Body Language Analyst REACTS to Trisha Paytas/Hair by Jay/Ryland Adams Scandal | Faces Episode 40

well hey there idiots welcome back to observe in today's video due to popular demand i'm going to be analyzing the drama centered around trisha paytas and those involved [Music] but before we dive into the actual content of the video itself i wanted to go ahead and talk to you for just a second about today's sponsor extra wallets so while extra may be known for things like its space grade aluminum smart card holder they also have things like key trackers and laptop sleeves now valentine's day is coming up here soon and i can tell you for certain that the wallets make excellent gifts but say the person that you're trying to shop for doesn't have the need for a wallet well fortunately for us we also have other items like laptop sleeves which i'm fortunate enough to have one right here this is the extra brand laptop sleeve it comes with multiple compartments including an interior two pockets up front a magnet used to securely close it in the front here and then on the back there are more 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best 70 to 80 accurate which means that this read should be taken as such while there is a large amount of information that can back up authenticity or deception it is not a guarantee there is always room for error so if you're watching any other body language analysts out there and they're saying that they can guarantee that they see something take that at a grain of salt because they scientifically cannot we do not understand the human mind nearly enough to be able to rely completely on nonverbal communication so from here on out this is my educated opinion and nothing more without further ado first person we're going to look at is hair by jay's apology for the ridiculously disgusting things that he said on his other live which i will not play for you here because i don't want to and i don't think he deserves that sort of attention after that i'm going to address ryland's response to the situation on his podcast the very short segment that he put in on there and then to wrap everything up we will be looking at a segment of trisha's 30 minute video where she addresses some of the disgust she has for ryland and shane without further ado let's dive in address in that way so before i had a problem with trisha paytas i repeat never never have i had a problem with trisha paytas okay so something that he's doing right off the bat here is a verbal repetition that implies distance between him and the person you will see this crop up regularly with people who are lying in need to separate themselves from the action that was being done a famous example of this is bill singh i did not have sexual relations with that woman the over emphasis on him never having a bad relationship with trisha paytas repeated multiple times as you will see here in a second is affirmation that he did have indeed a problem with trisha paytas and it's not shocking due to the fact that he has already added her very very hard on social media thus far let's watch to see what his apology looks like i repeat i've never had a problem with trisha paytas i hope i'm pronouncing her last name right i actually thought me and her were on good terms i thought me and her were uh cory jo not friends because we do not hang out but at some point i thought we were good because very uncomfortable this entire time there is a lot of nervous fidgeting if you don't know it you really should it will help flesh out your nonverbal read we have worked multiple uh like three times prior to this event that we that's blown blown up we worked and everything was fine i personally and everybody that knows me knows that i listened to her music i followed her on ig no confidence in his words here and he's saying that i personally and everybody knows me says that i listen to music blah blah his words aren't as relevant here but during this entire time he's not having a lot of confidence you could tell by the falloff at the end of his sentences where his tone becomes less secure and he's also adding a lot of extraneous detail that isn't necessary about how long he's known her what the relationship was so on and so forth this is supposed to be centered largely around his apologizing for the disgusting things he said and you will see throughout most of this apology he really is just trying to explain himself away and get himself out of a terrible position that he himself put himself in never did she hear me uh say anything negative about her post anything negative about her write anything negative about her until the live that i create that i another big soothing gesture when you see somebody rubbing the back of their neck like that that is a large soothing gesture even if he's playing with his hair back there that is still a soothing gesture so i'm not buying that he never had any issues with her also that doesn't line up completely with how heavily he laid into her in his earlier live stream made a couple of days ago which was last week monday um never did i have a problem with the until this day i don't you can tell that he's memorizing what he's saying he looks off to the side he's like okay so i've already said never have i had a problem with time to move on to my next point and so that pushes me towards him not being as sincere and also his non-verbal communication during this with all of the self-soothing gestures the blocking gestures are all showing that he does not mean this apology whatsoever he's saving face right now i don't i don't i don't i don't feel she needs to feel threatened i don't feel that she needs to feel like her um her life is in danger i literally i'm a stay-at-home body now especially during covet i haven't gotten out a lot of contempt expressions on his face or disgust or confusion and actually it's a conflagration of those specific expressions and emotions that he's showing here and basically he finds this ridiculous that trish is reacting the way that she is to what he said and so he doesn't feel like he should be apologizing for this he is a hundred percent just saving face right now if you watch this guy and you're subscribed to him get off of his channel he does not mean what he's saying now he meant what he was saying in the live stream he's a disgusting person ah i definitely just reacted the way that i that anybody i feel felt would have reacted now he's trying to save face verbally too i just reacted the way that well i think anybody would have reacted in this sort of situation and he's doing a lot of verbal stuttering he has no confidence in his words and he's trying to make excuses for himself this is without a doubt one of the worst apologies that i have seen coming from somebody who has this extreme feeling of insincerity about him and this is why to something that they felt wasn't a hundred percent accurate am i saying she lied no am i saying that that was my side of the story but the way that i reacted towards her and the stuff that i said was it up sorry that was my alarm the way that i uh that i uh addressed myself towards her was not appropriate i'm a grown adult nobody should be talked to like that i have to laugh and it's not happiness either as i said before i'm not going to talk about what he said but i am going to tell you for those of you who aren't sure what's going on here kind of how things played out so there was a group of people that included hair by j jeffree star trisha paytas and some other people and they all went on a trip together jeffrey paid for it all because jeffrey is filthy rich and money is one of his ways that he likes to lord himself over those around him it's not an uncommon thing in wealth so they all went on this trip and they said nasty things to trisha tricia didn't want to hang around left this guy got onto a live stream later on and said hey how dare you do all this stuff how dare you show no appreciation he paid for everything yeah we said mean things but you know he paid for all of your stuff so deal with it and then he continued on in this earlier live stream to say very very terrible mean things about trisha continually now i am not a fan of trisha myself but i am less a fan of ignorant belligerent stupidity that this guy is spitting right now i'm being harsh towards him aptly so because of his harshness towards others we'll get to trisha later right now that's never excused what he said is never excused and he needs to apologize for it and show that he means that apology from what i understand he has done none of that so far and this apology is just there so that he feels better about himself and so that he could hopefully save some of his wealth and his income because that's what this is all about for him is money and fame let's finish this video and i maybe should have just ignored it because it's a situation that happened a year ago so with that being said so with that being said i do apologize for the things that i said about trisha haters i do apologize a little bit of contempt flashing into his face there when he's saying for the things that i said about trisha paytas he has contempt for the fact that people are calling him out on his toxic disgusting actions he has contempt for that he feels like he's elevated above that and that everybody's just kind of judging him poorly he had no actions in this when he quite obviously did what he said was hurtful and wrong he should have never said that it's fine to not like a creator but to go on and say the types of things that he said towards people is never excusable he needs to up his game he needs to be a better person for what i said about trisha paytas um the way that i came at her was absolutely aggressive no the way that he came at her was [ __ ] it wasn't absolutely aggressive i'm being aggressive towards him this is aggression what he said was [ __ ] he was such a terrible human in his live stream if you want to find it go find it actually trish's video that she does where she reacts to what he's saying shows plenty there's more than what she shows and it's plenty to see she's such garbage she shouldn't hold the weight behind his words that she's holding she shouldn't have let it affect her that much but what he says is extremely hurtful and extremely disgusting it was not something that you know to me someone coming at me like that growing up the way that i grew up and stuff like that it's it's it's you know it's i know that some of you probably don't understand why i'm so irritated by this but i really i don't like people who bully other people for no reason i saw plenty of it growing up as a kid and it's disgusting it's disgusting to see adults who are supposed to be maybe just an inkling more mature than this squabble so vehemently and so toxically over such piddly things that it can be life destroying for other people it's just it's just gross and so him making excuses for his very childish immature ignorant behavior is worse he's adding gasoline to a fire that's already burning pretty hot he is getting a lot of backlash for this and understandably so a lot of people are very upset with hair by j for his obvious ignorance it's not normal but it's seen i know she has never seen it i will never cause any harm to anything she's never done anything um to me personally she's never has she's i thought we were in good terms like i said i haven't seen her in a whole year i still had her on instagram so i found out that her instagram got um this activated i never would harm her definitely not i don't even leave my house yesterday i didn't even so he says i never will harm her that's what he was going to say and then he corrects himself to i never would harm her he already did he's already emotionally harmed her so he's just building another excuse for himself just so you know if you're watching this if somebody apologizes to you like this get away from them get them out of your life immediately this is not an apology this is a saving face for myself he doesn't give a flying rat's ass about trisha he doesn't give a flying rat's ass about the pain that he's caused in her life he only cares about himself here so if you have a friend who apologizes like that it's not a friend get rid of them yesterday i didn't even leave my house i literally was getting my cars washed and getting my hair done i stayed in i have cameras in my house that uh could you know that could be seen i literally was home all day so um with that being said i don't have a problem with her i apologize so sorry i keep getting calls i don't know why um i i apologize to tricia for something that i do want to know is that he looks down at the comments of this live stream and you can see the little flashes of anger show up in his eyebrows when he's going down and reading the comments of people who just aren't buying his heaping pile of garbage that he's presenting he's wanting to really save face here and it's just not working and he's not happy about it uh the things that i said about her the way that i addressed myself to her uh [Music] that's just something i've always had but the way that i addressed myself to her wasn't appropriate nor was it right i should have just left it alone i should have um never came at her the way that i did because it was a moment of impulse okay so that's his little apology that i was able to track down this was the only file that i was able to find that was high enough resolution so here's something that i also want to let you know i work hard to maintain an unbiased representation here on the channel i believe that that needs to be shown more here on the internet that being said i am still a human being and i still have standards and the way that he addressed a conflict was terrible that was arguably an atrocity of an apology he took no responsibility he shifted as much blame as he could he explained away as much as he possibly could and the apology itself lasted maybe a few seconds the rest of it was him trying to give reasons for him being a jackass so yeah i'm letting my personal bias come in here by calling him out on his [ __ ] that was such a terrible apology sure maybe maybe he meant it maybe hereby j meant it but that will only be shown by his actions not this apology so that's hereby jay's apology now we're gonna look at ryland and for those of you who don't know ryland is with shane and they are friends with jeffree star and hair by j is jeffree star's hair stylist or at least was he might not be now and trisha wanted shane and rylan to stop being friends with jeffrey because jeffrey also allegedly partook and talking trash about trisha it's a very messy situation all the way around it's very messy and yes all of these creators at some level are being fake and are being just mean in general just mean on some level so we're going to look at ryland's addressing of the situation and then like i said we'll wrap up with trisha i hate to do this because trish's friendship means more to me than a headlining story on this podcast i hate that we're a podcast that does hot topics and i've somehow become a hot topic a hot topic that i so he's showing a lot of open hand gestures this is to convey openness and while this is a podcast obviously they vodcast as well so this is something to where he's aware of his body language that he's trying to present and he knows that he has to maintain this upstanding look to things he has this contemptuous smile on the situation when somebody has contempt on their face they feel morally or intellectually superior to the topic or the person or the situation that they're talking about so he has that slipping out as well let's see what the apology goes like i feel i have to address in some sort of way because i've seen i've been flooded on all all elements of social media regarding this situation and exasperated side coming out there he's fed up with it that is an indicator of being fed up with a situation if you're talking to somebody and they go and then you know everything else around it that's not a good sign for them really being appreciative or involved in the situation they're very fed up and done with it and that's how rylan's approaching this right off the bat not good news trish is um mad at us right now and i guess the only i'm i'm confused i was taken back a little bit and i understand like she's had drama with jeffrey and hair by j who has hair by j obviously said horrific things that i don't stand by i don't support obviously i support tricia over here by jay like this part seems to be pretty true he's not showing any non-verbal misalignment he is saying that he doesn't support what hair by jay said this would be an easy place for him to lie i'm not getting any indicators of possible deception any non-verbal positive or negative spikes it all seems to be pretty synchronized so that at least is good for those of you watching rylan doesn't from what he says here support what hereby j said that's good news i've never followed this man i don't know this man i've met him once in passing yeah and the fact that i'm so heavily involved with this really does break my heart because i love trisha so much i consider her one of my closest friends we see her more than i see really anyone besides you because you come over weekly for this podcast and he has a lot of insecurity gestures coming in with the raising of one side of his shoulders basically means that he doesn't hold as much confidence in the words that he's saying so why on earth would we chances are in this sort of situation trish is not one of his best friends or even one of his good friends at this point it seems as though there is something more going on emotionally there we have to speculate as to what that is but we can rest assured that there is something that's processing in ryland's head around this situation guess at the end of the day i truly wish she would have come to me as a friend big swallow there dry swallow nervous swallow it's very common in nerves for a large gulp or swallow to occur he's nervous around this situation he's uncomfortable with it let's keep watching if she was hurting like the way that she is and talked it out with me and i wish that it wouldn't have played out on the internet like this i just am really honestly confused because i see her all of the time and even after the last time jeffrey was physically on this podcast i was at her house and we had a wonderful loving time and i understand maybe it's hard for her to express her actual feelings towards jeffrey to us or the gravity in which she's feeling feelings towards jeffrey when she knows we're specifically friendly with jeffrey so maybe it's hard for her to like ask me to cut him off but at the same time i just i can't read someone's mind and i feel like as an adult i have two other adult friends that got in an altercation a year ago and maybe it is my fault for never having asked her where she truly stands or wants me to stand i just i i felt as though that was like their lane i never hung out i think one time i was with jeffrey shane trish and myself together like they're they were independently friends and they're both independently my friends and okay so during this entire time that ryland is explaining what's going on from his side of things there continues to be shrugs leaning back and some defensive nonverbal communication coming from him he's very much on the defense on this side of things some of the words that he's saying are very accurate none of this should have ever been aired out on the internet so the fact that rylan wanted it to be private i understand that i can get behind that i understand that sentiment and i feel like it also should have been private the issue is that tricia isn't unknown in the drama circles either she is very very outspoken on the internet itself and that might be part of the exasperation that's seeping into ryland's body language himself he might see this as okay well trisha does dot dot dot usually so i would rather have this have been private it's not that big a deal blah blah blah i can see what his logic is i still think that he's sticking around with some pretty trashy people and shouldn't let's see what else he says like like i said i see trish all the time i love her and i wish she would have just hit me up personally so that and so that we could have dealt with this situation and i feel awful i feel awful that i contributed to her feeling this way because she's obviously scared and hurting and doesn't want to be in the position she's in i don't believe yeah i have this podcast and trust me there's nothing i would rather do than just go about business as normal and have and handle it privately well and just like i don't want to have drama on the internet trisha's friendship to me means so much more than the internet yeah and so i i'm just bummed out by it honestly yeah i mean i have a lot of love for trish too i don't know her personally by any means just from our one exchange on the show and like since i met her in person i've had nothing but nice things to say about her and i'm a fan of her and i'm a fan of her content and what she does and i just she lacks a little bit of confidence in that shoulder shrug higher pitch raised eyebrows i feel like if she said it more accurately she would say i appreciate who she is not a fan that's what her body language says so that's what her words should say as well that being said this isn't really about her so uh i find it deeply regrettable that something that we put out that was intended to be light-hearted and fun and commentary yeah caused her so much pain yes that's that's good those are good words her body language is synchronized this girl feels bad about it rylan doesn't really feel as bad about it and i guess that's the i think the reason for the confusion is that this came after like we were talking about jeffrey and kanye which i mean we talk about hot topics on the show the whole world was talking about it not i'm not justifying it like i guess it is to her he is justifying it sorry just throwing that out there he justifies it and then says i'm not justifying it no ryland you just you justified it before saying that you're not justifying it feelings are valid however she's feeling is 100 valid and shane did reach out to her i wanted to kind of let things play out for a second because i really i learned a lot last year like i jumped on some things too quickly last year and even when the internet is coming at you i'm still a person in regards to any drama on the internet i think it's healthy to like take a step back think about it breathe about it like just because something's coming at you doesn't mean i necessarily need to react i'd rather react publicly really yeah and i and bottom line i love trish so much i wish her all the happiness in the world even if she chooses not a lot of defensive gestures these are defensive gestures when you see somebody doing this this is quite literally them subconsciously saying please get away don't tell me don't approach me don't at me for this that's what he's saying here and then he's saying i love trish so much she's the best so all that this is from ryland right now is saving face very defensive and also desynchronized as you can see it just don't at me it's more or less what he's saying right now to be in our lives and i think she's iconic i'll always think she's iconic i have so so so much love for her and i guess that that's all insincere right there a lot of head shaking on that a little bit of disgust sleeping in with his mouth here you can see he's just not feeling the words that he's saying and he is just trying to save face is where i'll leave it for now i'm never gonna talk badly about her on the internet yeah i hope we mend our friendship and i hope things are okay and we can talk about how we're feeling together in person in real time eventually okay so that's ryland's quick synopsis of that i feel like his mindset behind it is appropriate this should have all been handled off of the internet and shouldn't have been people more or less yelling digitally at each other so that everybody around can watch and enjoy and eat popcorn it should have been handled off the internet that's the bottom line of it do i think that he responded appropriately no not from what i can see not from this little blip that has shown up here but there is always the possibility that he went to trisha personally i doubt it i'm betting that he is really just trying to treat it like it's no big deal and move on by where obviously it's a very big deal for tricia and it's taken a hard toll on her mental state let's move on to trisha's her video is 32 minutes long i watched through it multiple multiple times and i found most of it to be pretty genuine and i'm not going to talk largely on certain aspects of trisha's body language because there are possible mental health conditions in play there is also possible drug usage in play and those really can alter non-verbal communication heavily and then along with that i do not want to accidentally even inadvertently trigger somebody else who is watching this video because there's some heavy stuff centered around that and i have no interest in causing unintended pain to anyone so i have observed a large amount of trisha's non-verbal communication to be able to hopefully establish some of a baseline this is one of the most mellow moments that i have seen her at she seems to be the most level headed during this time that i have seen across her videos but let's watch it instead of just talking about it i have no interest in ever amending this friendship at all i am making this video to once again rebuke that trio because there's some evil dark [ __ ] happening there i don't know what it is so during this time she's being genuine and aggressive this is actually aggression not what hair by j did hereby j was an idiot she's being aggressive the leaning forward the scowling that comes in the jutting forward of the lower chin these are all aggression tells that she's having she's very upset and understandably so and it's showing non-verbally i don't know what it is but i rebuke it i don't support it i appreciate people who can speak their truth because i know it's super scary like i during that time you could see her doing a lot of defensive gestures quite literally i don't support she's pushing away subconsciously her body language is showing the same thing that's what we saw from ryland earlier in a completely different setting like it's truly scary like i'm truly like in shock by everything um ryland's confused it's like come back to reality sweetie like you're so far gone in this this cult or some [ __ ] i really i really just want to like move on trisha seems very done during this point a lot of her body language conveys exasperation with the sighing the breathing the blinking everything is conveying the same flow of i am done with this i don't want to be involved in this this is very exhausting but she's not showing any signs of deceit during this either and what i mean by that just so you know if you're watching and you're new to nonverbal communication deceit has no universal tell there's not a universal tell of lying so like the weird wise tale of if if a person holds eye contact the entire time they're lying or if they will not ever look at the person they're lying it's simply not true it can be true but it's not a universal truth some people will lie more comfortably while holding eye contact whereas if they look around it means that they're being honest and vice versa it boils down to a person's baseline and how variants occur from that baseline be them positive spikes a sun burst of activity where there was none before and negative spikes the sun freezing of activity where there was activity before so during this time tricia's not displaying any of that and that's good to see just as far as being genuine and be done with it but i feel like something worse i feel like i pit my stomach because shane has painted me as a pathological liar to people and he knows you know what and the internet always had this bad image of me and they still do a lot i see all the comments we don't really like trish but this is bullying and i appreciate that hey i'll take it you know what i mean like if people can at least recognize that like this [ __ ] is like [ __ ] up like hey that's cool i'll take it but like he banked on people and that's true everything that's happening to trisha is unexcusable it's just not an excuse i don't care who trisha is as a person it's just not excusable be a better person just be nicer the internet think knowing this bad reputation about me because think about all the scandals i've been in right scandals and okay they're scandals i've apologized for them right i mean i'll to make being a troll over being an actor she does a little bit of distancing from the scandals that she's talking about she doesn't like the scandals or the word scandals she has some contempt for it as you can see in her face here that's understandable so for somebody who is involved in as many scandals and drama as trisha obviously her viewpoint on it is a little bit skewed times people who have drama follow them around constantly and are secretly the source of the drama themselves rarely feel like they're the one causing the drama so that just explains what her numberable displays are and the processing that it's reflecting actual evil conniving racist person like okay it's like ah um i kept all of these parts where she's not talking in here because it's important to note what her non-verbal communication is saying during these times of her actually being silent you can see aggression coming out with the jutting out of her lower jaw with the lip compressions the lip licking is a common self-soothing gesture to be able to help perhaps calm down her anger the looking down is a sign of shame these are all playing out on her face without her saying a single word i'm like so stupid i'm sorry um that was a little bit forced that ah and then look down and then look down and it's just a little stilted you can feel it you can feel that disconnected flow of things it doesn't feel like a natural movement it's a little forced this is partially how trisha normally acts she does normally amplify emotions a little bit while on screen so that's part of that still slipping in but for the most part during this she's being very genuine and authentic and that's a very refreshing twist to see in trisha's videos but yeah seeing around like just lie seeing peter's video from last september not even all this to confirm what i've already known of him telling people and making up lies about me is crazy that's insane and shane you're disgusting you're the most disgusting person like hearing that i'm just like that makes sense shane's a coward shane is a coward point-blank period he's a coward that's pretty bold to say about somebody who you claim is your close friend in this situation it can be an indicator of authenticity but there's not enough evidence for that he can't take up ownership he hides behind i'm in therapy i have issues all stuff like that it's [ __ ] it's all all [ __ ] affirming head nods during that she does a little self-pacifying gesture when mocking shane's responses to conflict so far this is showing authenticity from trisha i'm about 60 to 70 percent sure on that front let's keep analyzing once again i'll end this no ill will because i really really have no ill and they thrive and they'll continue to thrive um that's just how it works she believes that that's what i'll say is that she believes that she has no ill will her body language is synchronized with the words she's saying and that pushes me more towards authenticity rather than deception if shane is telling the truth and she's a pathological liar then there is the possibility that this isn't true and she's just very very rehearsed on lying it's a distinct possibility and i am not above saying that she could be duping me on that front but if she's not the pathological liar that shane claims her to be or at least doesn't see herself as the pathological liar that shame claims her to be then that body language indicates authenticity sometimes shitty people thrive and that's fine i'm not mad about it i'm not wishing they'd they get canceled over just my personal issues with them but i'll tell you what like this all happened to me privately for so long and i was manipulated for so long and i'm so sick of it and done of it i take back any support i ever gave i blindly defended and that was so stupid and i might my cautionary tale is to stop defending people blindly look into stuff and hey if you need to cut a friendship or a relationship with someone do it do it for your own soul do it for your own peace don't be blinded by money or glamour or private jets like i feel like i did i got wrapped into it a little bit until i went on that trip and i saw the true colors i was like no thanks i'm good in my rented home and my ugly hair and my bad skin like and fat body but sober not on drugs dumb [ __ ] that's true so i'm gonna talk just a little bit then we'll wrap up the analysis part of the video and summarize so far she's showing still indicators of authenticity nonverbally it's synchronized between her words and her actions that's good to see from what i see i believe she is clean of drugs i'm not real certain on that point though to be very frank there's just not enough i would like to be able to sit down and ask her intentional pointed questions about that to better withdraw the truth but in this situation i'm leaning more about 55 to 60 certain that she's telling the truth on the drugs front which if she's telling the truth on the drugs front then that helps affirm that the body language that she's displaying is more accurate and less sporadic which can be caused by drug use so that's good to see and she's showing all of the signs of authenticity that i would expect to see and this is surprising to me in that i don't really appreciate trisha i don't appreciate how she handles drama or conflict or the internet in general but my job is not to be upset at her my job is to hopefully unearth a little bit more truth with that in mind let's wrap this up and then i'll summarize i i want to move past this and the less i see about the less it's going to trigger me and the less i'm going to react and everyone knows i am reactionary and i don't want to be reactionary i don't want to be that person online because it just it's so much anxiety like i can't like i can't catch my breath i can't see straight so like just don't please don't tag me and things please don't send me things like i don't want to see it like i love seeing support and just like i love you and like those kind of things are nice like it feels good but like everything else i just don't want to see um to me this is such a like it's not even on the scale when it comes to all the other allegations against like jeffrey and shane in the past or now are currently like there's some really serious [ __ ] against them and like to me this is like okay they're mean and they're manipulative and they were evil and like they were not nice to me about whatever but i i don't compare myself to like some of this other serious [ __ ] they have going on and like like i don't know like it's scary that's fine because the truth always comes up the truth always comes out hopefully hopefully the truth always comes out sometimes it doesn't and that's unfortunate this video this video from trisha specifically like i said was the most genuine that i have seen her at least judging from her non-verbal communication this is the most genuine that i have seen her interacting with a camera out of all of her videos she seemed the most level-headed she seemed the most vulnerable she was the most synchronized the least sporadic and the most cohesive throughout all of it this pushed me towards her being authentic in what she was saying once again i don't believe that this was at all handled correctly by any party but in regards to what hair by jay did jeffree star's support of it and shane and ryland's support of jeffrey starr that i feel was wrong very very very wrong the way that they addressed it was not correct my hope is is that ryland who said that he wanted to make things better just not on the internet i'm hoping he did that i'm hoping that he did that i hope that there hasn't been so much damage that trisha is not able to heal relationships with some people that she is calling her friends trisha needs to pick better friends just gonna throw that out there if your friends have any capacity to do this to you or be involved in something similar to this they just shouldn't be your friend i don't care how much money they have i don't care how much fun you might have at times when you're with them if they have that capacity to be like that towards you they just shouldn't be in your life surround yourself with people who are real to you and support you it's important to have both of those because if they're only just real to you then they're just an [ __ ] you don't need just [ __ ] you need people who will tell you if you're doing something wrong but then be there for you to help you if you're addressing those things that are wrong and trisha the thing that she's most guilty of in this is occasionally not doing the smartest thing on the internet but really it's just she's picked her friends poorly hair by jay as you know my opinion is garbage and unless he shows some obvious action my opinion won't change he has to show that he isn't the person that he was in that live stream jeffrey has to show action right now his action is to just kind of ignore all of this which i get i suppose on some level creating distance from yourself creating distance from drama i get that but there are a lot of fairly provable accusations that are going towards him that he should address a little bit more and maybe have a little bit more provable and showable action away from those negative things how that looks is a whole other video's topic rylan and shane should also choose their friends more carefully i would rather you know what just to turn off the body language side of this the analytical side of this i function in such a way that i just i wish the best of people i wish deeply that people are good when you boil down to the bottom of it that people are just good i wish that so deeply and i go into situations always just hoping that i'm gonna find somebody who's good and i get frustrated again and again and again as i dive down these rabbit holes of these people and it boils down to them on some level being a bad person and i don't it's discouraging right people that you watch you just find out they're just not they're not great people and i see that and i think to myself oh my god i don't i don't ever want to be involved in that i don't want to have friendships or relationships that are like that i just don't i i'm very specific with who i'm friends with and why i'm friends with them and all of the friends that i have are never centered around money or wealth or status or anything and as i continue to grow on this channel and as more people get on here i work so hard to not have that side of fame and popularity seep into my personal life this has nothing to do with the channel like this doesn't this has nothing to do with the analysis i'm sorry this is just me talking to you i just i'm sorry if i offended you like if you're a big hair by jay fan and i offended you i don't mean to offend you i do actually mean to offend here by jay he he needs to be a better person and that's my opinion of him the science says that he was insincere my opinion says that he was trash and i hope you can see that don't don't hold the science to my opinion my opinion's over here and i keep it educated but it's still just an opinion and it should be held with a grain of salt the science just shows that hair by j was insincere ryland was detached and defensive and just wants to wash his hands clean of everything and trisha just picked really shitty friends and the entire thing's just a mess this whole thing was a mess it was such a mess and after all of this is being said my final like words to you is just be a kind person to the people you're around don't put up with people who are just being [ __ ] for the sake of being [ __ ] because they're it's such a low form of intelligence it's frustrating trolls are just trolls are trolls right you know what i mean and if you're a troll come on grow up but just be good to the people around you be good to your friends don't be fake don't support them blindly on any of their endeavors if they're if they're being mean if they're being wrong be good enough to them to talk to them about it but don't air out your laundry in front of millions of people don't yell at them like in a grocery store sit down and be a kind person to them if if if these people had done that if these people could just for a tiny second just a teeny tiny second get off the golden couches that all of them comfortably live on and sat with each other got rid of their egos got rid of their wealth got rid of their agendas got rid of their marketing got rid of all of that and just sat down and spent time trying to be good i think this would have been avoided so if you're watching this and you're not involved in this entire large bat of tea just remember that what you feel and how you treat your friends and relationships is important and you oftentimes have a much larger effect than you feel like you have so just try to be the best person that you can try to at the end of everything if you can picture yourself on your deathbed try to know that you've lived a life that left it a little bit lighter and a little bit happier than when you came into it that should be your goal yeah i don't know how to transition from that into wrapping up this video but this is it this we're wrapping it up now don't forget about extra like i said they've been a supporter of the channel for some time now i really do genuinely love their products i have multiple of their products they're fantastic so if you do want a good product to be able to buy for somebody i do suggest it they're high quality as far as i can tell from what i have nothing's broken down yet so they're high quality they're great gifts and they do help support me i'm not gonna lie they really do help support the channel if you buy stuff through that link everybody knows that if you would like to be able to have me react to some other drama or some true crime or as i'm doing the body language evolution series anybody on that let me know in the comments below that's going to be where i see it most i know that a lot of you try to message socials and so on and so forth and i have to maybe hire somebody to help me with the social media side of things because there's just a lot that i've got juggling so let me know in the comments below i do appreciate it if you did like this video please hit the like button hit subscribe to be able to see more videos coming out i put out two a week so if you do like this content you'd like to be able to see more please hit subscribe but without further ado that's all that i've got for the day my name is logan and you have been oh so awesome as you always are and i will see you in the next video cheers guys [Music] you

Channel: Observe

Views: 257,893

Rating: 4.9247365 out of 5

Keywords: Sherlock Holmes, Logan Portenier, Observe, Mentalist, Lie to Me, body language, nonverbal, psychology, React, Analysis, lying, detection, reading, behavior

Id: eYrWppkX8bU

Length: 50min 59sec (3059 seconds)

Published: Sat Jan 30 2021

Reddit Comments

[u/GuaranteeComfortable]

Honestly, I think he has no idea what he is talking about. I watched one of his videos and was not impressed in the slightest.

[u/foggybrownjaguar]

I love Observe! I think he did a great analysis on this situation (albeit bias— don’t know how you can be unbiased listening to hair by whatever dude).