Demi Lovato's Body Language Reveals the TRUTH of Her Apology | Nonverbal Analyst Reacts

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hey there idiots welcome back to observe in today's video i will be analyzing the nonverbal communication of demi lovato and a recent apology that she released on her instagram more on that in a second let's go ahead and roll the intro [Music] before i begin into the actual analysis i am going to shamelessly plug my own merch this is the seven universal emotions merch here it comes in multiple designs across multiple different items of clothing and various household items and accessories so if you would like to be able to check that out and if you do like it you can purchase it and that is a great way to help the channel out that's enough of that though let's talk about demi for a second i'm also going to add a trigger warning to this because there are topics that demi talks about that can be difficult for people to work through so if you have any dietary triggers or triggers related to eating disorders i do suggest you proceed with caution because it will be talked about briefly from demi here but in regards to demi lovato i have spent a fair amount of time collecting a nonverbal baseline from her so i will be able to have a lightly more accurate read that being said nonverbal communication is at best 70 to 80 accurate with a little bit of leeway on either side i'm hoping to be able to hit in that 80 to 90 accuracy range with this in mind however nonverbal reads are limited during video analysis like these so these are largely meant for educational and entertainment purposes these should not be used in any legal setting or in any professional setting outside of this keep that in mind a little back story as to what demi is apologizing for she went to a yogurt shop and did not like how they had things arranged in that frozen yogurt shop and she went on social media and more or less laid in to said yogurt shop however demi received some feedback from that that was not so supportive because many people do support small businesses i would be one of them so she released an apology we're going to be analyzing that apology today this is in no way related to any of the issues that she covers in her apology this is only centered around the nonverbal communication and the apology itself i want to make that extremely evident for anybody who is watching this this is in no way criticizing anything that demi is talking about aside from the apology i feel like i've made that clear enough let's go ahead and begin into the analysis what's up everybody i am trying to okay we're talking about the scene because it's important to talk about i have in every other apology video and i'll continue to do it just even for continuity's sake looks like she just sat down to be able to record apology video and that's okay that's okay in an apology-style deal because you don't want a person to seem too polished during their apology because then it's running the risk of being scripted or fake i don't feel like that's the case here she's wearing whatever clothing and sitting wherever however speaking non-verbally already she has an okay and has an exasperated side this could be in relation to trying to set up her camera or phone in this case in a good place but it's also not a great way to start off an apology you don't want to start off an apology with frustration that's the last emotion that somebody who needs to apologize for something should ever have in an apology let's continue set my phone up okay so maybe this will work actually i'll hold it so i have kind of gotten in the middle of something with this yogurt shop called the big chill in century city now okay i'm going to work hard during this to remain as unbiased during the analysis side of this as i possibly can and then i will share my opinions at the end of that and they will be separate for the sake of keeping the scientific side of this clean so during this with the scientific side of things she's already showing some microaggression expressions on her face with lip compressions she's doing possibly overt eye rolls but it is a lack of eye contact that does convey a frustration and this is mixed in with multiple exasperation size as well she's frustrated that's the feeling that you will be getting and those are the reasons that you feel those she's frustrated that she's giving this apology also she verbally says that she is somehow caught in the middle of this more or less snafu on the internet which isn't true she created the snafu she's not caught in the middle of it she instigated it that's important to be able to note because she's already trying to shift blame from herself to someone else right now we don't know because we haven't finished the video or seen who she's shifting it to but she's already diverting the responsibility of the matter to someone else that's not that's not good in an apology on any level and non-verbally it's not holding up either i am very outspoken about the things that i believe in i understand that sometimes my messaging can lose uh disgust on that one side of the face mixed in with contempt that is not uncommon it's not unheard of but it is something that we're making note of and it's very prevalent in this she's fairly expressive with her face as many people who are used to being in front of a camera or a talent so be it singer or on-screen camera so on and so forth as many people are in that area so she has an expressive face this will make it a little bit easier to read non-verbally now something that i have noted in demi's baseline in general is that when she's not on show when she's not trying to perform she can have somewhat of an aloof error about her and that can come out in her non-verbals so that would be seen in areas of disgust contempt scorn anger so on and so forth to people around her it's not uncommon especially for people who are of wealth or of privilege but it is something that we're noting here let's continue lose it's like meaning when i get emotional right i am human i i hate this line personally the i am human is one of the most obvious statements that anybody can possibly make it's speaking to only humans and only humans are hearing it and only humans can say it as far as our science has ever possibly proven so it's a no duh statement and usually when you hear a i am human statement it's i'm about to make excuses that's how that plays out it is true we are all human we are all fallible we don't need to know you don't need to say this is not about you being human this is about you apologizing for possibly being a terrible person let's continue watching and somebody who is just very passionate about what i believe in and i've lived through enough to know when to speak up for people who don't have a voice when i messaged this froyo place um like originally i wanted to make a point and i wanted to call out behaviors or or branding things that i didn't that didn't sit right with me because the truth of the matter is as someone that deals with an eating disorder like is in recovery from it so just you know this is where you can start getting triggering for people but i'm going to talk about some things verbally so far her face is just a lot of blankness mixed in with some disgust expressions in there as well but she's also not looking at the camera often she doesn't want to be here that's conveying that quite clearly she has no interest in being here to apologize to you and she hasn't yet apologized she's just explaining away stuff saying that she's very outspoken and she's passionate and many people who are arguably jerks at times will use the excuse of i'm opinionated and i'm loudly outspoken about it now what she's standing for is true and i highly support better conceptions during advertising for more people and just being more aware that is true how she's handled it is not necessarily true but we'll get to my opinions on things in a second in regards to demi right now what i'm seeing in this apology non-verbally is a lack of desire to be where she is she has no interest in apologizing and it's only due to the negative feedback that she's received regarding her acting out that she's here it's not because she genuinely feels like she should be and she's going to continue making excuses as the video continues on let's continue watching just that eating disorder i still to this day have a hard time walking into a froyo shop ordering yogurt and being content with it and keeping it down i know that seems like not a huge deal to a lot of people but for me it is so by the time i got to the counter after seeing so much diet stuff and health food stuff like i it wasn't clear to me that it was for specific health needs and so i didn't know i didn't so she's still having trouble looking at the camera during times that have been perceived as more controversial and this is a common psychological factor of somebody who has been in a privileged position their whole life is that they look at a situation and assume that it's about them instead of maybe about other people that might have other restrictions other than themselves so this is a situation where demi looked at an innocent layout of a froyo shop and took it as a personal attack against her now her experiences are valid i am not in any way trying to circumvent or devaluate her experiences those are very true to her and that should be respected that being said hers aren't the only ones that need to be respected in this case she's psychologically proven that her attention in this specific situation wasn't centered around a whole group of people it was centered around her herself and her experience from what i understand many people who also have eating disorders did not approve of her actions because her actions were bad but her message could still be good i do believe that there could be more conscious effort in these areas buy brands and buy marketing and i don't like marketing on very many levels but there could be better effort on their parts that's true but how dimmy has done it is the issue let's keep watching know that like i just took it as okay i'm going into a froyo shop i'm seeing sugar free i'm seeing this and that if there was a sign that said celiac vegan i would have understood that would have been clear messaging to me because it wasn't clear i'm definitely jump to conclusions and probably shouldn't have you know gone about this the way that i have but so that's important to note right there she has a slight expression of disgust while she's saying i probably shouldn't have gone abou and she has a little tiny flash of disgust down there that's not in regards to her own actions that's in regards to the people who are saying your actions were wrong and you shouldn't have gone about it that way that's where that disgust comes in that lets us know as a viewer that she doesn't care about what people are saying towards her she feels that she was in the right there and in regards to this she's 28 years old i'm 27 years old i have the mental capacity to understand that there are other people outside of me who also have other restrictions and other needs in their life that are also being addressed that whenever i walk into a restaurant it's not all about me it's largely not about me at all to be fair i'm just an average consumer and there's many consumers that they have to keep in mind businesses are limited as to who they can really advertise and work towards so they kind of have to take the lesser of two evils in this instance and that's understood because it's impossible to really cater towards every single people group it's unfortunate but it is really impossible so i have that mental capacity and i would assume that demi being a year older than me and with a year more of life experience than me could also have that mental capacity but she says here that she just had no idea that there were any other dietary restrictions of vegan and vegetarian and celiac and all of these other restrictions she thought that it would i don't know i don't know what she thought it's really not evident what she thought if she was thinking which i don't believe she was i'm unbiased here i'm sorry from what i can see non-verbally she has discussed in regards to what people are saying she should have done she does not feel that they are in the right she feels she was i'm willing to talk to this froyo shop to help get the messaging right another thing that a lot of people don't know i guess it's something that must be an la thing a lot of people who have struggled with anorexia um i myself like froyo was something that i would go to because it was low in calorie and it just felt safe to me i know that people struggle with fro-yo with eating disorders so that's why i'm super sensitive when i walk into a froyo place and i see diet stuff like i'm gonna be protective i'm protective of the little girl inside of me that didn't get that representation at a young age of someone saying this is an instance where we should sympathize with somebody who has a struggle and i can sympathize with that i can understand that a lack of representation in regards to a need that was not met before can be a very triggering and difficult thing for a person to navigate that's very valid and i don't want to invalidate what she's saying in regards to this now non-verbally speaking she's doing some very intentional gestures where you can see that she's holding her hands here this is a self-soothing gesture and it lines up with what she's saying about her inner child and having to navigate the inability to process that early on and it's even similar to the self-soothing gesture of stroking this area here which is the suprasternal notch and that's a very vulnerable place on a human body and it's very common to see somebody fidget here be it with the actual notch itself with the clothing or with jewelry as well that is a common self-soothing gesture it's lining up with what she's saying and in this point there's not too much that we can tell outside of that non-verbally it's just something to make note of let's continue all of this diet stuff is not okay you're worth more than that i also am standing up for just anyone who struggles in la like this is this you know what the whole country [ __ ] it like they this is a hard thing to live with on a daily basis the thing about overcoming my addictions my my drug addictions was because i don't have to i can walk away from that and never touch it again for the rest of my life like i don't ever have to do that but i have to eat three times a day this is something that will live that will be with me for the rest of my life i left that yogurt store and didn't get the yogurt that i wanted and then i had a hard time the rest of the weekend to be totally transparent and that's probably something that nobody wants me to say like i'm i don't know but i'm human and i talk about my struggles so she has a little flash of disgust in there as well and it's in regards of once again people telling her or not wanting her to say something she doesn't want to be told what to say and she doesn't want to find out that what she said has been wrong this can be considered an ego issue in a psychological realm of not wanting to have anybody have any opinions as to what she's saying this is a rebellion thing and that could be fair not many people want to be told what to say it can be very dehumanizing and hurtful towards a person to constantly be controlled and told what to say that happens often with people who are in famous circles they are told and coached on everything so that disgust that slips out in relation to that also does make sense in context with who demi is and i'm passionate so i'm sorry that i got the messaging wrong i'm sorry that she's not so here's the issue so when you're talking and you see somebody who says something that's a positive and they're shaking their head broadly no like this that can be a point of desynchronization but not always because a broad movement is easily controlled you can easily shake your head no very broadly like that in this sort of context she doesn't do that at the beginning she says i'm sorry she leans back and then you can see little micro movements no in her head now in the american culture largely and some other ones as well the no shake like this is a no while the shake up and down like this is a yes so when she's saying i'm sorry i am sorry but she's leaning back and micro moving her head no that tells a non-verbal analyst that she's not being sincere in that point because her body language is not only distancing but it's also seeping this negative no this i am not sorry and so she also matches that with her tone you know i'm sorry and it doesn't sound like a sorry either she doesn't sound humble she doesn't sound like she's apologizing she sounds aggressive and that is built into her tone that's by the harshness and not only the pitch but also the consistency would be a word of her voice it's very rich and verbose and that doesn't go with an apology that goes with something that's aggressive so during this time demi's not sorry and her non-verbal communication has showed that clearly whereas her words are saying that she is i may have disappointed some people but i'm not coming after a small business and then she goes off and she doesn't say i'm sorry for what i've done she says verbally i'm sorry that i may have disappointed some people and that is still another method of blame shifting she's trying to point attention away from her and to anyone else even the people who were offended by her actions i'm about to see how she's going to address the small business issue let's see how that plays out as someone with a lot of followers that's not what i'm doing here i'm coming i walked into a situation that didn't sit right with me my intuition said speak up about this so i did and i feel good about that what i don't feel good about is some of the way that it's been interpreted and how the message has gotten misconstrued over all of it i will do whatever i can to work with this froyo shop if they want to to help align the messaging so where i feel safe going in there and i can eat they're not going to work with her now i'm all the positive of it because of how demi behaved to begin with so what demi has done in this situation is she's taken a massive following whether or not she says it's intentional or not she did it she took a massive following and she attacked this small business online very publicly she could have gone quietly to a manager and said hey just so you know these are some struggles that i have and as i walked in here it was difficult for me now there are many people that are like me would you be willing to work with me so we could find a way to make this a better place i love this yogurt shop and i would love to come here more it's just difficult she didn't do that instead she threw a little girl tantrum which just isn't okay especially with somebody who has power behind their name regardless of whether or not she wants that power she has it and that's unfortunate that's not nonverbal i understand that let's continue the froyo that i went in there for i will work with them on that that is something i'm dedicated to do because i you see i will work with them on that and she has another little flash of disgust this disgust and contempt and scorn has shown up repeatedly throughout this apology i hate to break it to you but those three emotions including anger should never show up in a genuine apology because that is an indicator that the person who's apologizing has no sincerity behind their words apologizing isn't an aggressive move it's a humble move it's a self-sacrificing move it's a move of showing that you have the ability to recognize that you have wrong in yourself and that's what you're apologizing for non-verbally speaking demi has only shown that she has contempt and disgust for these people who are calling her out that's unfortunate and if you are being apologized to to perhaps a loved one be it a family member relative friend so on and so forth and they have disgust and contempt and anger and scorn and aggression in their apology you can rest assured about 80 to 90 percent sure that they are not sincere they don't care and they're not happy to be apologizing it's usually just to save face or to try to regain control and that is the feeling that many people got from this apology and that's why but let's keep seeing what we see want to make la and this whole country a safer in this whole [ __ ] world a safer environment people with eating disorders disorders should be able to go in and feel safe wherever they go to eat that's all i'm asking literally all i'm asking so i'm so this is a very conscious gesture that people will use oftentimes and it's a manipulative gesture it's not one that we often do regularly not many people will do this perhaps in fear perhaps in intense emotional trauma will we go like this but this is oftentimes and in this case a very intentional gesture and it's used often by manipulation it's used to be able to hope to win people over in this i care expression it's not always the case oftentimes it's a manipulation that's not always the case though i want to be very clear on that point that just because you see somebody do this it doesn't mean that they're manipulating you in the context it certainly can be and it often is make sure you observe these sorts of tells that i'm bringing up in the context of which they're given because that can really add clarity to what they actually mean let's continue sorry if it got misconstrued um i just i don't always get this right i speak my mind i'm opinionated and then sometimes i get labeled as problematic so let's go ahead and restate what she said i'm sorry that this was misconstrued aka i'm sorry that you're upset i'm not sorry that i made you upset i'm sorry that you're upset and then i also want you to know that i'm opinionated and i speak my mind which is code by many jerks to be an excuse for being a jerk further and i've been labeled as problematic and the labeling of the problematic is neither here nor there for me in my opinion many people who are problematic are just movers and shakers they change the way that thinking happens that can be okay so that not so important but those first two verbal things that she just said there those are important because they reflect her psychology she's not sorry that she hurt people and possibly almost destroyed a small business she's sorry that some people got upset at her she's sorry that you feel the way you do and also she's got opinions and she's going to yell them that's not great those aren't great things to hear in your apology once again if your significant other or friend or family member or relative or boss or co-worker or anybody in your life says that they're very opinionated and they're going to tell you their opinions that is their way of saying i'm going to be an [ __ ] to you just accept it that's not okay there's always a more civil way to present an opinion you don't have to be a dick let's keep watching it's not because i'm looking out to everything that i'm doing is well-intentioned you have to understand it's just look you can get another slip of disgust she's also using aggressive hand movements during this it's not because and this is just the wrong feeling for an apology demi come on show that you're sorry that you were a dick that's all that people want to know you shouldn't have been a dick to begin with but just show that you're sorry about it in many lights demi did a lot of harm in an area that she wanted to do good because of how she did it that's too bad that's really too bad because i do agree that there has to be some more attention given to people with eating disorders it's just not paid attention to nearly enough in my opinion but how she did that isn't going to help that happen it's very hurtful to her message and she's only defending that which that's upsetting she's not saying i i did something that really hurt my message she said i feel sorry that you're offended by what i said i stand up for my message and that's not the right message if that makes sense someone once told me you can be a celebrity and get it right every day of your life but you get wrong one day and that's what people focus on and that's what people are focusing on today and that's okay because tomorrow i'm still going to live my truth i'm she's hunching her shoulders a little bit this is a defensive gesture and she's saying and that's what people are focusing on and that's okay and you can see her shoulders raising up a little bit her neck is disappearing you could see less of it this is a defensive gesture very common very common in any time that you feel threatened by something so she feels threatened in this area and she's saying that people are focusing on this one time that she's done something wrong this one time but just a few seconds before she also said that she was labeled as problematic so there's an issue in her words there and that means that so far she's kind of just bullshitting through this apology and making excuses it's unfortunate i know that's not body language but it is psychology and logic played out there it's too bad because this is a horrible apology i'm sorry i'll i'll talk more a little bit at the very end still going to get up and meditate and do what i need to do to stay centered i just want to help continue to make this world a better place and if it upsets some people i'm so sorry and i will listen and try to understand and how i can better be of support to all communities not just people with eating disorders but of all communities and and yeah i think i'm rambling lip compression mixed in with a swallow in there the swallow could be an indicator of nerves the lip compression is an indicator of biting back negative emotions or negative words that's centered around what she's saying when she's saying i need to be more understanding of all communities and then she sits back and has that that's a reflection of her psychology meaning that she's not really interested in learning and understanding other people because even in the apology itself she has shown no grace to anybody else in this other than herself and she's dressing it up as if she's standing for these communities of people that need a voice and they do need a voice but she's not standing up for them really she's standing up only for herself and her actions nobody over here did it nobody over here has done this sort of bad behavior that she's just displayed just her so when she's saying that she's standing up for the little guy in this sort of situation it's not true it's simply not true she verbally has shown that and she non-verbally has shown that um anyways i just wanted to get that message across it's really important that everyone hears that my intentions were not to come in and bully a small business that was not it i walked in was so triggered that i left without froyo and made me really sad and that's just that's all it was and i wanted to talk about that so if we can make this environment safer for everyone including people that are in recovery from an eating disorder and just want a little froyo if we can do that while also giving froyo to v during that time she also has another contempt expression but her words are true it would be really really good if there was more conscious efforts on advertisers and businesses to be able to cater and take care of the feelings and emotions of people who are in a case like demi's where it's either involved in eating disorders or recovering from it or just navigating and working and wrestling with it that would be very nice that's true verbally very true her contempt doesn't fit in with that and that's also in regards to everybody else who is saying you've done a bad thing demi be better that's upsetting to see vegans and and people with diabetes let's go let's [ __ ] go let's do it so it's interesting this part she has a lot of those really small micro movements of her head which are a negative expression and she has some eye blocking in there now the eye blocking is a loose interpretation here so i'm not hanging too much on it i will hang more on those micro movements of the head though because it is an indicator of her psychological state in regards to people who have other struggles that's upsetting demi come on just come on it just has to be clear and um and i'm willing to talk about that i'm willing to put effort into making um making it clear on how we can do that um did you see her head movements again very small ones again also a little bit of a shrug in there and i'm willing to talk about that and it's all just i'm willing to talk about that and then she's looking away and then she even rushes to the end of the sentence as if she's already bored with talking about her having to do something different this is upsetting for me i literally watched the entire demi lovato dancing with the devil documentary and i was like wow she's been through some [ __ ] this is rough this is rough i i have some respect for her and i'm losing it pretty fast here in this where it's not coached and it's not controlled and it's not rehearsed over and over and over again she's showing a lot of negative emotions towards anybody but herself that's really upsetting because i just had that respect and now i'm feeling it wash away i'm trying to separate that from my analysis so i can make sure to maintain an unbiased representation of what the non-verbals can tell us but it's getting more and more difficult for me as this video goes on and as it sinks in what her real message is let's finish this up and then i then i'm gonna let loose a little bit i don't know i'm genuinely like i'm genuinely sorry that people took it the wrong way i just get really passionate oh my god i'm genuinely sorry that you feel the way you do i just get really passionate and she has a contempt expression in there again again this is a garbage apology a garbage line of a garbage apology and y'all know me i'm pretty feisty and sometimes my emotions get the best of me it's never coming out of a place of hate it's always coming out of a place of love and trying to lift people up so um i understand that didn't lift the froyo place up but i was upset and that's that's all that was so i'm gonna hang up now purse lips again this is an expression of anger when you see somebody pursuing their lips in an apology it's commonly related to anger just to be fair once again that can always be exceptions you know that i hope you know that but in this context this is an expression of anger you guys are awesome thanks for checking in being a celebrity is exhausting sometimes so today i'm gonna like get off my phone i'm gonna shoot my podcast go to work do whatever i need to do and you won't be hearing from me today because i need a mental health day peace love you mean it how do you end this thing oh the eggs okay bye so that was the end of that and she said i love you mean it she smiles it doesn't reach her eyes it's a fake smile and then she tries to brighten that up as she's making a joke about how to end it and then still doesn't end it in time for us to see the true expression of no mirth whatsoever at the end that means that she doesn't love you and mean it but nobody's surprised by that that being said it is true it's hard being a celebrity and there's a lot of eyes on you and you have a lot of responsibilities now uh non-verbally speaking all that we can say for sure is that demi had a lot of aggression and negative emotion seepage during an apology there was a lot of scorn there was contempt there was disgust and there was outright anger in areas that should never have that during an apology with that in mind that pushes us to understand that in fact it wasn't a sincere apology it was an apology to regain control or to save face which means she's not sorry aka she's lying to you now i'm going to talk a little bit this is me this is just me with that knowledge and then my own personal experience small businesses work their [ __ ] ass off to be able to get to where they are they will put in hours and hours of time and effort and stress and sweat and tears into their business to make it work it's said that you won't make any money off of your business for the first three to five years of it when you started that's the kind of effort it takes to make a business so when demi who has always been in a privileged position from very very early age walks into this very innocent small business and starts laying into them publicly with millions of followers millions of followers who will just they'll just do whatever she says because they care about her and they love her regardless of what she does when she goes goes and does something like that that can destroy livelihoods destroy them and so demi being a privileged little piece of [ __ ] in this walked into this froyo shop who had no intention of hurting her feelings or attacking her in any way any way whatsoever and she went and nearly destroyed their livelihoods that's not okay she is in a position of power and needs to recognize that her little tantrum and [ __ ] apology that she just offered to us is not acceptable she has a an obligation to be better there i know so many people and i included who have small businesses and they're putting time and effort and tears and sweat and stress and everything into these businesses and for her to go into there and take a non-personal thing extremely personally and then hang it on a community who does need good representation but she hangs it on that and then dresses her own self-defense up as being a advocate for the small guy is disgusting i'm very very upset with demi during this i tried to keep an unbiased perspective during the actual read because the science of nonverbal communication is unbiased i am very upset with her i am very upset with her even in this small area my small amount of the internet that i have here i i try extremely hard in every video to be able to make sure that i'm not hurting people even unintentionally i always am trying to push to be able to have people understand what they need to have to make themselves healthier and to understand how to be there for other people better and that i small i have a small amount of the internet she has a massive following and she has the in she has the maturity of a puddle that's not okay and yeah she's been through some [ __ ] that's very valid like i said her life is insane there's so much that she's gone through and i had so much respect for her until this moment where she starts showing who she really is she's outspoken in this and wrongly so she handled it poorly she said it poorly and then she apologized in an absolutely garbage dumpster fire of an apology demi you have to up your game in this and i know i'll probably get some pushback for this in a perfect world there would be the ability to make sure that nobody is in any way triggered that would be so good i would love that if businesses and advertising and marketing and everything could literally just maybe try a little harder to make sure that people aren't attacked in any way or even inadvertently attacked that would be so perfect but it's impossible in this world it's literally impossible somebody's going to get offended so when she takes this she takes all of her privilege and her power and she nearly shuts a business down because they inadvertently upset her instead of her doing the mature thing and going to them privately quietly and in person and saying i i had a hard time with this could we could we find a better solution that could work for everybody including people with eating disorders i could even help fund it with some of my money that i [ __ ] have instead of doing that she goes on social media and throws a 12 year old tantrum i i'm upset i'm really really upset in regards to this because i know what it's like on the other side i know what it's like on kind of on the you have more attention put on your side not nearly as much but i know what it's like on the small business side and i know the effort and time and stress that goes into that and for her to have that kind of mentality and zero remorse none she's not sorry she showed the entire time the only emotions she showed were disgust anger scorn and outright disregard for what damage she caused that's upsetting and even more upsetting is that she also tried to hang it on a community that needs more good support and more good voices out there this did so much damage for these communities so much damage because now people look at this and instead of being like you know what that's true dammi's right we should have we should have more awareness for this and we should do better now they're going to look at it and be like demi's an idiot what on earth and the entire message that she says she's going for is lost i realize that there are almost certainly fans of demi lovato's work in my subscriber group and i realized that i probably just lost a bunch of you i i realized that and she's an extremely talented artist with a very impressive vocal range and she has a very hard work ethic all of those are very true she has a very intense and difficult journey that she calls her life that's all very true in my attack of her bad behavior here and total disregard for anybody other than herself is not an attack on anybody who has gone through anything even remotely similar to that at all this has nothing to do with demi's life this is everything to do with demi's actions now and how she's handled it through this apology that's all that this has to do with so if you're if you're watching this and you're upset at me because i'm upset at demi understand that i'm only upset at demi for that and nothing else nothing else everything else that she says that she's gone through i would rather take at her word and believe her that it's her struggle and she's gone through it and it's valid i want to believe that so that's my analysis of this i hope that you were able to appreciate the scientific side of it that just showed her emotional seepage and the meanings thereof i hope you appreciated that if you didn't agree with my rant i understand if you unsubscribe or dislike this video or leave a negative comment because of that i also understand you have every right to disagree with my opinion i don't know if you like this video consider hitting the like button i don't usually get this heated this is just something that i am truly passionate and have a lot of experience in so not all of these will have a big tire rate at the end so if that's what you were looking for i'm sorry to disappoint but it doesn't happen often but if you did like this video go ahead and hit the like button hit subscribe if you want to see more hit the bell if you want to see them sooner or see some quick and exclusive live streams here and there that also happens if you want to support the channel follow any of the links in the description below including patreon where you can have some exclusive content over there and consider looking at some of the merch but but without further ado that's all that i've got for today my name is logan and you have been oh so awesome as you always are and i will see you in the next video cheers guys [Music]
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Channel: Observe
Views: 402,434
Rating: 4.9311137 out of 5
Keywords: Logan Portenier, Observe, Mentalist, Lie to Me, body language, nonverbal, psychology, React, Analysis, lying, detection, reading, behavior
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Length: 43min 6sec (2586 seconds)
Published: Fri Apr 23 2021
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