He took me to Applebee’s | Talks with Tony

hey hey tony gaskins here now listen you know i posted that last video about the man asking the lady to pay is she gonna pay for the third date now as i was reading the email one thing i could tell is that that's kind of how it's kind of like how uh a lame guy jokes you know if if he on the phone you know he texts a so the next one on you hey so the next one on you right it's like a joke like it's not really now some guys like that serious but the fact that he had paid for the date and she asked she offered to pay her half and he said no and he paid for it see a man who paid for the date after a woman asked to pay her half when he said hey the next one on you right that's a joke now 9 out of 10 times nah it's exception to the rule now a man who let her pay her first half and then he asked her hey the next one on you right he serious but now see the thing was is y'all more concerned that the man took her to applebee's oh that's cheat that's a cheat date oh he broke now see this the thing man [Music] this why y'all got these grown boys out here going crazy yeah one lady said my kids don't even like their food listen now listen i don't earn seven figures and i tell me something i'm bees up i would tell me some bees out of frame nazi listen now my wife doobie hate no applebee's i get it but see what y'all understand is like man we're not the same as a woman like we'll eat peanut butter and jelly for dinner like applebee man i'll tell you something i'm bees up there with a regular steak they have them burgers be good them i'll be burped be good i took my son to chili's now you often oh well tell is different now i'll tell you the same i took my son to chili's and bought him a burger after practice or after a soccer game he would eat that burger he said dad this is the best burger i ever had in my life now we didn't have burger 21 you know which is a whole burger restaurant i'm gonna have other burgers now he said it's the best homemade burgers that be real good when we do our burger bar tonight he said that it's the best burger in my life and i had me a burger i was like boy you might be right now the chili burger is going on this thing hidden on something serious and then here y'all oh if he broke he'll need to be dating now listen i ain't mad with y'all i ain't gonna try to be arguing with y'all and don't don't feel like i'm trying to you know change listen if you have a rule that you don't pay for dates go right ahead it will not hurt you in most cases because most men expect to pay as a man even when i was a womanizer i expected to pay and i remember one time and i don't like to speak on nothing else you know but i've been one time i took this young lady i to eat um it's a restaurant called stonewood and i was probably 20 years old ill right it was right before i met my wife i told the young lady i'd eat and i think she ordered a steak or i ordered a steak and she had a salad and she you want something you want to taste your own health i was like oh no no no i'm good i'm good and then after that um the next time we were getting ready to go out on a date i was gonna try like mcdonald's or something or something came up but all i can remember is her saying you have to try to be fancy and try to take an old spencer restaurant on the first date i was like now you finna thought in my face and what i'ma tell you when i took on that date and i spent 60 dollars i probably had 75 dollars to my name but trying to look special trying to look like somebody i literally probably had 75 dollars to my name and that that dental was 60 dollars that night i had to find something wrong with the waiter your service was terrible you stepping with your left foot twice instead of your right foot no tilt i had to find something wrong that night because i would type but listen that's what i'm trying to tell y'all come on now come on now who y'all listening to ain't nothing wrong with applebee's something wrong with appleby really oh my goodness like listen it's about the quality time it's about the conversation y'all ought to be ashamed of yourself nah and i see this why too eat me and i hear keep comparing y'all to the old school because now i remember my wife wanted to have a win and i took it to the wedding hall where i could afford a wedding if i do a fundraiser between my family a gofundme and it would have cost like twenty five hundred dollars my wife looked at that thing uh no i'm not gonna get to the wedding here i'm like what you mean this place nice you see i got a purple flowers over there you don't like this this night you know from where i'm from and the reason why it's because my wife she got a couple of nigerian friends that of course she was gonna invite to the wedding they family got money you know her daddy hadn't had some money so she had a more expensive taste even though her and her mom ain't have no money i'm like so now you just got all the caviar tongue in the world and so my grandma said to me she said baby if that woman love you she won't have you spending all that money on nowhere and she'll go right to the courthouse i went right to my wife and told her that i said my grandma said if you really love me you only won't know when you'll go to the courthouse my wife fine we go to courthouse finally and we went right on to the courthouse because she won't know a little terrible when then look i'll cheat off twenty five hundred dollars now anybody who's gonna have a wedding you know you really ain't gonna have much away from 2500 now mind you i was 21 years old no i was 23 i'm lying i was 21 when i met him i was 23 i i was i had just turned 23 so i was 22 and you know 23 in a couple weeks and so we was young ain't had no money she had no money you know her daddy wasn't gonna pay for it because they really wasn't even talking all that too close then and i never even met her daddy until we have been married for five years that's when i met her dad even though they talked i didn't meet him you know because i he really want her to get married while she in college and all that and you know pregnant and married and so he really want a fan of that so he kept his distance from me and um but i said it to say later come on now yo come on now come on now i understand some of y'all making money and you're gonna elevate it i i understand that i understand that but now listen if you don't regularly go to ruth chris ocean prime 112 stk all this yourself you can't go into no relationship turning your nose up at no applebee's nah come on now already normally two minutes of sprout oh turn it up to eat hot dogs on a date i'm not saying that but i'm saying you just you can't put so much on money you can't do that because it's rich men who pretend to be broke because they want to see how much a woman care about money is is women so many women have missed out on a bankrolling man because he was trying to make sure this woman not all about money and because she turned her nose up and you got to get to the root of it you got to get to the root of it now what's the root of it are you really better than them people fool are you really better than that applebee's now i ain't mad i ain't picking on you now i'm just talking to you so don't get all mad and come oh unsubscribe let me go ahead and listen this woman over here who call you a narcissist you know what you're a nurse cause you want me to go to applebee but what i'm saying it's about the quality time it's like that's a whole restaurant you know i could see if he took you to a you know hole in the wall roach infested they selling you know it's a roach sitting right beside you on the floor you know you see that d sign the the grade from the health and safety say d or c and he taking you in there i can understand that but i'll be that's a whole restaurant that's a whole franchise i'll be in a tanner i'll be there nah i i don't go without bees anymore but still i still like applebee's man and so y'all come on now that's a good place i don't know if they still do the two for 20. and i you know i remember a man telling me about he took a woman on the applebee's on two for 20 and he was saying man i just you know she know what two for twenty mean i like what you mean like she know what two for twenty mean like she didn't understand you get two meals for twenty and that i was taking her for me and her to get a meal for the 20. she ordered her and her mama a meal and then me and her meal i was like wow that's that's kind of tough yeah well mama so it's like you know sometimes women be putting men through stuff and men be trying to see so i'm gonna tell you now now how y'all feel about popeye now i was young now see the reason is i get it some of y'all is in your 40s in your 50s and you like i'm so past alphabees and i think i've seen somebody say yeah it's different you're going out b's in your 20s and so i'm just like wow so we just i wrote applebee with eight like a b got an a limit on it all right if you unlock i'm going i'll be i'll see people all ages enough see people in their 70s and 80s enough come on now y'all don't do not let this society make you so superficial and make you so about money and you got to still look at the character of the man you got to still look at the character man and just because a man go to lb don't mean he broke that don't mean he broke just because he say hey they don't you that don't mean he broke and listen you got you can't take everything so seriously because the woman sent an email in sometimes people just email me just to be in the mix just to have a question to ask if i talk to her on the phone she could say well actually he was joking that was just like his little corny sense of humor and he didn't actually want me to pay for the next day he was just he just looked kind of corny you said what i'm saying like you can't even take it so literal but now if it is literal in your situation and this guy literally asking you to pay for the date nah that's a red flag you know that's what he asking you out his mouth to pay for it that's a red flag now you like okay what's going on with you bro and i agree with the saying where people say you if you broke you should not be dating i agree with that i agree with that and that's how sometimes people come to me and be like you know hey um you know i want to be a life coach but you know and i want to read your book but i don't have ten dollars right now and i'd be like you know i you know it's the other things for you to focus on right now you know if you don't have ten dollars you know you it's it's time for you to just just sit still you know just do you some praying do you some vision do you some some some grinding you know start developing you know keep working on you but you want to get to the place to where you can afford ten dollars before you giving advice to somebody in a life like because you might be coming from the wrong place if you if you can't afford ten dollars your spirit might just be a little down trodden you might be a little you know just a little down and you might be speaking from a place of of lack or scarcity mindset so i get it when you say look if you broke you shouldn't be dating i agree with that i agree with that to a certain extent but you have to look at it like just because your money all the way where you just lavish and you just got money for outings and all of this don't necessarily mean you broke that mean you budgeting that could mean you in a season of of saving or snowballing your debt you know paying off debt that could mean a lot of different things you see what i mean so you got to think about that and um you know create something to where you're looking at a situation you don't want to be be so caught up on money me and and this the hardest message to get across and see this how like um people who think that i pander to women this how you know i don't because with my entire the women in in my audience hate this here message oh oh that's all i owe oh you want me to be with a broke man or you want me to go to applebee tony i am absolutely not going through the applebee's and it's like calm down now calm down it's like okay dude this man love the lord do this man lord lord this man talk to you with respect is this man trying to get you on your back do this man is he chivalrous we open doors do this do this man listen to you talk and talk back and forth with you and you know is this man a good man if the man a good man come on now if y'all go to abby day in the world now if he come bring you some chocolate hot dogs with some ketchup to dip it in okay now we need to have a conversation but applebee that's a restaurant that is a restaurant millionaires go to applebee so i'm like oh y'all mad with the man going to outfit i'm like man y'all a tough crowd y'all hard to please so this man got to take you to rule chris and it's like if he take you to rule chris then cause i remember with that situation the young lady i think i was trying to go to mcdonald's on the next time and the fun was a little funny i probably was 20 years old 21. and uh you have to go to the expensive place the first time i'm like don't try to throw it in my face now you should have said that when we pulled up should have said what you doing here we could go to popeye now when i met my wife i did things differently we went to popeyes so how y'all feel about papa papa bad because it's because um papa achieving that appleby and now here y'all go yeah popeye's bad papa's ain't no better that's run red flag got to go wow wow so y'all just want ruth chris men y'all want ruth chris men men who are here because if the next step up from applebee's is ruth chris what's up or what grand lux cheesecake factory um chart house bonefish grill where do y'all y'all let me know in the comments just for the men the single men who they may bump on this video because it got men in the title where is an acceptable place for y'all new age 20 20 women that you are okay with a man taking you if applebee's is out the window and you just that is a red flag like i'm like what i'm glad i ain't dating i'm glad i'm married nah now my wife she really ain't with applebee but it's not i could tell you this and i get this if this is the case if this is the case if you have gone to ruth chris and you didn't taste it that state i understand when you go to applebee they stay gonna taste like a piece of charcoal and applebee's may not have an actual chef like a trained chef that went to cordon blue applebee's may have a head shelf that create the menu but they may just have cooks so when you order a medium steak your steak come out well done because it may be a cook and not like a trained chef and so i understand that if you know already elevated to another level and you then tasted some stuff to where applebee tastes nasty like one lady that was funny i ain't mad at i am not mad at you um to the lady that said her kids don't eat like i would be that that actually made me laugh i was laughing hard i was like wow yo kid boozy too so the man that coming in yo like he's gonna have a hard time okay i'll be sir sir oh please mama come on we got to go i'm gonna wear your person get your first oh this man talking about applebee sir we eat that cheesecake okay my mama is not gonna date no man that go to applebee's oh my god whoa y'all some rope bombs today see mama that's why i told you that's why i be listening to city girls because that's what they be telling you about these men he'll go to applebee hey so what's the way you having a hard time now come on now y'all y'all got to do my favor let that man take you to applebee and just feel the man's spirit out because see this other thing too now but now i understand this too you might not care about this but i'm explaining from a male perspective if a man is on the dating market and women and so many women are money centered like he got to make this amount of money he got to be able to afford every day he got to be able to afford this type of restaurant so if um if so many women are focused on money it make it hard for the man to date and uh now imagine this if he's dating he actively dating he meeting women he introducing himself he asked him out on a date when you go out on a date with him you might be the second or the third woman he's going out on a date with because he's actively seeking his wife if he going to um tea cake tea cake factory that's 220 a week if he do three dates that he's spending you said i'm saying that's 800 thousand dollars a month so a lot of time with these guys the reason why they're going to applebee because if he a decent man he'll good man he actively seeking his wife and he don't want to ask you to come to his house because he just met you and he know that's inappropriate don't want to ask you to go to your house but you got to understand you ain't the only woman that he has met or that he taking on a date and he might not be and should not be the only man that you're going on a date with because y'all ain't sleeping together y'all just met y'all in the courting phase you should be going on multiple dates instead of wasting your time with one man until you are exclusive with that man because you know he the one so it's like you know he he trying to be cost-effective so from the map now i understand as a woman that ain't your issue and then he'll go your answer well he shouldn't be dating multiple women at a time he can't if he can't afford 450 a week to go on three dates to root chris then he don't need to be dating tony gaskins this one i'm tired of y'all channel that's where i'm gonna go and listen to some hypergamy a hypergamy women who understand the importance of me having a man with some money because i want real valet mcnun who is it's medium and see that's the thing come on that's right now what's killing us because even a man with money do you know my partner my business partner is a billionaire he's a billionaire do you know what he drive when he was courting a ford [Music] he was driving a ford i was a barrel of a thousand now and i was driving a maserati so who getting duped who getting duped if i'm courting and i'm pulling up in a maserati he courting and he pulling up in a ford what that thing he was driving i don't even know because i don't even drive him kind of car and he pulling up in a ford what he was driving he had a ford f150 one time but then he had he went to another kind of four like a some kind of ford truck for suv and i'm like man that was too dry then he went to a navigator now i navigated the new navigator 100 000 now before he went to navigate he was an aviator you know the lincoln aviator but see that was after he was already married but when he was courting he was driving a four so imagine this one i'm trying to tell y'all you got to look at the character too because if you just focus on the money you'll get duped because here i was in a maserati and my bank account was in a negative now i was married i was married by this time but i'm saying if i was courting at the same time he was courting and i'm in the maserati and my bank account in a negative he in a four and he's a billionaire a literal billionaire because the men who really got it don't like to show it it'd be us who ain't really got it who'll be wanting to show it so just like i'm telling you when i didn't have it i took a woman to the expensive state restaurant well that meal was 60-70 dollars and that was all i had to my name if she judging a man based on like how y'all judging a man if she judging a man based on where he take you that's the scammers that's gonna get you it's the fake man that's gonna get you because the fake one that got something to prove the real one who got money in the bank he don't mind pulling up the burger king hey look on here your bird can't get us a whopper [Music] whopper what is that what is a whopper huh a whopper now you know you growled up on spam and corned beef hash and then a whopper two for twenty what did you mean two for 200 did they leave a zero off because two for 20 oh my goodness jesus be a checkbook jesus be a credit card i gotta go sir excuse me and then you'll get duped so now if you want financial security that's him he's the one because he's trying to see where your heart at he's trying to see is you just bought the money like it's the man who ain't got no money let's go on the roof chris now once you become y'all exclusive and he know you and you've judged him based off his character see that's the thing everybody got to ask what you got to ask yourself it ain't about what restaurant he take you to what you gotta ask yourself is does he have a job is he gainfully employed if he gainfully employed okay okay do he love the lord okay does he have transportation okay does he have a place to stay that his name is on the lease of the mortgage okay if he got that right there don't worry about nothing else off the gate don't worry about if y'all going to applebee's or if you're going to rule chris because guess what the man who takes you to roof chris and you like whoa and he pull up in a benz he literally could be flat broke he literally because guess what they sell mercedes-benz that buy here pay here yeah they sell mercedes and buy here pay here because they know the hood rich finna come in now he paying 1200 a month out of scamming out of selling food stamps out of setting him a little something on the side and working at the warehouse he paying 1200 a month for that little c-class benz but because you value in money and then he will take you to ruth chris on stolen gift cards now now some now one lady now one lady in the comments or that last video she tickled me she said the man had a coupon for mcdonald's and he wanted her to redeem it so he could get whoa now listen now that right there is he larry us that right there hilarious now but understand this now that also could be a test there also could be a test and i know y'all that hit and i hit and i hear she go out the choir a real man is not going to test a woman yes he is every single man you hear me even jesus tried the spirit by the spirit every single man is going to test you just as such you should test every man you got to try the spirit by the spirit so he want to see is you money hungry like every man now here's the thing now it's one thing if you say i don't eat mcdonald's because i don't eat that kind of food i don't eat that you know steroid beef steroid chicken now we could go to somewhere at that same price point if but it's like organic food it's a little organic restaurants this little vegan restaurants or or we could cook at home if i cook at home i put you on facetime so you'll see i ain't putting you no oils in enough and then when you could cook a dish i could cook a dish and let's meet at the park so we could eat healthy and we ain't got to eat apple bees now if it's for health reasons but truthfully you even now buy the same off the same farm when you go to applebee's and when you go to sunset you just got different people who know how to prepare it and so applebee's get you know this one part of the cow and then ruth chris get the other part because the other part costs more money and then they got a trained cordon bleu whoever shelf school chef back there who know temperatures and how to cook it and applebee's may just have old cook back there let me press this he'll stay down get the thing good ep be all about medium i ain't gonna put no blood on no plate man they crazy you see what i'm saying so you might just have different type of shelves but they're what you gotta understand that right now you got to look at this man try the spirit by the spirit look at his heart look at who he is you see what i mean and focus on that right there first and then uh then you start to see like okay day one all right we went here it cost this day two okay day three now you get into the foundation and now you get to see like is this dude just frugal like is he frugal or is he broke you see what i mean and but that but that takes a little bit of time for you to figure this thing out and if he like your spirit and you down with the get down like okay yeah we could go to on such and such restaurant or this restaurant it might be twelve dollars a meal you know and you cool with it just cause of humility you know what i'm saying and then if you don't eat that kind of food you got a certain diet then you say well this place over here has the food that i could eat with my diet or less we could cook at home or or you say well i don't trust everybody i don't eat everybody cooking so i cook and i don't see this as me being no do girl or wife with wife duties or nothing but i cook in order not to eat popeye's fried chicken you know where he trying to go and i don't also want him to be spending 150 dollars because i want him looking at me like i owe him something you said i mean so now if that's the mentality then that's totally different but listen i'm trying to tell y'all the truth now i know y'all want to hear that it's a plethora of the roof chris eden men out there that is a man of god he want to take you to a spencer restaurant even tea cake spencer restaurant and tk expensive you know per se but you get what i'm saying like that just got all of the equalities like listen something something has to give because you know ye jesus next to ken either you walk around just all amazing and perfect like he's gonna have to look at you and and and get over something like okay yeah she got look yeah she got a little bit of this hill she got a little bit of that yeah yeah she like this like yeah she like that like he's gonna have to get over some things too about you so it's like so i'm like come on now come on y'all y'all just expect to be jesus fraternal twin it's like come on huh it like is the man a good man do we got a good heart dude we got a good spirit we got good conversation do we respect you like a woman and then if y'all eat that i'll be okay just get uh just get the lava cake with the ice cream if you don't like the the chicken or the beef let's get the dessert and call it a date you know it's your cheat meal it's a cheat meal you see what i'm saying they gotta do something good like the one ladies who say her kids don't eat you know she say the drink's good we'll just have y'all look just have one of the drinks then just have one of their drinks now and just eat them eat the bread but get to hear this man he'll spirit get to see where he at get a feel of mine instead of that lord come on now come on y'all come on now we got to do better now come on now y'all can't be like that man i can't even let you go out there like that this is something i tell my sister this somebody tell my sister and and that's what i do and when i'm speaking on love and relationship like i tell myself like look ain't nothing wrong with no applebee's ain't nothing wrong no applebee if you eat like that uh if you don't eat certain food that's different so y'all understand it now y'all got to do better now come on cuz it's already ain't it already is not a plethora of amazing men walking around out here so if you have too many stipulations like oh if we go to applebee that's a deal breaker come on now don't y'all i i hope y'all trying to be funny now because because you'll be out here sing up to the cows come home to the roosters you hit me like because even a man with monty he might just love applebee's shrimp scampi and that's what he want to go at i don't mean he broke that don't mean he he frugal i don't mean he he cheat that on me he don't like you it could just mean he just is a humble eating man he just ain't got to have prawns he okay with some scrump from applebee he got to have ostrich he okay with cow you see what i'm saying so look deeper i'm i'm telling you i'm telling you i'm begging you look deeper because even if a man in his 30s or his 40s see what what a lot of time women don't understand is like a lot of times it's your it's your influence as a woman so he may eat applebee's because he don't understand where the food come from he looked into that now you get netflix and one night you show him what the hell and y'all watch what the hell on netflix oh my god and you like yeah that's what i wanted to show you like that's why when we went there i just kind of had a drink and i was saying i want hungries because this right here where they fool come from my boy they like oh wow thank you so much for showing me this you said i'm saying but if you just cut the man off at the name of sir it needs some help okay i know i want a husband but not today not like this and then here you go you gone come on now like enlighten the man in you know go on a little date have you a little uh strawberry lemonade i'll be you know that strawberry lemonade be hidden uh how you little strawberry lemonade and then enlighten me tomorrow instead of just judging them so you know what my wife did i was wearing dickies the the shorts that you bought from walmart i was wearing dickies i was wearing g-unit tank tops you remember 50 cent if you search g-unit tank top you remember the tank top the 50 cent used to well got the thick strap on here all wearing g-unit tank tops with dickies with the cowboy belt the leather belt with the big belt buckle and i wear a size nine and a half but i was wearing a size 11 shoe so that's my suit just used to flap like this right here because my homeboy went to the nba and he had a deal with adidas and his brother was i was eleven so i used to wear eleven two to get me some free shoes oh i'm 11. shoot i was on a level and then she was flapping my wife didn't just cut me off she elevated she like beyonce said let me upgrade you so she she she showed me express that's though then later as our income changed she showed me nordstrom and neiman marcus you know better quality better threads she got my foot measured find out i well nine and a half not 11. i didn't know and so and i also subconsciously thought that you got to wear a bigger shoe because women judge me by your foot size my wife made me comfortable say listen that do not mean nothing and my sister taught me that two later she said yeah tony you know my baby daddy's six six and this thing is ugh they don't talk now so y'all tony you gonna finish baby she talked that man in 16 years and she said tony and he's sick sick so she say i said oh i said okay okay i just ain't you know because i was out there dating so i ain't want nobody looking at my foot and judging me and so why is she she upgraded you know what my wife put me on let me taste brussels sprouts wife made vegetable soup roasted vegetable soup oh good i would have never had that my wife introduced me to starbucks my wife introduced me to sushi my wife introduced me to asparagus she introduced me to stuff you know greek yogurt she introduced so this is what you got to understand like don't just look at a man because he could he could come from alabama mississippi no disrespect to y'all from there but y'all know don't try to act like y'all just oh super booze your high class now you know it's some country men in certain places i'm from polk county florida so we don't get to see everything and do everything a lot of times what we know with fried pork chop fried chicken you know what i'm saying okra fried okra chitlins candy yells greens you know we know we dress a certain way and it might look a mess and then i look back on some of them outfits and like man that's how who who told me that outfit looked good but you just have to and when i my wife see some of my pictures and how i used to dress from high school she was like what the lord knew i couldn't met you in high school cause she said we wouldn't have made it we wouldn't have made it man we still shouldn't have made it if she just would have judged me like that so and what i'm trying to tell you is this is men in their 30s and their 40s and their 50s it just they may have a upbringing and but you got to get to the root where is his heart at where his heart at like he may have a heart he may have money and but he may be trapped in a scarcity mindset of lack because of how he was raised and then when you get to talk to him you like listen you like the millionaire next door but i would have thought you was broke busted and disgusted based on how you dress and where you go out to eat like what are you doing and then he explained to you well i grew up with nothing we didn't have anything and so that's why i'm just so afraid to spend i'm so afraid to do anything like this you can't live like that because you want to attract poverty if that's all you thinking about like that you gotta think abundantly you gotta stretch your mind and so i used to get real frustrated when i would go broke my account would be empty and my wife would be walking around smiling and i'm like how you walk around smiling and account on empty and she said well i've had nothing i know what it look what it is to live off of oxygen and faith she said i had to sleep in a car she said i hadn't been evicted out of apartment 16 times before the ninth grade she said i know what the struggle looked like she's like you got money that you finna make tomorrow this ain't no struggle i was like wow so i ain't got to walk around mad and quiet and and and frowning up and being rude and nasty and snapping no because money coming money coming and so she elevated me so it's like yes he could provide he could protect he could do those things but it's certain things that you as a woman will introduce him to see if he already perfect and ready made in the way where he go to eat how how he spent his money how he do this how he do then he don't need you he don't need you so you got to understand as a woman you are an asset you you bringing something to the table so it may be to get him to stop eating that applebee and say sir the same amount of money you spending you could eat over here or you could buy this amount of groceries and cook for this amount of days you said i'm saying you know oh you know what you're right you're right hey i was just trapped by that marketing but that two for 20. i ain't even realized how they would get me but hey i appreciate that y'all let go over here the grand looks oh tk friend oh oh yeah you know what i really ain't no understanding like budgeting the way you understand budgeting so i i realized i got a lot of money like i'm doing good and just like what the lady said she said i know he made good money but that may be the thing see some men so scarcity-minded they don't even understand that they in a good position and they walk around acting bro i see people do it all the time i see people do it all the time like these people they see me and they see how i spend my money and they see me with this different stuff you know the other adults the other parents and they looking at me like i'm rich i'm like you you got probably got more than me you just scarcity scarcity-minded i'm abundant-minded you probably make more money than me but i didn't know how to spend it i know how to live because the moraine promise and i know how to trust god yeah and my wife helped me get there you said i'm saying so hey y'all sit with this and understand all i'm trying to do is help i ain't trying to get you to be with no broke busting and disgusted man i'm not saying be with no sorry bro busted and disgusted man who was just the worst and all it is i'm not saying that but what i'm saying you just got to look beyond just money and just see where his heart at what his state of mind at like his upbringing his history his biography and what made him the man that he is today and if that's something you could work with if that's something your influence and your mindset can better that situation so understand that right now hey tony guys god bless you we'll talk soon

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 44min 20sec (2660 seconds)

Published: Wed Apr 21 2021