiety and inability to trust a relationship and get freaked out when I see a kid sitting on any man's lap I woke up after a night full of bad dreams feeling sick in my stomach forgive me if I don't respond any further and thanks immensely for your kind words and incredible support it's important to protect and keep every child away from such negative forces cuz we remember Flo you made it to the end you're ducking beasts I'll cut you a deal smash like and subscribe for more curated content brug it's free and that's a great price

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Length: 12min 44sec (764 seconds)

Published: Mon Apr 20 2020