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men and women of rindet who caught their significant others cheating how did you do that and what was your reaction a few years back i was dating this girl and ended up becoming really good friends with her brother he appreciated me helping their family when their father died suddenly two years into the relationship asks to meet up for coffee and a serious talk apparently he caught his own sister with another guy a mutual friend of ours it had been going on for like a year broke up with her still friends with the brother the end i caught my wife after she passed away from cancer worst feeling ever caught between unending love morning and absolute anger well man that is f king tragic please tell me you're seeking help with working through that ocean of emotions i caught my ex-husband cheating as an accident we had gone to work in the evening and i couldn't get into my office due to a building screw up so he let me in here so i could print something he went for a walk to get his steps in as i was on his computer i realized it was logged into facebook i just had a feeling i looked in the messages and he had been chatting with a woman he met in another country via our work i copied all i could and confronted him when he returned made him take me for a drink and told him there would be no reconciliation he was shell-shocked and i told him to go home and pack a bag that was six months ago and i'm really happy to have lost the dead weight he was a difficult man emotionally abusive but i lived my vows and tried to help him as much as i could and reorganized my life around him i found out he had signed up for a bunch of apps such as ashley madison tinder and bumble he would message his mutual acquaintances asking if they'd be up for massages etc i blamed myself for years that he wasn't interested in sex with me because i'd had a baby and gained a little weight nope he just enjoyed contacting other women for sex more we're in the middle of our divorce now he doesn't understand why i'm wrecking our marriage because of a few indiscretions i was at work and tried to call my boyfriend but he wasn't answering even after a few hours and i just got a horrible feeling it stressed me out so badly for some reason that i started to cry and my boss let me go home the whole way home i just kept feeling serious dread walked in the house and into my bedroom and he was laying in bed half clothed with some naked chick obviously a huge blow up went down and after everything settled this [ __ ] tried to tell me that he went to the movies alone and met her there and she followed him home like even if i believe that this person just followed you home and got naked you let her do it so what's the purpose of saying that to me it was a shitty abusive relationship and it didn't even end then i eventually broke up with him but not on the spot like i should have if i could change anything about my life it would be that i wish i broke up with that guy sooner that was over 10 years ago though edit your responses are f king hilarious i have never laughed so much about this situation he took a phone call from her in front of me and because i guess he thought he was being slick he started flirting with her in front of me he ended up sexually harassing me after the relationship was over and i got him in hot water for that he never did it again and was told if he even talked to me again he'd get fired i ended up leaving that job a few months later i knew he had been unfaithful in the past but i didn't really love him so it was not that bad however i was bartending one night and this drunk chick walks up and tells me that i looked familiar she then proceeds to yell oh my friend is f king your husband dart so i walked into the beer keg cooler with a bottle of vodka i downed some shots and went back to work i held it in that i knew for a few months while i hired an attorney and figured out my next move i had three kids to think of too so i moved with my kids back home to texas and got divorced now i'm engaged to my childhood best friend and we plan to marry in yosemite next year he's the complete opposite of my ex kind supportive and loving so fck that sasquatch looking cheetah i caught my ex sex stinger chicken telling her how he missed her on my birthday i was young at the time and reacting with crying and yelling if it ever happened now i would just get up and leave no point in trying to mend the relationship because it's near impossible to gain the trust that was lost edit spelling error i had come home from a five-month cruise my gf at the time was a court stenographer so when she wasn't at the pier i figured she had a case or was catching up on transcripts so i got a ride from my friend to see unfamiliar bmw in my driveway i walk in to see her blowing some stranger on my couch keep in mind this was my house not hers i didn't say a word to her i just started grabbing hershtee and throwing it in the front yard and called her father to come pick her up because her car was an old quattro and in the shop again and up to that point i was letting her drive mine until it was fixed i will not bore you with the drama but she was taken by the emmys instead of her dad i had my suspicions but it was a who ended up telling me i went into the relationship thinking wow i don't deserve this girl way out of my league she couldn't help but remind me how much better he was several times and made sure to rub it in my face my reaction was a spiral into deep depression for someone that has very low self-esteem being cheated on is one of the worst feelings it feels like it confirms all your worst thoughts about yourself dated a girl for about two years like 18 months into the relationship we're talking about moving in together then kinda out of nowhere she starts becoming distant and irritable we ended up breaking up fast forward three months after the breakup i found that facebook has a section where messages from non-friends are kept turns out my then gf was banging her ex and the ups driver that delivered to her store at the mall she ended getting with the ups driver and his three kids last i checked their f king miserable and it brings me joy every time i think about it edit in my messages was a note from the ups driver's then wife my ex not only cheated but broke up a marriage so i had the day off work as i was making my way round the corner i caught her cheating she was on my street then i saw her slyly turn onto the next street and cheating she was doing this so she wouldn't have to pay the rent i'm never playing monopoly with her ever again you can have my up vote but i want you to know i'm not happy about it we started dating our sophomore year of college we both still lived with our parents that summer different states we decided to meet up in june back at our college town i remember him telling me he was having issues down there from shaving then we get together and he is actively avoiding having sex with me he's doing everything but have sex we finally have sex he tries to get me to shower right away i laugh and say no i want to unpack he is in the shower i walk in the bathroom see him naked on the ground laying down in this yoga pose i laugh thinking he was stretching whatever we have a good weekend two months later we are unpacking from the summer back at college and i see a planned parenthood notes in his backpack saying he had chlamydia he got the results back one day before i came to visit the first time he knowingly gave me chlamydia and kept reinfecting himself every time he had sex with me which is why he wanted to shower after sx and why he was in the yoga pose he was just having a panic attack because he gave me an std not making this up i felt it from two 600 miles away is a sudden disturbance that woke me out of a sound sleep i found out by calling to ask about what happened then still happily married but it took a lot of time to work through it ex-wife actually asked me for her blessing to commit adultery with another married man she was shocked when i said i don't support it she went ballistic has severe mental health issues went and did it anyway and ended up in a psych ward two marriages ended and now the two cheetahs are engaged little devastated at first blessing in disguise he was over compensating when we was having sex new styles and adventures in the bedroom one day he slipped up by connecting my laptop to his phone and i saw the text messages i hired a private investigator to get pictures and consulted a lawyer when i confronted him with the evidence he was shell-shocked we had an at-fault divorce he lost almost everything the cars houses and joint accounts we don't talk unless my alimony is late i move to a different state in case he becomes vengeful and decides to hurt me [Music] not me but my cousin caught his fiance cheating he was away every few weeks for work while she stayed at home doing nothing and refused to find a job one day he decides to come home early from the work trip to surprise her for their anniversary he came home and found her f kingson guy in the shower they didn't hear him come into the house or the bathroom the first thing he did he took out his phone took a photo of them having sex and send it to her mother a class move if you ask me d he then dumped her and move on many years ago got in a minor argument with gf she insisted on going to stay at her father's but i wanted her to stay so we could work through it she left and i couldn't sleep so very early in the morning i decided to go there and just take all blame and apologize walked into the spare room to wake her up and she's laying there with some dude i went back upstairs and sat at the table for a few minutes and saw hammer sitting on the table at arm's reach i picked it up and went back to the bedroom and stood there for a few seconds in shock and slammed the hammer as hard as i could against the headboard you can imagine their wake-up reaction i looked at her and said we're done looked at him and said that could have been you and i went home to bed edit gf and i were together for about four years when this happened i caught him sexting my best friend it was horrible i lost a bunch of friends became kind of a loner i dumped his ass six years later my girlfriend went to visit her parents and friend and when she came back i just knew i sat her down and apologized and told her i cheated while she was away she immediately nuked me with well guess what i did too when i told her that i actually hadn't slept with anyone and she'd just been faked out she was displeased double quote it was a few weeks ago i noticed he moved up many levels in the game in such a short amount of time that's when i knew he was cheating and was looking up youtube videos on how to complete certain complex quests he was stumped on i was appalled yet very understanding i was engaged at the time in my early 20s i'm 33 meters and married to a different woman now i didn't really catch her she turned herself in on it i was super numb over it avoided her and blew lots of money on stuff and activities to try and get over it never did and ended up leaving her a month before our wedding it sucked and i was not in any way equipped to handle that situation the woman i suspected posted a pic of the romantic dinner they were having they were sitting on his deck and deck furniture that i scrubbed clean the weekend before she tagged him and that's how i knew for sure when the dust settled and they were together and we spoke about our finances i got to call him a poo dollar sign dollar sign wife for having his elderly gf do his dirty work she is 20 years older than i am and 10 older than him comma saying that was quite satisfying he was sorting through his pictures and a naked lady caught me i so later that day i went on his phone i would never usually do this and found many naked girls on his phone screenshots of snaps i also found pictures of me i didn't know he took i called my best friend and cried she told to confront him so i did his response was it's normal for men to keep their porn on their phones and was smug about his response until i mentioned they were screenshots we were away for a camping holiday fiance went for a walk she lent me her phone as mine was dead was watching youtube on my fiancee's phone a whatsapp comes through from her ex she had two kids with him previously who live with us with kissing energy and text saying miss you assumed it was for his daughter opened the message only to discover a host of messages between him and my fiance things i was said were clearly cheating confronted her about it she denied it all showed the messages as we were on holiday we carried on the holiday for the kid's sake that was three years ago we are still together and i often have to see him when he picks his kids up sometimes wonder if i should have walked chose to stay for the kids and now things are better than ever but it's always in the back of my mind this happened a few years ago i was hanging out with my boyfriend at the time and he had gotten a text while he was playing a video game and asked me to check it when i open up his messages i saw a few messages from other girls he was messaging my only regret was wasting a year of my youth with him funnily enough the girl he was cheating on me with actually told me she messaged me at three in the morning asking if i was still with my ex and i said yes he's asleep next to me why she told me what happened sent me screenshots and i grabbed his phone i believed her but jano just wanted to see it all for myself i left the room and looked through it all he didn't even try to hide it i went back and threw something at him to wake him up and confronted him of course he played dumb said he didn't know who i was talking about blah blah blah then i said oh okay well maybe this will jog your memory and pulled his phone out of my pocket the look on his face was priceless he knew it was over i screamed at him called him every name under the sun and then he left the house this was a year ago and then a few months after that i'm being told that he misses me f king pathetic my gf from mexico found out i went to a strip club via my computer i messed edges she broke up with me i thought it was a bit much as i was just out hanging the boys and home for the holidays oh well i maybe if you told her about it rather than trying to keep it from her or even having a conversation before to ask if she would be comfortable with you doing that would have helped idk about other women but it's almost never about the action it's to do with breaking my trust he brought a girl to my work while i was working he was a person who had a hard time being physical with others but his hand was on her lower back and he was rubbing it kept pulling her clothes in a type of side hug he'd been ghosting me for about two weeks at that time and he knew my work schedule two weeks of no contact but the second i texted him to go off about what he'd just done he learned how to use his phone again i honestly think he was too much of a card to break up with me which was incredibly insulting since we were both coming from long-term relationships where our exes had cheated on us worst one i know of is an acquaintance of mine came home from work one day and found his missus having sex with his dad that blew up all over facebook and became a local drama fest where people tried to organize a shunning of the dad and misses i remember it well because well i know people cheat but with your partner's father come on she confessed to her mom then mother-in-law called her other daughter and told her sister-in-law then called me and told me she let me listen in on a three-way call to her mom and tried to convince mom to tell me but she refused which basically confirmed it this is still pretty fresh as it only happened a few weeks ago i went through her phone and there were compromising messages i confronted her about it and she came clean lots of crying lots of apologies my reaction was one of extreme sadness and anger i cried more than i ever have in my life and i'm not one to usually cry it was such an insane betrayal i had and still have every reason to walk away but i've decided to stay and work things out she has been on her best behavior the last week or so but we'll see if it lasts i truly hope i'm not making a horrible mistake i wouldn't wish this on anyone and really the old saying ignorance is bliss rang loudly in my head the whole time not me but is my aunt it was a just normal day my aunt was helping his husband to top up his phone while his husband was on shower her own curiosity go to his phone messages and search in his contact wife she read through all of the messages which proves that her husband was cheating on her just like that she saved all the messages and straight filed for divorce just happened like a few weeks ago my english is not good so pls bear with me my ex-husband and his family smoked a lot of pot still do his sister kids and nanny were visiting from out of state for a few weeks when it was time to fly home they left their stash at my ex mills house because they didn't want to take it on the plane my ex asked if i would pick it up because i was nearby stupidly i agree i don't smoke and i was willing to carry it in my car for him to my surprise i found a note from the nanny to my ex saying she was in love with him and she was so happy for the time they had together obviously she thought he would get the weed instead of me while it was incredibly painful at the time i am definitely living my best life 15 years later [Music] i went on a few dates with a guy and at one point he stopped replying quite suddenly so i decided to call him a woman answered when i asked her if he was available she started crying and said he was dead she started apologizing to me for breaking the bad news and asking how i knew him i'm a terrible liar and i was a bit taken off guard so i think she was catching but i did not stay on the phone long enough for a chat [Music] [Applause] [Music] you

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