Parents, What's the Worst Thing Your Child Has Done?

parents have read it what is something your child has done that you can never forgive them for this is my second one my grandmother gave me her coin collection before she died every silver dollar half quarter dime nickel and penny form every year since 1885 also most mints as well every silver certificate every bill everything except 50s and 100s this was her masterpiece and her pride and joy my stepson took the entire collection and spent it at face value took it from a safe box that i never open i only found out it was him because i went through his room and when i picked up his shorts he obviously had a ton of coins in the pocket reached in pocket was full of just pennies at closer look of course there were steel pennies wheat pennies etc my grandmother never forgave my aunt for faking a miscarriage for attention after my mother revealed she was pregnant with me both my aunt and mother are mentally unstable my grandmother told me this about a month before she died she also said i was the daughter she never had and to never trust either of them before then she had never spoken an unkind word about anyone that i can remember so needless to say it has stuck with me and i'm now estranged from my family i have an old friend who pulled crap like this for a long time she faked a miscarriage and then married a guy she wasn't really into because she just wanted to have a wedding i've never really gotten into it with her about it but i wonder if she's ever really given much consideration to how badly she's hurt people with these stunts this story is kind of the opposite of the question my mother forgave me for something i never thought she would this was a few years ago i had lost my job and was going broke quickly i needed money for rent and bills and i really had nowhere to turn one day i just panicked and committed an armed robbery to get a few bucks i figured that if i wasn't caught immediately i would get away with it five days later the police are at my door they take me to the station and charge me with robbery i deny everything but all i could think of was that the next few years would be in prison i had only spent five days in jail previously for a dui to this event when they booked me finally they told me i could make one phone call the only number i knew was my mother's it's been the same since i was a kid i turned the call down i was too embarrassed a few days later i had to go to medical for a physical the nurse asks if anyone knows i'm in jail i don't know why i told her but i mentioned that i chickened out of calling my mom she points to her phone in the office and tells her i can call her now i just remember the phone ringing and hoping to god she wasn't home but she was i expected her to disown me but she just seemed more concerned about my safety and if i needed anything she said she would be proud of me no matter what i did the next day the jail tells me i have a visitor i walk in and there is my mom she starts crying and just smiles she tells me that she's happy to see me and that she put 100 on my books so i can buy some supplies because she knows no one else would do it for me my mother visited me once a month for two years i received cards weekly and even when i told her to stop sending money i would get a random fifty dollars i guess the point is she never gave up on me my mother and i talk all the time more than before i still get cards about once a month with a note inside reminding me how proud she is of me dude made me cry i love your mom i used to work in forensic psychiatry with adults who had been declared not criminally responsible for a crime many of them had murdered someone often a family member not all of their parents visited but a surprisingly high number did when you murder your stepfather and your mom still visits you in hospital that says to me that parents will forgive dang near anything to be fair it's probably easier to stomach their kid killing someone because they're nuts as opposed to doing it in cold blood my sister escaped a controlling abusive marriage when i was 12. she had nothing but her six-month-old son when she moved back into my parents home i spent the next 15 years very active in raising that child was basically another parent when he was a teenager he helped his father blindside my sister with a lawsuit suing for custody her ex tried this every other year or so just to haul her into court and force her to have to deal with him but they never went anywhere before this he was old enough that his wishes would be considered and she didn't have the dollar sign to fight keep in mind that my nephew had never made any mention of wanting to live with his dad so that little crap sat in court and spewed out the most hurtful lies about my sister she was a single mom and had her share of problems but she worked her butt off and the whole family chipped in to make sure his life was the best we could all provide after hearing that kid tell a judge about my sister parading men through the house and leaving him alone for days while she was out whoring i saw my sister completely give up on her son but now he's in his 20s and lives in his dad's basement i understand that he is another victim of his father's psycho control but when he said those things about my sister and i saw her heartbreak like that i was done too this crap makes me so sad for your sister and your family i want to cook you guys dinner when i was a kid i was playing outside and took a rock from the driveway and carved i love you mom in huge letters across the side of my mom's brand new camaro she cried to her dad because she didn't know what she should do how could she punish me for saying i love her my mom usually explodes when she wants to but this one time she had to keep it all in she still says she wants to beat my butt because of that finally one that i can laugh about the rest of these are killing me i'm not a parent but i know my mom will never forgive my sister when my grandmother died she left each one of us have a wedding set my sister being the oldest chose my grandmother's and i got my great-grandmother's which was a 2.5 ct diamond hers was one ct anyways my sister brought some friends over and raided my parents house she collects insurance payments so she has cash it was hidden in my room so they went through everything she pawned her wedding set and stole mine along with a ring that was my grandfather's and my tennis bracelet my father gave to my mother on their wedding day mum gave it to me when i got engaged the pendant meant the world to my mom as my grandmother used to tell stories of her mother to my mother when she was younger my mom and grandmother were very close and a lot of my mom's jewelry was my grandmother's my sister laughed about it she didn't care and still doesn't she's also called the police on my dad for hitting her and threatening her with a gun and also for slapping around her son none of that being true she's a bee she's not only a bee she is a criminal you could have actually had her arrested for theft if you wanted i'm really sorry you're related to such a terrible human being i would be devastated if someone stole such sentimental items and then had the balls to laugh about it as the child i know she'll never forgive me for choosing my dad over her she's diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder aka psychopath and it became unbearable to live with her to the point where i wanted to kill myself she knows this all but doesn't accept it she'd rather have a dead loyal son than a living son that betrayed her this just scares me no matter how hard you try how much you love your child the values you try to teach them some kids come out rotten and there is nothing you can do about it not a parent but my mom told me she would never forgive me for selling a coin collection we worked on together when i was younger i was in the middle of a drug addiction and would have sold anything for money i feel terrible about it still dang i hope you kicked your drug addiction and things are better between your mum well this will be an interesting one for the record i am the sun in question i remember the day when i told my mother that my 17 year old girlfriend was pregnant something changed in my mother and it definitely was not for the better i knew i had fricked up but didn't truly understand the struggle like my mother did you see my mother had me when she was 17 also she had scholarships to go to art school and potentially make something of herself she ended up taking care of me instead i remember my mother looking at me and saying you are stupid if you choose to take care of that child we got into a fight over it i felt that since i was the dumbass that got my girlfriend knocked up i should be the one to take care of it i had computer repair skills and a knack for working hard finding work wouldn't be that hard would it fast forward a few years and i can understand just exactly what she meant please note i do love my children every single day and wouldn't trade them for anything i spent those years watching as all my friends grow further away from me most got distant and didn't want to talk to a guy who had two jobs and a kid i was a buzzkill for most of them i struggled and pushed through everything that i had to take care of her i honestly wasn't sure if i was going to make it for a while two jobs making minimum wage isn't enough to afford daycare and a one-bedroom apartment here in iowa i feel i lost a portion of my sanity through those times i spent most of it wondering what life would be like if i gave her up for adoption and had done what my mother suggested would i be happier i would have graduated and have a job making significantly more money than i do now i did eventually prosper but my mother and i have never been the same she lost custody of me when she was younger because she couldn't keep up she was definitely proud of me when i received my degree and got a real job it took six years to do what would have taken two i still did it though my mother was never going to forgive me for putting myself through exactly what she went through i proved her wrong nonetheless just because you are destined to fail doesn't mean you will i have a second beautiful daughter and a wonderful girlfriend whom i plan on marrying next year not my child but this is about my younger brother he's an alcoholic and has been for the past 15 years he's only 32 anyways when he drinks he's a completely different person i'm not talking about a sloppy drunk bit more like a possessed demon filled with absolute hate he never finished high school and barely got his get hasn't worked in the past few years our mom supports him financially carr paid for apartment paid for spending money provided to him basically she's an enabler and he's a manipulator his drinking is so out of control i've had to cut him out of my life it's sad because he has a nephew who constantly asks for him and i just have to tell my son uncle drunk has moved far away my brother has never made an honest attempt at sobering up in fact he's full of excuses i can't have that in my life for my family's life anymore and for that reason i've completely cut all ties with him i can never forgive him for putting alcohol ahead of family uncle drunk i too have a drunkal richard my best friend was disowned by his parents for coming out as transgender i'm not a parent but i think the only thing that would cause me to cut my kids off like that would be a serious crime like murder right there with you whatever makes you happy do it i'm pretty sure my mother has not forgiven my 41 year old brother for something that happened when he was four allowed 13 seconds to himself in the bathroom he managed to parker off the toilets to snag a bottle of flintstones vitamins from a very high shelf and quickly gobble the entire contents the flintstones vitamins had already become a bone of serious contention between my mom and brother other parents will be familiar with the rainman like fixation kids can have to stuff they like as well as their complete inability to grasp the concept of moderation as a parent they push you to points where you regret ever introducing them to any external stimuli in the world because you find yourself stuck in these groundhog day loops that eat your soul but seemingly have no impact on their spazz seven chimp minds so my brother's dream of unfettered flintstones consumption comes true and my mom worried for him but also kind of seething at his idiotic victory in the flintstones battle if there can be only one eating per day takes him to the emergency room my brother ended up being fine skip to a few days later child protective services shows up for a surprise home visit i suppose to determine if there was some kind of munchausen by flintstones thing going on with my mom the confusion and anxiety response in my mom quickly transitioned to self-righteous humiliation my mom being martyred is as scary as when other people turn into screaming lunatics she's someone who genuinely if sometimes unnecessarily self-sacrifices quite a bit for her family especially her children pretty sure she willed cps out of the house through the sheer power of her mom guilt mind bullets i still sometimes egg her on to tell the story just cause of how worked up she gets at my brother lord how he pestered me about those flintstone vitamins every day with those dejan flintstone vitamins and to lesser extent the cps folks with the haughty tone and questioning eyebrows a highlander reference and munchausen by flintsense that was great my eldest stepson then 15 years old stole my car in the middle of the night while drunk and took his friends joyriding they wrote the car off i have no idea how they managed it and dumped it before running off my eldest was spotted and the police caught him they brought him home to this at 0-6-3-0 on the morning of my birthday to give us the news i found the car in the middle of a housing estate with several dents and scrapes on the body work no brakes left no clutch half the gee box casing missing and two flat tyres the engine still ran but only just volkswagen luckily no one was injured during this night of madness i had just finished paying of the loan for the car it took four years of hard work to do that i threw him out this was the final straw in a long list of wild behavior over the previous three years i couldn't take any more his mother didn't agree with my handling of the situation and a year later we split up over it i won't be going down that road again i'm not a parent but i did something that my mother will never forgive me for before i begin you need to know some information about my mom my mom is catholic she's been going to church every sunday since she was five she believes that a man and a woman shouldn't have sex until after marriage me and my high school girlfriend were hanging out after school at my house as usual things started getting hot and heavy and we started making out clothes were coming off and at the time i finally thought i was going to lose my virginity i had been with this girl for three years and i had never gotten a bj or had sex with her i had seen her naked and fondled her breasts but that's as far as we had gone mid make out my girlfriend just stops and asks me if i wanted a bj obviously i said yes i was finally getting my dong sucked and it felt great i was loving every moment of it until my mom walked in instead of knocking on my room door like she usually did before entering she just opened the door i don't know what a mother's reaction should be in this type of situation but she started yelling at my girlfriend when i say yelling i mean i heard her say words that i never heard her say before she called my girlfriend a w and said that god would dang us both to heck for our act of sin my girlfriend at this point is in tears and she's scrambling to get on her clothes and pretty sure she left my house without her bra because she was in such a panic my mom didn't speak to me for a month after that she didn't ask me how my day was at school she didn't speak to me during dinner and she didn't even ask me to go to church on sunday with her anymore she used to go every sunday but i always said no that's the angriest i have ever seen my mom and we have never spoken about it when she finally did talk to me she said if i wanted her to ever speak with me again that i had to go to confession and confess my sins i told her i would go but i ended up going to her denny's and ordering their lumberjack grand slam instead she thinks i went to confession though also every time my girlfriend came over after the incident my mom would leave the house i don't know where she went but she couldn't be in the same vicinity as a worst part of it all was my girlfriend didn't attempt to give me another bj for a year because she was so scared of my mother walking in on us tl dr my mom walked in on my girlfriend giving me my first bj told me that i was going to heck for my sins and we have never spoken about it since this one's about my sister not my kid but it's something that i'm not sure my mother's ever forgiven her for my sister was never the perfect daughter she generally did poorly in school got into fights joined a gang a pretty tame one though and did some soft drugs mostly weed and eggs she's snuck boyfriends over to the house and had sex with them in my room as well as my brother's room she stolen money from my younger brother nine years difference between my sister and brother and run away from home despite all that i still love her but the one thing i can never forgive her for is when she abandoned her daughter she and her husband had just split up and were in the middle of a divorce she was cheating on him with a kid from another state seriously the guy was a kid something like a 12-year difference between him and her her husband found out and hit her pretty nasty stuff all around my sister moved into my parents place with her daughter a couple weeks later my sister and my mom get into a major fight and my sister storms out and drives to her boyfriend's place while she's packing her bags my niece is grabbing at her screaming don't leave me mommy crying and apologizing begging her not to go begging her not to leave her alone my niece keeps crying i love you mommy i want to stay with you my sister shakes her off and just leaves eventually she came back in order to get partial custody but those cries will haunt me forever even if both my parents and her daughter have forgiven her i never will son took my 74 men conditioned stratocaster and by mint i mean not a single solitary floor apart while experimenting with lsd and lost most of the pieces i found it months after he did it mind you i didn't check up on him much because he was a straight a student who did everything he was ever told never spoke back never really did anything wrong had no idea he was getting high or experimenting with anything found the guitar wrapped in a blanket under his bed everything was missing except the neck and the body i cried my first nice guitar i quit playing it 20 years ago because it was actually going up in value i didn't speak to him for a month he was 16. i felt so violated and couldn't do anything about it he had no clue where the parts were on the bright side the body and neck are the most valuable parts of that guitar the rest of the hardware can be replaced i wouldn't be too concerned about its value though 70s strats aren't worth much more than brand new made in america strats after reading some of these responses my answer seems so trivial but we'll share it anyway i won't forgive my daughter for not wearing her retainer after her braces came off she had beautiful teeth afterwards but over time they have shifted i can see that orthodontics are stupid expensive kids don't understand the importance until they are older either my daughter turned 14 this year got her license and all she wanted a car real bad of course and i wasn't going to get one but we just happened to stumble on a decent vehicle for a ridiculous price heck just buying the thing for an extra vehicle was a no-brainer we planned on giving it to her for christmas this year big bao all that jazz however she's been a snoopy crap lately and one day decides to go through the mail finds the title the owner mailed us and receipt for storage yes i am getting a car that was a month ago still p off i'm not mad that she found out about whatever christmas present she was getting i'm mad cause this is just one of those landmark gifts i was getting really excited about seeing the look on her face pictures all that might sound stupid but that was going to be my christmas present to myself in a way she ruined my christmas morning two months ahead of schedule not my child but my aunt so from my grandparents perspective it's their child my grandfather had brought back some spoils of war from japan at the end of world war ii he was stationed there right around the surrender he got hold of a flag and some samurai swords and a few other smaller items they were likely worth a good amount now but they were more sentimental in value to my grandfather uncle and mother my aunt in her 30s at the time split up with her latest boyfriend and moved in with my grandparents with her small children because she was too lazy to work shortly after that all of the stuff disappeared she never admitted to taking them but seeing as there were lots of other valuables it's unlikely that someone broke in or anything she was the only one that would have had access to them during that time so she's the only one who could have taken them it's possible she had a guest that took them but still she's responsible even then it would have been hard for someone to take something like swords in the wall mount without noticing my grandparents never forgave her until the day they died i don't think my mom will ever forgive me for getting married and keeping it a secret from my entire family for nine months no i wasn't pregnant just a coincidence holy dang i have asian parents i would be booted from the family if i did this my mother always forgave my sister my mom passed away in june and after some more shenanigans my sister is finally cut out of the family for good some of the things she did told administrators at her school that my parents forced her to smoke pot on another occasion told her school administrators that my parents locked her in the closet and wouldn't feed her ran away from home at 17 and told the person she was living with that my mom and dad abused her in some awful ways when my mom went to go talk to her after finding out where she was the person she lived with took a knife to my mom's throat and threatened her life trying to protect my sister came back ran away from home again to live next door with a creepy older guy and her girlfriend and do drugs openly to pee off my family stole 2 500 from my grandma and 3 000 from my great-aunt my mom got sick cancer and my sister and her new girlfriend came to live with my parents my parents couldn't make bills and my mom needed someone to take care of her during the day so it worked out with my sister and girlfriend paying one stroke three of bills and my parents paying two stroke three my mother passed away and then my sister stole my mom's wedding ring that was left to me to have when i married took a bat and destroyed all of my dad's things didn't pay their part of the bills took my dad's money that he paid them to take care of the bills stole 500 out of my dad's bank account created an atnt account in my mom's name postmortem and never paid for it left my dad in the lurch and moved away and the real kicker that finally broke the camel's back was had my dad arrested for indecency with a child got my 11 year old nephew to exaggerate saying that my dad exposed himself to him when in reality my nephew is weird and likes to try to burst in on people and see them naked so he can say i saw you naked ha ha ha the charges were dropped last month i only hate one person well two my sister and her girlfriend and i will never ever forgive them this stuff is so scary for me to read i feel like i was extremely close to turning out like some of the kids mentioned if my parents didn't raise me as delicately as they did during a phase when i was extremely narcissistic and had not yet developed empathy i have no doubt that i would have done some terrible things strangely enough because of how much i despise the way i was before i feel like i have become even more conscious of others feelings than many other people around me i also can't help but feel some of the kids in this thread could have turned into some really kind people if not for some unfortunate environmental factors if you are new to the channel you can 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Length: 26min 11sec (1571 seconds)

Published: Tue Mar 23 2021