I spent a day with SUGAR BABIES (Sugar Daddies Exposed)

sugarbabyz a younger individual in a mutually beneficial relationship with the much wealthier and older benefactor known as a sugar mama or sugar daddy the most famous early examples of sugar babies were royal mistresses these women were financially supported by kings and emperors in exchange for casual romantic and often sexual relationships in the past ten years however the sugar baby community has exploded online with young adults making substantial incomes by sugar dating older wealthier men and women my name is Anthony Padilla and today I'm gonna be sitting down with sugar babies to find out the truth behind the sugar dating community in the 21st century are these sugar babies proud of their artificial relationships with their sugar daddies or do they live double lives hiding the shadows of society is sugaring a symbiotic agreement for lonely intime deficient wealthy adults to have a temporary partner or is it an illegal underground ring of prostitution run by sex addicted moguls looking to take advantage of America's wealth gap [Music] hey Marcus hi hi yes flora hello thank you so much for coming out and teach me about the wondrous world of being a sugar baby thank you for having me on yeah I'm excited what do you consider yourself a sugar baby someone who just makes very smart financial decisions a reliable companion a reliable companion I can share myself somebody that makes very smart financial a little bit I saved a lot of the money that was wired to me so you asked me to pixelate your face for this interview why is that well for my family for one and also probably safety purposes because he was kind of crazy maybe involved in the mob what how long have you been a sugar baby going on four years no June until May of this year I've been doing this for two years I had one sugar dad for a whole year and I came across these two sugar dads that are best friends Oh double the daddy the people that pay you for your services what do you call it oh I don't like to really call it sugar daddy you know I like to keep it up a little bit more on the professional side we sponsor a response Devon sir why specifically are you a sugar baby I was working at a dispensary here I'm stripping on the weekends and that's when I came across those two that I'm that I have right now and what was your role in this situation controlling his money who gets it bringing in products cutting products so it was a drug dealer no he was buying it can you run me through a typical day as a sugar baby so sober version of him we would just you know wake up go to breakfast go shopping spent a ton of money go have lunch do some more shopping done have dinner go to bed early waking up and do the same thing the next day and what was the non server version a lot of cocaine I would say three to five girls a day he would be with three to five girls a day yes a lot of room service always hotels then yes OS hotels what's the most extravagant thing you've ever received well he wired me seventeen thousand five hundred once I got upset with him and I was like I'm gonna leave I'm tired of you I don't want to deal with other girls drama and he was like okay what he wants and he's like 20,000 and I'm like you would never and he actually wired me a 17,500 Wow have you ever grown feelings for your sugar daddy I did actually I did I was in love with him which is why I tolerated him I thought that he would get sober he said I was the only person that could get him sober and that's why I was around and that's why I got all these things full of blah and then he's had some tragedies in his life so I definitely felt bad for him as soon as I started to get a connection you know then it's just like okay well like what could I do differently to not get that you know that's not what I'm looking for you're trying to prevent yourself from holding a connection with so yes yes of course if you want to keep it they're gonna get very professional you know because then if I sit there and I let them think that they could go and try to love me then that's when they start to lower down the race and it's like how do you know that's not the case you know because you want to get paid more money yes exactly and that's just how it works what are your parents think about your job as a sugar baby my mom thinks it's scary she does get worried she calls me all the time okay everything all right I have really amazing parents you know they're very supportive you know and all they all they ask of me is that I stay safe you know why do you think people assume sugar babies are just practicing a legal form of prostitution being assured maybe you don't always have to do sexual performances you know they're not there are some people that are just creeps that'll like to freaking sit there and just stare at you all they'll have a dinner you know I don't know why they would because if you're sleeping with the same person for months or years or whatever and you're getting paid for it I mean a prostitute is someone that's on the street right and they'll just anybody for any money so sugar baby I would feel like it's different and I would never call one a prostitute the difference is that they don't pay you in just money and I feel like prostitution like you just you can leave and money in there you're gone right one-time thing mm-hmm and with this like you're actually building a relationship with somebody you're getting to know them they're getting to know you and there's more than just money involved so prostitution is basically freelance work and sugar babies are basically employed salaried employees yes is there a safety word well sugaring or do you just kind of have to say yes to everything no I'm definitely there their safety word is called no it's called no there's no safe word but you are able to say no like if like the other day he wanted to try I've never done anything I was like no we're not doing that putting your foot down like cause any Easter a little bit he kind of he bought me a cheaper car than expected how many sugar daddies can you have it once oh well right now I have two yeah I feel like if I really tried I can probably squeeze in like five more just one a day forever always don't get any ideas do you mind saying how much you typically charge obviously it's no less than three dollars you know six hundred dollars for one night either be at dinner you know or if you were going back to your place that's double how much money do you think you've made from sugaring so far in the in your life eighty nine a hundred thousand a year a hundred thousand a year with gifts and cars dinner dates fifty thousand that's in 11 months but that's not including cash that he gave me all the time so I probably made like 100 120 and about a like in love in mind something like that plus gifts plus gifts yeah how would your life be different if sugaring wasn't an option probably be living paycheck-to-paycheck struggling the average life and I I've done that you know and I've been working since I was 16 I didn't start doing this until like two years ago I'm 23 now so yeah I would definitely be struggling really bad house sugaring ever affected any of your romantic relationships of course of course I basically don't have one you can't have one I mean I can't these ones they do let me date if I wanted to yeah but it's just so hard because I feel like I give so much of myself to them that at the end of the day I don't have anything left to give anyone else are you ever severely unattracted to one of your sponsors half of these people are older you know this some of them are it's just like I could see why I could see why you need a pace and let me fix it here and talk to you you know amantha me you know how much acting do you feel like you need to do in a typical sugar baby experience I'm not gonna lie as harsh as it sounds sometimes I don't care about the things that you want to talk to me about one of them loves gardening so you're always talking about like this he's putting out this new grass and he's excited about it yeah what quality makes someone a good sugar baby your looks it's all looks that's it number one they're paying for a fantasy they're paying for something that they can't have so money money that's gonna have that hon bun draws things wants to know what the most awkward situation you've ever found yourself in he got high and he was like I'm horny and I'm like okay what do you want me to do about it like so he's like if I call this girl will you watch me have sex and I was like no absolutely not if I could go back on and said yes for another 4,500 I will watch you have sex I wasn't as crazy back then so I was like no absolutely not how dare you oh my god I started crying I've even had some times but somebody like rub their fingers through my toe and they're all rubbing up against Ellie wants to know what the most dangerous situation is that you found yourself in with the sugar daddy when he was on no sleep for about two weeks on two separate occasions and physically attacked me and I was by myself and took my phone away so I couldn't call the cops literally thought I was gonna die so pulling hair choking strangling yeah all that Wow and then not letting me leave until the marks went away so basically holding me hostage and then there's nothing you can do that's not why he's in jail I heard he's in jail because he had two girls in his apartment and one of them called the police on him so it had to have been an abuse because there's no other reason why they would have called do you have a financial end goal for being a sugar baby or do you hope to do this till the day you die no no I hope to do this until I don't have to so my goal is to just get myself in a position to where I don't need them anymore neither yeah and after that it's quits because I do know that there's females I'd do this for years and years and years and I'm already on my second year and I'm like man like I can't do this much longer what is it about being the sugar baby that gives you most joy my bills are paid I'm stress-free and I can just focus on what I have to focus on with my job and the money that I make right now I help my parents with bills because I don't have bills yeah so I just send money to them I buy my niece and my nephew clothes and yeah I'm taking you're taking care of your family mm-hmm yeah and you're really putting it out there you're putting yourself out there oh yeah they better realize this they're gonna watch this what I see these people I see dollar signs oh but I see dollar signs I see nice bags I see nice glasses I see my shoes I see all of it so you see capitalism taking over your brain yes so I have a parting gift for you sugaring excursion baby please I'll do anything for that shirt a builder shop comm you don't even do anything you just spent a couple bucks oh my god really I'm grateful for the little things that hi sugar babies and sugar daddies can you please subscribe to Anthony Padilla's YouTube channel can you all right you got five seconds to shout out promote anything you want directly to camera go follow me out enter I'm at Marcus Gregg oh happy birthday to my friend TJ he's a really good musician I want to shout out this shirt one more time thank you so much I feel like I school you understand the wondrous world of sugar babies after spending the day with these sugar babies I've come to realize how much emotional and physical work goes into this fashion in order to support themselves in a society where sex sells and money literally moves mountains who are we to blame these sugar babies for reclaiming their power over a system that put them in this position to begin with see you later bye guys I feel like if you guys subscribe to this channel I will send you a nude it might not be mine [Laughter]

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Length: 12min 42sec (762 seconds)

Published: Mon Sep 09 2019